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After BA, my father wanted me to try for UPSC but after the first attempt, I decided I could not waste time cramming my head with useless knowledge. So I refused to listen to my father and decided to study MA in English Literature, followed by M.Phil and Phd at JNU. Today I am teaching in a top central university and have a great life. So parents should not put pressure on their children. Let them decide what they want to do with their lives.
@@artivaishnav193 you have to complete MA in the subject you like, then pass UGC-NET Exam (held twice a year). You can also do PhD after that but that will take some time. NET qualifies you to apply for lecturer's job and then you can do PhD while working. If you manage to pass UGC-JRF, you are paid a good amount as fellowship while doing PhD research. You are not allowed to work if you have JRF.
What dream? If you're stupid enough to think just buying a course will make you pass the exam then you dont even deserve the college in the first place!
Usse bhi badi Main problem hai parents ka mind set Engineering Karo life set hai Mere do teen rishtedaro ki 15 lakh fees deke engineering ke baad 3 LPA ki job bhi nhi lagi But mere Kai commerce ke friends ki 7 - 8 LPA ki lagi hai Toh maa baap ya society ke pressure se nahi apne hisab se kro jo bhi Krna hai
The main culprit in these cases are parents, who don't know or don't even want to know what their children want, they only want to put their own failure in life on their children in the name of "creating a better future for our children"
Ni yrrr kbhi kbhi bcche ko hi ni proper guidance milti h aur parents bhi itne pdhe likhe ni hote ki guide krske wo to yhi sochte h bs bccha apne pair PR khda hojae yhi mere sath hora h ab to pdhne ka bhi ni mn krra h bs Aisa lgta h ki khi chle jae sbkuch chor k 😓
After 5 yr same child will tell his father what you have done for me,,,,it's not single mistake of parents it's a mistake of every one who is involved in this universe
My son scored 90% marks in class 10 without any tuition or coaching. N now he opted for arts with economics n geography n sociology. N we parents r very much ok with his decision.
Just in case, don't think Arts is bad in anyway. Sociology and economics are really relevant subjects. In fact, the maths in econometrics is way advanced than what science students study.
@@vishnuchandrabose9875 Unfortunately, those people have seen nothing other than engineering and medical. If we had any national institute for Arts and Humanities like IITs, probably things would change.
That's right, thinkers are a very tiny fraction of the intellectual elite, and they bring a transition in society only if they are freethinkers and skeptics, not state-sponsored academics and apologetics. and The majority of the population is a mass of productive workers who create wealth in society and who indeed run the country. take the example of Bangladesh: was only succeeded when half of its workforce(female population) participated in the economy. because capital doesn't fall from heaven and niether it recreate itself, people have to work.
The main problem is lack of options in India , there are many fields which many children don't know even though their parents too. So if government increase equal opportunity in every field and our society gives respect to every field then this whole problem will get resolve . So it's really important to increase opportunity for every field and do advertisement so that parents and children who were not aware they will get aware of it.
Exactly.. I asked elders and I am still not 100% clear about these things because we didn't get proper guidance. I even searched in the internet and youtube and still am not clear. Can't even blame parents for only knowing about engineers and doctors.
I opted for humanities this year and scored 94% and stood 3rd in the school and most of students have opted for science this year Many of my teachers suggested me to take science instead of arts but my parents never did . They told me to choose whatever I like I am literally glad 💖
Well, it's good for u to choose whatever u want, but remember, whatever u score these "marks" isn't the metric when being compared to science students. Science students, mainly engineers and medical professionals still will earn significantly better than arts field professionals, and that is a fact. STEM has more money and this is a fact.
Nobody talks about what happens to 99.9% of aspirants who don’t make it. If you spend 4 to 5 years preparing for UPSC, you will completely lose sight of your core competency, which then leaves you with no choice but to start over. This process requires a lot of guts and courage, which you had already lost after 5 years of preparation. I believe that if you are really aspire to clear UPSC, you need to try once in order to know if you have what it takes.
After completing my 10th , I was sent to Kota for medical coaching. In the first one year, I knew that this is not the life I wanted. I got to know about students suicide and depression leads students to do bad activities. Next year I left coaching, focused on the 12th. After 12th, I went to a Design school. Today, I am actually working for a top E commerce company in India.
The only channel which show the dark truth of every field...Keep up the good work bro we all are with you... Edit - - - I just ratio aditya saini..thanks guy for so many likes am i famous now??
coaching ki burai kr ke .. ek dusre edtech ki Ad deke jata hai .... 🤣🤣 Dark side of aditya... sach bat to ye hai ki skill nhi rhega to kam nhi milega to skill develop krne ka zarurat hai ..
As an MBA aspirant and former JEE aspirant I can confirm that coaching and competitive are killing the creativity of many young talented students and government needs to put a stop this industry.
Will the govt provide jobs to the teachers ? What about general caste teacher's. Govt will keep reservation for quota bhakts. And if general caste want to feed family by teaching students what's wrong with that?
@@Dingdongtington there is a difference between teaching and business... Most of the coaching institute treat students as money making mechine and stop this caste propoganda... I think u are also a coaching mafia who treat students as money making Machine
@@Sp3ctroMusic No I m not from coaching centre. And caste basis is there in seats allotment. Rubbish students get via quota in jobs nd good candidates r left behind. Your Quota samaj party won't offer jobs or feed the family of those general caste. This is there bread nd butter.
@@thepm517 unhe ranker naukri lega, business karega yah chaprasi banega isse koi farak nahi parta...unhe ranker chahiye taaki next year rankers ko dekhle aur bachche aayei...it's just business
Accepting who we are and what we are capable of is the main thing.. I can't be like MSD or CR7. But I have my own flaws and capabilities that may help me to overtake MSD or CR7 or "May Be Not". Keep pushing yourself everyday is the main thing.. This is a Dynamic Environment, it changes everyday, every week and even every second you have to adapt to it. You can't be Static on a Dynamic World.
Don't give birth you don't have that much money to send your kids to abroad to study. Here for 10k seats 1million kids fill applications form. Actually parents give birth kid that is wrong interpretation. Actual interpretation is they produce slaves of future of so called politicians.
I took Science stream in 11th grade and my parents asked me around 100 times if I'm sure about it and if I really wanted to choose Science. Now that the session is over I get why they did that. Though I opted for PCB of my own will, my marks were the worst. For the first time in my life, I scored 4/20(I failed) for the first time in my life! I felt like a failure and my mental health just worsened. However, during this session break, I worked on my mental health but honestly 11th grade was like a nightmare to me, just because of my marks. Teachers(coaching) would say marks don't matter but after every test, they would give a lecture as to why marks are the only thing that matters to living a life. But thankfully, my parents have my back. My mom said that I can attempt NEET one more time after the 12th if I want to. Dear fellow mates, please remember no mark sheet, no teacher, and no society is worth more than your life!
When i took pcm i had gone through same. Obviously i didn't took science in graduation but i realized that it was fear which made me score low marks than the subject itself. Anyway keep in mind, please solve the ncert questions, even if you have to copy them. Try to understand how they are solved. Atleast you won't fail.
I was a dropper student. I did my 11th, 12th and drop year too from Allen. But still, I wasn't able to clear NEET. Even after working so hard day and night, I don't know why I was not able to score good marks even in tests held in coaching. My teachers lost all hope in not just me but my whole batch. Because, we were in the batch of average students. I still remember teachers coming to our class after every test and telling us that we were good for nothing, we will never be able to do something good with our lives. And it proved to be so. Only 1 or 2 students from my batch of 100 students were able to score more than cut-off marks.I knew I will not be able to do it, I knew I was not good enough. So, I just kept blaming myself. But, eventually I realised that it's just not me, it is the coaching institute, their strategies, their teachers who were at the fault too. At my centre in Indore, students would bribe one of the staff members to get the question paper of tests on every Sunday. So, my friends, you all have the capabilities to do something great with your lives, you all can be happy and be proud of yourselves even if you are not the topper. I am proud of each one of you for trying and giving your best. What am I doing now you may ask ? I am neither an IITian nor I study in AIIMS, I am pursuing my bachelor's degree in Pharmacy. And next year, after completing this course, I will be going to USA for M.S and PhD. And, I am very happy from where I am now.
@@amritchaturvedi2261abe chutiye tu bohut bol raha hai alakh sir ke pass na toh Paisa tha na hi family ka support. Ab PW banake baccho se paise loot rahe he aur wo bhi coaching mafia ke under aa te he.
I am a student myself who is preparing for NEET in one of the institutes in Kota. Yes, the pressure and competition faced by the students is immense. Long hour classes, extra classes, Doubt classes, Daily question practice is required and extra questions homework are often given by teachers which makes us heptic. Regular mock tests are also conducted and performance report is sent to their parents to make them feel insecure and depressed. Quality of life is also worst here. Unhygienic food, contaminated water and improperly ventilated small PG rooms..make students life nothing less than a hell
@@_sonu_ its not about working hard its about where you are utilizing the work 7 lakhs hard working can’t get into iit as seats are only 5000 what would you say about this no one will teach here to do something your own do something diffrent from others where the scope is too high a person can start a f🙂cking startup at that money which he just invested for his one year coaching
@@_sonu_ you are absolutely right but a man can handle pressure where he is interested if he will handle that pressure where he is not even interested that can be tough for him
I have been a dropper. I studied at Aakash for Neet. Half way in the journey I knew that I'm not interested and don't wanna do this. I did appear for the exm. My family had great expectations but I could not do it. My parents were disappointed so was I. They did blame me and were really angry as it was their hard earned money that was invested. But still I knew that above all this they love me. I did not ever thought of giving up on life. Our parents wants the best for us. If we just give them some time and make them understand what exactly you like and what your real happiness lies in they will understand and support you as my parents did.
As long as u put in sincere efforts and did the best u can it's OK..failure is not to be ashamed of.. Its ok to fail... But if u didn't give ur best then u have betrayed them...
My drawing teacher taught me so many things about painting in one year which I was unable to learn from drawing school in 4 years. His fees is also low ₹150 per month. He always tell us one thing if you are not serious about learning drawing then don't come here just to waste time. He never gave up on me even when I get messed up. We all had a huge respect for him.
not entire syllabus but yes I am using maths in CSE, you can't influence people to ruin their base. Their are usecases of other subjects too in the respective fields.
Gone through the comments and gained so much of confidence that I am not only the one facing this! So here I am more confident writing my story! I was a bright student till 10th my percentage was between 80-90 percent ....after coming to 11th there was no proper classes or teachers who can really guide and let us help achieve more (as I belong to arunachal Pradesh) but somehow I scored 70%(which is very saddening) but then too i got 2nd rank between those 45 students in my class ....leave that all so now I went to 12th and scored 72% but i decided to take a drop and right now when NEET is just 1 month away i am just fed of all these and felt that I was never interested in medical and just got influenced by some of the people out there (basically i wanted to something else) And the point is my parents never forced me to anything or choose Medical .....they always said yes to everything what I wanted to do.... When i was frustrated in mid drop year I told my parents I can't do this i want to change my career plans....i was hell scared that they'll scold me but they believed in me and said don't worry you come home and decide .....1 saal hi gya hai baaki or kuch nahi....sab theek hojayega. ....and i am truly blessed to have such parents I am going home after this neet! Don't get scared of parents they are the real friends of ours
I just saw the video and read your comment...I couldn't resist myself and I'm writing to you.....I'm extremely happy for you ❤good luck for your upcoming bright future and always try to focus on what you really need and aspire for and having such supportive parents is just like icing on the cake.....so wish you all the very best and always stay positive.....life mein bahot kuchh hai karne ko and life is really very precious 🥰
Bro,i am going through the same sh*t like you right now, i also took a drop but now i am realising that i don't like IITs or engineering at all but i seriously have no idea what to do now.i hope both of us will find success in life
I feel blessed to have immensely supportive and caring parents. They are both government employees, but I have been taught every subject by them. I never had tuition at school, even in 12. I chose arts after class 10 and have scored 95.2% in higher secondary exam. I chose arts because I love to read and write. My parents never forced me to choose science as most students are forced to do after scoring good marks. They just want me to be happy in life.
Every parent want their child to be the happiest but the problem is.. they think that science stream has more scope and salary which is somewhere right (data scientist, doctor, etc) and for that they can do every possible thing. But sometimes they didn't understand that their kid want to be different, like a moon (one and only). (Sorry for my horrible english)
@Vishal Autade Yes you can define it so. But if you belong to a financialy stable family, doesn't mean you cannot come under pressure. It depends on many, many things... your preferences and dreams and what your parents want of you.... Of course earning is important but what if in order to achieve success you lose interest in your life?
@@raj..1433 Bro, believe me. Enjoy your life right now. Read books except your study books, watch entertaining series, watch educational yt channels, gain more and more knowledge, and explore, for your life won't be the same in 11th. And frankly there's no reason to study for 8hrs a day in 10th (though I appreciate that, but still). You might regret it later for not enjoying the time you spend on rattafication in 10th. I my opinion, 4-5hrs a day in 10th is fine to go beyond 90. Anyway, it's just an advise.
Actually, I am in Class 12th preparing for NEET from ALLEN CAREER INSTITUTE, Jaipur.I am scoring low marks about 400 marks out of 720.I feel that Teacher's are focusing more on Toppers and those students get benefits as they wants.I know they are toppers capable of getting best AIRs but who are us..............I don't know nothing anymore but I am hustling to score good marks. No time for anything......... watching this video with completing School Projects. We all think that we are Unique but we don't know in which rat trap we are.............Don't think that I am writing these long paragraphs how I get so much time , I am in so much stress and yt recommend this video. If we are part of this race don't think we can't be succeed because If we really struggling , we get succeed in this field or other............But We Can't Quit
they always groom the toppers from your weekly/monthly tests and focus on them only. They only need few faces to show in newspapers and rest of you don't matter to them
See....its the same in every institute ie they do focus on toppers,I mean its because of previous year toppers u joined in that institute ...don't let it take a toll on you. Focus on urself
It happens more with PCB students, as the general narrative built around them is that once they have taken PCB, the options are less, handful of streams that too related with biology only like medicine, pharma, veterinary or Bsc(bio). One of my relative failed in NEET, but got decent score in 12th boards(90%), hence took admission in Delhi University in BA(Economics+Management) , after completing took an avg job, also prepared for CAT exam, scored 99%ile, got admission into IIM Kozhikode(MBA), after MBA placed in company with 1.5 lakh/month salary. *When he opted for BA(economics), everyone was like in shock that how can a Biology student can take commerce subjects, as if this is some kind of law written in Scriptures that a Bio student can't change his stream. The guy also realised later that he always wanted to do Marketing & Management.
I had scored 80% in my 10th Board or Matriculation. And my father took a very rational decision for my career that he supported my decision of taking Arts or Humanities stream after 10th. I am really proud of having such a great father who has always supported me in my every decision and helped me in making corrections in my life. Now I am doing graduation and I trying really hard to make my parents proud of me❤ My father knew that science and commerce streams aren't my choice and they aren't capable of making me achieve what I really want. My parents are really supportive and I heartily want to make them proud ❤
i also opted for humanities with 89 percent in class 11 . so many people demotivated , yeah but i took my decision by myself. best wishes for the future brother ☺️
Bro maine bhot baar ye notice kiya hai ki parents apne bachcho se bhot high expectations rakhte h. Apne bhot ache se explain kiya is matter ko.. Hatsoff to you snd your work. Keep going aditya
Zindagi mein vaise bhi kuchh nahin rakha, murde hi to hain sab. Kaun se maa baap bachchon ke hit ke liye bachche paida karte hain? Unhe chahiye ek khilauna aur budhaape ka sahaara. Itne bheedbhaad vaale desh mein bachche paida karke jeevan bhar unki naak mein dam kare rehte hain. Ye karo vo karo. DO NOT HAVE KIDS IN THIS OVERCROWDED AND RIDICULOUSLY COMPETITIVE WORLD.
And you are right but my parents never pressurized me! My mother is not that much inclined to our studies & she is of religious nature so not say or pressurized us! My father is in Indian Army 🪖 & he also never said or pressurized me to be Doctor or Engineer! I was a dropper for Neet & gone through too much depression, loneliness & awkward moments but now I will shine again in life by opting a different field
I don't think learning history is useless, afterall it gives u knowledge about the country's past which is important to know to know how far your country has come. Just sharing my own opinion 😊
Important is when you're learning what is true.... But in our case, history is full of lies and fake history written by Britishers... If you wanna learn about your country from NCERT, then I feel pity for you
I have gone through the same process myself. When I failed in A level both my parent were angry and crying for my failure but I didn't decide to take my life but instead I took my chemistry book and told him to read chapter 3 chemical bonds and ionic bonds. He immediately screamed and told me it's not his age to study and I was Furious after hearing this from him and ever since then I didn't touch a single science book since and I only read nobles, stories and poems because I like writing as I want to become a writer
You liked studies too... That's why you went to Kota...But it was probably not a good approach for you and they couldn't tell you how to study properly...It is a race as soon as you fucking get there.
Bhai maine bhi a level kiya hain mughe pata hain kyaa ghand hoti hain after you graduate because everyone thinks i will go aboard but i wants to study in my country but everyone tell
This education system really need to Change. It is not meant to stress students and drive then to depression, it has to actually make them ready for the upcoming life. In our education system, there is no education and no system.
Zindagi mein vaise bhi kuchh nahin rakha, murde hi to hain sab. Kaun se maa baap bachchon ke hit ke liye bachche paida karte hain? Unhe chahiye ek khilauna aur budhaape ka sahaara. Itne bheedbhaad vaale desh mein bachche paida karke jeevan bhar unki naak mein dam kare rehte hain. Ye karo vo karo. DO NOT HAVE KIDS IN THIS OVERCROWDED AND RIDICULOUSLY COMPETITIVE WORLD.
I scored 94% in 10th. In my PU every friends of mine were either IIT or NEET aspirants but I wanted to become lecturer and i recently completed my masters in Chemistry. I not only want to teach but also make students understand about leading life as well.
After watching this video I feel very blessed because my father is government teacher he never pressurized me to do coaching or going to Kota I simply choose to complete my schooling in my home town . I studied from RUclips for the class 11th and 12th ..... And cleared the JEE Mains now I am in Government Engineering college when I look back I thank to God for not sending me Kota because most of my college friends have studied from Kota and Coaching centre but I am at the same place without any drop year after 12th . Thanks to my parents for not forcing to do such things 🥺.
My parents were always supportive to what me and my sister want to do in life thats why me and my sister both selected what we are good and and what we love to do and are just loving it ... I am a CGI artist and my sister is studying to be an interior designer . When i have kids i will let them do what they will enjoy learn and grow with , a job should not feel like a prision .. it sould be driven by love passion and curiosity of always learning what you love 🙂... You have questions of how if so but and you learn on your own when you just love what you want to do ... ur just that curious about it that you dont need any coach ... its good to have a coach only if you love what you do and know what you want to be . Dont follow the crowd everyone is unique so find ur special power and do what you love .
Lucky you Not every family can afford sending their kids to a design or fashion sort of schools ! Even with vast courses option , pocket allows only a few . That is the bigger truth than coaching competition .
💯 percent truth.Same thing happened with me when i was studying in coaching.I was average student. I am pursuing M.B.B.S from government medical College.
I know ... every parents should watch this, but ... not every parents will understand the meaning of this video.... they will still tell you that you are FORCED to make THEIR DREAMS INTO REALITY .... No matters if you have DREAMS or NOT.....!!!!
Zindagi mein vaise bhi kuchh nahin rakha, murde hi to hain sab. Kaun se maa baap bachchon ke hit ke liye bachche paida karte hain? Unhe chahiye ek khilauna aur budhaape ka sahaara. Itne bheedbhaad vaale desh mein bachche paida karke jeevan bhar unki naak mein dam kare rehte hain. Ye karo vo karo. DO NOT HAVE KIDS IN THIS OVERCROWDED AND RIDICULOUSLY COMPETITIVE WORLD.
Aditya I must say you brings the truth reality and I pray to god give you strength and protect from evils. People i don't know about you but we really need more people and content like aditya saini.👀 hats off
I did 1 year coaching in Chandigarh Not able to clear IIT or NIT but I was having a great foundation that bridged the gap between NCERT and Engineering But I have seen people dedicated their life to entrance exam
@@DeepKumar-xz9of yeah i agree with you online batches are good, i won't deny. But offline isn't, i spent 1 lakh, i should be getting better education than online batches, right? But it's not the case. If you don't believe me, you can check recent toppers of jee and neet and you will barely find one from offline centres.
@@DeepKumar-xz9of i cracked JEE this year and I'll be recommending everyone to just find your teacher on youtube itself and stick to them, that's gonna work out well. And only opt for JEE or NEET if you are really interested in engineering and medical, because if you're there just for money's sake, kuch nhi ho sakta tab wo lalach hai passion nahi
As a Career Counsellor I thank you to make this video Aditya. Whatever is shown in this video is absolutely true. Even most of the parents who approach me for their kid's counselling force/ try to influence me to nudge their kids to pursue Engineering or Medical. But it doesn't work this way, parents & students must understand the interest, personality & aptitude before selecting subjects. As a professional Career Counsellor I administer the psychometric test to gauge the interest, personality & aptitude of a student followed by an intensive counselling session & open discussion. This is how it must be done. When one pursues career from their high interest area they don't need to be pushed all the time, in fact they are self motivated & above all happy. They most likely to achieve success. As a Counsellor I recommend to introspect the interest & personality first before opting a certain career choice. You can do it on your own with the help of your friends & family members or you can always go to a professional Career Counsellor.
Just wanted to ask something , i am also very confused for my career , could you please please help me out depressed like hell from inside , i am doing ca
I live in Kota and currently I am in 9th. I agree on this, many of my friends are going to allen and other coaching since as early as 7th and 8th and dummying schools and they regret that, the pressure these institutes create is absurd.
@@ChamanSinger4728 😭😭 So bad I am coming in 10th and i will start my jee prep only in 11th People like these don't get the time to enjoy there childhood
When I was preparing for NEET in Allen Kota, one day me & my mom went to a mall and as we were walking by, a guy from an online coaching named Toppr caught us and said just listen to us once. At first we denied but he insisted and said just 5 min. So we agreed. Then we went inside the room and a man was trying to brainwash my mom with his dirty strategies. She got really confused at that point. He then asked me solve a few questions. Then asked me how "good" I scored in previous NEET exam & class 12th. When I replied in negative for both of em one by one... He suddenly got furious and screamed at me like I committed a crime. We were really staring at him in shock. So then he controlled himself and started brainwashing my mom yet again. I was really frustrated till then cuz he wasted almost 45 min of ours just doing his sh*t. Still he wasn't convinced. I was a very introverted kid back then, so I didn't say anything wrong.. But on the inside I was actually mad at him. I told my mom let's leave. She made an excuse and finally we left after wasting an hour of our quality time. I can never forget the Worst Kota Journey & The Worst People I met over there, ever in my life!!!
I loved science but I took commerce so my parents don't force me to become a doctor or engineer and the worst part is I got 56% in 12th because of some personal issues and yes I did not study because of covid going through depression and stress, abuse, trauma still believing that i can find my spark and rewrite my life as I always dreamed of learning electrical stuff, ethical hacking, doing a part time job to learn something about business and going fully monk wood to understand this vast universe from the outside and inside and yes to reach nirvana
Basically not only science suffers from mental depression but also arts student also . If you take arts after 10th then you have to suffers from mental depression and humiliation , less jobs opportunity , not equal status in society and many more . Mainly this happens in middle class family 😢.
Zindagi mein vaise bhi kuchh nahin rakha, murde hi to hain sab. Kaun se maa baap bachchon ke hit ke liye bachche paida karte hain? Unhe chahiye ek khilauna aur budhaape ka sahaara. Itne bheedbhaad vaale desh mein bachche paida karke jeevan bhar unki naak mein dam kare rehte hain. Ye karo vo karo. DO NOT HAVE KIDS IN THIS OVERCROWDED AND RIDICULOUSLY COMPETITIVE WORLD.
When I was in my 12th standard, my mom never forced me to get into IITs or NITs. She does want me to earn well in future but not by fighting depression and stress which, in most of the students' cases of the present scenario, leads to suicide. Today I'm pursuing my BTECH (Im currently in my first year) in IT stream from a normal private college of my state. I neither regret not going into any of the national institutes nor the thought of others earning crores of rupees ever strikes my mind. I'm happy and that's all I need
Unfortunate. We call ourselves at the peak of humankind. Scary where we’re heading. What good is all this education anyway if we cannot get basics in place. None of what we learn in school helps us in adulting in this society. Having studied in schools across the globe even being fortunate enough to have that exposure easily our talent and skill get buried when we chose india as home. My heart weeps for all the students and parents being fooled into all this charade. Truly heartbreaking. I believe we can change everything from the root but how many people have to come together for this. Truly eye opening!!
We are living in an era where we complete with others to proof that we are better. In true nothing matters . We trapped in this era after a long time we realised that this marks, results doesn't matter at all.
I've been to kota and have seen the environment there.........guys understand the business and don't just follow the masses and get crushed in the mad race .... identify your potential....your drive and excell in that ❤
I’m glad my parents let me give up after 1st attempt in neet. I pursued bsc in forensic science and completed it this june 23. Gonna do masters now. Enjoy this subject way more than medicine. And even thou getting a job will be a bit harder I’m gonna love it more :)
Same here. Discovered my passion in my chemistry at the end of 12th. Prepared for jee for 4 years, and knew engineering wasnt for me. I feel blessed because my parents allowed me to pursue iisers and study chemistry further.
Rajkumar hirani made the movie three idiots in which he raised awareness about stress and depression on which the students suffered and feel pressured on a thing that dont like and didnot want to do and not passionate about and tought people why so many students loss their lives by xhasibg a thing on which they are jot passionate and family pressure to succes and showed us the dark secrets of college and ragging in a comedic way
If you are a historian then the dates you learned are usefull, if you are a physicist then the formulas you learned are usefull, if you are a mathematician then the derivative and integration you learned are usefull....so everything is subjective and apki school mein jo padhaye gya tha vo apke Kam a rhe hai ki nhi is a silly incongruous question. But the centre topic of the video and analysis is great❤
True, but why teach a student interested in physics about history, why teach a student interested in painting Chemistry? Why should subjects be compulsory? Why not make subjects.optional? And give more importance to the subject the student is interested in?
@@visheuuu Fine, maybe basics are given. Awesome. But is it really really worth it? Is the knowledge worth it ? Even if it is, is testing the knowledge by giving a large group of students the same questions worth it ?
He is totally right ! whatever he said are facts. I went jaipur Allen for JEE preparation. In starting weeks only my performance was deteriorating. Still i had faith in myself that I can do it. But the coaching system was f*cked up. Teachers were paying attention to good rankers in class. Students in class were watching adult content and the teacher had no problem with it. One day i failed in test and one of the teacher in class said" your life is nothing if you won't go in IIT clgs !!you will end up being nothing" that's broke my heart. I went into severe depression. I lived 1 year in jaipur and it was all about crying and depression. Thank god ! I came back home. A lot of people say to me that i gave up so early but that's not the truth. I saved myself.
Zindagi mein vaise bhi kuchh nahin rakha, murde hi to hain sab. Kaun se maa baap bachchon ke hit ke liye bachche paida karte hain? Unhe chahiye ek khilauna aur budhaape ka sahaara. Itne bheedbhaad vaale desh mein bachche paida karke jeevan bhar unki naak mein dam kare rehte hain. Ye karo vo karo. DO NOT HAVE KIDS IN THIS OVERCROWDED AND RIDICULOUSLY COMPETITIVE WORLD.
I had a word with Principal of Narayan e techno school, she did not understand this concept, they put unnecessary pressure on even primary students, and talks about IIT, I was shocked that my child in 4th standard has to be prepared for IIT from this age!!!! I said I am happy with 50% marks but they were putting pressure on me and said no we will give your child extra class and take the child upto 70% marks level !!!!
Every student feel pressurize one who ace all this only succeed, it is important to ignore all the negativity think and only focus on our aim. Automatically things will get better. The fact is that only few percent understand this and implement it and that few percent only succeed.
Everyone is talking about ALLEN FITJEE and all but pls do remember Sri Chaitanya, Narayana…these institutions are also not that far. I’ve studied there for 2 years i. e 11-12, we called these schools as corporate schools because yes they’re and infact the administration also kept mentioning that they should be called a corporate school where there’s a said rule that “ toppers can cope up with anything and the whole attention will be going to them meanwhile mediocre students like me and many more out there should struggle as much they can but with no or little help”, I won’t say that I did my due diligence, yes I slept during lectures sometimes and sometimes I bunked class but the point to be understood is why I did that and there are many out there…the reason being when your clas start from 6:00 in the morning continuing upto 10:30 in the night and there just mere 3 and a half hours break…what did you expect us to do…and the worst part is teachers did create a vibe that if you’re not clearing NEET AND JEE you’re kinda fucked and pls do remember you’d have to come back there only and study along junior batches with shame!!! Tbh I’m not able to describe it properly because it’s all filled with mixed emotions…there was a time in my 12 th grade where I started to have suicidal thoughts just because all these…it really felt like the competitive exams are the end of the world…well you people out there like me will relate…kabhi Sri Chaitanya, Narayana inn se baat karke dekhna ek alag hi narak ke baare mein pata chal jayega aaplogon ko.
Well, I'm a doctor now. Cracked neet back in 2018. I never joined any coaching institutes cause all my teachers were private and i did self study as well. When you compare, cost of keeping private teachers who would exclusively teach you for individual subjects is way less than joining coaching institutes.
I can understand & feel each & every line brother without going Kota! That's why I didn't go there in my 11th back in 2018 ! But I shouldn't have gone to Patna also as there was casteism prevailing there in hostel & I was abused & targeted because of coming from a forward Community of Bihar
my mom always told me there was no point in stressing out yourself for things like jee or neet if the person doesn't have an innate passion for it. she told me to study how i wanted to, just with sincerity. my dad had always been the same too. my parents never even told me to choose the science stream, they said it's my life and i should take responsibility for it. because in the end it's me who has to live it, not them. right now I'm pursuing btech from a normal college but it's so satisfying because it was my own decision for my own carrer and life.
bhai me fail tha accounts me aur compart me bhi...next year 1 saal ke gap me dobara paper dia 95/100 aae h sunil panda sir ki wajah se ....me jis ttn me pdhta tha wha to bss bhed bakri wala hisab tha 1500 fees thi accounts ki per month aur jab mne youtube se sunil sir se pdha to acha score kia
I am very proud of my parents . They never ever forced me to do something, instead whenever i failed i felt depressed they were there to support me & my struggles. They never get worried about neighbours child instead more focused on what I wanted to achieve ❤❤
Being a student of unacedemy ....I had purchased the package for their great content its not about my fav teachers ....and I had completed almost one and half year on that platform but there are no any single educators who told that medical and engineerings is the only options in spite of that they only encourage us to comfortably learn and be a good human towards ur society and for ur family thats it life is not only about higher degrees and higher paded jobs its just how you use ur times .....use ur time effectively all the things goes well ....❤
Their are soo many other option opt for them if everyone wants to become doctor and engineer then who will become Autowala, Chaiwala, Scientist, Architecturist,
My parents know what I am capable of and just let me do what I do, just a few suggestions and that's it, I just realised I have barely taken any stress about studies, feels good, thanks mom
FIRST n FOREMOST.....it's the PARENTS that need to be counselled!! As a teacher and a parent I am confidently saying this . Parents-WAKE UP! or CHILL!!! Your role would be crucial/vital in putting an end to this insanity.
i am a 90s born , but my parents never force me to do anything , even not in high school , they are so much supportive ... they always said me u do what u like .. 💛
Mein ek third tire college se belong krti hu. But I will say onething it doesn't matter from which college we go at the end of the day it's us and our daily quota of learning which matters.
He is not god he is a human stop defaming god and you are no one to order someone what should they do if alakh sir is a good person then he shouldn't be afraid if someone point his name
But sir This is not only happening in coaching institutes but is also happening in school also Teachers give their feedback only to those students who scored above 95 then what about who scored less marks Feedback is most importantly for those students who score less but no there is a tradition and culture of every school and tution That's the reality of the Indian education system I am the one of the proof for this ☺️💗
Yeah in many schools high scorers get no restriction on the amount of holidays but average students do... but yeah it can be justified by the fact that average students may not be disciplined and need assistance while most of the toppers know how to be consistent and study...
Competitive exams in India are Like Cross country running in athletics in which every students runs to get into the top 3 or top 10 But hardly only some get there.😶
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After BA, my father wanted me to try for UPSC but after the first attempt, I decided I could not waste time cramming my head with useless knowledge. So I refused to listen to my father and decided to study MA in English Literature, followed by M.Phil and Phd at JNU. Today I am teaching in a top central university and have a great life. So parents should not put pressure on their children. Let them decide what they want to do with their lives.
Can you pls tell me about the process for becoming a lecturer?
I am doing my MA in English Literature.. 💜
@@artivaishnav193 you have to complete MA in the subject you like, then pass UGC-NET Exam (held twice a year). You can also do PhD after that but that will take some time. NET qualifies you to apply for lecturer's job and then you can do PhD while working. If you manage to pass UGC-JRF, you are paid a good amount as fellowship while doing PhD research. You are not allowed to work if you have JRF.
@@ivyimogene thank you so much 🤗 I'm thinking abt it whether to pursue this field or not after completing my 12th.
@@artivaishnav193 all the best !
You're right bro, they don't sell courses, they sell dreams
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What dream? If you're stupid enough to think just buying a course will make you pass the exam then you dont even deserve the college in the first place!
He himself is selling courses
They make false claims too!
Two things are missing in Education System:-
1) Education
2) System
Very well said
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@@shashirawat5124 I Know. So what?
Usse bhi badi
Main problem hai parents ka mind set
Engineering Karo life set hai
Mere do teen rishtedaro ki 15 lakh fees deke engineering ke baad 3 LPA ki job bhi nhi lagi
But mere Kai commerce ke friends ki 7 - 8 LPA ki lagi hai
Toh maa baap ya society ke pressure se nahi apne hisab se kro jo bhi Krna hai
The main culprit in these cases are parents, who don't know or don't even want to know what their children want, they only want to put their own failure in life on their children in the name of "creating a better future for our children"
Yeah, you're right. I don't know why I started hating my parents. 😊
Exactly
They are more concerned with bragging when you succeed than thinking what you actually want.
Ni yrrr kbhi kbhi bcche ko hi ni proper guidance milti h aur parents bhi itne pdhe likhe ni hote ki guide krske wo to yhi sochte h bs bccha apne pair PR khda hojae yhi mere sath hora h ab to pdhne ka bhi ni mn krra h bs Aisa lgta h ki khi chle jae sbkuch chor k 😓
After 5 yr same child will tell his father what you have done for me,,,,it's not single mistake of parents it's a mistake of every one who is involved in this universe
My son scored 90% marks in class 10 without any tuition or coaching. N now he opted for arts with economics n geography n sociology. N we parents r very much ok with his decision.
Good choice mam. People like you are rare now days.
Good work mam
Just in case, don't think Arts is bad in anyway. Sociology and economics are really relevant subjects. In fact, the maths in econometrics is way advanced than what science students study.
@@avinashsuresh5221 But the respect society gives to arts student is kinda disappointing 😶
@@vishnuchandrabose9875 Unfortunately, those people have seen nothing other than engineering and medical.
If we had any national institute for Arts and Humanities like IITs, probably things would change.
"I don't want a nation of thinkers, I want a nation of workers.”
- John D. Rockefeller, early education school system pioneer.
@Engineer Well said my friend. Well said 🗿
Yes.
Ye aisa kuch kabhi Rockefeller ne bola hi nahi tha, internet padhi hui har chiz sach nahi hoti
Nation needs both.
That's right, thinkers are a very tiny fraction of the intellectual elite, and they bring a transition in society only if they are freethinkers and skeptics, not state-sponsored academics and apologetics. and The majority of the population is a mass of productive workers who create wealth in society and who indeed run the country. take the example of Bangladesh: was only succeeded when half of its workforce(female population) participated in the economy. because capital doesn't fall from heaven and niether it recreate itself, people have to work.
The main problem is lack of options in India , there are many fields which many children don't know even though their parents too. So if government increase equal opportunity in every field and our society gives respect to every field then this whole problem will get resolve . So it's really important to increase opportunity for every field and do advertisement so that parents and children who were not aware they will get aware of it.
Exactly.. I asked elders and I am still not 100% clear about these things because we didn't get proper guidance. I even searched in the internet and youtube and still am not clear. Can't even blame parents for only knowing about engineers and doctors.
True bro if someone chooses bio he can only become doctor nothing else cuz our education system focus on that only not others
Maine bsc biotechnology kiaa uske baad msc kiaa aur ho sakta hai phd bhi kru lekin salary 32 hazaar mil rha to batao kya kare
@@juztshorts just shift to usa or uk because these country value bsc degree you will get high salary there
exactly bro
I miss the time when life was simple and there was no technology. 😮💨
Only farming life😞
Bro❤😭😭😭
I@@whiteswan8046it was around 1995
Stone age was just theory@sushru_15
@sushru_15 vo rural areas ki baat kar rha hai abhi bhi hai bahut jagah
Pure nature 🌿🍃
They doesn't sell courses, they sells dreams.
Was the perfect line used by this video and pretty truth.
I opted for humanities this year and scored 94% and stood 3rd in the school and most of students have opted for science this year
Many of my teachers suggested me to take science instead of arts but my parents never did . They told me to choose whatever I like
I am literally glad 💖
Me too
Yaar arts is good but surrounding bhut chapri logo se bhara hua hai
Me too 95 (100 in social studies) opted arts
Same here but I chose commerce and very happy with my decision😊
Well, it's good for u to choose whatever u want, but remember, whatever u score these "marks" isn't the metric when being compared to science students. Science students, mainly engineers and medical professionals still will earn significantly better than arts field professionals, and that is a fact. STEM has more money and this is a fact.
Nobody talks about what happens to 99.9% of aspirants who don’t make it. If you spend 4 to 5 years preparing for UPSC, you will completely lose sight of your core competency, which then leaves you with no choice but to start over. This process requires a lot of guts and courage, which you had already lost after 5 years of preparation. I believe that if you are really aspire to clear UPSC, you need to try once in order to know if you have what it takes.
I understood though but result is funny 🤣
Fir ham log Bhikari ya to dukandar ban jate hain😂
Lekin Parents Reaction: mera beta kuch nhi kar paya
Education ❎ Business ✅
Ryt
Temple ❌ Business ✅
@@loveyourself-n6y No, temple is good till here, but we should use it only for worship and not for donating money or something else. ✨
@@loveyourself-n6ylol😂😂😂
@@loveyourself-n6ymadrasachap 😂😂😂
After completing my 10th , I was sent to Kota for medical coaching. In the first one year, I knew that this is not the life I wanted. I got to know about students suicide and depression leads students to do bad activities. Next year I left coaching, focused on the 12th. After 12th, I went to a Design school. Today, I am actually working for a top E commerce company in India.
Great you are just helping economy of India 👍
What is design school
@@babygoldy1450National Institute of Design. By learning designing you can be a UI/UX designer. That is a high paying job.
Have you done MBA?
What's top,? You tried to avoid competition and now part of one.
The only channel which show the dark truth of every field...Keep up the good work bro we all are with you...
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Coaching industries should be banned in India
coaching ki burai kr ke .. ek dusre edtech ki Ad deke jata hai .... 🤣🤣
Dark side of aditya...
sach bat to ye hai ki skill nhi rhega to kam nhi milega to skill develop krne ka zarurat hai ..
Dark side of showing dark side. 😉😉😉
This channel changed into dark side instead of Aditya saini 🤣🤣🤣
Simple "Growth School" he making us fool for his paid promotion
And making people to fill his Ass hole
As an MBA aspirant and former JEE aspirant I can confirm that coaching and competitive are killing the creativity of many young talented students and government needs to put a stop this industry.
Will the govt provide jobs to the teachers ? What about general caste teacher's. Govt will keep reservation for quota bhakts. And if general caste want to feed family by teaching students what's wrong with that?
@@Dingdongtington there is a difference between teaching and business... Most of the coaching institute treat students as money making mechine and stop this caste propoganda... I think u are also a coaching mafia who treat students as money making Machine
@@Sp3ctroMusic No I m not from coaching centre. And caste basis is there in seats allotment. Rubbish students get via quota in jobs nd good candidates r left behind.
Your Quota samaj party won't offer jobs or feed the family of those general caste. This is there bread nd butter.
Ha bro 👍
kaha se prepare kr rhe ho cat ki?
To quote “Kota factory” “Sirf A1 wale mere ranker hain, baki saare toh mere bankers hain”
It was the cold hard truth
Like an ice cube 🧊
They think that only rankers can rule the world,but the reality is they work in some company like a slave😂
@@thepm517 they don't care about their future, they just want a rank from toppers.
@@thepm517 unhe ranker naukri lega, business karega yah chaprasi banega isse koi farak nahi parta...unhe ranker chahiye taaki next year rankers ko dekhle aur bachche aayei...it's just business
@@thepm517 bro most business entrepreneurs in India are rankers
Accepting who we are and what we are capable of is the main thing..
I can't be like MSD or CR7.
But I have my own flaws and capabilities that may help me to overtake MSD or CR7 or "May Be Not".
Keep pushing yourself everyday is the main thing..
This is a Dynamic Environment, it changes everyday, every week and even every second you have to adapt to it.
You can't be Static on a Dynamic World.
Don't give birth you don't have that much money to send your kids to abroad to study.
Here for 10k seats 1million kids fill applications form. Actually parents give birth kid that is wrong interpretation. Actual interpretation is they produce slaves of future of so called politicians.
CR7 LOVE 🇵🇹😘 ha bhai
Yeah bro! Why I forget during worry & anxiety that this World 🌎 is Dynamic bro .... Thanks
I took Science stream in 11th grade and my parents asked me around 100 times if I'm sure about it and if I really wanted to choose Science. Now that the session is over I get why they did that. Though I opted for PCB of my own will, my marks were the worst. For the first time in my life, I scored 4/20(I failed) for the first time in my life! I felt like a failure and my mental health just worsened. However, during this session break, I worked on my mental health but honestly 11th grade was like a nightmare to me, just because of my marks. Teachers(coaching) would say marks don't matter but after every test, they would give a lecture as to why marks are the only thing that matters to living a life.
But thankfully, my parents have my back. My mom said that I can attempt NEET one more time after the 12th if I want to.
Dear fellow mates, please remember no mark sheet, no teacher, and no society is worth more than your life!
Humara same same hai
@@natashahahaha0 I hope you're able to prioritise your mental health in such situations :(
Same broo
When i took pcm i had gone through same. Obviously i didn't took science in graduation but i realized that it was fear which made me score low marks than the subject itself.
Anyway keep in mind, please solve the ncert questions, even if you have to copy them. Try to understand how they are solved. Atleast you won't fail.
@@shubham5144 Thank you so much for the guidance ✨, now I actually realised i used to prefer modules than ncert why might've made me score low!!
I was a dropper student. I did my 11th, 12th and drop year too from Allen. But still, I wasn't able to clear NEET. Even after working so hard day and night, I don't know why I was not able to score good marks even in tests held in coaching. My teachers lost all hope in not just me but my whole batch. Because, we were in the batch of average students. I still remember teachers coming to our class after every test and telling us that we were good for nothing, we will never be able to do something good with our lives. And it proved to be so. Only 1 or 2 students from my batch of 100 students were able to score more than cut-off marks.I knew I will not be able to do it, I knew I was not good enough. So, I just kept blaming myself. But, eventually I realised that it's just not me, it is the coaching institute, their strategies, their teachers who were at the fault too. At my centre in Indore, students would bribe one of the staff members to get the question paper of tests on every Sunday. So, my friends, you all have the capabilities to do something great with your lives, you all can be happy and be proud of yourselves even if you are not the topper. I am proud of each one of you for trying and giving your best.
What am I doing now you may ask ? I am neither an IITian nor I study in AIIMS, I am pursuing my bachelor's degree in Pharmacy. And next year, after completing this course, I will be going to USA for M.S and PhD. And, I am very happy from where I am now.
Nice bro , Am jee aspirant ,
I guess i am doing great with no problem
Can you pls tell the reason itna mehenat karne kai naad bhi marks nai bante
😂😂try Australia
It's better than ur usa
And yeah aman was a farmer's son he didn't had money to go to USA
And there are many amans like him
So don't boast your chest on USA here
@@amritchaturvedi2261abe chutiye tu bohut bol raha hai alakh sir ke pass na toh Paisa tha na hi family ka support. Ab PW banake baccho se paise loot rahe he aur wo bhi coaching mafia ke under aa te he.
If proper guidance is provided then the students who got 35% can also get 95%. It's not an impossible event !!
But the way our society works is never gonna let this thing possible
But 95% doesn't mean he is gonna be successful in life
I am that student whom you are talking about
Not proper guidance , we need right direction 😢
I am a student myself who is preparing for NEET in one of the institutes in Kota. Yes, the pressure and competition faced by the students is immense.
Long hour classes, extra classes, Doubt classes, Daily question practice is required and extra questions homework are often given by teachers which makes us heptic. Regular mock tests are also conducted and performance report is sent to their parents to make them feel insecure and depressed.
Quality of life is also worst here. Unhygienic food, contaminated water and improperly ventilated small PG rooms..make students life nothing less than a hell
@@_sonu_ its not about working hard its about where you are utilizing the work 7 lakhs hard working can’t get into iit as seats are only 5000 what would you say about this no one will teach here to do something your own do something diffrent from others where the scope is too high a person can start a f🙂cking startup at that money which he just invested for his one year coaching
@@vision6482 True.
@@_sonu_ you are absolutely right but a man can handle pressure where he is interested if he will handle that pressure where he is not even interested that can be tough for him
@@vision6482 Spot on! Well said
@@_sonu_ ye competetive exam mai hard work karne se kuch nai milt ahai talent bhi hona chahi knack of problem solving bahut kam ke pass hota hai
I have been a dropper. I studied at Aakash for Neet. Half way in the journey I knew that I'm not interested and don't wanna do this. I did appear for the exm. My family had great expectations but I could not do it. My parents were disappointed so was I. They did blame me and were really angry as it was their hard earned money that was invested. But still I knew that above all this they love me. I did not ever thought of giving up on life. Our parents wants the best for us. If we just give them some time and make them understand what exactly you like and what your real happiness lies in they will understand and support you as my parents did.
So what are you doing right now?
As long as u put in sincere efforts and did the best u can it's OK..failure is not to be ashamed of.. Its ok to fail... But if u didn't give ur best then u have betrayed them...
@@joker3530 swiggy🤣🤣
@@avinash-9b80 bohot funny bhai tu toh comedy king nikla😑
how u doin now bro
My drawing teacher taught me so many things about painting in one year which I was unable to learn from drawing school in 4 years. His fees is also low ₹150 per month. He always tell us one thing if you are not serious about learning drawing then don't come here just to waste time. He never gave up on me even when I get messed up. We all had a huge respect for him.
not entire syllabus but yes I am using maths in CSE, you can't influence people to ruin their base.
Their are usecases of other subjects too in the respective fields.
Gone through the comments and gained so much of confidence that I am not only the one facing this! So here I am more confident writing my story!
I was a bright student till 10th my percentage was between 80-90 percent ....after coming to 11th there was no proper classes or teachers who can really guide and let us help achieve more (as I belong to arunachal Pradesh) but somehow I scored 70%(which is very saddening) but then too i got 2nd rank between those 45 students in my class ....leave that all so now I went to 12th and scored 72% but i decided to take a drop and right now when NEET is just 1 month away i am just fed of all these and felt that I was never interested in medical and just got influenced by some of the people out there (basically i wanted to something else)
And the point is my parents never forced me to anything or choose Medical .....they always said yes to everything what I wanted to do....
When i was frustrated in mid drop year I told my parents I can't do this i want to change my career plans....i was hell scared that they'll scold me but they believed in me and said don't worry you come home and decide .....1 saal hi gya hai baaki or kuch nahi....sab theek hojayega. ....and i am truly blessed to have such parents
I am going home after this neet!
Don't get scared of parents they are the real friends of ours
I just saw the video and read your comment...I couldn't resist myself and I'm writing to you.....I'm extremely happy for you ❤good luck for your upcoming bright future and always try to focus on what you really need and aspire for and having such supportive parents is just like icing on the cake.....so wish you all the very best and always stay positive.....life mein bahot kuchh hai karne ko and life is really very precious 🥰
@@CAShreyaGupta such a kind heart you have ❤️
@@CAShreyaGupta so thoughtful of you for her.. you're good person, a gem 💎🌸
Bro,i am going through the same sh*t like you right now, i also took a drop but now i am realising that i don't like IITs or engineering at all but i seriously have no idea what to do now.i hope both of us will find success in life
@@rainbowshit by god's grace ❤️
I feel blessed to have immensely supportive and caring parents. They are both government employees, but I have been taught every subject by them. I never had tuition at school, even in 12.
I chose arts after class 10 and have scored 95.2% in higher secondary exam.
I chose arts because I love to read and write. My parents never forced me to choose science as most students are forced to do after scoring good marks. They just want me to be happy in life.
You are really blessed it is very good of you that you appreciate it
@@romenpal-m6f ❤️
Every parent want their child to be the happiest but the problem is.. they think that science stream has more scope and salary which is somewhere right (data scientist, doctor, etc) and for that they can do every possible thing. But sometimes they didn't understand that their kid want to be different, like a moon (one and only).
(Sorry for my horrible english)
@Vishal Autade Yes you can define it so. But if you belong to a financialy stable family, doesn't mean you cannot come under pressure. It depends on many, many things... your preferences and dreams and what your parents want of you.... Of course earning is important but what if in order to achieve success you lose interest in your life?
You are very lucky. Hope u do great in ur field.
❤
Indian coaching institutes are becoming 'classroom of elite'.
It's made business bro..
One of the greatest content i have ever seen ,why i am so late😢be aware friends this is the reality of every coaching ❤
18:12 this line "ki padhne wale bachho par kya gujarti hai" just melt my heart 🥺🥺 being a neet aspirant I can totally feel it
Yes bro🥺
But my one nasedi frnd secured 640 in neet .
Self study Is the key.
Bhaag
Yes.
Self study for 12 hours a day is the key to success.
But I only do 8 hours . I will increase it when I will get in class 11.
@@raj..1433 bro sorry but you'll soon be retarted
@@raj..1433 Abe tu 10th me 8 ghante padh rha 🥲🤧 ?
@@raj..1433 Bro, believe me. Enjoy your life right now. Read books except your study books, watch entertaining series, watch educational yt channels, gain more and more knowledge, and explore, for your life won't be the same in 11th. And frankly there's no reason to study for 8hrs a day in 10th (though I appreciate that, but still). You might regret it later for not enjoying the time you spend on rattafication in 10th. I my opinion, 4-5hrs a day in 10th is fine to go beyond 90. Anyway, it's just an advise.
Actually, I am in Class 12th preparing for NEET from ALLEN CAREER INSTITUTE, Jaipur.I am scoring low marks about 400 marks out of 720.I feel that Teacher's are focusing more on Toppers and those students get benefits as they wants.I know they are toppers capable of getting best AIRs but who are us..............I don't know nothing anymore but I am hustling to score good marks. No time for anything......... watching this video with completing School Projects.
We all think that we are Unique but we don't know in which rat trap we are.............Don't think that I am writing these long paragraphs how I get so much time , I am in so much stress and yt recommend this video.
If we are part of this race don't think we can't be succeed because If we really struggling , we get succeed in this field or other............But We Can't Quit
Well said .. it's the truth that every student's facing in this time
@Aditya yes bro
@@gamermbbsgirl it's truth but no one wants to understand 😔
they always groom the toppers from your weekly/monthly tests and focus on them only. They only need few faces to show in newspapers and rest of you don't matter to them
See....its the same in every institute ie they do focus on toppers,I mean its because of previous year toppers u joined in that institute ...don't let it take a toll on you. Focus on urself
Bro You Literally Spitted The Facts 😖💯
It happens more with PCB students, as the general narrative built around them is that once they have taken PCB, the options are less, handful of streams that too related with biology only like medicine, pharma, veterinary or Bsc(bio).
One of my relative failed in NEET, but got decent score in 12th boards(90%), hence took admission in Delhi University in BA(Economics+Management) , after completing took an avg job, also prepared for CAT exam, scored 99%ile, got admission into IIM Kozhikode(MBA), after MBA placed in company with 1.5 lakh/month salary.
*When he opted for BA(economics), everyone was like in shock that how can a Biology student can take commerce subjects, as if this is some kind of law written in Scriptures that a Bio student can't change his stream.
The guy also realised later that he always wanted to do Marketing & Management.
CAT is no less then JEE
@@aftabpyati2001 way better than jee bro, atleast CAT gives you a above middle class life in short span if you're average student in studies
Laws are written in law books ..Vedas are beyond your comprehension 🤣
Rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr rrrrr
is it still possible for a bio student to take economics as now there is cuet too
I had scored 80% in my 10th Board or Matriculation. And my father took a very rational decision for my career that he supported my decision of taking Arts or Humanities stream after 10th. I am really proud of having such a great father who has always supported me in my every decision and helped me in making corrections in my life. Now I am doing graduation and I trying really hard to make my parents proud of me❤
My father knew that science and commerce streams aren't my choice and they aren't capable of making me achieve what I really want. My parents are really supportive and I heartily want to make them proud ❤
i also opted for humanities with 89 percent in class 11 . so many people demotivated , yeah but i took my decision by myself. best wishes for the future brother ☺️
Bro maine bhot baar ye notice kiya hai ki parents apne bachcho se bhot high expectations rakhte h. Apne bhot ache se explain kiya is matter ko.. Hatsoff to you snd your work. Keep going aditya
Zindagi mein vaise bhi kuchh nahin rakha, murde hi to hain sab. Kaun se maa baap bachchon ke hit ke liye bachche paida karte hain? Unhe chahiye ek khilauna aur budhaape ka sahaara. Itne bheedbhaad vaale desh mein bachche paida karke jeevan bhar unki naak mein dam kare rehte hain. Ye karo vo karo.
DO NOT HAVE KIDS IN THIS OVERCROWDED AND RIDICULOUSLY COMPETITIVE WORLD.
Aap kis class me ho & jee ya neet aspirant? However This is same name of my younger brother! Kaha se ho bhai
And you are right but my parents never pressurized me! My mother is not that much inclined to our studies & she is of religious nature so not say or pressurized us! My father is in Indian Army 🪖 & he also never said or pressurized me to be Doctor or Engineer! I was a dropper for Neet & gone through too much depression, loneliness & awkward moments but now I will shine again in life by opting a different field
I don't think learning history is useless, afterall it gives u knowledge about the country's past which is important to know to know how far your country has come. Just sharing my own opinion 😊
But I think it should be learn as a story instead of taking test .
@@vipulkumar3442 boring bolke imp nhi denge subject banaye toh atleast padhenge 😂😂
Important is when you're learning what is true....
But in our case, history is full of lies and fake history written by Britishers...
If you wanna learn about your country from NCERT, then I feel pity for you
Exactly
Learning how a country developed is awesome
But
Remembering everything inside the chapter for exams is bad
That's why I don't like history
Very true
As im a person who loves studying
I felt your video very deeply
I have gone through the same process myself. When I failed in A level both my parent were angry and crying for my failure but I didn't decide to take my life but instead I took my chemistry book and told him to read chapter 3 chemical bonds and ionic bonds. He immediately screamed and told me it's not his age to study and I was Furious after hearing this from him and ever since then I didn't touch a single science book since and I only read nobles, stories and poems because I like writing as I want to become a writer
Please never let this side of you die, do not become a robot. All the best
You liked studies too... That's why you went to Kota...But it was probably not a good approach for you and they couldn't tell you how to study properly...It is a race as soon as you fucking get there.
Nobels kya hota hai bhai?
@@Amritabeautiful long stories of some sort.
Bhai maine bhi a level kiya hain mughe pata hain kyaa ghand hoti hain after you graduate because everyone thinks i will go aboard but i wants to study in my country but everyone tell
This education system really need to Change. It is not meant to stress students and drive then to depression, it has to actually make them ready for the upcoming life. In our education system, there is no education and no system.
Noone focuses on vocational courses and people are not practical when they focus on MCQs and formulas etc .
@@AbhishekGupta-th5ll for real! People are corrupt and money hungry nothing more.
Not education system the whole ecosystem is damaged which to change need a large effort and very much time
Zindagi mein vaise bhi kuchh nahin rakha, murde hi to hain sab. Kaun se maa baap bachchon ke hit ke liye bachche paida karte hain? Unhe chahiye ek khilauna aur budhaape ka sahaara. Itne bheedbhaad vaale desh mein bachche paida karke jeevan bhar unki naak mein dam kare rehte hain. Ye karo vo karo.
DO NOT HAVE KIDS IN THIS OVERCROWDED AND RIDICULOUSLY COMPETITIVE WORLD.
It should start with parents. They are the main culprit
I scored 94% in 10th. In my PU every friends of mine were either IIT or NEET aspirants but I wanted to become lecturer and i recently completed my masters in Chemistry. I not only want to teach but also make students understand about leading life as well.
After watching this video I feel very blessed because my father is government teacher he never pressurized me to do coaching or going to Kota I simply choose to complete my schooling in my home town .
I studied from RUclips for the class 11th and 12th ..... And cleared the JEE Mains now I am in Government Engineering college when I look back I thank to God for not sending me Kota because most of my college friends have studied from Kota and Coaching centre but I am at the same place without any drop year after 12th . Thanks to my parents for not forcing to do such things 🥺.
konse college me ho brother
@@HarshKumar-fb9zn MMMUT Gorakhpur
@@shubhamtripathi8071 which branch
@@hoperthinkermotivator9902 electronics
@@shubhamtripathi8071 and i am from gorakhpur 😅
My parents were always supportive to what me and my sister want to do in life thats why me and my sister both selected what we are good and and what we love to do and are just loving it ... I am a CGI artist and my sister is studying to be an interior designer . When i have kids i will let them do what they will enjoy learn and grow with , a job should not feel like a prision .. it sould be driven by love passion and curiosity of always learning what you love 🙂... You have questions of how if so but and you learn on your own when you just love what you want to do ... ur just that curious about it that you dont need any coach ... its good to have a coach only if you love what you do and know what you want to be . Dont follow the crowd everyone is unique so find ur special power and do what you love .
Lucky you
Not every family can afford sending their kids to a design or fashion sort of schools !
Even with vast courses option , pocket allows only a few .
That is the bigger truth than coaching competition .
💯 percent truth.Same thing happened with me when i was studying in coaching.I was average student. I am pursuing M.B.B.S from government medical College.
every parents should watch this . they really need to see this .
I know ... every parents should watch this, but ... not every parents will understand the meaning of this video.... they will still tell you that you are FORCED to make THEIR DREAMS INTO REALITY .... No matters if you have DREAMS or NOT.....!!!!
Zindagi mein vaise bhi kuchh nahin rakha, murde hi to hain sab. Kaun se maa baap bachchon ke hit ke liye bachche paida karte hain? Unhe chahiye ek khilauna aur budhaape ka sahaara. Itne bheedbhaad vaale desh mein bachche paida karke jeevan bhar unki naak mein dam kare rehte hain. Ye karo vo karo.
DO NOT HAVE KIDS IN THIS OVERCROWDED AND RIDICULOUSLY COMPETITIVE WORLD.
Aditya I must say you brings the truth reality and I pray to god give you strength and protect from evils. People i don't know about you but we really need more people and content like aditya saini.👀 hats off
I did 1 year coaching in Chandigarh
Not able to clear IIT or NIT but I was having a great foundation that bridged the gap between NCERT and Engineering
But I have seen people dedicated their life to entrance exam
So what are you doing bro? When you passed 12th? I am in nearby Panchkula
Our govt is trying soo hard to provide quality education ... we ahould support it
13:58 Once my 12th std maths teacher manish sir said, coaching institutes should be for weak students instead of bright student.
That's why I love PW (Alakh Pandey) they are not like other coaching who loot the middle class and poor students just for an exam.
But it's hella crowded they were filling batches(offline) even before 5 months of exams, they just focus on toppers. You'll feel lost in PW believe me
@@shambhavichaurasiaa I only know about their online batches they are the best for average students but I don't know about offline.
@@DeepKumar-xz9of yeah i agree with you online batches are good, i won't deny. But offline isn't, i spent 1 lakh, i should be getting better education than online batches, right? But it's not the case.
If you don't believe me, you can check recent toppers of jee and neet and you will barely find one from offline centres.
@@shambhavichaurasiaa hope they improve offline too. But I recommend you online batch of any jee or neet exam it will be good 👍.
@@DeepKumar-xz9of i cracked JEE this year and I'll be recommending everyone to just find your teacher on youtube itself and stick to them, that's gonna work out well. And only opt for JEE or NEET if you are really interested in engineering and medical, because if you're there just for money's sake, kuch nhi ho sakta tab wo lalach hai passion nahi
I left college and learning by myself game development and on communication!! Over 1.5 years & i really love that
Hey bro , same college ke sath nahi ho raha game dev manage
@@MRRGEGAMER clg chhod do phir
Out of the matrix
Salute to you 👏
Mujhme na itna dum ha na itni himmat...3 saal ho gye ...bs majdoor ki tarah kaam kraye jaa rhe ha ..no skills...
Good
I already know these.Still couldn't hold my tears while hearing this....
Creators Like You Brothers Are Gem For Our Country 💎🇮🇳
As a Career Counsellor I thank you to make this video Aditya. Whatever is shown in this video is absolutely true. Even most of the parents who approach me for their kid's counselling force/ try to influence me to nudge their kids to pursue Engineering or Medical. But it doesn't work this way, parents & students must understand the interest, personality & aptitude before selecting subjects. As a professional Career Counsellor I administer the psychometric test to gauge the interest, personality & aptitude of a student followed by an intensive counselling session & open discussion. This is how it must be done. When one pursues career from their high interest area they don't need to be pushed all the time, in fact they are self motivated & above all happy. They most likely to achieve success. As a Counsellor I recommend to introspect the interest & personality first before opting a certain career choice. You can do it on your own with the help of your friends & family members or you can always go to a professional Career Counsellor.
Just wanted to ask something , i am also very confused for my career , could you please please help me out depressed like hell from inside , i am doing ca
Love you 💞
@@YtChannel0007 😊😂
I love you too 💘
Yes mam! From which city or region you are ? There are no career counsellors in our town of Bihar
I live in Kota and currently I am in 9th. I agree on this, many of my friends are going to allen and other coaching since as early as 7th and 8th and dummying schools and they regret that, the pressure these institutes create is absurd.
Wth
Ur in kota and in just 9th
So early
What the f is this
Can u explain ur schedule and opinion
@@unknownwarrior8269 don't be surprised, many come here in 6th standard as well, as the "coachings" here "sell " courses even for 6th std students
@@ChamanSinger4728 😭😭
So bad
I am coming in 10th and i will start my jee prep only in 11th
People like these don't get the time to enjoy there childhood
@@unknownwarrior8269 tabhi 99% logh nahi karpahtai
@@MORaXedit1 what do u mean?
Constitution should be implemented that
Minimum qualification should necessary for all ministers
He has a degree@AdhiraBehera-fv2bn
When I was preparing for NEET in Allen Kota, one day me & my mom went to a mall and as we were walking by, a guy from an online coaching named Toppr caught us and said just listen to us once. At first we denied but he insisted and said just 5 min. So we agreed. Then we went inside the room and a man was trying to brainwash my mom with his dirty strategies. She got really confused at that point. He then asked me solve a few questions. Then asked me how "good" I scored in previous NEET exam & class 12th. When I replied in negative for both of em one by one... He suddenly got furious and screamed at me like I committed a crime.
We were really staring at him in shock. So then he controlled himself and started brainwashing my mom yet again. I was really frustrated till then cuz he wasted almost 45 min of ours just doing his sh*t. Still he wasn't convinced.
I was a very introverted kid back then, so I didn't say anything wrong.. But on the inside I was actually mad at him. I told my mom let's leave. She made an excuse and finally we left after wasting an hour of our quality time. I can never forget the Worst Kota Journey & The Worst People I met over there, ever in my life!!!
😮😮😮😮😮 it's shocking
Thanks for 100 likes 🙏
It happens to my brothers too
And now I am really shameful because i thought it's my brother fault
All coaching is same
As an introvert I agree with you
I loved science but I took commerce so my parents don't force me to become a doctor or engineer and the worst part is I got 56% in 12th because of some personal issues and yes I did not study because of covid going through depression and stress, abuse, trauma still believing that i can find my spark and rewrite my life as I always dreamed of learning electrical stuff, ethical hacking, doing a part time job to learn something about business and going fully monk wood to understand this vast universe from the outside and inside and yes to reach nirvana
Overall outcome … any hope or 🫠?
Ryell
I'll join you how old are you?
@@sarthakjadhav2538same bro
@@modak5452 what are you pursuing?
Basically not only science suffers from mental depression but also arts student also . If you take arts after 10th then you have to suffers from mental depression and humiliation , less jobs opportunity , not equal status in society and many more . Mainly this happens in middle class family 😢.
Zindagi mein vaise bhi kuchh nahin rakha, murde hi to hain sab. Kaun se maa baap bachchon ke hit ke liye bachche paida karte hain? Unhe chahiye ek khilauna aur budhaape ka sahaara. Itne bheedbhaad vaale desh mein bachche paida karke jeevan bhar unki naak mein dam kare rehte hain. Ye karo vo karo.
DO NOT HAVE KIDS IN THIS OVERCROWDED AND RIDICULOUSLY COMPETITIVE WORLD.
Right 💯
Bro coching scam bolkar coching ki hi sponsorship kar raha hai 😂
Yeah....I thought it's a ad,but a sponsorship about same topic is takes guts
Same brooo
I thought same thing 😅 like he is saying true but also sponsored by same things
😂😂😂
Total unexpected ❤
Only thing that should be held responsible for this kind of stress is expectation. Any failure in life is not bigger than life itself.
But root cause of all these problems are population
Bro i am in class 10th should I go to Kota next year?
Very true
@@Meanclashers nah bro, take arts with economics, it, geography and english with maths as additional. And go foreign country
When I was in my 12th standard, my mom never forced me to get into IITs or NITs. She does want me to earn well in future but not by fighting depression and stress which, in most of the students' cases of the present scenario, leads to suicide. Today I'm pursuing my BTECH (Im currently in my first year) in IT stream from a normal private college of my state. I neither regret not going into any of the national institutes nor the thought of others earning crores of rupees ever strikes my mind. I'm happy and that's all I need
❤
Good luck.
You will regret though
@@utkarshsharma9393 Atleast he has freedom to do anything.
If you are happy then it's fine.
Good morning and thank you very much Aditya.
And this is the video much more needed for my wife and sisters. Perfect
Unfortunate. We call ourselves at the peak of humankind. Scary where we’re heading. What good is all this education anyway if we cannot get basics in place. None of what we learn in school helps us in adulting in this society. Having studied in schools across the globe even being fortunate enough to have that exposure easily our talent and skill get buried when we chose india as home. My heart weeps for all the students and parents being fooled into all this charade. Truly heartbreaking. I believe we can change everything from the root but how many people have to come together for this. Truly eye opening!!
We are living in an era where we complete with others to proof that we are better. In true nothing matters . We trapped in this era after a long time we realised that this marks, results doesn't matter at all.
I've been to kota and have seen the environment there.........guys understand the business and don't just follow the masses and get crushed in the mad race .... identify your potential....your drive and excell in that ❤
I’m glad my parents let me give up after 1st attempt in neet. I pursued bsc in forensic science and completed it this june 23. Gonna do masters now. Enjoy this subject way more than medicine. And even thou getting a job will be a bit harder I’m gonna love it more :)
Same here. Discovered my passion in my chemistry at the end of 12th. Prepared for jee for 4 years, and knew engineering wasnt for me. I feel blessed because my parents allowed me to pursue iisers and study chemistry further.
Rajkumar hirani made the movie three idiots in which he raised awareness about stress and depression on which the students suffered and feel pressured on a thing that dont like and didnot want to do and not passionate about and tought people why so many students loss their lives by xhasibg a thing on which they are jot passionate and family pressure to succes and showed us the dark secrets of college and ragging in a comedic way
If you are a historian then the dates you learned are usefull, if you are a physicist then the formulas you learned are usefull, if you are a mathematician then the derivative and integration you learned are usefull....so everything is subjective and apki school mein jo padhaye gya tha vo apke Kam a rhe hai ki nhi is a silly incongruous question.
But the centre topic of the video and analysis is great❤
There is no respect for science and scientists in this country but only btech in iit
Finally someone understands that the subjects are not black and white.It is just the question of which field you choose.
True, but why teach a student interested in physics about history, why teach a student interested in painting Chemistry? Why should subjects be compulsory? Why not make subjects.optional? And give more importance to the subject the student is interested in?
@@Someone_2406A children is taught basics for every field till 10th so that he can find his interest. Thats it
@@visheuuu Fine, maybe basics are given. Awesome. But is it really really worth it? Is the knowledge worth it ? Even if it is, is testing the knowledge by giving a large group of students the same questions worth it ?
He is totally right ! whatever he said are facts. I went jaipur Allen for JEE preparation. In starting weeks only my performance was deteriorating. Still i had faith in myself that I can do it. But the coaching system was f*cked up. Teachers were paying attention to good rankers in class. Students in class were watching adult content and the teacher had no problem with it. One day i failed in test and one of the teacher in class said" your life is nothing if you won't go in IIT clgs !!you will end up being nothing" that's broke my heart. I went into severe depression. I lived 1 year in jaipur and it was all about crying and depression. Thank god ! I came back home. A lot of people say to me that i gave up so early but that's not the truth. I saved myself.
I left preparing for NEET back in 2019, but my relatives still tell me the same thing... Even though I already wasted 3 years of my life doing it
Now what r u guys doing now?
Well cause everything was online I flunked REALLY hard...
Kota situation is more fcked up.
In kota 14 suicide happened in last 11 months ..
And 3 suicide in last 24 hours ...
All are under pressure cooker fighting for their dreams 🥺
Zindagi mein vaise bhi kuchh nahin rakha, murde hi to hain sab. Kaun se maa baap bachchon ke hit ke liye bachche paida karte hain? Unhe chahiye ek khilauna aur budhaape ka sahaara. Itne bheedbhaad vaale desh mein bachche paida karke jeevan bhar unki naak mein dam kare rehte hain. Ye karo vo karo.
DO NOT HAVE KIDS IN THIS OVERCROWDED AND RIDICULOUSLY COMPETITIVE WORLD.
Thts why iam antinatlist
@@Dd_12348 bhai main bhi
@@abhisheksing8379 aap आचार्य prashant ,nihil anand ko follow karte ho
@@Dd_12348 Nihil Anand ko dekh kar hi main antinatalist bana. Acharya Prashant ko bhi roz sunta hoon.
I had a word with Principal of Narayan e techno school, she did not understand this concept, they put unnecessary pressure on even primary students, and talks about IIT, I was shocked that my child in 4th standard has to be prepared for IIT from this age!!!! I said I am happy with 50% marks but they were putting pressure on me and said no we will give your child extra class and take the child upto 70% marks level !!!!
Narayana is worst school ,they started preparing us student jee exam from class 6th
I am lucky to get good teachers who really cared about us🌟..
this man is one of my fav ytr aditya saini you talked about these where nobody pay attention to it you are just amazing bro watching since 10k
This was your best video. I hope these companies (PW, Unacademy & Kota institutions) don't make this video banned.
Koi ban nani Karega infact PW tho student ka pressure mein he batches leke aya t a
Every student feel pressurize one who ace all this only succeed, it is important to ignore all the negativity think and only focus on our aim. Automatically things will get better. The fact is that only few percent understand this and implement it and that few percent only succeed.
Everyone is talking about ALLEN FITJEE and all but pls do remember Sri Chaitanya, Narayana…these institutions are also not that far. I’ve studied there for 2 years i. e 11-12, we called these schools as corporate schools because yes they’re and infact the administration also kept mentioning that they should be called a corporate school where there’s a said rule that “ toppers can cope up with anything and the whole attention will be going to them meanwhile mediocre students like me and many more out there should struggle as much they can but with no or little help”, I won’t say that I did my due diligence, yes I slept during lectures sometimes and sometimes I bunked class but the point to be understood is why I did that and there are many out there…the reason being when your clas start from 6:00 in the morning continuing upto 10:30 in the night and there just mere 3 and a half hours break…what did you expect us to do…and the worst part is teachers did create a vibe that if you’re not clearing NEET AND JEE you’re kinda fucked and pls do remember you’d have to come back there only and study along junior batches with shame!!! Tbh I’m not able to describe it properly because it’s all filled with mixed emotions…there was a time in my 12 th grade where I started to have suicidal thoughts just because all these…it really felt like the competitive exams are the end of the world…well you people out there like me will relate…kabhi Sri Chaitanya, Narayana inn se baat karke dekhna ek alag hi narak ke baare mein pata chal jayega aaplogon ko.
Mujhe laga south me system best hain 😮😮
@@shubhramandal3816 haan best Hain if you're a student with great caliber, mediocre students don't have much chances anyhow.
@@shubhramandal3816Nhi bhai South me hi sabse bad system hai coaching kaa , north me coaching is much better than South India coachings ,
@@suraj_singh__45 lekin South me to treatment bohot acchi hoti hain aur dawai Dena ka system bhi alag hain 😅
@@suraj_singh__45 udhar educated jyada hain na
I 'M proud that my father is a teacher in kendriya vidyalaya 😍 and had given a average result of 70% in their 17 years of work in KV
Thank God There is someone in India who speaks the truth ❤️
Life before lockdown was heaven
Shi batt h bhai kha gye wo din 😢
Well, I'm a doctor now. Cracked neet back in 2018. I never joined any coaching institutes cause all my teachers were private and i did self study as well. When you compare, cost of keeping private teachers who would exclusively teach you for individual subjects is way less than joining coaching institutes.
Kya aap bta skte ho aapne private teachers se kese pdha mtlb kya vo aapke ghar pe aake pdhate the
@@mansi4405 haa Ghar aate the. Once in a week. 4 sittings in a month. 1000-1500 lete the per sitting.
Every line of this video can be healed if you are from kota coaching !!
eye opening video for every Indian parents.
I can understand & feel each & every line brother without going Kota! That's why I didn't go there in my 11th back in 2018 ! But I shouldn't have gone to Patna also as there was casteism prevailing there in hostel & I was abused & targeted because of coming from a forward Community of Bihar
i am also a jee aspirant in kota and only one word:-
goosebumps'''''''''''''''''''
my mom always told me there was no point in stressing out yourself for things like jee or neet if the person doesn't have an innate passion for it. she told me to study how i wanted to, just with sincerity. my dad had always been the same too. my parents never even told me to choose the science stream, they said it's my life and i should take responsibility for it. because in the end it's me who has to live it, not them.
right now I'm pursuing btech from a normal college but it's so satisfying because it was my own decision for my own carrer and life.
The way he explained the things is amazing..and well edited.
Maturity is when you realise -- youtube free teachers are better then paid once ........... peace CA finalzzz
Edit - OMG thanks for so many likes
Truth spoken
Sach me RUclips classes bahut accha hi
Agreed with you
Yes...I refer Prateek Jagati in CA Final for same😂
bhai me fail tha accounts me aur compart me bhi...next year 1 saal ke gap me dobara paper dia 95/100 aae h sunil panda sir ki wajah se ....me jis ttn me pdhta tha wha to bss bhed bakri wala hisab tha 1500 fees thi accounts ki per month aur jab mne youtube se sunil sir se pdha to acha score kia
Thank you so much Mr Aaditya saini sir .this vedio is very useful for students as well as their patients
Such a great mind opening video.. totally agreed to this. Every parent should see this video and accept the harsh reality
I am very proud of my parents . They never ever forced me to do something, instead whenever i failed i felt depressed they were there to support me & my struggles. They never get worried about neighbours child instead more focused on what I wanted to achieve ❤❤
Being a student of unacedemy ....I had purchased the package for their great content its not about my fav teachers ....and I had completed almost one and half year on that platform but there are no any single educators who told that medical and engineerings is the only options in spite of that they only encourage us to comfortably learn and be a good human towards ur society and for ur family thats it life is not only about higher degrees and higher paded jobs its just how you use ur times .....use ur time effectively all the things goes well ....❤
Their are soo many other option opt for them if everyone wants to become doctor and engineer then who will become Autowala, Chaiwala, Scientist, Architecturist,
@@RikMahantachaiwala ...ye b no scope in market...... panipuri wali b aa gyi hai
My parents know what I am capable of and just let me do what I do, just a few suggestions and that's it, I just realised I have barely taken any stress about studies, feels good, thanks mom
What do you do?
Like as in studies or some work?
@@Sunscreenbee currently I am unemployed
Prepareing my govt job exam before my BSC result comes in
FIRST n FOREMOST.....it's the PARENTS that need to be counselled!!
As a teacher and a parent I am confidently saying this .
Parents-WAKE UP!
or
CHILL!!!
Your role would be crucial/vital in putting an end to this insanity.
i am a 90s born , but my parents never force me to do anything , even not in high school , they are so much supportive ... they always said me u do what u like .. 💛
I liked the conclusion part. There are many videos on RUclips about this topic , but yours is the most obvious and true one.
This channel is 💎 .
Most of the problems he is addressing that are there and it take courage to do so🫡🫡🫡
Mein ek third tire college se belong krti hu. But I will say onething it doesn't matter from which college we go at the end of the day it's us and our daily quota of learning which matters.
nahi baccha ji.... college matters....
@@arpitagarwal82 tereko puccha kya 😌😌
@@arpitagarwal82 my cousin a tier 3 college passout now working in Microsoft along with IITians 😉
@@godman6591 watchman
@@PawanSharma-yu7to 😂
Please respect alakh Pandey. sir he is a god always take alakh sir name and photo for good things only.
He is not god he is a human stop defaming god and you are no one to order someone what should they do if alakh sir is a good person then he shouldn't be afraid if someone point his name
But sir This is not only happening in coaching institutes but is also happening in school also
Teachers give their feedback only to those students who scored above 95 then what about who scored less marks
Feedback is most importantly for those students who score less but no there is a tradition and culture of every school and tution
That's the reality of the Indian education system
I am the one of the proof for this ☺️💗
in most of the cases students who scoreless marks are the one who hires those 95% scorer to work under him.
@@chintoo1981mkp of course bro you are right because most of the students studying for the marks not for acquiring knowledge from it 💭
Science is shit.
It is for slaves.
Phir woh teacher kehlna ka layak nahi....accha baccha toh khud hi padh Leta Hain...weak baccha ko padhai aur ussa improve Kara wohi asli teacher hain
Yeah in many schools high scorers get no restriction on the amount of holidays but average students do... but yeah it can be justified by the fact that average students may not be disciplined and need assistance while most of the toppers know how to be consistent and study...
Competitive exams in India are Like Cross country running in athletics in which every students runs to get into the top 3 or top 10
But hardly only some get there.😶
I'm using so much knowledge from the subjects that I had learned from my schooling years.