Does age affect love: Discussing peer dating, manipulation in retionshiops and age differences

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  • Опубликовано: 4 янв 2025

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  • @caron_sathekge
    @caron_sathekge 8 дней назад +48

    “Maturity comes with a certain level of experience” 💯

  • @SibsM93
    @SibsM93 8 дней назад +47

    Firstly, I would like to say congrats on 200k. This podcast is amazing.
    Secondly, as a 31 year old, I would like you guys to chill. Putting timelines on momentus life events is detrimental sometimes. Sometimes things don't work according to our timelines. We're not our parents and neither are we living in the times they did. It will happen when it happens, and if it doesn't that's still okay. Many people who have started young have changed marriages and careers multiple times in one lifetime. So please take it easy, no pressure. It's still nice to aspire and work towards what you want.

  • @caron_sathekge
    @caron_sathekge 8 дней назад +24

    @24:14 “It’s not about age it’s about the portfolio of the person you’ve chosen”… What truly matters in a relationship is who the person is, and how they align with your character, beliefs, values and aspirations, and vice versa, rather than how old they are.
    With all that being said, these things really do not have a proven winning formula, hey. To each their own. The success of a relationship depends on the individuals involved.
    While societal norms may influence perceptions, as well as other external factors, the most important thing is that the relationship is built on mutual respect, love, and understanding. Foundational values such as honesty, trust, communication, etc, are essential.

  • @YeniKanime
    @YeniKanime 7 дней назад +15

    I would listen to Lebo all day

  • @genuinejay7696
    @genuinejay7696 9 дней назад +68

    Lebo is intelligent 😊

    • @motlatsi219
      @motlatsi219 9 дней назад +1

      We work for women that’s facts.

    • @musa.mgwenya_
      @musa.mgwenya_ 9 дней назад +2

      Proves it every episode ❤

    • @bevly2090
      @bevly2090 8 дней назад

      i know right

    • @kgomie._
      @kgomie._ 7 дней назад +2

      Lebo is intelligent...Thato is smart
      Very BEST COMBO 👌

  • @ruthkarabo1024
    @ruthkarabo1024 9 дней назад +25

    First time of me meeting Thato back in 2022 nd I was pregnant by that time 😊so very concerned about greeting him but once I did so.....mahn he was so friendly 😅even gave me a hug with that big belly nd I can testify for him, he's an gentleman ❤❤

  • @diamondmokoteli1951
    @diamondmokoteli1951 9 дней назад +33

    Lebo"that just broke my heart a little bit cause I basically just asked him where do you see me mentally and he said 21"🤣😂😂😂

  • @SiphesihleAnderson
    @SiphesihleAnderson 9 дней назад +71

    Yeyy finally we are on 200k subscribers🔥♥️🎉. Congratulations fam!!!♥️

  • @keogh_xo
    @keogh_xo 6 дней назад +12

    Thato has been realising this entire episode😂

  • @Trav.Sim20
    @Trav.Sim20 9 дней назад +19

    I missed the bros. Lebo keep ya head up ,it's only just the beginning💯💯

  • @denzelraedani
    @denzelraedani 9 дней назад +5

    It is always a fruitful episode hearing from your maturity (both of you mark to 100% tops),
    and thanks for carrying me throughout the year mentally, indeed you guys are such good young influentials.
    Congrats to 200k subs 🎉🔥🔥

  • @caron_sathekge
    @caron_sathekge 8 дней назад +6

    @41:39 ba re “He doesn’t even know how to groom”😂😭

  • @tsana__m
    @tsana__m 8 дней назад +8

    Lebo please consider psychology 😭you too good

  • @Puuuurr
    @Puuuurr 8 дней назад +6

    That lays ad was funny 🤣🤣🤣

  • @PotsisoMudzusii
    @PotsisoMudzusii 9 дней назад +12

    I thought you’ll upload in January 😂
    Thank you❤️❤️

  • @bevly2090
    @bevly2090 8 дней назад +2

    You guys are so knowledgeable, it helps that you are so open minded.

  • @leratothulo6546
    @leratothulo6546 9 дней назад +20

    Shooting my shot 🙈
    Hey, Thato😊.
    Really having hard conversations that get us thinking. After all, God did say “It is not good for man to be alone; I will make him a helper...for me this goes for both genders. That's why we yearn for companionship.
    Lebo has valid points on having kids young but in the same breath. We need to enjoy the marriage for 2 years nyana because once we bring a human on earth there's no going back.
    But on that note, nice one guys 💃🏾

  • @hopesibede694
    @hopesibede694 9 дней назад +6

    Be well in the name of the lord
    I think it comes with age. I’m 25 too and it’s tough . Wanna settle, wanna be financially stable kuri I wanna be relaxed

  • @Crush_Yesizwe
    @Crush_Yesizwe 9 дней назад +6

    I really enjoy watching your podcast man, you're so matured and funny at the same time😊❤. "200k" subscribers😮🎉🎉.....

  • @mphorakodi7347
    @mphorakodi7347 9 дней назад +3

    I absolutely enjoyed this episode. 😭😂Please y'all are too funny. Lebo is so wise!

  • @pinkhappynesslady5331
    @pinkhappynesslady5331 9 дней назад +4

    Congratulations on 200k subscribers Thato ❤❤
    We so proud of you

  • @ayanda_magele
    @ayanda_magele 7 дней назад +3

    I missed Seated so much, I really enjoyed the podcast❤

  • @rorisangtsoeu253
    @rorisangtsoeu253 3 дня назад

    Now guys u were starting to be in Ur bag at 47:00 minutes of the show. Love this....by the way um not waiting for the podcast to end....um engaging as I listen

  • @Simthandile-cb6bb
    @Simthandile-cb6bb 7 дней назад +6

    Lebo😭❤️ I think he is the one I was crying for in hospital the day I was born 🫦❤️

  • @lethokuhlethwala3565
    @lethokuhlethwala3565 9 дней назад +3

    I was hoping to see y’all ❤

  • @rorisangtsoeu253
    @rorisangtsoeu253 3 дня назад

    Guys 😂. .. this is niiice....as much as I can see or feel it's a lil above u guys....I love this.

  • @Nhlonipho_presh
    @Nhlonipho_presh 5 дней назад

    Absolutely loved this conversation, it's so necessary

  • @nelisaashtonmagenu293
    @nelisaashtonmagenu293 4 дня назад +1

    Lebo was spitting okay!! ❤💯🔥

  • @bunnyyakhe3560
    @bunnyyakhe3560 9 дней назад +1

    🎉🎉🎉200k finally ❤congratulations

  • @lucricia_mokgolo
    @lucricia_mokgolo 9 дней назад +3

    Interesting topic.

  • @t.p6837
    @t.p6837 9 дней назад +7

    more depth needed for this episode, the tangent after "how are you" was good although the main conversation was lost.
    quality episode nonetheless.🥤

    • @monicamei_
      @monicamei_ 7 дней назад +1

      My thoughts exactly.
      They were missing depth in the first part because they were tiptoeing around the topic, which is understandable because it’s a very delicate conversation. They definitely made up for that in the second half though, thoroughly enjoyed the rest of the episode.

  • @snenhlanhlamashile6398
    @snenhlanhlamashile6398 7 дней назад +1

    Love the lays ad😂❤

  • @tshepisomokoka7532
    @tshepisomokoka7532 9 дней назад +1

    Wonderful podcast, top 2 in my year🎉

  • @theendlovusisters
    @theendlovusisters 9 дней назад +3

    Just what I needed

  • @zainRaphael
    @zainRaphael 9 дней назад +8

    where’s the how are you??😭

  • @zandicarter5113
    @zandicarter5113 9 дней назад +3

    7:50 i hear Lebo's chat. I hear my 30+ year old friends hating on 20 y/o girls.. truth is they were also young and acted the same 😂

  • @solongsummer
    @solongsummer 6 дней назад +2

    The chat about having children is terrifying. I would love to get married but kids??!
    That's a different story. Children are too permanent for my liking. Especially as a woman? Motherhood seems so difficult.

    • @amandamasanabo8415
      @amandamasanabo8415 4 дня назад

      The permanency part neh! The most frightening part of them all 😢

    • @solongsummer
      @solongsummer 3 дня назад +1

      @amandamasanabo8415 Terrifying!! 😭

  • @mokobakiwendy9706
    @mokobakiwendy9706 8 дней назад +2

    Lebo is so funny😂😂😂❤

  • @JuanSibiya
    @JuanSibiya 5 дней назад

    S/O for another great episode majitas❤

  • @boitumelomogashoa7543
    @boitumelomogashoa7543 9 дней назад +9

    200k subscribers!!🎉 Congratulations 🥳🥂

  • @rorisangtsoeu253
    @rorisangtsoeu253 3 дня назад

    Guys. When u meet the one....No1 will tell you. U will know....might be after a year after this Podcast or a month....Buh u will know. I enjoyed guys thank You....just dt it was funny to re live my life again around the same age as u guys are....aaargh man was nice

  • @zethumasuku
    @zethumasuku 6 дней назад

    Wat a great topic ❤

  • @katlehomathe937
    @katlehomathe937 8 дней назад +2

    “ we are not our age, we are our energy “ You can find a young man who is in his masculine energy and is a leader and protector. But we draw the line at minors, that’s statutory grape.

  • @lithaloyiso1689
    @lithaloyiso1689 7 дней назад

    34:58 the Air BnB is giving Diddy party 🎉😂😂

  • @KamoEverythingSA
    @KamoEverythingSA 8 дней назад

    5:23… so according to my hangover memory, I think the good age to marry is when you start dating them. And what I mean is that…, whenever you set a certain age you’d want to marry someone, let it be someone you haven’t dated. It saves a lot of headaches 😅!
    My sober mind is thinking 28 for gents and 25 for ladies.

  • @The_Third_Place
    @The_Third_Place 9 дней назад +2

    these boys are so sass sometmes, but i like it😂

  • @itskay6328
    @itskay6328 7 дней назад +1

    Nice one guys😍
    As we wait for 14 December 2025❤😅

  • @SansonMargaret
    @SansonMargaret 9 дней назад

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  • @JuanSibiya
    @JuanSibiya 5 дней назад +1

    Lebo lowkey zesty 😭

  • @rorisangtsoeu253
    @rorisangtsoeu253 3 дня назад

    Guys I Looove the Attempt.... honestly....Buh this conversation was/ is above you...OR I think U went on it with just one direction....BUT I Looove the Attempt. This is nooot to take a knock.. Buh to keep it real ...I think it was not done justice interns of perspective

  • @Jabril_Jr
    @Jabril_Jr 9 дней назад

    Can you guys drop on as majita as well 😅

  • @GracefulYvonne
    @GracefulYvonne 8 дней назад +1

    Is there a voice note option?😅😂
    This topic requires verbal communication.

  • @Nhlonipho_presh
    @Nhlonipho_presh 5 дней назад +1

    42:26😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @agnesaggy1571
    @agnesaggy1571 3 дня назад

    Yes Lebo, everyone else is going through something, even the bible actually talks about that in 1 Peter 5:9, but God is faithful.
    Wishing you both a blessed New Year!🎉

  • @Khanzzzzz
    @Khanzzzzz 9 дней назад +6

    That age gap math between Thato and his ex? Aowa👀

    • @lethabos1
      @lethabos1 7 дней назад +2

      There’s nothing wrong with it.

  • @KatekaneShilenge-n7q
    @KatekaneShilenge-n7q 9 дней назад

  • @bayabongantombela1168
    @bayabongantombela1168 9 дней назад +1

    First comment

  • @nompumelelonxumalo4348
    @nompumelelonxumalo4348 9 дней назад +1

    200K subbies well doneee🥹❤️🥰💯😍🔥!

  • @faithfulcooks2965
    @faithfulcooks2965 8 дней назад