She speaks so well & rather convincing, however I have learned that many women especially those with decent education can speak & articulate themselves like her & you'll be sold a dream... NEVER ever listen to what women say, rather pay attention to what women RESPOND to, it is NEVER about what they say but what they do, or most importantly what they'd rather do.
@@ninobrown1309 that was my thought from the first words she said I judged her purely on how outspoken and sounds educated. Don't get me wrong I love an intelligent woman but not those who will use sarcasm, big words and are very open minded. She can say everything and sound convincing.
She's not wrong! She's speaking as an audience of society and not as something she believes or holds value on! She's going to go over a lot of people's heads
@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI just because YOU understand it, doesn't mean others do! And rocket science is simpler and straightforward compared to human social dynamics...
A high value person( Man or Woman)is one who compliments your values. It could be money, culture, religion etc.. The problem comes when there is a mismatch in values and we end up invalidating each others values.
I absolutely understand her perspective and if you are someone who doesn't understand satire, sarcasm and understanding what society believes in and stand for, you'll miss it. She speaks for what society stands for but personally not what she believes in. ❤
Money is an amplifier to the man's value he is tall, he is smart, he is driven, he is physically attractive, he is a leader, and on top of it all he has money = high value men.
As far as I'm concerned, whether rich or not...women are loyal to their feelings, it's all about how she feels about you. If she's feeling you then 80% of your work is done.
Run awayfrom that kind of woman, because in the long run, feelings change. And that means her feelings for you will change. So, maybe your work isn't all that done after all.
@NikoBednego This chick doesn't know what she's talking about. Even in the traditional African society a man had to have money, CATTLE were the MEANS OF EXCHANGE. A man without cattle was nothing! There were mocked in songs and sayings! Miriam Makeba once sang a song about a man who didn't have CATTLE, there's a saying ubuhle bhe donda inkomo zayo! A high value man had CATTLE. Also, upon marriage he was allocated LAND (a place to build a house, and a plot for the wife to cultivate). Women could only access land through MEN. Once they got married, the land became the woman's property. The man could not evict her or bring another woman to her land. The land was allocated that way (through men), to make marriage attractive to women, lunyalo is HARD, giving birth is not a joke, *women die in child birth.* The ilobola in the form of cattle and land were a way to thank the woman for putting her life on the line to extend the man's lineage. If you listen to this episode in full, you'll see this chick is all over the place. In one breathe she claims she's a rebel and doesn't like traditions. The next minute she says she values a man who can SLAUGHTER... isn't slaughtering a sacred part of iSiNtu? In that episode she goes further to say, that parents too were young and got up to shenanigans, but they become conservative with age. It's clear she's confusing TRADITION and being CONSERVATIVE. There's a difference between being a mature, sober parent, and practicing traditions. Her opinions are just that opinions; and like assh@les, everyone has one. These are the kind of conversations we end up hiring subjected to when people who have littie or no understanding of African socio economic political history sit down to talk.
This chick doesn't know what she's talking about. Even in the traditional African society a man had to have money, CATTLE were the MEANS OF EXCHANGE. A man without cattle was nothing! There were mocked in songs and sayings! Miriam Makeba once sang a song about a man who didn't have CATTLE, there's a saying ubuhle bhe donda inkomo zayo! A high value man had CATTLE. Also, upon marriage he was allocated LAND (a place to build a house, and a plot for the wife to cultivate). Women could only access land through MEN. Once they got married, the land became the woman's property. The man could not evict her or bring another woman to her land. The land was allocated that way (through men), to make marriage attractive to women, lunyalo is HARD, giving birth is not a joke, *women die in child birth.* The ilobola in the form of cattle and land were a way to thank the woman for putting her life on the line to extend the man's lineage. If you listen to this episode in full, you'll see this chick is all over the place. In one breathe she claims she's a rebel and doesn't like traditions. The next minute she says she values a man who can SLAUGHTER... isn't slaughtering a sacred part of iSiNtu? In that episode she goes further to say, that parents too were young and got up to shenanigans, but they become conservative with age. It's clear she's confusing TRADITION and being CONSERVATIVE. There's a difference between being a mature, sober parent, and practicing traditions. Her opinions are just that opinions; and like assh@les, everyone has one. These are the kind of conversations we end up hiring subjected to when people who have littie or no understanding of African socio economic political history sit down to talk. A man must provide period
The thing is, we have changed the actual definition of love for the past 100+/- years because nowadays everyone has a different definition of love kantsi the oldest definition of love was duty to family, society & the human race which was in line with the laws of nature. We could blame a lot of propaganda eg. Disney but to take accountability as humans we need to accept that we let it happen from the beginning to this day.
The belief in materialism in our society is deeply rooted. Thanks God reason have began to protest against many of the old Ideas of how a man is to be defined. But, (& I think most people will agree with me here) that enough time haven't yet passed for most of the old Ideas associated with the concept "Man" to be completely un-rooted in our society!
Well said! A high value man had CATTLE. Also, upon marriage he was allocated LAND (a place to build a house, and a plot for the wife to cultivate). Women could only access land through MEN. Once they got married, the land became the woman's property. The man could not evict her or bring another woman. The land was allocated that way, to make marriage attractive to women, lunyalo is HARD, giving birth is not a joke. The ilobola and cattle were a way to thank the woman for putting her life in the line to extend the man's lineage.
@Nthando Well said! This chick doesn't know what she's talking about. Even in the traditional African society a man had to have money, CATTLE were the MEANS OF EXCHANGE. A man without cattle was nothing! There were mocked in songs and sayings! Miriam Makeba once sang a song about a man who didn't have CATTLE, there's a saying ubuhle bhe donda inkomo zayo! A high value man had CATTLE. Also, upon marriage he was allocated LAND (a place to build a house, and a plot for the wife to cultivate). Women could only access land through MEN. Once they got married, the land became the woman's property. The man could not evict her or bring another woman to her land. The land was allocated that way (through men), to make marriage attractive to women, lunyalo is HARD, giving birth is not a joke, *women die in child birth.* The ilobola in the form of cattle and land were a way to thank the woman for putting her life on the line to extend the man's lineage. If you listen to this episode in full, you'll see this chick is all over the place. In one breathe she claims she's a rebel and doesn't like traditions. The next minute she says she values a man who can SLAUGHTER... isn't slaughtering a sacred part of iSiNtu? In that episode she goes further to say, that parents too were young and got up to shenanigans, but they become conservative with age. It's clear she's confusing TRADITION and being CONSERVATIVE. There's a difference between being a mature, sober parent, and practicing traditions. Her opinions are just that opinions; and like assh@les, everyone has one. These are the kind of conversations we end up hiring subjected to when people who have littie or no understanding of African socio economic political history sit down to talk.
Lol I have no issue with what she is saying. She is telling it like it is! In an ideal world a man's character should be valued, but we don't live in an ideal world. Chris Rock said it best. "A man is only loved unconditionally based on the notion that he can PROVIDE (have money). Only a woman and a child are just automatically loved unconditionally".
@@SabeloTyutu I'm shocked people want to debate this. It's just facts. Money is the new God. It has always been, but now it's worse with the invention of social media and stuff.
No it's actually fortune because imagine if we as men we're evaluated purely based on how strong we are and how smart we are. It gives weak dummies with money a chance at mating because if this was the Stone age most boy and men these days would be screwed. I'd go from having 3 girlfriends to 56 girls because the rest only have money and nothing else.
That's why men are pressed to go thwala coz of these views. Ive seen a lot of man with money not getting genuine love. People place value on any unmet needs but ke, everyone has a partner. Choose who you like
Having a relationship has never been so complicated. So many attractive people are struggling to sustain a decent relationships ... "no romance without finance"!
A high value man is one who is aware of his intrinsic boundaries and sticks to them, irrespective of the circumstances. He usually doesn't know nor care about such status, since this label is placed on him by those observing him with admiration.
The reason why we don't snitch on our married friends has nothing to do with them "buying" us alcohol. The actual reason is that we know you're still gonna go back to them either way. In fact, it is better to mind your business and not snitch because why should we bother stressing ourselves about our friends cheating on their partners? 😂😂
Value has got nothing to do with respect. I can pay someone's fees so that they better their life,even if they don't respect me,I'm still valuable to them. So being respected because you have money even if you don't change people's lives can't be valuable.
So Drug Cartels, human traffickers, hit men etc are high value men? I wonder what will be the new "high value man" when we finally reduce poverty and hunger in this country. Sies man
Do not confuse money with the actual wealth. The world rewards value with money, but that doesn't mean a man with money is in reverse doing something valuable.
If a man comes to you,as young ladies you have right to say no.with money or not involved in a situation. Some people they just don't have morals anymore.
Value is subjective to each individual. In the dating market , a woman would prioritize money above other qualities if her basic needs have not been met. She’s looking for survival. Once those basic needs are met , value becomes about compatibility and companionship. Hence a woman like Rihanna is able to date Asap Rocky , who makes way less money than her .
Listen with an intent to understand not to respond. I get her point that society places high value in money. No matter how questionable a man's character may be, but if he has money, he will be respected, but if he is God fearing with no money, even ladies dont want a broke man..end of story. Society deems a high value man as a man with money. Period!!..
She’s right-nowadays, society often chases men with money, even if their character is flawed. But does wealth alone make a man valuable? If money is all he has, people may see him as a resource, not someone they truly respect. What happens if he loses it-does his worth disappear? A high-value man is more than his bank account; he has character, ambition, and purpose. Wealth without substance is like a luxury car with no engine-impressive but empty.
Money is no doubt important. But nothing good including money is sustainable without sustainable spirituality. So a high value man should be a man with sustainable spiritual freedom which is the basis of all freedom.
"a high value man is a man with money period" waze wabheda umuntu wesifazane - a drug dealer is a high value man? a hitman inkabi is a high value man? a women trafficking man is a high value man?rich corrupt politician is a high value man? WHAT IS VALUE Kanti? That why we suffer from Moral fabric decay in our societies, our women value money!And we wonder why GBV, corruption, drug addiction is so prevalent. Perpetrators are given high status by young beautiful women.
But then again according to her it's not that's not a man with value ,she's speaking to how society typically how women respond nowadays. Clearly you listened by didn't understand.
According to Noxolo Mhlongo, a high value man is a man with money. Girl we value a man who fears God. Yes money has value but where it comes from has more value ausi.
@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI keep drowning in a useless delusion! I take life for what it is. This woman is correct. Modern women today would rather be number 7 to a multi millionaire, Than be one of one to a plumber. MONEY IS KING!
So, male drug dealers are high value men. Society is bull. She is talking truth, though Although a man is a man out his own volition, money will always follow, as to how much 🤷🏻♂️
It's saddening to see so many women out there being utter morons by chasing other people money instead of working for their own money. God have mercy. Our society is sick to the core.
Why would you allow society to influence your belief in an aspect of life? What you believe is a value of life for you should help you define what a high valued man is or what a high valued thing is… I define myself as a high valued man and this is why. I love God,I love people, I love to see people make progress. I work hard to change the state of my life. I am passionate about making positive impact in the life of people around me. Define values for yourself and you will know what is a high valued man to you.
@@franklanga1406 this is all good and well dear bretheren, until you step into the world today and realise that without money, all that means nothing to the women of today. She did say the things she values being culture, good parenthood, selflessness... She merely highlighted what's hot on the market today. MONEY!!!
It is all relative.Old women care more about money above looks and confidence nd her background is also important.Young girls that grew up good tend to care more about your looks,confidence nd getting a good time out of a guy.
She speaks so well & rather convincing, however I have learned that many women especially those with decent education can speak & articulate themselves like her & you'll be sold a dream... NEVER ever listen to what women say, rather pay attention to what women RESPOND to, it is NEVER about what they say but what they do, or most importantly what they'd rather do.
Word. how can we get your podcask
@VirtueDesignStudio-g5k what's a podcask?
Facts.
Maybe he meant podcast..@@ninobrown1309
@@ninobrown1309 that was my thought from the first words she said I judged her purely on how outspoken and sounds educated. Don't get me wrong I love an intelligent woman but not those who will use sarcasm, big words and are very open minded. She can say everything and sound convincing.
A high value man is a man who fears God, with money or no money as long as you have the fear of the lord you are a high value man.
Rubbish 🚮.
The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. I totally agree. High value man is a wise man❤
Whether you fear God or not as long as you don't have money , you are invisible to majority
I disagree
@@simonboyane1140Absolute eubbish
😂 during 20s its all about looks, in 30s its about money.
@@sbonisomvelase5413 😂🤣
It's true ppl value money than integrity,or principles so yah it's high time we acknowledge Dat we are a mess as a society
Kodwa akukhonakali ukuthi singaba nemali sonke ..ngabe lokhu kuchazani masiyaphambili...
Thank you
She spoke nothing but the truth, men with money are valued more and they can get almost any woman they want.
Even fools have money, trust me.
No doubt😂 but they are still highly valued by the opposite gender
Too many fools run the game.
She's not wrong! She's speaking as an audience of society and not as something she believes or holds value on!
She's going to go over a lot of people's heads
@@neosindane8958 it's not rocket science really. Chill.
@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI just because YOU understand it, doesn't mean others do!
And rocket science is simpler and straightforward compared to human social dynamics...
Facts
I'm impressed by her
A high value person( Man or Woman)is one who compliments your values. It could be money, culture, religion etc..
The problem comes when there is a mismatch in values and we end up invalidating each others values.
I absolutely understand her perspective and if you are someone who doesn't understand satire, sarcasm and understanding what society believes in and stand for, you'll miss it. She speaks for what society stands for but personally not what she believes in. ❤
RIP Kevin Samuels. The Godfather will live forever.
1969 - ♾
The Godfather will always be in our heart!!
❤
"Put yourself last" That's genuine humility.
Big up, Noxolo👊
How can a woman tell another man what a man is.
Yeah, I get your point but what she's saying is the reality of things rn in the world.
@jamesyankins6429 If that's so then you don't know your role as a man
She's actually describing to another man how women in society would define a high value man.
She's speaking the unfortunate truth that women will be with a man and even if he has good qualities,if money is lacking,she's dipping.
Because men need women.
And women need men.
So we must know what the other wants so they can find each other.
We should not pay attention to what women say they want, we should pay attention to what they respond to
@@mogaukarabotau4515 facts
And yet, men with money are struggling to find true high value women. Also, look at the divorce rates amongst men who are rich.
You're coping, have money first..
@jamesyankins6429 it will make no difference. Look around you and learn.
They deserve it they marry slay queens
@@georgek626 Will Smith
Because money get money after divorce
A High Value Man is defined by what individual women love to see in the men they want. Period.
Thank you ❤💯 exactly
And women who want to build families would take a rich man over an average man
Nah she's a real one I won't lie she's the best, she makes me have hope in humanity again...❤❤❤😂
Or it could be just words...
Let's hear the man or men who had the privilege of being in a relationship with her. He/They can give better insight as to whether she is best.
@@MuzorewaRatshikuni Yeah that's true, because majority of the time what they say is different from what they do...😂😂😂
Money is an amplifier to the man's value he is tall, he is smart, he is driven, he is physically attractive, he is a leader, and on top of it all he has money = high value men.
As far as I'm concerned, whether rich or not...women are loyal to their feelings, it's all about how she feels about you. If she's feeling you then 80% of your work is done.
@@saitamadecember2806 facts
Real talk 💯
100%
Run awayfrom that kind of woman, because in the long run, feelings change. And that means her feelings for you will change. So, maybe your work isn't all that done after all.
@@MuzorewaRatshikuni yeap, feelings are indeed fickle. Especially women's feelings. Stay focused gents.
100% spot on, she aint lying 😂😂😂😂.....Power to this lady❤❤❤❤
I love women that speak the truth.
I'm really impressed by her
@@tembelabee I love anyone who understands nuance. Things are really not binary, especially when you talk about human beings and emotions...
Good fearing and how he treats you, ability to provide
Financially, emotionally etc
Very doomed society we live in and the reason why many of ur woman got caught up and end up been killed of been owned rather than been Loved
@NikoBednego This chick doesn't know what she's talking about. Even in the traditional African society a man had to have money, CATTLE were the MEANS OF EXCHANGE. A man without cattle was nothing! There were mocked in songs and sayings! Miriam Makeba once sang a song about a man who didn't have CATTLE, there's a saying ubuhle bhe donda inkomo zayo!
A high value man had CATTLE. Also, upon marriage he was allocated LAND (a place to build a house, and a plot for the wife to cultivate). Women could only access land through MEN. Once they got married, the land became the woman's property. The man could not evict her or bring another woman to her land. The land was allocated that way (through men), to make marriage attractive to women, lunyalo is HARD, giving birth is not a joke, *women die in child birth.* The ilobola in the form of cattle and land were a way to thank the woman for putting her life on the line to extend the man's lineage.
If you listen to this episode in full, you'll see this chick is all over the place. In one breathe she claims she's a rebel and doesn't like traditions. The next minute she says she values a man who can SLAUGHTER... isn't slaughtering a sacred part of iSiNtu? In that episode she goes further to say, that parents too were young and got up to shenanigans, but they become conservative with age. It's clear she's confusing TRADITION and being CONSERVATIVE. There's a difference between being a mature, sober parent, and practicing traditions.
Her opinions are just that opinions; and like assh@les, everyone has one. These are the kind of conversations we end up hiring subjected to when people who have littie or no understanding of African socio economic political history sit down to talk.
This chick doesn't know what she's talking about. Even in the traditional African society a man had to have money, CATTLE were the MEANS OF EXCHANGE. A man without cattle was nothing! There were mocked in songs and sayings! Miriam Makeba once sang a song about a man who didn't have CATTLE, there's a saying ubuhle bhe donda inkomo zayo!
A high value man had CATTLE. Also, upon marriage he was allocated LAND (a place to build a house, and a plot for the wife to cultivate). Women could only access land through MEN. Once they got married, the land became the woman's property. The man could not evict her or bring another woman to her land. The land was allocated that way (through men), to make marriage attractive to women, lunyalo is HARD, giving birth is not a joke, *women die in child birth.* The ilobola in the form of cattle and land were a way to thank the woman for putting her life on the line to extend the man's lineage.
If you listen to this episode in full, you'll see this chick is all over the place. In one breathe she claims she's a rebel and doesn't like traditions. The next minute she says she values a man who can SLAUGHTER... isn't slaughtering a sacred part of iSiNtu? In that episode she goes further to say, that parents too were young and got up to shenanigans, but they become conservative with age. It's clear she's confusing TRADITION and being CONSERVATIVE. There's a difference between being a mature, sober parent, and practicing traditions.
Her opinions are just that opinions; and like assh@les, everyone has one. These are the kind of conversations we end up hiring subjected to when people who have littie or no understanding of African socio economic political history sit down to talk.
A man must provide period
Say that again
The thing is, we have changed the actual definition of love for the past 100+/- years because nowadays everyone has a different definition of love kantsi the oldest definition of love was duty to family, society & the human race which was in line with the laws of nature. We could blame a lot of propaganda eg. Disney but to take accountability as humans we need to accept that we let it happen from the beginning to this day.
True
Problem with men is you want to hear about what a man is from women.
Women aren’t the only 1s telling us that rich men are valued higher than average joes. Even men do it
She is telling the truth hey. And also if you don’t have money , women will say you’re not a ‘real man’ . Even your own family will disrespect you
Resourcefulness, daptability, and integrity.
I can see that people can't differentiate between a high value men and a good men.
She gives me hope.... that not everyone is lost
High value man is a man with money and he doesn't beg a woman or chase women.
She makes a true and valid point.
She’s so beautiful and smart.. ❤️
The belief in materialism in our society is deeply rooted. Thanks God reason have began to protest against many of the old Ideas of how a man is to be defined. But, (& I think most people will agree with me here) that enough time haven't yet passed for most of the old Ideas associated with the concept "Man" to be completely un-rooted in our society!
She’s not lying. Men with money are valued way more than average Joe’s, it’s always been like that and will forever be like that
i like how she speaks.
Even men prefer to associate with fellow men who have money
Ubuhle bendoda inkomo zayo!
Well said! A high value man had CATTLE. Also, upon marriage he was allocated LAND (a place to build a house, and a plot for the wife to cultivate). Women could only access land through MEN. Once they got married, the land became the woman's property. The man could not evict her or bring another woman. The land was allocated that way, to make marriage attractive to women, lunyalo is HARD, giving birth is not a joke. The ilobola and cattle were a way to thank the woman for putting her life in the line to extend the man's lineage.
@Nthando Well said! This chick doesn't know what she's talking about. Even in the traditional African society a man had to have money, CATTLE were the MEANS OF EXCHANGE. A man without cattle was nothing! There were mocked in songs and sayings! Miriam Makeba once sang a song about a man who didn't have CATTLE, there's a saying ubuhle bhe donda inkomo zayo!
A high value man had CATTLE. Also, upon marriage he was allocated LAND (a place to build a house, and a plot for the wife to cultivate). Women could only access land through MEN. Once they got married, the land became the woman's property. The man could not evict her or bring another woman to her land. The land was allocated that way (through men), to make marriage attractive to women, lunyalo is HARD, giving birth is not a joke, *women die in child birth.* The ilobola in the form of cattle and land were a way to thank the woman for putting her life on the line to extend the man's lineage.
If you listen to this episode in full, you'll see this chick is all over the place. In one breathe she claims she's a rebel and doesn't like traditions. The next minute she says she values a man who can SLAUGHTER... isn't slaughtering a sacred part of iSiNtu? In that episode she goes further to say, that parents too were young and got up to shenanigans, but they become conservative with age. It's clear she's confusing TRADITION and being CONSERVATIVE. There's a difference between being a mature, sober parent, and practicing traditions.
Her opinions are just that opinions; and like assh@les, everyone has one. These are the kind of conversations we end up hiring subjected to when people who have littie or no understanding of African socio economic political history sit down to talk.
Ok
Kha u caze, kusho ukuthini lokhu?
@@MuzorewaRatshikuni gold digger lingo maybe.
She said what every women needs
A high value man is a man with God 🙏 klar
Lol I have no issue with what she is saying. She is telling it like it is! In an ideal world a man's character should be valued, but we don't live in an ideal world. Chris Rock said it best. "A man is only loved unconditionally based on the notion that he can PROVIDE (have money). Only a woman and a child are just automatically loved unconditionally".
IT'S SO RARE TO FIND A BEAUTIFUL HONEST WOMAN LIKE HER . she has a conservative mindset . Which focus more on reality rather than in feelings .
Heres a woman saying a high value man is a man with money and we expect women to love us for who we are and not what we have 😂😂😂.
Dankie baby girl, money truth hurts, money is Power.
@@SabeloTyutu I'm shocked people want to debate this. It's just facts. Money is the new God. It has always been, but now it's worse with the invention of social media and stuff.
She's right. It's not unfortunate. It is what it is.
No it's actually fortune because imagine if we as men we're evaluated purely based on how strong we are and how smart we are. It gives weak dummies with money a chance at mating because if this was the Stone age most boy and men these days would be screwed. I'd go from having 3 girlfriends to 56 girls because the rest only have money and nothing else.
It has nothing to do with money but everything to do with greediness from our families and society.
Yep she's correct
High value man is a man who has money and doesn't use it to chase women and is a man who takes responsibility for himself or family.
❤
That woman speaks the truth period
That's why men are pressed to go thwala coz of these views. Ive seen a lot of man with money not getting genuine love. People place value on any unmet needs but ke, everyone has a partner. Choose who you like
Yepp
Having a relationship has never been so complicated. So many attractive people are struggling to sustain a decent relationships ... "no romance without finance"!
She's right, it's money first and other things last. We live in a capitalist society and money is what our society puts first above all other things.
She's so correct 100% sisiza
Wow my dear sis. Im glad i continued listening. I almost 😂
Shiiiiid! I judged before I listened and then decided to listen and I saw she’s a smart one. 😅
The way you present yoo losisi😮
She is speaking facts❤
Wow... Astounding statement 💥💥
❤ she is trueing 😂 honestly she is telling the truth 🤞
Why would u ask a Low value women that?
I know people with money, but they get no respect.. they just losers with money
💯
A high value man is one who is aware of his intrinsic boundaries and sticks to them, irrespective of the circumstances. He usually doesn't know nor care about such status, since this label is placed on him by those observing him with admiration.
The reason why we don't snitch on our married friends has nothing to do with them "buying" us alcohol. The actual reason is that we know you're still gonna go back to them either way. In fact, it is better to mind your business and not snitch because why should we bother stressing ourselves about our friends cheating on their partners? 😂😂
Value has got nothing to do with respect. I can pay someone's fees so that they better their life,even if they don't respect me,I'm still valuable to them. So being respected because you have money even if you don't change people's lives can't be valuable.
She is beautiful and have a beautiful mind
So Drug Cartels, human traffickers, hit men etc are high value men? I wonder what will be the new "high value man" when we finally reduce poverty and hunger in this country. Sies man
"ukhethi mali over assets awukacavi nex" - Touchline🔥
So a man that has the KEY to the root of all evil?
Wise 👀
Noxolo mhlongo umfazi period ❤❤
This thing about woman loving money so much that they see value in dumn man... The reality is most women loves money more then everything period.
At least she's being honest about her views.
Its the world we live in🤞🏾
She's saying what she doesn't want in a man, not what she wants.
Toxic.
Makes sense the most desirable man is a man with money
She is the real one ☝🏿
Do not confuse money with the actual wealth. The world rewards value with money, but that doesn't mean a man with money is in reverse doing something valuable.
If a man comes to you,as young ladies you have right to say no.with money or not involved in a situation. Some people they just don't have morals anymore.
Very true...
Value is subjective to each individual. In the dating market , a woman would prioritize money above other qualities if her basic needs have not been met. She’s looking for survival. Once those basic needs are met , value becomes about compatibility and companionship. Hence a woman like Rihanna is able to date Asap Rocky , who makes way less money than her .
Period! The end! High value man is a man with money and influence and power.
She's king👑💯
Manjomane❤
She is right thou in actuality,only few tolerate man with no money.
She speaks well I hope she gets the man she wants if she doesn't have him in her life already.. Before I wrote this I was judging her
Penu Likes this one!
Listen with an intent to understand not to respond. I get her point that society places high value in money. No matter how questionable a man's character may be, but if he has money, he will be respected, but if he is God fearing with no money, even ladies dont want a broke man..end of story. Society deems a high value man as a man with money. Period!!..
She’s right-nowadays, society often chases men with money, even if their character is flawed. But does wealth alone make a man valuable? If money is all he has, people may see him as a resource, not someone they truly respect. What happens if he loses it-does his worth disappear? A high-value man is more than his bank account; he has character, ambition, and purpose. Wealth without substance is like a luxury car with no engine-impressive but empty.
Money is no doubt important. But nothing good including money is sustainable without sustainable spirituality. So a high value man should be a man with sustainable spiritual freedom which is the basis of all freedom.
"a high value man is a man with money period" waze wabheda umuntu wesifazane - a drug dealer is a high value man? a hitman inkabi is a high value man? a women trafficking man is a high value man?rich corrupt politician is a high value man? WHAT IS VALUE Kanti? That why we suffer from Moral fabric decay in our societies, our women value money!And we wonder why GBV, corruption, drug addiction is so prevalent. Perpetrators are given high status by young beautiful women.
But then again according to her it's not that's not a man with value ,she's speaking to how society typically how women respond nowadays. Clearly you listened by didn't understand.
I agree with you
According to Noxolo Mhlongo, a high value man is a man with money.
Girl we value a man who fears God.
Yes money has value but where it comes from has more value ausi.
Facts
A man who fears God but has no money is problematic
shes speaking from a societal perspective...and she's right.
This is so sad.
In this rotten world it may be true. It's a sad reality when you don't have money nobody notices you in this world not even your family.
from 5:00 onwards spot on👌🏾
Isfebe kuphela esazi lento oyishoyo sisi 😂 edit... ay i like izinto ozishoyo after d high value man talk 😅 good girl ❤ ay good girl futhi ngempela 😊
There are no levels. We are all the same.
Money is the new God 💯 now more than EVER! Money is KING!
@@MentalFacility-u7o get some help. Jesus Is King. God is Power forever.
@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI keep drowning in a useless delusion! I take life for what it is. This woman is correct. Modern women today would rather be number 7 to a multi millionaire, Than be one of one to a plumber. MONEY IS KING!
@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI keep drowning in a useless delusion. I take life for what it is. Money is KING.
@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI yeah right nikka! D3lusion type sh1t.
@JHB_Boy_ZAJOZI lol.
I like the truth on this one.
So, male drug dealers are high value men. Society is bull. She is talking truth, though
Although a man is a man out his own volition, money will always follow, as to how much 🤷🏻♂️
I like the man who will see admire the beauty when the see one.but not act on the thoughts in their head.
@@rosinamogano9545 I have a bridge to sell you. Interested?
That counts me out... I cannot kill a goat, cow or a chicken.😭
Well said dadewethu
It's saddening to see so many women out there being utter morons by chasing other people money instead of working for their own money. God have mercy. Our society is sick to the core.
She's the type of woman we need in our society rn💯
Why would you allow society to influence your belief in an aspect of life?
What you believe is a value of life for you should help you define what a high valued man is or what a high valued thing is…
I define myself as a high valued man and this is why.
I love God,I love people, I love to see people make progress. I work hard to change the state of my life. I am passionate about making positive impact in the life of people around me.
Define values for yourself and you will know what is a high valued man to you.
@franklanga1406 facts, bro. Real facts.
@@franklanga1406 this is all good and well dear bretheren, until you step into the world today and realise that without money, all that means nothing to the women of today. She did say the things she values being culture, good parenthood, selflessness... She merely highlighted what's hot on the market today. MONEY!!!
It is all relative.Old women care more about money above looks and confidence nd her background is also important.Young girls that grew up good tend to care more about your looks,confidence nd getting a good time out of a guy.