Julia's more patient than I'd be... that girl was TRYING her and I'm going to assume she was using the language barrier/ cultural differences in her favor to be passive aggressive and SHADY.
the girl got off the situation on mercy and unscratched if it was me, hell will break free and she will def get what shes asking for and that is infront of her new BF and *i assume* ex-bf which is my husband. NEVER will i ever believe that she and brandon is just "friends" her face says it all and like shes waiting for julia to confront her by triggering her.
I don't care....this was about her health. Maybe he is the will and hoping he gets to America and the money. Not the Michael that seemingly was a true gentleman....He lost that....what is confusing?!!?!!!?! Her boobs are smaller yet still large and she is in a better health condition.
I just want to say that Angela is a toral hypocrite for flirting with her surgeon . If Angela knew that Mike did this, she would have gone insane , cuss him out and threaten to call off the marriage . Treat people how you want to be treated . Smh .
And "this girl" SHOULD. She is a friend. And Julia is...who? A "bar dancer who was looking for ANYONE " to get her to the fame and US? You watch how this Jlia will leave him and make it everyone's fault. Without earning a dime on her own.
@@suesue3548 a bar dancer who is his wife regardless. Bet you’re one of those nosey annoying friends who butt in where they don’t belong. She is his EX that’s the problem, his ex stirring the pot and telling her stories of them being together to upset her then telling her she isn’t normal and she’s using him in a public space while her husband sits there like an idiot.
@@gomezk1493 he is an idiot, here you are right. He is an idiot for marying her. Idiots also have this kinda friends- same like his wife- bossy, annoying and uninvited with their opinion. He got taken advantage by this "today wife tomorrow ex" AND by his friends- both getting on their ego trip isn't an accident.
Brandon should have stopped his ”friend” and not let her talk to his wife like that, questioning her intentions. Julia and Brandon love each other. I understand that Julia was upset. Who the f-ck is that girl to question their marriage?!?!?!
Lose the weight first. Then do the fine tuning. WAIT? He just said she’s still a triple DDD?! Girl I’m 5’ 8” 119 lbs & I’m 34a. I’m flat AF! I hated it most my life, but it blows my mind how much value people put on something as superficial as breast size. You get older. Your body changes. I’m terminally ill at 40. Trust me ... TITS MEAN NOTHING IN THE BIG PUCTURE. Health does.
@ Natalie Rozean You are very beautiful, regardless of breast size. You are right, the size is not important, health is everything. I am so sorry about your diagnosis.
I mean... For the Dr to take twice as much tissue without her permission was kinda shady and they do look flat as hell right now, but like he said once she loses the weight they will look bigger.
He's a doctor he knows what he's doing. He studied about it and did a lot of it before. There are still a few surgeries to come! Don't focus on the present, focus on the goal!
Yeah, they'll definitely look bigger as she loses more weight. If she didn't have the breast reduction before losing the weight, it would've put too much strain on her back, which most likely would've caused her a lot of back pain down the road.
I had a breast reduction before and they always have to take a certain amount off and if they can take more to make your quality of life better? Hell yeah
Brandon yelled at her in front of his “friends” & told her she wasn’t normal. When a spouse turns on you & sides with other people who don’t matter, that’s a huge red flag for your future. I’ve been there & am divorced now.
I find it interesting that a lot of people (like that host in the tell all) seem to blame most issues on the non Americans. Like... That was rude, that girl knew that.
Brandon has no back bone he never sticks up for her, he just sits with a stupid grin and a mouth full of teeth. She tells it as she she sees it watch out Brandon man up,Julia has a very strong personality,good for her,.don't let anyone hold you back.
I agree with you but Julia is a little entitled too. She lives on the farm with the family for FREE. If she doesn’t want to feed cute animals (that would be my preferred job!!!) then she could offer to cook or clean or contribute to the household some other way. She also needs to control her psycho temper - she easily could have turned the line of questions back onto the friend about her own relationship when she realized her ball-less husband wasn’t going to defend her. Instead, she made herself look bad by storming off. I’m NOT defending Brandon or his family AT ALL but Julia chose to stay with this guy even after he showed her what he and his nutty parents are all about. Deal with it Julia, you’re married now.
@Jenete j I didn’t say she HAD to feed the animals if it’s not her thing. She needs to contribute in some way to the family. Maybe you should work on your reading comprehension skills before you come at me spewing your own agenda.
@@fluffytail6355 I agree ,if you are staying with family or friends, help where you can, don't even ask just do it out of common decency, it is the right thing to do.
@@anaboescu7520 sadly even very educated men feel like they can comment and diss women's bodies without a glimpse of guilt. They have always been told it was ok to do so ...
I mean, I would be very upset that my partner isn’t happy with their body’. And their body was mistreated by the doctor. His reaction makes sense. It’s a lot to take in.
I think that is very true! That might sound funny, but it is all he ever talks about and I known a few men in my 59 years that would have left over a breast size. It was the one thing he could brag about to his friends
That doctor was a hack. He said triple d then he said double d. Dishonest and immoral, she didn’t look good after the surgery. Looked more like a mans pecks than breast.
Honestly…..I think the doctor didn’t take responsibility for his mistakes too….he said he’d take out a pound and took out double….I would expect the doctor to have some compassion s not laugh when the patient isn’t happy with it
I bet he screwed up one of them and had to go back in and take more from the other to make them even. Or the mistake happened on both breasts. He could be sued for doing more than what she payed for.
He's never been happy with her body from the day he met her. Now she tries to fix herself because she thinks it will keep him from sleeping around n lusting after other women in front of her. It's better for her health. That's alot of surgery at one time. Kinda scary
@@icantwiththis he said it as a matter of fact, not as an insult. There is a difference. When she mentioned getting weight loss surgery, he was pretty clear that he loved her body the way it was.
@@quintong55 exactly your right I don't think he didn't like how she look. Because african men love their women at any size, maybe he wasn't expecting to see her look that old. But I do believe he actually love to see her
Why the hell doesn't Brandon's friends boyfriend just sit there while she throws her self at Brandon and disrespect the shit out of him. Horrible all around
Yea he did. But the thing is, SHE WASNT HAPPY in her skin. And also she said her breasts were hurting her back. I think also some insecurity about other young females.
He wants a baby n the only way IVF has any chance of working she has to loose weight simple... what's more important a baby/happy healthy wife or his own personal preferences I say good on Angela for choosing her own health and happiness
@@djregina6897 I think Angela would've complained either way but.... if he left the extra pound on them he could've easily reduced them more! She is used to big breasts that's a big transition
@@natinapowell7990 Back to back to back surgeries aren't a great idea. Sometimes doctors just know better. When I had a breast augmentation, I asked the doctor for 700ccs and he said it was too big for example. We settled on 650 and I ended up with 560 just because he through it was just too big and would give me back problems. Sometimes you just have to let them do their job, they know better.
Screw what Michael says. I'm glad to see Angela doing this weight loss and breast reduction. Once she is well, can you imagine how much ease will be on her back. And when the rest of her body goes back down, the breast will appear larger.
I understand how Michael feels. He loved her exactly how she was. And then all of a sudden without him being there, she makes dramatic changes to herself. And all of a sudden he just has to except it. Why? This is not the same person he fell in love with. I actually think Angela looked better before. Ok for health reason s I think they found a few hernias. Those should be removed. But 5 surgeries in one day is a big change. Micheal has the right to express how he feels over his wife and her choices.
Julia,s patience did go down on me, and Brandon, her husband didn’t do anything to stop that silly jealousy girl from intruding into him and his wife’s life. But I was happy that Julia, told her off at last and left with her husband. The way they talk about this green card of a thing to foreigners, as if Green card can resurrect a dead person. Once you are from another country, to any other country, you need a form of identification, why all the noise as if you can win 100,000 dollars from green card.
So Melanie wanted Brandon and is pissed that the "nice guy" she friend zoned and kept on the back burner got married. I would be and have been way more rude to random friends who disrespect me, my husbands wife. I trump his friends. He trumps mine. Simple as that.
Yea, those are liberties you should not take..this sh*t isn't free & when a doctor screws up they expect you to pay to fix their mistakes, its not like a plumber, if he messes up he fixes it free of charge & I think its dirty customer service that doctors don't do the same, esp for what they charge! & they screw up a lot!
i’ve heard multiple times especially with breast augmentations that the doctor will typically disclose that if along the way they see that in their professional opinion it will be better for their health/skin/tissue/etc to do a different route it is a possibility and they have the authority to do so. I think if the breast are too heavy it can cause a lot of health/medical problems. I’m sure she was aware of this being a possibility it just didn’t seem likely (:
@@ronnie2699 we saw her post surgery, things change so much in a couple of months and truly start to settle! i’ve had a surgery & the comparison from the day after to now (6 months later) is immensely different
Brandon’s friend was definitely very opinionated and didn’t have to voice as much as she did .. Julia had a right to be upset. It’s their relationship what’s done is done leave it at that
Michael have his reason. To go to America. Unfortunately, it will not happen. Regarding baby, Angela cannot have the baby for him. All is on the table. Michael have to accept or move on. True its Michael choice but he have made the wrong choice. His eyes and mind are only into Angela boops. Michael didn't deep dive in . Look into the facts and reality. Am sorry for Michael. He should have choose a Nigerian woman. Fit him perfectly.
Michael, my advice to you is, quit the dream of being with Angela, you are a young guy, and you seem to be a very humble, loving man. Be yourself and move on this is not what you want. I wish you good luck in search for your dream woman.
Actually, it's a very normal reaction when a couple goes through a reduction. Women even go through dismorphia and depression after the surgery. Even when I went through a bilateral mastectomy, my husband and I were told that a lot of men have a negative reaction when seeing their wife. A large change in someones body can be a shock, but a good husband gets over it and works through it.
Ladies!! I get wanting your husband to accept your body whether you gain or lose weight. BUT! normally that happens over time. A change that occurs over night takes some time to get used to, especially when the thing that changed is one of your favorite sexual parts of your partner. Also this was on FaceTime so it wasnt getting an accurate picture lol.
@Monica Lovely well obviously we didn’t see the whole conversation so you have no idea what questions he may have asked about her health. Secondly, you missed the point of my comment.
I admittedly got lipo and a tuck because body insecurities, and it took a few weeks feeling depressed and rethinking "I spent so much saving and I don't look different... Did I spend so much, just to be in pain?" It took a few months to heal, but I feel sooo much better about myself. To be fair, the doctors did tell me that I wouldn't see any effects from the surgery too quick. I spent a few weeks with regret but everything else since, I'm cool with my choice. Just some info about cosmetic surgery from someone who did it.
Michael deserves to be upset. He told Angela she was perfect the way she was, he loved her. Angela is the one who did what ever she wanted, no matter how Michael felt. Yes it is her body, but she spent money on surgeries that Micheal wanted to use for Children. Give Micheal a break.
I’m a woman and I understand the man liked his woman the way she was! What a terrible guy 😂 the audacity to accept his girl as she was and to feel some type of way because she altered it lol
I don’t believe that because when she met Michael he said that he didn’t realize how old and fat she was because she was using filters in her pictures she was sending him
Why did Angela the breast surgery before losing weight?! How can they know how her body will look like after she will lose weight... Michael was confused by the result, but initially she also thought her breast looks smaller then she wanted.
lots of people have to do breast surgery to help with their exercise and neck pain, etc. I know other people that have gone through this. The giant breasts aren't ideal and causes lots of pain to their back and neck.
It's actually sad. I'm scared her breasts will shrink to nothing as she loses weight. Because that's what happens. You gain some weight your breasts get bigger...you lose some weight and they shrink again. They should have waited until after she's lost weight to perform the surgery
I can understand Julia feeling. Melanie is very kind with her advice. Unfortunately, yes it's messy. This is their first meeting, Julia and melanie. Should not have this conversation. All the negative talk should not be on the table. Never give opinion , suggestions and do not get involve in someone relationship.
Melanie was not giving kind advice. She was pulling a nasty jealous move on purpose. She just wanted to show her ass to Julia and make her feel insecure that Brandon would listen to her over his wife, and Brandon showed that he doesn't stand up for his wife. I felt bad for Julia. LOL, if some chick would have attempted to do this with me, she would have maybe gone home with a black eye. 😂
Dr. Obeng literally screwed up and is really out there trying to make it seem okay by saying that Michael should love her for her mind and not her body💀✋🏻
Helen, of course I know that. I was telling someone that there are several countries, languages, tribes, ethnicities in Africa, because that person made a general statement about Africa. Individual factors are always there in addition to those ethnic, linguistic, tribal factors. Of course. You really should be responding to that person and not me lol.
His friend is a trouble maker walk away from your so called friend Brandon. If she really cared about you she would never try to cause a problem In your relationship.
Let’s be clear he didn’t want her to have surgery that’s why his reaction was that he’s literally being walked on 24/7 she spent their equal money on HERSELF she’s selfish,cruel and verbally abusive
Firstly everyone says he wanted her for her money now he has proved he likes her body and everyone wants him to like her mind seriously 😒 he can like what he wants she likes his body
Well she went to get a Breast Reduction...The Doctor took out more than they discussed..Sometimes it's good to ask your guy what he likes..He may have liked her perfectly as she was...Some Men dont want their wives changing too much about themselves.. and never tell them to do such a thing....Women fall into Peer pressure Sometimes to have surgery to try to enhance or youthful themselves..There are other things one can do....that perhaps may be better..The Weight loss stuff is to better her overall health.
Yea, Michael liked her just as she was... but Angela was insecure about her weight & so she did it for herself, the contraindication is that she claims its about her health but yet still smokes & eats crap will only make the health part a lie..but I'm not saying she won't change those attributes, time will tell.
I don't think he said anything too bad. Imagine you love a part of your partner and they make a change? Obviously you would be a bit disappointed or unhappy about it. I think the initial reaction doesn't matter as much as the subsequent reactions 🤷🏾♀️. He was shocked the first time but I think he would subsequently get used to it. Y'all are definitely overreacting.
Is it normal protocol to get a breast reduction BEFORE bariatric surgery and not after? Just seems like getting it done after you’ve lost some weight so you know the right proportions would be a good idea? I also feel like if the doctor TOLD her he was only taking a pound out of each breast but took double, that is unethical. If he felt like she needed more removed he should’ve been up front with her and told her that and told her what to expect. Informed consent is so important when having surgery!
Michael clearly stated that he didn't want the surgery, and also we know he is a big boobs man. Since she had all these insecurities why didn't she do it before the wedding, then he would have known if he wanted to marry her still, but even more importantly, people should fall in love with their partner's personality and know, outward look is just a plus. He reaction was really poor, even though Angela's behavior is horrible almost all the time, she definitely did deserve that, nobody does.
Here's the thing with the boobs. I have breast implants. I was 120lbs when I got them and to me they were on the bigger side. Now... 2 years ago I was in a bad car accident where my leg was destroyed. I couldn't walk for almost a year and with that I gained like 20lbs.... My boobs look smaller than before when I was 20lbs lighter..but when I lose the weight it will go back to normal. So that's why it can be confusing when you get a breast reduction when you have a lot of fat
Literally love the Host, she speaks what’s on my mind with everyone.
Yea she doesnt sugar coat anything
I wish she hosted the Tell Alls. 😭
Yessss when Brandons friend was basically describing herself hahaha, I love that she called it out!
Me too! I was thinking the same thing exactly! Lol
@@MrsSZim m0
Julia's more patient than I'd be... that girl was TRYING her and I'm going to assume she was using the language barrier/ cultural differences in her favor to be passive aggressive and SHADY.
I'd have definitely not had patience for that!
She would have had to catch them hands if it was me. Julia probley saw that coming thats why she left them on scene.
The girl was right
I’m sorry but if I was greeted by my high school friend’s new wife THIS way, I’d be 100% worse than this girl.
the girl got off the situation on mercy and unscratched if it was me, hell will break free and she will def get what shes asking for and that is infront of her new BF and *i assume* ex-bf which is my husband. NEVER will i ever believe that she and brandon is just "friends" her face says it all and like shes waiting for julia to confront her by triggering her.
😩😩 y’all we’ve seen how Angela acts toward Michael all these years, he deserves to act up at least once 😒😒
I don't think she can handle it if he has any opinion other agreeing with her.
@@lavendersunday8712 right 💯
Exactly lol how she acts and hes always just taken it
I don't care....this was about her health. Maybe he is the will and hoping he gets to America and the money. Not the Michael that seemingly was a true gentleman....He lost that....what is confusing?!!?!!!?! Her boobs are smaller yet still large and she is in a better health condition.
@@BrandyD1777 jajajajajaja dude chill
I just want to say that Angela is a toral hypocrite for flirting with her surgeon . If Angela knew that Mike did this, she would have gone insane , cuss him out and threaten to call off the marriage . Treat people how you want to be treated . Smh .
Total *
Exactly this!
True
Man Michael didn’t even wait till the drugs wore off to say his opinion 🤣🤣🤣
Michael is one of Those names that always confuses me on the proper spelling.
Hes African
A lot of African men loves big breast thou
A lot of African men loves big breast thou
In general yes .
African's fancy big heavy women with super huge boops.
That's the culture.
Julia didn't over react that girl knew exactly what she was doing.
I would have cussed her out!
And "this girl" SHOULD. She is a friend. And Julia is...who? A "bar dancer who was looking for ANYONE " to get her to the fame and US? You watch how this Jlia will leave him and make it everyone's fault. Without earning a dime on her own.
@@suesue3548 a bar dancer who is his wife regardless. Bet you’re one of those nosey annoying friends who butt in where they don’t belong. She is his EX that’s the problem, his ex stirring the pot and telling her stories of them being together to upset her then telling her she isn’t normal and she’s using him in a public space while her husband sits there like an idiot.
@@gomezk1493 he is an idiot, here you are right. He is an idiot for marying her. Idiots also have this kinda friends- same like his wife- bossy, annoying and uninvited with their opinion. He got taken advantage by this "today wife tomorrow ex" AND by his friends- both getting on their ego trip isn't an accident.
Brandon should have stopped his ”friend” and not let her talk to his wife like that, questioning her intentions. Julia and Brandon love each other. I understand that Julia was upset. Who the f-ck is that girl to question their marriage?!?!?!
Now she needs to carry a purse for her cigs,lighter,phone,keys,wallet etc..O Angela 😂
That's why she is mad lol!
🤢 lmao you’re so right. I hate when people pull their IDs out their big ole titties and then hand it to me
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 this was a good comment😂😂😂 i didn't think about the cigarettes🤦🏽♀️😅
Now she can just wear her old bras and fill them up with everything that she used to put in a purse
@@texasgina 😂 You are correct LoL
When she loses weight they will match her body. Trust me.
Lose the weight first. Then do the fine tuning. WAIT? He just said she’s still a triple DDD?! Girl I’m 5’ 8” 119 lbs & I’m 34a. I’m flat AF! I hated it most my life, but it blows my mind how much value people put on something as superficial as breast size. You get older. Your body changes. I’m terminally ill at 40. Trust me ... TITS MEAN NOTHING IN THE BIG PUCTURE. Health does.
You know she's gonna complain about everything. She knows best...
@ Natalie Rozean You are very beautiful, regardless of breast size. You are right, the size is not important, health is everything. I am so sorry about your diagnosis.
If she loses weight they will match her body. Trust me.
@@natalierozean5989 praying for you gorgeous 🤗🌷🙏
It was all fat, skin and sag before. She probably looks normal now
Yeah, he put her breasts back before they sagged. Of course its shocking to her since she was use to how saggy they were before
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Shes gna just sag much more!!! Just look at her face and jaw rt now!!
@@lizacruise1869 No because he probably tightened everything up and he may have put some small implants in
Exactly! There's no way those things pre-op were attractive. Ugh...
Brandon has No backbone and his "friend" still holds a flame for him.
Hi beautiful
I mean... For the Dr to take twice as much tissue without her permission was kinda shady and they do look flat as hell right now, but like he said once she loses the weight they will look bigger.
He's a doctor he knows what he's doing. He studied about it and did a lot of it before. There are still a few surgeries to come! Don't focus on the present, focus on the goal!
Angela is wearing a post-surgical ace bandage as a COMPRESSION garment! Do you understand what COMPRESSION means??
Yeah, they'll definitely look bigger as she loses more weight. If she didn't have the breast reduction before losing the weight, it would've put too much strain on her back, which most likely would've caused her a lot of back pain down the road.
I had a breast reduction before and they always have to take a certain amount off and if they can take more to make your quality of life better? Hell yeah
Melanie turned on Julia because Julia was being so rude with her jealousy
Brandon yelled at her in front of his “friends” & told her she wasn’t normal. When a spouse turns on you & sides with other people who don’t matter, that’s a huge red flag for your future. I’ve been there & am divorced now.
True " when a spouse turns on you the future is unsettling by going up against you with your friends or family!
Glad I dodged that sht
Sorry about that!
You right, though
Most definitely. When he dismissed her and said, “anyway...” He’s such an asshat and so is his “friend.” I think TLC brought her in for added drama.
She yelled at him and not taking his side and agreeing with him many times
Julia was acting just fine with how she was just treated. Brandon’s “friend” was overstepping her place and being completely out of line.
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Maturity means you don’t overreact to “friends” like this. If Brandon wanted her, he would have chosen her. 🤷♀️
Agree
I find it interesting that a lot of people (like that host in the tell all) seem to blame most issues on the non Americans. Like... That was rude, that girl knew that.
Melanie and Julia look very much alike. Julia had every reason to be pissed.
Brandon has no back bone he never sticks up for her, he just sits with a stupid grin and a mouth full of teeth. She tells it as she she sees it watch out Brandon man up,Julia has a very strong personality,good for her,.don't let anyone hold you back.
I agree with you but Julia is a little entitled too. She lives on the farm with the family for FREE. If she doesn’t want to feed cute animals (that would be my preferred job!!!) then she could offer to cook or clean or contribute to the household some other way. She also needs to control her psycho temper - she easily could have turned the line of questions back onto the friend about her own relationship when she realized her ball-less husband wasn’t going to defend her. Instead, she made herself look bad by storming off.
I’m NOT defending Brandon or his family AT ALL but Julia chose to stay with this guy even after he showed her what he and his nutty parents are all about. Deal with it Julia, you’re married now.
@Jenete j I didn’t say she HAD to feed the animals if it’s not her thing. She needs to contribute in some way to the family. Maybe you should work on your reading comprehension skills before you come at me spewing your own agenda.
@@fluffytail6355 I agree ,if you are staying with family or friends, help where you can, don't even ask just do it out of common decency, it is the right thing to do.
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when the doctor said Michael has to learn to love Angela for her personality, I burst out laughing 😂
I don’t know why men think it’s okay to just make hurtful comments about a woman’s body so carelessly vice versa.
He is not very educated thats why
@@anaboescu7520 sadly even very educated men feel like they can comment and diss women's bodies without a glimpse of guilt. They have always been told it was ok to do so ...
I mean, I would be very upset that my partner isn’t happy with their body’. And their body was mistreated by the doctor. His reaction makes sense. It’s a lot to take in.
She had it coming.
He’s honest. That’s an important attribute
Y’all got to give Michael a break... that was probably the one single quality attracting him to Angela and now it’s gone 🤣😂🤣
I think that is very true! That might sound funny, but it is all he ever talks about and I known a few men in my 59 years that would have left over a breast size. It was the one thing he could brag about to his friends
LOOL
If she stops her Marlboro habit her breathing will be even better!
Facts were just spoken. She went about this whole thing wrong as hell.
It's like the surgeon was laughing what he done to piss michael off
My thoughts exactly....
He married her to come to USA..." now he complains!
And rightfully so....He was worried about her health not her physical attributes
That doctor was a hack. He said triple d then he said double d. Dishonest and immoral, she didn’t look good after the surgery. Looked more like a mans pecks than breast.
Julia you have every right to feel the way you do! Clearly Melanie is more than just a “friend”.... there’s definitely some history there.
Honestly…..I think the doctor didn’t take responsibility for his mistakes too….he said he’d take out a pound and took out double….I would expect the doctor to have some compassion s not laugh when the patient isn’t happy with it
I bet he screwed up one of them and had to go back in and take more from the other to make them even. Or the mistake happened on both breasts. He could be sued for doing more than what she payed for.
@@kittycat8222 Exactly!
@@kittycat8222 sounds like a very possible situation to me. Either way, he should be more empathetic to his patients...especially if it’s his fault!
He's never been happy with her body from the day he met her. Now she tries to fix herself because she thinks it will keep him from sleeping around n lusting after other women in front of her. It's better for her health. That's alot of surgery at one time. Kinda scary
I actually disagree. He has always said he loves her big boobs and big women in general.
He called her fat I remember
@@icantwiththis he said it as a matter of fact, not as an insult. There is a difference. When she mentioned getting weight loss surgery, he was pretty clear that he loved her body the way it was.
@@quintong55 but that doesn't change how it made her feel when he said it
@@quintong55 exactly your right I don't think he didn't like how she look. Because african men love their women at any size, maybe he wasn't expecting to see her look that old. But I do believe he actually love to see her
Poor Michael won’t be able to pull on ‘em like he likes. 😂💀
Not pull em! 💀
Yeah he won’t be able to use them as a pillow, tie them in a Knott and throw them over her shoulder
I don't understand can you please explain
@@texasgina 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
STOP
"Here's how to know when you're in a good relationship, when it makes you feel better about yourself, not worse." -Judge Faith Jenkins
Hello dear 💔💔❤️❤️💞
YALL Angela looks bomb!!! She’s so beautiful im glad she’s getting healthy
Can i marry you?
Hi beautiful
Why the hell doesn't Brandon's friends boyfriend just sit there while she throws her self at Brandon and disrespect the shit out of him. Horrible all around
But he just liked Angela the way she was.
Yea he did. But the thing is, SHE WASNT HAPPY in her skin. And also she said her breasts were hurting her back. I think also some insecurity about other young females.
He wants a baby n the only way IVF has any chance of working she has to loose weight simple... what's more important a baby/happy healthy wife or his own personal preferences I say good on Angela for choosing her own health and happiness
Yes but he should have been supportive in that moment because this is about her health right now, not what he likes.
@@02loud some men can’t pretend that quick. Lol.
@@quintong55 😂😂
Julia had every right to be upset. Brandon was horrible.
The doc should've never took off an extra pound after the patient clearly told him 1lbs to remove not 2lbs! I definitely would've been mad!
Sometimes ,they just know better. She would of complained of the sag after she loses the weight.
@@djregina6897 I think Angela would've complained either way but.... if he left the extra pound on them he could've easily reduced them more! She is used to big breasts that's a big transition
1.5 pounds better
@@pavy415 Are you a doctor?
@@natinapowell7990 Back to back to back surgeries aren't a great idea. Sometimes doctors just know better. When I had a breast augmentation, I asked the doctor for 700ccs and he said it was too big for example. We settled on 650 and I ended up with 560 just because he through it was just too big and would give me back problems. Sometimes you just have to let them do their job, they know better.
Screw what Michael says. I'm glad to see Angela doing this weight loss and breast reduction. Once she is well, can you imagine how much ease will be on her back. And when the rest of her body goes back down, the breast will appear larger.
She always can get an AfroAmerican Man no need to be si de chick neither come back Nigeria. Divorce and forget Michael!!!
@@girisha_laxmi11 i totally agree! 💯 Facts!
Angela looks amazing and should be proud of the new and healthier woman she is!
Brandon's friend should know her place. That was pretty rude. Brandon didnt stand up for her...
Julia was 100% . That girl wanted to start some drama tho
I understand how Michael feels. He loved her exactly how she was. And then all of a sudden without him being there, she makes dramatic changes to herself.
And all of a sudden he just has to except it. Why? This is not the same person he fell in love with. I actually think Angela looked better before. Ok for health reason s I think they found a few hernias. Those should be removed. But 5 surgeries in one day is a big change. Micheal has the right to express how he feels over his wife and her choices.
Exactly. These people are overeacting. It was a normal reaction
Julia,s patience did go down on me, and Brandon, her husband didn’t do anything to stop that silly jealousy girl from intruding into him and his wife’s life. But I was happy that Julia, told her off at last and left with her husband. The way they talk about this green card of a thing to foreigners, as if Green card can resurrect a dead person. Once you are from another country, to any other country, you need a form of identification, why all the noise as if you can win 100,000 dollars from green card.
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Didn't Melanie's boyfriend feel upset hearing the "omg so much memories,we stayed up all night" part? Because I would.
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Brandon didn’t act right , what a “husband” and that friend 🙃🙄 don’t even get me started
Brandon stand up for your wife.
Melanie's boy friend seems to be like someone she just paid to show up.
So Melanie wanted Brandon and is pissed that the "nice guy" she friend zoned and kept on the back burner got married.
I would be and have been way more rude to random friends who disrespect me, my husbands wife. I trump his friends. He trumps mine. Simple as that.
Absolutely
Why would the doctor take out two pounds if they already agreed to one pound 😑 sue him... because that's not ok.
Yes, what he did is not cool.
Yea, those are liberties you should not take..this sh*t isn't free & when a doctor screws up they expect you to pay to fix their mistakes, its not like a plumber, if he messes up he fixes it free of charge & I think its dirty customer service that doctors don't do the same, esp for what they charge! & they screw up a lot!
i’ve heard multiple times especially with breast augmentations that the doctor will typically disclose that if along the way they see that in their professional opinion it will be better for their health/skin/tissue/etc to do a different route it is a possibility and they have the authority to do so. I think if the breast are too heavy it can cause a lot of health/medical problems. I’m sure she was aware of this being a possibility it just didn’t seem likely (:
@@mariaasmrr I understand but he could have left a little more boob than that...
@@ronnie2699 we saw her post surgery, things change so much in a couple of months and truly start to settle! i’ve had a surgery & the comparison from the day after to now (6 months later) is immensely different
Brandon should have left this poor girl alone in her country instead of asking for a marriage he doesn't want
He just wanted guaranteed booty and that’s the only reason he’s married
The boyfriend keeps looking at her Like..."Is there something WE need to talk about " as she describes his type 🤣🤣
Brandon’s friend was definitely very opinionated and didn’t have to voice as much as she did .. Julia had a right to be upset. It’s their relationship what’s done is done leave it at that
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If Julia doesnt have friends here yet I volunteer to go with her to fight her lmao I know she can whoop her
I wish I had supportive person like when I was with my ex
So many his friends was against me that time
When have Angela & Michael ever been happy?
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Right? Lolll
I fully agreed.
Michael have his reason.
To go to America.
Unfortunately, it will not happen.
Regarding baby, Angela cannot have the baby for him.
All is on the table.
Michael have to accept or move on.
True its Michael choice but he have made the wrong choice.
His eyes and mind are only into Angela boops.
Michael didn't deep dive in .
Look into the facts and reality.
Am sorry for Michael.
He should have choose a Nigerian woman.
Fit him perfectly.
Poor Michael doesn’t even have a right to his own opinion around this overbearing woman
I'm thinking Michael meant he doesnt see a big enough difference to go through with all this. Michael is a great guy.
i read a comment that said “melanie’s boyfriend is basically a rock” and i can’t get that out of my head
I'd go with "brick" instead.
@@sethzwicker3631 he do be useless
If I were Julia, I’d a slapped Melanie off her chair!
Michael, my advice to you is, quit the dream of being with Angela, you are a young guy, and you seem to be a very humble, loving man. Be yourself and move on this is not what you want. I wish you good luck in search for your dream woman.
Melanie was acting up for the cameras 🙄
The doctor said 1 lb each and took 2 lbs. He lied. Doctor's shouldnt lie to a patient. Ever.
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Melanie knew exactly what she was doing. The boyfriend didn't even try to defend her?
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@@stewartjohn9406 who..me?
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Actually, it's a very normal reaction when a couple goes through a reduction. Women even go through dismorphia and depression after the surgery. Even when I went through a bilateral mastectomy, my husband and I were told that a lot of men have a negative reaction when seeing their wife. A large change in someones body can be a shock, but a good husband gets over it and works through it.
Speaking up would require a spine which he doesn’t have
Ladies!! I get wanting your husband to accept your body whether you gain or lose weight. BUT! normally that happens over time. A change that occurs over night takes some time to get used to, especially when the thing that changed is one of your favorite sexual parts of your partner. Also this was on FaceTime so it wasnt getting an accurate picture lol.
@Monica Lovely well obviously we didn’t see the whole conversation so you have no idea what questions he may have asked about her health. Secondly, you missed the point of my comment.
Not smoking helps one breathe
I admittedly got lipo and a tuck because body insecurities, and it took a few weeks feeling depressed and rethinking "I spent so much saving and I don't look different... Did I spend so much, just to be in pain?" It took a few months to heal, but I feel sooo much better about myself. To be fair, the doctors did tell me that I wouldn't see any effects from the surgery too quick. I spent a few weeks with regret but everything else since, I'm cool with my choice. Just some info about cosmetic surgery from someone who did it.
The “preach doctor obaine” part🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lmaoo if that makes her happy then he should be supportive
Michael deserves to be upset. He told Angela she was perfect the way she was, he loved her. Angela is the one who did what ever she wanted, no matter how Michael felt. Yes it is her body, but she spent money on surgeries that Micheal wanted to use for Children. Give Micheal a break.
Her chest was collapsing her lungs and restricting her breathing
@@foxed9970 no smoking was doing that. Smokeing and arguing with everybody.
I’m a woman and I understand the man liked his woman the way she was! What a terrible guy 😂 the audacity to accept his girl as she was and to feel some type of way because she altered it lol
She's trying to make Michael the bad guy 🤷♂️
I don’t believe that because when she met Michael he said that he didn’t realize how old and fat she was because she was using filters in her pictures she was sending him
She was overweight tho and unhealthy. If you love someone, you should want them to be healthy
Angelena (whispering) : where's mike
Doc(yelling) Hes in Nigeria LAGOS.
😂😌.
Me all of 2021: “I’m just so confused about everything”
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Guys this is doctor that solved the glorilla glue gel is dope.
Huh??.
Really!
Angela always threatens him with divorce, that's hella tiring
mmm melanie still has a thing for brandon I see.
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I just realized this doctor was the doctor who saved the gorilla glue girl!
Michael is just terrible.
cs he liked his woman the way she was before
What the doctor did was not legal … to agree to removing 1lb each and then doubling that … Angela should have legal recourse if she wanted.
Why did Angela the breast surgery before losing weight?! How can they know how her body will look like after she will lose weight... Michael was confused by the result, but initially she also thought her breast looks smaller then she wanted.
lots of people have to do breast surgery to help with their exercise and neck pain, etc. I know other people that have gone through this. The giant breasts aren't ideal and causes lots of pain to their back and neck.
It's actually sad. I'm scared her breasts will shrink to nothing as she loses weight. Because that's what happens. You gain some weight your breasts get bigger...you lose some weight and they shrink again. They should have waited until after she's lost weight to perform the surgery
Brandon had never stand up for her as girlfriend and he will not stand up for her as a wife ,I live with some one like this
I can understand Julia feeling.
Melanie is very kind with her advice.
Unfortunately, yes it's messy.
This is their first meeting, Julia and melanie.
Should not have this conversation.
All the negative talk should not be on the table.
Never give opinion , suggestions and do not get involve in someone relationship.
Melanie was not giving kind advice. She was pulling a nasty jealous move on purpose. She just wanted to show her ass to Julia and make her feel insecure that Brandon would listen to her over his wife, and Brandon showed that he doesn't stand up for his wife. I felt bad for Julia. LOL, if some chick would have attempted to do this with me, she would have maybe gone home with a black eye. 😂
The reason why she had the breast surgery was for beauty not back pain
Angela - “We went through hail ❄️”
melicia went offffff i’m so happy. julia was made out to be the crazy one when that girl was clearly trying herrrrr.
Brandon should left the poor girl alone in her country instead asking for a marriage he cannot commit to.
Dr. Obeng literally screwed up and is really out there trying to make it seem okay by saying that Michael should love her for her mind and not her body💀✋🏻
Melody was being messy af.
Helen, of course I know that. I was telling someone that there are several countries, languages, tribes, ethnicities in Africa, because that person made a general statement about Africa. Individual factors are always there in addition to those ethnic, linguistic, tribal factors. Of course. You really should be responding to that person and not me lol.
His friend is a trouble maker walk away from your so called friend Brandon. If she really cared about you she would never try to cause a problem In your relationship.
I think Melony was envious she did not get to marry Brandon so she was trying to bother Julia purposely. Julia is gorgeous.
Those would be the last words that little Melanie girl ever said to my husband, because she would be gone out of our lives for eva! Bye!
Let’s be clear he didn’t want her to have surgery that’s why his reaction was that he’s literally being walked on 24/7 she spent their equal money on HERSELF she’s selfish,cruel and verbally abusive
Wtf????? This is pure malpractice by the doc, he did not address her concern but laughed and gaslight her? Wtf
My doctor did me the same way. I was completely disappointed, still am. Its actually depressing
@@AisleofCapri I am so sorry. Furious for you and very very sorry.
Thank you. I'm trying to just accept it
He is lucky he is not being sued
Melanie is being a Brat. Julia is Brandon's choice for a Wife ,so she should be Happy for him.
Firstly everyone says he wanted her for her money now he has proved he likes her body and everyone wants him to like her mind seriously 😒 he can like what he wants she likes his body
Well she went to get a Breast Reduction...The Doctor took out more than they discussed..Sometimes it's good to ask your guy what he likes..He may have liked her perfectly as she was...Some Men dont want their wives changing too much about themselves.. and never tell them to do such a thing....Women fall into Peer pressure Sometimes to have surgery to try to enhance or youthful themselves..There are other things one can do....that perhaps may be better..The Weight loss stuff is to better her overall health.
Yea, Michael liked her just as she was... but Angela was insecure about her weight & so she did it for herself, the contraindication is that she claims its about her health but yet still smokes & eats crap will only make the health part a lie..but I'm not saying she won't change those attributes, time will tell.
I don't think he said anything too bad. Imagine you love a part of your partner and they make a change? Obviously you would be a bit disappointed or unhappy about it. I think the initial reaction doesn't matter as much as the subsequent reactions 🤷🏾♀️. He was shocked the first time but I think he would subsequently get used to it. Y'all are definitely overreacting.
This surgery was a train wreck!!!
Is it normal protocol to get a breast reduction BEFORE bariatric surgery and not after? Just seems like getting it done after you’ve lost some weight so you know the right proportions would be a good idea? I also feel like if the doctor TOLD her he was only taking a pound out of each breast but took double, that is unethical. If he felt like she needed more removed he should’ve been up front with her and told her that and told her what to expect. Informed consent is so important when having surgery!
Yeah but when she loses weight she will lose weight in her breasts too. I don't understand the doctors reasoning.
Michael clearly stated that he didn't want the surgery, and also we know he is a big boobs man. Since she had all these insecurities why didn't she do it before the wedding, then he would have known if he wanted to marry her still, but even more importantly, people should fall in love with their partner's personality and know, outward look is just a plus. He reaction was really poor, even though Angela's behavior is horrible almost all the time, she definitely did deserve that, nobody does.
They get better after a while. Mine were flat. Then they got bigger. Then 30 years they are back to hanging down again.
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Angela should have chatted with him because he has a right to his opinion and if she went to have the operation behind his back
Dr Bank is the cheating doctor from Second Wives Club 💩🌚
He's also the Dr that fixed the gorilla glue chicks hair
@@juniperq4900 I don’t see him as good lol because of what he did to his wife I know it’s bias and he just laughed at Angela so still a 💩🌚😂
Here's the thing with the boobs. I have breast implants. I was 120lbs when I got them and to me they were on the bigger side. Now... 2 years ago I was in a bad car accident where my leg was destroyed. I couldn't walk for almost a year and with that I gained like 20lbs.... My boobs look smaller than before when I was 20lbs lighter..but when I lose the weight it will go back to normal. So that's why it can be confusing when you get a breast reduction when you have a lot of fat
brandon friend was bang out of order so i understand julia walking out
Thinking of all the awful things Angela has said to Michael.