Extramarital Affairs & Divorce: Unsettling Trends in Marriages;Solutions Rooted in Islam| Eram Saeed
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- Опубликовано: 5 окт 2024
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In this thought-provoking episode, we explore the alarming rise in broken marriages and the high rate of divorce in Pakistan. Our esteemed guest, Eram Saeed, a renowned personal development expert, shares her insights on how returning to Islamic principles can provide solutions to these challenges. She passionately advocates for men to fight for women's rights and support their liberation to raise an empowered generation. Eram also delves into the destructive impact of extramarital affairs and how they can be addressed within the framework of Islam. Join us for an enlightening discussion that aims to restore the sanctity of marriage and promote harmony in society.
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Israr Kasana is a senior print/TV journalist who has held several editorial and managerial positions during his career, including Executive Editor News and Current Affairs (PTV). With over 10,000 airtime hours and over 5000 articles to his credit, he has been doing morning shows and prime time shows on PTV, ARY TV and other international channels. He has been contributing for CBC and appeared on CNN as well. He started his career as a print journalist first with The Frontier Post and then The News International and has written many op-ed articles and reports. He has also written op-ed articles in Daily Jang and Daily Nawaiwaqt of Pakistan and has also authored a book titled “America”.
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I am a proud Indian practicing Muslim and I feel proud to see Muslim women such as you are.
ماشاء اللہ لا قوۃ الا باللہ، خاتون بہت سے نوجوانوں کے لیے مشعل راہ بن رہی ہیں اللَّه تعالیٰ ان کو سلامت رکھے آمین
I’m a huge fan of Eram Saeed for a while now and I became her follower when she made true sense of our beloved and beautiful religion Islam …she made people sit up and think before passing judgement on others,I agree with her that unfortunately our orthodox rotten cultural traditions have totally and completely destroyed our society because it was integrated into our religion Islam! May Allah have mercy on us and follow Islam in the true sense.
Aameen. Ty for your kind words.
She is one of the best speaker towards Islamic motivation. Ironically, our Mufties have closed the door of Ijtehad. Mufties are against Khulah/Annulment of marriage from family Courts but, they are unable to present and describe solution of such burning issues!!!
@@paaras64 because their authority and fiefdom thrives only when there's mass ignorance and slavery!
ارم سعید جیسے لوگ معاشرے کا اثاثہ ہوتے ہیں ان کے سمجھانے کا انداز بہت ہی آسان اور مفید ہے پاکستان کے تمام کالج اور یونیورسٹیز کو ان خدمات حاصل کرنی چاہیے
یہ لوگ اثاثہ نہیں کافروں کے ایجنڈے کو پھیلا رھے ھیں
No doubt
انھوں نے بہت خوب صورت باتیں کی ھیں
ہمارا سارا انحصار دعاوں پہ ہوتا ہے،عملی طور پر پہلے میں پھر ہم سب بہت نالائق ہیں، شکریہ
Very true
Thousands and Thousands joining Islam everyday
thousands and thousands are not joining Islam, Muslims are producing thousands and thousands of children every day because this is the only thing they can do
Brother Discussion is not about how many people are accepting Islam every day۔ Discussion is very serious about Muslim women who are leaving Islam bcz of Martial problems۔
Good Madam..Ghamdi sb is gem of a scolar...Glorification and revival of family values is urgency of the time
Ghamdi sahab doesnt give references very clear . I used to listen to him regularly but I realized he lacks connection. A lot of times he gives fatwas on huge issues like mortgages and loan based on his liking or his understanding only
ڈاکٹر صاحبہ اور اسرار بھائی اللہ تعالیٰ آپ دونوں کو جزائے خیر عطا فرمائے ۔ آمین
Madam is God gifted Lady..a blend of Islamic and updated values..what a scholarship she has...!!! Revival and glorification of Family values is urgency of the time..kudos for presenting masterpiece discussion..wish you keep it up..
She has given very good examples
She has done lot of research
Mam, in my opinion, you are more authentic Islamic scholar than most of the muftis and maulvis who are unfortunately not even Muslims in its proper sense of the term.
Ty for your kindness but I’m not even 1% qualified to be called a scholar. And blv me, we do have very good scholars and ppl with knowledge. They aren’t that many but alhamdullilah they are there.
We need to have the second section on role of men in a Muslim household.
Inshallah
Yes please
ماشاءاللہ بہت خوبصورت میری ہمیشہ یہی خواہش رہی کہ بجائے فضول قسم کی رسومات بچوں کو شادی سے پہلے counselling ہونی چاہئے میں تو اپنے بچوں کو ضرور دوں گا انشاءاللہ
I’m from Canada, a mother and a grandmother. I stumbled on this program just by chance , started watching it and liked it. The guest seems very knowledgeable. Please keep it up.
Could we have an English version of it for our English speaking young generation?
Yeah
Please join Eram Saeed's Community. The link is in the description. Thanks
اسرار بھائی آپ بہت اچھے پروگرام پیش کر رہے ہیں۔اکثر لوگوں کو ان معاملات کا علم ہی نہی۔یہ ہماری بہن بہت علم رکھتی ہیں
الله تعالى کے رسول عليه وسلم نےفرمایا جو عورت خاوند کے فرمان بردار ہوتی ہیں وہ اللہ تعالٰی کے نزدیک بہترین عورت ہیں۔
Ma’am respect botton for u. ❤. Bohat achi tarah baten explain kin apny jo deen or muashry dono ko samjh a rahi hn. Respect from Qatar 🇶🇦🫡🇵🇰
Masha Allah Both of you are
an awesome rep of Islamic values. May you live long .
Islam is just not only Religion/ Also a state of Mind / Need mind fullness.
Another wonderful show Israr bhai with Erum Saeed, she already made me fall in love with her previous speech in your show, what a beautiful motivational speaker she is, please keep inviting her very often, just feel like to listen to her every day actually but anyway whenever it’s possible for you, nowadays there’s no one to talk about these social issues 🙏❤️🌹
Dear kasana sb ,it is very clear she in our society money is only matters.our religious scholars not playing wise and scientific explanations regarding religion & esp Islam.I read very deeply Quran & came to know marriage is a holy and very clear message from creator.our religious scholar must be humble,polite,and well equipped with scientific knowledge ,money is no doubt important for life but it can't bring peace in life.
MASHA ALLAH israr sahab and irum saeed saheba both deserve for appreciation , the discussion was very informative and useful GOD blessed theme both AMEEN
I am 67 now..a professional lady and bear all my expenses myself till today..
Spent my life in just like a torture cell. My husband and mother in law were the main characters. Now i regret why didn't i separated in early marital life. May be bcoz of my 3 kids and i was not that strong. Now i think my life got wasted.😢 Feels depressed...need your views and opinion.
Allah swt will reward you for patience and your children will be source of strength and satifaction..InshaAllah
AP bhot sharam r hayadar lady ho jisny apko qurbania deny py mjboor kia.madam dunya ka time hmesha klye guzrny kly he Lekin aakhirat ka time hmesha rehny kly hy.aap ny apni aakhirat bna li.peghamber Wala sbr dikaya.ap Jesi bv Allah ka sbsy behtrin tohfa he.achi bv AK achi behen achi beti r achi maa hony ka sboot he.ap apny bacho klye Jiyo
Excellent disposition by the program guest - she makes valid points very doable and practical. We come from God and we return to him therefore his formula is the only formula for salvation
بلکل درست کہا حدیث کا مفہوم تقریباً یہی ھے۔۔۔۔
Israr Sahab
I am Nasar from Dubai,
Thanks a lot for spreading awareness the Dark side of society ,
unfortunately our society falling to sick tracks in many ways.
Qur'an khud se samajh kar padhne waala aur kisi maslak se taaluq na rakhne waala hi shakhs sabse authentic scholar hai.
AJ k programme s bohot Kuch seekny ko Mila hum ftrt s bhag kr survive Nahi krskty
ارم جی ۔۔۔۔۔۔ سلامت رہیں۔۔۔ آپ نئی نسل کی رہنمائی کے لیے بہت اہم کام کر رہی ہیں۔
Erum Saeed is very impressive. She speaks with much clarity and assertive way. She is very vocal. I saw her previous show just by chance as RUclips was set to play next video.
She is more powerful speaker than Ghamdi and MTJ. When I incidentally saw her video I couldn’t move away from the screen. I kept watching her sitting on the edge of the seat. She makes this show worth watch.Thumbs up to her.
Excellent talk by Madam Erum Saeed 👍💚
A common educated Muslim if studies the Qur'an with understanding is the most authentic person to be called a scholar of Islam.
Never
How do you define a scholar then?@@pzmaqsood
Erum Saeed
Bht logical aur sensible women hain
aise women, society mein lazmi present honi chaiye Jo sensitive issues ko boldly discuss Karti aur er guidelines is provide Karti Hain
Bht kuc seekha madam say
Aur host b kafi discipline hain Jo intrupt NAHI karty next person k veiws
Allah pak hame sahi deen ko samjhne ki tofeeq atta farmai.
Man aur woman dono ko marriage ko barqrar rakhne ki tofeeq atta farmai
Ameen Zuma Ameen
Erum Saeed is very impressive. When she speaks one can not move away from the screen even for a moment. Her presence in the show compels to sit on the edge of the chair and just listen. She speaks with clarity and assertive way. She is more impressive than Ghamdi and MTJ. Thumbs up.
Google reports, "Islam is thriving fastest in the world".
گوگل کی رپورٹ ہے کہ اسلام دنیا میں بہت تیزی سے پھیل رہا ہے اور خاص کر خواتین اس اسلام کو اس مذہب کو بہت زیادہ قبول کر رہی ہیں
Brother in europe and developed countries but unfortunately in pakistan and afghanistan like in countries main jahan quran ko arabic main parhaya jata ha samajhny ki koshish bhi nahin ki jati k is main likha hua kia ha so specially girls ko apny rights ka kuch pata nahin chalta molvion say just basics cheezain parha di jati han jab k west aur doosry arab countries main quran ko samajha jata ha girls ko apni rights aur limits ka pata hota ha more confident hoti han apni life mai jb k yahan tv dramas aur fulm dikha kr ghalat cheezain sikhai ja rahi ha even pakistani dramas bhi doosra culture ko promote kr rahy han
Absolutely right .If we will not come to the true islam & propagate true Islam ,Allah Almighty has his own ways to protect n propagate islam. commendable Erum .So are doing a great Jehaad .Keep it up.
Yet another very very useful program. Much appreciated.
Very nice our proud sister arum Saeed Allah save you and bless you Ameen
She has got more knowledge of Islam than most of our religious scholars, what a breath of fresh air this lady
MashaAllah she is doing such a great job.
May Allah bless her and her family and give her more ability to do more and more Ameen
May Allah bless you Irum Baity as you maashaAllah an enlightened person nd I am learning from you even at this ripe age of 76
Pls remember we me in your Duaas. Thank you for your kindness 🙏
بہت شاندار پروگرام اور ہمیں ایسے پروگراموں کی ضرورت ہے۔ ہر وقت سیاست اور دیگر ایشوز کی بجائے ایسے امور پر بات ہونہ چاہئے اور آپ ہمیشہ سماجی امور پر بہت شاندار پروگرام کرتے ہیں۔ ہم آپ سے ایسے ہی پروگرام چاہتے ہیں۔ یہاں یورپ میں ان کہ زیادہ ضرورت ہے۔ میں سویڈن میں مقیم ہوں اور خود بھی یوٹیوب پر ویلاگ کرتا ہوں اور ایسے موضوعات کو لوگ پاند کرتے ہیں۔ آپ کی مہمان نے بہت اہم اور بہترین انداز میں بات کی ہے۔ انہوں نے بالکل درست ہے کہ سماجی نظریات کو دین میں مکا دیا گیا۔ بدقسمتی سے غیر قرآنی نظریات ہمارے ہاں دین کا درجہ رکھتے ہیں۔
والسلام
ڈاکٹر عارف محمود کسانہ
سٹاک ہوم، سویڈن
Mashallah , I always love to listen from this strong and beautiful lady.
These kind of ladies are very rare in Pakistan where majority of the woman and girls are brought up like slaves of emotions and slaves to their relations, especially with parents and siblings in the close relatives. You have really enlightened the new generation. I hope you will keep telling us about your experiences. Thanks Israeli bhai too
Excellent ur host was good and ur points were very valid too . Glad I heard wish I. knew all this early but ı paid a heavy price due to my ignorance.
Very valued n positive discussion.....
beautiful thoughts about women rights
MashAllah. Sitting having a meal here in London. Enjoyed every moment. Allah bless you both.
Ma'am, salute to your understanding of things.
Only and only solution is man and woman equility, My daughter is independent woman, i will not tolerate that she is treated as second class.
Good Program ❤👍
Eram sahiba you have a good understanding of things.
As for as this issue is concerned i request you to read and listen the views of Dr.Prof Tahir-ul-Qadri sb a great scholar of present times.He is perhaps the great advocate of gender equality.
Buht khoob bilkul thk kha ap ny jo bhi kha hamy tu buht information mailti ha ❤
A pragmatic analysis.
True
Islam is the only WAY.
محترمہ ارم سعید صاحبہ تباہی اللہ سبحانہ و تعالیٰ کی نافرمانی میں ہے۔ طاغوتی قوتیں ہماری خواتین پر بلکل پوری طرح حاوی ہو گئ ہیں۔ ماشا اللہ آپ بہت تعلیم یافتہ ہیں اور آپکی باتوں سے معلوم ہوتا کہ آپ دینی تعلیم سے بھی بہرور ہیں۔ لیکن یہ کیا کہ آپ حجاب نہی لیتی ہیں۔ جبکہ آپ کو معلوم ہے حجاب کا حکم اللہ ﷻ کی طرف سے قرآن میں ہیں۔
Mashallah
اللہ پاک سلامتی دے آ مین
I think she has taught me in class 4th C section at SLS LALAZAR. Happy to see her changing lives positively
Nope. I’m not a doctor and never taught in medical school.
بہت اچھا پروگرام ہے ۔
Mam Erum, salute.
Acchi kawish hai aap ki,,appreciated you both❤❤❤eram saeed sahiba loving and intellectual personality 👏 💜
Ma sha Allah, very mature style of discussion. Young and old generation must know the real responsibilities being a member of society and family as well ❤️🩹
Such women never enjoyed life in a true Muslim family, So they are easily dragged away. On the other hand, increasing reverts to Islam are attracted by true face of Islam. The guest is outstanding.
SHE IS VERY GRACEFUL LADY I WAS WORK WITH HER IN PROGRAM HEART TO HEART IN 2017 SUCH A BEAUTIFUL LADY
جس کو اسلام کی قدر نہیں وہ جس مرضی جہنم میں گرے اللہ کو اسکی ضرورت نہیں۔
Straight forward discussion love it👏
ماشااللہ
بہت خوب
سو فی صد درست بات
Well Done Israr Kasana & Erum Saeed.Keep it up.
Fantastic listened to you both, God bless you both.
Great concept dear sister God bless you
Great discussion
I am very proud as this kind of sister she talking heart touching about Islam
The gender divide that exists in Western society and cultures that impact Pakistani women makes it more important than ever to explain Islam's position on important issues.
Since Miss Erum represents western culture as well, I don't believe that her opinions will have an impact on Pakistani society. Promoting Islamic principles requires one to aspire to Islam and abide by its rules and regulations.
I would say I represent a bit of both. I’m not 100% western nor am I 100% eastern. I’m more of a bridge.
رب کریم جلشانہ عزوجل حضورِ اکرم صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم پر درود شریف بھی بھیج رھے ھیں اور اپنے حبیب مکرم صلی اللہ علیہ وآلہ وسلم کو فاقوں سے بھی گذارا
قوت برداشت اور صبر اور شکر ھمارے خیال سے نکلتا جا رھا ھے
ھم زندگی فرعون جیسی اور خاتمہ سیدنا موسی علیہ السلام والہ چاھتے ھیں تو انجام سامنے ھے
In Islam, there is no god but one and only one.
More men loves their women's whereas some from elite classes don't.
Never use coercion in the matter of faith and religion.
It is based on sword. It's a trap you can't get out.
اللہ تعالی نے خود فرمایا ہے کہ ہم نے مردوں کو عورت پر فضیلت بخشی۔جہاں تک مجازی خدا کی بات ہے تو مجازی خدا کےلیے خدا کی صفات اگر کسی شخص میں ہوں تو کتنی ہی خوبصورت بات ہے ۔رحیمی کریمی صبر برداشت محبت عطا احترام یہ سب خوبیاں اگر کسی خاوند میں ہوں تو عورت اور مرد کی زندگی جنت۔ مجازی خدا کا مفہوم محض خود کوڈنڈا سمجھ لینا مرد کی جہالت ہے
Allah SWT knew such a situation would arise ,that is why He mentioned 3,or 4 marriages.... looking at the women and their level of understanding,this seems to be a solution.
May Allah bless you both for pointing out such an important issue which our is a potential threat to our Islamic society.
Truth is bitter and blatant can’t sugarcoat always simultaneously
Really appreciate her advice, I would also recommend viewers to listen to Sir Salman Siddiqui sb,he is working for developing parenting in emotional, religious, social manners
What a wonderful discussion on a important topic which is need of our the hour. Sister Erum you are an enlightened asset of ummah,may Allah bless you in both worlds
🎉🎉🎉🎉 wonderful program.I will also join yr program.thanks to Kasana sahib for introducing such a bold n clear lady.
پاکستان کی یہ بدبختی یہ ہے کہ ہم باتیں تو بہت اسلامی کرتے ہیں۔ مسلمان ہونے کے ناطے خواتین اور لڑکیاں کو باحجاب ہونی چاہئے۔ ندیم اکرم صاحب بھی اس مسئلے میں متفق ہونگے۔
Appreciate the way mam Erum talk about things with clearity and reference. I've a query, if Islam never bounds a woman for household chores how middle class women can practice this clause of rights where basic need of marriage or woman at home is to be efficient in household chores and serve husband's parents. And can you elaborate the extent of husband rights, girls are often afraid of rights of husband in the beginning of marriage but gradually they start hating this so much burden.
Assalamu alyakum , timely topic , two suggestions, can u arrange in English as well secondly male role in economics, social ,cultural,duties, morality , behaviours , tolerance as husband for wife
Thanks for addressing a real issue in our current society.
Bohat acha silsila shuru kiya hai humere Generation ko rishty nibhana sekhny hoan ge aur Western culture se doer rehna ho ga wahan families ky beach sirf andhera hai aur kuch nahi
Nice discussion israr bahi, agar overseas Pakistanion ki family life par vlog kar sako.wife our Bache ham se door ho jate Hain. Ham Apni zindgi un ke leye qurban Kar dete Hain Jo waqat ane par apni marzi par sab Kuch karte Hain quin ke un KO adit hi Nahin hoti walid ki. Es gape KO kesse handal Kar sakte Hain.
Will try, in sha Allah
It has to start with the beginning. How the Marriage Ceremony Starts in Pakistan: Those aspects must be discussed.
میرا مزہب بھی صرف مسلمان ہے کیوں کہ میرے والدین نے ہم سب کو یہ ہی سکھایا ہے۔
Best programe God bless both of you
ALLAH Ap Dono ko Ajri a Aazeem di Aameenn
Very spiral discussion realised of Islam both jender banifit of husband and wife are family's life time apurchunitys
Fair and rational discussion.
ماشاء اللہ بہت خوب جناب عمران خان صاحب زندہ آباد ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Excellent discussion and enlightening. Jazzak Allah
Islam Sai Doore Honai ki waja sai sarai masail paida ho rahai hain. Only Solution is that, which is Given In Quran And Hadees.
Good work