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  • Опубликовано: 8 фев 2025
  • Matt spends some time with May Pang, whose documentary, The Lost Weekend: A Love Story, is now available on streaming services and on disc. May discusses the project and some of the back story.
    See The Lost Weekend: A Love Story here: thelostweekend...
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    May's website: maypang.com
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  • @themaypang
    @themaypang Год назад +73

    Thank you Matt and to everyone who watched this interview and for your kind support. Happy, Healthy 2024!

    • @popgoesthe60s52
      @popgoesthe60s52  Год назад +10

      My pleasure May! Thank you for guesting 🙂

    • @ponzo1967
      @ponzo1967 Год назад +1

      @themaypang We love you 💗

    • @MishLaRue
      @MishLaRue Год назад

      Thank you, Miss May, for being a beautiful soul and all of the fun pictures that were always in Creem magazine in the '70's. You and John gave me life as I lived in a very small farming community. Peace and love to you, always.

    • @ismaelcardozolopez5156
      @ismaelcardozolopez5156 11 месяцев назад

      Hi from Sweden! I hope to see your movie some day (soon)! So nice to listen to you, always (and Matt too)!

    • @スマイルスマイル-b1w
      @スマイルスマイル-b1w 6 месяцев назад

      メイさん若い時笑顔が最高に可愛くてとても魅力的な女性だと思いました。
      ジョンが惹かれるのは間違いない(*゚∀゚*)

  • @shyman99
    @shyman99 Год назад +35

    So beautiful. So enchanting. Unfortunately, John desired a mother and not a lover. So glad May shared her story. And her vocal on "#9 Dream" remains a favorite.

    • @popgoesthe60s52
      @popgoesthe60s52  Год назад +18

      Good point about the mother. He kind of got the mother and father wrapped into one in Yoko.

    • @continentalgin
      @continentalgin Год назад

      @@popgoesthe60s52 In a way, I think Yoko also became the manager John needed since Brian Epstein died. We know he wanted Allen Klein to fill that void, but as George wrote and what John eventually realized was, "Beware of ABKCO." I think John, in particular, was devastated by Epstein's sudden death. Seems to me, John loved having someone he could trust to manage the business side of things and having a rough time with that during the row about Lee Eastman (whom in retrospect would have been the best manager for The Beatles, IMHO) he finally realized that Yoko has very effective business instincts. My point is, we tend to characterize Yoko as a mother figure, but she accomplished quite a lot of smart business decisions on Lennon's and her behalf. In the big picture, in the long run, McCartney himself has proven to be incredibly talented in managing his own business interests, turning the financial shambles that The Beatles faced when dissolving their boutique shop into the multi-billions of dollars' empire he presides over today. Just putting Paul in charge of managing and producing the group probably would have been the best move for all of them, in hindsight. In the songwriting department, John & Paul writing together as extremely compatible musical geniuses, in my opinion, will never be equaled or surpassed.

  • @timothyramsey7010
    @timothyramsey7010 11 месяцев назад +5

    What a lovely woman such a contrast from the other one

  • @JC-bt8jo
    @JC-bt8jo Год назад +15

    Wow! Another great interview Matt! I saw The Lost Weekend: A Love Story in the theater and as in the case of your interview, May comes across and IS a beautiful soul. She always is genuine. Ignore the naysayers May, the majority of us fans love you. One can only wonder how things would’ve been different if John had stayed with May and had gone to visit the McCartneys in New Orleans.
    You’re off to a great 2024 Matt!

  • @triplejazzmusicisall1883
    @triplejazzmusicisall1883 Год назад +18

    Just a wonderful 34 minutes. What you say about this modern world is so true and I think that partly why May is such a delight as she doesn't seem to engage in negativity but rather just shares the truth without vice. She has such positvity and and natural communicator. Great interviewer and a great guest. I loved watching this.

  • @glass_oni0n
    @glass_oni0n Год назад +5

    May seems like such a lovely lady, and in an era where everyone wants to view people in black and white, she brings a wonderful balance as you say, and you did a wonderful job interviewing her.

  • @wraithby
    @wraithby Год назад +5

    I've been fascinated with May since seeing the photo, in Time's old People section, of her and John, I think it was poolside somewhere in LA. It must have been 1974, I was in junior high. I thought to myself, things are looking up for John!!! Enjoyed the interview....

    • @continentalgin
      @continentalgin Год назад +3

      I was in high school at the time and I remember seeing pictures of them together and thinking, "Wow, she's amazingly beautiful and sexy!" I thought they looked great together!

    • @popgoesthe60s52
      @popgoesthe60s52  Год назад +1

      Thank you, Wraithby!

  • @wink853
    @wink853 Год назад +15

    As a Lennon fan….if you haven’t seen May’s doc, do it now! So enjoyable and very well done. Good on ya May!

  • @squorly
    @squorly Год назад +14

    Thank you for having May on, I love hearing her stories. It reminded me to order the DVD. You're right, Loving John is selling for crazy prices!
    I'll never understand why Paul talked to John about going back to Ono.

    • @popgoesthe60s52
      @popgoesthe60s52  Год назад +11

      I think Paul was actually trying to help John, but he was really helping Ono.

  • @daytripper9222
    @daytripper9222 Год назад +6

    Well my mind is blown away. Myself I didn't know that John had asked may about writing with Paul again, and never heard the story about John writing on that card that was sent to Derek about going to see Paul and Linda in New Orleans. 😢

  • @false_binary
    @false_binary Год назад +10

    What a breath of fresh air and a positive, healthy spirit May Pang is! This was a terrific interview Matt, wow...I loved when she shared that John was always trying to improve, even in light of public detractors, as a person...we could all benefit from this example.

    • @popgoesthe60s52
      @popgoesthe60s52  Год назад +5

      Thank you! I hope I can do another interview with her someday. 🙂

  • @galtsghost4454
    @galtsghost4454 Год назад +14

    You knocked it out of the park with this one, Matt. Thank you to you and May for an interesting and informative time! Oh what might have been had John and May visited the Mac’s in Nola!

  • @AkiraFelix-k2l
    @AkiraFelix-k2l Год назад +5

    Oh my. You really are becoming a celebrity of your own. Congrats!

  • @Guimonde
    @Guimonde Год назад +4

    What a great inteview Matt !
    May Pang is bringing some sunshine. Nice.
    So the song "Now and then" was written for Yoko ? for Paul ? ... no, i think it was rather for this lovely lady.
    It makes sense specially when we hear John singing the full lyrics of the original demo (the bridge part was removed on the 2023 version)

    • @popgoesthe60s52
      @popgoesthe60s52  Год назад +4

      Funny you should say that about Now and Then. We talked a bit about that off camera.

  • @paull.2254
    @paull.2254 Год назад +3

    Thanks Matt and May. It was great to get an intelligent rational woman's insight on her experiences with John.

  • @BillGaliette
    @BillGaliette Год назад +5

    What’s great about Matt’s interviews is he lets his guests tell their story. He asks the questions I would always want to ask. Great job as always!

  • @Orechaser
    @Orechaser 29 дней назад

    What a beautiful and gracious woman. A t the time such a very young woman to be thrown into such a whirlwind but who has dealt with it so perfectly every since, which is a sign of her incredible balance and wisdom. She is so much more to her than those few short years but she understands people's fascination with the history and tells the story with patience, honesty and love. Also very well handled and beautifully judged by Matt. Great great interview.

    • @popgoesthe60s52
      @popgoesthe60s52  28 дней назад

      Thank you, Orechaser. Maybe I can get her back someday.

  • @SeltaebEht
    @SeltaebEht Год назад +2

    Finally the film it's on streaming!
    The cinemas over here never show anything of this kind!

  • @mjemigh3304
    @mjemigh3304 Месяц назад

    Hi, Matt. I guess I wasn't watching your videos yet when you did this. Nice job! I just saw the movie, so I'm catching up on May stuff. The interview she did with The Cowsills is exceptionally good, and you might want to take a look at it if you ever think about doing a follow-up. Guess I better check out what ELSE I've missed on your channel. Cheers! -MJ

  • @65TossTrap
    @65TossTrap 10 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for posting this interview. May is the greatest historian. She saw them up close; she saw the artistic side, the business side and even saw a couple of them perform together and in the end, learned that, despite the stardom and music, they were just four lads from Liverpool. In the end, she is the best historian and her artful telling of the Beatles’ story will be passed down to many many generations.

  • @TheSchemel
    @TheSchemel Год назад +10

    Matt, I've seen a lot of May Pang interviews. Hands down, your interview with her is the best. Thank you

    • @popgoesthe60s52
      @popgoesthe60s52  Год назад +1

      I appreciate the kind compliment, Schemel!

    • @TheSchemel
      @TheSchemel Год назад

      @popgoesthe60s52 it's true. So many of these interviewers ask the same questions over and over.
      They also act like nervous fans.
      I often wondered if I could interview Paul McCartney, what kind of questions would I ask. For the most part, my question would be about Wings because no one ever asks about that band. For the Beatles years, I would ask questions about his involvement with the Indica Book store, or, (without getting too personal), his relationship with Jane Asher. He is only now starting to talk about her. Also, his relationship with George Harrison both as a Beatle and ex-Beatle. Nobody asked these questions. So, getting back to your interview with May, it was refreshing to hear different questions for her to respond to.

  • @frankmarullo228
    @frankmarullo228 Год назад +8

    Man matt this video is awesome I don't send two comments to the same video very often , but I am almost 70 years old , grew up with the Beatles I usually live in the past and this video really did it for me. I have seen all four of them twice except for John only once at the one to one concert at the garden in ny. Again thank you. My friend....

  • @1rwjwith
    @1rwjwith Год назад +9

    Great interview…Ms. Pang was instrumental in facilitating the creation of a lot of the music of that era, a very positive influence on Lennon. Its a very nuanced complicated story of their time together.

  • @capesongbird
    @capesongbird Год назад +4

    What a wonderful and intriguing interview!! I totally enjoyed it! Thank you so much Matt!!

  • @Monkofmagnesia
    @Monkofmagnesia Год назад +2

    I am so happy you were anle to interview Ms. Pang. I hope this will increase your subcribers a hundredfold. You deserve it!

  • @oojudg3oo
    @oojudg3oo Год назад +3

    May Pang IS the gal. Upbeat, positive spirit. You can spot it right away. Down to earth. That's the impression I always got from her.
    I think I first heard May Pang speak was most likely around the early 80's on one of those talk shows. I remember being a little surprised at her voice. We all seen her in photos and stuff. Im 60 now and back then I thought she was a pretty girl. Ya still are May! 🙂
    Not to change subject, anyway in light of these congressional and Senate committees with hearings on these UFO whistle blowers. Secret Black ops(lol) in reverse engineering these vehicles etc. It makes me think of May and John's sighting experience. Don't worry, I don't have a podcast or anything. May, you and John described that UFO as being really close. Almost like it knew u 2 were there. I know it sounds stupid but if the vehicle was actually a reversed engineered vehicle, it probably DID know you's were there.
    I brought it up because before this interview I was listening to Joe Rogan clips talking about this UFO subject, and some clips of Carl Tuckerson. And other 'Disclosure' vids. This stuff...I don't know... profound and wild. I'm no guru or anything. Just a simple sheet metal brake press operator in a labor department of a big manufacturering plant in St. Louis county. I'll veer off to Beatles stuff on YT for some positive vibes. And you're a part of that 'positive' within the Beatle and John Lennon story. And it's interesting subcategory of history. Matt's Pop Goes The 60's is a great 60's music podcast. Which is also my favorite era. 65 thru 68ish. Some really hands on recording effects time frame. Though I like the 50's and 70's too. But I do like that psychedelic 60's period in pop/rock n soul. A kick ass track is Doby Grey's, The In Crowd(65).
    Thanks a lot May n Matt for this nice interview. May is good ta go! She's not pulling any BS. I've always known that. And I'm glad she's standing up and getting her story and a huge part of her life, and a love separation. At that age, well that had a huge influence on her, May.
    Thanks for the May Pang YT channel link. I didn't know May had one.
    🌼🙂🌹

  • @canadianstudmuffin
    @canadianstudmuffin Год назад +2

    Excellent interview, Matt! 🙂👍

  • @majas4922
    @majas4922 Год назад +2

    Wow. Fascinating guest. Will check this out

  • @tonyfafoglia2927
    @tonyfafoglia2927 Год назад +1

    Really enjoyed this Matt. Been wanting to see May's doc film

  • @matthewstreet1961
    @matthewstreet1961 Год назад +10

    Epic Matt…EPIC! I didn’t want the interview to end. This has to be one of your top video episodes ever! Loved it, great job! I enjoyed hearing from May immensely. She is very engaging and kindhearted. Fabulous stories and memories shared. I’m ordering her documentary today! Cheers my friend! Thank YOU! Matt Street 😊

    • @popgoesthe60s52
      @popgoesthe60s52  Год назад +2

      Hey Matt! Thank you for the kind words. I happen to notice you were wearing a very interesting t-shirt in one of your videos - how flattering! I'd like to show my appreciation. Why don't you message me through my Pop Facebook page, I'd like to get your mailing address to send you something. Thanks again for commenting!

    • @matthewstreet1961
      @matthewstreet1961 Год назад

      @@popgoesthe60s52 Matt… AOL at rubbersoul6568

  • @followyourbliss973
    @followyourbliss973 Год назад +11

    This interview should be part one of three! Many more questions to ask. The same with her documentary. She should make a trilogy!

    • @popgoesthe60s52
      @popgoesthe60s52  Год назад +6

      I wish I could have had that kind of time with her! Maybe I can invite her back.

    • @followyourbliss973
      @followyourbliss973 Год назад +1

      @@popgoesthe60s52 May seems very open. You could talk to her for hours it would never get boring!

  • @vincognito
    @vincognito Год назад +2

    Awesome interview! Congrats on getting May to come on your show. She's a super cool lady, without question. No pretense and tells it like it is. One thing I was always curious about and found rather disturbing was when John and May were together in L.A. and Yoko called about the quit smoking hypnotist. May reported that after that hypno session, he was suddenly back in love with Yoko, and, as May herself reported, John didn't seem quite the same. It makes you wonder. I'd love to ask her about that and if she had suspicions about that moment. It really seemed strange.

    • @popgoesthe60s52
      @popgoesthe60s52  Год назад +2

      Hey Vinnie! Yes, the the smoking cure was basically like Monarch mind control. Very disturbing the way she described it in her book.

    • @vincognito
      @vincognito Год назад

      @@popgoesthe60s52 Oh, she DOES go in more depth in the book. I'll have to read it then. Just wow. That's VERY disturbing indeed. Especially since it was done to one of my musical heroes. She only hinted at it in one of the interviews she did. I'm gonna recommend the book to Corbett as well, since that's in his wheelhouse as well. Thanks for the reply. Oh, and Happy New Year, Matt!

  • @rayc4244
    @rayc4244 Год назад +9

    Thanks for this interview. I've watched The Lost Weekend several times. I've always respected May - but fell in love with her when I found out how instrumental she was with strengthening the relationship between John & Julian. She's a great lady. LOVE you May!

  • @GonzoDuke
    @GonzoDuke Год назад +8

    Lennon's years in LA always seemed so other worldly to me. It was always my favorite part of John's story when I read about it during my high school years.
    I have watched many interviews with May since the doc dropped. I always love hearing her speak and love her story. Thanks for the interview Matt.

  • @kristian_goddard
    @kristian_goddard Год назад +8

    Really happy to see this, Matt! The 60s icon Kathy Simmonds became a close friend of mine and had to deal with years of frustration due to a re-telling of history. I’m so happy that May is able to share her story on my favourite RUclips channel!

    • @popgoesthe60s52
      @popgoesthe60s52  Год назад +3

      Thank you for that, Kristian. May is fortunate enough to be in a position to tell her story, which it sounds like Kathy wasn't.

  • @baronsaturday951
    @baronsaturday951 Год назад +1

    Fantastic !!!! Thank you Matt !

  • @robbieburns8746
    @robbieburns8746 Год назад +3

    Important interview. Congrats, Matt!

  • @vortexpilot5096
    @vortexpilot5096 Год назад +1

    This was an absolutely LOVELY interview, Matt. Loved every minute.

  • @SirHatchporch
    @SirHatchporch Год назад

    Wow, very cool that you scored an interview with May! Great stuff. I especially liked the bit where she mentioned that John was always seeking to improve himself and do better. It seems like it's become fashionable in recent years to outright trash him and his legacy (often with allegations that are downright slanderous) and I think more people need to hear her take on it.

  • @jugibur2117
    @jugibur2117 Год назад

    So nice to see and hear May Pang, she is a wonderful person in my opinion! I read her first book and it really expanded my picture of John Lennon.

  • @GStraitKISS1
    @GStraitKISS1 10 месяцев назад

    Amazing interview Matt! Best site on 60s music by far!

  • @jconwell84
    @jconwell84 Год назад +15

    I watched her movie and I found her story very credible. He seemed more alive and happy with May. When I think of John' s life and his death, I always think of "what if".

    • @davidm7840
      @davidm7840 Год назад +3

      Totally agree. Her story doesn’t seem opportunistic, it appears credible.

  • @SarahWilliamson-m3x
    @SarahWilliamson-m3x Год назад +1

    This is a great interview!

  • @bubbles6743
    @bubbles6743 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you May for giving John those times of love and closeness to his son and friends. He seemed so happy. What a shame Yoko came back on the scene, i believe he would be alive today if he stayed with you.❤❤❤

  • @followyourbliss973
    @followyourbliss973 Год назад +2

    Great interview! I wonder which album Paul was working on in New Orleans and which album/songs John was doing at the time. No doubt it would've been amazing...which could've included songs by George as well! Wow!

    • @popgoesthe60s52
      @popgoesthe60s52  Год назад +3

      Paul was about to work on Venus and Mars.

    • @mattdoran8344
      @mattdoran8344 Год назад +1

      @@popgoesthe60s52 I always imagine Paul and John doing Call me back again… both belting that tune out 🤘🤘🤘

  • @KingHarvestHSC
    @KingHarvestHSC Год назад

    That was absolutely excellent! Thank you so much, Matt, for making this happen. I wish all of us could express our personal thanks to May as well. She was wonderful.

    • @popgoesthe60s52
      @popgoesthe60s52  Год назад

      Thank you, King - she was a pleasure to speak to. I hope to have her back!

  • @frankmarullo228
    @frankmarullo228 Год назад +2

    You out did your self this time matt !!!! Thank you for your work on this one FRANK FROM MONTANA.......

  • @t221000
    @t221000 Год назад

    Thank you so much for this interview Matt. I got her first book five years ago and it was so amazing to learn the true story. I'm mad that John didn't go to New Orleans to see the Macs and play on Venus and Mars. John made amazing music because of May.

    • @popgoesthe60s52
      @popgoesthe60s52  Год назад +1

      My pleasure. May was a joy to speak with and I hope I can get her back!

  • @Tom-el5cq
    @Tom-el5cq Год назад +7

    Great conversation here, Matt. I never get tired of hearing from May. Someone who was actually there. A jewel in your crown for your already excellent channel! Keep up the great work.

  • @AndyT66
    @AndyT66 Год назад +7

    If only John stayed with her!

  • @MKeller4033
    @MKeller4033 Год назад +1

    Matt, you are such a great interviewer. I always feel like I'm sitting in your living room listening to an easy-going exchange between you and your guests, maybe enjoying a beer or two with you. And in this case, May Pang is such a fun and lively person, she makes it seem easy! Thanks for all the work you put into these conversations. You are a gift to us Boomers!

  • @continentalgin
    @continentalgin Год назад +11

    Wonderful interview! I always liked May Pang and I thought, even back in the beginning, that she and Lennon were a good match. I can imagine him being very happy with her intellect, knowledge of the record business, and the overall companionship they enjoyed together.

  • @davidm7840
    @davidm7840 Год назад +9

    Loved the interview. Hope May comes back again! Wish John had ended up with her and broke things off with Yoko. He looked happier than he had been in 10 years.

  • @lyndarosborough869
    @lyndarosborough869 Год назад +2

    Thanks again Matt … this interview with May Pang is excellent! You are the best ! Happy New Year to you … and Here’s to 2024 !

  • @lawrencebrissenden
    @lawrencebrissenden Год назад +8

    #9 Dream is a lot of people's favorite Lennon solo track because of its Beatlesque arrangement and reflections ("So long ago, was it in a dream? Was it just a dream?"). May's vocals are ethereal on this track! So, it's great that you got the legend May Pang on the show Matt!

    • @popgoesthe60s52
      @popgoesthe60s52  Год назад +2

      Thank you Lawrence!

    • @ChromeDestiny
      @ChromeDestiny Год назад

      It coincided with John giving press interviews where John said his Beatles breakup wounds were starting to heal.

  • @NimbusBrain
    @NimbusBrain Год назад +1

    Excellent segment Matt. As May says, lyrics matter, going back to what I told you about disco. And yeah, I say the same thing about Morrison's substance abuse that May says about Lennon's - the Doors movie portrays Morrison as drunk or stoned 24/7, 365 1/4. How could he possibly have achieved what he did if that was the case?

  • @jeffcole2860
    @jeffcole2860 Год назад +1

    So GREAT!!! Great anecdotes and perspective! Thank you so much for making this fine video.

  • @stephenelliott9937
    @stephenelliott9937 Год назад +5

    Great job Matt!...60 minutes couldn't have done her interview any better..

  • @ministerofdarkness
    @ministerofdarkness Год назад +1

    Fantastic interview! Can't wait to see the movie.

  • @ZoneOneRadio
    @ZoneOneRadio Год назад +1

    Great work Matt! I really appreciate the work that you do. Brilliant interview

  • @davederave792
    @davederave792 Год назад +1

    Fascinating. Absolutely fascinating. Thanks.

  • @garycarrock5915
    @garycarrock5915 Год назад +1

    Thanks Matt, great interview!!

  • @tedlondon1409
    @tedlondon1409 Год назад +1

    Great interview. She seems so nice! I enjoyed her documentary and have to go back and read her book again. I still have it but have read it in 30 years? Looking forward to part 2 interview down the road.

  • @SurferJoe1
    @SurferJoe1 Год назад +2

    History seems to arc towards getting it right. The spin winds down, and time and perspective seem to be really good to May Pang. She's getting her due now, as a person of integrity, as a positive part of the story, and as a truth-teller. Great questions, too- it's nice to hear her interact with someone more invested and knowledgeable than a news show host.

    • @SurferJoe1
      @SurferJoe1 Год назад

      PS I've always thought of her as American but never realized how much of a New Yorker she is!

  • @rickmcinnis3820
    @rickmcinnis3820 Год назад +2

    She is such a lovely lady and the interviewer is thoughtful and insightful; someone whose company is enjoyed. Very well done.

  • @kricketdude
    @kricketdude Год назад

    Thalnks Matt! Very interesting and sad story John never made it to New Orleans. Keep up the good work!

  • @stephenosullivan9016
    @stephenosullivan9016 Год назад

    This is indeed a coup on your part Matt! To me, May is one of the most respected of the Beatles "secondary" characters. Along with Cynthia, Julian, Pete Shotten and Linda McCartney. Nothing cynical, mysterious or unsavory about her. The fact that she and Cynthia became best of friends speaks volumes about her character. Of course i watched the documentary. I was so pleased to see actual photos of Paul & Linda at the apartment. Excellent documentary, excellent interview. I'm sure you hope to have her on in the future.

    • @popgoesthe60s52
      @popgoesthe60s52  Год назад +1

      Thank you, Stephen. I was fortunate to get her on and I will try getting her back to talk about her future projects!

  • @stamatiskon3049
    @stamatiskon3049 Год назад +2

    Great interview, May has always interesting stories and seems like a delightful person, but the New Orleans story makes me a little sad every time. We know that John was asking Art Garfunkel "how he got his Paul back" and now we hear May say that she KNEW that Paul was ready, which means that he had talked to her about it. If only these two could put their egos (and fears) aside and talk to each other, great things would have happened...

    • @popgoesthe60s52
      @popgoesthe60s52  Год назад +1

      Lots of 'what ifs.' I think Lennon ended up getting a raw deal. Did Ono even get what she wanted? I don't know.

  • @Billthemusicman
    @Billthemusicman Год назад

    Totally amazing! ❤ So enlightening to see May’s take and observations on her time with John. Look forward to seeing the film!

  • @olivarionline
    @olivarionline Год назад

    Very interesting and insightful - well done Matt! Even though it must be sad for her in a way to keep repeating parts of her past life in the hope that people actually believe her. Also I wished you asked her more about the 1975-1980 period as I think she stated at one point that they kept in touch. Looking forward to seeing the documentary if i can manage to find it.

  • @4-dman464
    @4-dman464 Год назад +10

    "The Long Weekend." It's what spouses do in a 2nd marriage: diminish what went before to appease the new partner.
    JL did that to MP, did that to Cyn, even to Julian, & to The Beatles, to appease YO.
    ' *In My Life* ' is remarkably prophetic of JL's propensity for this in 1965.
    Everyone hears ' *In My Life* ' as idyllic nostalgia, because the beautiful melody & harmonies sound sweet.
    But it's also ruthless: that's the side of this great song that no commentator ever analyses because no one hears it. Not one book goes near it, near as I can tell.
    In one verse & again in the chorus, JL reassures a partner he hasn't even met yet that all the loves that went before can't hold a candle to this new flame:
    " *There is no one compares with you*
    *And these memories lose their meaning*
    *When I think of love as something new* ."
    Woah! way to disown the past! & to contradict the rest of the lyrics & redirect the loyalty of a loving melody.
    " *In my life, I love you more* ."
    More than what? More than every loyalty that went before.
    It can also be an apology to the wife when infidelities are raised, thrown under a bus to save a marriage: "She meant nothing to me! it was just a fling! You're the one!"
    What's ' *God* ' but a litany of disposable icons tossed aside, not to stand alone, which sounds like where this great song is inevitably headed. but to double back & believe in " *Yoko&Me* " as his reality?

    • @popgoesthe60s52
      @popgoesthe60s52  Год назад +5

      Great comment and analysis of In My Life. I never thought of it that way but you make an excellent point.

    • @continentalgin
      @continentalgin Год назад +1

      Very insightful, but that sort of negative angle is probably why I've always avoided trying to psychoanalyze Beatles' lyrics. I just don't want to feel the negativity. In defense of the lyrics, I would say that one of the most attractive and iconic aspects of Beatles' lyric writing was simplicity, directness, and honesty. How does one feel when falling head over heels in love with a new person? That no one, past or present, compares? I read the other day that a scientific study has found that falling in love is a psycho-physiological process that, once started cannot be stopped because of the continuous rush of oxytocin, seriously clouds all reason and good judgement, and makes a person forget about all other people and circumstances, and is more like catching the flu than thinking logically about keeping things in perspective. It's basically impossible to keep things in perspective when falling in love. So, John simply wrote from the heart about the fact that a new love would mean that no one previously compares to that feeling.

    • @4-dman464
      @4-dman464 Год назад

      @@continentalgin Actually it wasn't psychoanalysis. Nor wholly Negative. It can't be: 'In My Life' is one of my top 10 fave tracks from my all-time fave band.
      " *In defense of the lyrics* " - -but the lyrics are not under attack. They are just under a different interpretation than you & many others put on them. I find the song more fascinating *because* of those undercurrents.
      I agree, one of Lennon's strengths as an artist is " *Honesty* " in the moment, which is *why* "simplicity" & "directness" follow - - because there is no sophistry.
      (Well, psychedelia challenges this, I may have to rethink that last sentence to allow for symbolism.)
      Do I read sophistry in your reply? - - your final sentence "the fact that a new love would mean that no one previously compares to that feeling" sounds positively sneaky & only works by *burying the past* when it was also 'uniquely' said about the last girl - - which is my point.
      There IS contradiction over time in comparison to another moment. There's a schizoid incongruence in JL's honesty when you match up the separate moments.
      Well, "Honesty" is *not* about being *Positive* all day long - - that's fakery, giving reality a face-lift. John Lennon allowed Negativity into his Art - - half of Life is Negative, & you don't get electricity without that polarity.

  • @nomehdrider
    @nomehdrider Год назад +1

    Great job Matt, great job.

  • @erniericardo8140
    @erniericardo8140 Год назад +1

    A-1 interview Matt👍👍 Loved every second of it!!! I really enjoyed May's story of of her & John on the NYC bus -LOL!!!

  • @keriford54
    @keriford54 Год назад

    Thanks Matt, I really enjoyed this and I'm glad you gave May some time on your channel, I'd love to see this period take its rightful place in John's story. I have a copy of the documentary and May's book "Loving John" it's strange that it still feels like this section of his life though well documented still seems to be widely disregarded. It feels like there is supposed to be this happy narrative love story of John and Yoko, which has some truth to it, but it obviously isn't that simple and there is more nuance to it. That later period after he got back together with Yoko is not as ideal as it is supposed to be, I don't think it was terrible, but I do think John and Yoko put out an idealised vision of that period and Lennon fans are attached to the ideal and don't want an quibbles about their "double fantasy".

  • @edphs75
    @edphs75 Год назад

    GREAT interview Matt! Really enjoyed it.

  • @jeanpepin6497
    @jeanpepin6497 Год назад +4

    Excellent interview! Such a fascinating time when they were together

  • @MatthewNorthMusic
    @MatthewNorthMusic Год назад

    That was an absolutely brilliant interview.

  • @moronicpest
    @moronicpest Год назад +14

    She's delightful and articulate. What might have been in New Orleans had John reunited with Paul back then has to make a person wonder.

  • @pelaronson4086
    @pelaronson4086 Год назад

    GREAT!!! thank You Matt...perrrfect.

  • @stuharris9993
    @stuharris9993 Год назад +4

    Matt, I'm so glad you did this interview! I was hoping you would. May is a real gem and her stories really typify the 70's.

  • @rc4061e4u
    @rc4061e4u Год назад

    Great interview! Thanks!

  • @jjs2351
    @jjs2351 Год назад +1

    Thanks for this wonderful May Pang interview ! I'd also like to mention that your retrospectives on various bands are fantastic ! I especially liked your series on Jefferson Airplane, the Beach Boys and Paul Revere and the Raiders - all so interesting. I grew up listening to these bands, and although I thought I knew most of what was there to know, you filled in a lot of interesting facts. Thank you !

    • @popgoesthe60s52
      @popgoesthe60s52  Год назад +1

      Thank you. I am just finishing up my final part of the Beach Boys due out soon!

  • @BrixtonTone
    @BrixtonTone Год назад

    Ah !!! I know there are more stories she could tell us ! Great interview Matt .
    p.s Whats happened to the Beach Boys story ?
    I've been waiting for the right moment in your exploration of their career to post about two of them performing in my house !

    • @popgoesthe60s52
      @popgoesthe60s52  Год назад +1

      I am almost done with part 6 of The Beach Boys, so look for that in a few days! 🙂

  • @barbbowen3572
    @barbbowen3572 Год назад

    Another Great Interview!...Always thought that May Pang got the short end in the "Lost Weekend"...The PR spin back then was so one sided for "poor, lonely yoko"...I have the book "Loving John" ; might have to Read it again...TY Matt!...As Always Take Very Good Care & keep the Fantastic Interviews coming!...

  • @buttercup1765
    @buttercup1765 Год назад

    Great interview... Thanks!

  • @johnlorinc2081
    @johnlorinc2081 Год назад +6

    Great interview! The whole narrative of "Lennon was plastered for those 18 months with May" was too easy.....and obviously manufactured to some extent. Yes, partly by John himself.

  • @RickM01
    @RickM01 Год назад +3

    Thanks Matt - what a beautiful New Year surprise! I love May's book Loving John (glad I've had a copy) as well as the Lost Weekend documentary. I would have bought the documentary whether or not others liked it because I really love the book and knew the film would be top tier, which it is. I appreciate May's transparency. And Matt I appreciate your thoughtfulness and knowledge as an interviewer. You really let May open up. Superb! Hopefully, this interview along with the documentary will dispel a lot of the stories that are traditionally told about May and John. I think May is such a dynamic person aside from her relationship with John. Take care and see you next time! - Rick

  • @jayorag
    @jayorag Год назад +1

    I'm currently reading You never give me your money and this is the perfect interview I could dream of

  • @jillyidle6462
    @jillyidle6462 Год назад +4

    This was a beautiful interview, Matt. What a nice person May seems to be. How fun to be able to pick her brain! Thank you for all your work, getting guests like May, and others. I learn so much, and I love your style. 👍🏻❤️

  • @strose2002
    @strose2002 Год назад +3

    GRAND SLAM MATT! I could listen to you and May all day. That was a big "what if" with Paul and John. Would have changed history. This is great, that's why I'm a patreon. Best channel on RUclips! Hope you can get May back in the future.

  • @tonyspada2744
    @tonyspada2744 Год назад +3

    May is adorable!! Can't wait to see her documentary.
    Thanks for having her on Matt!!🎸🎼😊

    • @popgoesthe60s52
      @popgoesthe60s52  Год назад +1

      Thank you, Tony!

    • @tonyspada2744
      @tonyspada2744 Год назад +1

      @@popgoesthe60s52 i thought you were very kind and Gentle with her Matt. She seemed very comfortable and so willing to answer questions with you!🎸🎼

  • @michael.in.taiwan
    @michael.in.taiwan Год назад +2

    Fantastic interview, thanks to both of you. This was the first time I heard May speak. And all these years later, still finding out new curious bits of info.

  • @jltrem
    @jltrem Год назад +3

    Thanks for this, Matt. Very enjoyable.

  • @shedbythetracks
    @shedbythetracks Год назад +3

    It's no accident that Walls and Bridges (Johns best solo album) was made while they were together. He seemed not so uptight.

    • @graniterhythm53
      @graniterhythm53 Год назад +1

      Walls & Bridges John's best? Not for me LA/New York studio musicians - I'd rather have John, Klaus & Ringo (& Phil) on John Lennon/Plastic Ono Band myself!

  • @susanandtimrice5265
    @susanandtimrice5265 Год назад +1

    Tell her - Thank Your!
    Tim

  • @UnderTheCovers1
    @UnderTheCovers1 Год назад +1

    great interview

  • @steinervision7643
    @steinervision7643 Год назад +2

    What a beautiful and articulated woman!

    • @ChromeDestiny
      @ChromeDestiny Год назад

      She seems to be very honest and kind hearted with a good sense of humor. I found a hilarious clip of Howard Stern singing a parody of Imagine to her and she enjoyed it.

  • @aidanlennon4873
    @aidanlennon4873 Год назад +5

    Great interview
    I could have listened to her all night. Thanks

  • @DocDoccus
    @DocDoccus Год назад +1

    Very good! May is quite well spoken and it's great to to hear her recollections of that infamous "Lost Weekend". Five stars out of four!

  • @mwmsjuly19
    @mwmsjuly19 Год назад +6

    I loved her documentary! So heartbreaking and bittersweet. I always love seeing people who acknowledge and care for Julian & Cynthia Lennon, who are erased all too often. Great job, Matt and May. (This also reminds me of an interview after John's death, where a reporter said to George Harrison, "He was no angel." And George said, "He wasn't. But he was.")