My 25 year old daughter took her life on 06/03/20 uk. I was totally crushed. Absolutely devastated. It’s taken time but I’m ok. We are ok. We are doing good. Life does go on.
It is so helpfull. I was the aware parent, my 11years old doughter was in therapy for 6 monts, took pill for depression, she was silent about her suffering, we could not to reach her, she was happy doing some clay figures, meeting friends, and not lettin us to be to close. I was shocked when she decided to end her life. We all have to understand when mental illnes is on it may be very difficult to help, becouse they are very individual, to many factors plays role. God please help me and other people walk on this path with barable pain that we could comfort the one that are at the biginig. Thank you for your film! God bless you!
Suicide is the hardest thing for parents. It’s 20 months for Aaron. I homeschooled him…… he worked in corrections and didn’t want to go back after a prisoner punched Aaron’s neck…. I feel we need to speak, go through the phases how we can handle it. I lost my faith, but returning anyway. My son was extremely loved…..yet I feel guilt
I don't think that u would ever get over a suicide, of a family member, but u put it in a corner of your mind, and learn how to cope. Sad,,! Life is short and precious, as it is. RIP!
I drowned in 999-trillion oceans of rage and grief and guilt and regret and darkness. I am submerged in darkness. How the fuck is this my life at 44? HOW?
My family mocked me. My mom called my grandma and aunts to tell them about how selfish I was and how I was acting out for attention. My little brother said hurtful things I won't repeat because he was young and I know he didn't understand. My best advice to you is to just hang in there, once you can get away from your situations things will improve and you can begin to heal. The Lord is with you in the hard times, and these feelings and tears shed won't be for nothing I promise.
Sometimes you need to find strength in yourself. Your inner strength, your human strength is amazing. Hopefully you could also find a really good GP and they can help.
Please understand Suicide is a permanent solution the a temporary problem . Please seek help 988 to text or call for help. I lost my son 52 days ago. I am so broken please hang on. Look for the go spots in your life.❤
@@jo-annstone1273 I dont know what to say, Im so sorry for your pain. My mom commited suicide back in 2003 when I was 12 years old, and I can tell you that it will get a little bit better as time goes.. Hang on and think of those who would miss you if you took the same way..
The worst judgemental comments come from so-called evangelicals. They immediately assume your child is in hell. So God is going to say "Well you had such a rough life that you finally could not handle it s moment more. So come my child" says God "I'm going to give you even more suffering by tossing you my creation, into hell" No one asks to be born and fate plays a great part in life. We are NOT the captain of our lives (ships).
@@maihoang8567I wish I had never been born. Some people are born into a life of pain and ending it all is the only relief after years and years of attempts to get better have failed. Life is suffering, it’s just much greater for some people due to genetics and circumstances.
My 25 year old daughter took her life on 06/03/20 uk. I was totally crushed. Absolutely devastated.
It’s taken time but I’m ok. We are ok. We are doing good. Life does go on.
It is so helpfull. I was the aware parent, my 11years old doughter was in therapy for 6 monts, took pill for depression, she was silent about her suffering, we could not to reach her, she was happy doing some clay figures, meeting friends, and not lettin us to be to close. I was shocked when she decided to end her life. We all have to understand when mental illnes is on it may be very difficult to help, becouse they are very individual, to many factors plays role. God please help me and other people walk on this path with barable pain that we could comfort the one that are at the biginig. Thank you for your film! God bless you!
you all alienated her, drugged her, and completely failed as caretakers. I hope you all suffer far worse in life and burn in hell.
My Son Hung himself on the 1st May 2023. Words cannot come close to express how I’m feeling. These videos help me to deal with it bit by bit.
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Suicide is the hardest thing for parents. It’s 20 months for Aaron. I homeschooled him…… he worked in corrections and didn’t want to go back after a prisoner punched Aaron’s neck….
I feel we need to speak, go through the phases how we can handle it.
I lost my faith, but returning anyway.
My son was extremely loved…..yet I feel guilt
I am so sorry for your loss. I pray no one else has to experience but they will. Please continue to talk. Thank you.
I don't think that u would ever get over a suicide, of a family member, but u put it in a corner of your mind, and learn how to cope. Sad,,! Life is short and precious, as it is. RIP!
Thank you Graham for your honesty, and yes your words are encouraging.
Worst feeling ever life never the same your heart hurts forever 😢
I drowned in 999-trillion oceans of rage and grief and guilt and regret and darkness.
I am submerged in darkness.
How the fuck is this my life at 44? HOW?
So sorry for your loss.
What about when you keep telling family and they won't help? And there's no family support?
Jesus will listen. He is a Wonderful Counselor, and all you need. Cast your cares upon the Lord… he loves you 💟🕊🙏
My family mocked me. My mom called my grandma and aunts to tell them about how selfish I was and how I was acting out for attention. My little brother said hurtful things I won't repeat because he was young and I know he didn't understand. My best advice to you is to just hang in there, once you can get away from your situations things will improve and you can begin to heal. The Lord is with you in the hard times, and these feelings and tears shed won't be for nothing I promise.
Sometimes you need to find strength in yourself. Your inner strength, your human strength is amazing. Hopefully you could also find a really good GP and they can help.
4:27 This. It has been 7 years since I lost my cousin to suicide, and this going forward is the most important fact after a suicide.
I understand why they did it, I feel the same pain
It's not the answer.
@@maihoang8567 It's going to be better after April
Please understand Suicide is a permanent solution the a temporary problem . Please seek help 988 to text or call for help. I lost my son 52 days ago. I am so broken please hang on. Look for the go spots in your life.❤
Thank you for your words
There is no new normal for me. I have no family since my son's unexpected death 💔
Me too... just lost my 16 year old daughter Codi on Sept 16th 2022 it's so jacked up
@@ShelleyTexley I'm sorry Shelley!! I hope you have loved ones or friends to help you.
Shelley and Jo-ann, are you ok? I feel so sorry for you! 😢
@@xrv404 I'm not. How could I be? 💔
@@jo-annstone1273
I dont know what to say, Im so sorry for your pain.
My mom commited suicide back in 2003 when I was 12 years old, and I can tell you that it will get a little bit better as time goes.. Hang on and think of those who would miss you if you took the same way..
Very well explained and shared. Thank you
I WANT TO DIE
MY LIFE IS HELL
WITH NO ESCAPE
Lost my 36 year old daughter to mental illness Jan 17, 2023
Im in so much pain from losing my baby girl
I dont know if i will live thru this
I lost my 30 yo daughter Christmas day .
Thank you
The worst judgemental comments come from so-called evangelicals. They immediately assume your child is in hell. So God is going to say "Well you had such a rough life that you finally could not handle it s moment more. So come my child" says God "I'm going to give you even more suffering by tossing you my creation, into hell" No one asks to be born and fate plays a great part in life. We are NOT the captain of our lives (ships).
Exactly I didn't ask to be here and I'm struggling not to do it .
Yeah the forgot the part were it says
"he how has not sinned shall cast the first stone"
@@toni-annscottscott964
None ask to be here and i battled the pain for 60 years .
Lost my daughter 3 months ago .
Don't do it .
@@maihoang8567I wish I had never been born. Some people are born into a life of pain and ending it all is the only relief after years and years of attempts to get better have failed. Life is suffering, it’s just much greater for some people due to genetics and circumstances.