Thankyou Little Poet, my Mum was a pretty lady. When i was 5 I remember her with a beehive hairdo a yellow and paisley hotpants outfit . She glammed it up with eyeliner and lipstick. She looked like a model out of a fashion pattern catalogue. A few years after divorce and 3 kids in tow doing it solo It was just the eyebrow pencil and a lipstick. Then through decades she pulled in and lost herself the eyebrow pencil and lipstick. I wish not to lose myself, my confidence and selfcare as I grow older. We must look after ourselves as nobody else can. Its our personal journey to make the most of this body. To be our best self, use our skills and continue to learn, grow and cherish this precious life. Favorite Christmas song hmmm not sure to pick one I love them all because they are so happy and uplifting they make me want to dance about a bit at the shops. Much love and light with many blessings sprinkled over.
This was so beautiful written and expressed....thank you fgro this gift today...I can picture your Mom before life wore her down...what a wistful lesson...it makes us prepared and determined to be the best we can be, even if it takes a fight....xxoo Susan
That is sad to hear about your mother pulling into herself but what a beautifully expressed lesson you have drawn from her experience. I need to remember those things too. Thank you.
@@LittlePoet Yes I think that would be great. It would show two ways life could go. One way is honoring self with loving selfcare making the most of what you have and doing what you love. The opposite is to de-prioritize selfcare to a point of neglect while losing yourself, your self-esteem, confidence and sparkle in life.
At 72 I get it. But thankfully I have the love and friendship of my RUclips sisters to remind me that we are still beautiful. I discovered you and Patti and Sandra and so many “older” beauties who inspire me to be the best that I can be- inside and out. I still feel beautiful and still love my makeup and creams and pretty blouses and flowy skirts. So thank you, sweet Susan, for another special Saturday visit. You and a Desi enjoy your wonderful new home. And I’ll see you next week. Your friend, Monnie
It brought tears to my eyes when you spoke of your mother. My mom had a hard life living in poverty. Worked all her life. Never had her nails done but in her seventies she went to salon to get her hair dyed and if she went to a wedding she would go to a nice dress shop and get a pretty b outfit. Now I am 78 the year my mom died and I know what you mean about feeling left out. You have great taste. I love your home and the clothes you buy.
OH Norma....thank you for sharing this about you and your Mom....I feel I can relate to your feelings so much...I watched my Mom work a job that hurt her body and then she would come home to only me and our dogs...looking back at your Mom now with adult eyes...I think we understand our Mom better? I know I feel that way and it makes me feel grateful and wistful all at the same time....
Hi Norma I feel exactly the same. My mother died at 66. I am now 67. We have to keep our mothers' legacies stronger and happier for ourselves. Not always easy to do when there are jolts to the sad memory box in our head. Thinking of you. Love and blessings from Ireland 😘 ☘️
For the life of me, I do not know why you do not have a million followers. With all the stuff that must be on RUclips, you are a standout. It is not only your videos, which give us a wide range of valuable information but the heartfelt comments from this community of women. It all just exudes caring hope and without hope we are lost. Thank you for bringing us together. My heart and prayers go out to all who are struggling and I know that there is a multitude of hope and love found in faith. I am grateful that I just happened to find your channel. Oh yeah, my favorite Christmas Carol is O Holy Night. Thanks Susan and friends.
Thank you Linda so much for your beautiful words....you lifted my heart tonight...it was a long day into night and your warm friendship made me smile and reminded me how lucky I am....Merry Christmas Linda! xxoo Susan
When I sit down with you and read through the lovely messages from these wonderful ladies I always come away a happier, kinder and wiser person. Your words about feeling disconnected really touched and echoed in my soul. I have always been the odd child. People have always pointed out I am not much to look at, not talkative enough, not fun enough. Even people who love me always make me feel like I am ‘less than’ at times. But you all inspire me and make me feel connected to you. 💕 We should all form a club and call ourselves the Twinkle Lights! 😃 Prayers and loving thoughts to all!
Oh I am so happy to see you today and I love your idea!!! I bet most of us have our twinkle lights up 365 days a year and love it! I think a Twinkle Lights Club is a great idea and I was so touched when you said we are connected here...and we are and it sure has helped me so much...more than words can describe. Thank you fro being here and I so hope your new week is a great safe one...xxoo Susan & Dez
Please do not feel alone with how you feel about yourself...more people than you may imagine feel the same way. Unfortunately TV commercials make us all believe that we should be a certain way instead of the beautiful special person that you are.. I love twinkle lights ,hugs
The story about your Mother being so thrilled to get her nails done left me a tiny bit tearful. My mother was cold and emotionally distant but I still loved her! Our family dynamics can be so complicated and I pray for the precious women here who are going through difficult times. Thankyou Susan for your beautiful, joyful videos!
Oh Holy Night is my favorite. This is the true meaning of Christmas. One day Christ is coming back for those of us that have trusted Him as their Saviour.
Love to you Zen from me and Desi...feeling loved and cared for is so important...a gift I can give myself...or least I am working on it. This has been a tough year.
@@LittlePoet Love back to you and adorable Desi from me and my precious kitty, Magic. Indeed self love and care is so important...we will work on it all together.,especially now. Namaste'
Hi Susan and everyone,last week we lost a family member.My heart has been heavy and broken for my son in law and daughter The other night I questioned myself."Why has this death affected me so bad Firstly I loved the lady who died.She has been part of my life for 20 years.We went on holidays together We went to concerts and spent most holiday celebrations together. What hit me was this.We always said "we must do this and that". She lived abroad alot and I'm sick.So what happened is we ran out of time.We thought we had many years ahead of us,we didn't.My friend died suddenly and there is a gaping whole in all our lives.I told my daughter this yesterday.She said "well mum lesson learnt" My favourite Christmas song is "Oh holy night". At school I sang the solo in the school choir.And every year I had a terrible sore throat just the week before Christmas.The very day we were invited to sing at a community concert.It was a difficult solo part,but I managed.🎄🎄🎄
I use to sing oh holy night to my Dad. He loved to hear me sing it to him. ❤ I miss him so! My mom and my husband too. 😢 We always have sweet memories. I have so many songs I like. All I want for Christmas is you,by the Valients, that version, I believe is my favorite. God bless each and everyone. ❤
Thank you for your profound insights and sensitivities! I am a 74 year old, recent widow, moved to a new place, locked down in the Covid pandemic, processing this new, scary phase of my solitary life feeling obsolete, disconnected, and irrelevant...but your joy, good cheer, and soul-full suggestions about living a more peaceful and grateful life fill me with new resolve to make this last phase of my life as if it was like the adventure you have made the changes in your life. Thank you for the inspiration! Blessings Dear One!
I can totally relate to feeling disconnected. I've never really fit in with people, and it was discouraging for many years. I went through a time where I did a lot of personal development, and discovered that I don't need to fit in, and that I can be happy without external validation. Granted, it ALWAYS feels good to be noticed, but my happiness and self worth aren't dependent on it, and that's been very liberating!!! I really enjoyed your Amazon suggestions! Especially the quilt, and the dishes by Pioneer Woman!! I LOVE that brand! It's old fashioned, but still a bit modern.🎄🎁🎄🎁 My favorite Christmas songs...Rockin around the Christmas tree, and anything by Michael Buble.
I have never really fit in with people either, I agree totally that I can be happy without external validation! I am so glad I did the work on myself and am able to be happy in my little house with my dog and cat. It is very liberating. Thank you for your post, Dore
You are precious. Let us all stick together and we will help eachother feel relevant! Three cheers for strong women! Loved seeing your purchases and you looked great in the blouses. I especially like the white blouse with the belt! Hugs to Desi!
O Holy Night, sung by David Phelps. All of our sin being taken away and all that remains is love. The love Jesus came to bring to us if we ask it of Him. Thank you sweet Susan!
How sweet and wonderful of those nurses to paint your Mom's nails and do her makeup. I wonder if anyone does that today? Nurses are highly underrated! They are the ones who can either make or break your hospital visit, nursing home care, etc. Doctors are great but it's the nurses that make things happen. They are the work horses, the backbone of the healthcare system. God Bless them! And God Bless you! Thank you for sharing your life with us. I enjoy your videos so much! 😍😁
I can still taste the Glue from the back of the green stamps... it was my job to lick and glue them into the books. Wish we would’ve thought of a sponge. Really enjoyed this video.... just a feast for the eyes. ❤️
Oh Susan, sometimes it’s such a long wait until Sunday and I see you again. You brought back a precious memory and tears of my Mum letting me help her with the green stamps. When you said about your mum being idealistic and escaping into fantasy, wow I have been told I do that but I’ve struggled with shyness too. I just love old movies and beautiful things, is that wrong? You are so relevant to me and 1000s of ladies here I am sure, please know that 🌷. You lift me up and inspire me to be more positive about my life. Thank you, love you and Desi so much 🙏🌺💐🌷
I live in a city where I can’t pursue my passion for thrifting until the numbers come down so I live vicariously through your beautiful finds like that Bavarian plate. 💖😘
Oh, Susan, you have touched my soul again. Aren’t we happy to not have to conform to standards that are realistically unattainable, and just be authentically us? You inspire me to wake up and put my makeup on and fix my hair and be my best.. just to stay at home. You help us stay connected and elevate our esteem and we truly love you for this. So very thankful for you and your sweet Mama and Grandfather.. and Desi! XO
Hi suzie. I really look forward to your vlog each week. I'm a 74 year old widow and your little talk about not being relevant as you age rang so many bells with me. I'm 3 yes post chemo and my husband passed away during the week of my second chemo session. I feel stuck in one place, unable to move on. I have no single friends. And Life just seems to be devoid of any meaning. I'm still quite attractive but sometimes feel more lonely in a group than when I'm actually on my own. I will include a recent photograph just so that you can see that I do make an effort some days. Other days it's an effort to leave my bed. Stay safe... regards Kathie x
You take us on such a journey with your posts. From home-making, to self-care, to fashion and of course, your poignant stories. Every week you connect and resonate with all of us 'women of a certain age.' I cried when you were speaking about your mom and how easy it is to feel disconnected after retiring. Not only do I remember 'green stamps' but in 1986 our families pooled their stamps together and gave them to my husband-to-be and I to purchase our wedding bands! I had almost forgotten about that. Love you so much! Desi was beyond adorable on your bed. He is becoming a bit of a "ham" for the camera! :)
I remember putting green stamps in the book. When I was in High School my Mom got me (I believe it was called a train case.) I had it until a couple of years ago and it got wet inside (I was unaware of it) and that was the end of it. I had it for about 58 years, so I got my use out of it. Susan, you should never feel irrelevant, you are an inspiration to all of us that wait every week for your videos.
A train case! You don’t see those anymore. My older sister had one that was lined with red satin. I was quite envious of her having that. Alas by the time I grew up train cases weren’t really available anymore.
Thanks you sharing your Mother’s manicure story. I had almost the identical experience when my Mom has her nails done by an activity girl at the home. She never had her nails done until then and could not wait to show me when I visited. 💕
I love your videos.. I’m on your “page “ of life.. 65 years old and have the same feelings !! I am thankful for having found your utube .. most importantly for my God and my relationship with Jesus Christ .. Who carries me daily!! Keep sharing .. your purpose !
Hi Susan and Desi! What a delight your channel is. As a woman in her 60s myself - You really spoke to my heart! Thank you so much for all that you shared at the end of the video. As to my favorite Christmas song...oh my! I have so many but probably Joy to the World is up there as one of my favorites. Love and God Bless, Mary
⛄ What a Beautiful Video, as Alway's Susan. I had Tear's 😥 dripping down my face, as you were Talking about Sometime's How We Feel "Less Than." My Beautiful Mama Felt That, and Now, I am There. Much L💞VE to You and Lil' Desi. 🤗
My favorite christmas song is “I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day”, because the writer starts off feeling despair, but by the end of the song he is triumphant. I think that this year we really need to fill triumphant, hopeful, peaceful, and faithful.
Bonjour my friend, You have created the most lovely space. To laugh.. to reflect.. to ponder important passions and to renew your faith in life. The inspirational word that I’m getting today is... EMBRACE. Not just the things that are perceived as “ right” as, that will always make sense. But the things that are hard. So, a lesson I have been practicing this week is this; when you know “ how” to suffer... You suffer much less. When you don’t run from it and let it come, Compassion arrives instead Then understanding... then a calm awareness and we can generate J O Y. I am embracing I am renewing The song I am singing the most is “ I’ll be home from Christmas “ ❤️🌻🌻 E
Judy Garland singing Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas....downtrodden yet full of Hope...makes me cry every every time I see or hear it...after 60 I didn't recognize myself anymore...where did I go?.... I will be 65 on February 21st ...will try again to find me against all odds ...give Desi a hug for me please and Have yourself a Merry Little Christmas you and Desi...Debby from Texas
I worked at the factory when it was in Lakewood, Ohio one summer. You would smell like lip snacker every day. And we got to bring home all the rejects!
O Holy Night is my favorite Christmas carol because that is what Christmas is all about for me. I look forward to your videos every week! You are a beautiful woman, inside and out!
Susan I'm sorry about your mom. She was blessed to have you. As you lifted me up I got some tears rolling down. Ok peace til next week. No favorite Xmas song
My favorite Christmas songs are O Holy Night and I'll Be Home for Christmas...both make me cry...Thank you for sharing your stories about your Mom. I lost mine last year and I miss her.....every day. You are very special to me.
My favorite Christmas song is The Christmas Song by Nat King Cole! Your A&P reference definitely struck home: when I went off to college I left my dog (Mandy) with my parents. She was my first dog, a Beagle Bernard mix and she was a bit crazy about being in a car too long! My Father used to take her to the A&P with him for Saturday weekly shopping! She would sit in the driver seat when Dad went in, and if she thought he'd been gone too long, she'd hit the horn!!! It was such a regular event (and the manager or whomever was in the office ) that they would get on the loudspeaker and tell my Father that Mandy was ready to go!! I miss them both terribly but am so glad my Father had a buddy to keep him on track!! Take care and thank you for stirring that up!!
whenever i need some calm in my life.. i watch you.. sometimes i forget to keep up with your videos but suddenly it seems whenever i need to reflect, cry a few tears or remember to be grateful for my wonderful life.. you pop up!! thanks so much.. i only hope to be half as classy and beautiful inside and out as you dear lady xxx
OH Lisa...I think it's something maybe we can't put into words...but it's there...We live in a youth culture and we are bound to feel a disconnect at times...thank you so much for being here..xxoo Susan & Dez
I have so many Christmas songs I love, but one of my favorites is Josh Groban singing "I'll be Home for Christmas" with members of our military who are apart from their families wishing then a Merry Christmas. Comes on the car radio all the time and I always shed a tear.
Hi Susan, my favorite Christmas song is The Carpenter’s , Merry Christmas Darling. I love this song because I adore The Carpenter’s, but also because it brings back sweet memories of my first love. ❤️
My favorite Christmas song is "Holly Jolly Christmas" by Burl Ives. Please listen to it, it will warm your heart and lift your spirit. Little Poet, thank you for another lovely video!
I love Silent Night. When I watch you I always feel your raw emotion, thanks for the authenticity. Listening to your memories with your mom in hospice made me cry. I am a hospice nurse along with administering chemo in a hospital where I work full time. Thank you for always being so positive 💞we all need some of that now
Dearest Susan Life is indeed sometimes stranger than fiction. I used to have the same print that you have above your bed. I loved it so much because it symbolized the magic of romance. When I redecorated my room I accidentally put the print in a box going to the Goodwill. I kicked myself afterward. I thought I'd never see it again, so you can imagine my surprise to see it hanging in your room. Thank you for being such an inspiration to all of us. You're an amazing person. All my love to you and Desi.
Oh Jena...I love that print..." Springtime in Paris" by Gary Kelly and I bought it at Goodwill years ago! Isn't that amazing!!! The circle of beauty! xxoo
Yes to the “Covid Hair”, S&H green stamps and the keys to staying relevant. I think it’s important to exercise every day and I am fortunate to be part of a Zoom fitness group of over 60’s who jump on each morning for cardio, stretch and tone. Keeps me feeling young! Enjoy all your videos and tips and tricks along the way. Oh Come All Ye Faithful comes to mind and performing in school Christmas pageants and plays!
Another video that touched my heart. With my husband gone and approaching 68, I understand the "less than". When such a big part of your life is over, it's impossible not to feel the loss of the woman you used to be. But on most days being a woman of faith, I believe there's more to come, more purpose to living, it may be different but still worthwhile. Until I figure out what that is, I continue to enjoy my role as mom and nana and friend to those in my life.
Well you are definitely loved and relevant! I really enjoy your videos, and this one touched me greatly. As a 62-year old who is still working, I find that I can still struggle with being relevant. But as long as I have the love and support of my children and grandchildren my life has meaning and purpose beyond my career. So I find that taking time to find a good balance of rest, relaxation and friendships (and watching lovely videos like yours) helps me to not struggle to feel worthy of all I've been blessed with in this life. Thank you for being true to yourself and lifting us all up in the process!
Oh the snow is so pretty!!! Yes, what is going on with our hair!!! Mine is crazy! I absolutely love your bed. Just gorgeous. Oh my gosh, those sunglasses. I am loving them!!!!! I might have to get a pair for Christmas. You're so pretty. I really enjoyed this so much and everything looks beautiful. Much love, Melissa
Thank you, sweet Melissa! I miss you! I have left you a few comments and I so wanted to wish you a Happy Christmas....you were so good to me this year and the things you shared with me about your Mother left such a deep impression....Love to you from me and Deis
I love White Christmas. We sang it in high school choir, I love Bing Crosby, and I do love a white Christmas! Blessings to you and Desi from Midas and me.
I'm 63and I get up everyday and put on my make-up if I stop doing the things that make me feel pretty. It would be sad. I can still be the pretty older lady we can be attractive at any age. So put on a our make-up and style your hair. You'll feel better and look better
My favorite Christmas song is Dean Martin’s “Baby it’s cold” I love Dean Martin and all things vintage. You really have a wonderful way of connecting to your subscribers. Thank you
I"ll Be Home For Christmas!!! Moved From Texas to Illinois Year's ago.Family still in Texas. Beautiful Song always get a lump in my throat and tears in my eyes. Thank You so much taking us on beautiful trips into the past.❤❤
Beautiful pictures. I love the warmth of your apartment. I spent my first Thanksgiving alone. Life is getting very tough. I am not sure how much more alone I can take. I used to have so many wonderful Christmases with my Aunt's Christmas eve parties for 40 people to now being totally alone. One of my fave songs is my favorite things.
My favorite Christmas song is "Mary, Did You Know?" Beautiful video Susan. I remember being young and getting S & H stamps and green stamps at gas stations and grocery stores. My mom let me cash a bunch of them in for things I needed for my first apartment like a toaster, pillows, etc. Now you don't get anything for buying groceries or gas. Anyone remember getting drinking glasses at gas stations with purchase and someone pumping your gas and checking your oil??
Love the part when you talked about your mother, that makes me think about my mother. How lucky I am to still have her with me and what I need to do to cherish our time on earth together. Love you for sharing your life and your thoughts on this channel. Happy Thanksgiving ❤️
My mom lives in an independent retirement community. She will be 97 in February. Due to the Covid pandemic no visitors are allowed. We talk on the phone every day @ 3:00 (Mom o’clock) So looking forward to the day I can once again visit in person and hug her 🤗 Until that time I will be so happy to send her groceries and fun treats ❤️
Hello friend. “Away in the manger” brings me to tears as I remember that song being my dad’s favorite. I remember him singing it to me e such love in his heart ❤️. My father was my world and though I only had him for 18 precious years before his unexpected death my cup runith over w his love. Thank you for sharing your moms beautiful heart .
I've often felt an outsider with being the only single person, and childless, amongst my group of friends who have all been happily married for 30years with children. It's been a struggle to feel important or as you say, relevant. You are such an encouragement, thankyou, gillian
I love "Mary Did You Know" too. Its so deep and meaningful. Im relevant to Jesus even though i feel irrelevant to others. Hold on to that love it will never leave you or forsake you. This life is hard right now ..... but God. Bless you x
I understand. But I remind myself that our worth is actually found in Christ and loving others around us. I have tried (by phone) to reach out to others, call those in nursing homes, check on those living alone. For the winter, I'm trying to find things to enrich my mind i.e Sounds silly but I've planned to get some math worksheets (was never good at math), re-read the Constitution, some puzzles, a couple good books, and work on exercise as I have some extra quarantine pounds. These are not big things but things I can easily do while hoping for a better spring. I so understand what you are saying. The struggle honestly is real .🥰
I'll Be Home for Christmas is such a sad yet beautiful song and I have always loved the poignancy of it. Women today need each other to surround us with love and courage. It is my women friends who give me the knowledge of how worthwhile I truly am. As we age we cannot let the world negate us but need to kick up our heels and have the fun we deserve. And, yes, that fun may come from getting together with out sister friends. There comes a time in our lives when you don't have to gage your worth on whether you have a man on your arm. We are even more valuable as a group of women friends! Susan, your home is so lovely. And the Christmas decorations are fantastic! I just love the strength you show and the courage you give to other women. And, of course, Desi, is a precious addition!
My favorite is White Christmas by Bing Crosby. I watch the movie every year. My Grandpa sang and played the organ. He would play that song every Christmas. I love him and my Grandma very much. I lost my Grandpa when I was 16 in 1985. My Grandma is still living and is 94 this year. They have been so influential in my life and every time I hear that song I think of Christmas Eve at their home, singing while my Grandpa played the organ❤️
You are so enjoying to watch and such a calming voice. My favorite song is Silent Night it's everything that christmas is about. Oh and i really love your quilt its cozy.
Hi Sues.....it is nice to have memories of the ones we love. I was never very close with my dad and when he passed I felt very sad because I was never dad's little girl but after him passing I started dreaming with him all the time and he looks so happy. I realized then that it is never the end of someone because after they are gone they still stay close to us...I see my dad in my dreams always happy and that tells me he truly loved me so and now I do feel peace and closeness with him.....who knew.....You look so happy in your new place.......blessings....kisses for Desi..MINDY
Feeling not relevant! Wow how that hit home. I guess that is the way I've been feeling. I have no purpose right now and covid has limited exploring a new normal for me. I've always taken care of my family, but with mom, dad and my husband gone I'm feeling useless. I have to push myself to get out and walk in this cold weather and the nights are long. I'm not depressed, just a little lost. I know this will pass since it's only been 8 months since mom passed. Thank you Susan for giving me a voice as to how I feel. Sometimes I just can't express it. Thank you!
Hi Anna you are not alone in feeling kind of lost in these times with Covid-19. Let,s hope for the best and trying to be optimistic for better times soon.
I just love your channel and you. Speaking of your mom made me cry , thinking of my mom, she had hard life tool. But my memories of her are the most wonderful thing I have in my life, she has been gone 26 years and I miss her so very much. But the story about the green stamps brought a huge smile to my face. I can remember sitting with her at the kitchen table, me with the sponge to moisten the back of the stamps and her putting them in the books very carefully. You have so many beautiful things in your apartment, so much character in your home. The quilt is just beautiful and fresh. LOVE, LOVE, LOVE the snow falling outside your window. So soothing to just sit and watch the flakes fall to the ground.!❄️❄️🌨☃️☃️ we are in Florida so no snow for us. Those two baby doll tops are so pretty and drape so nicely!! Have a wonderful weekend Susan, I’d like to think we would be best friends if we lived next door, I have rambled enough so Au Revoir! you Salut!
When I was a kid in the '50's I had a big crush on Perry Como....so my favorite Christmas song that he sang (and always loved) is "Oh Holy Night". By the way, I remember the Green Stamps as well as the Blue Chip Stamps!
My mom also collected green stamps to save for kitchen items. She loved her kitchen and so do I. I kept her apartment and inherited her beloved kitchen. She also had moments of feeling irrelevant due to pigmentation on her entire body. I never noticed growing up until people stared at her and made her sad and sometimes angry. I made sure that during her aging years up until the end of her life she felt relevant as she went home to join her Savior. My favorite Christmas song is Oh Holy Night... mom sang it beautifully! Your videos are the best!
Hi Susan, I came across your channel last year during the most difficult time in my life and you helped me through to the other side. I have loved you since then! My favorite Christmas songs are not played so frequently on the radio. Those are so often overplayed! I love Kurt Bestor, his instrumental versions of Christmas classics are haunting and beautiful, especially "It Came Upon a Midnight Clear." Jewel's version of this same song always makes me teary eyed! The Mannheim Steamroller has amazing arrangements of all Christmas songs as well. Their version of " Silent Night" is hands down the most amazing thing ever. Thank you for all of your wonderful videos and the exceptional content that you bring to us. The world needs more people like you! Much, much love to you and Desi!
Gosh, this video really brought tears to my eyes for so many reasons. I miss my mum too 💘 My favourite Christmas song is "The Little Boy That Santa Claus forgot." by Nat King Cole. When my son was a little boy - about 3 years old - He was helping to decorate the tree. I was a single mum and he an only child. We were listening to a Christmas music compilation and when that song came on my son began to ask a million questions about this little boy. He seemed rather upset, so I told him a story about how the little boy found a dog who had no one to love him and they became best friends and Santa had sent the dog to the little boy because they needed each other. Every time he heard that song, he would exclaim "He found his best friend didn't he mummy!!?" Oh the memories. 🎄💘🎄
My favorite Christmas song is Carol of the Bells. It’s a blessing to still be learning from the generations that came before. Our picture of them shifts and becomes clearer as we get older and have more life experience. Loved this video. Thanksgiving was harder than I thought - hoping I’ve leaned some lessons to apply to a socially distanced Christmas. 😊 Hope you have a good week.
After watching this video I have to say that I completely understand your desire to feel relevant. I'm 70 and have been experiencing the same. For months I didn't even want to get dressed or brush my teeth. When I found your youtube channel and several others and began to watch them it inspired me to take better care of myself. You are truly an inspiration....you are beautiful and soft spoken and positive and I love watching you. Thank you for this. Lizzie, Willow, and Zoey send their love to Desi.
Susan memories of my mother came flooding back watching your video. I’m 73 and remember those green stamps and sitting with her on Saturday evenings making home made yeast rolls for the next days dinner. My favorite Christmas song is My Grown Up Christmas List.
Oh Elaine...you are so beautiful and your smile made my night! I miss my Mom more each year because now as I have grown up, I know better who she was...xxoo
Can you believe how many of us have a ‘Green Stamp’ story... You’re the kindest soul!!! Love your Stories. I just turned 70 a few weeks back and I totally relate.
Oh wow! I am so touched and so happy so many of us feel these special moments with our Mothers from so long ago. I had long forgotten my Mom pasting those stamps in...and then somebody mentioned AP and bam! Tears just flowed. You are so pretty...you sure don't look 70! You look 30!
So sorry about the artist Bloom passing so young .I always loved her pictures. I love your dishes too. I love birdhouses. I love your new quilt. So beautiful. 🙏🏡🙏
OMG I had forgotten about the green stamps that was so many years ago but I remember my mother doing them too. So long ago now. Where did the time go? I miss my parents they have been gone many years now and Christmas is just not the same without them here, they made it so nice. I miss those days.
I still have a beautiful clock, I got with green stamps over 50 years ago and it still works. It`s 33 inches by 33 inches, gold and white leaves and scroll design. It`s all plastic, but doesn`t look like it. It`s hanging on the wall over the bed in my guest room , of French Provincial Decor. Love the flash back memories. I`m 81, but still like my make up in the morning and connection to womanhood. My favorite Christmas hymns are Silent Night and O` Holy Night, because it tells of the most important night, ever recorded in history. Blessings and Love To You And Desi.
I had a big birthday this week. I turned 70! I have begun to feel invisible and irrelevant. I work from home due to Covid. Now having no place to go... I never wear makeup or dress up. I miss feeling feminine and relevant! Christmas doesn’t seem special. Just another day. I think “Dreaming of A White Christmas” ❄️ is my favorite Christmas song. But, “Jingle Bell Rock” lifts my spirits! 🎄
My favorite is I'll be Home Fpr Christmas. It makes me cry for loved ones that have passed on, but that is OK because it makes me remember how wonderful they were and that I was lucky enough to have shared some time with them. Your channel is so uplifiting and I hope it goes on forever.
Thankyou Little Poet, my Mum was a pretty lady. When i was 5 I remember her with a beehive hairdo a yellow and paisley hotpants outfit . She glammed it up with eyeliner and lipstick. She looked like a model out of a fashion pattern catalogue. A few years after divorce and 3 kids in tow doing it solo It was just the eyebrow pencil and a lipstick. Then through decades she pulled in and lost herself the eyebrow pencil and lipstick. I wish not to lose myself, my confidence and selfcare as I grow older. We must look after ourselves as nobody else can. Its our personal journey to make the most of this body. To be our best self, use our skills and continue to learn, grow and cherish this precious life.
Favorite Christmas song hmmm not sure to pick one I love them all because they are so happy and uplifting they make me want to dance about a bit at the shops. Much love and light with many blessings sprinkled over.
This was so beautiful written and expressed....thank you fgro this gift today...I can picture your Mom before life wore her down...what a wistful lesson...it makes us prepared and determined to be the best we can be, even if it takes a fight....xxoo Susan
That is sad to hear about your mother pulling into herself but what a beautifully expressed lesson you have drawn from her experience. I need to remember those things too. Thank you.
I would like to read your comment in my video if it's ok?
@@LittlePoet Yes I think that would be great. It would show two ways life could go. One way is honoring self with loving selfcare making the most of what you have and doing what you love. The opposite is to de-prioritize selfcare to a point of neglect while losing yourself, your self-esteem, confidence and sparkle in life.
We must never lose our sparkle! That's the fun outgoing adventure seeking side!
At 72 I get it. But thankfully I have the love and friendship of my RUclips sisters to remind me that we are still beautiful. I discovered you and Patti and Sandra and so many “older” beauties who inspire me to be the best that I can be- inside and out. I still feel beautiful and still love my makeup and creams and pretty blouses and flowy skirts. So thank you, sweet Susan, for another special Saturday visit. You and a Desi enjoy your wonderful new home. And I’ll see you next week. Your friend, Monnie
Monnie what channels do you know of on you tube like this one
Thank you
Debra
It brought tears to my eyes when you spoke of your mother. My mom had a hard life living in poverty. Worked all her life. Never had her nails done but in her seventies she went to salon to get her hair dyed and if she went to a wedding she would go to a nice dress shop and get a pretty b outfit. Now I am 78 the year my mom died and I know what you mean about feeling left out.
You have great taste. I love your home and the clothes you buy.
OH Norma....thank you for sharing this about you and your Mom....I feel I can relate to your feelings so much...I watched my Mom work a job that hurt her body and then she would come home to only me and our dogs...looking back at your Mom now with adult eyes...I think we understand our Mom better? I know I feel that way and it makes me feel grateful and wistful all at the same time....
Hi Norma I feel exactly the same. My mother died at 66. I am now 67. We have to keep our mothers' legacies stronger and happier for ourselves. Not always easy to do when there are jolts to the sad memory box in our head.
Thinking of you. Love and blessings from Ireland 😘 ☘️
@@geraldineoneill4495 thank you
Very well said! I'm 76 and totally understand.
For the life of me, I do not know why you do not have a million followers. With all the stuff that must be on RUclips, you are a standout. It is not only your videos, which give us a wide range of valuable information but the heartfelt comments from this community of women. It all just exudes caring hope and without hope we are lost. Thank you for bringing us together. My heart and prayers go out to all who are struggling and I know that there is a multitude of hope and love found in faith. I am grateful that I just happened to find your channel. Oh yeah, my favorite Christmas Carol is O Holy Night. Thanks Susan and friends.
Thank you Linda so much for your beautiful words....you lifted my heart tonight...it was a long day into night and your warm friendship made me smile and reminded me how lucky I am....Merry Christmas Linda! xxoo Susan
When I sit down with you and read through the lovely messages from these wonderful ladies I always come away a happier, kinder and wiser person.
Your words about feeling disconnected really touched and echoed in my soul. I have always been the odd child. People have always pointed out I am not much to look at, not talkative enough, not fun enough. Even people who love me always make me feel like I am ‘less than’ at times.
But you all inspire me and make me feel connected to you. 💕
We should all form a club and call ourselves the Twinkle Lights! 😃
Prayers and loving thoughts to all!
Oh I am so happy to see you today and I love your idea!!! I bet most of us have our twinkle lights up 365 days a year and love it! I think a Twinkle Lights Club is a great idea and I was so touched when you said we are connected here...and we are and it sure has helped me so much...more than words can describe. Thank you fro being here and I so hope your new week is a great safe one...xxoo Susan & Dez
I have put up three sets of twinkle lights because I loved Susan's twinkly home.
@@LittlePoet 💕
@@kathleenrichardson6695 Sounds lovely! 💕
Please do not feel alone with how you feel about yourself...more people than you may imagine feel the same way. Unfortunately TV commercials make us all believe that we should be a certain way instead of the beautiful special person that you are.. I love twinkle lights ,hugs
My Mom saved green stamps to order dishes for my wedding gift! I still have those precious dishes!
The story about your Mother being so thrilled to get her nails done left me a tiny bit tearful. My mother was cold and emotionally distant but I still loved her! Our family dynamics can be so complicated and I pray for the precious women here who are going through difficult times. Thankyou Susan for your beautiful, joyful videos!
Oh Holy Night is my favorite. This is the true meaning of Christmas. One day Christ is coming back for those of us that have trusted Him as their Saviour.
That is my favorite as well. I especially enjoy the version by Josh Groban. What a voice!
How wonderful your Mother left this earth feeling loved. I am 62 and have never had that feeling but I am still here kicking and happy.
Love to you Zen from me and Desi...feeling loved and cared for is so important...a gift I can give myself...or least I am working on it. This has been a tough year.
@@LittlePoet Love back to you and adorable Desi from me and my precious kitty, Magic. Indeed self love and care is so important...we will work on it all together.,especially now. Namaste'
Hi Susan and everyone,last week we lost a family member.My heart has been heavy and broken for my son in law and daughter
The other night I questioned myself."Why has this death affected me so bad Firstly I loved the lady who died.She has been part of my life for 20 years.We went on holidays together We went to concerts and spent most holiday celebrations together.
What hit me was this.We always said "we must do this and that". She lived abroad alot and I'm sick.So what happened is we ran out of time.We thought we had many years ahead of us,we didn't.My friend died suddenly and there is a gaping whole in all our lives.I told my daughter this yesterday.She said "well mum lesson learnt"
My favourite Christmas song is "Oh holy night". At school I sang the solo in the school choir.And every year I had a terrible sore throat just the week before Christmas.The very day we were invited to sing at a community concert.It was a difficult solo part,but I managed.🎄🎄🎄
I use to sing oh holy night to my Dad. He loved to hear me sing it to him. ❤ I miss him so! My mom and my husband too. 😢 We always have sweet memories. I have so many songs I like. All I want for Christmas is you,by the Valients, that version, I believe is my favorite. God bless each and everyone. ❤
Condolences to you and your family in the loss of your friend. You have lovely memories, relish in them❤
@@gwenewing6837 Thank you Gwen.☘️
@@jenniebanish3430 901p www21
Thank you for your profound insights and sensitivities! I am a 74 year old, recent widow, moved to a new place, locked down in the Covid pandemic, processing this new, scary phase of my solitary life feeling obsolete, disconnected, and irrelevant...but your joy, good cheer, and soul-full suggestions about living a more peaceful and grateful life fill me with new resolve to make this last phase of my life as if it was like the adventure you have made the changes in your life. Thank you for the inspiration! Blessings Dear One!
my hubby said...she couldn't be close to 70 she's beautiful and you are inside and out ! God bless and keep you and Desi !
Today 70 is young!
I can totally relate to feeling disconnected. I've never really fit in with people, and it was discouraging for many years. I went through a time where I did a lot of personal development, and discovered that I don't need to fit in, and that I can be happy without external validation. Granted, it ALWAYS feels good to be noticed, but my happiness and self worth aren't dependent on it, and that's been very liberating!!! I really enjoyed your Amazon suggestions! Especially the quilt, and the dishes by Pioneer Woman!! I LOVE that brand! It's old fashioned, but still a bit modern.🎄🎁🎄🎁
My favorite Christmas songs...Rockin around the Christmas tree, and anything by Michael Buble.
I have never really fit in with people either, I agree totally that I can be happy without external validation! I am so glad I did the work on myself and am able to be happy in my little house with my dog and cat. It is very liberating. Thank you for your post, Dore
You are precious. Let us all stick together and we will help eachother feel relevant! Three cheers for strong women! Loved seeing your purchases and you looked great in the blouses. I especially like the white blouse with the belt! Hugs to Desi!
O Holy Night, sung by David Phelps. All of our sin being taken away and all that remains is love. The love Jesus came to bring to us if we ask it of Him.
Thank you sweet Susan!
How sweet and wonderful of those nurses to paint your Mom's nails and do her makeup. I wonder if anyone does that today? Nurses are highly underrated! They are the ones who can either make or break your hospital visit, nursing home care, etc. Doctors are great but it's the nurses that make things happen. They are the work horses, the backbone of the healthcare system. God Bless them! And God Bless you! Thank you for sharing your life with us. I enjoy your videos so much! 😍😁
Your hair is beautiful today (and Desi is so handsome in his bowtie)!
I can still taste the Glue from the back of the green stamps... it was my job to lick and glue them into the books. Wish we would’ve thought of a sponge. Really enjoyed this video.... just a feast for the eyes. ❤️
Same here! and Mom made us paste them in so they were so very straight and not crooked! lol, and do you remember the "Gold stamps" too??
My favorite Christmas song is “Silver Bells” because I think it describes the excitement and feelings of the season so well.
Oh Susan, sometimes it’s such a long wait until Sunday and I see you again. You brought back a precious memory and tears of my Mum letting me help her with the green stamps. When you said about your mum being idealistic and escaping into fantasy, wow I have been told I do that but I’ve struggled with shyness too. I just love old movies and beautiful things, is that wrong? You are so relevant to me and 1000s of ladies here I am sure, please know that 🌷. You lift me up and inspire me to be more positive about my life. Thank you, love you and Desi so much 🙏🌺💐🌷
I live in a city where I can’t pursue my passion for thrifting until the numbers come down so I live vicariously through your beautiful finds like that Bavarian plate. 💖😘
Yes, here in Ohio we are advised to stay in. I just window shop EBay. And also tune in here to see beautiful finds.
The Christmas song, Mary Did You Know, sung by Clay Aiken beautiful...... Enjoy you so much, I am 69 and you inspire me so!
Oh, Susan, you have touched my soul again. Aren’t we happy to not have to conform to standards that are realistically unattainable, and just be authentically us? You inspire me to wake up and put my makeup on and fix my hair and be my best.. just to stay at home. You help us stay connected and elevate our esteem and we truly love you for this. So very thankful for you and your sweet Mama and Grandfather.. and Desi! XO
Yes, I need to do this. Somehow after retirement this past year I felt blah.
Love you, my friend! I hope your day is a good one!
Hi suzie. I really look forward to your vlog each week. I'm a 74 year old widow and your little talk about not being relevant as you age rang so many bells with me. I'm 3 yes post chemo and my husband passed away during the week of my second chemo session. I feel stuck in one place, unable to move on. I have no single friends. And Life just seems to be devoid of any meaning. I'm still quite attractive but sometimes feel more lonely in a group than when I'm actually on my own. I will include a recent photograph just so that you can see that I do make an effort some days. Other days it's an effort to leave my bed. Stay safe... regards Kathie x
You take us on such a journey with your posts. From home-making, to self-care, to fashion and of course, your poignant stories. Every week you connect and resonate with all of us 'women of a certain age.' I cried when you were speaking about your mom and how easy it is to feel disconnected after retiring. Not only do I remember 'green stamps' but in 1986 our families pooled their stamps together and gave them to my husband-to-be and I to purchase our wedding bands! I had almost forgotten about that. Love you so much! Desi was beyond adorable on your bed. He is becoming a bit of a "ham" for the camera! :)
Love you right back....your wedding bands! That is so touching!!!!
My favorite Christmas songs are: I'm dreaming of a White Christmas & Silent Night. Thank you for the gift of YOU!!
I remember putting green stamps in the book. When I was in High School my Mom got me (I believe it was called a train case.) I had it until a couple of years ago and it got wet inside (I was unaware of it) and that was the end of it. I had it for about 58 years, so I got my use out of it. Susan, you should never feel irrelevant, you are an inspiration to all of us that wait every week for your videos.
A train case! You don’t see those anymore. My older sister had one that was lined with red satin. I was quite envious of her having that. Alas by the time I grew up train cases weren’t really available anymore.
Thanks you sharing your Mother’s manicure story.
I had almost the identical experience when my Mom has her nails done by an activity girl at the home. She never had her nails done until then and could not wait to show me when I visited. 💕
I love your videos.. I’m on your “page “ of life.. 65 years old and have the same feelings !! I am thankful for having found your utube .. most importantly for my God and my relationship with Jesus Christ .. Who carries me daily!! Keep sharing .. your purpose !
Hi Susan and Desi! What a delight your channel is. As a woman in her 60s myself - You really spoke to my heart! Thank you so much for all that you shared at the end of the video. As to my favorite Christmas song...oh my! I have so many but probably Joy to the World is up there as one of my favorites. Love and God Bless, Mary
⛄ What a Beautiful Video, as Alway's Susan. I had Tear's 😥 dripping down my face, as you were Talking about Sometime's How We Feel "Less Than." My Beautiful Mama Felt That, and Now, I am There. Much L💞VE
to You and Lil' Desi. 🤗
Thank you for always making these incredible videos! Your videos are so magical and peaceful!❤🤗
My favorite christmas song is “I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day”, because the writer starts off feeling despair, but by the end of the song he is triumphant. I think that this year we really need to fill triumphant, hopeful, peaceful, and faithful.
Bonjour my friend,
You have created the most lovely space. To laugh.. to reflect.. to ponder important passions and to renew your faith in life. The inspirational word that I’m getting today is...
EMBRACE. Not just the things that are perceived as “ right” as, that will always make sense.
But the things that are hard.
So, a lesson I have been practicing this week is this;
when you know “ how” to suffer...
You suffer much less.
When you don’t run from it and let it come,
Compassion arrives instead
Then understanding... then a calm awareness and we can generate
J O Y.
I am embracing
I am renewing
The song I am singing the most is
“ I’ll be home from Christmas “
❤️🌻🌻
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Judy Garland singing Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas....downtrodden yet full of Hope...makes me cry every every time I see or hear it...after 60 I didn't recognize myself anymore...where did I go?.... I will be 65 on February 21st ...will try again to find me against all odds ...give Desi a hug for me please and Have yourself a Merry Little Christmas you and Desi...Debby from Texas
My favorite lip gloss in the 70's was Bonne Bell Lipsmacker! The huge size, bigger than my lighter! 🤣
I worked at the factory when it was in Lakewood, Ohio one summer. You would smell like lip snacker every day.
And we got to bring home all the rejects!
Bonnie Bell was my favorite too in my youth.
@Kathryn Orange sherbet was my favorite
I remember Bonne Bell! What a great memory!!
O Holy Night is my favorite Christmas carol because that is what Christmas is all about for me. I look forward to your videos every week! You are a beautiful woman, inside and out!
Susan I'm sorry about your mom. She was blessed to have you. As you lifted me up I got some tears rolling down. Ok peace til next week. No favorite Xmas song
My favorite Christmas songs are O Holy Night and I'll Be Home for Christmas...both make me cry...Thank you for sharing your stories about your Mom. I lost mine last year and I miss her.....every day. You are very special to me.
My favorite Christmas song is The Christmas Song by Nat King Cole! Your A&P reference definitely struck home: when I went off to college I left my dog (Mandy) with my parents. She was my first dog, a Beagle Bernard mix and she was a bit crazy about being in a car too long! My Father used to take her to the A&P with him for Saturday weekly shopping! She would sit in the driver seat when Dad went in, and if she thought he'd been gone too long, she'd hit the horn!!! It was such a regular event (and the manager or whomever was in the office ) that they would get on the loudspeaker and tell my Father that Mandy was ready to go!! I miss them both terribly but am so glad my Father had a buddy to keep him on track!! Take care and thank you for stirring that up!!
Millie, that's so funny! Thanks for sharing the story of your Dad and your dog at the grocery store!
Susan, your new quilt is absolutely gorgeous! It is always so wonderful to spend a little time with you!
whenever i need some calm in my life.. i watch you.. sometimes i forget to keep up with your videos but suddenly it seems whenever i need to reflect, cry a few tears or remember to be grateful for my wonderful life.. you pop up!! thanks so much.. i only hope to be half as classy and beautiful inside and out as you dear lady xxx
Lovely conversation in this video. How do you keep yourself motivated to do your hair, and put on makeup and keep your house so clean and tidy?
Once again, you and Desi made my day! Thank you so much for bringing us beauty and gentle words of encouragement❤
Thank you so much for who you are and the message you send. I realize I’m not so alone in my feelings of relevance at 73 as I thought.
OH Lisa...I think it's something maybe we can't put into words...but it's there...We live in a youth culture and we are bound to feel a disconnect at times...thank you so much for being here..xxoo Susan & Dez
I have so many Christmas songs I love, but one of my favorites is Josh Groban singing "I'll be Home for Christmas" with members of our military who are apart from their families wishing then a Merry Christmas. Comes on the car radio all the time and I always shed a tear.
I so enjoy your visits!! You share so many beautiful things about life. You are truly a kind, beautiful soul!! 😊💗🌸
My favorite is " Mary Did You Know "...again another from the heart video chat that I loved. 🤗
Hi Susan, my favorite Christmas song is The Carpenter’s , Merry Christmas Darling. I love this song because I adore The Carpenter’s, but also because it brings back sweet memories of my first love. ❤️
Her voice was incredible!
@@ahmoseh3718 Yes, most definitely! 😊
Oh yes! Anything by The Carpenters! She had such a beautiful voice.
One song that I like is "I'll be home for Christmas ".
Beautiful quilt and love the dishes too. Wishing you an amazing weekend. Sending love
My favorite Christmas song is "Holly Jolly Christmas" by Burl Ives. Please listen to it, it will warm your heart and lift your spirit. Little Poet, thank you for another lovely video!
Oh my!! I just commented above, that is my favorite too!
You are one awesome lady. Never change and keep your channel going. Dezi is just too cute.
I love Silent Night. When I watch you I always feel your raw emotion, thanks for the authenticity. Listening to your memories with your mom in hospice made me cry. I am a hospice nurse along with administering chemo in a hospital where I work full time. Thank you for always being so positive 💞we all need some of that now
Dearest Susan
Life is indeed sometimes stranger than fiction. I used to have the same print that you have above your bed. I loved it so much because it symbolized the magic of romance. When I redecorated my room I accidentally put the print in a box going to the Goodwill. I kicked myself afterward. I thought I'd never see it again, so you can imagine my surprise to see it hanging in your room. Thank you for being such an inspiration to all of us. You're an amazing person. All my love to you and Desi.
Oh Jena...I love that print..." Springtime in Paris" by Gary Kelly and I bought it at Goodwill years ago! Isn't that amazing!!! The circle of beauty! xxoo
Yes to the “Covid Hair”, S&H green stamps and the keys to staying relevant. I think it’s important to exercise every day and I am fortunate to be part of a Zoom fitness group of over 60’s who jump on each morning for cardio, stretch and tone. Keeps me feeling young! Enjoy all your videos and tips and tricks along the way. Oh Come All Ye Faithful comes to mind and performing in school Christmas pageants and plays!
Another video that touched my heart. With my husband gone and approaching 68, I understand the "less than". When such a big part of your life is over, it's impossible not to feel the loss of the woman you used to be. But on most days being a woman of faith, I believe there's more to come, more purpose to living, it may be different but still worthwhile. Until I figure out what that is, I continue to enjoy my role as mom and nana and friend to those in my life.
You are such a lovely woman . I ame a woman from holland . And like your videos verry much .
Well you are definitely loved and relevant! I really enjoy your videos, and this one touched me greatly. As a 62-year old who is still working, I find that I can still struggle with being relevant. But as long as I have the love and support of my children and grandchildren my life has meaning and purpose beyond my career. So I find that taking time to find a good balance of rest, relaxation and friendships (and watching lovely videos like yours) helps me to not struggle to feel worthy of all I've been blessed with in this life. Thank you for being true to yourself and lifting us all up in the process!
Oh the snow is so pretty!!! Yes, what is going on with our hair!!! Mine is crazy! I absolutely love your bed. Just gorgeous. Oh my gosh, those sunglasses. I am loving them!!!!! I might have to get a pair for Christmas. You're so pretty. I really enjoyed this so much and everything looks beautiful. Much love, Melissa
Thank you, sweet Melissa! I miss you! I have left you a few comments and I so wanted to wish you a Happy Christmas....you were so good to me this year and the things you shared with me about your Mother left such a deep impression....Love to you from me and Deis
Everytime I watch you..you make me cry tears of happiness. You are a true blessing to me .
I love White Christmas. We sang it in high school choir, I love Bing Crosby, and I do love a white Christmas! Blessings to you and Desi from Midas and me.
Editing Deb fixed White Christians to White Christmas 🤭
🎼 🎶 Chestnuts roasting on an open fire, Jack Frost nipping at your nose..🎵🎶
Desi seems to stop in his tracks and listen to you intently ..... I love it 🥰 💕
I'm 63and I get up everyday and put on my make-up if I stop doing the things that make me feel pretty. It would be sad. I can still be the pretty older lady we can be attractive at any age. So put on a our make-up and style your hair. You'll feel better and look better
I feel the same way , were close in age .
I do the same thing, it makes me feel better about things to keep trying to look my best ☺️💕
My kids make fun of me...I put make up on every day. It makes me feel good💕
My favorite Christmas song is Dean Martin’s “Baby it’s cold” I love Dean Martin and all things vintage. You really have a wonderful way of connecting to your subscribers. Thank you
I"ll Be Home For Christmas!!! Moved From Texas to Illinois Year's ago.Family still in Texas. Beautiful Song always get a lump in my throat and tears in my eyes. Thank You so much taking us on beautiful trips into the past.❤❤
Texas want you back. We moved from TX to KY and after 5 years had to come home. I would get a lump in my throat when I saw a TX license plate.
@@angelawhitlock5770 I would get so excited to see a whataburger . Lol
Beautiful pictures. I love the warmth of your apartment. I spent my first Thanksgiving alone. Life is getting very tough. I am not sure how much more alone I can take. I used to have so many wonderful Christmases with my Aunt's Christmas eve parties for 40 people to now being totally alone. One of my fave songs is my favorite things.
My favorite Christmas song is "Mary, Did You Know?" Beautiful video Susan. I remember being young and getting S & H stamps and green stamps at gas stations and grocery stores. My mom let me cash a bunch of them in for things I needed for my first apartment like a toaster, pillows, etc. Now you don't get anything for buying groceries or gas. Anyone remember getting drinking glasses at gas stations with purchase and someone pumping your gas and checking your oil??
I remember those green stamps. I think my favorite Christmas song is O Holy Night (the Josh Groban version). Have a good week!
I love O Holy Night by Josh Groban.
Love the part when you talked about your mother, that makes me think about my mother. How lucky I am to still have her with me and what I need to do to cherish our time on earth together. Love you for sharing your life and your thoughts on this channel. Happy Thanksgiving ❤️
My mom lives in an independent retirement community. She will be 97 in February. Due to the Covid pandemic no visitors are allowed. We talk on the phone every day @ 3:00 (Mom o’clock) So looking forward to the day I can once again visit in person and hug her 🤗
Until that time I will be so happy to send her groceries and fun treats ❤️
Remember doing S&H green stamps with my Mother. We had so much fun looking at the items and trying to decide what we would get.
💐YOU’RE ALWAYS BEAUTIFUL!!! ❤️👠👛💄💕🐶👍
Hello friend. “Away in the manger” brings me to tears as I remember that song being my dad’s favorite. I remember him singing it to me e such love in his heart ❤️. My father was my world and though I only had him for 18 precious years before his unexpected death my cup runith over w his love. Thank you for sharing your moms beautiful heart .
I've often felt an outsider with being the only single person, and childless, amongst my group of friends who have all been happily married for 30years with children. It's been a struggle to feel important or as you say, relevant. You are such an encouragement, thankyou, gillian
i love "mary did you know". it's tough to feel relevant while stuck in the apt waiting for a vaccine. everything i used to do is gone.
Hang in there. We will have a great life no matter what. It will be different, but it will be good 👍
@@vicki9298 thanks Vicki.
I love "Mary Did You Know" too. Its so deep and meaningful. Im relevant to Jesus even though i feel irrelevant to others. Hold on to that love it will never leave you or forsake you. This life is hard right now ..... but God. Bless you x
I understand. But I remind myself that our worth is actually found in Christ and loving others around us. I have tried (by phone) to reach out to others, call those in nursing homes, check on those living alone. For the winter, I'm trying to find things to enrich my mind i.e
Sounds silly but I've planned to get some math worksheets (was never good at math), re-read the Constitution, some puzzles, a couple good books, and work on exercise as I have some extra quarantine pounds. These are not big things but things I can easily do while hoping for a better spring. I so understand what you are saying. The struggle honestly is real
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I love Mary did you know written by Mark Lowry I watch his RUclips channel it is so uplifting
I'll Be Home for Christmas is such a sad yet beautiful song and I have always loved the poignancy of it. Women today need each other to surround us with love and courage. It is my women friends who give me the knowledge of how worthwhile I truly am. As we age we cannot let the world negate us but need to kick up our heels and have the fun we deserve. And, yes, that fun may come from getting together with out sister friends. There comes a time in our lives when you don't have to gage your worth on whether you have a man on your arm. We are even more valuable as a group of women friends!
Susan, your home is so lovely. And the Christmas decorations are fantastic! I just love the strength you show and the courage you give to other women. And, of course, Desi, is a precious addition!
❤ You warm my heart.
Thank you for making this world a more beautiful place, Susan.
My favorite is White Christmas by Bing Crosby. I watch the movie every year. My Grandpa sang and played the organ. He would play that song every Christmas. I love him and my Grandma very much. I lost my Grandpa when I was 16 in 1985. My Grandma is still living and is 94 this year. They have been so influential in my life and every time I hear that song I think of Christmas Eve at their home, singing while my Grandpa played the organ❤️
You are so enjoying to watch and such a calming voice. My favorite song is Silent Night it's everything that christmas is about. Oh and i really love your quilt its cozy.
Hi Sues.....it is nice to have memories of the ones we love. I was never very close with my dad and when he passed I felt very sad because I was never dad's little girl but after him passing I started dreaming with him all the time and he looks so happy. I realized then that it is never the end of someone because after they are gone they still stay close to us...I see my dad in my dreams always happy and that tells me he truly loved me so and now I do feel peace and closeness with him.....who knew.....You look so happy in your new place.......blessings....kisses for Desi..MINDY
Feeling not relevant! Wow how that hit home. I guess that is the way I've been feeling. I have no purpose right now and covid has limited exploring a new normal for me. I've always taken care of my family, but with mom, dad and my husband gone I'm feeling useless. I have to push myself to get out and walk in this cold weather and the nights are long. I'm not depressed, just a little lost. I know this will pass since it's only been 8 months since mom passed. Thank you Susan for giving me a voice as to how I feel. Sometimes I just can't express it. Thank you!
Hi Anna you are not alone in feeling kind of lost in these times with Covid-19. Let,s hope for the best and trying to be optimistic for better times soon.
@@ritagoedecke6574 yes! I'm trying but some days are easier than others! Thank you! ❤️ I'm looking forward to better times.
I just love your channel and you. Speaking of your mom made me cry , thinking of my mom, she had hard life tool. But my memories of her are the most wonderful thing I have in my life, she has been gone 26 years and I miss her so very much. But the story about the green stamps brought a huge smile to my face. I can remember sitting with her at the kitchen table, me with the sponge to moisten the back of the stamps and her putting them in the books very carefully. You have so many beautiful things in your apartment, so much character in your home. The quilt is just beautiful and fresh. LOVE, LOVE, LOVE the snow falling outside your window. So soothing to just sit and watch the flakes fall to the ground.!❄️❄️🌨☃️☃️ we are in Florida so no snow for us. Those two baby doll tops are so pretty and drape so nicely!! Have a wonderful weekend Susan, I’d like to think we would be best friends if we lived next door, I have rambled enough so Au Revoir!
you Salut!
When I was a kid in the '50's I had a big crush on Perry Como....so my favorite Christmas song that he sang (and always loved) is "Oh Holy Night". By the way, I remember the Green Stamps as well as the Blue Chip Stamps!
I adored Perry Como as a child he was my first crush
@@deborahpellerito6117 He was wonderful! I wanted him to be my father.
My mom also collected green stamps to save for kitchen items. She loved her kitchen and so do I. I kept her apartment and inherited her beloved kitchen. She also had moments of feeling irrelevant due to pigmentation on her entire body. I never noticed growing up until people stared at her and made her sad and sometimes angry. I made sure that during her aging years up until the end of her life she felt relevant as she went home to join her Savior.
My favorite Christmas song is Oh Holy Night... mom sang it beautifully! Your videos are the best!
Hi Susan, I came across your channel last year during the most difficult time in my life and you helped me through to the other side. I have loved you since then! My favorite Christmas songs are not played so frequently on the radio. Those are so often overplayed! I love Kurt Bestor, his instrumental versions of Christmas classics are haunting and beautiful, especially "It Came Upon a Midnight Clear." Jewel's version of this same song always makes me teary eyed! The Mannheim Steamroller has amazing arrangements of all Christmas songs as well. Their version of " Silent Night" is hands down the most amazing thing ever. Thank you for all of your wonderful videos and the exceptional content that you bring to us. The world needs more people like you! Much, much love to you and Desi!
Gosh, this video really brought tears to my eyes for so many reasons. I miss my mum too 💘
My favourite Christmas song is "The Little Boy That Santa Claus forgot." by Nat King Cole. When my son was a little boy - about 3 years old - He was helping to decorate the tree. I was a single mum and he an only child. We were listening to a Christmas music compilation and when that song came on my son began to ask a million questions about this little boy. He seemed rather upset, so I told him a story about how the little boy found a dog who had no one to love him and they became best friends and Santa had sent the dog to the little boy because they needed each other. Every time he heard that song, he would exclaim "He found his best friend didn't he mummy!!?" Oh the memories. 🎄💘🎄
My favorite Christmas song is Carol of the Bells. It’s a blessing to still be learning from the generations that came before. Our picture of them shifts and becomes clearer as we get older and have more life experience. Loved this video. Thanksgiving was harder than I thought - hoping I’ve leaned some lessons to apply to a socially distanced Christmas. 😊 Hope you have a good week.
After watching this video I have to say that I completely understand your desire to feel relevant. I'm 70 and have been experiencing the same. For months I didn't even want to get dressed or brush my teeth. When I found your youtube channel and several others and began to watch them it inspired me to take better care of myself. You are truly an inspiration....you are beautiful and soft spoken and positive and I love watching you. Thank you for this. Lizzie, Willow, and Zoey send their love to Desi.
Goodmorning Susan and Dez Blessings and abundance. I really enjoyed your videos thank you for sharing 🥰
I LOVE the quilt set! Gorgeous. And Desi makes a good model to show it off. Thanks for the touching video. Sending you love from Canada
I remember pasting green stamps at the dining room table with my Mom....fond memories 🙏🏻
I love Blue Christmas by Elvis. Thank you for your beautiful videos. Hug Desi for me.
Susan memories of my mother came flooding back watching your video. I’m 73 and remember those green stamps and sitting with her on Saturday evenings making home made yeast rolls for the next days dinner. My favorite Christmas song is My Grown Up Christmas List.
Oh Elaine...you are so beautiful and your smile made my night! I miss my Mom more each year because now as I have grown up, I know better who she was...xxoo
@@LittlePoet thank you so much Susan. Looking forward to your next post!
OMG so elegant looking..Ty for this. 💯🎄❄️🎄❄️🎄
Can you believe how many of us have a ‘Green Stamp’ story...
You’re the kindest soul!!! Love your Stories. I just turned 70 a few weeks back and I totally relate.
Oh wow! I am so touched and so happy so many of us feel these special moments with our Mothers from so long ago. I had long forgotten my Mom pasting those stamps in...and then somebody mentioned AP and bam! Tears just flowed. You are so pretty...you sure don't look 70! You look 30!
So sorry about the artist Bloom passing so young .I always loved her pictures. I love your dishes too. I love birdhouses. I love your new quilt. So beautiful. 🙏🏡🙏
OMG I had forgotten about the green stamps that was so many years ago but I remember my mother doing them too. So long ago now. Where did the time go? I miss my parents they have been gone many years now and Christmas is just not the same without them here, they made it so nice. I miss those days.
We had Greenshield stamps in the UK, what memories I have of those , I had forgotten my mum's joy when she was collecting them xx
I still have a beautiful clock, I got with green stamps over 50 years ago and it still works. It`s 33 inches by 33 inches, gold and white leaves and scroll design. It`s all plastic, but doesn`t look like it. It`s hanging on the wall over the bed in my guest room , of French Provincial Decor. Love the flash back memories. I`m 81, but still like my make up in the morning and connection to womanhood. My favorite Christmas hymns are Silent Night and O` Holy Night, because it tells of the most important night, ever recorded in history. Blessings and Love To You And Desi.
I had a big birthday this week.
I turned 70!
I have begun to feel invisible and irrelevant.
I work from home due to Covid. Now having no place to go...
I never wear makeup or dress up.
I miss feeling feminine and relevant! Christmas doesn’t seem special. Just another day.
I think “Dreaming of A White Christmas” ❄️ is my favorite Christmas song. But, “Jingle Bell Rock” lifts my spirits! 🎄
Happy Birthday beautiful you!!!
My favorite is I'll be Home Fpr Christmas. It makes me cry for loved ones that have passed on, but that is OK because it makes me remember how wonderful they were and that I was lucky enough to have shared some time with them. Your channel is so uplifiting and I hope it goes on forever.