Ross Jefferies and the Language of Seduction

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  • Опубликовано: 25 окт 2024
  • Uncover the profound art of persuasion and emotional connection with Ross Jeffries, a luminary in the realm of seduction. In this captivating exploration, we delve deep into the symbiotic relationship between language and emotion, a concept that forms the bedrock of Jeffries' revolutionary approach.
    Seduction, as Jeffries explains, is not confined to the realm of acquiring phone numbers or dates. It's an intricate dance of words that ignites intense emotional bonds, enriching human connections beyond the surface. Jeffries' insights challenge the notion of manipulation, focusing instead on fostering genuine interactions that touch hearts and stimulate minds.
    At the core of Jeffries' philosophy lies the "Language of Seduction." This distinctive strategy leverages language patterns to evoke specific emotional responses. It's a nuanced art where well-crafted words act as triggers, unraveling layers of emotions that amplify attraction and create lasting connections. By skillfully crafting phrases, listeners are drawn into a world of emotions, becoming receptive to the speaker's intentions.
    The connection between language and emotion is a symphony that seduction virtuosos orchestrate masterfully. Emotions lend potency to language, while words can stir profound feelings. The harmonious interplay of these elements results in a heightened, intense exchange where both language and emotion feed into each other, creating an enchanting dialogue.
    However, Jeffries' teachings are not about employing deceitful tactics or hollow phrases. Instead, he champions the power of authentic communication as the bedrock of genuine connection. His methodology dismantles barriers, inviting individuals to genuinely engage and comprehend one another.
    Beyond seduction, Jeffries' expertise extends into copywriting and sales training, where the persuasive potential of language can drive business success. By harnessing language patterns, pacing, and mirroring, individuals can tailor their communication to resonate with clients' emotions and aspirations, culminating in effective persuasion.
    The journey of Ross Jeffries takes a significant chapter within Neil Strauss' acclaimed book, "The Game." This exposé into the world of pickup artists casts Jeffries as a pivotal figure. However, the portrayal in "The Game" led to misunderstandings, as Jeffries felt his nuanced approach was misrepresented. His techniques, designed to forge genuine connections, were portrayed as manipulative maneuvers.
    Despite the controversy, Jeffries' commitment to authenticity remains unshakeable. His teaching isn't confined to pickup lines but dives deep into human psychology and the intricate dance of language and emotion. He empowers individuals to genuinely connect, whether in dating, sales, or daily interactions.
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  • @robertmitchel2194
    @robertmitchel2194 5 месяцев назад +1

    She feed complex language back to you so the two of you dance and form a genuine relationship. Well said, Eric. What a brilliant distinction as well as an astute synthesis. Thank you for that. This is one of the best interviews I have seen on the topic of persuasion and influence. You are an underrated interviewer.

  • @americanoracle
    @americanoracle Год назад +12

    Back around 20 years ago I had a friend who was totally into Ross Jeffries and gave me some of his tapes to listen to. Another friend was going through spook school and loaned me his study manual from The Reed Institute which trains spooks, FBI, etc.
    Imagine my astonishment as they were both teaching the same principles.
    Jeffries mentioned Richard Bandler on one of the tapes and I ended up immersed in his works and many of the same epistemological roots for the next ten years.
    And then finally I got laid. And some other good things happened.
    Thanks Ross! Good to see you looking spry.

    • @devanshuthanvi731
      @devanshuthanvi731 Год назад

      I want to talk more about this with you , you have any socials?

    • @billusher2265
      @billusher2265 2 месяца назад

      What is the reed institute and where can we get the manual?

  • @MadScientistCinema
    @MadScientistCinema Год назад +7

    Nice interview! Excellent job keeping clarity in what was meant and not letting misunderstandings confuse conversation. Cheers!

  • @ChicagoJan
    @ChicagoJan Год назад +3

    I watched Ross Jeffries decades ago, just once, and I'd not heard his name again until now. I can still see in my mind what he looked like back then and how strongly I was drawn to him. I'm so glad to see this. To see him. A nice surprise.
    😊

  • @artandculture5262
    @artandculture5262 Год назад +6

    When I talk to men who seem trained like this, it’s not clear that they really liked me. It’s their skill building that seems like it makes it a fake communication.

    • @SuperiorityQomplex
      @SuperiorityQomplex 10 месяцев назад +2

      It can be. But some dudes just don't know how to communicate and this does help them speak in a more effective manner. I do agree that there are some who will absolutely use these skills to manipulate though.

  • @veritylove212
    @veritylove212 Год назад +4

    Very unusual interview, Eric, but interesting. I loved your questions about manipulation because that's what if felt like to me. On the other hand, if I had a mate who conversed or met me on an emotional level, oh yeah. Love you. 💜

    • @erichunley
      @erichunley  Год назад +2

      Thank you! I want to have interviews that provoke thought.

    • @veritylove212
      @veritylove212 Год назад

      @@erichunley I love the direction you're going and Ross certainly provoked more than thoughts from me, haha. 💜

    • @jamesburton9708
      @jamesburton9708 Год назад

      @@erichunley I don't think you do, Eric; I made a point that wasn't disrespectful and didn't have any cursing - and was ACTUAL FACT - and you erased it; so yeah, your claim to want to provoke thought is fraudulent. You want to keep things in line with your own vision, no matter how flawed it is.

    • @jamesburton9708
      @jamesburton9708 Год назад

      @@veritylove212 I'm sure he did.😉

  • @BushaBandulu
    @BushaBandulu Год назад

    David Mamet wrote a book called…. “Three uses of the knife: Cook, Shave, Kill!…” Seduction can be used in this manner.

  • @cherialbaugh1741
    @cherialbaugh1741 Год назад

    I truly enjoy the content you bring to us on your show. I frequently passed them along with great reviews for you.
    Mostly they are with you and Mark we do like the content with the, "dynamic duo"😅
    You did a Really Good Job here interviewing, Ross. I've been in a couple of his classes.
    You retain a very good and loyal audience. We are your fans and thank you ❤

  • @bryonjaffee2361
    @bryonjaffee2361 Год назад +4

    Are familiar with the Book The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene and what do you think of it?

    • @erichunley
      @erichunley  Год назад +2

      I definitely know of Robert Greene. He and Robert Cialdini are high on my list of people I’d love to interview.

    • @maniac50ae14
      @maniac50ae14 Год назад +2

      Its a garbage book.

    • @williamclayton9566
      @williamclayton9566 4 месяца назад

      @@maniac50ae14 I agree. It reads like the author tried to logically deduce what he thinks WOULD work, or SHOULD work, rather than use what actually works and INDUCE from that, what rules and guidelines actually exist in women's minds.
      His book on POWER is pretty good, though.

  • @MadScientistCinema
    @MadScientistCinema Год назад +3

    12:45 Eric is The Master. Direct Hit! 😎

  • @BushaBandulu
    @BushaBandulu Год назад +1

    @Eric: “What is one question…. “
    I see Robin Dreeke had inspired you. 🔥💯😀 Robin’s awesome.

    • @erichunley
      @erichunley  Год назад

      Did he do that first? Interesting. Robin is a great guy for sure.

  • @kathc349
    @kathc349 Год назад +1

    Interesting discussion. On a side note, me OCD was distracted by the uneven moustache and beard.

  • @BushaBandulu
    @BushaBandulu Год назад

    Good interview…💯🧨🔥

  • @juanvaldes1837
    @juanvaldes1837 Год назад

    A real pioneer

    • @annalachapelle
      @annalachapelle Год назад

      Sending love , no legacy is so rich as honesty, did you watched this on TV ?

  • @empresspoobah
    @empresspoobah Год назад +6

    Eric is amazing as always. This guy is obnoxious and full of himself. Please tell me why the resolution on his video is bad? Compare it to Eric's, we all know the answer.

    • @erichunley
      @erichunley  Год назад

      Thank you. It’s not always easy to get the remote video right.

    • @empresspoobah
      @empresspoobah Год назад +2

      @@erichunley Ok I will give you grace because I really like you. Thought it was on him. Your interviewing skills are tremendous.

  • @TheyCallMeJesse
    @TheyCallMeJesse 3 месяца назад

    One thing I'll say about Ross is that he's straight. Honest as f.

  • @bryonjaffee2361
    @bryonjaffee2361 Год назад

    I believe he works with The Fear of Rejection!

  • @BushaBandulu
    @BushaBandulu Год назад +2

    R J is the first in the seduction game. Others followed him like Mystery (aka Eric Von Markovic), Tyler & Papa, Styles, etc.

    • @jab1289
      @jab1289 7 дней назад

      There is a guy named Matthew Cross (The33Secrets on You Tube) who also sounds like he's been teaching since the mid-to-late 90's.

  • @psmith6512
    @psmith6512 Год назад +6

    Interesting guest. Thanks for entertainment. This man presents as a narcissist. Hope not true, they are true blithering on other humans.

    • @erichunley
      @erichunley  Год назад +4

      He is a giant in his field but it’s not without controversy.

    • @psmith6512
      @psmith6512 Год назад

      Could be more my life experiences, this short interview isn't enough for me to really know. Take care Eric.

    • @jamesburton9708
      @jamesburton9708 Год назад +1

      @@erichunley Any man whose life is about avoiding controversy sacrifices his manhood. this shoe is for whoever can fit it

  • @bryonjaffee2361
    @bryonjaffee2361 Год назад

    Is he eliciting excitement by the Laws of Misattribution?

  • @SMALLDANE
    @SMALLDANE Год назад

    I so like your honesty, self reflexion and critical thinking. Rare qualities - thank you for that 🙂
    And boy is this guy trying to seduce YOU 🤣

  • @UnclePeej
    @UnclePeej Год назад +2

    I don't know, I've seen Mystery, he says wear big hats, lots of rings and call girls fat skanks.

    • @erichunley
      @erichunley  Год назад

      😂

    • @BushaBandulu
      @BushaBandulu Год назад +1

      Peacocking is what Mystery trying to mimic when he dresses like he does.

  • @anthonyhenson2663
    @anthonyhenson2663 8 месяцев назад

    I would ask, “what is the line between deception & influence?” IS this DECEPTIVE ?
    There is an AGENDA she is unaware of…
    She doenst KNOW you’re using your language with an intent to create attraction.
    Is that WRONG ?
    We’ve learned telling certain stories and CARRYING ourselves with a measure of confidence can INFLUENCE her attraction. So is THAT also then, deception ?
    AUTHENTIC connection is a rare thing between 2 people. So when you don’t have that opportunity, to NATURALLY bond, HOW then, or WHAT should you say & do ?
    I went on a date once with KNOCK OUT. I was AUTHENTIC and improvised the entire time. SHE was closed off, and MILDLY interested at best. Result ? Fuckin NADA. Just a boring ass waste of time for us both…
    Ross once put it, we’re in essence, giving them what they WANT. This is CRACK for them. It’s a RARE guy that magically and authentically attracts HER, the 10.
    I guess the question remains, is HIDING your agenda morally wrong ? The agenda to create ATTRACTION where it might otherwise be very difficult to create ?
    I suppose it’s a great POWER. And with great power comes…
    I can say for SURE, manipulating her HEART is indeed an actual crime. Just to get sex. But NONE of this is intended to get her heart involved.
    And if we can say that PORTRAYING confidence, or talking playful shit, or telling a story you KNOW gets women wet is EFFECTIVE, yet potentially manipulative. We can safely say Ross’ teachings are simply another form of what some of us already do.
    I’m already a decent looking guy with a high intellectual & emotional IQ. It’s EASIER for me to just shoot from the hip. Equipped with years of experience.
    But for the not so lucky?
    Is not REVEALING every inch of truth & agenda considered deception ?
    Can we chalk this up to mere INFLUENCE ? I am consciously INFLUENCING her emotions & attraction.
    Deception vs influence. For whoever reads this, I’m sorry I could not come to a conclusion. I’ve been on the fence for YEARS implementing this tactic. But I’m trying to explore my own moral terrain.
    Cause the IDEA of using this to enhance my ability to attract sounds quite tempting in my older years.
    ~Fin

  • @aimfloss7711
    @aimfloss7711 Год назад +1

    Poor performance but much potential, @erichunley ! This is the first time I saw your interview and came across your RUclips channel. I'm sitting in my chair and just want to write a few notes to you about what I just saw. The interview started fine, you could say it was casual. But around 3:00, everything started to change. At 2:40, Ross J. explains how he created his alter ego name and ends the sentence by saying: "Maybe I am full of S*** I don't know." (joking) The interviewer responds by saying: "There is some of that, and to be fair, a lot of my audience will know. I am not a fan of PUA... and I don't know if I am a fan of seduction." That's a really bad judgmental frame to start the interview with. Pay attention to how Ross J.'s body language changed at 3:10. Eric, you as the interviewer and a body language expert, should have calibrated the situation at least. Because after that moment, the interview took on that weird judgmental vibe.
    P.S. +One tip: It's better to express disagreement with an idea using the third person. Something like: "Many viewers have a negative perception of PUA and seduction community. What are your thoughts on this?"

  • @Sean-rawlins
    @Sean-rawlins 6 месяцев назад

    21:40 22:41

  • @sherrysmithperry8438
    @sherrysmithperry8438 Год назад +1

    2nd try watching this. Maybe this is for a male audience. That's ok.

  • @amcqueenboxing
    @amcqueenboxing Год назад

    This is so funny... Good to There are men actually putting a lot of thought into getting a woman into bed..
    A woman usually decides if you're actually fckable If she thinks it's possible from the way you make ger feel... If you get the time to talk those words and she thinks uhhhhh ok I guess he's ok to fck
    But if he leans in too far in my face I don't want to reveal to much and I don't want my IQ tested... If a guy isn't cute Making a woman laugh is the only thing I see as him having a chance with her that night..
    But unless you plan on taking her scuba diving Unless you've been scuba diving how do you know she will connect the two...
    Laughing and looking deep into sparkling eyes without letting her smell your breath ... That's just enough to get her into bed Without causing her to fall in love Because if these sht breaks hearts then a woman could sue you for teaching a man to break her heart .. . No your not fcking a guitar it's a woman who hopefully is strong enough bust your nose... If a student is just testing your teachings

    • @rakshithm1257
      @rakshithm1257 Год назад +2

      If you want to catch a fish, you don't ask the fish but rather a fisherman.

  • @Sean-rawlins
    @Sean-rawlins 6 месяцев назад

    23:48

  • @cafeadicto
    @cafeadicto Год назад +1

    Singer of system of a down looking old

    • @annalachapelle
      @annalachapelle Год назад

      Sending love , no legacy is so rich as honesty, did you watched this on TV ?

  • @Sean-rawlins
    @Sean-rawlins 6 месяцев назад

    3:44

  • @Sean-rawlins
    @Sean-rawlins 6 месяцев назад

    4:14

  • @Sean-rawlins
    @Sean-rawlins 6 месяцев назад

    33:00

  • @Sean-rawlins
    @Sean-rawlins 6 месяцев назад

    30:20

  • @Sean-rawlins
    @Sean-rawlins 6 месяцев назад

    0:07

  • @Sean-rawlins
    @Sean-rawlins 6 месяцев назад

    8:28

  • @Sean-rawlins
    @Sean-rawlins 5 месяцев назад

    12:16

  • @Sean-rawlins
    @Sean-rawlins 6 месяцев назад

    6:12

  • @Mary-wj3zz
    @Mary-wj3zz Год назад +11

    I would never take relationship advise from from a 60yr old person who is in a relationship that he feels the need to be regularly tested.

    • @erichunley
      @erichunley  Год назад +2

      I can see your point

    • @IBoughtItMyself
      @IBoughtItMyself Год назад

      That’s some bullshit, like Gandhi sleeping naked with teenage girls

    • @wesing22
      @wesing22 11 месяцев назад +1

      This man, a 60 year old, experienced with human nature; is sharing what he figured out that women ask for security, and look for something better when they have it secured. Imagine creating need and desire for what you offer.... oh, all of society does that to us as men- stay the customer my friend. You are not the provider, you have been sold on being the pawn in the game.
      Society is being shaped by advertising, putting men in the backseat! Those who see it see it, and to everyone else I say: Just kidding! You are so right! Stick with your viewpoint... you are on to something

    • @simpinainteasy680
      @simpinainteasy680 Месяц назад

      Women get bored easily

  • @dianasvend7717
    @dianasvend7717 Год назад

    I would like to learn this information in a more non-gendered presentation. The "men seducing women" narrative is really cringe.

    • @dianasvend7717
      @dianasvend7717 Год назад

      @@marjiaadamskia1163 your response is just more cis het gender stereotyping. Even more cringe.

  • @bryonjaffee2361
    @bryonjaffee2361 Год назад

    You work with The Strongest desire known to the Human. The Innate Sex Drive.

  • @DIY4Profit
    @DIY4Profit Месяц назад

    Lame interviewer he always stops the wisdom

  • @Sean-rawlins
    @Sean-rawlins 6 месяцев назад

    33:57

  • @Sean-rawlins
    @Sean-rawlins 6 месяцев назад

    5:25

  • @Sean-rawlins
    @Sean-rawlins 6 месяцев назад

    8:25

  • @Sean-rawlins
    @Sean-rawlins 6 месяцев назад

    35:38

  • @Sean-rawlins
    @Sean-rawlins 6 месяцев назад

    33:36