Why Men Need to Live With Purpose with Ryan Michler
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- Опубликовано: 26 авг 2024
- Today, we’ve invited Ryan Michler-veteran, author and founder of Order of Man-to the show for an awesome conversation on what manliness and masculinity means in today’s world.
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As a woman who has been dealing with unwell men my entire life, I am SO SO SO grateful these conversations are happening. It’s so healthy. Thank you.
I love it when two podcasts I listen to combine. It's like a marvel movie.
My brother-in-law caught me at the right time in my life to help me understand about being a man. He taught me to dance and how to protect myself and others. He was a Marine.
True. Its not about being an Alpha Male. Its about becoming the absolute best version of yourself.
I never knew what a real man, what real masculinity was until I met my husband. He is a protector of me and our children, he is a provider of love and security, he is always present, always ready to have the hard conversation...
I...am forever thankful. He can cry with me, like when my parents died or when our children were born, but he's a powerhouse and backs us all with all his might. I can't love him enough
This was one of my very favorite episodes to-date! I would love to see Ryan on here again!
Wow John! This was a great interview. I enjoyed every second of it. It did help me to look myself in a new way and definitely it will help me to continue to be a better person. I'm grateful for you, your show, and those around you that make this show happen 🙏 🙌
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People need to live with purpose, not just men.
I've been listening to Ryan for a couple of years now. It's great to see him and the podcast/community moving up and getting some great interview opportunities. Keep it up, man.
Need to bring more content like this thank you guys!
As a woman who has started dating in her mid-20's, I'm baffled by the lack of emotional intelligence and fragile masculinity in many men I am meeting. I learned about the 3 P's recently and definitely feel like men get very sensitive about providing and protecting. I have had men tell me their salary within 20 minutes of knowing them. I have had men tell me I'm attempting to replace a man with my dog just because she's protective. Like seriously, you're equating dog behavior to men now? I have also met full grown men (in their 40's) who have chosen to leech off their parents until they die. I don't understand it.
There has definitely been a generational of disconnection to what manliness is and it's really concerning to women as well. Some women have chosen to leave the dating scene all together because of this and I don't blame them. The thing is many women are now capable of living on their own, but men do NEED to feel the 3 P's. On one hand we have men remaining single because they don't know how to act and on the other we have men abusing women to feel masculine. The ones remaining single and empty are often turning to porn addictions and prostitutes, which are abusive industries towards women. No one wins here. We all need to come together and tackle toxic masculinity as it negatively affects us all.
riiiiight
We moved from Texas to Alabama. Lots of prayer, tears, but faith in what God put before us
integrity:
the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles; moral uprightness.
Grew up with out a father figure to guide me so more of this please
Maybe the best interview you’ve done. Thanks for doing this
This is a great episode thank you Dr. John. God Bless.
really enjoyed this.
I found it interesting and i also disagree on what he said about vulnerability, and then at the end of the episode he says that hes not a big fan of music. Music requires vulnerability.
Its hilarious that they brought up cooking as neither masculine or feminine. Most guys think its masculine if you cook outdoors (grilling) but feminine when its in the kitchen.
I would totally watch a podcast with these two.
Honestly one of the best conversations I’ve heard. Way to go! Definitely a convo that needs to be had in this place on time
I wish more conversations would happen like this between men without bashing women. Thank Dr. John for uploading this.
I just started buying Origin products about a month ago and just found this dude on here for the first time. Small world 😂
Heard him contradict a bit of values regarding masculinity that I’ve heard Dr. John talk about before that I wish Dr. John challenged a bit more. Such as being worthy of love and having value, independent of the value to bring to the world. (Not having to earn your worth, it’s inherent). And being able to be vulnerable in the sense of crying in front of your partner, asking your partner for help, and working as a unit with your partner to address each others’ weaknesses.
Loved this episode!! Thank you!
What a great interview. Thank you
This is awesome! I love both of your shoes and to have them together it’s so great!
I didn’t want this episode to end
Been following Ryans work for a while. Good conversation.
Really enjoyed this interview. Lots of great definitions. I think there should be a list of them so we can reference them frequently and correctly to those around us, especially our future generations. I was really encouraged by this podcast and feel I can use various points of it to pray for my husband, son in law and other brothers in Christ. Thanks!
Thanks for the book recommendation Wild at Heart by John Eldredge. I just purchased The audio version from Audible books. Maybe this will help me have better discernment for a good perspective husband.
I also sent the recommendation along to my son.
Ryan also has a great podcast with him
This is awesome! I love every minutes of this.
Excited for this!
Loved this thank you for the interview
Lifting weights vs lifting others up. Done.
SO much good stuff in here
Great interview.! More show like this will be well received.
If my husband shot a 11 point buck and shoved it into a Prius, I would be very impressed, clap in appreciation, and make sure we take a picture of it. Then we'd both laugh before I help him take it out and process it for its meat. 😊
There are 2 types of people inthis world. Those who think Cody Jinks is great and those who are wrong.
As a women and want to support my husband yes I want to hear more
I don't know. I don't feel comfortable limiting what a 'man' is. Men can be vulnerable, men can be nurturing. He has a backstory that I can sympathize with and clearly he's thought a lot about his place in the universe, just feels a little skewed.
He got a little weird about the word vulnerable, but I think it really does boil down to semantics as they alluded since his definition of humility seemed to be the same thing
@@CaptPicard81 I Feel like men and women would benefit more by sharing all the these qualities rather than black and white 'women are this, men are that'
If a dad is better at heart to heart talks more than mom and mom happens to be the higher earner, then why have these ideals that would bring shame for not fitting in.
If they can agree cooking isn't masculine or feminine, then neither should being the provider, nurturer, protector, home maker whatever other traditional ideals there are.
@@mightymouse9001 agreed, though I didn't catch where in the convo they said that it isn't masculine to be nurturing etc. I might have missed that part. There seems to be a lot of angst these days about what it means to be a man and I'm not sure why. I think what this guy is saying offers value to people who might need a more rigidly defined framework to inform their behavior. Which I don't judge if it helps them be happier or find purpose, though I don't find this framework necessary myself 🤷🏾♂️
@@CaptPicard81 you know he may not have actually said it directly. I'd have to rewatch. But my takeaway from the interview was "men are these 3 things and to be manly you have to be these 3 things" so it may just be me projecting and thinking he'd support "women should be the nurturing ones"
But either way just rubbed me the wrong way. Glad he's doing well though and it works for him and his family
As soon as he started having a problem with the word vulnerable, I thought about my own hang ups with respect. I grew up with a verbally abusive sister (my bully), and she used the word respect to get her way. I didn't even know what it meant! So as an adult, I try to hardly ever use it, preferring a synonym.
I think his military background, makes vulnerable an undesired trait to have. But the synonym of humility is something he could handle aspiring to.
Wild at heart is awesome
This was great.
Fatherlessness is the pandemic of this generation.
This should be good.
We need to live with Gods purpose. Period!
Love this episode!
That is not vulnerability is being humble.
Preside, provide, protect--good for Ryan bringing out the language of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
More interviews like this
People who play video games aren’t any less manly then people who do any other hobby. You can be a successful man and provide for your family while enjoying video games on personal time. There’s no difference between them and any other hobby.
I think they were talking to the “package” of laziness in their example. I do hate the diss on gaming as it is typically better than other recreational activities nowadays
He said no neck beards allowed
They talking about someone with no responsibilities who lives with their parents in their 30s.
Money 💰 🤑 💸
Absolutely love the show and positive messages. Perspective is so important. Men dislike the mere thought of being vulnerable or weak. However, we learn through Jesus Christ that power and strength is made perfect in weakness.
One love.
This was decent, but much prefer the caller question layout.
Their voices exactly the same. It's like listing to some dude have a conversation with himself
On today
during the pod cast stop trying to sell me something and its the first time i hear him
Kelly doesn't show up.
Whose show is it? 0:43
They’re wrong about dependence and some other things. If you’re not dependent on your wife and kids you’re doing life wrong. Emotional dependence on your family (the one you made) is something you should strive for because if you’re not you’re doing life wrong. This whole “I’m the man and I’m in charge” is a very Barbaric way of living and in my opinion makes you less of a man. You can lead a family without being oppressive and over the top
I don't think it is fair to fully judge his thoughts on a topic based on a one or two sentence response. I think your response is exactly why these conversations need to happen more often.
@@dustinjohnson1410 I mean he said if you’re a man you don’t need to be dependent on anyone. Word for word that’s practically what he said. I’m just saying I’m dependent on my wife and kids so I didn’t agree with what he said. You can if you want it’s just different opinions
Toxic masculinity is so overused. Just be a good person... Period.
Does Dr. John’s voice sound deeper when he is talking to Ryan than it does on his prior shows? Does he have a cold?
Can y'all link his podcast? And what was a books that Ryan said?
Great episode, however, I strongly disagree with Ryan’s definition of integrity. There is a strong and essential “moral” component to integrity - a level of honesty and doing what is traditionally considered to be morally “right”. Without a strong moral compass, you cannot have integrity. Therefore, a terrorist cannot be considered a man of integrity.
There is NO such thing as “toxic masculinity”. There is just toxic people. Those traits can all be just as equally applies to women thus it is not characteristics solely designated to just one sex.
Investing in crypto now should be in every wise individuals list. In some months time you'll be ecstatic with the decision you make today.
I understand the fact that tomorrow isn't promised to anyone, but investing today is a hard thing to do because I have no idea of how and where to invest in?
Sounds like his mother had a bad choice in loser men marriages alcoholics, druggies, abusive emotionally. I mean she could have learned her lesson after the first failed marriage not have two other marriages that were that shitty.
The title is offensive. Are women not supposed to live with purpose?
Get over yourself. They are talking about purpose from a male perspective.
Men are allowed to discuss things for themselves too.
Do you also say all lives matter when people are speaking about a specific group 🙄
The topic of this conversation and the title match. It’s not exclusive of women to harm women. Women aren’t the topic here.
Demoney
Lay off your producer.
John is 10X cooler than Ryan