Mother Fears Aggressive Bulldog is a 'Lost Cause' and a DANGER to Kids | It's Me or The Dog
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- Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024
- This Bulldog is causing a rift between her owner and others as fears over her aggression grows, especially when it concerns her behaviour around other dogs and children.
It's Me or the Dog USA Season 1 Episode 12
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"How can you put my childs life..." That isnt your home!!! How dare her friend think she has a say in what happens to Roxy she is so out of line, dont want your kids around Roxy DONT BRING THEM OVER!!
Exactly! My first thought was that the woman and kids would no longer be welcome at my home.
I totally agree if u feel that u think ur kids feel unsafe don’t come to my house at all I can’t wait to get a English bulldog
"How can you be so sure?" maybe because Victoria is an expert? That friend has a lot of audacity to tell her friend she think the dog needs to be rehomed for HER daughters' safety.
I know plus in terms of the play, like that kinda makes me think her dog may be well behaved but not a fun life, like a dog owner that doesn't see tug as a game??? Lol
to the friend who says that Roxy is a threat to her daughter: just don't bring your daughter and don't come anymore, problem solved
IKR! What’s for even the daughters involved with an adult conversation! To _grow up_ too fast? 🤣😂
@@VaniaAjah yeah I dont get it, and the way the woman talked about her friend's dog is so rude, she was just annoying
AMEN! Legit she was starting to peeve me off, like "my daughter" this, "my daughter" that. Your daughter doesn't live there lady!! You're a guest and you CHOOSE to bring your dog to a house where the resident pup is aggressive towards other pups, you CHOOSE to make your friend feel like crap with your passive aggressive comments, like c'mon.
She actually has a right to say that if these 2 women are friends then guess what of her friends which is her neighbor is going to take some family over there that's just how it is. They can go there as long as they want as long as the owner of the house says it's ok. The dog needs the training it is not the neighbor's fault.
It's okay to be afraid of dogs. I love how Victoria takes her and her fears seriously and I think that's a better way.
If you don't live in the house, you don't have a say in if the dog stays or not. Especially if you know it's a reactive dog and you decide to bring your own dog. That's not being a good friend. And don't you dare use your child (who again doesn't live there and doesn't have to play or interact with the dog) as a manipulative ploy to guilt your 'friend' into getting rid of their dog. If you want to pretend to be superior mother of the year, then don't bring your kids to a place that you don't feel is safe. Have your friend go to your house.
That "friend" has big Karen energy
Nicely said. Both of you🙏
If my friend was like that she wasn't long in my house 😂 A friend has to support and help you and not pushing you with saying that she has to give up the dog. But that is me sorry....
Exactly
That Trisha is a self entitled next level Karen.
You don’t take your dog to another’s house if it’s not welcome by the dog that lives there... why would you.
Trisha needs to be trained in common sense.
If Romeo's owner knows Roxy will attack him, then why did she continue to put Romeo in danger by bringing him to the house?
That would be common sense, sadly it’s not so common.
Maybe she's one of those people that bring their small dogs with them everywhere, and since she feels it's Jennifer's fault for having a reactive dog, she feels she shouldn't be inconvenienced by having to leave her dog at home.
@@rathmiron or maybe the show's producer asked her to bring the dog over to show just how reactive Roxy is?
@@bun04y yee usually exposing the dog to their triggers are able to give trainers a better read on the body language.
omggg.. that "friend" is incredibly annoying.... I can just tell she is super toxic...
Everyone's complaining about the friend, but I'd like to take a moment to appreciate roxy's owners! They clearly care about their dog and it's nice seeing an owner who actually listens to Victoria and is willing to try new things.
The friend looks like she doesn't spend much time with dogs. She completely misinterpreted the dogs play signals and didn't know how to pet Roxy. As much as I am a fan of health and safety, her advice of rehoming the dog seemed over the top.
Agreed. She is ignorant and uneducated clearly 🙄
She's (friend) frightened for her daughters safety. If the original owner/family had raised her responsibly they would not be in this situation. The current owner wants her friend to feel comfortable for the sake of the children’s friendship. I applaud her open mindedness. It may or may not work but I appreciate her effort. This is not on the friend.
Dump the friend. Keep Roxy. How can we be sure that the friend isn't a murderer? Sure, she's murdered no one so far, by using her own logic, we cannot be absolutely certain that she won't slaughter you in your own home.
She even has a dog, but she pets Roxy like *that?* Poor Romeo.
@@kikaequestrian1386 No, the friend is scared of Roxy and understandably so!
Play growls sound exactly like warning growls, but there are many other body language cues to tell them apart. And reactivity to dogs doesn't just transfer to humans as some kind of natural progression. Visitor mom was genuinely scared but it was because she was misinformed about dog behavior. So glad Victoria said that about the dog being a good dog.
When I worked in a care home, we were allowed to bring dogs that could pass a “good citizen” test. One of my supervisors got a puppy, and The first time he did that to me I was honestly hurt. I seriously thought the dog didn’t like me anymore for a split second until he started turning in circles and went into a play bow. 😂
All dogs are "good dogs".
Clearly this dog needs some training but the owners friend really annoys me. Belittling her friend to embarrass her on TV etc. And even at the end, she's looking at Roxy with disgust on her face. You just know it's not just about the aggression towards other dogs that this woman dislikes. It's probably jealousy over her friends time or she just doesn't like big dogs that she can't fit in her lap like a toy
Despite having a dog of her own, I really don't think she likes dogs very much, she hasn't taken the trouble to learn about them.
That’s such a bizarre comment. So judgmental
I think she’s against the bully breeds…
She probably just doesn't like bull breeds
Jennifer's friend wants to speak to the manager. And corporate.
KAREN... ME ME MEE MEEEE
I can't wait for the new season of this show! Since these videos (some are 10 years old I think) Victoria has grown a lot as a dog trainer and I'm curious to see her new strategies and approaches. I hear often her podcast, very insightful.
Edit: the podcast is called Positively Dog Training
Wait, she has a podcast? Been rewatching these videos in anticipation.
Where do you listen to her podcast? :0
I want to know where to find that podcast too!
@@elephants98 Whoohooo I had no idea she has a podcast!
@@elephants98 Thank you! I just looked it up and it doesn't have 800 episodes, I think the first number is the season number, so it would have 8 seasons so far of 10~20 episodes each, except for this last one.
That Trisha is a problem. She's a an overprotective helicopter mom Karen who would be the type to make a false accusation about Roxy or embellish a minor incident in order to have Roxy put down. I would not have her ANYWHERE near my dog.
"I hope Victoria agrees with me. I think Roxy needs to go to a better home."
Sheesh, lady.
"What if accidentally, when they're playing, that's one of my daughters?"
But it's not? And that's a hypothetical, sure, but your daughters should know not to provoke a dog-aggressive pup?
"Just for now. How can you be so confident that people aren't next?"
She's really asking why a veteran dog trainer is confident. Seriously, she's acting like Roxy isn't able to change, trying to make her friend look bad. Trisha is giving off Karen vibes, I'd be tired if she was always bringin the mood down whenever she visits.
The "friend" seems Iike she bullies everyone at PTA meetings
Most definitely
Yes she does sadly
👍I think it's the friend that needs to be rehomed!!!!
If I had to pacify and prove to my “friend” this much about my dog just to get her and her family into MY home. She’d never see the inside of my home again.
See you at the park, girl.
Also this “friend’s” nervous and negative energy…talk about not helping the process.
and that snide remark at the end. 'only a face a mother could love' rude bitch
The friend is everything I hate about having friends why do I need to change anything for anybody maybe as you said just don't come around 🤷🏻♀️
It’s an episode of IT’S MY DOG OR MY FRIEND.
Hands down. Dog should win.
100% and especially her nervous (and hateful) energy around Roxy most certainly would not be helping.
I had a reactive dog once, loved humans, hated other dogs. You know what my friends did? Came by themselves and didn't bring their damn dogs complaining that my dog was dangerous! What the Hell is this woman smoking?
I don’t understand why the friend would bring her dog over if the bulldog is aggressive towards it. Am I missing something here or is that lady a typical Karen who thinks everything should revolve around her. I’da told her to leave her dog at home if she’s coming over, that’s one problem eliminated.
I wouldnt even put my doberman in a situation like that. I dont want my dog attacked, by any kind of dog, period. I cant imagine knowingly going to that house with a reactive dog, and you bring your (small) dog as well.
“How can you put MY CHILD in that much confidence-“
Honey. Don’t bring your child. Don’t act all high and mighty trying to force a decision on your friend. IT’S NOT YOUR DOG. Either don’t bring your kid or don’t even bother coming at all. A real friend would be trying to support in getting all the help needed for Roxy!!
I love how, I got pissed at the friend and all the comments are about her to 😂 glad I’m not the only one
“A smile only mama could love” sis you need a new friend that woman is snide and bitchy and that’s not the kind of energy you want around your child or dog
I love it when Roxy was lying down with her tongue out 😂 most dangerous dog 😂😂😂
'A smile only momma can love' ... The audacity of this lady -_-
how does that friend have a dog of her own and not understand dogs?
WHAT?!
Not every dog is the same
the friend is so annoying. Victoria knows what shes talking about and shes still being rude!
That friend is a piece of work 🙄 don’t bring your dog with you or your daughters if you’re so worried
don't take your daughter with you, or see your friend at your house. You are the one putting your daughter at risk, wait until she has some training you may just not be able to take your dog with you. use some common sense.
Trish was Toxic ASF.
Look at Roxy just chilling on the floor with her tongue out 😆 LOL, I love bull dogs they’re so cute, would love one
Only about 3 minutes in but the friend questioning Victoria "How can you be so sure?" Excuse me who is the expert here?
I think that this is a lousy friend.
Hello just a reminder that no dog is a lost cause only the humans are
Some humans ofc :)
@@STea- yeah some humans but those human seek out trainers and follow their instructions to the T
Some dogs are absolutely a ‘lost cause.’
@@nofinn1044 Don't you think that's kinda rude?
Why does the friend bring her dog over? Weird and controlling of the friend.
The show requested her to.
As someone with a dog reactive dog, the other mom is very annoying.
She's either just super uninformed about dogs, or virtue signaling for the camera, " but my daughters :(:("
Bru. Dog aggression is such a specific issue
The “friend” is high maintenance. Drop her.
That blonde lady is pissing me off lol
"That's a smile only momma can love" 😂🤭
When I was about 10 I had my first dog who was dog aggressive. But we never worried about people coming over because who loved people.
Anyone else noticed that Roxy looks alot like what English Bulldogs use to look like before they were bred to be lethargic.
I did not even notice it intill you said it.
I get what people are saying about the friend but I think the issue is that her and her daughter are friends and neither one of these women wants to be in a situation where they're structuring their play time around a dog. They don't want for the one daughter to always have to go over the other girl's house or for the dog to be trapped in a small room all day devoid of contact just so they can hang out or have a sleep-over. So the specific problem IS trying to create a safe and safe-feeling space for their girls, and with her other friends as well.
People would get that if her friend was actually a friend. No one is arguing that the dog needs help. That has nothing to do with how that so called friend behaved in this episode.
My bulldog loved the doggie puzzles. They should try that for playing since she likes cups
That's a really cool house! Never saw one like that before 😬
That's not a friend, and that dog isn't dangerous. Typical bulldog rough play. I know, I have two.
if that's a friend, who needs enemies LOL
First of all what’s for even the daughters involved with an adult conversation! For _grow up_ too fast? 🤣😂 Jennifer is just too nice lady. She should wake up and realized what’s for having _friend_ who wants to controlling her life? Friend is a friend, whatever happened behind your _door’s house_ is even not their bussiness!
A little message for that Karen : Wake up Mrs.! Is that even your house!? Who do you think you are? Know your place! If i have a friend like you, you, your daughters and your dog are not allowed to come into my house. Periods.
Thats one over protective mother, that needs to study animal or at least dog body language...
Wow, Victoria even trained Trisha too.
No dogs a lost cause, it's never too late to get advice. 👍
I have a friend whose dog weighs what she does, pretty funny to watch them play Tug together. Though you need to look where this boy runs bc 11stone of pure muscle running into you sends you Flying 😂 honestly he's just a very big Pup personality wise. Just loves to be Loved ❤️❤️
Some are
The whole but what if she bites my daughter thing is such bs. If she was afraid roxy was gonna bite her why bring her over. Notice her dog wasn't calm at the door,it was just small. No wonder roxy was trying to get him, the other dog was coming into her house barking mad! Seems like the friend looks at dogs as fashion accessories but roxy isn't that type of dog so she doesn't like her.
I love Victoria she helped and inspired me through my obedience dog training course. I am even successfully training a basset hound puppy .
The mom is kinda a Karen “how could you be so sure that she won’t have agretion toward humans”
Who all agrees that Ms Victoria is the best in training dogs...
She has a solution for everything....
I'm a kid still and hoping for a dog...I know about all the dog breeds, but I actually want to adopt a dog from a shelter or from the streets...
Ms Victoria can I have a bit of advice?
Being a dog lover it means a lot to me if a dog expert or a trainer helps me out...
PS : I wanted some tips on basic training and how to choose the perfect dog for me, and all the basic stuff....
Thank you,
From India
If this woman is so afraid of this dog, why does she bring her kid near it? Leave your kid at home.
..." a smile that only mama could love" 😳 I don't believe what she said
That friend though!! What a condescending prude. Its Me or the Karen!!
I’m going to play the cup game with my dog.
The friend sounded like she was on a drama show. And the friend had no right to say to get rid of the dog. If you don't live in the house or even have lived in the house as long as the animal (because it's not just dogs people say this to) you don't get a say whether or not the person should rehome their fur baby.
Lol 3:45 is totally a relatable mood
I’m glad the owners stand behind their dog
aww what a cute dog
My dog loves other dogs and she is always scared of strangers kids
“How can you be so confident” idk maybe she’s a trained professional or something
I LOVE DOGS
Dunno who watches this and won't agree.
@@Maninawig k-
@@farrxhz8609 I mentioned this due to the lack of love your comment is getting.
Trying to say the love should equal the views.
@@Maninawig ok-
@@Maninawig I’m just saying am I not allow to say that I love dogs-
One thing I learnt many years ago was that you never play tug games with a dog you are having problems with!
That's based in alpha theory which has been disproven so I wouldn't use it as a blanket statement, even though with some dogs it may be a problem (resource guarders, or they haven't learned the rules yet/have bad aim)
A lot of these things are staged to a degree. The friend is obviously a fairly close friend, their children play together. The name of the game is to teach Roxy that rushing around, playing a tug of war with toys is okay but not always appropriate because it winds the dog up and yes Roxy can be dangerous if the situation calls for it. Never forget that Roxy isn't a sweetheart to everyone else and sometimes you have to just calm it all down and Jennifer was the biggest perpetrator when it came to the chase me scenario. I hope she she kept the training up.
That wasn't the point. The dog has an issue, the owner got help. No real friend would be as disrespectful as Trisha is. Also it doesn't matter what the dog does in her home with her dog. He friend is out of line. If she has an issue with the dog, don't come over.
I love your tips and vids love you
The friend was really stuborn and didn't know how to pet roxy
That lady surely isn't someone who would be my friend! Yuk! Who TF does she think she is?!?!
Awesome video!
Fear is keeping us safe 🦖🦖🦖🦖🦖🦖🦖🦖
OMG that friend I….I…. Just cant! Those are not true friends if they want you to get ride of your baby pooch!!!😣😒😡
The lady needs to keep the dog and dump her friend
That "friend" yikes..... she is the danger to her own daughter 🤣
I’m confused on why roxy has three collars?
One studded, one plain, and one chain.
I’m just wondering if anyone knows why.
think its just a style
You don't use a collar on a flat faced dog. They can't breathe that way. They already have breathing issues because of their flat faces. The collar only exasperates the problem.
I agree that collars shouldn't be used to walk such dogs, but I find them quite useful for identification. With all the dogs in my extended family, there's been a common ideal of dog theft stating "we thought it was a stray as there's no collar."
Rather those who have flat nosed dogs keep the collar loose and decorative so that the dog is safe in the back yard or in the house. (Yeah, breaking in to steal a "stray" is a thing)
What do you mean by "use a collar"? Because if it's not tight then what's the problem?
What would you use instead out of curiosity? Especially in countries where dog ownership id is the law. Harness type instead?
@@Maninawig Dogs should always have a collar for identification *that is different from whatever device you use for control* . That way, if they slip out of such device (harness/collar) and take off they still have the tag, and they can also wear it in the house too. My dog always wears a flat collar with a tag on and when we go outside I add a martingale collar (with another tag, because why not).
@@darkcreatureinadarkroom1617 the problem is that a friendly dog wearing his name is more likely to get stolen, as a thief only has to call it by name to avoid suspicion. Some might also argue that the dog should have their shot badges displayed, but I disagree for that too as it just adds unwanted noise (I keep mine attached to the lead itself, so it's there when I walk her)
Victoria you are always wonder how you handle all of this I want to be a dog trainer just like you I wish you could teach me
You could probably learn from her on her website. It should be in the video description.
@@SaberKitty_Arts Oh thank you for that I’ll have a look at it thanks
I would have liked to see Victoria address Roxy's dog aggression. As she stated at the beginning, "It is intent to harm." So, what precautions does the owner need to take to ensure that other dogs aren't harmed?
THE WAY THE FRIEND PET THE DOG OMG!!😡😡😢
JEEZ
I love dogs
The friend doesn't like the dog anyway. At the end she said the dog has a look only the mother could love. She can't even get passed the dog's looks to even like it.
At the end of the day our dogs rely on us to train and show them the right way to behave. Dogs want structure and routine they need it to thrive. If we humans remain calm, cool and collected at all times our dogs will sense that vibe and follow suit. Dogs are what we make them and I applaud this lady for standing up for her dog and doing what is best for Roxy not her "best friend"
She looked at Roxy with disgust, she clearly has no love for this dog and Roxy knows it!
I'd throw that whole "friend" out she is automatically in the wrong for bringing a dog to another dog's house knowing it's dog aggressive not to mention a bad dog owner and if she thinks her kids are in that much danger she is a bad mom too as the mother and a dog owner its your job to make sure everything is done in a safe controlled environment and she has the nerve to say I hope my friend has to re home her dog
Victoria plsss
I am from Brazil and your videos from your website and Amazon Prime are not available in my country
Pls help me I need your vids 😫
Hi
This lady needs new friends! I wouldn’t allow someone into my house that had those sort of feelings about my dog. Ugh
What are the 5 golden rules of dog training?
You can't really blame Trisha for being protective of her kid, I would never tell someone to get rid of their animal. But I do understand that if she's seen Roxie be aggressive that she would have a worry for her young child...
Her child isn't young but if you can understand her point, why can't you understand that she doesn't live in that woman's home and doesn't have to be there? Any danger the daughter or her dog is in is because of her...
Victoria reminds me of Laura Croft tm from tomb Rader
Love it ❤️❤️❤️🙏
What a horrible friend. How about helping her rather than judging. Any animal can attack, even her little poodle.
I'd get a new friend.
this isnt her house why she saying what should go on there?
Oh my gosh the dog is Big I have my dog he name angel and he not like to hurt me and she is my best dog ❤❤❤
Throw away the friend.
I hate how she always "labels" the dog, never the behaviour. That can ultimately lead to them rehoming the dog. Doe she always blame the dog? How did she get this famous?
I mean no disrespect but this isn't being a friend at all. It seems she hasn't been around many dogs but to think she has the right to tell her friends what she can and cannot do in her home is arrogant to me.. Roxy seems like a normal dog to me actually. Rehome her because SHE'S scared is just wrong..
That " friend" is a pain in the butt ( don't like her AT ALL if that wasn't obvious) who doesn't know anything about dogs. If you are so worried about you kid then don't go over there.
Victoria knows what she she is talking about lady, go complain on FB or something, we want to see the cute dog not you.
BTW how adorable is Roxy ploped on the ground with her tongue out ❤️❤️❤️❤️ she's so sweet and cute.
I kind of understand the friend. She doesn't know dogs behaviour and is obviously very concerned about her daughter. What I don't understand is that she didn't educate herself so the girls could have played together with Roxy without any concerns early on
Do you also understand that she doesn't ever have to come to that woman's home? Why are you ignoring that...
aww
Think who is the owner of the house you or our dog.