As newlyweds, i made a mistake & couldn’t get past it (answering questions from my husband)
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- Опубликовано: 13 сен 2024
- In today's video, I'm answering random questions from my husband that leads to stories about fears, living with regrets, why i'm always wearing black, youtube channels that i watch and so much more. Let me know your own answers to the questions in the comment section!
"The godly offer good counsel - they teach right from wrong. They have made God’s law their own, so they will never slip from his path." (Psalm 37:30-31)
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Watching Ezinne watch her husband with such respect as he speaks is wholesome.
I thought i was the only one who noticed it
Noticed this too!🥹
And she added, "why are you so deep?" ❤
Everyone wants respect... Sheesh
Thank you so much Ezinne for choosing me as the winner of the new year self care package,it means the world to me. God bless you
Congratulations love😊
Amen
What Isimeme said on regrets is so spot on! The greatest regret anyone will have is having to live an eternity without the presence of God.
This is do deep!
Can we appreciate the editing!!!!So good!
Honestly, loved this episode so much
Thanks Ezinne
Very good!
yes! horror movies creates fear in a person.
I love your husband voice! I don’t have regret actually now, I got raped like when I was 17 or so I used to beat myself up, I wished I went back in time to not leave my house, I wish I left that place on time, I dwelled so much on regrets of that day till I got to know God better, and before now anytime I shared the story I’ll always have places in the story where I’ll say I was stupid for not doing this, for not pushing him hard for not, those where serious regret! But now I tell it with so much grace! I’ve told myself I’ll not beat myself for another persons mistake! And now when I share my story I’m elated the many people who can relate and share in my experiences! I no longer dwell in those moments! I’m so happy I can now say I was raped without having my heart beating or anything or feeling like that day was wiped! I just live and after these years! I know those experiences brought me so close to God
I love you so much Ezinne
💜💜
God brings good things out of pain
God bless you for sharing !
Same I hate horror movies, it leave a presence with you when you finish watching it. I won’t sleep for weeks even months 😭😂 when it’s time to sleep in the night I dread it cause the movie keeps playing in my mind. Even when someone is watching a horror movie around me even if it’s broad day light and I decide to just see what’s going on in the movie ah that’s the end 😂😂 no sleep for me. Horror movies come with the spirit of fear.
goshhh 😔
yea very true,horror movies come with a presence of fear and fear is not a Godly spirit,so,I don't watch them at all.
Isimeme and Ezinne are definitely a match made in heaven,I really love how they complement each other
Not Ezinne’s husband speaking wisdom 😄
😂 actually Ezinne's husband speaking wisdom
If this is what having an older sister looks like, I'm in.
Thank you for always!😊❤
I never skip any video from ezinne
I do have regrets. I beat myself up over the smallest errors. Being a medical student with a lot of workload, any slacking off kills me a little inside. I just keep dwelling on time wasted thereby wasting more time.
Your name "beloved one" is beautiful.
@@lilianoshibe3926 Thank youuuuuuuuu. This made me feel very warm and fuzzy.
What I’ll tell you is live the true meaning of your name. Love up on you!
@@idarapeter You might not know this, but I needed that!
It's not only you 😥...I'm in my final year and medicine still feels as heavy. One little slip up and it's like you've commited murder. You carry that to every other aspect of your life. I sure hope I can eventually not be so hard on myself for the most basic things🤦♀️
The video was “Beautifully” edited and all questions were properly answered. ❤
I agree,right on SPOT.
Hello Ezinne, I hope this meets you well. I have been following you for quite a long time now and honestly when I say there is something about you that makes me desire God more, I mean it.
Seeing you thrive, speak the truth and encourage others is absolutely amazing and I just want to pray for you. That all seasons will be your season, you will never go off season. The glory of the Lord will continue to shine upon you and his light will continually radiate through you. Most importantly, May his Grace always be sufficient for you.
Thank you and God bless you🙏
Ps: I just uploaded a video on my RUclips channel and I made reference to one of your videos on RUclips that blessed me but I couldn’t tag you on my IG story when I reposted it. So I thought to chip it in here 😅❤❤❤❤
Amenn
So thoughtful 🤍🤍
Amen
Hi sis, your channel is nice. I just subscribed too❤
@@ewaoluwa thank you sis, God bless you 😊
Amen 🙏
You can have regrets but it’s best not to dwell on them because there is hope!
Rightly said.👏🏾
Bring more of your husband to speak on issues please, I think he has a lot of wisdom to dish out😊
Nothing but love for you Ezinne 💕
When your husband says regret is like a taste of hell, I felt it because I can relate 💯. I've been battling regrets since October last year till today. Everyday feels like a dream, as in its indeed the worst of all Negative emotions.
Praying for restoration for you, God's peace that surpasses all understanding.
Your husband’s view on regret is so apt! And your editing skills are amazing!!😍 You should consider hosting a course on video editing.😩🤲🏼
Omggg yes sis Ezinne that part on horror movies is spot on!!
The regrets part too, I resonate with that part too, I think it's how I was raised, like for ANY mistake I made I was literally crucified, like I wasn't allowed to make mistakes, it's just recently like mid-last year, I came to the realisation that I had to CUT MYSELF SOME SLACK. I'm only a human and I'm allowed to make mistakes and move on from those mistakes, making better decisions and not dwelling on what I could have done better.
Thank you for this🥰
Now I’m commenting after watching the whole thing😅
Que 8: I do have regrets, but I honestly don’t dwell on them like Isimeme said. Like sometimes when I remember something that I regret, I quickly shake it off cause there’s really nothing you can do after the mistake has been made
I also want to mention that I love your union. You and Isimeme are a lovely couple ❤️
You guys are so fast😂
Let's feast😊
so fast 😂
Hmm. When you're sitting with people you love, conversation becomes like therapy. That's a good one.
The way your husband thinks🫡 Like he thinkssss😂 Loved his perspective on regrets.
Whe i saw the 'regret' question, i remembered 2021. I felt i missed my Wilderness Phase, thus missed the glory God was preparing me for, and probably why i am still in this phase of 'uncertainty and somewhat lack'
Few months after i received salvation, i got a job to work in an Art Gallery (I was sure God wanted me there) but a month into the job, i started questioning if God really wanted me there.
Because of the distance from my place to my office, i had to live with my employer, and i can say it was the most darkest phase of my life. I had never been treated like an outcast the way i was treated there. This supposed employer claimed to be a believer but his actions were clearly the opposite.
I did not understand what 'wilderness' meant (as at then), and did not understand why God would place me in a situation that would drain me (technically, it was draining my flesh). Because i expected if God asked me to work there, then He would have prepared only good things for me.
Long story cut short; I left the second month and i still feel that regret of not staying back and enduring. Maybe if i did, my life would have been different now.
But i know it is just the enemy's way of trying to keep me static. I know God still has His plans for me.
Anytime i think about it, Isaiah 43:18-19 always comes through for me. 💪
I love this video and its editing. It's giving "Random gist with my RUclips fam" 😂
On the question of regrets, gosh I struggled with that soo much in the past years till it reduced in like 2021. First, I realized the little things tend to get to me most so I'm protective of my space & heart. When I feel I've made mistakes, instead of dwelling on them for so long and feeling guilty that I'm still stuck - it's a whole loop - I'll feel EVERYTHING for the first few minutes/hours even, rant to my sweet friends and all, then I'll tell myself there's so much work to be done in this life o and I want to die empty 😌😂
I also ask myself; In the next 5 years, would all of these matter? 🤔
I think of what I'd have done better and console myself with "Now that I know better, I'll do better next time" I'm still human anyway.
In all, I've learnt to be kind to myself and hold on to this: There's no condemnation for those in Christ Jesus. Well I hope this helped someone 🤍🤍
Great🤩 I am a newly wed and this is great information.
Thank you☺️
Ezinne Zara❤❤❤❤
A blessing to my generation❤❤❤
Your hair growth!!!😊❤️❤️
I feel just the same way about horror movies, totally relatable.
Thanks as always. The lesson on regret was really deep.
I loved what your husband said on regret. It really opened my eyes❤
Second to comment 😁 always have my post notifications turned on😊
yessss, post notification ganggg 🔔
You are glowing
Thank you Ezi for posting. And thanks to Isimeme for addressing the issue of regrets. I recently just lost my Dad and i am regretting not being there when he passed. So thank you! I have hope in GOD so I will just live through the process and allow HIM help me make better choices. Love all your vlogs Ezinne Zara ❤❤ And your hair is lovely and flourishing❤
I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. May The Lord comfort you 🤍
@@EzinneZaraThank you ❤
I didn't want this to end when it did. I enjoyed the video. 😊I also watch alot of daily wire. Candace owens has me on repeat. It made me still feel grateful for Africa, somehow ❤❤
Ezinne watches Daily wire... Brett Cooper to be particular 😂
I do too. I love that you're so free, and that you let us into your space this much. Thank you ❤
I love her too
I haven’t watched horror movies in a while for the same reason. The more you press into the spirit, you have to be very careful of what you consume. The devil can use anything as an avenue. I used to love watching them until I didn’t for the same reasons Ezinne mentioned.
God bless you for being an inspiration Ezinne!!💯❤️
Exactly! I told my husband that horror movies are bad and demonic. A woman shared her story about how her husband used to watch horror movies and then would have nightmares. It continued that way until the nightmares became violent and he hit her in the face one night. She said that action made that part of her face paralysed and she is undergoing therapy.
I screen recorded your answer and sent the video to my husband and sisters.
Love these video, i usually have same experience each time i watch an horror movie, i always see the demon in my dream. I explained the situation to my Aunty, she told me that how it has always been with me even as a child, she said when i was a baby, if you carry to watch a scary movie or a movie that has to do with witchcraft, i will start crying till you take me away from there. I thought it was something that has to do with just me.
Isimeme the Sage. Man is wise beyond his years
Your husband thought on Regret is so good didn’t think about it that way.
God bless you guys
Yessss😌finally someone has said it..I feel like horror movies creates an atmosphere around me that is very unsettling so I had to stop watching them
Ezi your skin is just fresh😂😂😂😂
Isimeme's quote turned out to be the deepest 🤭🥳
Your husband is so so deep and sound!😊
Hey ezine,let me download and watch later..
You should see the way my heart skipped with joy 😅😅😅
Am always looking forward to your videos..
Tonight's gonna be good
aww 💓
This is so me. I was so happy I even sub so that my data won't finish😂😂
@@EzinneZara you replied to my comment,am screaming!!!! 😭😭 ..I give all the glory to God 🙏🥺
I want to use this opportunity to tell you that the lord has used you grately to impact my life.
God first aligned me to you and through you God has brought so many people to help me grow spiritually .
You are such a blessing and I will never stop saying this I LOVE YOU 🥰😘
@@TiMariee 🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭
Exactly the same reasons i dont wana leave my sweet country Nigeria..😊😊 once corruption is out, Nigeria is good to go.
Talking about regrets, i think the reason is because you're such a perfectionist 😅. Perfectionist does know how to beat themselves up unnecessarily for little mistakes.
I can relate so much with the daily regrets that Ezinne mentioned.
It can be really depressing but I’m grateful to God for showing me that i can be better, with His help…Better days are ahead😊
Yay! The daily wire is honestly really different and amazing. 6:34
I love what you said about never leaving your country. I am also getting to that realisation plus I absolutely hate the cold, I would not survive outside Africa with how many months of winter??? No please. God placed me here for a reason and I will flourish right here
I watch the daily wire too! I'm also a die hard fan of Brett Cooper! Gosh! i love you even more already ezinne!
😊😊😊
Ezinne you are beautifull....Your hair is flourishing.Thanks for gracing our screens.
This glow is too muchhh ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I always look forward to Fridays!🎉
me too!
Yes... what is a youtube channel i watch..ezinne zara,ezinne zara, ezinne zara...thank you for a splendid vidoe. Just bring that food next time 😅
Watching Ezinne and her husband's voice in the BG actually reminds me of the kind of man that I want in terms of depth and intellect. The fact that Ezinne is super smart and awesome, and then she has a really smart and deep husband who is clearly helping her and supporting her really is great to see. God help me!
Well done guys!👍
the horror movie thing, you're definitely not the only one🧡
Gotta love Ezinne Zara!!❤❤
Lol i love how your husband surprises you with what you thought you knew about him, i mean the regret question..and his preference of natural hair over locs in the other video
I think me too I'm under those having daily regrets.kind of like when things are done well and when something just go out of planned...It's not just Funny as Ezinne said😂..which is not actually a good trait
Enjoyed this a little too much!😅❤️
I beat myself up too when I make mistakes. I will keep saying I would have done this or that too. Truly, we are human and we should be kind and gentle to ourselves. Thank you Ezii. I love you ❤️
Why was This so short 😩
Question 8: Just like you I beat myself up for every single mistake . Learning that I don’t have to be perfect is so hardddddddd
I just love when she said she doesn't like horror movies...i was literally going "yes girl!"in my head😂. I hate horror movies too, it had adverse effect on a family member too for a whileee and then i realized that it truly has a spirit and it literally opens spaces in the spirit realm where they can come to dwell. I also realized that if i struggle to watch one, ahhh😂 for weeks i'd be so scared and uncomfortable in my own house o even till now i struggle and i've been praying to God to take away fear from me. So yeah! I support you fully
Wow! So you watch Daily wire. That's awesome.
All daily wire fans🎉🎉
It's not just movies even music... recently I listened to titanium...I so much love that song...but this particular day I had nightmares through out the night as I played the song till I fell asleep...the pollution is just everywhere...even in very subtle ways that one needs a very high level of spiritual sensitivity to survive in these times...
Question 9: perfectly said!!!. It creates a breeding ground in your soul for the spirit of fear.
We're so similar when it comes to making mistakes and handling it by beating ourselves up about it. I also think because my dad has such high expectations of me I was largely afraid of making mistakes. It's one of the hardest things to unlearn but I think I'm becoming better at handling it. I just remind myself to be kind to myself and that Jesus is not at me too.
Isimeme’s wisdom 👌🏽
You and your husband are a blessing! His words about regret was touching! Thank God for his mercy’s
The moment she said she watches daily wire and mentioned everyone there I SCREAMED. Like I'm so happy someone I watch watches that .
Regrets! Spot-on! Thank youuuu
Lovely content 🥰❤
You're not the only one. I have this same experience with Horror movies.
And as a Rule of thumb as well I NEVER watch horror movies
The regret thing fr. I beat myself up too and expect so much from myself. I'm going to learn to be kinder to myself and take it easy.
Well, my response to any question will definitely be the last question. Recently I have been regretting the things i did in my past. You know the devil was just making me feel like I don't have what it takes to do what God has called me to do. Hearing your husband talk about regret from this perspective has allowed me to focus on the present and future rather than dwell on my past.
And that comment on regret that your husband gave was so deep...and i'm someone that beat myself up alot so hearing you say it too made me relate so much. I also live with several regrets but i've learnt from that comment and i want to say thank you❤
I love this q&a.
I can relate to beating myself up so much. My mantra is either 'I should have known better' or 'Why didn't I think of this' or 'What sort of person does this'. I think it comes with being the first child and having a lot of expectations placed on you, so you forget to give yourself grace.
God is really helping me and has blessed me with friends that remind me that I am human and of how I can learn from what happened and just move on.
I really enjoyed this video. Thank you so much, Ezinne ❤❤❤.
Hiii Ezinneeee
Thank you for another video❤❤
I believe the way you were raised is similar to the way i was raised. My dad set alot of high standards and i always felt bad when i didn't meet up. Now i have gotten used to it that whenever i make the slightest mistake, i beat myself up so much 😪
The quality >>>>>❤
I’m new here and I most say I love ur blog and u so clean i mean fresh
My favourite genre of movies used to be horror movies. Somehow, after giving my life to Christ, I just lost the flare for them. They didn't thrill me as they used to.
This is going along the lines of how Abba changes our desires when we surrender😂❤️
Thank you Mama Zii!❤️
Girl, you are so beautiful! Just stumbling on your channel for the first time and I am subscribing because you are beautiful 😁
It's how your husband shows you love by trying to shake you out of those daily regrets.
Lol,it's screaming LOVE!
I usually experience it too,the feeling is really uncomfortable.
One time dad traveled and asked me to take care of the house and my siblings.
Lol,the television just stopped working and i started beating myself up because why does the TV have to spoil under my care.
Lol, I'm learning to give myself grace though,a gradual process!
Ezii, you are right about the horror movies, it's more like that part when the bible says lay aside every weight, even watching movies a lot creates weights in you life.
Finally!!!!!.....somebody loves dailywire!!!🎉❤
Your reasons for not watching horror movies resonate so much with me ❤️!! That’s what I tell people as well and their facial expressions are hilarious 😂
Beautiful video Ezinne. Then on the issue of regret, I've learnt not to regret anything because I can't change what has happened so why dwell on it?
I just ask God to forgive me then He asks me to forgive my self then I move on.
Thank you so much already? 😔
This was such a beautiful video. It’s also refreshing watching your personality always shine through 🥹
This was enlightening and fun. Thank you for sharing.
On regrets, I grew up with the motto that I will never live with regrets.
However, the older I got, the more I felt the need to regret and found myself dwelling on past errors.
God is helping me get through this because honestly, living with regrets is unproductive and had no positive sides.
We must learn to forgive ourselves and move on because Abba has. Just do better going forward and don’t repeat your errors
Woww I feel you on this one! ❤
Great video ❤, on the part of regrets, now I have learnt to shake it off and move because we are humans and we are not perfect that what I have learnt, thank you for sharing ❤ lovely couple
My role model when I grow up I want to be like u 😂this was helpful and amazing
I will answer the questions on how many pair of shoes do I have😅
Like you I have just a few, four to precise.
I feel like it is just for comfort and all.
It is nothing too deep😊
I so loveeeee this new content ❤
Keep it up Ezinne ❤
That’s the right question. Why are you so deep sir? That was really powerful. 🔥
Your husband is so deeppp and you too are the perfect pair. The way you complete each other's thought trains 😅
Oh! I love what your husband said about regrets.
Thank you so much 🙏
Love thisss❤
What RUclips channels do I watch?
Mm, a lot of lifestyle, vlogs, kind of content actually. And I find that I love to watch Nigerians more, maybe because I can relate more?😂
So Dimma Umeh, Kamsi Nnamani, Ezinne Zara, Tofunmi OA, Pastor Mildred Okonkwo.