This was a hard video to film …
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- Опубликовано: 26 авг 2024
- Hi everyone,
I hope you are all well.
This was a really difficult video to film as it comes off the back of a comment that if I am being very honest hurt me.
Thank you for taking the time to watch, and thank you as always for your support ❤️ keep being kind to yourself and keep empowering others !
Nick x
Stephen Fry describes social media as a “toilet wall”for people who otherwise would be insignificant and want to be heard. You are loved immensely on here by 99.9999% of your followers ❤
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ yessssssss, completely agree. We love you so much, exactly how you are- continue being your authentic self!
Haha never heard it described as that ! That means a lot thank you so so much !!
You’re such a better and bigger person than me Nick. I always respond with sarcasm and anger when I get nasty comments. Always call them out. Silence gives them permission to continue to be the waste of oxygen they are!
I love your responses to those comments !! It absolutely does and I won’t be a part of anyone thinking it’s acceptable to be a dick to other people !!
I’m sad this stayed with you Nic but you handled it like someone with so much wisdom and confidence- well done!
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Thank you Dayle, there’s a lot of history there for me on this topic so I find it very hard to shake it without reflecting on 20 years of it ! But each day it gets easier and better ☺️☺️
Nick social media is a beast!
So many unhappy people. Stay strong and know that you are Loved 👍🏽❤️
It absolutely is and is very easy to hurt others. Thank you Ruby that means a lot, you’ve always been so kind and supportive !
You're the LEAST vile person, you're the kindest soul. Sadly, there are many that aren't. I hate that they get to think they can hide behind usernames and no profile pictures. It's so sad that some people think it's okay to be rude, aggressive & violent, towards people due to their sexual preferences, race, gender etc. it makes no sense. Thanks for sharing, it will help to raise awarness that this fight is far from over and we need to stand up and support one another. P.S. Give no power to keyboard warriors, they tend to get worse not better as you grow.
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I am so sorry you were left such horrible comments. I'm also sorry that you even had to address this...there's just so much negativity out there. I came across your channel when looking for a review for a bag and immediately subscribed because of how lovely you are. Keep shining because you reach a lot of hearts with your positive energy. ♥❤
Thank you that’s lovely of you to say ! It was important of me to address it
I don’t know you personally, but you come across as kind, genuine, articulate and considered. It’s difficult to know be affected by the negativity I know, but imagine living a life of such hatred and negativity that you feel the need to spread that sadness. Stand strong. We stand with you. Such negativity doesn’t deserve your time or attention. They feed upon that to make their negativity monster grow. You seem great. Don’t be deterred by the small minded.
Thank you so much that means a lot !!
I think you handled that extremely well! You are an inspiration to everyone...to me. Your confidence, your class....you are just an amazing person and the people that matter know that!
Thank you so much very very kind !!
1) that bouquet behind you is STUNNING. The backpack/blazer/flower/curtain combo is amazing. 2) thank you for being you and being vulnerable and sharing this. I'm sorry miserable people are so insistent on trying to spread their misery. I'm sure I don't need to tell you, but if people like that aren't mad at you, you're not doing it right. I came out in the 9th grade all the way back in the ancient days of the 90s, and I hate that we're still having to have these conversations. 3) I actually really, really want a t-shirt with that "vile" comment on it in sparkly pink bubble letters. If you ever thought about making merch/doing it as a fundraiser, you'd have at least one guaranteed sale.
Thank you that’s so kind - the flowers are silk as I found I was spending SO much on real flowers on a weekly basis and couldn’t keep them going 😂😂
It’s always a shame when you have to defend yourself but felt the right thing to do in this moment ☺️
And Philip Normal sell a t-shirt that says vile on it, I saw it today and was very tempted to buy it, but bought some funnier t-shirts instead 😃😃
Thank you for standing up for yourself! You’re a beautiful person and I’m sorry this took your breath away momentarily
Thank you Julie ! Thank you for always so kind xx
It bewilders me how people can be so horrid. That person chose to watch and insult? For what reason!!? Never ever will I understand this! You know who you are Nick and that is all you need to think about. Just remember that you have dealt with this so well and don’t give it any more energy. Well done for making this video to call out this abhorrent person. Love you Nick x 😘
Thank you Deb 💜
I am so sorry you had to go through that. I think you’re awesome I am thankful for you. 😘🤗
That means a lot thank you !
I'm happy you're in a better place and more confident so you can filter out that 💩 some people throw out there. Your response was bang on, respectful but making the point that needed to be made. So proud of you! ❤
I can say 99,998% of people watching this channel have your back, we appreciate the community you've created. You're breaking boundaries and some people are so deep in their trenches they have no idea what's been happening in the world after Reagan was president. And I think their heads might explode if they actually read some history and found out makeup, wigs, high heels and corsets used to be the 💩 for true men not that long ago! 🤷♀
Thank you so much - really appreciate the support ! Means a huge amount !
Sorry you had to make this video. I think your response to this horrible situation was very well articulated and insightful but it’s sad that any of it had to be said. Sending lots of love. There are literally thousands of us here on RUclips that think you are wonderful! I came here originally for the bags but stayed because I like your personality…(and Poppy!)
Thank you that means a lot to me - we have a wonderful community here on RUclips !
Oh Nick! I’m so sorry. I will never comprehend why some people are so mean. You are beautiful and your channel is wonderful. Love love love how you dress! ♥️
You’re beautiful too Diane. You have always been so kind and genuine ❤❤❤
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Thank you Diana that’s so kind of you to say, thank you for always being so sweet and supportive !!
So sorry that they left you that terrible comment that affected you, but I always love your authenticity 💕💕
Thank you Kaylhee and thank you for always being so kind and such an amazing supporter of me and my channel x
@nickjsne of course, hope you're feeling better
I stand by you, I stand beside you 🫶
Love your reaction. I'm sorry you had to go through that!
Means a lot thank you !
Hurt people hurt other people Nick. You know you're fabulous, we know you're fabulous....and that vile commenter knows you're fabulous too 💙
Thank you that means a lot ❤️
Research published in the journal "Personality and Individual Differences" found that trolls tend to score high on traits like psychopathy, narcissism, and sadism, which means their comments are more about their own issues than about you. Knowing that these individuals are driven by their own personal shortcomings rather than any real assessment of your content or character can help you see their comments in a new light and focus on the positive feedback and supportive community that truly matters. WE LOVE YOU!!!
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Yes you can definitely learn a lot by trying to understand someone’s motivations ! And thank you - you’re all amazing !!
Love the dignity of your response Nick. The higher ground. Well done.
Felt most appropriate in these circumstances !
Very well said Nick. We think you are fabulous❤. Love your channel!
Thank you Caroline !
People on social media feel “braver” than if face to face. I am so sorry this person had the power for one moment to be terrible to you. You took the honest and high road….thank you for sharing with us.
Thank you for your kind words - means a lot !
Hurt people hurt others. Good for you Nick, keep being who you are. You’re amazing.
That they do ! Thank you that means a lot !
Dear sweet Nick, I can’t believe in this day & age people have such acerbic comments/thoughts. Please know you are a beautiful, sweet kind person. Love is love why don’t people get it? With all the awful things happening around the world, why watch a YT creator’s content on bags, shoes etc., & “feel obliged” to post awful tripe. “Whomever” should have “jogged on”‼️ I admire you, & yr handling of this situation with good grace, style & politeness. I saw a TV add for “The Voice”; Adam Lambert popped up & I thought my goodness you look so much like him. Stay strong, keep the smile on yr dial & turn a frown upside down. Take care my friend you have a beautiful soul. Best wishes from Adelaide; South Australia🦘🐨🇦🇺💐
Thank you Min that is really kind ! Thank you for always being so kind and supportive !
Nick I'm so sorry that someone would say something so nasty to you. You are one of the most kind and beautiful people! And you handled that with so much class. I'm sending so much love your way ❤
Thank you Ed that’s very kind x
I just wanted to remind you of how incredible you are❤Your content brings so much joy and value to so many people, and your authenticity shines through in every video you make.
I know it can be tough dealing with negativity, especially when it’s so personal and hurtful. Remember, those mean comments say a lot more about the person who wrote them than they do about you. Keep being you, because your true supporters love and appreciate you for exactly who you are.
Stay strong, keep shining, and don’t let anyone dull your sparkle or rain on your parade. You've got this!
Sending positive vibes your way, you are amazing❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you that’s very kind - it absolutely says a lot about them & I had to address it !!
I'm sorry you had to experience this, but you responded with dignity, grace, and class. Well done :)
Thank you Eva, very kind of you to say !
New sub here. I actually saw you on Handbagholic’s vlog and I wanted to know what you got on your shopping trip with Steph. So I made my way to your channel to watch and came across this video. I am disgusted with humanity. I am so sorry that you had to deal with this hateful crap. I wish we were IRL friends because you seem like a really nice person. I look forward to watching your videos and know that you have a new friend in Texas! ❤
Incredibly kind thank you - that means a lot to me !
I am so sorry you had that happen to you. I love your channel. You are such a genuine person, brave and strong
Thank you that means a lot x
Proud of you for standing strong and calling out the haters. The only thing "vile" on your channel is the comment left by that nasty individual.
Thank you ❤️
Nick, thank you for sharing your experience and your genuine insights on how to handle and respond to negative comments online. Your courage and openness not only show us how to confront challenges with maturity and peace, but also remind us all of the importance of respect and kindness in all forms of communication. You're setting a powerful example of pride and strength for the LGBTQIA+ community and encouraging a more inclusive and understanding society. Keep spreading your positive energy-we're all behind you!
Thank you that means a huge amount ! I just want to do my bit to try and move things forward for the next generation !!
I love your channel because of you - I’m pretty conservative in fashion - with an edge - and conservative in most of my beliefs. I absolutely would not change anything about you! We watch your content because of you! You are very unique and very special. We would be best friends! So sorry that a handful of people can make us self doubt and feel sad. But, that’s because you are so special and really care about others.
Thank you that means a lot ❤️
You taking the higher road while dealing with vile people and their comments is so telling about you. As someone who takes everything to heart I really felt this video. You are so sweet and fun to watch. If only more people could be like you.
Thank you for your kind words, they mean a huge amount to me !
I am new to ur channel & this is my first video. It’s sad that people are so ugly. You handled it very well. Block that person. God bless!
Thank you that means a lot !
Always remember there is strength in numbers, and as you say, the vast majority of your viewers love and support you--and each other. I'm sorry that in this day and age people are still posting such horrible drivel, but trolls will be trolls. Sending you strength, darling xx
That means a lot thank you !!x
I think your channel is getting bigger thats why it attracts some bad fly. So keep doing you since it works and makes some fly jealous. Also LOVE THAT SUIT OMG THE COLOUR IS TO DIE FOR ❤
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It’s so much easier to be pleasant and respectful than to be nasty. Such an eloquent explanation of this terrible comment. Good for you to stand up for yourself.
Thank you I appreciate that !
I love your channel. Always rude people want to hate on others for enjoyment. You keep on enjoying your life so we can keep enjoying your videos.
Thank you so much - means a lot and pleased you enjoy the channel ☺️
I'm so sorry that you experienced such an ignorant and hurtful comment(s). You have no idea how much joy you bring to your viewers; please know that we're always here! Love you!
Thank you very much - means a lot !!
We’ve never met, but I can say that your wonderful soul shines right through in all your videos. You are beautiful and brave to show the world the real you and that is something to be proud of 💪 I’m saddened that these nasty creatures sit behind their keyboards spouting vile words. We all have our part to play in world to be loving and accepting of each other and these trolls don’t belong. Stay strong and stay wonderful ❤
Thank you that means a lot !!
I still can't understand why people feel it's acceptable to be so horrid to another human. You're brilliant. They're a knob. An unhappy one at that. I know it's easier said than done, but ignore ignore IGNORE and carry on being the fabulous human you are. 💕
Me either Gwenny ! Leading with kindness should feel like the simplest thing to do ! Thank you so much for being a fabulous friend 💜
I'm sorry to hear that this happened to you, and it is very upsetting that people can be so mean and hateful toward others in this community. It is great to know that there are still loads of good people out there, though.
I will never understand the motivation to be unkind to others but luckily it’s the exception rather than the norm ! There are lots of good people out there !
Dear Nick, your kind, genuine and generous heart shines bright and inspiring, please know that you are so appreciated! ❤️🇨🇦
Thank you that means a huge amount !
It really sucks this happened to you but it also makes me wonder, who else they have said that to. The fact that they have even engaged with you in that way is baffling. If it offends them so much, they are literally spending their spare time to project this hatred or fear. I think this person is projecting their own misery and unhappiness onto you. Maybe it’s envy? The fact that you are who you are and you embrace that, as does all your subscribers.
I’m a heterosexual woman but I’m 100% and ally! I have so many friends and even family members who are gay, lesbian, trans and I will always stand by and up for them.
Big love Nick! Keep breaking the boundaries in luxury!
Yes it is very sad to think who else they may have been making nasty comments to ! I hope nobody else but I’m not confident in that !
Nick, darling. These muppets suffer in their hate. Look at the happy and joyful time we have here. They are so miserab;e they can't grasp. Narrow frightened folk can;t manage fabulous. Pity them.
Thank you - means a lot !
Well said, I’m just sorry you had to say it. 💕
Thank you x
As someone who makes videos I know it takes you back when you get one of these troll comments. I’m sorry they upset you. Block, delete, move on. Never respond or give it any focus it’s what they want. Even making this video, you are giving them what they want which is attention and sharing that it bothered you gives your power away, just my opinion. These people are deeply unhappy so hate to see joy that’s all it is.
Unfortunately it wasn’t a topic I could leave unanswered … it is too important for me to not address it ! But completely understand wanting to block & delete !
Obviously, the person who left the comments was the vile one. Personally, I just block those people but I understand why you responded and your response was perfect, reasoned, and mature. Thanks for making this video. Also, give pats to your kitty...the comic relief during this serious discussion. ;)
Thank you Autumn ! This was a topic I didn’t feel like I could be silent about but definitely wanted to not respond in anger or upset ! Awh she gets lots of cuddles - she keeps me balanced 😃😃
Amen Nick! Celebrate and embrace all our crazy differences ❤ you know who you are, your authentic self...thank you for speaking up!! 🎉
Being truly yourself and supporting others to be the same is a special thing !!
Nick, as I said in my instagram comment. How you handled that dreadful comment was just eloquent and amazing.
I really appreciate that thank you !
I love how you fired back with complete class! 👏🏽👏🏽Ignorant trolls are always going to be lurking around trying to bring others down to their own miserable level. Always know that you are loved and appreciated. 🤗☺️
I appreciate all of you massively, amazing community !
I will never understand why people will say nasty comments to someone, just for being themselves. We are many who love your content and your spirit, Nick, and I hope you will not be discouraged by these bullies. I admire you for being so reflective and eloquent. (And I also love your bag-collection 🙂)
Why people think people need to know when they don’t like them too !! I don’t need that haha !! Thank you means a lot !!
How awful and cruel of that person. You’re fabulous and so is your style!
Thank you !!
Nick, you’re different and I subscribed after watching many videos of yours. Your life choices and the way you express yourself is unique to you. God created all of us differently and you remember that. The wicked comment reflects the writer who shows his only vile spirit and cruelty. Social media is the curtain that many bullies and cowards hide behind to bully and destroy people. I am not afraid of people who opposed my comments if they are true but I will not accept vindictiveness 😢 Love you my RUclips content friend…keep your chin up….by the way… I am different too since I don’t live in UK and not western….I have been treated unkindly because I am different. So with you on this Nick….❤❤❤❤
I’m really sorry that you too have experienced unkind treatment ! Being kind should be a baseline - as you said we can all have different opinions, but being kind and respecting one another shouldn’t be compromised !!
Vile or style??? We are fabulous Nick - end of story 🫶🏼💕💙
That we are friend !
What a thoughtful response. I hate that you received these comments. 🙏🏻💕
Thank you !
So sorry that some low life coward made you feel this way. I hope you'll feel the love for you in all the comments. Proud of you for standing up to this bullying❤
I absolutely do Patsy thank you !!
Nick, i am so sad you received this. They are really bad, i have also never understood why they are looking at videos and make stupid critics! If you don't like , just go away, point! But it is so easier for them to write bad things, behind their screens. I am also thinking there is a lot of hidden jealousy from this typ of persons. Nick, you can be proud of you 💖 your community is with you💖 and you have the most powerful weapons: your heart and Poppy💖 have a great sunday😘💖
Thank you ! Always sad people hide behind their keyboards ! Thank you for your support x
You are strong, wise and loved. I agree that it is important to call out this bullying and homophobic behaviour and it is also important to call for support, and because you have built a wonderful channel it is clear that we support you and that is a powerful message ❤❤❤
Thank you that’s really kind x
I hate that you had to make this video Nick. You are such an incredible person. Like you, I’ve never understood why people watch content they don’t enjoy or don’t agree with. Just click off. And to then leave a nasty comment?? Unacceptable! Hugs!!
Thank you Lisa ❤️
Well, I am sorry that this happened. You don't deserve such hate. This person is obviously hurting and troubled. I agree with everything you're saying and we love watching your videos so keep on making them. Don't let anyone cloud your light. Thanks, Nick!
Thank you !!
nick i love your energy, i'm sorry that this has happened to you. remember it so easy to for these fragile worthless spiteful cowards to hide behind their little keyboards attacking unsuspecting innocent talented content creators like you. Kindness is a scarce commodity in this faceless culture on the internet, but I'm happy that you are in good spirit and I'm 11000000% with you :) love from Melbourne.
That means a lot to me, thank you for your kind words !
so so sorry keep being you
Thank you !!
One can always know who the good people are by the way they treat animals. Poppy adores you; you are a good person Nick!
And I adore her, thank you that means a lot !
You have never come across as vile, never ever. That person is clearly projecting their issues. Always stay beautifully you babes. I love your personality, your colorful fashion, and living your best life. June is Pride month in the U.S., so Happy Pride Gorgeous! 🏳️🌈
Thank you Angie you’ve always been so kind & supportive ! It is pride month in the UK too which almost made the comment sadder !
I think it’s kind of cowardly to post such comments on an old vlog: knowing that your (Nick) audience has already watched, so won’t be reading new comments (and so their words go unchallenged by us). Equivalent to whispering nasty things behind someone’s back, as you don’t have the guts to stand up and own it. Pathetic, really. I think you’re bloody fabulous ❤ 🌈 😘
Means a lot thank you so much !! We have a wonderful community here !!
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I can't believe in 2024 such stupid bigotry still exists. As Autumn Beckman says, nasty comments just reflect the person that said them. Your response was very mature and kinder than this case of arrested development deserved. Casting pearls before swine. I love your channel. I find you very warm and relatable. Celebrate yourself and as you've proven, celebrate others. ❤💙💜
It is very sad we have to have the conversations in 2024, but I believe bit by bit the world is changing & all I can try I do is help more things forward for the next generation !
Well done for calling out the sad little troll. Dont let them get to you. They’re not worth your time
Thank you !!
Nick more people love you than U know, those who post stuff like that are lacking in intelligence or any kind of sense of what's right or wrong, to put someone down and make horrible remarks are no worthy of Ur time ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you ❤️
@@nickjsne sweety Ur so welcome 🤗
we love you.
Thank you so much !!
It’s easy for hateful people to hide behind the anonymity of the internet. Your response was perfect. I hope that you don’t dwell on those painful moments from the past. 😢
Thank you ! I try to not but occasionally things make me reflect !
Nick it hurts me to see such negative comments about you. You are the nicest person and please don’t ever change! Sadly the world is full of hillbillies who is hide behind their anonymity. We all love you and Poppy and your videos!
Thank you Jennifer, don’t worry I have no plans to change ☺️☺️
@@nickjsne so glad! You are really such a pleasure to watch!
I am sorry someone was so ugly to you. There are keyboard warriors out there who have nothing better to do than to vomit thier bigorty all over social media.
Remember, in the end, person who behaves like that is showing who is the vile one is and it is not you. My avatar says it all. Stay fabulous!
Your avatar is amazing and thank you 💜
I think you are fabulous. Some people are just awful, and its good to ignore. Im 57 yrs now and have thankfully left my, give a shits, behind. Something i couldnt do a few years ago.
Definitely slowly leaving my give a shits behind too !
So sorry you had nasty comments, you do not deserve it . I always feel people who do that must be so unhappy and by bringing others down they think they will feel better.
I agree Marion, I feel for individuals who actively try to hurt others ! It’s very sad !
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It’s just keyboard warriors they are pathetic 😢!!!
Yes it’s very sad !
Hi Nick, I hope you are ok. You are the loveliest person and a pleasure to watch. You are always very kind and I love watching your videos. Thank you for sharing you, your loveliness and your gorgeous cat on RUclips. Fellow handbag lover here and then when you got your cat, it has made me even more excited about your channel. I have 1 cat now, I did have two and lost my beautiful baby girl about 6 weeks ago to liver issues, I miss her like mad but I’m still so grateful to have my beautiful boy cat. Please keep being you and I’m really sorry that you received horrible comments as you are amazing ❤❤❤
I am so sorry for your loss, I hope you are okay, what is your boy cats name ? Thank you for you kind words that means a lot x
@@nickjsnethank you very much. My boy cats name is Marnie ❤
I feel I need to weigh in on this as well. First, let me just say, you are LOVED. In my opinion, when people make hateful comments such as the one you unfortunately received, it is often rooted in their own feelings of inadequacy and as a result, they try to assert dominance from behind a computer screen. So cowardly. This person is obviously seeking to compensate for his or her own personal shortcomings and does so by denigrating you and no doubt others. This is a failed attempt for this loser to try to hold on to their own misguided belief that by tearing you down, it will elevate their own self-esteem. This is a “them” problem, not a “you” problem. Try to shake it off and reflect on what I’ve said. The best advice I can give you is BLOCK BLOCK BLOCK. I’m so glad I am now a part of your community! You are spectacular!
STRAIGHT BUT NOT NARROW!!
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Thank you Ruth ! You are so kind ❤️ means a huge amount thank you !
Unfortunately, people who post these types of comments are very unhappy and/or angry people themselves. Do not let the things they post resonate with you in a negative way. THEY are the ones with the negativity. People who are unhappy with their lives try to lure others in. Misery loves company. Don’t join their group. You are wonderful and we adore you. 🩷🩷🩷
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Forgetting it is easier said than done. Talking about it, venting, always helps me feel better. I hope you blocked that hateful creature. 🩷💜
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