Philippines Lifestyle - Can Living Near Your Filipina Wife's Family Cause Marital Problems?
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- Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
- Join me and Fatima while we discuss the pros and cons of living near your Filipina wife's family. We'll use a comment submitted by one of our viewers as the case study and catalyst for the conversation.
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Coz you're a total moron since day one with all your crappy talk and talk nonsense,. Hey buddy, news flash: WHY DON'T YOU LIVE IN THAILAND INSTEAD OF THE PHILIPPINES SINCE YOU ALWAYS ON KEEP COMPARING!!! Noone wants you in the Philippines for many obvious reasons. So get!!!
I agree he just a so called military USA Gronk ,he a piss ant ,
What a dumb ass comment. Who do you think you are the foreigner police
What a whopper 🤣🤣
Somebody is a angry boy. U ok Mr. 😅😅
Thailand is a much cleaner, and modern country than PI. Thailand is much better. I lived in both places and Thai's are more respectful to each other or foreigners and carry themselves with honor.
Depends on the family. I don't have a problem with my wife's family.
I never did either.
He's just a American Gronk
I admire your diversity and how you’re accepting the life living near your in laws. Fatima is one lucky girl. Excellent video on cultural differences. 😎
You and your wife is amazing together
I learned a lot of Tagalog and Chubucano (much more like spanish and spoken in the south) from my EX and her family when I lived there. After getting rid of her and marrying my Thai wife I told her straight out I'm not stressing myself to learn Thai. I will teach every person in Thailand how to speak english before I learn Thai. I understand what you're saying though dude but I had no issues communicating in either place.
1. Learn Visayan. Get the software or an app to learn it. Or hire a tutor. Speak it as much as possible.
2. Use a translator app or device.
3. When in Rome, do as the Romans. Kick off your shoes. Drink some tuba. Learn to interact with Filipinos. They are very relaxed and fun loving.
4. Set boundaries. Tell them they need to call before coming by or not during certain times.
I have an app on my phone but im still shit at Tagalog 🤣🤣but i am trying
Enjoyed it as usual thank you
Yes, keep the family far away.
Once you even start paying the smallest amout for them....
It’s like growing up on a reservation. When I was a kid
I think I'm unclear on something. Anyone please chime in...
City people don't just stop by? Like, they have a date and time pre-arranged? what if something comes up for one of them, then what do they do? Is it because when they are home they are just sitting on the sofa? When a country person is home they might be in the barn, out in a back field, wrenching on a tractor, fixing fence lines. Having someone just stop by is like getting some free help. Have some coffee ready to go and then take a bit of a coffee break and chat, or kèp working (free help) and chat. What do city people do when they visit? I really don't know, and never concidered it before.
I have a filipina wife and they always seem to play with their hair every time she's mad at me she's always playing with their hair like your wife playing with their hair why is that my wife won't tell me why 😭
Markos your so cute lol 😂😂😂
I found out it's not good most of the time to live to close.to your family are your wife family if she or you are not very mature. Every one has their 2 cents toput in your marriage. That is not always helpful most of the time.amen
5 days twice a month $10 a day max. 5 days better Son stays home. 3 days a month better. Take it or leave it Grow some balls.
Your in there county. Learn there language.
as an american expat living in the province with my wife’s family i can empathize with that viewer’s frustration with the language barrier. my wife’s family are good people but i do feel very alone sometimes. thankfully i have my son to hang out with.
Jeez what an idea of a relationship..I knew when I dated a few province Filipina..I really did not want the a province girl. Uneducated ..poor communication..don’t get me started on the family Bs.
Marry a woman who is educated and is able to speak ENGLISH...It means there would be a better communication between you and her. You have no obligation to pay anything to her family.
Most Of The Time It Will Lead To Problems Be Atleast 1 Or 2 Islands Away ! 🙄🙄🙄😳😳😳🙂🙂🙂🙏🙏🙏💯💯💯
Look at that family she speak bad things to mark no respect kind of girl, n besides marcos is feeding her.
Fatima speaks good English until you get her frustrated. I love that it's so dang cute. Lol.
Fatima said go ahead we talking about him not that , but the joyful look she put on her face when you said you paid was priceless. And I know she felt like a hero on her way to the hospital to help her sister out. She was strutting her stuff down the street, she probably didn’t even call her sister up to tell her that she was on her way to bail her out, just so she could flap her super hero cap more when she showed up, I love it.
P81l
If you want to understand English stay in your country lolllllll
Depending on your personality type, you can deal with that alone time as a real gift and benefit. I like alone time. Camping, I agree, After six weeks in the field, you lose your desire for camping quick.
Alcohol is the answer my friends. Get drunk with the wife's fam. You'll be amazed when the drunken English comesout.
Must have extreme patience to live in the PI.
I don't think her family really cares for him. Nothing overt but I detect something.
I really enjoyed listening to this video .
Fatima sitting there so cute and answering your questions truthful ly hahaha And you are so cool Marcos and such a great guy!
All your videos are very well done.
Is he? I wonder what happens off camera since Fatima has the mind of a 16yo?
Fatima is looking good. Keep that hair down.
Move an island away. Or. Don’t get involved with a Pinay and have fun. I mean… why should I throw away all the peace, quiet, rest, adventure, and fun that I have been working my whole life for?
Hello my great friends in Paradise . Hope all is well. Always watch for notifications of new videos . Your channel is #1 on my feed . Stay true to your beliefs and screw the haters. ❤
I'm good when it's all love, genuineness and fun.
But,
the minute you're trying to take advantage of me and my wallet,
I'll introduce you to the devil in me.
No exception.
And,
I'll NEVER befriend, respect or trust you again.
See that is a horrible thing to say to fatima.. everytime.. my wife number 2.. omg that must be hurtful to her
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I hate it how simple girls can't answer the simplest questions..
My x was like this.
Lovely but thick as a board
Great Video. I can share your thoughts 100%. But you have more experience than me. I will change my behaviour now...more respecting the ph culture. Sry for my Bad english..i am Germany.
I am German.
Having a wife that basically disappears for 10 days...what the heck is she up to? That would be my first question. 1 weekend a month. Max. And you be there. So.ething doesn't add up for a "wife" wanting to dissappear for a week and a half. Here in the USA when that happens you normally find her in Miami or Vegas. And we all know what she is doing when she goes there alone, or even worse, a "girls trip".
Good life Marcos 👍
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OMG, I love this video with you and Fatima. Great show, I love Fatama's input.
Or you can do what I did in the village north of Hanoi, after one day just say “ I’ll be back in a minute I’m just going to buy some milk” got my ass on that motorcycle and flew like wind back to Hanoi. Honestly one day in a village anywhere is enough.
Why don’t you help your wife to take out her ticks from her hair
Very good video, I can relate 100%. I've had 3 Filipino wives since 1976. Language problem existed for along time. But for the last 30 no problem but when I lived in the Philippines with wife no 2 it was hard for more than just language .
Mark you will be the one to adjust now, try to learn visaya so all of you will speak visaya and have a good communication to each other instead of translating... it gelps grandma to communicate will to you then...
A certain amount of distance from either family is a good idea - both the man's AND the lady's...from my experience. But there are exceptions. Health reasons/children, ect.
Your Video is always 👍 interesting..such a good looking American Man with a kind heart ❤
Well i'm in the philippines and my wife says they don't like to hear english because it makes her nosebleed we talk too fast or something like that
Shy? Yup but if u do t practice u will never learn.
Most my opinion lazy. To speak to the person buying their product or service.
Me I go to someone that speaks better English
First English one of my nieces learned was “what she say”. Heard me asking the wife all the time. Language? Been with this Bisaya speaking hottie 40 plus years and I’m still having trouble with the language
Jomar is Shy around Marcos cause you pushed him away when he wanted to come visit Angeles City and only wanted females in your videos MARCOS. I remember Marcos saying that all he does is sleep. No wonder he acts this way around his brother in'law who dint extend an olive branch on video.
Markos😢 are you alright you look knackered I know you was feeling peecky. I hope your well and it's just a bad night s sleep.
Fatima laughs inappropriately. Stop being silly. Speak slowly. Be polite.
King in my case even if you don't live close to her families home it causes distress. If they know that their family member is involved with an expat, it is a constant problem. My girlfriend told me that before we met her family including her kids would very rarely stay in contact with her. Since we have been together they call but it is usually to borrow money. It's not to see how she is doing. It is because she has an American boyfriend. Problem is I cannot always help them because we cannot help everyone. I have to be able to survive also and I am on a limited budget. So they stop talking to her when she says no. For some reason they think all of us are rich. But we are not. We have to budget here also.
Fatima looking good like it’s date night.
I thought foreign guy=ATM ( LOL )
I admire your first minute... Digging to find common ground weather opinion yet you honestly fail.😂
Hello Fatima , My Australian partner is here in Agujo and ganahan ta cya ma meet si Marcos if that's okay? His a long time fan of Marcos and always watched his vlogs.
That means they will work extra hard to get "free stuff."
Rice , rides , peso , pay thier land tax ect...
Why not carry a personal translator...with ear plug...because you speak english real well when you want to borrow or need aide.
I finally figured how to handle tampo, just shut my mouth ignore them, and enjoy my day. They hate it.
In your opinion. F guys live in IT park would her family resent it even if your helping them financially
Learn the language. We live in a golden era of free and easy language instruction right here on RUclips. You live with a native speaker so the ability to understand will come way faster than you can imagine if you just put some effort into it.
Location is VERY important ,, 2 islands between her and family is good place to start. Then add minimum or 6 hours travel between for them ,, but easy access 1 hour by plane for you to return you Filipina and get a refund :)
5 hours distance is far enough away from in laws. You need a break from her for translating ✈️
simba-ko means knock on wood, hope not. " Family is the key to true happiness.
Yes it can, if possible anyother planet might be best.
I have exactly the same experience in Japan with inlaws
Move to another island no unless you have problem with mother of his child other than were to live. i say stay within 3 hour bus ride of your child
People in general with language they won't admit it but they like having that edge.
As long as they're not the odd man out!
Man u have to put urself at least eight hours away from ur wife's family,the further the better or u WILL regrete it.
Appreciate the info . Think if I were to retire there I would live as a monk
Most bisaya can understand and speak tagalog but only few tagalog can understand and speak bisaya.It’s better for Maria to learn both dialect tagalog and bisaya.We have aTV show here right now it’s called Love in translation .The guys are American looking for love and the girls are from different countries that don’t speak and understand English.Most of the time guys just scratch their head because they don’t know what say sometimes they use sign language
Mark if you die you’re wife can get a pension, hopefully your wife
Hello Marcos and Fatima, I think your such a great husband to Fatima and good father to the kids ❤
I. Admit I was wrong about you ! I thought you always put down Fatima and her family because they are poor, and a blood sucker. Now that I hear your side, you are right! I see where your coming from. You’ve learned the Pilipino culture and, costume and you understand. I too was raised in the village cannot speak very “well English” and, my family are also poor. As a Pilipino I think all we want is respect ! I understand now, you do show some respect by showing compassion , and providing food for them. Thank you Marcos. God bless!
"Living in the village is like camping with electricity." 😂
I agree with you 💯%
Why do you refer to your wife as wife number two? Are you married two women?
CAMPING? WATCH OUT FOR SNAKES.
Fatima speaks English good. She just needs to slow down speaking a little and have more confidence.
Family all wants to eat, foreigners pay the bills.
every video i understand more and more why you want another woman in your house
Jax in the scene #309
Can't wait to come this year. 1st Timer
Hope you have a girlfriend there to meet she can help you alot oh everything takes time to do anything you do traffic bad wait hours much more
Here's A Tip For You , If You Fly Into MNL (Manilla Airport) NEVER Get A Cab On 1st Level They Are Unlicensed Scammers , 2nd Level Mostly Good And Will Get You Where Your Going , 3rd Level All Licensed Legitimate Cabs But Even With These Suggestions Keep Your Guard Up ! My 1st Time In Manila Got Took For 1,500p To Go To Pasay , After That Got Cab Rides From MNL All The Way To Batangas Pier For 2,000p ! I Love Filipinos But If They Smell Green Foreigner Watch Out You Will Pay A Big Skin Tax ! LOL 😁😁😁🤣🤣🤣
Great Show sometimes simple issues most interesting
Very good video on family life in philipines..great video..thankyou.
Ok nice
Very good I enjoy you always do TOP VIDEOS THE BEST I THERE VERY SOON
You should get an Oscar for this award winning show lol. Enjoyed fatima's infectious laugh good advice for that gentleman and fatima adding her two cents worth here and there was great. Hoping to move there with my wife from Canada someday.
At the end of the day, family is still family and I agree with you Sir your autistic son needs the comfort hugs and attention of the family not only your son but also Fatima because as a mother she needs the help of the family
I’ve been watching your channel since before the sea virus. Been making plans and I think my best option as a first time is to come to the Philippines rent a room at the Drake and hang out with Eric for the first month and let those guys show me the ropes.
Your wife has a beautiful laugh, Mark. I was in Dumaguete for the month of January. Got back to the states and had the influenza last week. Too much stress for me. Felt very isolated in the Philippines. Like nobody wanted me except for my money (which isn't a real lot.) Can't afford to live in America but don't know where to go. I drink a lot now but at least I'm not on the street. That will be the end of me.
Forget all that. I appreciate your videos. Thank you.
Thanks for the insightful honest video. I ike the quote drunks understand drunks helpful video
just make more of an effort to learn the language ,,,
I can tell you from past experience putting a few islands or continents between families works awesome
Guess I was lucky... I know both before coming to Philippines... 7 language total 😊
To get the other side of this conversation. Watch a youtuber by the name of Bud Brown. He is a linguist by nature and lived with his wife in the PI for twenty something years and was fluent in....Tagolag .
Audiobooks needed, I can’t read
Can you please have Fatima read Cat in the Hat !
“…turned out a kid after ridin’ a hot dog” 😂
Well done Marcos. Great job Fatima.
Memphis on board