I just recently started getting into stoicism and learned about toxic people and cut ties with one of my cousins and working on doing the same with one of my sisters. I have to say my life is getting better. Toxic people will take your soul and everything that makes you who you are and then turn it around and try to make it your fault and "your just mean". Since I've awakened to some realities my paintings are getting better again. Peace of mind is priceless so I guard mine more now! I just found your channel and am a subscriber. Thanks for sharing alot of people seem to have this issue. Your not alone!
Not a family member but a former friend who, when she walked herself out of my life, was actually a relief. We had different political views and she would get into fights with my friends and then claim they were all mean. It has honestly been wonderful not to have to deal with her anymore. Good luck finding more support people!
It's likely they know how bad they treat you, as they need to keep the blame fire stoked in your direction. You know the peace is worth cutting the ties. Stay strong.
I am in same boat with my sister - besides the drunken craziness and cops being called because of her drunken bullshit - she has not worked a steady job in 20 years. I moved up to NC from Florida in 2017 and because of my dads failing health my mom wanted to move in with me in NC. Anyway I was about to buy a house here, but had to get a bigger house to handle the amount of people living it. My sister has paid only about $4000 in the 6 years - I've financially lost about $38000 to cover her end of the bargain. My dad past away in February and I figured this would push her to get working - nope Im stuck in a expensive mortgage where I am losing money. The only reason I am still in this house and not selling it is because of my obligation to my mom
I cut the ties with my sister. For alote of the same reasons that you cut ties with your sister. My other two sisters are past on. I have my husband and my kids and grand children that support me. I feel so much better .now that I do not have anything to do with my sister.
@@jessminer1606 If she’s under 18 I’d say get her into therapy!! She might be hesitant at first but also might end up loving it. I feel like most toxic people either have anger issues or are not happy with themselves. Good luck to you! 🩶
Maybe she's projecting on you and/or manipulating you. Maybe she's a narcissist? Like "turning it around" or making u feel guilty when she's perpetrating on you
I just recently started getting into stoicism and learned about toxic people and cut ties with one of my cousins and working on doing the same with one of my sisters. I have to say my life is getting better. Toxic people will take your soul and everything that makes you who you are and then turn it around and try to make it your fault and "your just mean". Since I've awakened to some realities my paintings are getting better again. Peace of mind is priceless so I guard mine more now! I just found your channel and am a subscriber. Thanks for sharing alot of people seem to have this issue. Your not alone!
Not a family member but a former friend who, when she walked herself out of my life, was actually a relief. We had different political views and she would get into fights with my friends and then claim they were all mean. It has honestly been wonderful not to have to deal with her anymore. Good luck finding more support people!
It's likely they know how bad they treat you, as they need to keep the blame fire stoked in your direction. You know the peace is worth cutting the ties. Stay strong.
@@InceleHubby thank you!! 🩶 I’m definitely trying
I am in same boat with my sister - besides the drunken craziness and cops being called because of her drunken bullshit - she has not worked a steady job in 20 years.
I moved up to NC from Florida in 2017 and because of my dads failing health my mom wanted to move in with me in NC. Anyway I was about to buy a house here, but had to get a bigger house to handle the amount of people living it. My sister has paid only about $4000 in the 6 years - I've financially lost about $38000 to cover her end of the bargain.
My dad past away in February and I figured this would push her to get working - nope
Im stuck in a expensive mortgage where I am losing money. The only reason I am still in this house and not selling it is because of my obligation to my mom
You need your peace of mind. Be strong, all will be fine.
You did the right thing. For me, my mental health kept improving and I am more able to achieve goals now. Itll b good
Her Mother is in her 80s ????
Wow.....!!
She looks quite young.....
I subscribed to your channel today. 🌼
@@My_cats4748 Thank you!
I got rid of all of them, but all I had left was 2 sisters and some cousins and I live 2,000 miles away so it was easy
I cut the ties with my sister. For alote of the same reasons that you cut ties with your sister. My other two sisters are past on. I have my husband and my kids and grand children that support me. I feel so much better .now that I do not have anything to do with my sister.
@@My_cats4748 My life has much more peaceful without her in my life! Wishing nothing but peace for you! 🩵
You do You.
I can't wait to hear the happy ending to your story...one day lol
@@darrengillie7351 I feel like I have a very clear vision right now. Life is only getting better!
My daughter is acting like im toxic when she is. Any advice?
@@jessminer1606 If she’s under 18 I’d say get her into therapy!! She might be hesitant at first but also might end up loving it. I feel like most toxic people either have anger issues or are not happy with themselves. Good luck to you! 🩶
Maybe she's projecting on you and/or manipulating you. Maybe she's a narcissist? Like "turning it around" or making u feel guilty when she's perpetrating on you
That's right! I don't care if they're family or not. More often than not, family are worse than strangers!
@@Ephbaum very true!