Since he's only a roommate now, it's all YOUR decision. He wants them working while he's away, the fact he doesn't care about you wanting a day of Thanksgiving is that he's the type of guy who deserves to only be a roommate, not caring about what you want. HE'S ONLY A ROOMMATE now.
if you ask if someone is gaslighting you, trust that they are gaslighting you. If someone wants to fix something, let them. Do not reschedule them because you will piss them off and get substandard work. There will be more thanksgivings. I would have let the work happen when they could do it.
Abusive relationships are abusive relationships. You don't have to be dating. YOU are not the Ahole. kick him out. seriously. or leave yourself. disengage. he is dangerous. YOU need to stand up and don't look or validation. YOU know. Follow your gut. Always follow your gut.
If you really want it done you take the first opportunity that’s given . I understand that it’s thanksgiving but you want this done otherwise you will be out to the bottom of the list from the contractor
If your roomate doesn't understand why you ...or anyone...wouldnt want workers in the house during Thanksgiving...he's dumber than a sack of hammers. Get away from that guy.
I hope they have put a tarp where the roof used to be in the interim. He doesn’t sound like a good roommate but that’s just an opinion. I hope you have a nice Thanksgiving either way :-)
this is not okay. he probably just doesn’t want to be there when the construction is happening and doesn’t care about YOU or YOUR thanksgiving… i’d get out as soon as you can 🩷 people like him aren’t people you wanna stay around…
Your obviously very unsure of yourself and need everyone’s approval. Be your own person. If you dont you will always have people ruling you. This guy needs to be told to take a hike
You are both out of line. He is out of line for raising his voice and calling you names. You are out of line for taking it. Get out and change your number. Eat crow and go home to your mother or a sibling. Do not be embarrassed. Admit you made a mistake and need their help.
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Since he's only a roommate now, it's all YOUR decision. He wants them working while he's away, the fact he doesn't care about you wanting a day of Thanksgiving is that he's the type of guy who deserves to only be a roommate, not caring about what you want. HE'S ONLY A ROOMMATE now.
Dang Kate, you're a real beauty. Get it done when it works best for you. New roomate time?
It's perfectly normal to not want people working in your house during Thanksgiving. Good thing he's just your roommate lol. - WW
You are not overreacting..it's a holiday and sorry but your roommate is being an Ass
Whose home is it? Yours, he needs to move. His, you need to move ASAP. You're NOT crazy. Don't let anyone make you 2nd guess your decisions.
if you ask if someone is gaslighting you, trust that they are gaslighting you. If someone wants to fix something, let them. Do not reschedule them because you will piss them off and get substandard work. There will be more thanksgivings. I would have let the work happen when they could do it.
Abusive relationships are abusive relationships. You don't have to be dating. YOU are not the Ahole. kick him out. seriously. or leave yourself. disengage. he is dangerous. YOU need to stand up and don't look or validation. YOU know. Follow your gut. Always follow your gut.
If you really want it done you take the first opportunity that’s given . I understand that it’s thanksgiving but you want this done otherwise you will be out to the bottom of the list from the contractor
If your roomate doesn't understand why you ...or anyone...wouldnt want workers in the house during Thanksgiving...he's dumber than a sack of hammers. Get away from that guy.
I hope they have put a tarp where the roof used to be in the interim. He doesn’t sound like a good roommate but that’s just an opinion. I hope you have a nice Thanksgiving either way :-)
this is not okay. he probably just doesn’t want to be there when the construction is happening and doesn’t care about YOU or YOUR thanksgiving… i’d get out as soon as you can 🩷 people like him aren’t people you wanna stay around…
You don't need a jerk roommate. You need a good man in your life. And you're super pretty
Why do you need his or our approval.
You need a good man that believes in you and supports you.
Let's talk
Your obviously very unsure of yourself and need everyone’s approval. Be your own person. If you dont you will always have people ruling you. This guy needs to be told to take a hike
that up to you
its your house & if you want a quite day at home you can ,,
anyway who does he think he is ,,,
your husband and 😆
You are both out of line. He is out of line for raising his voice and calling you names. You are out of line for taking it. Get out and change your number. Eat crow and go home to your mother or a sibling. Do not be embarrassed. Admit you made a mistake and need their help.