How to RELEASE a Twin Flame (Trauma Bond)

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  • @kcflygirl29
    @kcflygirl29 3 года назад +10

    All these people that are butthurt. “ I’ve been on this journey for 5 years, he hasn’t called in 4 years, but I am doing the work, so he’ll be back one day” lol, that man is sleeping with another woman every night while you are listening to RUclips videos. Do the work and move on with your life. What is meant for you will never pass you by. Thank you Ms. Laura.

    • @Tratamientos44
      @Tratamientos44 4 месяца назад

      Woo, eso de que no te ha llamado en 4 años no es una llama gemela, es una persona que nunca le interesaste

  • @cmac9782
    @cmac9782 3 года назад +34

    I have been very alarmed by the twin flame communities tolerance of abusive behavior. I needed this video so very much! I got a great deal out of a video where you talked about how the DM isn’t thriving in this lifetime, my paraphrase. I am letting go and forgiving my twin now. Thank you , thank you, thank you!!! My future suddenly looks so much brighter 😀

    • @spirituallove343
      @spirituallove343 2 года назад +4

      Abusive behaviour and trauma bond is not a twin flame dynamic! Stop the delusion please!!!

    • @marcelsmiley858
      @marcelsmiley858 2 года назад +2

      I am mainly masculine and got abused by dysfunctional feminines supposed to be my "twin flame" or "soul mate". So there is also the other way round but there is a big stigma around another perspective because "men are all pigs, bad, abusive etc." .
      Maybe I am not able to be in a relationship for a long time (maybe for the rest of my life...) because of this concept and what it does to people. But I'll thrive in my purpose and work here on earth 🙏

  • @sarajones2092
    @sarajones2092 3 года назад +38

    One of your best videos 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 can’t stand seeing people stuck in this cycle

    • @camijo7730
      @camijo7730 3 года назад +1

      Being 'stuck' is all in your mind. 💜

    • @memyselfandinunya1978
      @memyselfandinunya1978 3 года назад +1

      I've been stuck for 2 years! Blessings of love and light to all!

  • @Robin-dy1fb
    @Robin-dy1fb 3 года назад +22

    Hello sweet girl. Ahhh what can I say... been on this journey with u since day one. This. This resonates so hard. I sat in the fairytale for 3 years and man.. this video Is me. My "twin" is just a catalyst for my own journey. Never thought i would be ok with never seeing him again. Love you sis. Keep shining!!

  • @sydneyberutti5890
    @sydneyberutti5890 3 года назад +20

    I want this for myself. I’ve been on this journey for 2-1/2 years now and I’m actually really physically ill. Depleted, exhausted. I’m trying to block twin flame videos sometimes it’s easy to get suck into . I want out !!! Thank you Laura !!!

  • @Healingpath1988
    @Healingpath1988 3 года назад +16

    Great video -cuts right through all the bullshit out there that are keeping people stuck in trauma bonds and suffering 🙏🌺

  • @1servantofYAHAWAH
    @1servantofYAHAWAH 3 года назад +8

    What helped me is I let go of all these TF concepts and the other person then I ask help to the Heavenly Father the Creator of the universe I pray hard crying say sorry and repent to him, I humbly ask him to help me because I can't do it myself. Now I live life peaceful and happy with guidance and stronger faith at our Father/Creator, he saved me, love me unconditionally and heal my wounds. ❤

  • @thehiphypnochick
    @thehiphypnochick 3 года назад +17

    Outstanding video!! You explain it very well, and I like your compassionate, yet no nonsense, demeanor...it's about the message, and not a popularity contest - you get that

  • @roseyminovski3044
    @roseyminovski3044 3 года назад +16

    You explained it so clearly, I have so much more healing to do, can’t stop crying

  • @heartsnbones128
    @heartsnbones128 3 года назад +20

    Everything you say about healthy relationship dynamics is great and important, BUT you are confusing the karmic dynamic with a twin flame dynamic. Why? Because you haven't experienced a twin flame dynamic yourself. What you say is incredibly important for the many many people out there who think they are in TF connections but are actually not, and they need help to get out of that trauma bond. But for true twin flames? This video is not for them.

    • @spirituallove343
      @spirituallove343 2 года назад +5

      @Allie Hamilton Twin flames are very, very rare. It is a journey of higher love, mutuality and compassion. But is no more special than other connections, all are lessons in the end. It`s just a different soul agreement... But I`m telling you with all the confidence of a true twin flame, that if you are in a tf dynamic, you cannot break the bond. It`s impossible to detach from the other polarity of your soul without VERY severe and brutal spiritual, physical and mental consequences.... This is why it`s not a good idea to label a journey as soulmate, twin flame, karmic etc without being 10000% that is real. I went through all, so I can confidently tell the difference. And twin flame journey is not for the faint of heart. Is not a fairy tale, but it is definitely paranormal and supernatural. Much love and healing!!

    • @GraciousGlory
      @GraciousGlory Год назад +6

      Yes, I agree with this. Twin Flames are real and are not to be confused with trauma bond. This video is not for true twin flames. Good content and useful information for those who are in a bad dynamic relationship or unhealthy relationship. But this has nothing to do with a real TF connection

  • @Carla-Jane89
    @Carla-Jane89 2 года назад +3

    Nearly 4 years on the journey and FINALLY ready to hear this. Thank you so much Laura. I am so excited for the next part of my journey. 💛

  • @jessyon6274
    @jessyon6274 3 года назад +38

    I am talking to. YOU. This isn’t me speaking to myself lol. You’re spreading false information. Your “journey” was not a true twin flame journey. A trauma bond is a trauma bond. Period. You’ve been in a trauma Bond. Twin connections aren’t easy but they certainly aren’t toxic. They teach us beautiful lessons. My twin and I aren’t together. I still thank God for him everyday. We respect each other. We have a healthy friendly relationship. We have no expectations of each other. We love each other unconditionally. You are using the twin concept to make excuses for the fact that you let someone treat you like crap. That’s it. If you stick around and let someone mess with your head because of a label you put on something, that’s you causing your own trauma. There is no label for a true twin connection. You are right about the twin concept being a man made concept. It’s all made up by obsessed human beings. You can’t put a man made label on a Godly connection. If you experience this true divine connection, not one human being has answers on it, I’ve gotten all of my guidance from God. God brought him to me. He brought me
    Closer to God. If it doesn’t feel Godly, it’s a trauma bond. You had a toxic relationship girl. I’m sorry you experienced that. Maybe this is your way of healing; But you’re theory is also thought up. And it’s false information.

    • @twinflame1445
      @twinflame1445 3 года назад +12

      Yip that’s right she put the label on this, this isn’t a journey of the mind it’s a journey of the soul.

    • @blablablabianka3279
      @blablablabianka3279 3 года назад +2

      People who aren’t even in twin flame connection are putting so much energy in confusing and giving their “concepts” out there, it’s not a trauma bond, you aren’t even a twin. You might wish that , you were in karmic relationship. The best way to find out is your birth chart. Nowadays its easy, because the sun in your birth chart is for example aquarius ♒️ and MOON 🌚 is Leo, so your counterpart is a LEO. Period. Another aspect is awakening itself, you will hear the voice of GOD and galaxy angels (for the feminine aspect) ,it’s given thru DNA. I am sharing the information what Jess Dively wrote here, she a true twin.

    • @Thelittleclipstore
      @Thelittleclipstore 3 года назад

      I grew up religious and I was taught that we have only one true other half and many soul mates.. I don’t think twin flames is new concept. And yep it feels godly and something that just happened to me without me even wanting it , I tried over n over to ignore it and move on and I kept seeing it’s not working and the love was coming to me no matter how much I tried pushing him away . It’s amazing that feeling of unconditional love, And I’ve made peace with it that he’s my other half and nothing will ever seperate us and it’s been over 8 yrs already , so glad to be here and become who I am :)

    • @blablablabianka3279
      @blablablabianka3279 3 года назад +1

      @@Thelittleclipstore I grow up religious as well, to an Christian catholic community, and my parents don’t believe in reincarnation, I DO, I believe in higher power, in God, in Angels, in Protection, but still, this journey is about love to God, his affection, if you truly a twin, you should have hear him on your awakening. That’s the true unconditional love they are talking about, the love from our Most high. Like I don’t see it that twin have to end up together, coz during my study on uni I came across the paradigm of narcissism and empathy, so... there is as well some kind of true init.

    • @jessyon6274
      @jessyon6274 3 года назад +7

      Jenita L 511 as hard as a twin journey is, it makes us turn inward and want to heal our own traumas. While it may be a rough and emotional road, there are no ill intentions on either side. I’ve been in both. I was in a narcissistic abusive relationship for 20 years. At first those relationships “feel” like they’re meant to be. It’s all love and perfectness in the beginning. It eventually turns into toxicity and manipulation. There is no love. Just a need to be with that person because you are so afraid to lose them. My twin was completely different. While we had hard times emotionally due to past traumas, there was never any intentional pain or hurt. He was always 100% honest with me about his feelings and I was the same with him. We knew that there was something absolutely special about us. Neither of us had heard of a twin prior to meeting. It wasn’t love at first sight. It was a knowing. A feeling if home. A calm. He brought me closer to God. There was a lot of pain. It’s the hardest journey and the most rewarding. We could be thousands of miles apart and still feel each others emotions. There is no codependency or fear of losing that person because the knowing that they are always with you is overwhelming. There is no doubting yourself, no feeling worthless due to how someone treats you. It pushes you to connect to God and develop a closer relationship with him. There are no twins without God. He created us. To guide each other. God also Guided me in my journey with Holden. He still does. Him a no I have moved on with new people. We still talk
      Here and there. He tells
      Me how much I helped him grow and that we will always be connected. The love I have for this man will never fade. But it’s an unconditional one. It’s so unexplainable. I wish I could
      Put it into better words. One day I will. Bottom line is, while it’s painful at times, I wouldn’t trade our journey for anything in the world. The love of a twin comes only second to the love I feel from God. It is unconditional and pure. No trauma bonds here. If you are experiencing someone who is toxic and abusive, they don’t deserve the twin label. Get rid of the label. It’s a divine connection that can’t be labeled. I hope that gives some
      Answers ♥️

  • @annatresor2119
    @annatresor2119 3 года назад +20

    On the journey for 4 years, and Laura has always resonated with me. When she left the twin flame concept behind, I was still struggling and stopped watching videos for 1-2 years to live the journey alone. But this video is absolutely correct and exactly how I see it now! I'm glad we are on the same wave because it means true happiness is right around the corner

  • @khathelightbearer5499
    @khathelightbearer5499 3 года назад +3

    Hey lovely one, I do respect your perspective on this topic, you may have your reasons to communicate this, I personally see it differently, but that’s not the reason to leave a comment here. I just want to raise awareness, that I believe that everybody is allowed to make up their own mind about “concepts” defining them for themselves, as were all capable to do so. And I think that it’s quite harsh to tell people that’s the truth and that isn’t, because we’re all have something to contribute to what truth is. There is no right or wrong but only perspective. And it’s taking away one’s spiritual sovereignty, when we tell them what to believe and what not. I feel it’s time to move beyond this paradigm in which people believe to tell others what the truth is, but to guide them to find their own.
    So, dear one, those are words from my heart and I hope you see this is a positive form of “criticism ” not meant to offend you, but just to give perspective. Much Love, Kha. ♥️

  • @traceywhite9979
    @traceywhite9979 3 года назад +7

    OMFG Laura you are a legend! Thank you so much for this video, I think I figured most of this out already BUT never made the connections..... the father stuff was a massive penny drop moment, my dad passed before I could resolve most of this, started with a shitty marriage and then met the man who changed my life and perception of myself, really cracked it open for me, I always knew it was a ‘phase’ and am so very grateful. Seriously 2 days ago was asking myself what else do I need to heal and let go of and BAM there you are spelling it all out... 🥰❤️❤️❤️ so beyond grateful right now 😍🥰

  • @camijo7730
    @camijo7730 3 года назад +22

    So easy to label everything isn't it?! Lol. Not all "twin flames" are a trauma bond, many are easily transformed into 'soul mate' relationships, and I am a witness to this! Everyone here has the power to change their lives. Take your power back!!! ---That is the positive, realistic action!! Be you, do you, and you are wonderful! Trust yourself. Keep on loving whoever you choose to love!
    Going to, listening to, or being advised by others, so-called healers, etc. or listening to random people try to pigeon hole YOUR RELATIONSHIP with the one you love makes ZERO sense.
    This woman, whoever you think you are, this video creator here of this video above these comments-- YOU have a RESPONSIBILITY to every single person you try to sway, 'advise', counsel or coerce into believing they are doing something "wrong", and they're with a partner who is only connected to them because of "trauma". There are so many facets to relationship, and to individual's ways of being in them. Allow for this.
    We are all walking eachother home; don't stand in the way, by trying to put labels on what each one is gracefully doing in their life. Allow 💜💜💜

    • @jessyon6274
      @jessyon6274 3 года назад +5

      Yesssssssssss! You can tell which of us actually have the true connection. Thank you! All these people trying to make excuses for what they put themselves through by being obsessed with a toxic person. I’ve been seeing this so much on Facebook and RUclips. Twins are truly rare. Most have not met their twin.

    • @jessyon6274
      @jessyon6274 3 года назад +2

      Zaynab Kamran not a fantasy. We had our share of issues and things were hard emotionally but twins are not toxic. They are here to teach us lessons and help us heal ourselves. I am not in a fantasy romantic relationship with my twin. In fact, we never were a couple. I’m twelve years older than he is. We started romantically but my age kept him from being with me in the end. We remained friends. Very good friends. And it’s been excruciating to see him date other women. It hasn’t been an easy ride. I had to let any idea of being with him romantically go completely. The man who was absolutely my perfect match on every level, I had to let go. I had to learn to love him where he is in life and to wish him the best no matter where his journey leads him. We still talk and we still have that special connection. We will always be there for one another unconditionally. That is a true twin. I’m sorry if your relationship was toxic. He wasn’t a twin if that’s the case. I wish you well and I hope you heal.

  • @edytaf4404
    @edytaf4404 3 года назад +2

    Thank you Laura! I so appreciate your brutal/gentle honesty! One good thing from the tf concept is the community of healing that has built around it

  • @aly3088
    @aly3088 3 года назад +9

    I woke up without being able to sleep I guess I know why this was meant for me and let me tell you I feel relief that I can fully heal and have something better thats meant for me. Thank you.

  • @stephaniewood7611
    @stephaniewood7611 11 месяцев назад

    A true twin flame is a positive soul connection only and triggers growth in you in a positive way. That doesn’t mean it’s easy. However, if it’s a negative connection then it’s a karmic soul connection and the purpose is for you to get out of it. Break free from anything that pulls you down into negativity and suffering 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @LunaDivinations
    @LunaDivinations 2 года назад +1

    One of the best videos I’ve seen on RUclips - although I do believe in twin flames and have one this is still invaluable at helping people free themselves and grow x

  • @michelledianatarotarts
    @michelledianatarotarts 3 года назад +4

    Thank you. So much. This was a missing puzzle piece I needed at just the right time. I’m sharing it to my network so that it can help more people. 💓

  • @amritapaul8851
    @amritapaul8851 3 года назад +4

    Wow .... this is soo true .... beautiful picturization. ..love it Laura ... grateful for this journey too 💚😇😄

  • @HannahHoneywell.
    @HannahHoneywell. 10 месяцев назад

    This is the video that needs to come up when you search twin flames

  • @lauryntotton6504
    @lauryntotton6504 3 года назад +1

    Oh my god,
    For 11 years of my life I’ve been in so much unbearable pain, I have searched for all these years for help with this and I can’t thank you enough, I’m crying, I Have seen everyone you can think of, I’ve tried everything, I couldn’t see any other way out, I have even attempted suicide by throwing myself in front of a car a few years back.
    What you have done for me is the purest thing in the world, I can’t stop crying it’s definitely releasing some of it already.
    Thank you so much, you beautiful soul. You were sent here to save people and my god you have saved me thank you. I’ve been going through an awakening and this has validated so many things for me. What an amazing healing. Honestly I can’t stop crying but in the happiest way 😂 ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @memyselfandinunya1978
    @memyselfandinunya1978 3 года назад +1

    "What you put out will always come back to you!" Thank God because I always try to put out love, positivity and kindness! I am expecting to get that back!

  • @earthlydivinity5030
    @earthlydivinity5030 3 года назад +5

    I am so happy for you and could feel your emotional bliss. Thank you, a great video with explanation

  • @drewrites4613
    @drewrites4613 26 дней назад

    I don’t think it’s necessarily a trauma bond but I definitely want to release it!

  • @aquariusalldayeveryday4483
    @aquariusalldayeveryday4483 2 года назад +1

    Omg thank you so much. I recently came to this conclusion as well. I've been torn to bits over what I've been told and had so many signs from spirit points to a twin flame to the point that I can't deny it. I'm healing myself but I can't wrap my brain around her even beginning to heal, much less my ever wanting her back given what I've been through. I noticed twin flame descriptions were essentially abusive a d promoting acceptance in the name of love. Incredibly dysfunctional and unhealthy. I believe we have over romanticized twin flames and the purpose is merely to heal. The intense love is introduced because that's the strongest trigger humans have.

  • @11eve
    @11eve 3 года назад +3

    Wow. Great video. But the comment list was something else. It is interesting to watch how those on the so called Twin Flame journeys get so emotional and defend their point. They are supposed to be "Divine", woke, etc. No ego involved in woke and Divine, right? Divine does not need to defend, because divine knows everything is as it should be and does not feel the need to convince. Ego defends and covers up. Its patterns. Its obsessions. Its wounds and neediness.

  • @trevlyndevries3634
    @trevlyndevries3634 3 года назад +2

    True AF, thank you, lots of release today and liberation, thank goodness I woke up from this, it's not really about the twin flame it is about the Mirror, Illusion and Seperation and how it is only our connection to ourselves and ultimately the Creator, Source, whatever you wish to call it. The wound of Seperation is the core wound of humanity through which everyone is connected imo. 🙏💗🌸

  • @lalaloveandbelively5690
    @lalaloveandbelively5690 2 года назад

    wow TYSM for this video! Probaly most enlightening video ive ever seen on youtube. Im on the twin flame journey myself and ive gone back & forth with the connection. I trally have felt so bound to this connection and have had difficulty wanting to let it go even though I knewwww it was unhealthy and I felt fraustrated with myself. You are the first person who has put me at ease and comfortable with the idea of letting go of this connection. I still love him deeply but im ready to let go. Ty for this content, please continue creating! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @jayel71
    @jayel71 3 года назад +1

    most of this concept makes sense.... not so much the twin flame . I also see tf as sort of a trauma bond but with a twist. If one listens to good reader, healers and such it is said many times that the tf journey is one of self not romance and that union is more internal as we heal as opposed to ending up with your tf ...that may or may not happen. There are also many good things that come from a tf journey ....My tf has been a blessing as well as helped me purge and hes a sweet man who never hurt me. Thank you for your video, it did explain and clarify a ton.

  • @You24healingsEnergyCafe
    @You24healingsEnergyCafe 3 года назад

    You have helped many including me to understand How to release the pressure of so called Physical Union as this journey is High Vibrational Soul Ascension process & experiencing Union with our ownself accepting & healing all parts of ourselves to come to full Union of inner masculine & inner feminine energies which eventually leads you to becoming a better version of yourself and feeling complete inside & outside world.
    Your twin is merely reflection of emotional wounds,traumas and issues which you gotta work through to arrive at Total Peace💚. As you release & surrender,Cosmic Union happens first...Im saying all this bcoz..i have been through this and will definitely post my further views as i progress ahead with my Own Soul journey. I AGREE UNION IS NOT BEING WITH TWIN BUT YOUR OWN SELF...Also agreeing Twinflame.ie the manmade lable is just Energy not that person and yes it may shift to get to union with that person whom you are mean to be when you reach that high frequency.Love you Girl🌈🥰🙌🌈

  • @memyselfandinunya1978
    @memyselfandinunya1978 3 года назад +1

    So funny watching this because my so called tf name was David and I have instinctively been clearing my karma. I will turn around every man who comes at me like this until I am healed! Thank you 😊

  • @talishiazarb22
    @talishiazarb22 3 года назад +2

    I love you laura! This video was done beautifully! Everyone should hear this video!

  • @emmak1846
    @emmak1846 3 года назад +1

    Laura you are brilliant ! Thankyou for speaking out ! 🙌🏼
    I’m in the process of separating from my twin flame, he’s a narcissist and a cheater. 5 years of his in and out behaviour and being in such a toxic relationship.
    I’ve grown a lot during that time and I now know that I love myself enough to walk away and be available to find a balanced man one day who can offer me a stable loving relationship 💕

  • @gabrielarebreanu372
    @gabrielarebreanu372 3 года назад +1

    Thank you Laura! This really hits home for me right now! Just started the healing journey and your story inspires me, thank you for sharing ❤️

  • @michelegurley8058
    @michelegurley8058 3 года назад +1

    This was amazing! Really excited for you and BF and can’t wait to see the big board!

  • @MsCLAUDIANL
    @MsCLAUDIANL 3 года назад

    Laura I had stopped watching your videos 2 years ago but during the night I remembered you and checked your page. This one is what I went for obviously for a specific reason. I'm done with a twin flame concept. Thank you so much. Hope I'll manage to clear the spots in my energy field. Much love from Italy

  • @susankutner3217
    @susankutner3217 3 года назад +3

    Laura - wow so glad I found you! (a friend recommended) - I love that you said the twin flame concept is man made - I've been in pain pretty much since I met mine - 3 years ago - my whole life falling apart (not his fault) and like you said - pain has become so great I now know it is a matter of survival - feeling physically ill. I am curious tho - what do you think about the concerpt that twins are 2 halfs of the same soul - split at creation (not birth)? I had been married 36+ years - mutually my ex and I parted - I've raised 2 children - moved back to my home state BAM my twin showed up online - never even heard of that concerpt before -we connected so deep (not sexually at first) over poetry existential stuff no one else had ever understood about me- He was so emotionally damaged makes me think now that we did/do have a trauma bond - now I am trying to save myself from drowing in my sadness - I don't know how to clear past life trauma but I have had dreams where I have had past life recall - seems he was always going away we never got to be together- same as this life - I WANT TO HEAL and feel like myself again-

  • @Giselle332
    @Giselle332 Год назад

    This makes so much sense with the drawings. Thank you so much for explaining it so well. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @depalisharma5241
    @depalisharma5241 3 года назад

    One of My AHA Moments came on seeing this video. It was so bang on. Have been following your videos on and off since 2018. Thanks a Ton Laura. Bless you❤️

  • @mariadasilva8621
    @mariadasilva8621 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for educating us on this. Makes so much sence. Love your videos.

  • @Amamay315
    @Amamay315 Год назад

    My God, this absolutely makes so much sense ,thank you so much🦋

  • @lifeofaseven
    @lifeofaseven 2 года назад

    I LOVE YOU!!!
    I've been studying this theory for many years, and I've heard many perspectives on it...
    Some of this I knew and started catching on to putting it all together and pretty aware of it but yours is the absolute best breakdown I have ever heard in my life!!
    Yes just yes it all makes perfect sense .. in every way.
    Thank you so much for this.

    • @reignitingus
      @reignitingus  Год назад +1

      Wonderful! You're amazing. Thanks for leave a gem of a comment amount the abusive comments. Lots of love to you darling xxx

  • @gwencusack5320
    @gwencusack5320 3 года назад

    Wooooow, I found your channel again yesterday. And I've watched so many in the last 24 hrs. But on the first one I finally felt my energy shift. And now after 1/2 yrs on the TF (self) journey. I feel at peace. Thank you Laura.

  • @carrinetean8905
    @carrinetean8905 3 года назад +1

    Omg this makes so much sense....wow. Thank you so much! 💖 I wondered why, why I fall fir the same guy that abandoned, rejected and made me feel worthless, my father too. My mother was a narcissist. Wow so much Clarity now! Xx

  • @priscillasintuition
    @priscillasintuition 3 года назад +1

    This is amazing!! Thank you for explaining it so well! Sending lots of love and blessings

  • @tracycummings4481
    @tracycummings4481 3 года назад +2

    I'm a very visual person, so this was great. Thank you!

  • @ICU-1111
    @ICU-1111 3 года назад

    This is a fantastic video! The drawing is very helpful in framing my understanding of things! Thank you for this!🙏🏽

  • @cazthemamma9251
    @cazthemamma9251 2 года назад

    I lost my hair too...as well as my sanity!!! Life changing video...life saving.
    Btw...your hair looks great. Hope you are well. Much love back atchaxxx

  • @verarumyantseva
    @verarumyantseva 3 года назад

    Thank you so much 🙏❤️❤️ amazing video, helped a lot as I’m exactly on this point of finally breaking free from this concept and this toxic torturing connection. Truly happy for you, Laura 😊 keep sharing your knowledge with us 🙏

  • @barbbertrand8669
    @barbbertrand8669 3 года назад

    Brilliant! Loved it! This is Gold. Thank You for posting this. I needed to hear this.

  • @amrutak3326
    @amrutak3326 3 года назад +1

    Amazing video!! You explained it so well thanks a ton!!

  • @AwakenedLoveHealing
    @AwakenedLoveHealing 3 года назад

    Yes, Laura ❤️ thank you . I've experienced this and have been working through how to bring this forward to those who were watching the Twin Flame videos I have posted in the past.

  • @LowkeyE0
    @LowkeyE0 2 года назад

    I dealt with a “twin twin” for 3 years. Definitely the worst of all toxic relationships including with my husband. Although I was very much confused and thought this person was the prize, I used the connection to heal a lot of my wounds. Through the connection I found the courage to divorce my husband, but also as I cleared and brought light to my own false programming the “twin flame” connection deteriorated on its own. Now he wants nothing to do with me which is great because I couldn’t get him to leave me alone and I couldn’t stop taking him back. I’m still in no man’s land as it’s only been a few weeks since our last encounter and still living with my karmic while divorce is in progress. So I still have a lot of emotional pain to release and a lot of 3D work to change my circumstances. But I’ve vowed to stay celibate in the meantime while I get my inner and outer space in harmony. I will never give my power away again! I hope to attract a healthy relationship in the right time. This video is gold!! I saw 1111 twice already today and it’s not even noon yet so I know I’m activating new levels in my spiritual growth. Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @krysia369
    @krysia369 3 года назад

    Thank you for posting this. I was channeling TF energy until a massive shift happened the end of 2018, and I, like you chose to stop feeding into a negative cycle for us all. I released and healed and it’s been the best choice ever. 🙏💙🌎

  • @admirbarucija2018
    @admirbarucija2018 3 года назад

    I can’t wait to see the video after my early class!! I’ve missed your uploads 🤍

  • @nourhantolba3971
    @nourhantolba3971 3 года назад +1

    U have no idea how much this is spot on about me and my life! Like do u know me? Lol thank u, u saved my life,,, bye bye suffering hello happy life

  • @dianadias9775
    @dianadias9775 2 года назад

    U have opened my eyes, I would have wasted my time and energy on someone who treats me like crap

  • @KJ-kx5sy
    @KJ-kx5sy 3 года назад +4

    I completely agree with everything in this video but I have a question, you explained Janes Karma and how and why she is attracted to everyone but what about Davids karma? Since he caused her so much pain, wouldnt he feel attraction to make it right? Or be the one to be hurt? Or does it not work like that?

    • @rickaster
      @rickaster 3 года назад +1

      In case this might help, I would suggest that you can’t discover David’s karma by looking at Jane’s experience. There is such a thing as collective karma, but karma doesn’t spill over from one person to the next in the ways you would logically expect.

    • @KJ-kx5sy
      @KJ-kx5sy 3 года назад

      Thank you Rick! I think its the fact that David hurt Jane in one lifetime and then comes back to do it again and "gets away" with it that triggers me. I understand David probably has many other expierences due to his own karma, but clearly Jane is part of his Karma as he keeps meeting her. And I was just curious what it could be that draws David to Jane to repeatedly hurt her. I understand Jane's lesson to not let that happen etc but what would Davids be?

  • @misslizhenny
    @misslizhenny 3 года назад

    I absolutely love this video. It was so thorough. You have a new subscriber!

  • @tomhill3205
    @tomhill3205 3 года назад +5

    Hi Laura. I also forgot to ask this. What if that first person you thought was your twin flame was just a false twin and the person who you are now with is your true twin flame. Just when you mentioned your boyfriend was like a mirror and a male version of yourself I couldn't help but wonder

    • @nadianorton4234
      @nadianorton4234 3 года назад

      She said that concept is man made

    • @tomhill3205
      @tomhill3205 3 года назад

      @@nadianorton4234 I don't think it's made up but I think it's greatly misunderstood. Not everyone has a twin flame as they are very rare.

  • @rickaster
    @rickaster 3 года назад +2

    I remember when I just wanted to get out of the suffering, but that’s no good if then I forget to clear the karma.

  • @etherego2913
    @etherego2913 3 года назад +2

    A narc is not your twin flame. Your twin will be a man who doesn’t sleep around. Also what synchronicities did you experience?

  • @petrathiderman360
    @petrathiderman360 3 года назад

    You are an awesome teacher and coach Laura! Thank you so much for this video! Very helpful! ❤🙌

  • @hugsandkriss7959
    @hugsandkriss7959 3 года назад

    Yes!!! I let him GO! I’m moving on to find someone to be happy and HEALTHY with! Great video, thanks!
    💖🙏

  • @tinkingtinking2134
    @tinkingtinking2134 3 года назад

    This has really changed my view about this journey. Thank you so much.

  • @Shannoa722
    @Shannoa722 3 года назад +1

    This is amazing, thank you Laura.

  • @sistastarbird
    @sistastarbird 3 года назад +1

    Thank you... it was aweful. and yeah I thought it was gonna be everything.. and no .. worst heart break of my life.

  • @alexandra2536
    @alexandra2536 2 года назад +1

    I think clearing comes through forgiving the person who harmed you, be it the twin flame or someone else.

  • @etherego2913
    @etherego2913 3 года назад +1

    What were some of the craziest synchronicities that you experienced with the guy that you thought was your twin? And this is the guy that you talked about on Veronica’s channel?

  • @loveandcherishdebbie
    @loveandcherishdebbie 3 года назад

    Profound video. One of your best videos. Thank you. So appreciate it

  • @Amywannacuppatea
    @Amywannacuppatea 3 года назад +2

    How do you heal? The awareness can be there but knowing how to heal it is the struggle

    • @Themostmercifulrabb
      @Themostmercifulrabb 3 года назад

      Turning to God and your relationship with him , that is where its at dear ❤🙏

  • @bthelight4444
    @bthelight4444 3 года назад

    Yesss 💕 I'm so happy to hear this. It's time

  • @SilasMarnerAuAg
    @SilasMarnerAuAg 2 года назад

    i was no longer looking for love as i was going through a full kundalini awakening. the signs and synchroncities were unexplainable. and the telepathy and feelings that i was receiving only made sense after i met her. and then it took off even more. i have been in separation for 10 years. we are both still single to this day. if it’s a true twin relationship (for lack of a better word) then you can’t break the connection. it matters not what you try. i didn’t meet her until my 40s and i’d been „in love“ before. but they weren’t magical. signs, syncs, total amazement. you don’t understand twins unless you are one. ive seen so many who think that they are a twin that’s not. and you probably don’t want this. trust me. the wounds that you don’t realize you even have, come up. it can be horrific. it’s not something you can walk away from. you can run, but that cord is still there. ive suffered heartbreak. in my teens in my twenties. but this tore my soul apart as i was awakening. as was she.

  • @katewatkins2987
    @katewatkins2987 2 года назад

    Wow. Thank you. I do believe this just changed my life.

  • @diddles100
    @diddles100 2 года назад

    Awesome video!

  • @catherinehinkle8596
    @catherinehinkle8596 3 года назад

    Thank you so much Laura! I love you and appreciate your knowledge and authenticity! Thank you for sharing...l am moving through this right now and this is exactly what I needed to hear right now to release this connection and get on with my life! 🥰💕🙏

  • @plutospoetry9075
    @plutospoetry9075 3 года назад

    THIS. THIS. THIS. best video.

  • @shereenrizvi6217
    @shereenrizvi6217 3 года назад

    Thanks Laura❤❤❤Always love you for your content.Twin flames is more an indiviual thing.TF learn soul lessons through mirroring and that can be a mother, friend collegue anyone. But there is another aspect to it too. My kundalini started brewing up when I experienced the separation from my love and 7 years after that the kundalini exploded. All through these years he had given me a number of activations that were necessary for my soul growth. I am more into releasing him now.

  • @laineykeleher2812
    @laineykeleher2812 3 года назад +1

    LOVE LOVE LOVE ❤️
    On some level could this relate to any ‘issue’ we face in our lives? With money, health issues, etc.? Everything is relationship after all ☺️

  • @DM-hn7ow
    @DM-hn7ow 3 года назад +4

    I had a reading about my last partner and was told we were together in a past lifetime-pilgrims-and had a very happy marriage until we both passed away. My question is, why then would we come back into THIS evolved lifetime to experience the opposite if we had no karma to clear from that past life?
    I don’t understand the reversal :(

    • @bellasecretsify
      @bellasecretsify 3 года назад +2

      You wanted to experience that love again. I know it seems weird, but when you connect the dots, it just makes sense. I know that's why I'm here. Our karma was NOT being together in our last lifetime. 💖

    • @DM-hn7ow
      @DM-hn7ow 3 года назад +2

      Thanks Bella. This puts things into perspective as to why all our tiffs pertained to time. We’re the same age and met later in our adult life but “if only we had met years ago!” was the root of every argument. Our trying too hard to make it work backfired. It’s like we were subconsciously trying to align with that blissful pastlife on a soul level without realizing that’s what was going on. Your explanation brings clarity 💕

    • @bellasecretsify
      @bellasecretsify 3 года назад +1

      @@DM-hn7ow Exactly. You're welcome. The soul never forgets.

  • @zarinofearth
    @zarinofearth 3 года назад

    thank you for this video. helped me see through things even more clearly and understand my path/life purpose in a greater way !!! 💖💖💖

  • @applestar9737
    @applestar9737 16 дней назад

    You are brilliant xx

  • @NatsPages
    @NatsPages 2 года назад +2

    This is not a twin flame connection.

  • @thescorpiowhisperer
    @thescorpiowhisperer 3 года назад +2

    Finding this perspective is one thing. Coming from “Laura” is beyond Universal Intervention. I know the message is true because it resonates in so many ways.

  • @bubblespoppy88
    @bubblespoppy88 Год назад

    Great video ❤

  • @Emma-vx4bs
    @Emma-vx4bs 3 года назад

    I can’t thank you enough I now have answers I have asked spirit for and believe they sent me here to you xxx

  • @HighPriestess-mq5hc
    @HighPriestess-mq5hc 3 года назад +1

    Laura what do you mean "clear" do you mean, teaching your self you deserve better and healing, or forgiving their actions. Or sending unconditional love to them? Can you explain how you bring it "back into light"?

  • @doingitdivine3831
    @doingitdivine3831 3 года назад

    Thank you, I needed to see this at this time❤️

  • @tomhill3205
    @tomhill3205 3 года назад +2

    Good video. This is weird but when you made the names of Jane and David I was thinking of both those names before you made them up

  • @RisingPhoenix-mn1qw
    @RisingPhoenix-mn1qw 2 года назад

    It's amazing the board...

  • @paulahawkins5346
    @paulahawkins5346 2 года назад

    This was the best video I've ever seen and clearly explained thank you you've helped me so much.🙏

  • @kaitlynmorse2994
    @kaitlynmorse2994 3 года назад

    A year ago this would’ve triggered me but today it resonates deeply. Also thank you for mentioning siblings in the beginning, for the longest time I thought my pain/wounds were invalid because the abuse came from a sibling not a parent. Similarly to you I also lost my hair and developed cysts. Thank you for making this video 🙏

  • @cazzas3392
    @cazzas3392 3 года назад

    Steven is the funking same as David 😂😂😂 summary of my year

  • @mariamaria-vc2op
    @mariamaria-vc2op 3 года назад +1

    I was that tipe of person, Jane when I started my healing but, after doing my past life regresion(I followed the steps that u show în one of your videos and I am realy gratefull to you for sharing that) everything shifted but... Backwords. My feelings now are of total resistance fear and rejection twords that man. I don t like to iven talk about him and the thing is that I cannot get him off my back at all. He is acting like a crazy man...Don t understand that it is over, Just the way that I was acting when We met. Can you tell me wat îs going on here? I am sure that my intent when I started healing was to be Free not to have him all over me.So, please when you have the Time and if you want, can you put some light on why things shifted this way?

  • @shewhosigns
    @shewhosigns 3 месяца назад

    Through Jesus Christ is the only way to true healing! ❤

  • @JanettersNirvana
    @JanettersNirvana 3 года назад

    wow, I love this, very helpful, thank you so much!!!

  • @pmattu
    @pmattu 3 года назад +1

    Can you do a video on how to heal the wounds and bring the light in