What Is The Worst Thing Someone Ever Said To You? | ZULA Perspectives
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- Опубликовано: 19 дек 2023
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What is the worst thing someone ever said to you?
"you're not pretty nor average yet you have high expectations?"
"Eh do you know? If you die, no one's gonna be sad. We would never cry for you. In fact, we would all be happy if you die" -my classmate at the time. I was 14.
Didnt expect this side from fikah we see her humourous side 😢 Would have loved to hear more from her can tell she has gone through a lot. Fikah if your reading this, you are inspiring and so pretty!
Whutttt honestly never commented on YT before but even from the first time I saw Fikah on videos, I have always thought she was so beautiful. Can see she’s still so affected by what happened but she rly shouldn’t believe them… that’s why we should always becareful of what we say to others. Even a passing comment can affect them many years down the road
watching fikah laughing nervously and fighting back tears absolutely broke me. this was raw and real. really appreciate zula for making such content! going through her socials now all i want to say is you are so beautiful fikah i hope you can continue to grow your confidence! ❤️
You can see how much Fikah is hurt since primary. Is so traumatising for a primary school kid to be going through all this. To those people who pass mean comments. I believe what comes around goes around. To Fikah, you do you. You are pretty and beautiful outside and inside. And now everyone knows it ❤ mental wellbeing is so important for primary school kids. Anti bullying is not well addressed in this society. Humanity is needed as well as love to each other ❤
It doesn’t matter about the looks, it’s the personality. Fikah is the funniest person in tsl in my opinion and I think she is very beautiful. She is also my favourite girl member of tsl. My favourite boy member of tsl is Zhin/Fauzi.
this is why it's so important to be kind to others, you'll never know what they're going through.
I want to give Fikah a big virtual hug 😢❤
always be careful of your words. you might not remember what you have said, but the person who heard those words might be scarred for life.
To anyone going through a difficult time, please remember that this pain is temporary, and as with many things in life, time will pass. It might be difficult to recover from some moments, and we may never fully recover from it.
But new experiences will come our way, 1 year, 3 years from now, our lives will be different and things will change in future.
The only way from rock bottom is up! You’re doing good and you can face it.
Fikah!!! Aww my heart breaks for you. You are so pretty & funny!!!!! I’m sure many other viewers would say that too. Inside & out! You can tell it still affects her so much. Kids are dumb, I think honestly they were jealous of you or not thinking before they speak and don’t know the impact of their words!
FIKAH WE LOVE YOU , you are perfect in every way ❤
Thank you all for opening up about your struggles. Always be kind to each other. We never know what they are going through ❤ stay strong everyone. You got this. You can do it!
Based on my experience with bullies, karma really does exist. All of them look terrible now. Don’t worry Fikah ! The ppl who insulted you will eventually get their karma if they haven’t alr :)!
I just want Fikah to know that she is so pretty and beautiful, even without makeup, and her smile is so pretty and she's so funny, honestly, maybe some people say she isn't beautiful but to her fans, she's the most beautiful, I'm willing to fight those mean people who said she isn't pretty
Fikah when I first saw you on screen my first impression was that you're so pretty!!! don't let anyone tell you what you should look like, you're pretty just the way you are :)
I don't understand why people can be so evil oh gosh. I just want to give everyone a good hug! 😢
kindness doesn't cost anything, i hope the world can be a kinder and understanding place for all.
as human beings, we should always been kinder to one another
fikah is beautiful ❤️
i wanna give all of them a big hug omg :(
you're beautiful Fikah! Inside and out
i can't believe fika have someone so nasty towards her...she is so cute and so bubbly and so pretty and she is so likeable in her character..
You all able to step out and share is really not easy. Don't let those who don't care and love you affect who you are. I believe someone who truly love you will support, encourage and believe in you. Jiayou!! 💪💪💪
FIKAH WE LOVE YOU! You're the prettiest and the cutest ❤️ big hugs!
Fikah is pretty without makeup regardless. ❤
Hopefully people see that their thoughtless and hurtful comments affect others in more ways than we think...
Fikah you're so beautiful 💜
Awesome, well done video.
Fika, I am not sure if you are reading this. But you are so beautiful, I always felt that when I see your videos. You have everything that I wish I have ❤
I can relate to all of them ❤
People saying these things are bad but dont understand casual rejection
My first serious girlfriend I ever had in highschool said to me: “it doesn’t matter if you kill yourself, you just come back and everyone hates you more.”
I’m schizophrenic.
This drove me insane for over a decade.
Fikah, we love you ❤❤❤
anyone watches SBS universe ticket?? when i saw gehlee dangca for the first time i literally thought she looks like fikah what???? literally BOTH of them are so pretty w the aura seriously 😭😭😭
I also had comments saying i am very fat and ugly, but i dont care :( for everyone who's been through the same thing, here's my advice:
1. I knew what my goals were (academics and career wise), and looks are irrelevant for the type of goals i had.
2. Religion also helped bc i knew that God love everyone equally, God's not going to love me less just bc im ugly or fat.
3. The world is a lot bigger than singapore, or Asia. Yes many features that are considered ugly here, if you go overseas, people think you look cool and exotic.
4. Don't need to care about getting validation from other people. So they may look better than you, but they may also suck at other aspects of life, like studies or financially. They are literally unimportant nobodies. It's not like the President or someone important said that we're ugly. So don't need to care about criticisms from other losers.
fikah you are so beautiful🤍🤍🤍
Is it just me or …. The entire tsl seems to have some sort of mental health ,anxieties etc😮 even though in their videos they all appears to be happy but then everytime these videos come out there’s always new talents sharing how they have some sort of mental health problems … maybe the company itself needs to do something with it instead of making a content out of it .. I know the intentions is to be HEARD TO BE SEEN AND TO RELATED, but to some extend I think some things are just not meant to be shared publicly…
I just wanted to say that we weren’t forced to be in this video or anything, at least for me it was something that I wanted to do because I knew that younger me (or someone else out there) would’ve appreciated seeing someone online talking about these issues more openly. It just makes us feel less alone with our problems. Everyone’s line of what should be shared online is quite different, but for me it was a decision I made a long time ago to talk about mental health as much as I can, and talk about the struggles I faced as openly as I can in hopes that maybe it helps someone out there.
Quite frankly, TSL doesn’t need to solve our mental health issues (if they even can be lmao), they’re doing their best to make the best work environment for people, and whenever there are these videos we are given a choice whether to be in it. Most of us are quite happy so no worries HAHAHA it’s just that with any type of social media content, of course the happier emotions are displayed more often - which really goes to show why these content pieces are important too!
I also dont think i would fit in TSL Culture, as im camera shy 🤣 but if the TSL employees did it willingly, sharing can be cathartic.
thank you for sharing🥹 my tears just can't stop😕
FIKAH IS CUTE OK! I'd slap whoever said those hurtful words to her! I love Fikah 😭
food for thought: do a higher percentage of people who work in media and arts industry tend to have anxiety / more in tune with their state of mental health? i work in finance industry and i don't think people around me have anxiety or similar issues (but of course this may be a personal thing that they do not share)
i think it has to do with public’s comment on their appearance or behaviour, which is kind of harsh sometimes.
It seems like the entire company have the problem 😢
i feel that those with mental illness wouldn't be telling around they have mentall ilness.
even me not being in the media industry, i wouldnt be going around and say hey i have this and this
They probably just dont tell you their anxiety? Finance also cares about looks a lot.
I was hired to do excel stuff in an insurance broker (so it's also finance industry), and my colleague who brought the new joiners around to intro to people literally said about me "we hired her for her brains", while she gush about another girl being so pretty.
In my first insurance company, had this colleague who always like to imply that im uglier. For example, when we walk past a restaurant with waiters on the lookout for more customers, the waiters will call her 美女 (beautiful girl), but not me, and my colleagues will highlight how come the waiters dont call me that too
My father was discharged from hospital last week as his stroke flared up for a second time. Today, he expected me to fetch him to the insitituions that he is teaching at using his car as he cannot drive for the next 1.5 months. I gladly obliged, but the next thing he suddebly brought up was what he said to my therapist a month ago which got me warded in IMH as a result.
For context, i had skipped uni lessons the week prior the thwrapist appointment to facilitate a theatre course at my alma mater, and my father a week later said to the therapist he felt i was not going through a mental issue, but an attitude issue and said I played truant. SERIOUSLY, DO YOU USE THE TERM PLAY TRUANT ON A 24 YEAR OLD?
So the gut of my father to bring up this incident today. I THEREFORE FEEL I HAVE NO OBLIGATION TO FETCH HIM TO THE PLACES HE IS TEACHING. HE SHOULD JUST QUIT HIS JOB, SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP, DONT LIKE SELF WORSEN HIS STROKE
The best thing that someone can do for another person is to shut the f up and mind your own business.
dont let a boomer (and no i am not one) see this video, he or she will call you strawberry generation. Sometimes life gets to comfortable up to a point whereby people get depressed for the most petty things. The world is a 'dog eat dog' society and the fact that no matter where nor how good you are, there will always be some haters in one corner plotting your downfall. In a condition where there is sub par living conditions and ones get depressed, it is a normal thing. But in a situation where you feel that you are not manly enough or your friends make a snide remark on you and you get depressed, you must be living a life way too comfortable.