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HI. I'm here from Shay's Channel. You had me at "I'm into energy". We are all energetic beings and there is so much power in being in a group with positive energetic people. Looking forward to seeing more of your content.
I agree with the "Lady -in-red" 😊, l would rather meet a woman in person than online. I have been online dating 2x and both times was scammed. Will never go back online dating again. If l meet "the one" then that would be perfect for me
The red flag issue regarding colored hair is mainly when the woman's hair color is changed to rainbow colors. Tattoos: typically, the red flag issue is when the tattoos are large (on legs or arms) or on the face as it's distracting. Small tattoos are generally OK. Also, nose rings and piercings on the lips or excessive piercings can also be a red flag for western men.
I agree with Maya. Plus alcohol is legal, so being addicted to it is a life long battle. Many people, male and female get violent on alcohol. I know from experience, I had 2 gf that were alcoholics and they were very violent when drunk. In addition, if your spouse goes out and gets drunk all the time, eventually they will cheat. One day they'll not come home. My son's mom became addicted to drugs and alcohol 2 months after my son was a s born and our relationship was a disaster. She left us when my son was 16 months old and I raised him by myself. Drugs and alcohol were more important to her than our son and she left with another guy. She had 3 more kids and did the same thing with 2 of them. The 3rd died from crack cocaine addiction. She went to jail for about a year for that. But she finally found her soul mate, a drug dealer. I will say, I enjoyed raising my son.
Very nice...BECAUSE this is the video that confirm the way I'm going to do my search for a good woman in the Philippines when I get there... thank to the 3 of you.😇
Dear Leah, yes I follow Maya (& Gio) and Shay. I also follow Johnathan (Travel Escapes, he is great around children), Paul & Mae, and Pea. I am trying to learn as much as I can while I am here in the States. It struck a nerve when you mentioned there are guys that are not interested in a girl who changes their hair color or have tattoos. It is the woman's hair, meaning it is up to her. Most people with tattoos have them for a reason. Find out what they are for. I agree with the statements about alcohol. I hear Philippinas enjoy karaoke. If true, then you need to see what they are drinking. It might be water. Basically, you are all correct. Get to the Philippines before making decisions. You might not be able to handle the heat or the rainy season. God's Blessings, Irish
It's up to the woman to decide what color hair or tattoos she has; it's also up to me to decide what I want. There's nothing a girl can say when she has large tattoos or blue hair to get me to date her. In fact, I like it because it saves me the trouble of figuring out the red flags on my own.
Hey there, thanks for sharing your opinion, it's really good to know what you want and if colored hair and tattoos doesn't bother you, that's cool but if it is, then it's okay as well 😊 what's acceptable for you might not be for others 😊😊😊
@expatguideph , I would really enjoy some coverage of your Holidays. Independence Day for both of our Nation's is July 4th, but I believe the Philippines celebrate a different day. I have also heard Christmas is celebrated for 3 months? I think (hope) you could do a video on the 1st of each month and tell us about your Holidays for that month. God's Blessings, Irish
Hi Leah, OMG, where to start, lol??? You, ask such great questions. Maya & Shay are incredibly intelligent, the 3 of you, shared great, well thought out answers. I have to single out Maya, for nailing it, when she said, “alcohol is the most dangerous drug.” It’s addictive, like all of the other drugs out there, and many people are not aware, that alcohol is actually labeled as a “depressant.” It starts off as a high, we are the life of the party, we “think” we make everybody laugh, and we’re great dancers. But then, if they’ve drank too much, they become a different person, when they come down from that high. Now, here comes a funny part about Filipina vloggers. The Philippines is “THE” social media capital of the world, which is a well-known fact. When you combine “that”, with Filipina women, it spells T-R-O-U-B-L-E, lol. Sorry Maya, but Gio said on one of his recent videos about meeting good Filipinas, he wouldn’t recommend dating a Filipina vlogger, 😎😉👍🏼. Oops, haha, 🤭. But I’m sure, you & Shay are the exceptions, 🙏🏼😉👍🏼. What I really love & admire about Shay, & Leah’s mindsets, is how pure & traditional their thoughts are, about being a good. The 3 of you are great and amazing women, with so much information, that we can immediately put into use. We love it, when the three of you, share topics with us, 😉😎❤️.
Shay makes an excellent point. Meeting people through 'boots on ground' and cold approaching is widely more effective. Immersing yourself in filipino culture is a sure way to meet a lovely filipina.
I don't worry about died hair. But if a woman is loaded with tattoos, I'm not into that at all. I don't have any tattoos myself. I just don't know of anything I want on my body forever.
You know what the Philippines needs? More vloggers! I'm on my way! As far as dating sites go, I refuse to use them. Boots on the ground is the way to go!
@Craig, and ur going to live in Duma! Where all stupid vloggers start! Just what the Philippines needs another vlogger to lie about their life in the Philippines! Stupidity! Dating online is perfect way to meet, and explore if u have anything in common! Then if u do u can farther ur relationship! And Boots on the ground. I'm tired of hearing that crap and the dummie/ hypocrite who started that saying. Rekay, the biggest hypocrite in the Philippines, O u can name a dozen just like him!
Wednesday, August 7, 2024 ☁️ 🌥️ ☁️ Thank you for this splendid discussion, Leah! 😀 This was so refreshing! 😀 🍉 🥛 I was working on my Corolla this afternoon, and listening to a few videos. Many American women are like a train wreck! 🚂🚃🚃🚃 They are selfish, much too serious and they talk on and on about their feelings, as if nothing else matters. Including the husbands they divorced! 😕 I know Shay well from her videos. She is so kind and generous! 🥰 She does beach ⛱️ cleanups with her friends. She helps senior citizens and she gives school supplies to local children! 💁♀️ 🙋♂️ I see Shay and Maya are both sensible. They have strong social skills and empathy. 🥰 And they are both sweet, beautiful ladies. 💁♀️ 🙋 I wish you a happy and productive rest of August, and fun times with friends, Anthony 🌾 🌳 🐈 🌻🌻🐇 🌾 🐝 ⛱️
I absolutely love SHAY. I have been a sub of hers since the beginning of her channel, or close to it. Maya, for a while and recently with Leah. These three women are the epitome of classy, smart, and beautiful Filipinas. I think dating sites arent worth the time or money.
I love that fence. A very lovely, unique concept. Looking at it, I know exactly how I would build one, just a little different from the one in the video.
Very good round table discussion ladies. I will be visiting Dumaguete later this year and my logic is the same as you guys.....I stay away from dating sights and apps. My plan is to mingle with the locals and play some music with the local bands and ex pats. I do not drink or smoke but I do prefer traditional morena filipinas. I am very aware of higher energy people because I am one myself.....when I get there I have no expectations except immerse myself in the culture as I did 35 years ago when I was in country.
Men and women aren't equal. It shouldn't be a red flag if a foreigner has sleep with a lot of Filipina or other women. A mans value increases, but a woman's value decreases. Now if he is intentionally sleeping with a lot of women without seriously searching for a companion, then I would say that is a red flag when it comes to choosing him as a husband. No matter how you try to twist things to compare men and women, we will NEVER be equal.
I think people who get tattoos always think they are fine, but unless very small I find it a major red flag, and won't even ask a girl out with large tattoos or on their chest (even if small)
Its by deafult a red flag. Can give a 2nd attempt of impressions if small tattoos and she makes a good imotession. But tattoos symbols either: Former/current bargirl. (Most if them). Criminal affiliations. Mental oriblems (a lot of them comes from mental trauma periods in life). Ir she has terrible logical and judgementcalls in life. Creating ascar that uglies up the beauty she was gifter from God/nature. And ungratefullness. Instead of celebrating what God has given her, she shows ungratefullness by dtibble ugly ink on it. Etc. So fir me tattoos is a red flag. Ir at minimum it disqualifies her for me.
@@paulruano1903hey Paul, how you doin? It all boils down to what you prefer and what's attractive to you. But I do meet super kind people with tattoos but maybe it's different when in we talk about relationship. Thank you for sharing your opinion 😊😊😊
Leah…..Great video that I believe touches an a lot of what people think about when relocating. The relationships you have whether intimate or platonic can leave a lasting impression. There are red flags on both sides, (men and women). In the end it comes down to preference and as such it is important that we choose to engage in relationships that serves the people that are in it best. Again great content with diverse perspectives. Keep up the good work.
I follow all three of you… all different, but brilliant at what you do. I just wanted to chime in on the blogger thing. I’d be okay dating a blogger as long as I didn’t appear on the videos… just too introverted❣️ Don’t think you bought it up, but I’d also prefer to date a single Mum, or someone willing to adopt. Maybe I’m just weird😳
@@expatguideph Thanks for making me feel less odd! I didn’t mean to criticise by the way, it was a really great interview. You couldn’t have picked two better participants ❣️
Mostly spot on. You did miss the mark with the province vs city girl question. Men fleeing the West are in large part fleeing Western feminism. We want women who aren't men, and the more exposure a woman has to feminism, the more manly they become. That's why traditional women are so popular among expats, and the most likely place to find traditional women is in the province.
Concerning dating apps, these are run by businesses, not charities, they exist in order to make money - it is not in their interest to match up two people who quickly become exclusive and delete the app. The whole purpose of the apps are to keep you single and using the apps including upselling to a higher paid VIP tier. I have never and will never use a dating app - I also believe that there is a far greater risk of men encountering gold digger/scammers or for women encountering non-committal f boy players. I don't see any positives in finding a good partner using an app (maybe happens in less than 1% of all cases).
Totally agree, I signed up for Christian Filipina because so many vloggers promote it. I know they get a referral payment but I assumed they had positive personal experiences on the site. Even though I was in the Phillipines while using the site I was disappointed with the amount of "fake accounts". Whenever I found a subscriber I was interested and sent a message to, her account would be deleted for unknown reasons to me. The recommended filipinas lived so far away it would be difficult to coordinate a physical meeting. I cancelled my membership after several weeks and requested they refund my money due to my disappointment with the site. They were professional enough to refund my fees but I cannot recommend the site personally. I had much better results meeting filipinas in-person at restaurants or stores. I found my current girlfriend this way and it was more natural and effective than wading through fake accounts and scammers..
Hiii Peter, welcome and thank you for sharing your opinion. I do know a few amazing couples who met on online dating sites. There are Scammer yes and gotta know how to filter I guess and as we said in video, meet the person right away to see the real her and to see if there's connection 😊
Per Mykes Phillipines Journey, Vloggers are red flags because they can have many suiters in the friend zone waiting to be the next in line to be with the Vlogger. Also vloggers are public figures and it can be difficult to keep their relationship private like carefreechris
hey Ben, hello hello to you, that really depends on the intention of the vlogger. If she is using the media to accept suitors then yes its red flag and I believe the vlogger has the choice what to show to the audience. Mine will focus more on education, tips and sometimes entertainment as I love singing but let's see where this goes as I'm a newbie but I my intention in this channel is to educate and to help the orphanage. Thanks for being here and sharing your opinion :)
I agree ,because if you follow RUclips these 2 are at the top as far as good fillapino woman that I would consider to be a good intelligent and very lady like. They have good men in their lives and they don't walk around in low class clothing for clout or views. Congratulations to their mates for picking to genuine lovely ladies. Just please stay away from the booty shorts fillapino woman, there just clout chasers for views.
I can answer the question province girl vs city girl. From my extensive research (lots and lots) of RUclips videos the impression is a provincial girl is more like the woman where in the 1950’s and early 1960’s with their attitude and they way they approach relationships. That’s my 2 php.
It is becoming more difficult to meet a traditional minded filipina in the city due to social media and internet addictions and their gradual "westernization". A province girl will typically retain some of the characteristics of a classic filipina demeanor due to less time invested in social media. Times they are a changing, and quickly. .
Everyone will find there level..the most bizarre thing is especially dating sites… “ you have to weed out your preferences “. That’s what it’s especially great for ..being here in the phil’s. How do you meet women ..yes coffee shops ..resto bars. The girl serving at the supermarket ..lol no..the provincial Filipina, depends again on your preference. An educated guy will find value with a lady with education and drive ..
I often see and hear complaints about immigration people ( had my shit there also) hope this really changes in the future( it really holds back tourists ) tourism is a bigg thing here, who are they to have a bad influence on that? Why does the gouvernement nothing about that?
I don't think being a RUclips vlogger is a "red flag", but it depends on what the man is looking for. If he is wary of competition, he might not want someone who has hundreds or possibly thousands of admirers. The same way a Filipina might be wary of getting involved with a handsome, wealthy, 35 year old Westerner. When your intended obviously has a ton of options, that makes some think twice.
Let's see, Shay is into nature, Maya is into being a good housewife and mom, and you Leah, are into traveling around on your bike and I guess you're also a fish. Why a fish? Bcuz you're a bit of a water lover, free diving.
PLEASE ANSWER THIS QUESTION IF YOU MEET SOMEONE THAT CATCHES YOUR EYE WOULD IT AFENDED THE GIRL IF YOU ASK HER TO BE YOUR LIVE-IN MAIDWITHOUT BENIFITS TO GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER BEFORE WE DO ANYTHING ❤😂🎉😢😮😅😊C.S.A.BABY
really depends on the upbringing of the girl... it could either offend her or not, but why not tell her that you would like to get to know her, do not ask her to immediately become a live-in maid... ask if its okay to get to know her and build from there... ask her out for dinner after work hours not at home and ask her personal question, get to know her, show her you're genuine interest then maybe after few weeks, you can ask her your condition.
@expatguideph thank you for your insight I just don't want to screw up some ones standing in her clan that why I thought of the maid idea so we could tread lightly
There are any the only anything they won't is you're money. Everybody robs you blind so sad no loyalty of love so what i say keep your money in your pocket best advice. 😢
For me, i only "date" for marriage. And whoever has a long list of relationships is a red flag. 0 relationship = perfect. NBSB = PERFECT. each relationships add luggage and mental traumas and history that will come up and up. Tattoos = red flag.(at absolute its an a very strong orange flag). More than 0 body counts? I am not interested. Virgin is never overrated. Vlogging? = sorry, but it is a strong orange flag. Not because they start out bad, but because soo many simps and h Rny boys that will always influence them in comments, emails, etc etc etc. And every time a relationship has a downturn, its too easy for a vlogger to use her "arena" to gather fake empathy from such boys. Which will never has the best interest for the marriae of the vlogger. It also often inflate a lot of too much ego. All makomg such girl vloggets much more damgerous highridk long term
Hey Paul, thank you for sharing. Wow Goodluck in finding 0 relationship girl. It really depends as well if how the person treats the trauma, as a baggage or as a learning to grow and be a better person. I believe those who get easily be carried away by comments and emails of strangers are the immature ones... Emotionally mature women do not feed from these superficial ego driven stuffs.
hello, a great morning to ya :) all women are westernized, is that based from your own experience of meeting Filipinas? so sorry if you feel that way, maybe there are a lot of modern women compared years ago but that doesnt mean they are not good to be in a relationship. The key is to find someone that resonates with you, your preferences and vibes. There are lot out there, just you gotta know where to meet or attract them.
I think it is wrong to put down Filipino guys. It seems like many Filipinas are always putting down their own people but maybe I am just reading it wrong.
hey there, this is not to put down Filipino guys, I think Shay mentioned it. These are all based on their experiences that created trauma and hence the present choices of being with a foreigner.
@@expatguideph I did subscribe and look forward to your content. We have two generations of Filipino marriages in my family now, and are getting to know more of the country as we travel there more often.
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Thanks for hosting us, Leah. This was a fantastic topic, and we had fun.
Super grateful to have you both ❤🎉
The three of you prove convincingly the diversity of talent and creativity among filipina vloggers. More power and success to all of you. ❤
Hey John, thank you sooo much 😊
Hi Leah! Thank you for yesterday. I am very happy seeing you and Shay ❤
Maya, my pleasure, super thank you for your time and wisdom 🎉❤
HI. I'm here from Shay's Channel. You had me at "I'm into energy". We are all energetic beings and there is so much power in being in a group with positive energetic people. Looking forward to seeing more of your content.
Hey Craig, welcome to my channel, thank you sooo much, love what you said 😊😊😊
I agree with the "Lady -in-red" 😊, l would rather meet a woman in person than online. I have been online dating 2x and both times was scammed. Will never go back online dating again. If l meet "the one" then that would be perfect for me
The red flag issue regarding colored hair is mainly when the woman's hair color is changed to rainbow colors.
Tattoos: typically, the red flag issue is when the tattoos are large (on legs or arms) or on the face as it's distracting. Small tattoos are generally OK.
Also, nose rings and piercings on the lips or excessive piercings can also be a red flag for western men.
Hey Napoleon, thanks for sharing your opinion 😊😊😊
I agree with Maya. Plus alcohol is legal, so being addicted to it is a life long battle. Many people, male and female get violent on alcohol. I know from experience, I had 2 gf that were alcoholics and they were very violent when drunk. In addition, if your spouse goes out and gets drunk all the time, eventually they will cheat. One day they'll not come home.
My son's mom became addicted to drugs and alcohol 2 months after my son was a s born and our relationship was a disaster. She left us when my son was 16 months old and I raised him by myself. Drugs and alcohol were more important to her than our son and she left with another guy. She had 3 more kids and did the same thing with 2 of them. The 3rd died from crack cocaine addiction. She went to jail for about a year for that. But she finally found her soul mate, a drug dealer. I will say, I enjoyed raising my son.
I'm so sorry for that, hope you're okay now.
I already follow both of them, plus Gio the husband of Maya.
Gio bores me when he's on Maya's channel.
Very nice...BECAUSE this is the video that confirm the way I'm going to do my search for a good woman in the Philippines when I get there... thank to the 3 of you.😇
Glad it was helpful to you Gary, thank you so much!
Dear Leah, yes I follow Maya (& Gio) and Shay. I also follow Johnathan (Travel Escapes, he is great around children), Paul & Mae, and Pea. I am trying to learn as much as I can while I am here in the States. It struck a nerve when you mentioned there are guys that are not interested in a girl who changes their hair color or have tattoos. It is the woman's hair, meaning it is up to her. Most people with tattoos have them for a reason. Find out what they are for. I agree with the statements about alcohol. I hear Philippinas enjoy karaoke. If true, then you need to see what they are drinking. It might be water. Basically, you are all correct. Get to the Philippines before making decisions. You might not be able to handle the heat or the rainy season. God's Blessings, Irish
It's up to the woman to decide what color hair or tattoos she has; it's also up to me to decide what I want. There's nothing a girl can say when she has large tattoos or blue hair to get me to date her. In fact, I like it because it saves me the trouble of figuring out the red flags on my own.
Hey there, thanks for sharing your opinion, it's really good to know what you want and if colored hair and tattoos doesn't bother you, that's cool but if it is, then it's okay as well 😊 what's acceptable for you might not be for others 😊😊😊
@expatguideph , I would really enjoy some coverage of your Holidays. Independence Day for both of our Nation's is July 4th, but I believe the Philippines celebrate a different day. I have also heard Christmas is celebrated for 3 months? I think (hope) you could do a video on the 1st of each month and tell us about your Holidays for that month. God's Blessings, Irish
I love when you talk to Shay and Maya. You have sounded yourself with very Beautiful and interesting women. Yall are so awesome 😊
hey Mike, thank you sooo much :)
Hi Leah,
OMG, where to start, lol??? You, ask such great questions. Maya & Shay are incredibly intelligent, the 3 of you, shared great, well thought out answers.
I have to single out Maya, for nailing it, when she said, “alcohol is the most dangerous drug.” It’s addictive, like all of the other drugs out there, and many people are not aware, that alcohol is actually labeled as a “depressant.” It starts off as a high, we are the life of the party, we “think” we make everybody laugh, and we’re great dancers. But then, if they’ve drank too much, they become a different person, when they come down from that high.
Now, here comes a funny part about Filipina vloggers. The Philippines is “THE” social media capital of the world, which is a well-known fact. When you combine “that”, with Filipina women, it spells T-R-O-U-B-L-E, lol.
Sorry Maya, but Gio said on one of his recent videos about meeting good Filipinas, he wouldn’t recommend dating a Filipina vlogger, 😎😉👍🏼. Oops, haha, 🤭. But I’m sure, you & Shay are the exceptions, 🙏🏼😉👍🏼. What I really love & admire about Shay, & Leah’s mindsets, is how pure & traditional their thoughts are, about being a good. The 3 of you are great and amazing women, with so much information, that we can immediately put into use. We love it, when the three of you, share topics with us, 😉😎❤️.
Thank you Pete, I always love when you're sharing your opinion, so detailed, appreciate ya 😊😊😊
Shay makes an excellent point. Meeting people through 'boots on ground' and cold approaching is widely more effective. Immersing yourself in filipino culture is a sure way to meet a lovely filipina.
Hey hey welcome to my channel 🎉thank youuu 😊
I don't worry about died hair. But if a woman is loaded with tattoos, I'm not into that at all. I don't have any tattoos myself. I just don't know of anything I want on my body forever.
Big or many tattoos are a red flag for me, and it doesn't matter how pretty she is, I won't ask her out.
Tattoos often mean "bar girl," or prostitute. Best to be cautious.
Tattoos are always a turn off to most people. God made your body it’s perfect.
You know what the Philippines needs? More vloggers! I'm on my way! As far as dating sites go, I refuse to use them. Boots on the ground is the way to go!
Hehe thanks Craig 😊
@Craig, and ur going to live in Duma! Where all stupid vloggers start! Just what the Philippines needs another vlogger to lie about their life in the Philippines! Stupidity! Dating online is perfect way to meet, and explore if u have anything in common! Then if u do u can farther ur relationship! And Boots on the ground. I'm tired of hearing that crap and the dummie/ hypocrite who started that saying. Rekay, the biggest hypocrite in the Philippines, O u can name a dozen just like him!
Maya,🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
Goodnight sweet dreams and sleep well Leah. Take care and God bless you 🙏 🙂❤
Wednesday, August 7, 2024 ☁️ 🌥️ ☁️
Thank you for this splendid discussion, Leah! 😀
This was so refreshing! 😀 🍉 🥛
I was working on my Corolla this afternoon, and listening to a few videos. Many American women are like a train wreck! 🚂🚃🚃🚃 They are selfish, much too serious and they talk on and on about their feelings, as if nothing else matters. Including the husbands they divorced! 😕
I know Shay well from her videos. She is so kind and generous! 🥰 She does beach ⛱️ cleanups with her friends. She helps senior citizens and she gives school supplies to local children! 💁♀️ 🙋♂️
I see Shay and Maya are both sensible. They have strong social skills and empathy. 🥰 And they are both sweet, beautiful ladies. 💁♀️ 🙋
I wish you a happy and productive rest of August, and fun times with friends, Anthony 🌾 🌳 🐈 🌻🌻🐇 🌾 🐝 ⛱️
hello Anthony, welcome to my channel, thank you soo much for being here and sharing your thoughts... Yes, Shay and Maya are definitely my vibe :)
I absolutely love SHAY. I have been a sub of hers since the beginning of her channel, or close to it. Maya, for a while and recently with Leah. These three women are the epitome of classy, smart, and beautiful Filipinas.
I think dating sites arent worth the time or money.
Hiii Ian, thank you 😊
@@expatguideph Leah, I am excited about coming. I hope to be there in within the year. Get ready for food, fun, and friends.
Yayyy, let's goooo 😊😊😊
\anWhat intelligent, knowledgable and thoughtful ideas. Great guests-- and I live in GenSan!
For God's sake, don't send money until you at least meet her.
I love that fence. A very lovely, unique concept. Looking at it, I know exactly how I would build one, just a little different from the one in the video.
Very good round table discussion ladies. I will be visiting Dumaguete later this year and my logic is the same as you guys.....I stay away from dating sights and apps. My plan is to mingle with the locals and play some music with the local bands and ex pats. I do not drink or smoke but I do prefer traditional morena filipinas. I am very aware of higher energy people because I am one myself.....when I get there I have no expectations except immerse myself in the culture as I did 35 years ago when I was in country.
I am so excited for ya, yayyy
what a great combination of wonderful minds coming together. all of you are impressive, well-spoken and insightful.
Hellooo David, thank you 😊😊😊
Shay is My favorite!!
hey Christopher, welcome :) Shay is amazing :)
Men and women aren't equal. It shouldn't be a red flag if a foreigner has sleep with a lot of Filipina or other women. A mans value increases, but a woman's value decreases. Now if he is intentionally sleeping with a lot of women without seriously searching for a companion, then I would say that is a red flag when it comes to choosing him as a husband. No matter how you try to twist things to compare men and women, we will NEVER be equal.
I agree that we can never be equal, thank you for sharing your opinion and welcome to my channel 8888 😊😊😊😊
Nice
Body counts does matter.
That was a very insightful video, shay is very articulate, maya was good with her thoughts well done leah 👌
Thank you so much Mark 😊
I think people who get tattoos always think they are fine, but unless very small I find it a major red flag, and won't even ask a girl out with large tattoos or on their chest (even if small)
Its by deafult a red flag.
Can give a 2nd attempt of impressions if small tattoos and she makes a good imotession.
But tattoos symbols either:
Former/current bargirl. (Most if them).
Criminal affiliations.
Mental oriblems (a lot of them comes from mental trauma periods in life).
Ir she has terrible logical and judgementcalls in life.
Creating ascar that uglies up the beauty she was gifter from God/nature.
And ungratefullness.
Instead of celebrating what God has given her, she shows ungratefullness by dtibble ugly ink on it.
Etc.
So fir me tattoos is a red flag. Ir at minimum it disqualifies her for me.
Boils down to personal preference, thanks for sharing your opinion 😊
@@paulruano1903hey Paul, how you doin? It all boils down to what you prefer and what's attractive to you. But I do meet super kind people with tattoos but maybe it's different when in we talk about relationship. Thank you for sharing your opinion 😊😊😊
Leah…..Great video that I believe touches an a lot of what people think about when relocating. The relationships you have whether intimate or platonic can leave a lasting impression. There are red flags on both sides, (men and women). In the end it comes down to preference and as such it is important that we choose to engage in relationships that serves the people that are in it best. Again great content with diverse perspectives. Keep up the good work.
thanks a lot, appreciate that you are sharing your thoughts :)
My goal is to find peace both inside myself and in my surroundings in the Philippines.
That's amazing, wish you the best 😊😊😊
Hello Leah....just found your channel because of who you were hosting...watched and subbed....
Heyyy Mike, welcome and thank you sooo much 😊😊😊
I follow all three of you… all different, but brilliant at what you do. I just wanted to chime in on the blogger thing. I’d be okay dating a blogger as long as I didn’t appear on the videos… just too introverted❣️ Don’t think you bought it up, but I’d also prefer to date a single Mum, or someone willing to adopt. Maybe I’m just weird😳
Oh yeah I forgot to ask that, you're not weird at all. It's all about personal preference and there's nothing wrong in dating a single mum 😊😊😊
@@expatguideph Thanks for making me feel less odd! I didn’t mean to criticise by the way, it was a really great interview. You couldn’t have picked two better participants ❣️
Hahaha, why odd? I knew cool couples of expats who's partners are single mum like Maya & Gio so it's not odd at all 😊😊😊
@@expatguideph that’s true… they’re definitely not odd at all. One day I’ll make it over there…odd or not❣️🤪
Excited for ya David 😊😊😊
A lot of men( not me) would rather have a province girl that could be easily manipulated in there advantage...😇
hiii Gary, to each their own :)
Mostly spot on. You did miss the mark with the province vs city girl question. Men fleeing the West are in large part fleeing Western feminism. We want women who aren't men, and the more exposure a woman has to feminism, the more manly they become.
That's why traditional women are so popular among expats, and the most likely place to find traditional women is in the province.
Ah love this point you mentioned, thank you for sharing your opinion 😊😊😊 welcome to my channel 😊😊😊
The same red flags apply in Australia
Concerning dating apps, these are run by businesses, not charities, they exist in order to make money - it is not in their interest to match up two people who quickly become exclusive and delete the app. The whole purpose of the apps are to keep you single and using the apps including upselling to a higher paid VIP tier.
I have never and will never use a dating app - I also believe that there is a far greater risk of men encountering gold digger/scammers or for women encountering non-committal f boy players. I don't see any positives in finding a good partner using an app (maybe happens in less than 1% of all cases).
Totally agree, I signed up for Christian Filipina because so many vloggers promote it. I know they get a referral payment but I assumed they had positive personal experiences on the site. Even though I was in the Phillipines while using the site I was disappointed with the amount of "fake accounts". Whenever I found a subscriber I was interested and sent a message to, her account would be deleted for unknown reasons to me. The recommended filipinas lived so far away it would be difficult to coordinate a physical meeting. I cancelled my membership after several weeks and requested they refund my money due to my disappointment with the site. They were professional enough to refund my fees but I cannot recommend the site personally. I had much better results meeting filipinas in-person at restaurants or stores. I found my current girlfriend this way and it was more natural and effective than wading through fake accounts and scammers..
Hiii Peter, welcome and thank you for sharing your opinion. I do know a few amazing couples who met on online dating sites. There are Scammer yes and gotta know how to filter I guess and as we said in video, meet the person right away to see the real her and to see if there's connection 😊
Per Mykes Phillipines Journey, Vloggers are red flags because they can have many suiters in the friend zone waiting to be the next in line to be with the Vlogger. Also vloggers are public figures and it can be difficult to keep their relationship private like carefreechris
hey Ben, hello hello to you, that really depends on the intention of the vlogger. If she is using the media to accept suitors then yes its red flag and I believe the vlogger has the choice what to show to the audience. Mine will focus more on education, tips and sometimes entertainment as I love singing but let's see where this goes as I'm a newbie but I my intention in this channel is to educate and to help the orphanage. Thanks for being here and sharing your opinion :)
I agree ,because if you follow RUclips these 2 are at the top as far as good fillapino woman that I would consider to be a good intelligent and very lady like.
They have good men in their lives and they don't walk around in low class clothing for clout or views.
Congratulations to their mates for picking to genuine lovely ladies.
Just please stay away from the booty shorts fillapino woman, there just clout chasers for views.
I prefer a non tattooed body. God's creation is beautiful and exquisite to cover it with ink is like sabotaging artwork.
Oh Dear I think I'm in love with Leah! I can't wait to come there next year.
Haha you're funny Mike 😄
Another good video
Glad you enjoyed it, thank you :)
The “its none of your business” only applies if the relationship is a big deal to you. We know this game well over here 😅
I can answer the question province girl vs city girl. From my extensive research (lots and lots) of RUclips videos the impression is a provincial girl is more like the woman where in the 1950’s and early 1960’s with their attitude and they way they approach relationships. That’s my 2 php.
Thank you for sharing your opinion 😊😊😊
It is becoming more difficult to meet a traditional minded filipina in the city due to social media and internet addictions and their gradual "westernization". A province girl will typically retain some of the characteristics of a classic filipina demeanor due to less time invested in social media. Times they are a changing, and quickly. .
Everyone will find there level..the most bizarre thing is especially dating sites… “ you have to weed out your preferences “. That’s what it’s especially great for ..being here in the phil’s. How do you meet women ..yes coffee shops ..resto bars. The girl serving at the supermarket ..lol no..the provincial Filipina, depends again on your preference. An educated guy will find value with a lady with education and drive ..
hello Eric, thank you for sharing :)
Hello Leah. How are you doing this evening Leah?
Good George, hope you too 😊
@@expatguideph I'm doing very well, thank you for asking. ❤️
I often see and hear complaints about immigration people ( had my shit there also) hope this really changes in the future( it really holds back tourists ) tourism is a bigg thing here, who are they to have a bad influence on that? Why does the gouvernement nothing about that?
exactly, hope it changes
One aspect of dating sites is AI. Who you see probably is not who you are going to talk with.
Ohh I didn't know AI is also used in online dating? That's why we emphasized on meeting them in person before committing 😊
Yes IF a foreigner travel to Pattaya in Thailand, that IS a red flag (or at least an orange flag).
I would love to experience to had foreign bf 😂❤
Haha sige na, simulan na Afam hunting dear hehe
Tattoo on the Vjj 😮. Damn girls !
Girls/Ladies with glasses are smart and sexy! Just my opinion but I’m right.
I don't think being a RUclips vlogger is a "red flag", but it depends on what the man is looking for. If he is wary of competition, he might not want someone who has hundreds or possibly thousands of admirers. The same way a Filipina might be wary of getting involved with a handsome, wealthy, 35 year old Westerner. When your intended obviously has a ton of options, that makes some think twice.
Yes indeed agree on what the man is looking for.... Trust is important, if there's no trust, blogger or not, it's not gonna last.
I don't know how many times have they changed my name?
hiii, who changed your name? hehe
Let's see, Shay is into nature, Maya is into being a good housewife and mom, and you Leah, are into traveling around on your bike and I guess you're also a fish. Why a fish? Bcuz you're a bit of a water lover, free diving.
Western vlogers love to talk about filipina red flags, how about westerners and red flags, there are some not so nice men on the sites also.
Oh yay a video about that will come up soon 😊😊😊
Died hair and tasteful tattoos are fine. Vlogger is ok too
PLEASE ANSWER THIS QUESTION IF YOU MEET SOMEONE THAT CATCHES YOUR EYE WOULD IT AFENDED THE GIRL IF YOU ASK HER TO BE YOUR LIVE-IN MAIDWITHOUT BENIFITS TO GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER BEFORE WE DO ANYTHING ❤😂🎉😢😮😅😊C.S.A.BABY
really depends on the upbringing of the girl... it could either offend her or not, but why not tell her that you would like to get to know her, do not ask her to immediately become a live-in maid... ask if its okay to get to know her and build from there... ask her out for dinner after work hours not at home and ask her personal question, get to know her, show her you're genuine interest then maybe after few weeks, you can ask her your condition.
@expatguideph thank you for your insight I just don't want to screw up some ones standing in her clan that why I thought of the maid idea so we could tread lightly
Tattoos is a major turn off to me even small ones.. for me a tattoos Ruins a woman's beauty..
Have a blessed night/day, everyone, and stay safe!
hello, thank you for coming to my channel :)
@@expatguideph How are you doing?
I'm great, thank you 😊😊😊
@@expatguideph That is good.
Stay away from alcoholic...
exactly , yes
There are any the only anything they won't is you're money. Everybody robs you blind so sad no loyalty of love so what i say keep your money in your pocket best advice. 😢
Hiii Robert, meet up and get to know the person first, if you're not comfy of giving, then please don't but yes know the person first.
I don't really go to bars or clubs, nor drink.
For me, i only "date" for marriage.
And whoever has a long list of relationships is a red flag.
0 relationship = perfect.
NBSB = PERFECT.
each relationships add luggage and mental traumas and history that will come up and up.
Tattoos = red flag.(at absolute its an a very strong orange flag).
More than 0 body counts? I am not interested. Virgin is never overrated.
Vlogging? = sorry, but it is a strong orange flag.
Not because they start out bad, but because soo many simps and h
Rny boys that will always influence them in comments, emails, etc etc etc.
And every time a relationship has a downturn, its too easy for a vlogger to use her "arena" to gather fake empathy from such boys. Which will never has the best interest for the marriae of the vlogger.
It also often inflate a lot of too much ego.
All makomg such girl vloggets much more damgerous highridk long term
Hey Paul, thank you for sharing. Wow Goodluck in finding 0 relationship girl. It really depends as well if how the person treats the trauma, as a baggage or as a learning to grow and be a better person. I believe those who get easily be carried away by comments and emails of strangers are the immature ones... Emotionally mature women do not feed from these superficial ego driven stuffs.
They are all westernized already.
hello, a great morning to ya :) all women are westernized, is that based from your own experience of meeting Filipinas? so sorry if you feel that way, maybe there are a lot of modern women compared years ago but that doesnt mean they are not good to be in a relationship. The key is to find someone that resonates with you, your preferences and vibes. There are lot out there, just you gotta know where to meet or attract them.
I think it is wrong to put down Filipino guys. It seems like many Filipinas are always putting down their own people but maybe I am just reading it wrong.
hey there, this is not to put down Filipino guys, I think Shay mentioned it. These are all based on their experiences that created trauma and hence the present choices of being with a foreigner.
It almost sounds like 3 feminists😀
haha, 3 females with opinions hehe :)
Vloggers dating their subscribers
I'm not a fan of Shay and am not interested in her advice.
Oh that's okay, I'm sure she doesn't mind, of course take only what resonates with you, that's the way it should be 😊😊😊
@@expatguideph I did subscribe and look forward to your content. We have two generations of Filipino marriages in my family now, and are getting to know more of the country as we travel there more often.