“I know you already have a boyfriend” That sentence is so disrespectful. If we’re going to talk about being “nice”, the LAST thing a nice girl would do is have dinner with a possible new bf while she is currently going out with someone. Why would any healthy person in a happy relationship want to test out a possible new relationship. Regardless of what the coworker “intended”, he’s insulting this woman’s character by insinuating that there was a possibility she’d disrespect the boundaries of her current relationship just to appease him. Icky icky gross gross
I love how he calls himself such a “nice guy” but will call girls who aren’t up his standards “leftovers” assuming women to be objects is a huge turn off for most women.
absolutely! even if there attracted to a guy or not, some people enjoy being objectify but there's a time and place plus a discussion. i get guys all the time skipping everything and jumping right in assuming all girls enjoy the same thing and i have to go no, just no. i compare it to ice cream alot " that some girls may like chocolate while others may prefer vanilla but could try chocolate on occasion, or some may like rocky road with the works" not everyone likes the same.
@@jms0313 That's really no excuse for doing it without consent, and most women who do this, only do this in a relationship or during sex, it's never ok to act like this in public or anything like that. Also not "most". You're a guy, you can't even make assumptions like that (especially looking at your profile- you don't even watch any women) so don't, it's rude. Almost every woman I know including myself still hates objectification, but if they are taking a more sub role, sometimes insults or such can be nice if agreed upon beforehand. I honestly don't know how being compared to like, a sock could be hot lmao. That's usually where my mind goes when a guy tries to act like I'm just an object for his gratification. It's just cringey. Not judging anyone who likes it, but that's the thing, I don't know anyone who likes it, especially outside of the bedroom. Language that retains a person's, well, humanity, are just generally better and hotter anyways because you're acknowledging how the other will feel when you touch them. That's a big part of sexuality. It's also hard to get creative with reducing someone down to something vs. just describing their parts as, y'know, part of them. TLDR; You sound like you just listen to stupid pick-up artists who can't get someone into bed without alcohol. That's not how the real world works at all. Women are forever being objectified against our will and it makes us tired.
@Beth the Dark Mage wow… I said “unless she’s attracted to you” meaning you only do this with consent and with a girl who gives you obvious signs that it’s okay. Of course I don’t just walk up to random girls and go immediately into dirty talk. But in my experience, a girl likes it when you tell them some dirty things you want to do to them and your honest about your attraction. Seek first to understand
@@jms0313 not the same. There are women who are bottom of the barrel types, that is a fact just like there are men who are as well. But what you're implying is that every woman will accept verbal abuse from a guy she's attracted to as if she is a hungry hyena just trying to get at a bag of snacks suspended from a tree or a dog lookong frantically for a ball that it thinks was throw but the owner only pretended to throw the ball. That's not a good way to describe all women. And obviously, logically if a woman meets a guy shes attracted to and the guy is a total asshole to her calling her names, that physical attraction isnt going to count for much anymore.
I’m beginning to think that when nice guys talk about Chad being “rich and fit” what they’re actually saying is healthy and financially stable. Like, that’s what they’re acutely jealous of.
Yeah, when your a negative 10 (not in looks, but just as a person in general) like nice guys/neckbeards/incrls are, anyone above a 4 looks like a god in comparison, so they think its unfair, lol. In reality, they are just terrible people and giant losers.
I like how the nice guy took a bf making a cup of tea wrong to mean that CLEARLY the bf was some supermodel chad who is OBVIOUSLY mistreating them, then goes through the profile of the Redditor and objectifies them all while saying “I’m a nice guy!”
@@WisteriAvis Right!? Like dude made ONE mistake he isn't abusing her! In no way could that be abuse unless he like, poisoned the tea or something. How delusional do you have to be?
@@alicine-sims8988 sorry if I didn't make it clear enough, what I meant was the part I hated most was how he presented as if spilling tea equals to abuse (which of course I don't agree with)
I could fill some spaces on that card with the encounter I had last night. 😂 Told me he is not a nice guy, but ticks of all the boxes...yeah, some guys
I love how peeved Taylor looked lol. Oh and if you're wondering, Bobby ACTUALLY said that and Taylor ACTUALLY responded with that (except she didn't say 20 seconds she said like 35 or something like that).
“I’m not a nice guy though. Did I say I am a nice guy? Anyone here, did I say that?” Taylor: “You just said it. You just said it 20 seconds ago!” Do niceguys have selective attention or the attention span of a lightning bolt? They never seem to remember the times that paint them in a bad light!
I actually had to fire a guy recently because he was basically like the guy trying to date his co-worker mixed with Christian Grey and those guys who think they are smarter than everyone else.
I'm honestly half tempted to put in in some subreddit. But in case I don't I'll give you all a small run down here. - dudes supposedly engaged and keeps hitting on female members of my staff. - needlessly felt like he needed to point out how women shouldn't be in a position of power. - felt like he needed to "correct" women who are pro choice or pro abortion. - tried to convince the women of my staff that their religious beliefs aren't valid. - and all three times I pulled him into my office he tried acting like he was the one calling the shots. This all started because my new German translator came into my office and told me the situation. So I went through over 130 members of my team to see if they had similar situations. I thanked them all for their coming forward. I'm glad he's out of there and my team can feel comfortable coming to me now with problems.
When I hear "bend over backwards to make my girl happy" I actually hear "point out all her flaws and put her down to "better" her and make myself feel happy"
Maybe some of them mean the exact opposite. But actually bending over backwards is almost as bad. I did have a bf who did that and it was awful. The dude lost his personality and it was freaking awkward. Got so bad that it was impossible to get his actual opinion on anything. Dude still wonders why I dumped him.
I sooooooo want to know what happened to Mr. "death knell of your career" after he hopefully was reported to HR. Incidentally the "all girls are the same" comment is so funny because if the girl did date him and then left him for someone else, like he's asking her to do, he'd scream bloody murder about her.
@@WaitingxInxSilence This is the easiest case too lol. So many managers deal with complicated he said she said cases. This conversation is so freaking simple. I would fire the guy AND file a restraining order AND Tresspassing paperwork so he can never come close to the offices or buildings again. I have no idea how this guy even got this far in their career considering how he cleary incriminates himself further instead of playing it off. It’s like he wants to be caught.
@@notatrollll Maybe it's first time harassing someone at work? But it does smell kinda fake to me because those texts are awful incriminating... And he sounds like he's in a supervisory position of some kind.
by “take care of her” they mean: expect her to do all the cleaning and cooking “because she’s a female” and then act really confused when she takes offence to that because “isn’t that what you’re supposed to do” but don’t worry, he occasionally gives her his junk so that she can satisfy him, how nice of him.
The adjective "nice" (and the noun "gentleman") is like the term "Olympian." It doesn't mean anything if you claim it yourself. It only takes on any weight when you've earned it.
@@lilithdvs13 1. Anybody in a relationship married or not is off limits, thats just common sense 2. She said herself she'd made it clear she had a boyfriend and considering the fact the guy mentioned it when asking her out he already knew she did If it isnt fair to blame the guy without any context than we can't just blame the woman either
The wholesome cat meme is funny. We have cameras in our house, the kind you can speak through. Occasionally, while we're at work, either me or my wife will watch the cats or the dog and start talking to them. It's kind of funny watching them try to figure out where we are 😄
I give all nice guys a chance: I offer a duel to the death, and when they show up I reveal the opponent is me. That way either I get to kill them or they have to kill me so I won't have to date them. Win-win!
@@sabrinanite dealing with my kid getting sick since last night from getting stung (I think? He got hit a least 5 times), I stayed up most of the night just to make sure he was ok and ended up waking up late to pick up my mom from work… plus I think I’ve got a stress headache, so, let’s just see how the 2nd half of the day goes lol! (PS, kiddo is doing much better this morning. No puke yet and he slept in this morning, maybe until 9:30 or 10, idk, I was gone and I haven’t asked his G-ma yet)
Nice Guy™️ says that women don’t go for losers, then proceeds to contradict that statement by saying they go for losers. As the great Krusty the Clown would say, “What the hell was that?!”
They’re also hypocrites by saying “all women are the same” “women don’t appreciate good men they only go for bad guys”, but all their misogynistic anger comes from their bad female experience which usually is just rejection or a women they thought was bad (because nice-guys can’t take accountability and hate women). Like sir why did you chose “bad” women then huh?
the mental gymnastics of your average nice guy does not make sense to your average sane person. comes from them trying to apply their personal experience to every single thing on earth
@@quirkypurple3 they do whatever they can to make sure they're the perpetual victim and are never held accountable for their actions and decisions lol.
When a Nice guy loses his temper, everyone knows, the whole world knows! Why? Because he'll spam a bunch of edge lord memes, with pictures of The Joker on them. Who are these guys trying to fool?
2:40 guess that guy really wasn't her cup of tea (I promise I'm not a 45yr old dad of 3 lol) Been going through a week long depressive episode. Vincey vids are something to look forward to when I finally make it out of bed. Keep making videos and making people smile :)
(28yr old mom of toddler). I feel you and stay strong it gets better. I'm so exhausted and I want to sleep for a week.. that's my dream rn but this channel keeps me from crying the bathroom 😅
Okay I really feel bad for the last nice guy. Really feels like that's what he tells himself because he has trouble connecting with others. Hopefully he can get the help he needs.
A friend of my boyfriend tried hitting on me, in front of my boyfriend and his wife. In front of them, and it wasn't in an ironic way. I just stood there, completely mortified.
In my opinion women should learn the difference between a nice guy that's genuine and a assertive leader more than a nice guy that's a pushover without setting boundaries and be manipulate women just for sex. I agree women want men that are a challenge more than being a man that's overly pleasing if women are in a relationship with someone overly pleasing it's up to the woman to say so giving men hints is not going to convinceing them the the relationship is over also men are not mind reader's. It's ok to leave just be respectful of the other person and give a reason why yes feels will be hurt at least having the truth is more respectful .
10:30 omg the constant dangling of her job over her head as though she's obligated to him is DISGUSTING. I really hope he got fired because this entire conversation just REEKS of him doing this before. Like there's no way she's the first person he's done this to and he does not deserve to have any perceived power over others at his place of work. Absolutely VILE!
I once rejected a nice guy, he proceeded to spazz on me on about how he was gonna treat me good and how all of his friends are bad people and he’s the nicest from all of them (bird of a feather flock together). He had to audacity to saw I’ll regret and he proceeded to call me a racial slur. Funny enough a year later he still stalked my profile and I posted a video of me and my male coworker on my story and he texted me “you suck”. I later found out he was emotional abusive to his girlfriend
I think the funniest part about these nice guys is that they can't seem to self-reflect. If they really were as nice as they profess to be, they wouldn't throw a tantrum about being told no, they'd just say "fair enough", cut their losses and move on.
Was watching you while cutting watermelon really helps with the stress especially when when the worst kinds come in lol but love your videos just remember to take a break once in a while and take care of yourself
Don't we all see, this is how we stop sexism, put woman in front of nice girl memes, guys in front of nice guy memes, soon they will see how cringe they are and it will show we all are bad equally
I watch your vids while crocheting and its always so chill and nice and just has good vibes as cringy as that sound carry on the good work your doing great
Every time they say “I’m just gonna be an asshole for now on” or like shit about their “inner demons coming out” of what not, I get “no more mr nice guy, no more mr cleeaaan” stuck in my head
6:15 gave me flashbacks to that one time in college when a guy asked me out while I was working. Um, I’m being nice and giving you attention because you’re a customer and I’m a cashier. NOPE.
Wow that one dude just played the "lets see how fast I can lose my job" game right there. That string of texts is probably headed straight to HR faster than the Voyager spacecraft are leaving the solar system after that exchange.
Her boyfriend made her tea, and that's abuse, but this guy condescendingly judging her entire existence based on her gender and his own insecurities, is treating her well? Of these two guys, one is her boyfriend, who does things for her, and shares a mutually agreed upon relationship with her, the other is a total stranger berating her about how a hypothetical situation played out in his head. He couldn't keep his promise to "treat her well" for 5 words. He claimed he would "never mistreat her" and then 5 words later mistreats her. The level of delusion is unbelievable.
Vinceeeeyyyy I got my second vax and the side effects are really bad for me. I'm so happy you posted, gonna listen while I'm lazy in my bed feeling crappy. ❤️
You could add to the bingo card: -making an unrelated post about them being a nice guys -"When a Nice Guy ™️ loses his patience, the devil shivers" -thinks girls only want rich guys. -women are Machiavellian and manipulative with men. -hits on them even knowing that the lady has a boyfriend and then gets angry when she rejects him. Any other ones that could be added?
I’ve had a Hermes courier stalk me and steal my mail for seven years - because I was polite to him. I gave him my phone number because my doorbell was broken and I am really far from the door. I stupidly thought he’d just let know when I had mail…
Back in the day, I was hanging out with a friend at her work. A friend of her and her boyfriend came in and they started chatting. Suddenly he basically smacked me in the shoulder (like a 'one of the guys' things dudes do to each other. Except I'd never met him, and I'm not a dude.) and said, "hey! Why are all the ATTRACTIVE WOMEN taken?" I just gave him a dead stare and said, "probably has something to do with all the SINGLE MEN being assholes."
You can kind of tell which guys don't know how to deal with their emotions, versus which ones are just completely self-centered. It's got to be polarizing for the niceguys who see these videos.
9:33 - goes from "you did a great job, knew you wouldn't let the team down" to "I did all the work and you just leeched off me to better yourself" - I'd be giving this exchange to HR. It's workplace sexual harassment writ large 10:38 - and after refusing to stop when she warned him about taking it to HR, he then used his position of authority at work to threaten her job. That's definitely the cue to trot down to HR and let them have a leisurely read of it.
"I know you already have a bf but I was wondering if you would give me a chance?" Imagine if he was her boyfriend and another "nice guy" pulled this off. With his (lack of) logic, he'd have to let her date him, right?
My bf is probably the nicest guy I've ever met. Supportive, even-tempered, honest, accepting, sweet. Whenever I tell him how sweet he is, he honest to god has no idea what I'm even on about because it's just normal to him. That, dear "nice guys", is an actual nice guy. And, no, I'm not turned off by it at all, I realise how lucky I am.
Yes. This. Often nice people don’t realize they are being nice, they just do what they would do for someone because they see that as right, or they want to.
Also, bonus points to the "Cheat on your BF for me!" nice guys. I mean... can you imagine the MASSIVE tantrum he would throw if, against all odds: She cheated on her bf with this "nice guy". And then: She "cheats" on the "nice guy" with an... even NICER guy! I can already see the shitstorm about how "ALL WOMEN ARE-" and how he CAN'T BELIEVE that she would be unfaithful to such a nice guy! ... that would be a pretty hilarious flame war of them trying to out-nice each other xD
Just think about how stressful it must be to have this happen to you by a colleague at work, especially knowing how HR often dismisses complaints, doesn't keep them them private, and effectively punishes the person who files the complaint (by removing them from the team for example)
“I know you already have a boyfriend”
That sentence is so disrespectful. If we’re going to talk about being “nice”, the LAST thing a nice girl would do is have dinner with a possible new bf while she is currently going out with someone. Why would any healthy person in a happy relationship want to test out a possible new relationship. Regardless of what the coworker “intended”, he’s insulting this woman’s character by insinuating that there was a possibility she’d disrespect the boundaries of her current relationship just to appease him.
Icky icky gross gross
You missed yuck
Ye, unless they're poly in which case they would've told you the situation and the other partner would know
And he would flip out if she was dating him and someone else approached her.
you forgot yuck at the end friend
@Daniel Rumbacher You sound like one of those Nice Guys who thinks every woman has had fifty dongs in her by the time she is twenty.
Being "nice" is not a personality trait, is the bare minimum expected from someone
Exactly! It’s sad that some people don’t seem to understand that
"kind" or better yet RESPECTFUL
Being nice isn't even a moral alignment either. There are plenty of nice criminals or have corrupt morals.
Being masculine and ferocious is what gets the ladies. Incels are too weak and effeminate.
I love how he calls himself such a “nice guy” but will call girls who aren’t up his standards “leftovers” assuming women to be objects is a huge turn off for most women.
Unless she’s attracted to you and then most of them love dirty talk and being objectified
absolutely! even if there attracted to a guy or not, some people enjoy being objectify but there's a time and place plus a discussion. i get guys all the time skipping everything and jumping right in assuming all girls enjoy the same thing and i have to go no, just no. i compare it to ice cream alot " that some girls may like chocolate while others may prefer vanilla but could try chocolate on occasion, or some may like rocky road with the works" not everyone likes the same.
@@jms0313 That's really no excuse for doing it without consent, and most women who do this, only do this in a relationship or during sex, it's never ok to act like this in public or anything like that.
Also not "most". You're a guy, you can't even make assumptions like that (especially looking at your profile- you don't even watch any women) so don't, it's rude. Almost every woman I know including myself still hates objectification, but if they are taking a more sub role, sometimes insults or such can be nice if agreed upon beforehand.
I honestly don't know how being compared to like, a sock could be hot lmao. That's usually where my mind goes when a guy tries to act like I'm just an object for his gratification. It's just cringey. Not judging anyone who likes it, but that's the thing, I don't know anyone who likes it, especially outside of the bedroom.
Language that retains a person's, well, humanity, are just generally better and hotter anyways because you're acknowledging how the other will feel when you touch them. That's a big part of sexuality. It's also hard to get creative with reducing someone down to something vs. just describing their parts as, y'know, part of them.
TLDR; You sound like you just listen to stupid pick-up artists who can't get someone into bed without alcohol. That's not how the real world works at all. Women are forever being objectified against our will and it makes us tired.
@Beth the Dark Mage wow… I said “unless she’s attracted to you” meaning you only do this with consent and with a girl who gives you obvious signs that it’s okay. Of course I don’t just walk up to random girls and go immediately into dirty talk. But in my experience, a girl likes it when you tell them some dirty things you want to do to them and your honest about your attraction. Seek first to understand
@@jms0313 not the same. There are women who are bottom of the barrel types, that is a fact just like there are men who are as well. But what you're implying is that every woman will accept verbal abuse from a guy she's attracted to as if she is a hungry hyena just trying to get at a bag of snacks suspended from a tree or a dog lookong frantically for a ball that it thinks was throw but the owner only pretended to throw the ball. That's not a good way to describe all women. And obviously, logically if a woman meets a guy shes attracted to and the guy is a total asshole to her calling her names, that physical attraction isnt going to count for much anymore.
I’m beginning to think that when nice guys talk about Chad being “rich and fit” what they’re actually saying is healthy and financially stable. Like, that’s what they’re acutely jealous of.
Yeah, when your a negative 10 (not in looks, but just as a person in general) like nice guys/neckbeards/incrls are, anyone above a 4 looks like a god in comparison, so they think its unfair, lol. In reality, they are just terrible people and giant losers.
Tbh, any man who showers daily is above them... They'd probably mock them for being clean and call them ''gAy'' bc of that lol
@@melancolielupine2023 they think gay is an insult
Yeahhh, a lot of niceguy/incel flailing comes from a place of self-loathing and bitterness, from a lack of effort on their part.
100% true. And they think these are "high standards"💀
I like how the nice guy took a bf making a cup of tea wrong to mean that CLEARLY the bf was some supermodel chad who is OBVIOUSLY mistreating them, then goes through the profile of the Redditor and objectifies them all while saying “I’m a nice guy!”
Exactly what I was thinking!
Gross.
Yeah, the "messing up a cup of tea=abuse" was the worst part
@@WisteriAvis Right!? Like dude made ONE mistake he isn't abusing her! In no way could that be abuse unless he like, poisoned the tea or something. How delusional do you have to be?
@@alicine-sims8988 sorry if I didn't make it clear enough, what I meant was the part I hated most was how he presented as if spilling tea equals to abuse (which of course I don't agree with)
Women aren't the only ones who want tall rich muscular Chad. Some men want them too.
Respect
Just gonna say this now, you could probably fill the whole bingo card in this ONE video lol
Legit 😂 but now we have a bingo card to keep handy for IRL *"NiceGuy"* encounters, should we have the misfortune 😂
I only got 10. There seems to be some neckbeard things mixed there like comparing women to children or objects.
I could fill some spaces on that card with the encounter I had last night. 😂 Told me he is not a nice guy, but ticks of all the boxes...yeah, some guys
@@maryammakinen1284 yeah, I have 11. I'll watch one or two other videos, and then I'm done :) not more than three videos tops
Try for one post XD
I love how peeved Taylor looked lol.
Oh and if you're wondering, Bobby ACTUALLY said that and Taylor ACTUALLY responded with that (except she didn't say 20 seconds she said like 35 or something like that).
But Taylor still called him out, and I won't argue over 15 seconds.
13:09 is what happens when a narcissist is somewhat self-aware, but assumes everyone is like them.
“I’m not a nice guy though. Did I say I am a nice guy? Anyone here, did I say that?”
Taylor: “You just said it. You just said it 20 seconds ago!”
Do niceguys have selective attention or the attention span of a lightning bolt? They never seem to remember the times that paint them in a bad light!
They try to protect their ego vía negation
I’m wondering how that even came up. Was he trying to hit on her? Lol
Nah, just the gaslighting skill of a fart over a bonfire
Gaslighting in real time.
It's called gaslighting. Like who tf lies ON CAMERA? lol
I actually had to fire a guy recently because he was basically like the guy trying to date his co-worker mixed with Christian Grey and those guys who think they are smarter than everyone else.
Yikes. Yeah, a guy like that is inevitably going to be involved in some kind of 'incident' with a co-worker
Wow. Good to know there are bosses who won't let guys do as they please. 👍 I'd feel safe working with you. We need more of that
I'm honestly half tempted to put in in some subreddit. But in case I don't I'll give you all a small run down here.
- dudes supposedly engaged and keeps hitting on female members of my staff.
- needlessly felt like he needed to point out how women shouldn't be in a position of power.
- felt like he needed to "correct" women who are pro choice or pro abortion.
- tried to convince the women of my staff that their religious beliefs aren't valid.
- and all three times I pulled him into my office he tried acting like he was the one calling the shots.
This all started because my new German translator came into my office and told me the situation. So I went through over 130 members of my team to see if they had similar situations. I thanked them all for their coming forward. I'm glad he's out of there and my team can feel comfortable coming to me now with problems.
@@michanone Thank you. I try to look after my staff.
@@Mr.FancyGengar, an actual decent guy. Well done sir
Thanks for all your support! ❤️ going to aim to make my videos around 20 minutes long from now on!
When I hear "bend over backwards to make my girl happy" I actually hear "point out all her flaws and put her down to "better" her and make myself feel happy"
Maybe some of them mean the exact opposite. But actually bending over backwards is almost as bad.
I did have a bf who did that and it was awful. The dude lost his personality and it was freaking awkward. Got so bad that it was impossible to get his actual opinion on anything. Dude still wonders why I dumped him.
@@seleneyue Did you explain to him why you dumped him?
@@solar0wind yeah but he didn't get it.
Well, that was the death knell of someone’s career, but not hers.
I sooooooo want to know what happened to Mr. "death knell of your career" after he hopefully was reported to HR. Incidentally the "all girls are the same" comment is so funny because if the girl did date him and then left him for someone else, like he's asking her to do, he'd scream bloody murder about her.
This is the most obvious case of quid pro quo sexual harassment. I’m glad OP took screenshots.
@@WaitingxInxSilence This is the easiest case too lol. So many managers deal with complicated he said she said cases. This conversation is so freaking simple. I would fire the guy AND file a restraining order AND Tresspassing paperwork so he can never come close to the offices or buildings again. I have no idea how this guy even got this far in their career considering how he cleary incriminates himself further instead of playing it off. It’s like he wants to be caught.
@@notatrollll Maybe it's first time harassing someone at work? But it does smell kinda fake to me because those texts are awful incriminating... And he sounds like he's in a supervisory position of some kind.
@@alicine-sims8988 Because someone is in a supervisory position doesn't mean that he is smart. Often, quite the reverse.
Exactly!
That last guy is absolutely delusional. He probably thinks sexism isn't real either.
Some sounded like projection too
@@WolfgangDoW It felt like reading a sociopathic, sex-addicted serial killer's manifesto.
My parents raised me to be polite. If I had known it would lead to I have to sleep with every guy that compliments me, I would have rebelled...
^why I carry pepper spray
I swear I've heard that "The Devil shivers" line a million times.
when they said they'll "take care of her", gives me chills...sound like someone I met some years ago....knight in armor syndrome
by “take care of her” they mean: expect her to do all the cleaning and cooking “because she’s a female” and then act really confused when she takes offence to that because “isn’t that what you’re supposed to do” but don’t worry, he occasionally gives her his junk so that she can satisfy him, how nice of him.
The adjective "nice" (and the noun "gentleman") is like the term "Olympian." It doesn't mean anything if you claim it yourself. It only takes on any weight when you've earned it.
"Hello HR?"
I mean like what was that man thinking? He do know she can screenshot right?! Right?
Putting in my 2 week notice in at my job and going to bake at a donut store I'm excited to do what I love
Hell yeah friend! Make them doughnuts
I bet they are delish! I love cake donuts with coffee in the morning.
I don't know you, but I'm happy for you 🌹
You're lucky to find what you want. 😊
That girl should definitely gonto HR on the wannabe homewrecker. That is what HR is there for. Its a great resource, use it.
@@lilithdvs13
1. Anybody in a relationship married or not is off limits, thats just common sense
2. She said herself she'd made it clear she had a boyfriend and considering the fact the guy mentioned it when asking her out he already knew she did
If it isnt fair to blame the guy without any context than we can't just blame the woman either
Me: *waiting all morning for Vincey's video*
Vincey: "Alright guys today's gonna be a long video!"
Me: "YES!" 😁😁
The wholesome cat meme is funny. We have cameras in our house, the kind you can speak through. Occasionally, while we're at work, either me or my wife will watch the cats or the dog and start talking to them. It's kind of funny watching them try to figure out where we are 😄
I give all nice guys a chance: I offer a duel to the death, and when they show up I reveal the opponent is me. That way either I get to kill them or they have to kill me so I won't have to date them. Win-win!
Fun animal fact: The giant squid has eyes the size of a beach ball!
Thank you! I hope you have a good day
@@sabrinanite dealing with my kid getting sick since last night from getting stung (I think? He got hit a least 5 times), I stayed up most of the night just to make sure he was ok and ended up waking up late to pick up my mom from work… plus I think I’ve got a stress headache, so, let’s just see how the 2nd half of the day goes lol! (PS, kiddo is doing much better this morning. No puke yet and he slept in this morning, maybe until 9:30 or 10, idk, I was gone and I haven’t asked his G-ma yet)
NOW I'M TERRIFIED
A FUCKING BEACH BALL????
@@Super_Panda_BS I hope your kid gets beyter soon! :(
@@Super_Panda_BS i hope he recovers soon 🙏 sending positive thoughts to you and your family
Nice Guy™️ says that women don’t go for losers, then proceeds to contradict that statement by saying they go for losers. As the great Krusty the Clown would say, “What the hell was that?!”
They’re also hypocrites by saying “all women are the same” “women don’t appreciate good men they only go for bad guys”, but all their misogynistic anger comes from their bad female experience which usually is just rejection or a women they thought was bad (because nice-guys can’t take accountability and hate women). Like sir why did you chose “bad” women then huh?
the mental gymnastics of your average nice guy does not make sense to your average sane person. comes from them trying to apply their personal experience to every single thing on earth
Or rejected AvErAgE looking girls bc they deserve models
@@quirkypurple3 they do whatever they can to make sure they're the perpetual victim and are never held accountable for their actions and decisions lol.
@@dahliademyan8207 nice guys have no business being near women period. Only real men date women.
When a Nice guy loses his temper, everyone knows, the whole world knows! Why? Because he'll spam a bunch of edge lord memes, with pictures of The Joker on them. Who are these guys trying to fool?
2:40 guess that guy really wasn't her cup of tea (I promise I'm not a 45yr old dad of 3 lol)
Been going through a week long depressive episode. Vincey vids are something to look forward to when I finally make it out of bed. Keep making videos and making people smile :)
(28yr old mom of toddler). I feel you and stay strong it gets better. I'm so exhausted and I want to sleep for a week.. that's my dream rn but this channel keeps me from crying the bathroom 😅
Desperate whining makes me physically sick.. 🤢 How is guilt tripping sexy? 🤢
Thank You Vincey ♥️
The bingo is such a good idea!! Thats so fun!
And safer than a Nice Guy drinking game.
Watchung Vincey while washing the dishes, with my cats in the other sink completely amused by the water flowing... This is a good afternoon!
Okay I really feel bad for the last nice guy. Really feels like that's what he tells himself because he has trouble connecting with others. Hopefully he can get the help he needs.
He seems like a very miserable person.
Oh boy! Vincey just after my french toast sticks, a perfect way to start my day!
Don't mind me, just listening to a playlist full of Vinceys videos while I clean my room and my brushes 😌
A friend of my boyfriend tried hitting on me, in front of my boyfriend and his wife. In front of them, and it wasn't in an ironic way. I just stood there, completely mortified.
My boyfriend makes the best tea.
Abused because he made the tea incorrectly? *Abused* Let that word sink in...
Zeus' beard.
There’s a reason women say “I like GENUINELY nice guys”.
well the thing is being nice should be a given. it should be expected of everyone.
The word you're looking for is "kind"
Compassion and empathy help too
In my opinion women should learn the difference between a nice guy that's genuine and a assertive leader more than a nice guy that's a pushover without setting boundaries and be manipulate women just for sex. I agree women want men that are a challenge more than being a man that's overly pleasing if women are in a relationship with someone overly pleasing it's up to the woman to say so giving men hints is not going to convinceing them the the relationship is over also men are not mind reader's. It's ok to leave just be respectful of the other person and give a reason why yes feels will be hurt at least having the truth is more respectful .
@@ericgarrett2979 I literally cannot comprehend this, the grammar is so bad.
@@ericgarrett2979 I- what-?
10:30 omg the constant dangling of her job over her head as though she's obligated to him is DISGUSTING. I really hope he got fired because this entire conversation just REEKS of him doing this before. Like there's no way she's the first person he's done this to and he does not deserve to have any perceived power over others at his place of work. Absolutely VILE!
I once rejected a nice guy, he proceeded to spazz on me on about how he was gonna treat me good and how all of his friends are bad people and he’s the nicest from all of them (bird of a feather flock together). He had to audacity to saw I’ll regret and he proceeded to call me a racial slur. Funny enough a year later he still stalked my profile and I posted a video of me and my male coworker on my story and he texted me “you suck”. I later found out he was emotional abusive to his girlfriend
Talking to people about making tea in England is dangerous. If you don’t make it the right way it could start a literal war 😂😂
Gonna save this video until tomorrow so I can take a shot for every square I check off
Be prepared for a hangover lmao
Whenever I feel embarrassed of how I tried to ask a girl out once, I look at these and feel relieved that I could’ve acted a lot worse
Can I just say that working out or drawing while listening to Vincey’s videos is so satisfying and my favorite pastime nowadays
I think the funniest part about these nice guys is that they can't seem to self-reflect. If they really were as nice as they profess to be, they wouldn't throw a tantrum about being told no, they'd just say "fair enough", cut their losses and move on.
Waking up and seeing two new Vincey videos is just one of the best feelings
7:10 When the Nice Guy uses run on sentences because periods are for girls. 🤣
Was watching you while cutting watermelon really helps with the stress especially when when the worst kinds come in lol but love your videos just remember to take a break once in a while and take care of yourself
'It was one of those days where everything was like super colourful'
Me in the UK: Cannot relate ;___;
Don't we all see, this is how we stop sexism, put woman in front of nice girl memes, guys in front of nice guy memes, soon they will see how cringe they are and it will show we all are bad equally
That's perfect honestly. Both sexes can be awful.
That sounds nice to say. But women don't think they're entitled to a boyfriend or a domestic slave.
Or we exterminate all nice guys, incels, neckbeards etc. Sexism, sexual harassment and the like would become non existent.
@@floraposteschild5169 yes they do
Hey! My post (5:59) made it here! Thank you Vincey!
Dating services ARE a scam, but not because of that nice guy rhetoric. Think of it: if a dating service works, you stop using it. That is profit loss.
OkCupid worked just fine for me and my boyfriend, you just have to use the right ones.
@@beththedarkmage3359 define right ones?
@@DarkWarchieff OkCupid was apparently the right one for them😂
4:17. How *DARE* they mess with Aquamarine and use it for their garbage. How *DARE* they.
I watch your vids while crocheting and its always so chill and nice and just has good vibes as cringy as that sound carry on the good work your doing great
Every time they say “I’m just gonna be an asshole for now on” or like shit about their “inner demons coming out” of what not, I get “no more mr nice guy, no more mr cleeaaan” stuck in my head
6:15 gave me flashbacks to that one time in college when a guy asked me out while I was working. Um, I’m being nice and giving you attention because you’re a customer and I’m a cashier. NOPE.
Being nice is a personality trait
Being good is a decision
Wow that one dude just played the "lets see how fast I can lose my job" game right there. That string of texts is probably headed straight to HR faster than the Voyager spacecraft are leaving the solar system after that exchange.
The devil shivers because he’s cringing in embarrassment.
You just won the internet! 😂😂😂
I personally headcanon that Satan watches all of these videos and writes down the guys’ usernames in his hell list.
I got to a point about half way through - and can't take any more "nice guys".
Straight to HR for that "give me a chance" guy.
1:39 same here today. All the chicory flowers look more vibrant today.
Her boyfriend made her tea, and that's abuse, but this guy condescendingly judging her entire existence based on her gender and his own insecurities, is treating her well? Of these two guys, one is her boyfriend, who does things for her, and shares a mutually agreed upon relationship with her, the other is a total stranger berating her about how a hypothetical situation played out in his head. He couldn't keep his promise to "treat her well" for 5 words. He claimed he would "never mistreat her" and then 5 words later mistreats her. The level of delusion is unbelievable.
11 spaces - 1 bingo, This was fun, makes your already super entertaining videos more interactive!
Vinceeeeyyyy I got my second vax and the side effects are really bad for me. I'm so happy you posted, gonna listen while I'm lazy in my bed feeling crappy. ❤️
I can sympathize (fevers and chills blow). But…you’re really awesome for doing the darned thing and I hope you feel better soon.
I literally start and finish my day with Vincey. Keep it up buddy, your channel is amazing.
I was nice to a doorman in my building and he brought me a chocolate and a rose (and a chocolate egg for Easter)
You could add to the bingo card:
-making an unrelated post about them being a nice guys
-"When a Nice Guy ™️ loses his patience, the devil shivers"
-thinks girls only want rich guys.
-women are Machiavellian and manipulative with men.
-hits on them even knowing that the lady has a boyfriend and then gets angry when she rejects him.
Any other ones that could be added?
Nice guys: want pity whilst insulting you. Absolute gems 🙃
When I see a notification that Vincey posted, my entire day gets better.
I’ve had a Hermes courier stalk me and steal my mail for seven years - because I was polite to him. I gave him my phone number because my doorbell was broken and I am really far from the door. I stupidly thought he’d just let know when I had mail…
Back in the day, I was hanging out with a friend at her work. A friend of her and her boyfriend came in and they started chatting.
Suddenly he basically smacked me in the shoulder (like a 'one of the guys' things dudes do to each other. Except I'd never met him, and I'm not a dude.) and said, "hey! Why are all the ATTRACTIVE WOMEN taken?"
I just gave him a dead stare and said, "probably has something to do with all the SINGLE MEN being assholes."
Hello, hello, I was the one who made the bingo card! If anyone has any questions for clarification, feel free to ask
I hope that one guy who was harassing his coworker got fired!
Upload 5 mins ago? While Im drawing? My day could not end better
You can kind of tell which guys don't know how to deal with their emotions, versus which ones are just completely self-centered.
It's got to be polarizing for the niceguys who see these videos.
Vincey is the light at the end of a dark day 😭❤
Maybe there can be bingo cards for other subreddits.
I wonder if that creepy coworker would have hit on her if she was a married lady. Icky! Icky! Gross! Gross! Yuck!
How very very nice of the one who said "I know you have a boyfriend"
After all, I can't think of a nicer sort of person than a homewrecker
Dear nice guys, AMC theaters are hiring because y’all are excellent at projecting.
Playing Vincey Bingo would be much more satisfying...
You hear 'IckyIckyGrossGrossYUCK!'
once and feel like you've won!
He didn't just try to break up their relationship, he tried to ruin her career. That is so sinister.
9:33 - goes from "you did a great job, knew you wouldn't let the team down" to "I did all the work and you just leeched off me to better yourself" - I'd be giving this exchange to HR. It's workplace sexual harassment writ large
10:38 - and after refusing to stop when she warned him about taking it to HR, he then used his position of authority at work to threaten her job. That's definitely the cue to trot down to HR and let them have a leisurely read of it.
The best part of waking up is Vincey’s nice guy/neckbeards videos in your feed.
I really really hope she reported that weirdo to HR. Cant let him get away with that shit!
vincey: talking about all of these awful people
me watching the weird bird man try to fly in between the mountains:
5:22 The snake looks offended that he was compared to "nice guys"
"I know you already have a bf but I was wondering if you would give me a chance?"
Imagine if he was her boyfriend and another "nice guy" pulled this off. With his (lack of) logic, he'd have to let her date him, right?
I love the bingo card! They need to add "overuses emojis" and "awkwardly types out nervous laughter in DMs"
My bf is probably the nicest guy I've ever met. Supportive, even-tempered, honest, accepting, sweet. Whenever I tell him how sweet he is, he honest to god has no idea what I'm even on about because it's just normal to him. That, dear "nice guys", is an actual nice guy. And, no, I'm not turned off by it at all, I realise how lucky I am.
Yes. This. Often nice people don’t realize they are being nice, they just do what they would do for someone because they see that as right, or they want to.
7:24 - We finally found a full stop! Was beginning to think his keyboard was broken.
The last neckbeard, my reaction is just: “tell me you’re a sociopath without telling me you’re a sociopath”
I know it's so much of a cliché that when people say it, it doesn't mean anything anymore, but I can assure you, attitude is absolutely everything.
Also, bonus points to the "Cheat on your BF for me!" nice guys.
I mean... can you imagine the MASSIVE tantrum he would throw if, against all odds: She cheated on her bf with this "nice guy". And then: She "cheats" on the "nice guy" with an... even NICER guy! I can already see the shitstorm about how "ALL WOMEN ARE-" and how he CAN'T BELIEVE that she would be unfaithful to such a nice guy!
... that would be a pretty hilarious flame war of them trying to out-nice each other xD
*scribbles over bingo card* BINGO!
If parents didn't give a crap about their kids I probably wouldn't be here.
I got a bingo! I'm gonna keep using it for these videos ❤️ thank you zorua (pls tell me I got it right) for making it!
Just think about how stressful it must be to have this happen to you by a colleague at work, especially knowing how HR often dismisses complaints, doesn't keep them them private, and effectively punishes the person who files the complaint (by removing them from the team for example)
I mean she does have solid proof rather than just her word so hopefully that help.
@@MissCaraMint I hope it does and I hope it doesn't lead to a bad solution scenario 😅