Is the grass greener for a Fearful Avoidant?
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- Опубликовано: 22 авг 2021
- Is the grass is greener for an FA!
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As a recovering FA, my answer is no. I don't feel like the grass is greener. Or maybe sometimes it seems greener, but every new grass is also a risk, so I'd rather stick with what I have and do my best to water it.
Well you made me realize I might actually be dismissive/ fearful avoidant. I’m always halfway out the door In any relationship never fully committed.
The grass is not greener. It's a vast barren wasteland. Trust me.
i like your reference to the love languages. big believer in them. my ex is DA/FA and his LL leans heavily into Acts of Servce which ties in with being a "people pleaser" with a strong "hero" complex.
i also feel we often GIVE love in a different way to receiving it. For example, I give my loved ones gifts to show i love them. These gifts are small or large - financial value is not my motivator - and are either something I think will make them smile especially if they are feeling low, or they have a purpose which I think the recipient will appreciate. But I dont expect gifts in return. I'm not used to receiving gifts, aside from my kids who have obviously been influenced by this. With my relationships, i prefer physical touch. You can tell a lot from the way someone touches you, or demonstrates with hugs etc.
My ex is FA. 6 years off and on. At the root…Complex trauma is right! You’re so on point! You’re extremely good at what you do. I honestly thought you were a counselor this whole time I’ve been following you over the last year plus! Is that consideration for you ever, licensed counseling? We are trying friendship and he’s still distrusting to an extent but that’s all he knew growing up with a primary inconsistent caregiver. There was also an addiction component with them both
Thats exactly what happened with my FA. He thought I didn't want him cause I didnt chase him like the DA girl did, so he chose her. It didnt last 6 months, and he pursued her, but nit me. My secure attachment style is probably boring to him.
My ex. I HATE people. Also my ex.. I just have this draw to go to school for psychology now. As we’ve never been able to discuss or come to compromise. Like… a narc fearful avoidant type going into a field I’m terrified. I know the damage she caused me. But was it just me. What does someone who hates peoples do in this field
My fearful avoidant ex and I got engaged last February. Then in July she broke up with me and gave me back the ring. We lived together until August when she finally moved back into her mom's house. In October she got into a new relationship 😕 Didn't take the time to heal or grieve our relationship. She already changed her Facebook profile picture with one of them together. Do you guys think this new dude was already in the picture? Is it a rebound relationship?
They grief while in relationship same thing happens to me
My fearful avoided told me that he's done..
😕
U dodged a nuclear time bomb right there!
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