Entering a fourth marriage in a space of 5 years is very concerning. Especially since last marriage ended less than 2 years ago. Doesn't mean the marriage will fail, but it is a red flag.
Some of the second speaker's comments were quite shallow. While it may be true that "Nigerians are very judgemental", it doesn't mean that the points "Nigerians" have raised are not valid. Amaka's "live in the moment" comment is horrible horrible advice. "Living in the moment " in this context will have severe consequences in the future. Secondly, i do think that parents should allow children make some mistakes but not one that's critical as marriage. Marital mistakes cost a whole lot ranging from death to disfigurement to lost opportunities etc. People really have to be careful with the kind of advice they dole out on social media because there are alot of young people who need and are genuinely looking for direction that they can't get in their homes. Kudos to the first speaker, she was able to share a balanced perspective.
And too much broken and damaged marriages can produce dysfunctional children and a dysfunctional society because we know that tge family is a nuclear unit of the society
3 marriages is a red flag but everyone's story and journey is different. So we can learn from other people but at the same time learn to listen and follow your instincts.
It's no as if the marriages of our parents are better.Growing up to adults, we discovered there were a lot of pretences and untruthfulness in their marriages they kept covering because of shame of culture
Love is not enough to keep a marriage or to make a marriage work. It is also not enough to say it’s okay to live in the moment because there is always a heavy negative impact and consequences on all parties involved in a marriage if the marriage becomes unsuccessful. The importance of making an informed choice is that one should be ready to bear the consequences of their decision and choices . Divorce not only affects couples, it also affects the children of the marriage relationship and society at large.
Single people need to understand that some mistakes are never worth it. If u hear some peoples stories. Especially those who people warned them they went ahead and now are in a tight place u will understand why pple scream red flag. Also let's not talk like being divorced is a walk in the park. Divorce after kids is very hard. Very very hard. Especially in Nigeria where there aren't laws to protect women and money moves judgement. Let's all be guided. Some marital issues are not serious issues. While some can change the trajectory of your life. I understand how for a single person the need for companion will make u not see how bad things can get. But please don't let that need blind u.
For the upteenth time...Sharon will be happy,her home is blessed already,good things are happening for her,in her and around her...20yrs from now I see them waxing stronger and stronger in love❤🎉😊😊😊....t for tenks
@@bimpeotubu7580 I understand but which God are you talking about? The God of the bible or Quran because these 2 religions teach different things about divorce and remarriage. If I tell a fellow Christian they are not doing the right thing, that doesn't mean I'm judging them. I also am open to criticism because I'm not perfect in any way. I am probably the worst of all sinners.
Marriage is the hardest decision an individual will ever make and red flags or not, it might not work out. The fact remains there are qualities each person wld have that blends together and enables the marriage to work out and stand the test of time. And if not wld break down. Any form of abuse or manipulation is however a massive RED FLAG, simply not worth it!!!!!
Domestic violence should never be trivialized. The lady who used the analogy of her mum getting beat up by her dad is setting a dangerous precedent. Women have lost their lives due to domestic violence.
Incompetent show. Totally unacceptable statement to make on a national TV when the world that we live in now recognizes the perils of DV. Shameful comments really. Morayo needs to be sent on a course !
@@maydeed3964very incompetent and male-dominated cultured women most times. They are not a good role model for our precious daughters, once in a while, a reasonable voice emerges
If he’s a serial killer, and she’s in love will him, you’ll also say, she should marry him. Have you heard about a lady who employed the man that killed her mother, after he served his term, the man ended up killing her, so pls let’s stop ignoring red flags.
I think my opinion was - Why did such a beautiful, intelligent, God-loving girl feel that was the best God had to offer her? Why? What happened to Jeremiah 29:11? Is being an actress in Nigeria so hard? Does it automatically mean you can't have it all as an actress in Nigeria? Na wa oh.
There are many beautiful, God loving women who are still waiting. The Devil is a busy match maker but wealth and good looks can mask anything. Who knows? She might be happy.
Mine was a year courtship but you know it was short because in marriage he had a child he didn't tell me about then later after his death,he had 2 other children he didn't tell me. The marriage was already shaky before his death and I was planning to leave then mysteriously he fell sick then died. Ensure you understand your partner language and verify very,very well.he get well
Allowing our Children make their mistakes in Marriage is very costly. Making mistakes in marriage choices have grave consequences that can destroy someone. No Parent will fold their hands and allow that. It is from a place of love and experiences that Parents have that they counsel their children. Some Parents can be selfish o, but very few. May God help Us
Having watched most of Sharon's wedding videos, I realized that she's more excited than the groom. That was my observation then to learn that the groom has been through these routes multiple times it all makes sense now. I wish them the best 🙏🏾
That was just being excited? She was disgracing herself sticking out all her tongue and licking his face. Disgusting to look at and very distasteful doing that in public, before her parents or anyone, especially for someone who claims to be a “Jesus baby”, I couldn’t unsee that.
I have my reservations about the example sighted by Morayo at the later end regarding domestic violence, respectively please, let’s be careful about throwing such out there next time, or it should possibly be corrected. That sort of example shouldn’t be sighted. The whole world is watching, that was a dangerous statement to make.
How would this woman be saying we could be searching even in marriage. What kind of careless yeye talk is that. These are the things that encourages cheating.
You see, let's not act like red flags are not called red for a reason. You can live in the moment for 3 months and spend 10 years to recover from what happened in those 3 months. Do not marry someone thinking if it doesn't work, you'll come out if it doesn't work. You need to ask us who have been divorced to know how well women cope with divorce. And please don't think money is the issue. You can be financially well off and still commit suicide from the complications that come out of divorce.
Thank you. The lady in pink said some things out of ignorance and inexperience. Is divorce normal? To end a relationship is one painful thing regardless of the cause.
It's not a small red flag, it's a whole red banner. There's no way on earth all three wives were the problem. Anybody quote me. If it was a woman who has been married three times before will we be here talking about "it's different for everyone"
If the man has healed and is more matured now no issues, all i know is celebrities marry money, what we care atimes for our celebrities are not what they care.
Pls for those that are born again and desires to make Heaven take the Bible standard for your choice making and also for your marriage entirely. Your desire and society outlook might be totally different from God's standard. Pls..... follow Gods standard. Pls don't live for the moment, tomorrow is closer than you can imagine & Heaven is so real. Marriage is not a gamble to be planning to make mistakes in it and learn from it, Pls read books, go for seminars, know what is needed to know b4 going into marriage, plssss... RED FLAGS ARE VERY IMPORTANT, its easier to say allow me, thats why divorce is on the rise
It is nice to look at different opinions but I’m not happy that Morayo used as an example that if a woman is being slapped before marriage and makes the choice to marry the man, she should be left alone. This is a very poor example and can encourage young ladies to ignore the red flag of domestic violence.
My sister it is true o, of someone is being abused pre marriage and still go ahead with the marriage, there is nothing you can tell them that they will.listen,
3 marriages already is a huge red flag. Let's be sincere. However, we are not in a position to make choices for them. They are both adults. She seems still vulnerable. She said she had just come out of a broken relationship when she met her man. Did she heal from that? I doubt. That guy is capable of sleeping a lady off her feet. He is handsome, rich, famous, and speaks smoothly. I am sure he knows how to spoil a lady with nice things. It is hard for a lady not to fall for such a guy, especially with the fallen values of society. Well, I am sure she must have processed everything and evaluated the associated risks. I pray it works for them.
Young people should be able to make their mistakes yes 💯 Life is full of learning experience it’s always better to try something and fail at it and learn lessons whiles we’re young rather than living through other people. Sometimes being over critical doesn’t help anyone
Hi ladies, the truth that every one of us has to put in our head is that... the rich rule over the poor.... and there is nothing you and I can do about it. The good book approves ONE MAN, ONE WIFE...that's the standard of God...polygamy is an error that God allows because God loves man no matter what.
Even Davidos baba Mama's is a red flag, however, let the people involved be the ones to decide whether to marry or not to marry if it works fine if it doesn't you move ahead and learn from it. We can't be the one deciding for the people. involved.
Many people have missed their God-given partners because of the opinions of family and friend. Even they end up marrying someone we are not happy with.
If someone has been married 3 times already, there is no rush , wait and get to know the person . Find out why the previous marriages failed . We pray this 4th time is real for him .and she's the last
Sharon married for two reasons: Money and age. She's 34, for a Nigerian, she's considered " old" for marriage. She decided to say yes because she wants children now. The next is purely, he has money! She once said" She wants a rich man as husband. Personally, I don't believe in her marriage! That man is a player, who likes the institution of marriage, but can't maintain it!!
But some people said he’s know in LA , California to be broke and a Womanizer. I’m not happy the beautiful lady got herself in this type of arrangement. Age is not a big deal. I married at 33 and wasn’t desperate and looking for money either . Almost 9 years after , still thanking God that I took that decision.
@@simplyteetotrust me if that guy wasn't filthy rich, I doubt Sharon would Marry him. Why do you think Sharon calls him Odogwu Silencer...Pepper Rest Wella for the guy hand. Sharon know Wetin we know know
Young people should be able to make their mistakes yes 💯 Life is full of learning experience it’s always better to try something and fail at it and learn lessons whiles we’re young rather than living through other people. Sometimes being over critical doesn’t help in real life issues
I agree with you. But in my own little way, there are some mistakes that should never have happened...cos the consequences when they happen, usually affects your family and you long term!! And then when the pain becomes unbearable for the young person, the same society would now be blaming the parents/adults that 'weren't you supposed to guide this person knowing he/she is young?' I have seen young people who said 'thank God my mum insisted on my xxx decision, I now thank God I didn't go through with it even though I hated her then'. So, how do we balance it?? God help us all. Amen
Talk is cheap Morayo so when ur girl turn 25, allow her make wrong decisions so she can come back for corrections. For the lady in pink her own view dey always dey somehow. Sharon, I wish u all the best in your marriage.
For the online family .....Sharon's joy is our priority. The shocking news that came after her colorful wedding made us question old patterns of the personalities involved.......red flags. The definition of Jesus baby.....spirituality. What did the church, parents, grooms men and brides maids advice before Sharon took this huge step?
Yes ooo Tope. This life no balance at all 😂. One man is even getting married to beautiful women 4 times and another is still looking for just one. It is well...
Sharon’s case was not because she married as a 4th wife 😂 It’s the fact that she was making the issue over spiritual 😂 Marry your man and be going. God didn’t send you to do anything and Pastor Bolaji didn’t do counseling? 😂😂
Obviously, she'll discover the guy's own mistakes and errors that contributed to ruining his past three marriages. Those weaknesses are always there. They don't leave. She would then decide if she would be able to cope with them or leave too. Even if the guy was innocent in all the marriages, she will still find out something about him that will make her realise why those marriages never worked out. In every divorce, both parties are guilty. One may just be guilty than the other.
@@pdm8446 yeah, both parties will definitely not trust themselves. Even if the ex tells her she might think it's out of spite. But of course I won't expect her to ask the exes. There are ways to check, anyhow, but since they presumably didn't court for long, she can't know. After all the love is still blinding at the moment. But like someone mentioned, she'll find out whatever it is by herself, and who knows, she might have no problem with it. And also, it might take him 3 failed marriages to finally discover the love of his life. I wish them well
I don’t agree in Tope’s analysis . Sharon goes to Pastor Bolaji’s church I guess that’s why he joined them. I don’t think it’s because she is a celeb. They might have gone through counselling we are not privy to what they’ve done or not do to prep for the wedding
The worst part is that she just got out of a heartbreak when she met this guy. I hope all works out for her for them. I really love Sharon, and she looked even more excited than the guy. Again, he may not be an expressive person.
All this talk about living for the moment stems from the perceived financial status of the groom. If he was just a regular Joe, we would have buried him with the red flags. I agree that him having been married before, no matter the number of times, shouldn’t condemn him forever; but, if it’s true that the last one was not even up to 2 years, then she should have dated him for a longer period before tying the knot with him. In fact, he should have insisted on dating for a longer period. And his being married three times before wasn’t the only allegation - there was the matter of him not being who he was said to be and defrauding his second wife. If true, are those also red flags to be ignored? I’m truly curious.
Listening to the husband say 22 things he loves about Sharon. I`m convinced he may not have gotten it right before, he owns up to this, but he really loves her and is determined to make it a successful marriage.
I suspect the first 2 marriages was probably for US papers. I doubt it was a real marriage. The 3rd marriage is the one that might have been real and didnt work out for whatever reason. this guy is 17+ years older than Sharon. Interesting
I said same thing, first 2 marriages na for paper..3rd one looks like family village connection..but still it was too soon not to make an effort for that marriage to work and then jump to the 4th one months later...na wa oo
Parents with children out of wedlock are even adviced in Pentecostal Churches to make their relationship become official as in marriage. So the fair lady in pink's statement about Pentecostal Churches is really not right. Please confirm before giving such . Thank you.
How sure are you that the man is married for 3 times when he said his one and only daughter is 7 years old, he might just be a baby daddy. How sure are you that the man in that picture is Sharon husband, abeg make una rest from the girl matter
@isiomankechi Very Wealthy? Someone that works for a Company in America. He doesn't have a Business here o He is a salaried employee. . Very Wealthy? Dey play!
@@funmifajimolu2967 I mean his job title pays well- senior director at verizon. According to Google, the average pay is $250-374k. It's wealthy, just not extremely wealthy in my personal opinion.
Tbh as long the husband is open and throughly transparent with her if all these rumours are true, and they continue to do counselling and they have support around them it can work. People are also forgetting that it was her sisters that introduced the guy to her, therefore I’m pretty sure the family/ sister did their own due diligence/ background check and whatever they need to do.
🎉If young persons can be allowed to make mistakes. What if they don't recover from them? I think it's better to learn from others experiences most of the time, you don't necessarily have to go through it. It goes without saying that I wish them all the best. It could be like Celine Dion marriage anyway
Entering marriage for the wrong reasons is never valid and pregnancy test is not infringing but on your privacy especially as a Christian. First of you’re suppose not to defile the bed. Please, don’t listen to the lady in pink.
Amaka, check out the Indians and how the selection process goes. Take this to the bank. Your mum and family were right. My prayer for you is that you may find healing. May God grant you healing and abundant security in who you are.
Some mistakes lead to trauma and sometimes even generational trauma and DEATH. My dad always say prevention is better than CURE Prayer prayer prayer (as a christian) is so important. Marriage should not he taken lightly and its more than love. There are also certain requirements as christians that is laid out clearly. You should enter into marriage with prayer, Godly counsel and wisdom and discernment. Better to marry right according to God's will (as a christian) then marry wrong.
Like what the other lady said let her be . Everyone over thinking it . If things don’t work fine if it does great . Life is too short. It has happened what next .we all have different red flags and may be the guy has changed.Nothing to hard for God to change . She is a prayer woman .
Marrying a divorcee of 3 times is better than marrying a cheater with multiple baby mama, and unfaithful man. However, I will not marry a divorcee of 3 times. Anyway, weti concern me?
Hmmmm......see angle. I love your angle. I was scared too...but why I can agree with you is the story of Steve Harvey. He's also had 3 marriages and he said 'I made mistakes then which I have now grown to correct'. He's still with Marjorie and they both co-parent about 7 children. So I believe that if a divorcee has matured and the new partner can work with it, it's better than 'married once' but cheating everywhere. God help us all.
Love is blind,marriage is an eye opener.
The real red flag is not even really him marrying 3 times . It’s him married last in 2022 and now marrying again in 2024
The guy likes to marry fast .
Exactly bc the timing is too off
Same tot too ooo I just pray it lasts
Entering a fourth marriage in a space of 5 years is very concerning. Especially since last marriage ended less than 2 years ago. Doesn't mean the marriage will fail, but it is a red flag.
Some of the second speaker's comments were quite shallow. While it may be true that "Nigerians are very judgemental", it doesn't mean that the points "Nigerians" have raised are not valid.
Amaka's "live in the moment" comment is horrible horrible advice. "Living in the moment " in this context will have severe consequences in the future. Secondly, i do think that parents should allow children make some mistakes but not one that's critical as marriage. Marital mistakes cost a whole lot ranging from death to disfigurement to lost opportunities etc. People really have to be careful with the kind of advice they dole out on social media because there are alot of young people who need and are genuinely looking for direction that they can't get in their homes.
Kudos to the first speaker, she was able to share a balanced perspective.
And too much broken and damaged marriages can produce dysfunctional children and a dysfunctional society because we know that tge family is a nuclear unit of the society
Sharon's wedding is too early to be a model, or license for others to marry '''red flags''.
Time will be the judge.
The 3rd Speaker who said people get married for different reasons, and that as adults we make informed choices,she raised very important points 💯
There are a lot women who stood their grounds and today they tell us, we should listen to our elders
3 marriages is a red flag but everyone's story and journey is different. So we can learn from other people but at the same time learn to listen and follow your instincts.
It's no as if the marriages of our parents are better.Growing up to adults, we discovered there were a lot of pretences and untruthfulness in their marriages they kept covering because of shame of culture
Thank you my sister. You better tell them o. The older generation just kept quiet while our own generation is shouting. That's the main difference
DESPERATION does not see red flags that will make the desperateTHINK DEEP
You are right
Love is not enough to keep a marriage or to make a marriage work. It is also not enough to say it’s okay to live in the moment because there is always a heavy negative impact and consequences on all parties involved in a marriage if the marriage becomes unsuccessful.
The importance of making an informed choice is that one should be ready to bear the consequences of their decision and choices .
Divorce not only affects couples, it also affects the children of the marriage relationship and society at large.
Exactly my sister, before you start falling in love, you consider your religion because your God comes first
Single people need to understand that some mistakes are never worth it. If u hear some peoples stories. Especially those who people warned them they went ahead and now are in a tight place u will understand why pple scream red flag. Also let's not talk like being divorced is a walk in the park. Divorce after kids is very hard. Very very hard. Especially in Nigeria where there aren't laws to protect women and money moves judgement. Let's all be guided. Some marital issues are not serious issues. While some can change the trajectory of your life. I understand how for a single person the need for companion will make u not see how bad things can get. But please don't let that need blind u.
For the upteenth time...Sharon will be happy,her home is blessed already,good things are happening for her,in her and around her...20yrs from now I see them waxing stronger and stronger in love❤🎉😊😊😊....t for tenks
In Jesus name...amen..thank you Jesus for making it a successful union already ❤😊
Amen
All things are lawful but not all things are expedient.
@@JosephineEze79 let God be the judge of that..he who he without sin be the first to cast a stone 🚶🚶
@@bimpeotubu7580 I understand but which God are you talking about? The God of the bible or Quran because these 2 religions teach different things about divorce and remarriage. If I tell a fellow Christian they are not doing the right thing, that doesn't mean I'm judging them. I also am open to criticism because I'm not perfect in any way. I am probably the worst of all sinners.
I have been in th same situation,i wish i stood up to parental pressures
Marriage is the hardest decision an individual will ever make and red flags or not, it might not work out. The fact remains there are qualities each person wld have that blends together and enables the marriage to work out and stand the test of time. And if not wld break down. Any form of abuse or manipulation is however a massive RED FLAG, simply not worth it!!!!!
When Bob has a problem with EVERYONE, Bob is usually the problem.
Learn from the Bob Principle! 🤣
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Morayo.....haaaaa....a beater is an ABSOLUTE NO-NO o...let's be guided
She fit dey collect come social media to be forming “boss lady”! So pathetic
Wow, Amaka's story is really touching. It seems she is still not over the breakup
One has to let go to find love
The money spent on that wedding day, chaiiii...my heart broke on the news that is invading social media.
Asin, no be small money and the people that grace the occasion
Me too !
Domestic violence should never be trivialized. The lady who used the analogy of her mum getting beat up by her dad is setting a dangerous precedent. Women have lost their lives due to domestic violence.
Incompetent show. Totally unacceptable statement to make on a national TV when the world that we live in now recognizes the perils of DV. Shameful comments really. Morayo needs to be sent on a course !
@@maydeed3964very incompetent and male-dominated cultured women most times. They are not a good role model for our precious daughters, once in a while, a reasonable voice emerges
If he’s a serial killer, and she’s in love will him, you’ll also say, she should marry him. Have you heard about a lady who employed the man that killed her mother, after he served his term, the man ended up killing her, so pls let’s stop ignoring red flags.
I think my opinion was - Why did such a beautiful, intelligent, God-loving girl feel that was the best God had to offer her? Why? What happened to Jeremiah 29:11? Is being an actress in Nigeria so hard? Does it automatically mean you can't have it all as an actress in Nigeria? Na wa oh.
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So judgmental! Thank God He doesn’t think like yall Nigerians!!
I was thinking the same thing 🥲
I totally agree with you!
She is still young and promising to be in a hurry to get married, and with such baggage from the man..
Truly beats me!
There are many beautiful, God loving women who are still waiting. The Devil is a busy match maker but wealth and good looks can mask anything. Who knows? She might be happy.
Mine was a year courtship but you know it was short because in marriage he had a child he didn't tell me about then later after his death,he had 2 other children he didn't tell me. The marriage was already shaky before his death and I was planning to leave then mysteriously he fell sick then died. Ensure you understand your partner language and verify very,very well.he get well
Allowing our Children make their mistakes in Marriage is very costly. Making mistakes in marriage choices have grave consequences that can destroy someone. No Parent will fold their hands and allow that. It is from a place of love and experiences that Parents have that they counsel their children. Some Parents can be selfish o, but very few. May God help Us
I saw nothing but love emanating from the couple. My earnest prayer is that their love will grow more and more. ❤🙏🏾
AMEN
So there was love in all the other 3 marriages
She is no married in the eyes of God,married to a serial divorce is a no no for me
The lady in suits is speaking my mind. Mmmmwaahh!
Having watched most of Sharon's wedding videos, I realized that she's more excited than the groom. That was my observation then to learn that the groom has been through these routes multiple times it all makes sense now.
I wish them the best 🙏🏾
I noticed her over excitement too and I was wondering why? Well best of luck to them.
That was just being excited? She was disgracing herself sticking out all her tongue and licking his face. Disgusting to look at and very distasteful doing that in public, before her parents or anyone, especially for someone who claims to be a “Jesus baby”, I couldn’t unsee that.
But we should talk fact, money has alot of impact in the decision.
Abi o..
Bcos divorce itself is stressful
Without money ,multiple divorce is stressful..😅😅😅😅
Ugly Truth
I have my reservations about the example sighted by Morayo at the later end regarding domestic violence, respectively please, let’s be careful about throwing such out there next time, or it should possibly be corrected.
That sort of example shouldn’t be sighted. The whole world is watching, that was a dangerous statement to make.
Totally agree. Very flipping useless incompetent statements!
How would this woman be saying we could be searching even in marriage. What kind of careless yeye talk is that. These are the things that encourages cheating.
They just say the most outrageous things to sound smart.
All of you made valid points.
You see, let's not act like red flags are not called red for a reason. You can live in the moment for 3 months and spend 10 years to recover from what happened in those 3 months.
Do not marry someone thinking if it doesn't work, you'll come out if it doesn't work.
You need to ask us who have been divorced to know how well women cope with divorce. And please don't think money is the issue. You can be financially well off and still commit suicide from the complications that come out of divorce.
It's well with you, sis. I hope it gets better with time. You will see better days
Thank you. The lady in pink said some things out of ignorance and inexperience. Is divorce normal? To end a relationship is one painful thing regardless of the cause.
One reasonable comment I've seen here. What 'love' blinds us from seeing, marriage will give sight to it.
@@PrincessAdeolaMinstrelentering marriage with the mindset of “if it doesn’t work, I come out” 🤦🏽♀️
Yeah, you would not be so lenient if the lady was the one with 3 failed marriages. The double standards huh!!!
Divorce is not the end of life. But nobody goes into a marriage with divorce in mind. Today determines tomorrow
It's not a small red flag, it's a whole red banner. There's no way on earth all three wives were the problem. Anybody quote me. If it was a woman who has been married three times before will we be here talking about "it's different for everyone"
hmmm....o deep. Life isn't balanced.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 red banner…..
If the man has healed and is more matured now no issues, all i know is celebrities marry money, what we care atimes for our celebrities are not what they care.
Spot on! The care part...
The hard part isn't making a decision, but living with it all throughout
everyone deserves grace
Pls for those that are born again and desires to make Heaven take the Bible standard for your choice making and also for your marriage entirely.
Your desire and society outlook might be totally different from God's standard. Pls..... follow Gods standard. Pls don't live for the moment, tomorrow is closer than you can imagine & Heaven is so real.
Marriage is not a gamble to be planning to make mistakes in it and learn from it, Pls read books, go for seminars, know what is needed to know b4 going into marriage, plssss... RED FLAGS ARE VERY IMPORTANT, its easier to say allow me, thats why divorce is on the rise
Well, said …follow God o.
Why exactly is this a conversation on national TV?
They gave their reasons and answers to this particular question. Listen to their reason/answer
It is nice to look at different opinions but I’m not happy that Morayo used as an example that if a woman is being slapped before marriage and makes the choice to marry the man, she should be left alone. This is a very poor example and can encourage young ladies to ignore the red flag of domestic violence.
I rarely watch these ladies but anytime I do, that Morayo will always fall hand and say something white immature.
@@pdm8446Aunty Morayo does give me a reason to pause and listen to her again sometimes.
My sister it is true o, of someone is being abused pre marriage and still go ahead with the marriage, there is nothing you can tell them that they will.listen,
3 marriages already is a huge red flag. Let's be sincere. However, we are not in a position to make choices for them. They are both adults.
She seems still vulnerable. She said she had just come out of a broken relationship when she met her man. Did she heal from that? I doubt.
That guy is capable of sleeping a lady off her feet. He is handsome, rich, famous, and speaks smoothly. I am sure he knows how to spoil a lady with nice things. It is hard for a lady not to fall for such a guy, especially with the fallen values of society.
Well, I am sure she must have processed everything and evaluated the associated risks. I pray it works for them.
Well spoken
Young people should be able to make their mistakes yes 💯 Life is full of learning experience it’s always better to try something and fail at it and learn lessons whiles we’re young rather than living through other people. Sometimes being over critical doesn’t help anyone
Is not wise to experiment with marriage...it could have fatal consequences 🎉
No worries Sharon. You got your man. Be happy.
I love every word coming out of the woman on pink .
Hi ladies, the truth that every one of us has to put in our head is that... the rich rule over the poor.... and there is nothing you and I can do about it. The good book approves ONE MAN, ONE WIFE...that's the standard of God...polygamy is an error that God allows because God loves man no matter what.
If the lady feels okay with it let her carry on it’s her choice, for me I can’t marry a divorced man
Even Davidos baba Mama's is a red flag, however, let the people involved be the ones to decide whether to marry or not to marry if it works fine if it doesn't you move ahead and learn from it. We can't be the one deciding for the people. involved.
God will take care of tomorrow for now sharon is happy and thats all thats matters.....
Many people have missed their God-given partners because of the opinions of family and friend. Even they end up marrying someone we are not happy with.
I meant to say. Even if they eventually get married, they end up not being happy.
God bless you Amaka...live in the moment ❤
Tope you are on fire today 🙏🙏🙏
If someone has been married 3 times already, there is no rush , wait and get to know the person . Find out why the previous marriages failed . We pray this 4th time is real for him .and she's the last
Sharon married for two reasons: Money and age. She's 34, for a Nigerian, she's considered " old" for marriage. She decided to say yes because she wants children now. The next is purely, he has money! She once said" She wants a rich man as husband. Personally, I don't believe in her marriage! That man is a player, who likes the institution of marriage, but can't maintain it!!
But some people said he’s know in LA , California to be broke and a Womanizer.
I’m not happy the beautiful lady got herself in this type of arrangement.
Age is not a big deal. I married at 33 and wasn’t desperate and looking for money either . Almost 9 years after , still thanking God that I took that decision.
@@simplyteetotrust me if that guy wasn't filthy rich, I doubt Sharon would Marry him. Why do you think Sharon calls him Odogwu Silencer...Pepper Rest Wella for the guy hand. Sharon know Wetin we know know
I wish his spirit wife has left him,if not, he would still divorce her. IT'S a cycle 😢.
You know it.
Even a very poor person can do an igbo marriage in Lagos. My sister did hers in Lagos. No one knows my family as a celebrity
Young people should be able to make their mistakes yes 💯 Life is full of learning experience it’s always better to try something and fail at it and learn lessons whiles we’re young rather than living through other people. Sometimes being over critical doesn’t help in real life issues
I agree with you. But in my own little way, there are some mistakes that should never have happened...cos the consequences when they happen, usually affects your family and you long term!! And then when the pain becomes unbearable for the young person, the same society would now be blaming the parents/adults that 'weren't you supposed to guide this person knowing he/she is young?' I have seen young people who said 'thank God my mum insisted on my xxx decision, I now thank God I didn't go through with it even though I hated her then'. So, how do we balance it?? God help us all. Amen
He has proposed and married 4 women within the last 5 years!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Oh well!!
He Is looking for love
Silly comment no he didn’t.
@@Obiamajoyisrmd Thank you intelligent fool.
Talk is cheap
Morayo so when ur girl turn 25, allow her make wrong decisions so she can come back for corrections. For the lady in pink her own view dey always dey somehow. Sharon, I wish u all the best in your marriage.
For the online family .....Sharon's joy is our priority.
The shocking news that came after her colorful wedding made us question old patterns of the personalities involved.......red flags. The definition of Jesus baby.....spirituality. What did the church, parents, grooms men and brides maids advice before Sharon took this huge step?
Yes ooo Tope. This life no balance at all 😂. One man is even getting married to beautiful women 4 times and another is still looking for just one. It is well...
Sharon’s case was not because she married as a 4th wife 😂
It’s the fact that she was making the issue over spiritual 😂
Marry your man and be going. God didn’t send you to do anything and Pastor Bolaji didn’t do counseling? 😂😂
Thank you so much
My ow is this life is something else. Our mother's time it was a do or die affair. Now reverse is the case. So which one should we do.
We should do the one that won't send us to our early grave
Sharon married in church if he had been married three times before. I agree with you on 100% transparency.
Love is not enough in a relationship/marriage
Not everyone recovers from their mistakes ohhh.
It’s not pastors and churches who join people together . It’s families so if families and parents agree and accept bride price that’s most important
Did i just hear the hausa lady say " marry her cousin??? Like cousin???
Yes according to their religion.
Disgusting in 2024. God forbid
I agree with the full disclosure.
Did she find out the reason for the 3 divorces? Did she get all the sides of the story, from the 3 women? Or just from his side. Can 3 women be wrong?
Obviously, she'll discover the guy's own mistakes and errors that contributed to ruining his past three marriages. Those weaknesses are always there. They don't leave. She would then decide if she would be able to cope with them or leave too. Even if the guy was innocent in all the marriages, she will still find out something about him that will make her realise why those marriages never worked out.
In every divorce, both parties are guilty. One may just be guilty than the other.
Lol, she about to find out.
If you are an ex and a current chic calls you to ask why you broke up with the man, will you entertain such a phone call?
@@pdm8446 yeah, both parties will definitely not trust themselves. Even if the ex tells her she might think it's out of spite. But of course I won't expect her to ask the exes. There are ways to check, anyhow, but since they presumably didn't court for long, she can't know. After all the love is still blinding at the moment. But like someone mentioned, she'll find out whatever it is by herself, and who knows, she might have no problem with it. And also, it might take him 3 failed marriages to finally discover the love of his life. I wish them well
I don’t agree in Tope’s analysis . Sharon goes to Pastor Bolaji’s church I guess that’s why he joined them. I don’t think it’s because she is a celeb. They might have gone through counselling we are not privy to what they’ve done or not do to prep for the wedding
In two months? Awell
The worst part is that she just got out of a heartbreak when she met this guy. I hope all works out for her for them. I really love Sharon, and she looked even more excited than the guy. Again, he may not be an expressive person.
He will not be excited.
This is the 4th time.
The last Wedding was in 2023 !
My thoughts exactly like why's the bride more excited than the groom? If she's happy then who are we to judge her. Time alone will tell in this case
All this talk about living for the moment stems from the perceived financial status of the groom. If he was just a regular Joe, we would have buried him with the red flags. I agree that him having been married before, no matter the number of times, shouldn’t condemn him forever; but, if it’s true that the last one was not even up to 2 years, then she should have dated him for a longer period before tying the knot with him. In fact, he should have insisted on dating for a longer period. And his being married three times before wasn’t the only allegation - there was the matter of him not being who he was said to be and defrauding his second wife. If true, are those also red flags to be ignored? I’m truly curious.
Tope, do not make unfounded assumptions. You have no idea if they had counseling or not; if the union was scrutinized or not.
Othordox Churches except anglican will not even officiate this kind of wedding.
The woman in pink,I love her mindset 💯
All this tsking panadol for other peoples' headaches. Let everyone face the consequences of their actions
Listening to the husband say 22 things he loves about Sharon. I`m convinced he may not have gotten it right before, he owns up to this, but he really loves her and is determined to make it a successful marriage.
I suspect the first 2 marriages was probably for US papers. I doubt it was a real marriage. The 3rd marriage is the one that might have been real and didnt work out for whatever reason. this guy is 17+ years older than Sharon. Interesting
I said same thing, first 2 marriages na for paper..3rd one looks like family village connection..but still it was too soon not to make an effort for that marriage to work and then jump to the 4th one months later...na wa oo
It was not for papers. They were together for 10 years and have a daughter.
Parents with children out of wedlock are even adviced in Pentecostal Churches to make their relationship become official as in marriage. So the fair lady in pink's statement about Pentecostal Churches is really not right.
Please confirm before giving such .
Thank you.
How sure are you that the man is married for 3 times when he said his one and only daughter is 7 years old, he might just be a baby daddy. How sure are you that the man in that picture is Sharon husband, abeg make una rest from the girl matter
The Man has been married 3 times !
He lives in LA, California.
He has been officially married 3 times.
The last Marriage was in 2023.
What is wrong with the man? Why is he changing partners like clothes?😢
He is very wealthy
@@isiomankechi SO if someone is wealthy means he should be changing wives like clothes. That means he is very low on emotional intelligence.
@@isiomankechi He's ok, not extremely wealthy.
@isiomankechi
Very Wealthy?
Someone that works for a Company in America.
He doesn't have a Business here o
He is a salaried employee. .
Very Wealthy?
Dey play!
@@funmifajimolu2967 I mean his job title pays well- senior director at verizon. According to Google, the average pay is $250-374k. It's wealthy, just not extremely wealthy in my personal opinion.
I totally agree with Tope
please whats the name of the lady in pink? is that Tope?
@@odunadeyt Amaka
Why is this a topic to be discussed nationally. This is more gossip that news. Sharon is happy and fine
They said why and gave their reasons for discussing it. Listen to the answer
They said why and gave their reasons for discussing it. Listen to the answer
Tbh as long the husband is open and throughly transparent with her if all these rumours are true, and they continue to do counselling and they have support around them it can work. People are also forgetting that it was her sisters that introduced the guy to her, therefore I’m pretty sure the family/ sister did their own due diligence/ background check and whatever they need to do.
Lady with the glasses is she saying allow domestic violence?
I am just watching this now. I find this interesting, lust and love is different
The man might tell her his married 3 times ...doesn't mean all is well, the man needs help.
The host is not helping in bringing the conversation to a full circle.
Madam in pink, Davido and chima didn’t not have a church wedding. They had a traditional wedding so that your example doesn’t hold water.
Before discussing this , have we verified this allegation. How truth it’s that the man has married for 3th times. It’s well ooo
Very important question. Because the whole thing is seriously confusing me
The who internet is full of videos and pictures of the weddings. You need to google.
The Man has been officially married 3 times.
Sharon is his 4th.
When i saw how she was happier than him. I posted on my page hope he has more money than her.. bam online in laws came out
Exactly 💯 dey really call me names
🎉If young persons can be allowed to make mistakes. What if they don't recover from them? I think it's better to learn from others experiences most of the time, you don't necessarily have to go through it. It goes without saying that I wish them all the best. It could be like Celine Dion marriage anyway
Ability. What if they die in the process.
Entering marriage for the wrong reasons is never valid and pregnancy test is not infringing but on your privacy especially as a Christian. First of you’re suppose not to defile the bed. Please, don’t listen to the lady in pink.
Totally agree
Amaka, check out the Indians and how the selection process goes. Take this to the bank. Your mum and family were right. My prayer for you is that you may find healing. May God grant you healing and abundant security in who you are.
Some mistakes lead to trauma and sometimes even generational trauma and DEATH. My dad always say prevention is better than CURE
Prayer prayer prayer (as a christian) is so important. Marriage should not he taken lightly and its more than love. There are also certain requirements as christians that is laid out clearly.
You should enter into marriage with prayer, Godly counsel and wisdom and discernment.
Better to marry right according to God's will (as a christian) then marry wrong.
Well, she said the HolySpirit told her he’s the one.
@@pdm8446 my comment is speaking on marriage and making choices in general
Like what the other lady said let her be . Everyone over thinking it . If things don’t work fine if it does great . Life is too short. It has happened what next .we all have different red flags and may be the guy has changed.Nothing to hard for God to change . She is a prayer woman .
I agree with the lady in pink
Marrying a divorcee of 3 times is better than marrying a cheater with multiple baby mama, and unfaithful man. However, I will not marry a divorcee of 3 times. Anyway, weti concern me?
Both of them are bad.
How do you know if divorcee is faithful
Solve the equation...if is not a cheatet why marry 3 times ..he has children with all the 3 women .abey u no make sense
Hmmmm......see angle. I love your angle. I was scared too...but why I can agree with you is the story of Steve Harvey. He's also had 3 marriages and he said 'I made mistakes then which I have now grown to correct'. He's still with Marjorie and they both co-parent about 7 children. So I believe that if a divorcee has matured and the new partner can work with it, it's better than 'married once' but cheating everywhere. God help us all.
But that man has been exposed for being all of this 🤣
🎉 Great insight.🎉