Non verbal clues that he/she likes, is interested in you
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- Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024
- Does this girl or guy look at you out of the corner of his eye? Does he act a little more shy around you? Does he seem to perk up when you enter the room? Does he try to "run into" you even when he is supposed to be somewhere else? These are all clues that he likes you!
Its hard when they seem to like you but never talk, and i try but it doesnt go anywhere.
Same shit why ???
Yep same here. Once i see ur not interested in me i just moved on. This is why im a single dude for a long time. Id rather avoid wasting my energy too much
they dont like u that much. its like an eh feeling. they are fine with the attention but dont care enough. i´m sure u there are people you feel about like that too. if someone has a crush on you, but is already your friend, they wont miss a shot on trying to get to know u. or maybe, u can just ask.
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@@katrin6388 Honestly, I feel like they do this when they see you an option, but not their main option. Your like their third option, pretty much.
I am cringing at myself about how I do all those things
Am I seriously that Obvious? Omg. That's what I do when I see my crush....
I caught him looking at me out of the corner of his eyes a million times
Lol!- Update about it? Does he like you?
My cat is in love with me?
No, they are the exception.
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LMAO 😄
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Hokay buddy
I love that you basically summarize the video in your description, it’s easier for when you don’t have time or a really short attention span
Your advice is always top notch! Thank you.
yes
Ruby20111000 yes
2:50 " ..really focused on you when you keep up to them" good clue
My crush avoids me like the plaque
Same
Interesting insights, especially about looking out of the corner of your eye at someone! Thanks for this video.
I had this happen to me on Saturday,so I decided to go eat by myself at this one restaurant and there is this girl there that is so fucking pretty,we both kept on looking at each other,she being more subtle about it,so I caught her looking at me from the corner of her eyes,I maintained eye contact until she looked away,I could also tell she would look at her Co workers and make a subtle smile like if they were teasing her about me,first time going to that place,I really want to get to know her so she knows me more.
I just like to say, thank you! I've been watching your video's for over a year now and they are a great help! and by the way, the hair looks fab, Marie!
Aaron, Yes, that is a good sign! Sometimes teasing is a person's way of saying they like you without coming out and saying it. But, look for other signs too. Just teasing you is not enough to go on, unless they show other indications as well.
You're funny! My ears are perking up already just listening to this great info. Lollll
Hahahaha!! Yeess, I noticed a girl looking at me from the corner of her eye. Hahaha! Thanks for mentioning that. I feel a little better now.
I was in my 20s during the 1980s when I was sitting in a cocktail lounge.
A pretty girl who sat a couple of tables away kept looking at me until we made eye contact.
At that moment she motioned with her forefinger to come here...I got up and sat with her.
I was so intimidated by her because she was so gorgeous...I didnt know what to say.
My mind went completely blank...so I told her I had come out of a coma with brain damage from a car accident.
She got up and left.
why do most of these videos are mainly talking about school kids
cuz we need all the help we can get😂🙏🏽
He purposely acts as if he doesn't but is always around peeping & secretly watch ever move I make. Tried conversation but it didn't work. I have a healthy self esteem & 10 yrs.older. We work out at the same gym.
Advice appreciated!
Love your advice!
Thank you Anna! You're right, I'm going to keep it straight.
Thanks,this shows that the girl I know likes me she's so shy and looks at me through the corner of her eye good tips
You Are absolutely right - Follow your instincts - your gutt feeling
the guy i like mirrors me all the time when im around him, like with my headphones and when i play with my hair or touch my hair he does the same and then we give eachother glances and then pretend like we weren't looking at eachother. i hope he can tell me he likes me. just gonna be patient. also he leaned in whilst i was talking, and he's never done that before and when we lock eyes theres major chemisty. hope he tells me
omg story of my life! you just described me.. i find it so hard to tell/show the guy i like him but my ears would definitely perk up when hes talking and i do avoid looking into his eyes for fear of him finding out i like him. this happened beginning of the year when the guy i like approached me, totally caught me off guard, and yes, i ended up turning my back on him cos i was so flustered! he probably thought i "rejected" him when it wasnt the case at all (im totally fine and confident with guys im not interested in which could have left him confused) and when i finally gathered the courage to talk to him, he walked off fairly quickly... now all i have is regret.
another thing if they smile at you all the time like they are crazy ❤️❤️❤️
Thanks Max! So glad I could help!
You're amazing just helped me realise the guy I like obviously likes me to. every thing you said he does ❤ I'm going to chat more to him now. Thank you so much X
It's insane that my crush is interested in me and stalking me even though we don't know each other.
Neary, go to the basketball game and say hi to him. And if he doesn't start talking to you, let it go. But this just might be the opportunity he is looking for. Remember, no matter how shy he is, if he is interested in you, he will find some way to be around you and try at least to talk to you.
thank you that last one gave me a lot of confidence. its like when we are at somewhere she follows me and we talk a lot and we have a lot in common so ya I think I have a good chance
"Remember, no matter how shy he is, if he is interested in you, he will find some way to be around you and try at least to talk to you".
Yeah, trying to find a way to be around our crushes is a big one for us and something we try - but trying to talk to her is absolutely impossible for us very shy guys (well... at least me, and I'm pretty sure I'm not alone in that), and not something that I (and probably more of us shy guys) don't attempt to do ....ever (sadly, since apparently we are still stuck in the 18th century where women aren't supposed to take the initiative) - and I absolutely hate it that women always reinfore the same old garbage that "if he's into you then he will speak to you first". Complete and utter nonsense (sorry, but I've just about had it with this hogwash and complete and utter untruth)
hi !! i noticed i.see this cute guy evry friday hes shy and keeps glancing at me even when i dont look. if i see him lookin he immdieently looks away but never approches.. does he possibly like me? he jus comes every friday where i am like 3 desks away from.me.in front. with his hradphones in...
Thank you I had just found out that the guy I like has a crush in me too. This video really helped clear things up.
Hey MISS, I really need your help. A girl at work was giving me all the SHY girl signs that she likes me for like a month and a half. . Staring when she thinks I'm not looking. Getting nervous and clumsy when I would talk to her. She would find excuses to get close to me. She even started to turn red when I would look at her. She started talking to my friends and lingering close by trying to get in my conversations. BUT then she told me she has a Boyfriend what happened????
You're amazing and I always look forward to your advice!
we want to talk about grown men and women
You are soo gorgeous 😍 Plus your advice is lucid and has been applicable n my life situations..Thank You!!
Thank you so much!! You're such an amazing and inspirational woman. You have helped us ALL so much. :)
Lmfao just laughing my ASS OFF. GO TALK TO THEM.
I like a guy, but I am too shy and I always end up doing the last thing you said in the video, I make sure he does not notice me. At first he always said hello to me and started a conversation, sometimes a hug or tapping my head, I ended up walking away because I was too scared to mistake him. He started anothertime to talk to me and to say good bye tapped my head. Are those signals? I don't really get how guys think since I am too shy... but I want to talk to him, I just don't have the courage! Help me please :(( and thanks!
Preach! This is my life every week and it's crazy how utterly DENSE these people can be. And they circle all around my house trying to look through windows and bang on everything hollering my name outside to pinpoint what room I'm in and will swear to God stand out there for as long as an hour from time to time.... And I just saw these people! They're not family of course but seem to think they are. They ignore the no trespassing signs, video surveillance notices and GO AWAY door mat.
You give such good advice that has helped me so much , thankyou
What if you are sitting in your bedroom on your computer that is close to the window and your not doing anything wrong but just being in your own house when you look outside the window and I feel like I'm being harrassed
Radius, I would, just once though. Just something pretty casual and short, asking how she is doing, about her new job, anything that you would say to any other friend. But if you don't get a response, I wouldn't pursue it. But if she messages you back, then try to keep the conversation going.
Your good at this Marie keep it up!
Wow you read me like a book
lobo, she likes you, I'm pretty confident! Try to talk to her more. It can't hurt.
i do all these when my crush is around me!!!! actually i thot he had crush on me and i started observing him and now i like him
Thanks dj, lots of experience!
Thank you. I could tell you my story and rave about how much you've helped me, but, really, just, thank you.
Laura, thank you for your kind comment. It means a lot.
what if that person was looking at me because she might have caught me looking at her?
you described what i do when i see my crush but instead of smiling i just bite my lip and when i walk past him i look at him for a second then i just looked down fixed my hair and kept walking i think he looked at me first before i saw him
Cindy, you have to ask yourself if you are interested in him, or just like him as a friend. He probably isn't sure how you feel, that's why he is hesitant.
Hey Marie, This video is pretty spot on. I have a few questions though.(It would be awesome if you replied) So first of all, let me tell you that last week I worked at a talent show and this guy was there that I have been a little interested in. He has shown signs of interest. Like looking at me, trying to show off/brag, fix his hair and so on. One time I looked over at him and he was already looking at me and he turned his head quickly away. The thing is, is that he is shy and does not make a move. He is so shy, that when I was walking toward a certain direction that he was headed, he saw me and literally turned around and walked a different direction. Was he scared of me? Or maybe he thinks it might get awkward or something. It is super annoying because he can talk to other girls fine, even in front of me.He is also not an awkward person, he has a good amount of friends and he is outgoing with them. I am not sure what to think or do. One last thing, he looks at me from far away but when he is close, he looks down. Any tips? Thanks
Stephanie you should talk to him! He clearly likes you but is nervous. You have nothing to lose!
OMG!! My crush asked me out today!!!!!
im gonna message her tonight...its been two weeks hopefully I dont lose my shot if I had one!
Ilove, you must see him on a regular basis, so there has to be something you have in common...if you work together, ask him about something to do with a problem you are having (it should seem natural) or you could approach him and say, "I always see you, but haven't gotten a chance to talk to you. You work in accounting, right?" and then see how he responds. Same thing if you pass him at school. Just say hi and wave. That way you look warm and approachable. If you don't try, you won't know!
Jess, it could be that he is not interested, or it could be that he is! Could he really like you but is shy? I mean, if he were only interested in you as a friend he wouldn't have any trouble talking to you. If you can find out from someone who knows him who you can really trust, that would be great. But if not, I would still talk to him, and see if he gets more comfortable around you. But if he seems to get worse, then no, don't bother.
Julie, try to talk to him in a group. Usually, I say the other way around, to talk to someone one-on-one. But in this case, if you can talk to him and his friends when you are all standing around, and you keep doing this, he will get more comfortable around you, and eventually you can talk to him one-on-one, and he won't bolt!
dammit. I like someone 😭
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Dayne, hard to tell. But you will definitely know now. So it is good you asked her out. Because now, there will be no question in your mind anymore. If she likes you, she will go out with you, it's as simple as that. But if she searches for excuses or doesn't get back to you at all, that is not a good sign.
I know someone I think she's interested when I go near her work area she makes it a point to turn around and look at me.
I love all your videos!! :) Some really good advice. I hope you make more. :) Thanks for all the help.
My dilemma is I have a crush on a senior basketball player, and we always happen to be in the dining commons at the same time, or usually I'm leaving when he's entering or vice versa. I have confidence but when it come to talking to crushes or love interest I don't. I am good friends with some of his teammates but I don't try to start a conversation with them when he's around. I just want to know if there could be a possible connection because sometimes I catch him staring at me, but I don't know whether it's because I stare at him. But when I catch him looking at me he stares for a little longer and then looks away and I do the same, so I just want to know could something brewing between us? By the way, I'm a freshmen in college and my crush is a senior in college.
niners, yes, but they have to sit down and talk. He/she has to explain what happened and how terrible she feels about it. I think just seeing the honesty and compassion may nudge this coworker to give her another chance. If she continues to say nothing, the problems may simply continue or get worse.
Its hard because im an extremely quiet guy, so when i talk it always catches everyone off guard with how deep my voice is. People are often just fascinated with me because im quiet and work super hard 😂
I get these signs but whether that intrest is just curiosity is what gets me
Pamela, I would try to smile a lot. And this has happened to me too. People misinterpret things, so if you say it with a smile, whatever it is, people will always think you are warm and welcoming.
There was this guy at work who stood next to me , it was on my birthday, and a female co-worker gave me three kisses (thats what we do in Belgium, three kisses for b-days) and he started to blush and said to me "Oh, it's your birthday? Let me give you four kisses.." It was so funny.. I wasn't interested in him though (too bad, why does that never happen with someone I like too??) like he must have been thinking "i'll have to take my chances now and take advantage of it!" haha
Music Girl adorable!!
poor guy lol. forever alone
I have a question. So i like a guy and oneday i was walking with my friends and saw him sitting on a bench. With being the bold person i am i walked over and sat by him. He looked me directly in my eyes with a smile and asked me what i was up to and i responded that i was chilling and he laughed out loud. The twist is he said he was on the phone so out of respect i asked him if he wanted me to go and he nodded yes with a smile and i left. Ever since that day he would say sup to me and appear in places i would and come outside more if he saw me but he can never seem to make conversation with me. Why? Is he intrested? Should i give him time?
dreaming, go ahead. You can do it!
Hello Marie. i have recently gotten out of a relationship with a boy from my class. i was with him for 9 months, but it didnt work out. recently i have found my self having a slight crush and desires towards another guy from my class, who is ofcourse friends with my ex. i feel like he likes me too, he looks at me a lot and sometimes he just goes with me when i have to do something, for no other reason than just to be around me. is it a bad idea to start something up with this guy? i kinda wanna just kiss him, but can i do that without it leading to more?
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lmao, I've got this dude who looks at me with the corner of his eye, whenever he sees me, mainly during lunch, his little group of friends sits next to my group of friends. I always catch him looking, but I'm almost 100% sure he doesn't know I know he's been looking once every minute. Other times is when school is over, and everyone would walk out the door, he would be on the other side and I'll be with a friend of mine, we'll just be talking, I would take a sneak peek if he'll be looking, and yup, correct every time ;) But the thing is, we don't even talk to each other :/ This was informative thanks Marie xD
Well this is exaclty what my situation is... My classmate and I started to go out together but after that fun time we both admit to each other that we like each other... but he is kinda not approaching me and with texting he also isnt initiating... but i can see that he treat me differently then any girl... in class he is near around me.., quietly and awkwardly... but when i start a comversation, then he is really nice and sweet to me... sometimes this makes me really confusing it looks like he is isnt interesting in me but my guts tells me he do really has interest in me even though he has a hard time to show it... but he initiate with meetings and dates... he text me with short replies but sometimes he text unexpectedly sending red hearts emoticons... haha its really sweet but also confusing for me hahah
I love your hair!
jam, I'm not sure. It could be that he is interested in you, or he might just be unloading on you. It's not a great sign when he says "I have to figure things out first." I would count on nothing happening, and just be friendly like you normally are. And who knows, you could be pleasantly surprised.
Good point, Gretel!
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Oh, man. All these things are me!
Sorry; I've been trying to get the valor to talk to this guy i like for years and I just can't ( any advice) thank you sooooooo much for you great advice!:)
I turn into a spastic around my crush and im so awkward gosh
She talk to everyone but me now, my uncle, my cousin, and my mother, yet when I come to me she goes silent Last year she and I use to talk, but this year, she went silent on me. She was fidgety for about 2 to 3 weeks, and now after 2 months she is able to be calm when I am around, but she still says nothing, and she turns her head away from me. I do not look up much now, and I look away when talking to her, like K said before her dress is better and she does her nails now, and combs her hair as well. I guess it is hard when we are rarely alone in the store. When there is a line of people to take care of, some how I have to talk to her when she is alone.
Very cute. She is soooo into you!!! Hehe..but shy...give her a red rose without saying any!!
mandy18573 Are you sure, she is back to dressing better had her hair up a few days ago, she actually talked to me. And for some strange reason, she made sure I knew the other guy that was in the store at the time was not with her. I just asked who was first, she must of thought that I thought she was with him. She made huge jesters with her hands and arms, and even push her things, the items she was going to buy away from that other guys stuff, even though they were not close to her stuff on the counter.
I stopped talking to a few girls, because they do not measure up to her qualities!
diana, that's a good idea, talk to him about track. And I know it's late, but next year, you go out for track! Usually the boys and girls have it at the same time. You will have more opportunities to talk to him. And if he does cross country in the fall, go out for that.
omg why am i watching this sksks i have a staring problem i unconsiously look at people i like sksks
Radius, that is a good sign. Now, you need to approach her, and see how she responds. If she is in a rush to leave, or doesn't seem particularly interested in what you have to say, that's not a good sign. But if she seems focused on you, and then comes up to you again, I think this looks good!
Also their is a boy who I think is flirting with me and doesn't go to my school that I only see twice a year. He is 13, and he doesn't even live in the same state as me. I'm 12 and had a crush on him since I was really young. Whenever we see him we always tease each other and he tries to impress me.
Likeme, can you "happen" to walk by them on the way out of class? Or get to class a few minutes early and chat about a test or an assignment.
brandon, that is not usually a good sign. Move on. Because she should not have to think about it. She should want to go out with you. She is not worth it! You can do better. And by the way, let her see you laughing and talking to other girls. It is her loss!
Hey Marie. So I recently got a government funded summer student job, and my co-worker happens to be this girl who I know a bit from my church. However 1: I don't know her too well and 2: she is very timid and quiet towards people until she is comfortable. Now one thing that I noticed is that she stays quite timid with me while she is not towards other co-workers, and I can't tell if its because she doesn't want to talk to me, because she can't get comfortable, or other reasons.
btr, it shouldn't unless there is some kind of social stigma there, against dating someone a year younger. He either can't figure out if he likes you, or sometimes feels bold and other times feels shy. Try to talk to him more and see how he reacts to you.
I have been very busy writing letters to my U.S. Representatives, trying to obtain my VA benefits which are being denied. I attend a local community college which is about 90% Hispanic and of course alotta pretty girls in their early or mid-twenties. I am a Persian Gulf veteran, so I always sit in the back row where now I only have bookshelves behind me. There is plenty of computers to use within one side of the college library. I already had noticed that the girls also had their regular computers they like to use. Eventually, they noticed me and would give me a "smile" Surprisingly, a few have come and sat right beside me but then they act as though they don't see me. What is going on? Why come that far and smile at me from the distance and now you are right by my side and pretend you don't see me?
Maha, don't be someone you're not. The real you will come out eventually..might as well make it now. And remember, he doesn't have to have a girlfriend who plays soccer! Does he make a point to talk to you? Does he focus more on you than anyone else? Does he seem at a loss for words around you (meaning he is nervous)? Look for those indications. And remember, don't appear too anxious! Talk to him, and then wait for him to approach you!
Girls Aloud, I would try to talk to him, but only as a friend! No flirting, remember, he has a girlfriend. Seriously, I would try to strike up a conversation, because you never know what will happen with his relationship. And you could end up making a good friend. Just talk to him about classes, professors, etc. And it will be good practice for you to talk to people you don't know all that well. And it sounds like there could be a little chemistry there!
Cupcake, his friends definitely scared him off. Try to talk to him when they aren't around. I bet he is a different person. He just doesn't want them to know he likes you.
What if they make jokes about you and tease you in a good way around people? Does that mean they like you?
theDubmark, you can kiss him back, but only if you feel comfortable. Don't feel pressured to say or do anything you don't want to. He'll get over it. And if you don't really have feelings towards him now, don't think they will eventually get there. Either you are attracted to someone or your not, right from the beginning,it usually doesn't change.
Ilove, I don't think you are losing your best friend. She will see through this person soon enough. But until then, you'll have to distance yourself from both of them. I know it's hard. But believe me, if she is a good friend, she will soon see this person's true colors. But she has to find out for herself. In the mean time, this is a good opportunity to meet other people, and form new friendships. I know it's hard, but you can do it.
Hey, your videos really help me with my problems. I have a friendship problem that I need help with. So, I'm in a new school and my school and some other schools mixed together so we are all making new friendships. My bff lives next to me and we have so much in common. But she made a new friend that seems really nice but my friend will talk to her and forget about me. Yesterday she called the girl and I tried to say something and she payed no attention! On the bus we talk and it's totally cool but when she talks to that girl it's like I'm not there. She also talks about their friendship and nicknames around me all of the time but never include me. I'm getting tire of it. Every second she says so and so this and so and so that. The only person I trust about telling this to is me and my best friends other bff, who's a boy. But the only time I ever see him I'm around her. Please help me!
I would stay friends with her while you work on making new ones. If she chooses to spend more time with that other girl, it is her loss. Eventually she will realize who really has her back...that is you! So, spend this time expanding your social circle until she get tired of her new fly-by-night friend,
Hi Marie love your channel I really early asked my crush out she told me she has a boyfriend I know sometimes girls use this line to reject guys easy ,but since then I've noticed she continues to flirt & try to talk to me around work,I think it's better to move on personally she may just like my attention only..
Spartan 6278 attention grabber yup
Or the boyfriend was just and excuse and now she's really interested in you... Maybe she was shocked and rejected or want it more slow. ..yes, women act weird sometimes..lol. but sometimes we think about afterwards..and maybe she thinks now youre interesting...who knows. Take your time to find it out..but ofcrs sometimes you just make fun flirting to colleges too just coz u like them as good friends....
Hey Marie!I had a crush on a guy in my class(university) 3 years ago.This guy always stares at me from afar and he still does now.Whenever I enter to the class his friends were always smiling,whispering and shouting his name aloud!But this happens everytime.However this guy only says "Hi" to me,but we never had a real conversation.This year I found out that he has a gf,but he still glances at me whenever I walk..I am really shy tipe,so why he is acting like this?Please inbox me if u can! :)
Introduced me to some of her family and we been spending a lot of time together and I really like and set ones I catch looking at me and we always look each others into the eye and we text each other but it replays back quickly but sometimes only one or two words and sometimes more than four sentences. I am trying to ask her if she likes me but she's always around her friends and your advice makes me think twice about asking her out
Hey Marie! There is this guy in my class who is always either tapping on my desk or trying to get my attention. In some other way. And he usually complements my doodles or if we are in the middle of reading a chapter he will turn to me and ask me about it or comment how confusing something is. He is very nice to me and if we talk he looks me right in the eye. But i,'m not sure if he likes me or if he's jut being friendly or annoying. I'm so confused.
I have a question. I like this girl, and we're both very shy. The thing is, she talks more to her other friends, but when she's around me, she gets very quiet. I called and asked her out last week (since I couldn't catch her before spring break) , and all she said was a quick "I don't know". What do you think?
Will men do this to other men if they are gay or bisexual? There's a guy at my gym that does this to me constantly. Sometimes, he'll make direct eye contact and give a slight smile and other times a blank, inquisitive stare. A couple of times I've caught him looking at me and he'll look away quickly. He definitely seems to notice me. He'll also position himself near me when we're working out. He would also park his car next to mine. I can't make sense of this dude. There are some other things he's done that are consistent with stalking. This has been going on for about two years.
August, take things very very slowly, And if you think that he is not genuine, don't date him at all. Don't settle for anyone who doesn't treat you the very best. Remember that.
I have a coworker I'm interested in. When I first asked her out, she told me she didn't like dates so I accepted that. What she didn't tell me was she had a bf. I had to find out when she blurted it out at a party when she was drunk. She seems flirty with me and of course, I flirt with her all the time. We've been friends for almost a year now. She invited me and a friend over for dinner and I thought it was because she didn't want to look suspicious having a guy over who isn't her bf when she has a bf. I thought my friend was being used as a cover up. What she failed to mention about the dinner was that her bf would be there and I felt like a total scumbag for just being in the presence of a guy who's girl I've been talking to behind his back. She lives near me and asks why don't I come over more often and I told her because I don't get invited. Recently she's been sick and hurt her leg and I offered to come over, pop popcorn and watch TV with her to keep company while she heals but she made up some lame excuse. I'm not sure what to do. One moment she'll be all in my face, flirting, the next she's ignoring me. She's clearly unhappy in her relationship but won't do anything about it. But she doesn't know that I know why she won't leave him. Because I know she's tried to leave him before but he's threatened suicide so she stays with him. She doesn't know I know that. We all went out to some club and she ended up giving one of my coworkers a hickey and then when she brought up that night she tried to make it seem like someone else did it. Even though I saw her with my own eyes kiss his neck. I didn't stay at that party long since I had another party to go to and another girl to see. Which she knew about and didn't seem too happy with it. But can you blame me? Look at the way she acts. We used to text almost every day then her text weren't coming through. Turns out she was coming in as spam in my phone so we didn't text for months and I remember hearing about the job that she was contacting me but j wasn't responding. I had no idea she was being blocked so I thought she was just trying to find a reason to stop talking to me. So we switched to Facebook messaging and spoke every other week or so because she doesn't have internet access on her phone so she has to wait til she gets home to use her WiFi. I just recently got her unblocked on my phone and we've been talking almost every day since the problem was fixed. She's contract me if she needs the number of our workplace and I'll continue the conversation somehow or I'll ask her how she is because she's been under the weather recently. When she gets drunk, she has no control. Last time she went out, got drunk then started taking photos on her phone of everyone, including me then all of a sudden she wanted me to take one on my phone. So my friend grabbed my phone and took a pic and she made a sort of kissing face so I went in and kissed her on the cheek for the photo. The next day she saw it and wanted me to delete it even though I wasn't going to post it anywhere people could see because I don't want her getting in trouble with her bf. But her reason or excuse, whatever you want to call it for deleting the photo was because she "doesn't let anyone kiss her cheek" but I said she's always going on and on about how we're "just friends" why would it be a big deal? So I deleted it and I'll admit it hurt because the photo looked great. Then she goes don't worry we can take many more with a smiley face. Why? So you can make me delete those too. Why say one thing then do another? In front of a few coworkers I was discussing how I don't sleep well and she suggested that maybe I needed someone in my bed to which my friend replied maybe you need her in your bed and she just smirked and we all laughed. Like why say things like that and then try and act like there's nothing between us? I'm sorry this is such a long story, all of these events have transpired this past year and I don't know what to do except back off. I've watched some of your videos and I enjoy your views and opinions. I just hope you get to my story sometime soon because this really hurts.
Sorry Bro but this girl seems very complicated! Hope you find the right one.
FavoredHeart, thank you!
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, why do you speak to me so clearly !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!