21 Things I've Learned at 21 | Alexa Losey

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  • Опубликовано: 5 окт 2024
  • okay maybe a little more than 21 things but I didn't want to cut it down. I turn 21 today so I figured I would invite you guys into my kitchen so we can bake a cake together and reflect on life.
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  • @LukeKorns
    @LukeKorns 8 лет назад +1177

    I really like this

  • @ducktapeeverything
    @ducktapeeverything 8 лет назад +769

    Why did I start crying when she did 😭

    • @luise3916
      @luise3916 8 лет назад +6

      I did as well, just broke down in tears while realizing my grandparents have been gone for a year

    • @arielt3355
      @arielt3355 8 лет назад +8

      my grandparents are all still alive and I started crying as well

    • @allypie1963
      @allypie1963 8 лет назад

      me too, I just lost my grandma a year ago and I miss her so much

    • @giannaesposito819
      @giannaesposito819 8 лет назад

      I did too :(((

    • @nat-zq9wr
      @nat-zq9wr 8 лет назад

      I know i did too

  • @travelbesttips1
    @travelbesttips1 8 лет назад +333

    i cried when you started talking about your grandma, because is started to think of my own

  • @lucyandlydia
    @lucyandlydia 8 лет назад +412

    LOVED THIS! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

    • @beatriceloproto
      @beatriceloproto 8 лет назад +6

      +LucyAndLydia Why are you two everywhere? lol

    • @Richa.Shetty
      @Richa.Shetty 8 лет назад +2

      +Beatrice Lo Proto Says someone from a blank profile! Lol

    • @Hayleyyy1
      @Hayleyyy1 8 лет назад +1

      +Hello Gorgeous (Richa Shetty) what does that have to do with anything lmao

    • @Richa.Shetty
      @Richa.Shetty 8 лет назад +1

      SimsGamingLife It's a no brainer, they're everywhere and why, she asks, and she's equal to non existent!

    • @fallingforhealy
      @fallingforhealy 8 лет назад

      ILYSM LUCY AND LYDIA BTW I LIVE YOYR SINGING SNAPCHATS💕😂💁🏼

  • @CoversByAshleyV
    @CoversByAshleyV 8 лет назад +32

    When you started crying, I started tearing up

  • @mckellarfx7229
    @mckellarfx7229 8 лет назад +16

    You where probably the best birthday present your grandmother ever got :)

  • @KarissaPukas
    @KarissaPukas 8 лет назад +112

    I moved for a boy and it was the best thing I've ever done with my life :) 5 years, AUSTRALIA, a house and a puppy later, I couldn't imagine my life had I not bit the bullet and jumped. 😝💗

    • @jessicamatulick7248
      @jessicamatulick7248 8 лет назад +1

      Love you Karissa!

    • @faiAhmed94
      @faiAhmed94 8 лет назад +4

      then you are lucky :)

    • @madelinecmitchell
      @madelinecmitchell 8 лет назад

      same! Moved to boston for my boyfriend and learned so much about myself and grew so much in our relationship!

  • @mermaidsunicorn
    @mermaidsunicorn 8 лет назад +7

    This genuinely felt like an older sister talking to me & giving me advice while we are christmas baking

  • @istypayhorlikson
    @istypayhorlikson 8 лет назад +110

    your voice is so calming yet what you say is so empowering, I love this

  • @LaurDIY
    @LaurDIY 8 лет назад +1132

    THE FEELS ARE SO REAL, YA GOT ME TEARIN UP

    • @alexa
      @alexa  8 лет назад +21

      +LaurDIY aww thank you!! cry with me in la plz

    • @leonasmall8574
      @leonasmall8574 7 лет назад

      LaurDIY ily

  • @pingie9115
    @pingie9115 8 лет назад +111

    You're so pretty it's like wtf?!😖🙌🏼

  • @lucymoon
    @lucymoon 8 лет назад +20

    YOU'RE SO WISE

  • @lovelywhateverXD
    @lovelywhateverXD 8 лет назад +62

    This Video Makes ME happy 💜😍🔥

    • @lovelywhateverXD
      @lovelywhateverXD 8 лет назад +1

      anyone else?

    • @peppamitchell4275
      @peppamitchell4275 8 лет назад +1

      +Lovely “LovelyWhatever” Peace that's a lil rude cause she was crying everyone probably started crying how does that make you happy

    • @charlotte8659
      @charlotte8659 8 лет назад +1

      There are other parts of this video that show her strength and happiness. She may have been referring to that.

  • @eves8406
    @eves8406 8 лет назад +29

    the feels are so real i was crying when you were talking about you grandma and after this i went and spent some time with her thank you Alexa.

  •  8 лет назад +90

    2:30 started crying with you
    you are such a beautiful girl keep doing you Lexa and be* AWESOME*
    happy bday xx

  • @j.rod8
    @j.rod8 7 лет назад +5

    the moment you cried about your grandmother was honestly thee most candid moment i've seen on yt. this video made me subscribe. take care alexa

  • @ayaha8119
    @ayaha8119 8 лет назад +4

    this video made me sad and happy at the same time

  • @BuckleyBrittany
    @BuckleyBrittany 8 лет назад +3

    I started crying with you. My grandfather was one of my best friends and he passed away in April. The holidays are coming up and it's the first time we have to celebrate without him.

  • @haaveilla2166
    @haaveilla2166 8 лет назад +13

    So proud of you, you've grown into a beautiful and wise woman! :)

  • @meghanhughes
    @meghanhughes 8 лет назад +120

    FANTASTIC! FLIPPING! VIDEO!

  • @Bea-wi7oy
    @Bea-wi7oy 8 лет назад +5

    I genuinely like this video. Every lesson is like a piece of wisdom that you learn and can use throughout your life.

  • @lucyinthesky1991
    @lucyinthesky1991 8 лет назад +65

    I love being one of your subscribers. 😊 This video is great. Happy birthday!

    • @alexa
      @alexa  8 лет назад +30

      +lucyinthesky1991 thats such a sweet thing to say! I love having you here

  • @evacorcoran9147
    @evacorcoran9147 8 лет назад +20

    I love you alexa, thanks for being so real and honest

  • @fiona3470
    @fiona3470 7 лет назад +1

    you are one of the most authentic people on the internet

  • @techblogger8323
    @techblogger8323 8 лет назад +13

    When she said make a wish I wished her grandma happy birthday
    She must've been really nice 😊
    Happy 6 month late birthday Alexa

  • @jillianivany5417
    @jillianivany5417 8 лет назад

    subscribed for "the one thing no one can ever take away from you is your knowledge, and knowledge is the most powerful gift" PREACH GIRL

  • @ConanGray
    @ConanGray 8 лет назад +37

    this video is so good and yes, the scarlet letter is incredibly boring.

    • @anne156
      @anne156 7 лет назад

      Conan Gray CONAN WTF

    • @anne156
      @anne156 7 лет назад +1

      Lol how did No one notice u for a year

  • @fatimai19
    @fatimai19 8 лет назад

    I feel like Alexa would be a perfect best friend like she seems like a great person who would do anything for her friends.

  • @JamieKlotz
    @JamieKlotz 8 лет назад +26

    I am becoming obsessed with your videos and I don't not regret it one bit!!

  • @missmakebyjoanna
    @missmakebyjoanna 8 лет назад

    Right when you said "Appreciate your grandma" I ran downstairs & helped my grandma cook dinner. This was such an eye opening video! I'm glad there's people on this world like you❤️

  • @izzywilson5190
    @izzywilson5190 8 лет назад +11

    This is my favourite video on the internet. I've watched it over 10 times. So well said, and very inspiring I've never listened to a video and wanted to hear more in my entire life

    • @izzywilson5190
      @izzywilson5190 8 лет назад

      Btw I live with my grandparents and idolise them with every bit of my being

  • @lexiekramer
    @lexiekramer 8 лет назад

    When you started talking about your grandma I started crying. I miss my grandma too.💜

  • @ShannonLeighMusic
    @ShannonLeighMusic 8 лет назад +12

    you are such an inspiration to me. this video made me want to make friends with people that will really stand by me & it made me cry because I miss my grandma too. you're an amazing person & I'm so grateful that you remind me of my worth, too.

  • @gigglesgirls3847
    @gigglesgirls3847 8 лет назад

    I love how this was so honest and true but casual and not overly serious at the same time.

  • @BeautyByKat08
    @BeautyByKat08 8 лет назад +8

    When you started talking about your grandma I literally started crying so hard, that is such great advice

  • @KethiKreme
    @KethiKreme 8 лет назад

    when u mentioned your grandma it made me tear up and notice how much i miss my own grandma. LOVE THIS

  • @jamierego2390
    @jamierego2390 8 лет назад +6

    aw when you started crying I started to tear up 😢

  • @Rozana-bo2zs
    @Rozana-bo2zs 8 лет назад

    I can't stop crying now that you mentioned grandmothers :( its been 4 years since mine passed away and I still miss her every single night. May both of our grandmothers rest in peace ♥♥

  • @SarahBelleElizabeth
    @SarahBelleElizabeth 8 лет назад +9

    this was everything

  • @CassieRaeCashner
    @CassieRaeCashner 8 лет назад +1

    This is the most real I have ever seen you be in front of the camera. The sincerity in this is something that even editing can't take away. You're a gem and I hope you had a great birthday! :)

  • @RandomAwkwardWeird
    @RandomAwkwardWeird 8 лет назад +12

    I think I just got a new favorite youtube video

  • @ashley83097
    @ashley83097 8 лет назад

    I watched this video so many times and still cry every time you talk about your grandma because it makes me miss my grandma even more

  • @NicoleGrzeda
    @NicoleGrzeda 8 лет назад +4

    This is one of the best videos on RUclips!! You're amazing Alexa

  • @imagination_55
    @imagination_55 7 лет назад +1

    I'll be 21 tomorrow so im just watching this for some comfort, for some inspiration and because i just watched her "22 things i've learned at 22"

  • @sabssads
    @sabssads 8 лет назад +4

    Your grandma would be so proud of you :)

  • @fizamir6549
    @fizamir6549 8 лет назад +28

    it my birthday today as well!🙌🙌🎉

  • @Katherinehere123
    @Katherinehere123 4 года назад +1

    You are not on here much... but whenever I am down about life I always come back to this video. It helps me so much mentally. Thank you for this video!

  • @daniiel
    @daniiel 8 лет назад +81

    are you sad like adele was at 21?

  • @nickprocopis7844
    @nickprocopis7844 8 лет назад

    Awww when she cried about her grandma I cried bless her I love you alexa ❤️❤️❤️

  • @shalynhickem9216
    @shalynhickem9216 7 лет назад +5

    I feel you about spending as much time possible with grandparents because my grandpa and I have the same birthday also and I'm about to spend my birthday with him gone for the second time. It's tough

    • @katiecodd141
      @katiecodd141 7 лет назад +3

      shalyn hickem I'm spending my first birthday without my grandma this year... it's sad😔

  • @GabrielaCenturionNeumann
    @GabrielaCenturionNeumann 8 лет назад

    I miss all of my grandparents too :'( All 4 of them were awesome in their own way and I miss hugging them and listen to them talk about life and our families stories and showing me how to be a better person. I miss them so much

  • @dannypadilla
    @dannypadilla 8 лет назад +12

    Sometimes, I feel like RUclipsrs like myself feel as if they can't really learn a whole lot from other RUclipsrs (because somehow we already know it ALL). I'm proud to say that I learned a lot from this video and I'm so incredibly glad that I took the time to watch it. Alexa, it's so insanely obvious that this wisdom you have has truly come from 21 years of trial and error, and that's so amazing. I found myself identifying with pretty much every single one of these points (even the female-oriented ones), and I just wanted to say thanks for posting this. Here's to many more years :)))

  • @tammyhdz2921
    @tammyhdz2921 8 лет назад

    i actually started crying when you mentioned your grandma because it got me thinking about mine and how long she would be here with me

  • @celiazerafa
    @celiazerafa 8 лет назад +3

    This is actually by far one of the best and one of my favorite videos I have ever watched on RUclips. Happy Late Birthday, Alexa

  • @yesvember11
    @yesvember11 8 лет назад

    I'm so sorry about your grandma dear... mine just died this year, a few days before my 20th birthday, last month, so I almost broke into tears when you said spend as much time with your grandma as you can because she isn't going to be around forever. Lovely advice from a lovely lady.. happy birthday!

  • @ceciliawalker3221
    @ceciliawalker3221 8 лет назад +3

    Probably the most down to earth and intimate video I've ever watched. Everything you said was so true !!

  • @LilyFrye
    @LilyFrye 8 лет назад

    when you started talking about your Grandma I cried. So sorry, Alexa❤️

  • @ballisticbeuty2173
    @ballisticbeuty2173 8 лет назад +115

    Am I the only one who gets depressed about stupid things???

    • @hellohalo2463
      @hellohalo2463 8 лет назад +2

      Nope

    • @ballisticbeuty2173
      @ballisticbeuty2173 8 лет назад +4

      Btw I am not trying to joke or make fun of depression for anyone reading my comment

    • @Gordanmgleb
      @Gordanmgleb 7 лет назад +1

      elvian charina
      i stabbed a 300 punds pig

    • @jg9368
      @jg9368 7 лет назад +5

      Trust me it is not a stupid reason, if it is affecting you to the point that you are depressed then it is not stupid, it is important. I am also proud of you for saying this in a RUclips comment, you are amazing.

    • @sd-cy2cl
      @sd-cy2cl 5 лет назад

      when you’ve been depressed from so long, the smallest things can start to effect you in a big way. it’s okay, it happens to me too💕💕 feel better love

  • @beatrixmueller1590
    @beatrixmueller1590 8 лет назад

    I was tearing up while you were talking about your grandma😭 i love my grandma soooo much and can't even think about her not being around anymore...

  • @vervelingsfilmpjes
    @vervelingsfilmpjes 8 лет назад +5

    loved this !!! so down to earth !!

  • @quynciwisdom4189
    @quynciwisdom4189 8 лет назад +1

    This made me cry. BUT YES THE SCARLET LETTER WAS AWFUL, THANK YOU.

  • @rotsyliguar5036
    @rotsyliguar5036 7 лет назад +13

    I just came here from watching her do it for her 22 years 😄

  • @1997misia
    @1997misia 8 лет назад

    i cried when you talked about your grandma, i feel the same about my grandpa

  • @SydneyInfinity
    @SydneyInfinity 8 лет назад +2

    this is by far my favorite video you've ever made

  • @abelle5859
    @abelle5859 8 лет назад +1

    i teared up at the grandma part😢 i'm so sorry , beautiful video though thank you for making this.

  • @dveryan
    @dveryan 8 лет назад +68

    21s such a good number idk just me??? 😂

  • @hellodolly32
    @hellodolly32 6 лет назад +1

    I’ve watched this video at least 100 times. It’s weird to say, but this is my favorite video on the internet. Thank you for this.

  • @EloiseG_31
    @EloiseG_31 8 лет назад +3

    Alexa this is honestly my favourite video of urs, u have wisdom beyond ur years 💓

  • @grellsutcliff2974
    @grellsutcliff2974 8 лет назад

    you're so beautiful, don't let anyone ever make you feel like you're not. precious lil angel.

  • @TheBubblegumsongs
    @TheBubblegumsongs 8 лет назад +3

    by far my favorite video of yours

  • @jennifercharles9975
    @jennifercharles9975 6 лет назад

    I love her personality. She's so genuine and real

  • @kristawilliams1417
    @kristawilliams1417 7 лет назад +4

    15 things I have learned in my fifteen years: 1: don't let anyone's words define who you are. 2: have ONE wallet. 3: listen to your best friend...if she is a good example. 4: BE YOUtiful 5: popcorn is the best snack on the go. 6: talk to yourself, it's healthy for you. 7: music Is a way to get away from life, use it. 8: be the kindest person you can be, don't be a bitch. 9: don't be fake, your friends won't like it, and I take that from personal experience. 10: change, it's good and healthy, do something that you hang on to, for me it's my hair, so I'm planning that next time I get my hair cut I'm chopping it all off to shoulder length. 11: you don't need a lot of friends, you just need a few really close ones. 12: learn or try a musical instrument, I didn't want to do piano but I loved it that I've been playing for 6 years. 13: get a fish. 14: wait to date. 15: last but not least be confident, or...just try.

  • @thecreativehermit
    @thecreativehermit 8 лет назад

    I kind of teared a little when you started talking about your grandmother. I lost my grandmother too and I miss when she would call me on my birthday and make me laugh. Tomorrow's my birthday and even though its been two years that she's gone I really miss her phone calls. I miss hearing her voice.

  • @MonikaRosaable
    @MonikaRosaable 8 лет назад +7

    My mom is more of the finance person than my dad 😂 she's great

  • @user-xd7co6ix6g
    @user-xd7co6ix6g 8 лет назад

    the emotions spread from her to me, love this. Honestly so meaningful

  • @laurenb1277
    @laurenb1277 7 лет назад +6

    I just discovered your channel 5 minutes ago and all I want to be is best friends with you

  • @katefeary3193
    @katefeary3193 8 лет назад

    the part about her grandma made me tear up:(( so beautiful xx

  • @usvlife
    @usvlife 8 лет назад +27

    does anyone else find it sad that she's making her own birthday cake :(

    • @Sunshine1795i
      @Sunshine1795i 7 лет назад +5

      usvlife i think so. but i love to hear that "sometimes being alone doesn't mean to be lonely" maybe she do love more to share her birthday with her fans.

  • @MilaJenny
    @MilaJenny 8 лет назад

    My mom is ALWAYS right too haha. I once saw this quote that said, "The older I get, the more I realize that my mom is one of the bestest friends I'll ever have."

  • @ameerahfawehinmi8653
    @ameerahfawehinmi8653 8 лет назад +20

    I'm muslim in high school 10th grade and have one friend sometimes I feel lonely like at lunch when she's not there I guess I hv social aniexty and don't nw if it is a problem and because I were I veil on my head I feel like I'm nt attractive because some people don't socialize with me any advice

    • @sabssads
      @sabssads 8 лет назад

      Hey, if you don't mind me giving you advice.. I'd love to chat w/ you on twitter if you have it?

    • @ameerahfawehinmi8653
      @ameerahfawehinmi8653 8 лет назад

      Yes I do

    • @ameerahfawehinmi8653
      @ameerahfawehinmi8653 8 лет назад

      Saba Sadia​It's accept200

    • @marya.6689
      @marya.6689 8 лет назад +1

      Just because you're different than others doesn't mean that you're bad or not attractive actually it makes you unique.You're beautiful :) I know what's like not to have friends in school and feeling lonely it kinda sucks but if you need any kinda online friends you can write me :D

    • @ameerahfawehinmi8653
      @ameerahfawehinmi8653 8 лет назад +1

      Maryam Alizade tht feels beautiful to hear thank u

  • @nataliea7507
    @nataliea7507 8 лет назад +1

    This was the absolute sweetest thing, oh my goodness. I started crying when she did😭 have a beautiful birthday you sweet person😍

  • @manelumi
    @manelumi 8 лет назад +3

    i just lost my grand ma recently i was so emotional

  • @paulinaskowronska6961
    @paulinaskowronska6961 8 лет назад +1

    this is your greatest video, not because it's well-edited or has great outfits or cool music but because it's honest and relatable. Love you, Alexa and happy bday!!!

  • @CrazyLyn013
    @CrazyLyn013 8 лет назад +3

    I love the part you said about education. Like seriously as boring as it can be school is important.

    • @JungianHeights
      @JungianHeights 6 лет назад

      Livi's Vlog Not if it's boring. You did tomorrow and the last thing you did was boring. A waste of life. I will always resent the time forced in to school. Absolutely disgusting that it happened.

  • @csk1452
    @csk1452 8 лет назад +1

    you have really gotten so likable and relatable over the years i was originally subscribed for the fashion stuff but i feel like im still actually here more for you now because youre so real

  • @baraom2011
    @baraom2011 8 лет назад +5

    can't be the only one who thinks she looks like Lindsay?

  • @BrendalfTheGlitter
    @BrendalfTheGlitter 8 лет назад

    when you started crying i teared up and realized how much I miss my grandma again :(( She died when I was 7 so I don't have many memories but I do remember how important she was (and still is) to me

  • @backstagewithcaitlin
    @backstagewithcaitlin 8 лет назад +4

    YOU'RE 21???? JESUS FUCKING CHRIST FIRST THING I FIND YOUR CHANNEL A 17-YEAR-OLD ALEXA AND NOW YOU'RE 21???

  • @ilakumar6122
    @ilakumar6122 8 лет назад

    Thanks for being here for us

  • @21yellowjello
    @21yellowjello 8 лет назад

    Started crying so much when you talked about your grandma.
    My next birthday will be my first one without my grandma as well.

  • @kitty1230la
    @kitty1230la 8 лет назад +1

    I kind of loved how you baked a cake while doing this. It makes it casual and comfortable and it made me really happy :)

  • @Lozzzaaa55
    @Lozzzaaa55 8 лет назад

    Oh god i started crying when you mentioned your Grandma, my Pop passed away two weeks ago, he was such a sweet man. I am also 21, and some of those things you have learned, I have also learned. Stay true to yourself Alexa, you're going to be just fine :) xx

    • @Lozzzaaa55
      @Lozzzaaa55 8 лет назад

      +Lozzzaaa55 and HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

  • @HaleySchumann
    @HaleySchumann 8 лет назад

    I've watched this multiple times and I cry everytime you bring up your grandma because it reminds me of my own, I love this video so much

  • @tiarosaliedarling
    @tiarosaliedarling 7 лет назад +1

    i got sent to your channel by mel joy and i honestly think this one of the best things to have ever happened to me. i watched your 3 letters to boys you've love and your morning routine and this one, alexa you are honestly he most pure you tuber I've ever come across. you're you, and i relate to you so much, as if you're like the older sister I've ever wanted. according to tray you turn 22 in two days, and i hope its as magical as the love and truth you spread to everyone you encounter

  • @miroscovarrubias5594
    @miroscovarrubias5594 8 лет назад

    THIS IS MY FAVORITE VIDEO YOU'VE MADE: you are so down-to-earth in it and it seems like this is the real YOU. I loved it. Thank you.

  • @sophiagraham1480
    @sophiagraham1480 8 лет назад

    one of the most genuine videos I've ever seen

  • @GeorgiexoxoTV
    @GeorgiexoxoTV 8 лет назад +2

    You're so wise Alexa! Wishing you a very happy birthday and incredible year ahead xoxo

  • @carolinesantosalvr5590
    @carolinesantosalvr5590 8 лет назад +1

    I started thinking about my grandma, because we share the same birthday too and I miss her a lot (cried with you also.)
    Anyways, awesome video lex, you are so grounded and real and I love that about you! Keep doing what your doing girl❤️

  • @eleniplota4578
    @eleniplota4578 8 лет назад

    my grandma & I also have the same birthday...I'm so very close to her and I don't want to lose her. Happy birthday, you're a true inspiration and you've probably experienced a lot!

  • @puntco
    @puntco 8 лет назад +1

    I don't know who you are. I don't know how I came across your video. But I do know you made me cry and I just subscribed.