5 HOBBIES INFJs LOVE (but aren’t aware of)

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    INFJ Life Coach Lesson: INFJs are rare, which means they may not realize these five hobbies that make them happy. They have a difficult time finding true companionship because of their introverted nature and enjoy spending time alone. So when it comes down to entertainment or enjoyment there's really nothing better than engaging in the five hobbies we talk about today.
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  • @Wenzes
    @Wenzes  Год назад +50

    What are some of your favorite hobbies that seem INFJ-related?

    • @jessmason2112
      @jessmason2112 Год назад +18

      Hydroponics, Masonic ideology, and ideology as a whole, gardening, reading, politics, and psychology. Smart video.💯

    • @kieuhanh.027
      @kieuhanh.027 Год назад +15

      typologies, universe laws ie laws of attractions, universal dimensions, healing practices, psychology ie subconscious, dreams, shadows; spirituality

    • @m2pozad
      @m2pozad Год назад +9

      I'm fascinated by my nearly insatiable appetite for collecting watches. It's so nerdy and non-action oriented. It may be driven by my viewing RUclips watch videos. So yes, others' interest sparked my interest in a surprising way.

    • @johnrage8163
      @johnrage8163 Год назад +3

      Pacific Northwest geology Will it run Heavy equipment Precious metals Stoicism Civilization searching for the elegant solution As little farming as possible

    • @sigmainfjbulgaria4478
      @sigmainfjbulgaria4478 Год назад +3

      Point 3 is one of the things I most aware of in this list. The bad side is when you begin to collect unrealized startups. It's not that they are actually unrealized, but only in our head and that's important thing to know - how many of your ideas are worth your phisical effords and how many of them will always stay in your head and get them out of your fantasy world will actually make you less satisfy. It's tipical for me to think with lot of enthusiasm about an idea and after the mental fireworks I actually need nothing more. Phisical work and phisical reality will never be in the list of things we are best in. As about the hobbys that I'm aware the list is long: transport, photography, cars, motorbikes and long variety of vehicles and technical stuff about them, history, politics, philosophy, collecting stuff like my over 2500 pens, my room is full of old toy cars, trucks, I almost have no place for me.
      😆

  • @l.e.5141
    @l.e.5141 Год назад +238

    I always find myself researching or falling into a rabbit hole for the most random things. Example: I'll watch a movie and then feel the need to look it up on Google to read reviews, learn more about the cast, director, and how the movie came about or I'll do this while I'm watching the movie lol. It's weird but knowing the plot doesn't ruin it for me because it helps me understand the characters more and I can pick up on subtle details and meanings that I may have missed. My husband thinks it's the weirdest thing ever but I don't care. 😂

    • @legna4011
      @legna4011 Год назад +22

      🤣🤣 finally! Someone else who does the movie research thing! I must add that I read all the credits at the end of a film until the last full stop 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @l.e.5141
      @l.e.5141 Год назад +9

      @@legna4011 😂😂 That's hilariously awesome. I'm not the only one!

    • @julielynnerose
      @julielynnerose Год назад +6

      I do that every time!

    • @erickelly4107
      @erickelly4107 Год назад +5

      Yes!

    • @patticharron3161
      @patticharron3161 Год назад +9

      Ditto! I end up ordering the book on which a movie is based, research the author, dig into his/her life, associations, etc. Definitely rabbit hole stuff!

  • @drunkindonuts13
    @drunkindonuts13 Год назад +203

    Maybe we should make a list of our weirdest INFJ hobbies. Mine are these:
    1.) Finding out what the parking is going to be like before I go somewhere. I MUST DO THIS.
    2.) Watching to see how long it takes for that parent to look up from their phone and pay attention to their kid
    3.) Using Dollar Tree junk to make a "fancy" centerpiece for the table, then spending over $200 on organic food for the dinner
    4.) Writing a strongly worded email, editing it, rethinking it, rewriting it, using my thesaurus, only to delete it before ever sending
    5.) Watching the lines move in the store and trying to guess which one will be the fastest, then trying to decide whether or not I should switch lines or stay put, then trying to add up all my purchases in my head so I know almost exactly how much I'll be paying

    • @TheWisdomOfTheAges_PsyM_Revd
      @TheWisdomOfTheAges_PsyM_Revd Год назад +21

      Your quote: "4.) Writing a strongly worded email, editing it, rethinking it, rewriting it, using my thesaurus, only to delete it before ever sending". This must somewhat hurt. So I'm going to share with you my tip. What I do if I "tergiversate" to send an email to somebody (or not) is that I send it to myself so that the work and sweat is not entirely lost. Nevertheless, I must immediately add that I am not 20 years old anymore so this could at least partially explain why we are behaving differently regarding the topic of an email "being lost or not". Thank you for taking the time to share your list.

    • @mlbullbooks
      @mlbullbooks Год назад +12

      This list made me chuckle because I do some of them myself...lol 😅

    • @deannatodd6027
      @deannatodd6027 Год назад +4

      Lol I resonate so much with this list! Especially #’s 4 & 5! Well done.

    • @The_Butcher_Of_Bakersfield
      @The_Butcher_Of_Bakersfield Год назад +3

      I feel attacked lol

    • @c_mendes
      @c_mendes Год назад +6

      I’m and INFJ and number 4 is the story of my life 😂🤣

  • @TheWisdomOfTheAges_PsyM_Revd
    @TheWisdomOfTheAges_PsyM_Revd Год назад +234

    1- we'd like to do something but we don't feel like doing it
    2- we love to understand mysteries
    3- We're good at creating something with very little information
    4- Optimizing. So why not optimizing our personal lives?
    5- Rebelling 🙂

    • @madhvishukla4332
      @madhvishukla4332 Год назад +25

      Rebelling 🤣🤣 me all the time

    • @obadijahparks
      @obadijahparks Год назад +1

      Even with the foresaid points. One through four are optional. We confuse everyone! XD

    • @interludemediasg
      @interludemediasg Год назад +1

      @@madhvishukla4332 definitely a hobby of mine too haha

    • @madhvishukla4332
      @madhvishukla4332 Год назад

      @@interludemediasg 👍😆😊

    • @Chebab-Chebab
      @Chebab-Chebab Год назад +13

      Rebelling? Don't tell me what to do. I'll conform, just to spite you.

  • @Betscu.
    @Betscu. Год назад +127

    One could say we are almost addicted to emotions and also to deeper understanding of things. It was great fun to recognize these hobbies we have.

    • @Tified967
      @Tified967 Год назад

      This is much more of an Fi-Ni convergent cognition. Cognitive INFJs are primarily abstract rationalists in the Jungian sense. However, Fi-Ni convergents are of course a wonderful type 😊

  • @devilsnettle
    @devilsnettle Год назад +105

    As an older INFJ in my 50's, I enjoyed the way you categorized what we do as hobbies. I did not look at it that way. Now I can't stop smiling.

    • @maximinoblas1171
      @maximinoblas1171 Год назад +6

      I'm 59. December 5th. 🎂 🥳 🎉 🎈 🎁 🎊I. Understand.

    • @friedarisse8283
      @friedarisse8283 Год назад +5

      I wonder if one becomes an INFJ or is just born that way. Because I was an INTJ until adulthood and only after accepting my feelings after some illumination experiences, I became this way. What about you?

    • @SugarBooger10
      @SugarBooger10 Год назад +1

      Same ☺️

    • @devilsnettle
      @devilsnettle Год назад +3

      I was born an INFJ. There is a dear friend in my life who is an INTJ, so we definitely know the difference. We enjoy sharing our intuitive insights with each other.

    • @matilda4406
      @matilda4406 Год назад +3

      @@friedarisse8283 this is a popular question. Born or made. Well our brain connections are first formed then our spine, organs, etc. We are born with a fully functioning brain and personality. Sure, we keep developing into adulthood and fully grown up mentally, psychologically by 25-30 years. If we are connected to have NI dominate, Fe to closely follow on, Ti a good back up and Se when we really have to, then good luck in changing that. I would say we are all born with a distinct personality.

  • @jackylove8
    @jackylove8 Год назад +7

    I love watching people play videogames but I myself hate playing videogames and feel that when I try to play videogames it's a waste of time.

    • @KarolHofman
      @KarolHofman Год назад

      Same here! I thought that's a weird thing of mine

  • @margiebraudrick6052
    @margiebraudrick6052 Год назад +15

    I've always felt different. I remember my mom telling me that at 10 months old I became potty trained. I was the first child so my mom was super prepared for me. I couldn't walk or even talk at 10 months old. She was holding me and I pointed to the wooden potty chair she had for me. I kept pointing and so she sat on me on it. At that very instant I was potty trained. I was a nurse for 38 years. I was very organized and very timely and was able to multitask. I had this boss, Jamie. She started a travel nursing business. I had just arrived home from a 6 month assignment in California. My sister pointed out the business. I went in applied for a nursing job traveling around central and western ND. I took the month of June off. She called me every week to see if I could start early. I ended up being one of her best nurses. She sent me to every new facility that she signed in a new contract. She paid me very well! She saw my special gifts and paid me handsomely. I was accused of not doing my work, because I was always finished due to my organization, timeliness and multitasking. She worked when she had an empty shift she couldn't fill. So she saw me at my best and taught her many things. I was a pragmatist, if I saw a problem I was able to come up with a solution to the problem and fix it. I'm creative with crafting, decorating, cooking and baking, I love reading and being informed. I have become interested in political discussions and can hold my own. I am really reserved and have a very large vocabulary and use it often. So I would say these are my creative elements of myself!

    • @violetalar5387
      @violetalar5387 Год назад +3

      The potty part made me smile. My mother told me that one day she sat me down and explained to me (I started to speak very soon) that I was going to go to nursery care and I needed to learn how to use the potty. Apparently I said "ok", I learnt that same day and I never used diapers ever again.

    • @goodman9291
      @goodman9291 4 месяца назад

      That was wonderful! Congratulations 🎉

  • @deborahwolff5651
    @deborahwolff5651 Год назад +6

    I love to cook, bake, paint, take walk and read

  • @peggyhower4305
    @peggyhower4305 Год назад +4

    I'm 64, and I love watching nature. Just watching, not naming and categorizing. I never fit in with most nature watchers because I don't care to learn the genus and species, and I don't want to classify or have goals to achieve. I just want to watch, appreciate, and imagine what the lives of the animals are like and why they might be doing this or that. Also numbers and inanimate objects have personalities for me. These things come alive in my mind. When I studied writing and linguistics and wrote poetry, essays, stories, etc., I was deeply involved and published some writing. But overall, I didn't and don't have an interest in the competitive world of publishing. I have felt like a failure so many times because of it. Now I know - it was my hobby, not a failed career. I love editing and tutoring - these are my forever hobbies and have become the bulk of my career. Thank you for helping me understand my life, Wenzes!

  • @LLawlietFreak
    @LLawlietFreak Год назад +16

    100% true.. I'm seriously addicted to watch dance performances and to watch how much other people love to dance. My friend always tells me I ought to stop dreaming about dancing and finally start doing it and yeah, I kinda would like to learn, but whenever I try, I start missing that passion I saw in everyone else and give up, feeling inadequate. Watching your video now, I finally realise that what you said about loving other people doing their hobby is actually really what I'm in love with, so THANK YOU for finally making me understand what this really is about and there's no reason for me to feel depressed about it anymore.

    • @Richannplayshop
      @Richannplayshop Год назад +4

      Isn't this wonderful. Me too, I have enjoyed so many reality type tv shows obstacle course, dancing, designing clothes, cooking, etc. And, personally I feel uncomfortable with the ego-drama. However, it's them fulfilling their passions and the resolution of the drama and personal growth that I can't seem to ever get enough of.

  • @cynthiae6230
    @cynthiae6230 Год назад +30

    When you mentioned liking to solve mysteries, it makes me wonder if my interest in conspiracy theories is sort of like a hobby. Others often think it's about fear, but it isn't at all.

    • @AmyMichelleMosier
      @AmyMichelleMosier Год назад +3

      And the paranormal ...

    • @verasmith1900
      @verasmith1900 Год назад +1

      I feel the same way!! Interesting! 🤗

    • @hypatia4754
      @hypatia4754 Год назад

      Me too. I don't believe any of it, but I like the romance of the mystery, I guess. It expands the imagination.

  • @TheGoose1020
    @TheGoose1020 Год назад +10

    You know, I don't really feel lucky having the world's rarest personality type. It is just so deeply lonely.... But at the same time, I don't really want to socialize. The socially anxiety doesn't help either.

    • @Danielle-kn3qg
      @Danielle-kn3qg Год назад

      I just stumbled onto this video. I didn’t know it was a rare personality. That does explain why I don’t know and have never met anyone like me. It is lonely and I always feel out of place. I didn’t know what to attribute to before. I thought it was just me, that I was the biggest weirdo around. I feel you friend.

  • @caliokiegrownoklahoma4119
    @caliokiegrownoklahoma4119 Год назад +5

    Omg! Im a professional optmizer! Every move i make is preplanned so everthing has flow. I always refer to myself as lazy so i work smarter not harder. Every moment of my day has been chopped and spliced and edited rewritten reinvented and customized to my standards! Lol. Born rebel! All the way. I do i want how and when i want . I follow my instinct and intuition in every decision. my moto has always been "f" what people think! 😆 The company i work for allows autonomy with his managment team . I love it because i hate being micromanaged. I love working with and around people, but i despise imaturity and fakeness of humanity!

  • @jfp3earth357
    @jfp3earth357 Год назад +9

    I am an Autistic INFJ and my favorite Hobby is Railfaning. I love watching Trains and hearing their Horns

    • @aprilcozad7971
      @aprilcozad7971 Год назад +1

      I count the horns and how many they do...usually about 8🙂

    • @pie_koo8382
      @pie_koo8382 Месяц назад

      Omg I also love to hear train whistle and I love watch train too by counting their boggy

  • @JoePAcalaughs
    @JoePAcalaughs Год назад +9

    Sounds like a good book title.
    "The Ultimate Guide to the Quiet Quit" by INFJ. 🤣

  • @ronalt646
    @ronalt646 Год назад +6

    Philosophy, psychology, writing, dancing, building furniture from wood, learning something new, interpreting economic news for the stock market, riding a motorcycle although I am fucking scared Sometimes (lol), traveling alone. The Last two were hard Work 😄 but Love it!

  • @joefromravenna
    @joefromravenna Год назад +3

    I used to enjoy hanging out with dad and his going to stamp shows and doing stuff around his stamps. And sitting in kitchen as mom cooked. And mom loved to cook.

  • @kinglewisjtl24
    @kinglewisjtl24 Год назад +14

    Does shift around piles of books count as a hobby?
    Prioritizing yearly reading lists?
    Collecting candles and incense?
    Art shopping?(or atleast window shopping)
    Motivating others to do something creative(or creatively).
    Support starving artists / musicians / activists with our inspiration, network and or money / direct engagement
    Forgetting to do chores
    Analyzing systems (from ecological to socio-economic to organ systems to relationships of ideas)
    Juxtaposing systems, insights, experiences(from words, shapes, colors, to movies, proverbs, cosmologies, democracy, biodiversity etc) - essentially poetry
    These are all atleast true for me

    • @mashalahmad4705
      @mashalahmad4705 Год назад +1

      damn I can relate with all this so much.

    • @julielynnerose
      @julielynnerose Год назад +1

      Me too lol

    • @maybee...
      @maybee... Год назад

      This was funny, I make lists all the time.
      It's become so bad that I actually use excel spreadsheets, from my budget to my gardening and needlepoint projects. I haven't created a spreadsheet for my books yet, though I like the idea.

  • @mr.goodwrench8273
    @mr.goodwrench8273 Год назад +15

    What are some of my favorite hobbies that seem INFJ-related? Out of the five that you mentioned, rebellion is the one hobby I find myself doing. Not rebelling in the careless way. Rebelling because I am not doing the same things everyone else is doing. For instance: My main hobby is automotive restoration. Most guys will purchase an engine already built and ready to run out of the box and pay someone else to do the things they either don't want to do or don't know how to do. As for me, I take the position of "Built, not bought!". I built my own engine, transmission, and everything else to how I want it to perform and look. I have done everything. I just simply wanted my own touch to it. One of a kind. Like me. I also have done it this way because it's not easy. Yet, I have enjoyed myself. Going against the grain is fun.

  • @billfarley9167
    @billfarley9167 Год назад +61

    You just described most of my life. (now 90) I've never seen them as hobbies, but you've given me something that I will chew on because it makes sense. I've been called a shit disturber many times over the years, especially when I was a community activist/advocate. I remember once a government employee, whom I knew quite well and liked, approached me on the street and told me that at a recent in-house meeting his superiors told everyone they were not allowed to associate or be seen with me in public places. My reaction was one of mirth and the conclusion that I must be effective in what I was doing. Love your videos Wenzes and enjoy connecting all the dots in my life.

    • @rhondareed9385
      @rhondareed9385 Год назад +4

      Lol! Are you sure you aren’t ENTP?

    • @taraleckey1464
      @taraleckey1464 Год назад +3

      You were too intelligent and courageous 😉🙏

  • @annchurchill2638
    @annchurchill2638 Год назад +2

    I love to watch this guy who once a week, clear the property ( for free)for someone who cannot do it for themselves. It takes almost an hour to cut down overgrown bushes and trees and a lot of mowing the lawn. I will sit and watch this for an hour.

  • @flamesintheattic
    @flamesintheattic Год назад +4

    Rebellion as a hobby. LOL, yup.

  • @thevoid186
    @thevoid186 Год назад +6

    Building something from the ground up instead of coming into something already established.
    Excelling under stress.

  • @letsgetreal670
    @letsgetreal670 Год назад +5

    Regarding optimizing, I have always described to people that we need to find the easiest and simplest way to complete a given task correctly. Most people don’t get I because we have always been told there is only one way to do a particular task correctly. Rebelling, definitely a part of me. I have never been one to join the crowd and it has served me very well.

  • @tonip2614
    @tonip2614 Год назад +3

    Thank you for the new perspective, I now dont feel like a total weirdo since I relate to all 5 of them.
    I have always loved watching my sister get ready to go out. From styling her hair to doing her face and choosing a perfume- it just facinates me how much care and self love she puts into a semingly irrelevant event. But to her, it makes her feel good and she just lets me be the quiet observer; I love this more than anything.
    I learnt to crochet so that I can have new things to try all the time, sometimes it means pulling it all out and starting fresh all over again just to keep me engaged with the colour set that I had chosen. I have accepted this as part of my hobby and not a set back.
    Mysteries are my favourite and many rabbit holes later, I have decided that they are easier to break free from if presentented in a text format. With the number of dissertations I have read, I could have been a doctor by now 😅
    Optimization is one that I have always seen as a skill, many companies have benefited from my approach to minimal effort for maximum output.
    And finally, rebellion.. this one made me laugh. It brought back a memory of a dream that I had as a teenager where I loudly declared in the middle of a grocery store that I was not a sheep. That I could walk my own path, despite everyone else being part of a train-like curcuit with their shopping carts.
    Onwards and upwards with a new perspective ❤

  • @nastyasch6680
    @nastyasch6680 Год назад +16

    Fist one is really on point. I love to watch people gossip because there are so much going on, they are so excited. But when it comes to, gossiping it feels so wrong, like what I do is against my morale code, so I'm a bad person now 😵‍💫. This was really confusing for me

    • @darlingsmith5
      @darlingsmith5 Год назад +2

      Wow thank you for sharing that I feel the exact same way, my friends always joke that I zone out whenever they’re gossiping and in a way I am? I’m not necessarily participating but I love just observing them and being there. I also feel like it conflicts with my own morals and never found joy in it although I do notice that it brings my friends closer, I just can’t justify doing it myself.

  • @light5634
    @light5634 Год назад +16

    About 5 - I love doing something new, unexplored, but I struggle with perfection around it. I'm scared I'm not going to do it the best way it can be done and I worry I don't know enough about the subject.
    Otherwise I do agree will all 5 points 🎉

    • @VKRollins
      @VKRollins Год назад

      I understand what you mean. I have shifted my perfectionism to the process and not necessarily the end result when trying something new. It allows for failing as a learning process which I love.

  • @LouMannion
    @LouMannion Год назад +1

    I love taking pictures of people in art galleries, just totally absorbed. People don't know how cute they are. Honestly I see people like people see puppies.

  • @ruthpearsall2618
    @ruthpearsall2618 Год назад +2

    I have a group of close friends. Their passions including: gambling in Las Vegas, astronomy,golf, going on road trips in their vintage car, buying and doing up a house in Spain, singing in a choir, etc. I genuinely love listening to them talk about their hobbies but feel no interest in doing any of them myself. I suspect I’m strange….

  • @thevoid186
    @thevoid186 Год назад +4

    Efficiency. Do the most with the least amount of effort.

  • @marcp.1752
    @marcp.1752 Год назад +6

    I love Art, i love to go to museums, and i enjoy lifelong the hobby photography.

  • @meganhofbauer9847
    @meganhofbauer9847 Год назад +23

    I just recently realize that I am INFJ I’m 51 years old and I’m getting all the answers. I’ve been looking for my entire life since I was a small child and people first started lying to me everyone. It’s very overwhelming, but finally not being alone learning about myself and why I do things the way I do, so far you’re my favorite teacher my entire life I’ve been searching for someone like me some sign that there’s somebody else on this planet like me and I’m finding lots of them. Thank God. Right now this is the most important thing in my life, and it will be for quite some time, I love how you explain things so incredibly clearly thank you maybe I do get to end up doing something good in my life.

    • @craigbarrett2278
      @craigbarrett2278 Год назад +3

      I was the same 5 years ago, my whole existence made sense!
      It brings some peace of mind....

    • @kimlec3592
      @kimlec3592 Год назад +1

      Maybe you are doing good already...and just don't realise it..

    • @kickstartonly2527
      @kickstartonly2527 Год назад +5

      I’m 41 and just finding out as well! I feel so much better 😊
      I can’t believe all the years I’ve spent wondering what was wrong with me 🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @amjPeace
    @amjPeace Год назад +5

    Thank you so much for this insight, Wenzes! I have been thinking about my "hobbies" as faults! Optimization is not laziness! Seeking novelty is not a failure to follow through. etc. I feel alot better about myself right now. Also, instead of feeling bad about myself for "rocking the boat" by not going along with the crowd, it's time to feel good about my ability to design new solutions and to ignore those people who try to bring me down because they're not comfortable thinking outside the box.

  • @Onmytree
    @Onmytree Год назад +5

    I think you could resume the first by we love watching documentary, biopic and reading autobiography

  • @micavale2016
    @micavale2016 Год назад +11

    I don't usually leave comments but there's something about the whole video that really left me in awe. Watching this video felt like I was talking to a stranger describing me LOL like how can you know me so well?! 😂 I couldn't agree more about EVERYTHING that is just so me! It made me realize a lot of things that I've been actually doing. MIND BLOWING literally 😅 And it actually kind of explained to me why I think and act and made such decisions a certain way. I made decisions this year where it's kind of rebellious I guess but to me I just knew I had to make that decision now or I would regret not doing it later in my life. I subscribed already before I even got to half of the video LOL I think I found a lifesaver 🥰 I'm glad I found this!

    • @Richannplayshop
      @Richannplayshop Год назад

      So happy for you! I feel this way, as well. Just this week found her videos, and this one was just so mind-blowingly resonant that I HAD to comment (separately) for the first time.

  • @SLDass
    @SLDass 8 месяцев назад +1

    Similar to Yoda exploring the dark side, but without succumbing to it. I found myself in that position. I observed other people engaging in it and learned from it. I used only my empathy, not actually engaging in it physically. I experienced it, but I didn't genuinely embrace it; my primary goal was to understand the dark side, to comprehend why its practitioners were drawn to it. It was more about gathering information and delving into the psychological aspects of it.

  • @reymoncadacio1094
    @reymoncadacio1094 Год назад +2

    Rebelling meaning "go against the flow" is always my motto.

  • @dannotdanny
    @dannotdanny Год назад +1

    Optimisation is my obsession. Unfortunately, I often spend more time trying to reinvent the wheel than just doing a task in an inefficient way to get it done.
    I have, however, turned my obsession into a profession and so I now work in the field of robotic process automation.
    You would not believe how much patience you need to explain over and over again to someone that “if you just click this button once, the rest will get taken care of.”
    Fun times 🎉

  • @mariana333
    @mariana333 Год назад +3

    Well, I'm a multimedia artist.

  • @davedeblaey8454
    @davedeblaey8454 Год назад +10

    When I was married I enjoyed observing the reactions of my two ex's to the world; it was like a yin observing a yang. Other than that, really enjoy studying war, history, and the creative process of others.

  • @renlerose7964
    @renlerose7964 2 месяца назад

    When it's comes to people..We INFJ love to solve mysteries, understand emotion and destroy ego.

  • @londonboycj4602
    @londonboycj4602 Год назад +2

    I have a craft room,evertime i start a craft i bye everything i need for it (as if im a pro😅) then get bored with that and move on to another craft and the same pattern happens everytime...now i have a room full off stuff that i think i will get back into the same craft again,but probably wont lol...

  • @Mhyreade
    @Mhyreade Год назад +1

    I wish I had always known I was an INFJ. When I was a kid I said I wanted to be a systems analyst. I never got to be that but it would have been a great career for me! Analyze, understand, design, repeat.

  • @marymiller8370
    @marymiller8370 Год назад +2

    Spot on. I literally switched to your video from a fashion video 😂

  • @YAMISOOLD2009
    @YAMISOOLD2009 Год назад +21

    This was helpful Wenzes. I have been a life long "optimizer". It is as natural as rain to me to try to make something simpler and easier. Probably because I like to conserve energy and not work harder than I have to. You gave me a Eureka moment because you classified that as a "hobby". Yes! That fits. No matter how hard I have tried to adopt conventional hobbies like fishing, building models, etc. they have never really been satisfying. I think the old adage of "you are what you do" is true and we INFJs just need to be prodded into recognizing it. If you like to re arrange your bookshelf regularly than that is your hobby!

  • @xtradelite903
    @xtradelite903 Год назад +1

    I’m a gay INFJ and I believe studying to be a sacred act. Basically, how monks would learn, study, copy; that environment for understanding. Not in a rush, and in complete silence. I’m 52, atheist, and this is where I am at on my journey to health and happiness. At this point, I don’t know if, or when, people will be a part of the picture. Being alone (not lonely) is where I find myself realizing my potential and endeavors. I don’t need to explain or prove myself to anyone. We have a right to pursue happiness in this country (USA).

  • @Jules-bf2wu
    @Jules-bf2wu Год назад +6

    Bang bang... you nailed it!!!❤️In regards to the first hobby, watching or listening to someone share what they're passionate about for me, is that glimpse into their heart & getting to witness pure joy in action!❤️Thanks for claiming optimization as a hobby, lol, I just thought I was either really lazy &/or perpetually procrastinating!!! My sister & I have driven family & friends crazy with our zest for details!😄 I've never identified it as rebellious, I've left many conversations with the person(s), scratching their heads like "what?" I seldom find myself in discussions, where I don't immediately derail what's being presented to me. I don't mean that I don't listen to what the other's offering. Nor do I come off like I'm superior or a know it all. I genuinely am open to knowledge & therefore I instinctively feel the need to filter the bs out. Then we can have a real conversation/discussion. Then we all be on the right path to, or simply arrive at the truth of the matter! Love your incites!!!❤️ You're a jewel!! ❤️You're the best!❤️

  • @drewyoda
    @drewyoda Год назад

    This video I love.

  • @richardrenzetti4775
    @richardrenzetti4775 Год назад

    You really nailed it with this one.

  • @trevorvaz7109
    @trevorvaz7109 Год назад

    Very concise and eloquent! ❤❤❤

  • @debbielynn1715
    @debbielynn1715 Год назад

    Wow!! Spot on

  • @jennifercatherinekarel8925
    @jennifercatherinekarel8925 Год назад

    So true! I’ve never had it verbalized before. You helped me see it clearly. ThankYou.

  • @estebannestares2745
    @estebannestares2745 Год назад

    Brilliant Wenzes! Love it.

  • @mashalahmad4705
    @mashalahmad4705 Год назад +13

    Love this video and can definitely relate with all of this...
    I love watching people pursuing their passion, and I love to support them in that even if I lack that myself.
    I also absolutely love starting new things and new scenarios, it seems like I always have endless ideas and not much time and energy to give them practical shape.
    and yes I don't fear taking the lone road, in fact it excites me. I can see so much potential in the world around me and I wonder why don't everyone question the shitty society we've built around ourselves. you can say my peers view me as rebellious.
    I am also very good at learning my potentials early on and not wasting my energies in areas where I feel I cannot excel after a limit r I simply don't have the wish to. that's how I optimize my life and that's why I have like tons of hobbies, like painting, reading, cooking, writing collecting cute boxes and stationary, besides being a medical student.

  • @audreymayube
    @audreymayube Год назад

    This video is on point. Thank you!

  • @dezz__
    @dezz__ Год назад

    Interesting way of putting it, ty Wenzes 💌

  • @khorLDW
    @khorLDW Год назад

    Liked the video after first two minutes 😂So on point!

  • @jlm517rocks
    @jlm517rocks Год назад

    Very helpful, ty.

  • @carllilley351
    @carllilley351 Год назад

    All these are spot on. Scary precision.

  • @jzeat1480
    @jzeat1480 Год назад

    Number 2 was an eye opener. Thank you

  • @kathleenmiedema6894
    @kathleenmiedema6894 Год назад

    Your channel has been so helpful to me. Thank you 💕

  • @sandyedwards2681
    @sandyedwards2681 Год назад

    Spot on

  • @sillygirl8796
    @sillygirl8796 Год назад

    I love this channel! Thank you! 💡

  • @Aethelrosie
    @Aethelrosie Год назад

    Optimizing! Omg yes

  • @christinegoulding5370
    @christinegoulding5370 Год назад

    Thank you! -- Spot on ... and now validated!

  • @alexadellastella5247
    @alexadellastella5247 Год назад

    A very helpful and insightful video! thank you

  • @cheribarkman1784
    @cheribarkman1784 Год назад

    Awesome

  • @AshrekaKuku
    @AshrekaKuku 19 дней назад

    Just continue wenzes❤🎉

  • @zeeiggy
    @zeeiggy Год назад +1

    Amazing and well-thought out video, thank you!

  • @cheyanne919
    @cheyanne919 Год назад

    💯 % resonate with these. Thank you 🤩❤️‍🔥❣️

  • @damonw2286
    @damonw2286 Год назад

    Holy Cow! Right out of the gate you nailed me on the very first one!

  • @_komorebi
    @_komorebi Год назад

    This video is life changing!!! It opened the room for improvement (in self-awareness) that I have been looking for.

  • @leselle777
    @leselle777 Год назад

    Good observation and expression. It is true I would not have termed them a hobby. My hobbies then are exactly what you have mentioned...because they are interesting, thrilling and revealing. Great break through...

  • @bvniermann5859
    @bvniermann5859 Год назад

    WOW ❣🌌💜 Thank you very much 🌞🙂

  • @shefliesbyherownwings
    @shefliesbyherownwings Год назад

    Wow... this is mind blowimg.
    I love watching the emotions of love between people, parents with their children, couples and affection for our pets, dancing i love to watch and singing...

  • @contactlight8079
    @contactlight8079 Год назад +1

    I will watch restoration videos like its crack. Especially furniture and old cars. I have no interest in old cars or furniture, yet I get a lot of pleasure and knowledge from them.

  • @yesteam1528
    @yesteam1528 Год назад

    You just gained a subscriber

  • @johnbehneman1546
    @johnbehneman1546 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you so much. I learned so much. Please continue to speak your truth.

  • @amandabeck1498
    @amandabeck1498 Год назад

    Wenzes, as you went thru these hobbies, I thought yeah I do that didn’t realize it but yeah. Then you got to #1 and 😂 I LOVE to Rebel! It’s probably one of my most favorite things to do. Have the time I am the only one aware that I’m reveling😅. I’m not sure why I do it but I know it’s a compulsion. It’s just so ingrained in me.
    Loved the video like always!
    Thanks 🤗

  • @derda1304
    @derda1304 Год назад

    thank you
    always had kinda this feeling that i don't really have hobbies
    or like, i have to have some hobbies but i don't really enjoy them
    now i have to find a way how i could use that to connect with people (as most people connect over hobbies i think? but those tendencies you talked about are like frightening for most or sth.)

  • @madhvishukla4332
    @madhvishukla4332 Год назад

    Thank you ma'am 🙏, because of these videos i understand myself more thank you ma'am again ❤️👏

  • @lisanidog8178
    @lisanidog8178 Год назад +1

    I love watching art videos. I don’t do what they do but they give great ideas that I tweak to fit my art hobby.

  • @hazen-kain
    @hazen-kain Год назад +1

    Enlightening video Wenzes, you have succintly articulated insights I have been circling around in the past years through many experiencies without being able to give them proper shape or meaning, yet you nailed them here with such clarity. Thank you.

  • @nyasmith-assis5168
    @nyasmith-assis5168 4 месяца назад

    This was really good.

  • @denbrah1481
    @denbrah1481 Год назад

    These are awesome characterizations of myself I never thought about as hobbies. I've written them in my journal to reflect on. Thanks! One "hobby" that is eminently obvious and intrinsic to all of the other hobbies and this video is I love to figure out why the hell I act the way I do. This gives me 5 sub categories to go into to help satiate this somewhat neurotic overall hobby.

  • @super-intelligentastrology3572
    @super-intelligentastrology3572 Год назад +4

    I do a new thing, astronomy-based astrology... my case studies are extremely precise... I adore looking at the specific auspices of the individual stars (according to the physical science of the stars, by my determination) and HOW THE CELEBRITY LIVES OUT THOSE AUSPICES... it's terrifically inspiring to me... I made it a key part of the methodology in my astrology coaching...

  • @real.mariam
    @real.mariam Год назад +1

    Your channel is a blessing 🥹

  • @jmonie02
    @jmonie02 8 месяцев назад

    You get us

  • @MysteryProductsLtd
    @MysteryProductsLtd Год назад

    This one is fun.

  • @janetmcbee
    @janetmcbee Год назад

    Thanks, you're cool 😁

  • @MirandaQUEENofFISHROCK
    @MirandaQUEENofFISHROCK Год назад

    Thanks for helping us understand ourselves!

  • @evelic
    @evelic Год назад

    Very interesting video, I felt understood.

  • @ashleys1655
    @ashleys1655 Год назад +1

    I’ve always considered my observing as a hobby! I’m glad to know this! 😃

  • @mlbullbooks
    @mlbullbooks Год назад +1

    All of these are relatable and true. I've definitely done #2, #3, and #5.

  • @jacquesmitchael8290
    @jacquesmitchael8290 Год назад

    i like the way you speak, and convey infrmation. thank you for existing

  • @mompreneurlife
    @mompreneurlife Год назад

    ❤interesting facts about INGF's. thank you. ❤

  • @olusha
    @olusha 3 месяца назад

    Thank you very insightful, revealing, and relatable.

  • @Brutaga
    @Brutaga Год назад

    Holy SHxx and I thought this was only attributed to me. Dankeschön ♥️

  • @FSCHW
    @FSCHW Год назад

    This is so me and how I’ve succeeded as an uneducated person in a field of primarily engineers.