Can Successful Black Women Find an Equal Partner in a Relationship?
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- Опубликовано: 14 дек 2023
- In this episode, hosts Rashad Bilal and Troy Millings engage in a candid conversation with the insightful Eboni Williams. The discussion revolves around the challenges faced by successful black women in the dating game, particularly concerning finances and societal expectations. Eboni shares her personal experiences and offers thought-provoking insights into the complexities of the modern relationship landscape.
The conversation delves into the impact of the "boss chick" and independent black woman archetypes on the black family ecosystem. Eboni and the hosts ponder whether these constructs have become destructive and pose challenges for traditional family dynamics. The discussion is nuanced and based on statistical data, transcending subjective opinions to tackle the harsh realities faced by black women in today's society.
Furthermore, Eboni addresses misconceptions about black women intentionally competing with black men and emphasizes the sincere desire to build fulfilling relationships within the black community. She articulates the importance of socioeconomic alignment in partnerships, highlighting the self-interested element of desiring a similarly positioned partner for a secure and comfortable future.
The conversation takes a controversial turn as the hosts discuss the challenges faced by successful single women in finding equally yoked partners. The societal values and expectations placed on men and women regarding attractiveness, youth, fertility, and financial stability are dissected, shedding light on the inherent conflicts within the dating market.
Eboni openly shares her strategic approach to dating, expressing a preference for older men due to their appreciation of aspects of youth. She candidly discusses her personal journey towards single motherhood by choice, providing insights into how the age and lifestyle circumstances of potential partners influence major life decisions.
The discussion touches on the realities of being a middle-aged, highly educated, and high-earning black woman, emphasizing the limited pool of potential partners due to income brackets and societal expectations. Eboni urges for a frank understanding of the compromises, decisions, and priorities that successful black women must navigate in their pursuit of fulfilling personal and professional lives.
Ultimately, the episode provides a compelling exploration of the dating and financial dilemmas faced by successful black women, urging individuals to bravely confront the realities of their desires and make strategic decisions aligned with their personal priorities.
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What Eboni K. Williams said was correct, however it would be wise to mention that she and the high earning Black women that she’s referring to, are the minority. Black women on average make $44K a year, with only 9% earning $75K a year. The dating dilemma that Eboni is experiencing, doesn’t apply to the overwhelming majority of Black women. She also did another interview where she explained that her pregnancy process of freezing eggs isn’t cheap, so for most women, it’s not gonna be as simple now that we understand how much the average Black woman makes a year.
What you're saying is Important to mention yes, but high earning black women NEED to hear the numbers/ narrative from an accomplished bw.
Hopefully the empathy deepens enough to break American conditioning so we see these women choose bm that make average income(but obviously treats her right).
Peace king.
@@8higherthinking7 I agree, however if the message is packaged as “fits all sizes”, then the advice is detrimental to the Black community, because now you’ll have average earning Black women who assume that they are in Eboni’s shoes. In order to level set the conversation, both men and women have to tell the truth. Lastly, it doesn’t matter where the numbers come from, as long as they’re truthful. Once that’s established, women should speak to women, but don’t lie or omit what needs to be said.
@@mediumman I only said the numbers need to come from her, because I've seen too often women pull all the red herrings under the sun to deflect uncomfortable truths. In my opinion, when somebody like Eboni tells it, they'll actually listen.
Obviously such women are idiots. Black community has a long way to go. Reading "Powernomics" by Dr. Claud Anderson will get us there faster though.
@mediumman most BM need to just leave the BW to their devices. They are a BIG WASTE of TIME. Why? Because when BW start speaking they try and sound like each one of the is making high 6 figures and are in high demand how they are so good. This false information they push has been debunked for decades yet they sneakily keep trying to bring it back. This right there shows you that most are garbage dishonest people. This problem is not getting better, it is getting WORSE.
Yo I'm 3 days late lol. I was literally about to tag you @mediuamman
EYL pleaseee don’t start entertaining these types of topics. Been wit y’all since the pandemic primarily because yall were one of the few black pods that strictly discuss finance and business and left all the trendy irrelevant dating/gender war topics alone. PLEASE don’t do this 😂I’m begging
Agreed. This conversation has led to nothing. No need for others to join it. Just help the next generation do better than our generation when it comes to relationships and dating. This generation is set in our ways and our ways are not good for dating and building families.
I agree please stay to the high level conversations
Goofy shxt
Wow, why does the truth hurt?
Always tell yourself, it not always about you, some folks need the truth...
These conversations need to be had.
As nice as it was to have an attorney on the show to discuss financial matters in matrimony, I think EYL could have selected a less inflammatory character than Eboni. Eboni is very successful but she is better suited for entertainment types shows hence the dialogue from her. I have come to expect a more serious dialogue from any guest on EYL.
Please read the book “Solutions For Anti-Black Misandry, Flat Blackness, and Black Male Death”
Men in our community still make more despite the college grad rate, despite quotas and initiatives that exclude black men but include black women, despite, incarceration, so to act like boss ladies can’t find a man who makes is contrary to reality. Maybe those men don’t like women who act like them?
They make more than black women...what about more than white/asian MEN?
Big facts. Every last point...my pops would tell me how during the Regan era they shut down all the programs that kept them off the street as poor black kids, then the gov flooded the streets with drugs so the poor kids became drug dealers. Then as they grew up the government gave affordable housing to poor single women only and made it a policy that if the women had a man in the house they'd all be evicted even if the man is the father of the woman's child. All in my pops lifetime and dude is only 53. Mum n Pops both graduated college but my pops makes much more because they chose different paths.
Also read powernomics by Dr. Claud Anderson. Quintessential best strategy for black empowerment
But black men are the most unemployed and most homeless group. Mayber only 1 in 20 of you have a job, let alone a good paying one.
@@chinaarlene7035you're full of it lol. Only about 6% of black men are unemployed. That means almost 95% of them are doing well. It's the reason on average more black men make more than women. You can look at the total number of those making $50k-$75k, $75k-100k or those making over $100k. It's more men making those salaries than there are women.
Y’all please don’t start having these kind of guest on the show…PLEASE! Let’s just stick to the finances. I don’t want to hear this independent women stuff over here.
Eboni K Williams 😂😂😂😂 this is who y'all asked this question??
Because she is one of those women they are speaking about. Who would you have preferred?
Ebony is a whole joke and a clown 🤡 would anyone take driving advice from a person with no license??? I’m shocked EYL would even address this topic. Totally lowers the channel’s credibility 😢
Eboni is old news. She fumbled her bag when her white Zaddy stopped tolerating her bs. Better now to focus on the generation coming up than these old broads trying to repackage old p-sleeve.
@denisebello7461 the conversation is cap.. allot of these women are older or have children, for every successful blk woman there is 2 to 3 successful blk men...theses just aren't the men who are looking for these women
Becuase she a women that falling in line keep putting the narrative out ther their balck women will be lonely forever and BM need 28 year old..yeah okay
No offense shorty missed her window & she is also too transactional most men of all spectrum will be turned off, just talking to her seems like a job interview. The fact that banks will sell a full home to a single woman of any race is a huge money maker. Most men know the maintenance alone of a home will be too much pressure for her. Eboni has childhood issues growing up with a struggling working single mom so she operates out of fear
Not to mention she talks about not TRUSTING men in general nor "feeling" protected. It goes back to her upbringing and having no relationship with deadbeat father (the model of manhood she was supposed to have) and now she doesn't seek to procreate with a man but rather get a sperm donor and raise the child as a single mom like her mother did her SMH!!!!
it's not a lot of pressure, you build relationships with companies that deal with all facets of the home. From pest control to electrical. Develop a discerning eye and ear which means you have to wash away all programming that suggest that because you are a women you are inept. It's not that women aren't capable, it's just they have just been socialized out of being analytical and systematic in thinking. You put your house on a routine maintenance schedule not waiting for something to break down. RUclips University is a god sent. Learning about each aspect of the home so that you can ask quality questions so you are not going along with what they say and if you are luck many of those with the worst intention will reveal themselves early. Con men look for weakness in people not just women. Also there are a lot female builders on ig to follow so that you can really design a home that you can manage.
@@jman1562001 her mother should explain to her what happened and why dude wasn’t there
Lmaoo the amount of black women making 500k-750k year is probs 0.05%
That’s Facts
3:10 The funny thing is women who are looking for a man who makes just as much or more than them are also based on gender roles.
A man who makes 300K to a million is considered a provider and doesn’t have to be with someone who makes the same amount. But a woman that makes 300K or more HAS TO FIND a man that makes the same or more.
The issue is that your dating preference is also based on gender roles, as well.
Gender roles aren't roles. They are inherent. If yall letting money define your roles, the relationship is going to fail. The worst part is them kids are more likely to end up "confused" or grow up to be "toxic"
Most of these women are not making close to 75k but have upwards of 100k in student loans. So even if they are making money they are deeply in debt. Men aren't going to school in mass number because that math don't math not because women are inherently more ambitious than men nowadays. That truck driver can make $150k/yr driving for UPS why in the hell should he go to school to get a liberal arts degree (which most women are enrolled in)?
not every bm is working for UPs dummy. Yall love talking about our student loans. Majority of you bm don't have or own shit but love to talk about us. UPS drivers I see are white. I see bm driving Amazon prime though. Have of you bm can't even read so college should be off the table. Most of you bm not even making 50k, this why yall can only pay the light bill.
Geesh, you're making huge assumptions with no data to back it up.
I recently came across Eboni Williams in a couple of videos, and for the first time, she seems aware of the path she has mapped out for herself and the costs it has incurred in terms of relationships. Unfortunately, I've observed women who, later in life, become desperate for children, thinking it will fill a void, only to find themselves in the same situation-with a child. Now, she will become a single mother raising a child without a father, unintentionally becoming a statistic for the black community. I truly hope she finds what she is looking for.
We don't want you
That's where you're wrong. She's completely aware of what she's doing and where it places her statistically. To me it speaks to how selfish she is as a person, and just highlights why she's never been married.
@lincolnward85 most black men have never been married either. Very selfish men.
@@lincolnward85 agree with both sentiments
She said she ended an engagement. 🤔 hmmm I wonder why....
As we evolve as a society, we sway further and further away from our biological imperative. If she found her husband early right after highschool, this wouldn't be as much as an issue. Hot girl summer and the idea that the right man will be there whenever you get ready to settle down is postponing establishing marriages. Find your husband in college before you establish your wealth. This is the tme where your viable options are the most plentiful. You and your husband can grow together. This is not the narrative that women want to hear. But at some point reality has to be realized and excepted.
You can try but sometimes those relationships don’t work out, that’s life
@@strtupj882 My point is most people don't try. They think their 20's is for playing. Being intentional has never served us wrongly.
@9xmeysj I'm not telling women to only limit your pool to college guys. They can date older men who are more established or they can date a guy their age that's getting a trade. I'm just pointing out that this is the time we're their options are the most abundant.
@9xmeysjthere’s more women in the world than men and people still manage to find their life partner. The person is saying date with intention and they are not wrong.
@9xmeysj There’s growth in learning how to be with someone. And not all non-college grads aren’t high earners.
Plus the census shows that even though more women are enrolled in college, more men graduate. So there are plenty of college graduate men. They are mostly married or in relationships.
She gone be single forever. She’s pretty, but she’s not humble enough to understand the role of a man. It’s all good until it ain’t good…ya dig!
get yo mf passports. lol
yes, please and go go go
The very topic is disrespectful to black men. THAT is why they struggle to find suitable men. The condescending is in every fiber of most of them when they touch a little money.
You're broke huh?
You sound bitter
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The answer is yes, but women have to get these men in their prime.
So black man earns money, he takes care of the family. Black woman earns money, she takes care of herself. Got it!
The fear coming out of her is high. It will be interesting to hear what her future child may say growing up without a father or knowing who their dad is. We lament the fact that most children in our community are being born into single parent homes and yet her selfishness is going to do this on purpose. SMH. Instead of learning to cooperate with a man early and work on your career later she rather risk going thru the ivf process with a sperm donor. Wow.
Well, it's too late to "cooperate early with a man and delay career" if it's ivf time! Right? So what's your point? Can't go backwards. Better yet what is your suggestion NOW??? I really would like to know your suggestion now?
@@gabriellew.4847 These are good questions. However, I'm afraid there is not much advice that can offered now (hence you stated it's too late). The point is if you have not prioritized the most important things, your options are limited to those that range from bad to "suboptimal". It is like people who wait until their 40s or 50s to save for retirement. They have already missed their best opportunity for growing their wealth through investment. Therefore, I simply put forth that it is unfair to the child to intentionally bring them into the world without a father. It might be better to remain childless and look for companionship. Trying to have a child alone is not considering the child's long-term needs.
@@gabriellew.4847 Moreover, the IVF journey is LONG, CHALLENGING, STRESSFUL, EXPENSIVE, and often UNSUCCESSFUL. As a college graduate, I have seen several women go through that process and 80% of them were NOT successful. It was heartbreaking to witness that. I would urge older women to tell younger women the truth about that process, both good and bad. The culture makes it seem to younger women that freezing their eggs will guarantee them motherhood later in life and they don't have to prioritize a relationship.
@@Ra-vi7eu you are making the assumption that the presence of a man automatically means a quality household but shall I remind you that Jeffrey Dahmar came from a two parent household and a host of other serial killers did as well. Meanwhile LeBron James came from a single parent home. Eboni will need a village but that is for all mothers but most importantly she needs to prepare and develop within her child a strong mindset to ward of messages from the world that somehow he or she is inadequate because of the mom's choice not to go the "traditional"route to parenting. not all men but some use children as a crutch to maintain access to women. Some of them if they don't have access to you, they could give a rat ass about that child. Again, this is not all but some men to clarify.
@mzbrown6969 Dahmer and James are outliers. Statistically, children from 2-parent households have better outcomes. SN: Married women also have better physical and mental health outcomes.
I don’t have an issue with this podcast. I think biz & finances go hand in hand w/ relationships and $ highlights a person’s values. EYL co-relate topics well -& to avoid intimate relationships bcuz so many others talk about it is a disservice to us listeners. It’s being a well-rounded podcast to me. IMO, your personal choices are yours. Knowing the why, how it came to be and the effects of your choices are the key. Ppl always say date for love, etc. but the reality has sooooo many factors in it -your own and external influences. I say, carry on EYL…✌🏾🙏🏾
EYL this is a quagmire you may not want to wade into. The gender war going on online is exhausting and these conversations will split your audience or cause people to check out totally. Proceed with caution. EKW is the last person some people want to hear on your platform. Much like if you had a red pill creator on the show.
Crazy because EKW was in the process of being engaged with a Jewish white man but when he ain't feeling you now it's get a sperm donor to help birth and raise a child as a single mother?????
A35 year old man should date a 28 year old woman
The European mind is the divide amongst the indigenous period..the have and have nots,class,so called education, religion, social acceptance, red lining, credit, science....
7:18 so when she has her own baby by herself and meets an older man in his 50's that has already had children and is no longer interested in making babies ....Is she expecting that man to be a father to her child or share responsibilities for her child in her "new age" companion relationship ?? Just asking since she said the older men are not interested in a new baby or a young child??
why don't you ask her not all females want another man to be the father. You need to change the females your around, if you thinking like this. Goes to show the females you date.
@@reginacameron3011 well I posted the question to see if she or anyone would answer it. No need to be defensive nor insinuate anything negative about me or the women I choose to be around. I didn't accuse her of anything nor did I suggest to her what she needed to do in her life like you did to me. I simply asked a question, that has yet to be answered with specificity.
Girl don’t you have no baby at this big age
An ethnic man will pick up a ethnic woman that has much less than him and bring her up to speed if she has the right drive , discipline, ambition ,and spirit. It is very rare that an ethnic woman will do the same even if that man possesses all the right qualities and is actively building himself up daily. They cannot bring themselves to respect a work in progress even if he is industrious. Thus they are all fighting, sharing , and crying for the same 15 percent or less of men.
Lie! I'm "ethnic". And I lifted my ex-husband up. He went to prison at 19. We met when he was 26, a year after he was released. Dated when he was 27. I helped get him into college. And then waited for him when he had to go back to prison for another 2 years for missing a ua drug screen. And then worked full-time and raised our kids while he went back to school and eventually earned his masters degree, while I also handled the bills and all our family's affairs. And now, he has his own practice making 6 figures and I helped him get there and learn how to manage his affairs. So stop generalizing. It's incredibly ignorant. And before you say I'm rare, I have plenty of "ethnic" girlfriends who are just as supportive.
@akherashepsutera2013 extremely extremely rare, you are very different, you should actually start making content, their are no voices for women like you , and men feel like women like you don't exist, so speak up lol
Is the woman in the thumbnail even Black? Smh 😂😂
ENOUGH with these type women. Please interview a woman that men want because this ain’t it. This is a great example of what not to get. Y’all brothers silence is hilarious. I bet when y’all got home you kissed your woman and said thank you 🙏🏽 honey for being you. It was a crazy day. In my Kevin Samuels voice.
We can lift black women up without tearing black men down. Never forget that the government pitted us against each other since slavery and has never stopped trying to keep us divided. My parents and grandparents taught me about those facts.
I wish yall would stop this government did not put us against each other
She became the man she wanted ... now she is realising family is everything and she wants kids
EYL, please don’t lower your platform to this kind of mess. Y’all better than this….
Where’s the full video?
Market Monday last half of show Dec 11
@@bettyjones7722 You’re the best! Thank you so much for commenting. Blessings💕.
These dudes brought her on for this discussion ? They know she was in the fire .... Lets stick too making money , black rock , vanguard,l , Etc .
So if these men "would" have married you--all three anem--why didn't they?😮
She explained
Of all the women you could find??? Yall falling off 🤦🏾♂️😂
LOL The thumbnail is saying a resounding no.
When we say “equal”what are we really talking about? She said women want their equal but most women want a man who’s a leader and if she had the choice between a six figure dude vs a seven figure dude, she wants that 7 figure guy even if she makes 6 figures. Women and men are not the same. The way she would look at a dude who’s a great man but broke is the way men would look at a 6 figure women who can’t follow orders. It’s impossible to consider each other equal when we don’t value the same things.
I can't even find someone making $60K a year. It's always someone making way less. I am so sick of being the bread winner in my relationships.
She's representing women, is she married?
LMAO “equal” is incredibly subjective when it comes to relationships, and not just the romantic ones.
I need the full interview
Market Monday the last half Dec 11
Funny she called the six sixes silly. But that’s what she’s looking for. 2 of the six’s are financial.
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
It’s crazy because she says equal counterpart, but when that equal counterpart comes he doesn’t make enough. And if a man asks for a equal counterpart or for the women to elevate herself financially so he is not a full on care taker that is a problem for many women. The double standard is hurtful to the black family structure.
EYL please back away from these conversations 🙏. You will tarnish your brand by giving these bitter hyenas space to talk crazy. This chick is a "partnership" failure.
PARTNER and PARTNERSHIP is a joint effort where parties received a symmetrical RETURN based on individual contribution. Like angel funding or owning stocks.
How can you be partners when women's 🙀 dry up on the topic 50/50? Women want to asymmetrical arrangement where men contribute the most inputs. Upon divorce men walk away with less. Loss of assets, alimony, and child support.
Again good brothers, stay away from the toxic subject of the Black Women's relationships problems. Because men like me will have to address their poor 🙀 management, kids, evictions rates, unemployment rates, and mental health problems.
I mean even with the single mother journey she'll end up rich and alone: she said herself that the older men she's dating are done raising kids, that doesn't change just because she had a solo kid 🤷🏿♂️.
Can she find an equal partner?This counter to what a masculine man is looking for? It's not a bw question It's the nature of women. The bm she wants that she deems better than not equal to basically is unavailable he's married in a ltr or is openly playing the field only 5 percent bm are 6 figures in the usa. So the answer is no!! The man she wants doesn't want her or not available, the man equal to her she feels she settled a woman rates you 2 notches below if she feels she settled. So this man she doesn't want so this is called being trapped in hypergamy. Also the social and earning ability of bm can be limited in the usa, unrealistic boxes the majority of bm can't check because the bw or any woman is looking for the man to be better than her a woman doesn't share money with a man this is the American black woman's hypergamy trap she can't escape. They say he doesn't have to do all that hehe, what they say and do are entirely different things or else they would not be single😀
Can you be a boss chick and a wife?
Is a boss chick WILLING to take on the RESPONSIBILITY of a breadwinner???
A boss chick has to marry a super beta male who is cool with being emasculated for a easy payday I.e. Nikki Minaj
Eboni f#cked up long ago and now she’s trying to justify all these situationships. Eboni should honestly teach young women how to prioritize family over money money money
"The man who's 35 and not married isn't necessarily looking for someone who's also 35, they're looking for the 28 year old" I think part of what kills me about these dating conversations is now nobody uses real facts, it's all "I heard" and social media rhetoric. Or what you hear from your immature homeboys who refuse to grow up. On average, there's only a 2 year age gap between couples. Most 35 year old men are not marrying women in their 20s. According to the US Census, only about 16% of men marry a woman that's 7 years younger. Most people marry within their age range. We have to stop perpetuating Kevin Samuels nonsense because it sounds good.
She done.
Sounds like that KS was saying right??? RIP the Godfather
She never talked about women cooking
I dont get it, if a successful man wants a 28 year old women, then do that, why annouce it to the world?? Who cares.. do yall and good luck!!! everyone has their peference..this fear mongering among black women and this overall convo ia so draining and pathetic.
I really feel bad for Eboni though. She's clearly bothered on a deep, deep level about being single. I just wish she would actually work on figuring out what she wants out of life instead of projecting all of this nonsense on to the black community.
Per usual, using misleading/incomplete numbers to paint a false picture. The home ownership rates she's referring to is based on a misleading report that talked about black female ownership rates increasing by about 5.6% over the last 30 years while black male ownership rates dropped by about 8% over that time. But what they always leave out is that even with a drop in the rate black men still make up approximately 65% of black homeowners compared to only 35% of black women. Don't even get me started on the higher education talk. Smh. No matter how much they keep bringing up getting degrees, black men still out earn black women on average. It's a very played out talking point that has been exposed over and over again.
Life has truly gotten WEIRD
No, wait on Yahweh don't go by the world standards trust Yahweh and his plan for you and you will succeed 💯. The problem is the blueprint is already there we just need to follow it!
Saaaaame things Kevin Samuels was saying AND WOMEN WERE🤨🤨🤨😡😡😡😤😤😤😤🤬🤬🤬🤬🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Harsh truths come with a bitter reality. Crazy to think she is becoming a single mother by choice and seeking a sperm donor to augment having this child.
now what if he want a child from you Eboni ? 👀 that relationship may not work. IVF may not work…
Its highly unlikely, most men are turned off by successful women. They see smart women as a threat bc they know certain things she wouldnt allow, so theyll go for the more docile one to feel more like a man. Yall should know this, idk why you had to ask.
You cant shame men into accepting what we dont want. Men dont give a fuk anymore
It’s the divorce rate. Women with college degrees are more likely to initiate divorce. So yes, a man will consider a waitress or any woman without formal education as she has less opportunities to maximize her income. Thus making her reliant on him, and she will never leave.
That’s the #1 reason men don’t want marriage, especially to educated women. Educated women make money, and they have the option to leave. If “no fault divorce” laws changed or women’s autonomy was heavily restricted again, men would marry. It’s really that simple.
3 men… 1 women who’s still explaining herself to men! 🙄 this is tired!
Very. At this point just be rich , enjoy a healthy life, donate, take care of family, and gain some friends
Nope it's very rare.
She been watching kevin samuels 😂😂
You see that's the whole problem your money no matter how much you have dear sisters you still are not equal to men and you will never be. Psalms 14 & 53 says "The fool says in their hearts that there is no Elohyim" and a persons actions proved it, the divine order according to TMH Yahawah BaHaSham Yahawashi HaMashiach quote " But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ Yahawashi HaMashiach; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is Yahawah our Elohyim." 1 Corinthians 11:3 KJV our people as a whole have to become obedient to TMH and your money no matter who has it and how much of it you may have will not stand until the so called BP become obedient to the truth of the matter there are so many different things that the Devil uses to keep our people divided and money is the biggest reason for our division not only in relationships but also as a whole don't let these Devils use you like that.
nobody is trying to be equal to men hell but bm sure hell trying to be females
What percentage of black women earn 400 thousand a year and what degree pays that a neurosurgeon what is she talking about
You can tell eboni k Williams is hard to get along with were is her feminine side can she be a man's peace
This me right now
The can find them ….but not maintain …being goddes’s and alpha females and all 👀
She the problem…
I can't help but laugh at all the people in the comments talking about unsubscribing like you hurting anybody. Do you, you're entitled to your opinion. Most people are here because you ain't where you want to be in life, so your opinion is kind of irrelevant.
Men who are secure have no issues with successful black women.
preach its the broke no having bm who have all these issues
The term "partner" doesn't fit with a male & female relationship. That term in a relationship standpoint has always been used by Homosexual people and male hating feminist & that term "equal partners" makes no sense in a male & female relationship, the husband is the head & the wife is the help mate.
I’m a black African, I love black Americans and their giving spirit and their creative mind ❤ when I lived in the Deep South I noticed there more women than black men, so who do black American women marry then? I married a man from East African but we divorced and now I’m married to a white/native man who I love! So I think women should marry out but just make sure you have the same values and culture!
You can only marry out if the other races approach you
Tired of these same conversations in the black community. Unsubscribing do better!
A lot of successful black men aren’t looking for black women ie Ian. Black women love black men though but they will have to potentially date out if they want love.
CAP...it's not about the woman being blk or other but no matter how much a man says it, women will come to their own conclusion..a successful man doesn't want a bunch of push back and none cooperation...
Ian don't like Black women?
Thats not true but let’s play pretend and say it is. Complaining about it isn’t going to change that. Make yourself the better option for that man so he has no logical choice but to choose you. Again your statement is not true at all but even by your belief and logic self improvement is the only solution.
@@biscaynesupercars I’m not complaining. I’m stating facts. Most black men that are successful and with a black women it is because they were together before he made it. If a black man has made it first and then gets married it likely will not be a black women.
@@londa7552 this is the dumb shit yall do...always go to extremes and that shows that you don't even want to understand and just want to make it as if the man is in the wrong for his preferences...noone said PUSHOVER...and this is how simple most of yall think...a woman can not be a PUSHOVER and not be COMBATIVE AT THE SAME TIME...many of you just like Eboni K. will find out in your older age...and don't be all in the comments talking about how successful blk men always want women of other races but forget to seek to find out why
Eboni spit all facts!
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She is 40 plus with no man real men do not care gow much money you make we want purity & peace also ambition also she ended her engagement but yeah she spit all facts I have a fact to give only 1/4 black women will marry
We want to be soft, and we want to be able to depend on our black men, husbands, partners, however the landscape out here is such that unfortunately we have had to pull ourselves up by our own bootstraps, and make things happen, especially if that black woman has children from previous relationships, she doesn’t have a choice. She has got to be successful, and unfortunately it does create an imbalance in her Feminine Energy 1:32
Soft and feminine…and single mother by choice. That’s a woman who’s unequally yoked within herself already. You not that if that’s how you think and good men whose mind is on family see it for what it is. Looking at the women thought leading black women, our families are pretty much doomed. These non-black people about to fold interracial relationships over enough times to erase the black American. Which was their plan to begin with.
Exactly..on point you made becuase many are left single mothers..but yet women are always at fault..its sad these men are promoting this.mess
@@sammajor2075being out of the home is just not the same.
@@sammajor2075 these men need to stop impregnating women they’re not married to
Its December and this is the first video not about white people I have seen all year... Much Love! HAHA