How to BUILD RAPPORT & Get What You Want in a Hostile Environment.

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  • Опубликовано: 28 сен 2024

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  • @091_kushagramisra5
    @091_kushagramisra5 3 года назад +20

    Bottom line up front:
    I have not just watched all of your videos but I have tried hard to make some of your commands as a part of my life...it has changed me so much, I talk better ,I dress up better ,I work better ,I plan better than before . Thank you for your mentorship.

  • @SocialistDistancing
    @SocialistDistancing 3 года назад +12

    There was a neighbor that rented a house across from mine. He was an ass. Very entitled. He had two rottweilers. (I've had many dogs). So, one day I just decided to strike up a conversation about his dogs. That conversation went on for an hour and I learned a lot about this guy's life (free Intel). He was very nice after that day. He moved away a year later.
    I've managed to get more accomplished over a breakfast meeting than through any other means. Face to face over a meal can work wonders. It's a meeting of informal protocols. I've actually brokered some pretty amazing things just by having a simple conversation. Knowing what to say, or more importantly, what not to say is key. Sometimes silence is the best strategy. Great video.

  • @phoenix-king779
    @phoenix-king779 3 года назад +52

    Me and the boys studying this to take over the school

  • @shehryarfarrukh1445
    @shehryarfarrukh1445 3 года назад +28

    man you need to upload more often plus your voice is so explaining

  • @nicksweden709
    @nicksweden709 3 года назад +11

    Great advice, this is something that applies to everyone from McDonald's fry cooks to CEOs

  • @rickkephartactual7706
    @rickkephartactual7706 3 года назад +3

    I just started watching your video's about a month ago. In short, they are short and accurate. I'm retired from the Fire Service, at my retirement I held the rank of Battalion Chief and was the Fire Marshal for our city. While I had a successful career I would have loved to have had access to video's like this when I was getting out of high school. I would love to be able to back and make your video's mandatory viewing for all our officers and those seeking office. All employee's no matter their position would benefit from watching your video's and incorporating them into their lives and careers. I believe you would make a great instructor companies that want to improve their employees.

  • @jawbone83
    @jawbone83 3 года назад +7

    Your videos are always top-notch. I really appreciate the work you put into them. Please keep them coming.

  • @silvadossantos6803
    @silvadossantos6803 3 года назад +49

    "Making friends is defeating enemies" Lincoln

  • @moshedayan5890
    @moshedayan5890 3 года назад +2

    Wow...special operator you are back!!!
    missed you!!
    I reckon you will have to work extra hard cause your subscribers need more videos.
    Liked and subscribed from nairobi kenya.

  • @CA-vx4sn
    @CA-vx4sn 3 года назад +3

    Commenting for the algorithm

  • @broly4544
    @broly4544 3 года назад +1

    I really enjoyed this video. It was very useful.

  • @jkzeje
    @jkzeje 3 года назад +1

    A much needed video

  • @josephlee6103
    @josephlee6103 3 года назад +1

    So good.

  • @bardanmalla193
    @bardanmalla193 3 года назад +1

    Love your content sir

  • @mac-gyver1152
    @mac-gyver1152 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for another great video

  • @dialdowninternet8987
    @dialdowninternet8987 3 года назад +2

    I know it's one of the most secretive units there is, and so information will be hard to find, but could you make a video on the Intelligence Support Activity?

  • @aureliorubalcaba863
    @aureliorubalcaba863 3 года назад +1

    Thank you.

  • @mo26312631
    @mo26312631 3 года назад +1

    🇺🇸Thank you for adding value to the day🇺🇲

  • @cadenscarberry8438
    @cadenscarberry8438 3 года назад +5

    Hi I was wondering if you have any advice for becoming a pj

    • @LifeisaSpecialOperation
      @LifeisaSpecialOperation  3 года назад +6

      Caden, Find someone from the PJ community and ask them a bunch of questions about the training pipeline and PJ lifestyle. Get into great shape.

    • @cadenscarberry8438
      @cadenscarberry8438 3 года назад +1

      @@LifeisaSpecialOperation thank you I will do that

  • @pyeitme508
    @pyeitme508 3 года назад +1

    Wow cool 😎

  •  3 года назад

    when you told "as simple as money"
    I thought that was the hard part, but as the lidt went through, I reversed

  • @saakerson2
    @saakerson2 3 года назад +1

    Missed your videos

  • @neelonghunglow
    @neelonghunglow 3 года назад +1

    Bait the hook for the fish you wanna catch...

  • @linkchen8245
    @linkchen8245 3 года назад

    Change grounding foe to smiling friends .

  • @TaxingIsThieving
    @TaxingIsThieving Год назад

    What if I don't have anything in common?

  • @wolfman571000
    @wolfman571000 3 года назад

    Adaptation....

  • @Yonko_Ty
    @Yonko_Ty 3 года назад

    Why was the colonel a clown?

  • @TaxingIsThieving
    @TaxingIsThieving Год назад

    2:40 So be a phony

  • @dantelove4606
    @dantelove4606 3 года назад

    B A L D G A N G

  • @gizaegypt9481
    @gizaegypt9481 3 года назад

    Trader Joe's executive sales

  • @Idkgoogleitbro
    @Idkgoogleitbro 3 года назад +2

    it's funny listening to the lesson,ironic really. this is all common sense and I'm like "I know this!" But I never consciously applied any of this. EGO EGO EGO will fuck up the best guy on the team and the worst guy on the enemy team can come in and eat your lunch.Im 26 and still trying to master the game.Life is fun and humans are real predictable,easy to understand if you have the third eye.

  • @andrewe6839
    @andrewe6839 3 года назад

    Stop spying on me.

  • @turtlebeach3116
    @turtlebeach3116 2 года назад

    Oh come on why you saying Turkmenistan and the turcs are weird ?

  • @CallsignEskimo-l3o
    @CallsignEskimo-l3o 3 года назад +3

    I've never got poor advice from this channel.

  • @vikramupadhya1243
    @vikramupadhya1243 3 года назад +7

    Not everyone is an Enemy, we make enemies by our actions. Intent with a genuine understanding and humility makes more friends. As a salesman once said, being humble and addressing security and janitorial staff of a company gets you closee and makes you more accessible than 'working' the actual contacts.

  • @jjbartlett86
    @jjbartlett86 3 года назад +5

    I never comment on RUclips videos, but I have to say I really appreciate the videos you post here, Sir. And without sounding redundant, thank you for your service.

  • @thabangmphahlele363
    @thabangmphahlele363 2 года назад +1

    🎖️

  • @DixieLiving
    @DixieLiving 3 года назад +2

    Thank you.
    Every time I watch your videos its like walking along a city street and looking down to find a $50 dollar bill on the curb.
    Keep them coming! 🇺🇸!

  • @zachjones6944
    @zachjones6944 3 года назад +1

    Rapport is a force-multiplier.

  • @TimKyoutube
    @TimKyoutube 3 года назад +1

    Never go see the BIRD in boardshorts.... (things i learned in 9 minutes)

  • @RAYDENfilipp
    @RAYDENfilipp Год назад

    I get it when you have to build a downward rapport in tribing with somebody, i.e. giving up on something to fit in (don't smoke in a non-smoking environment), but what about upward movement, when you have to blend in a smokers' environment when you are a non-smoker or with drinkers when you are a teatotaller, for example?

  • @Mk3784
    @Mk3784 3 года назад +1

    This information is very valuable. thank you for sharing.

  • @northwoodcompany8775
    @northwoodcompany8775 3 года назад +1

    Thx , it was very useful , big like , especially the last part

  • @davegalaga1101
    @davegalaga1101 3 года назад +1

    Good advice, thank you

  • @ewsdneax61eaxe10
    @ewsdneax61eaxe10 3 года назад +1

    Sir do a topic on motivation.

  • @winteriscoming4407
    @winteriscoming4407 3 года назад +1

    thank you!

  • @loganthrasher4023
    @loganthrasher4023 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for the info.

  • @ahsanmohammed1
    @ahsanmohammed1 3 года назад +1

    rotfl 😂🤣

  • @StreetRocketJoe
    @StreetRocketJoe 3 года назад

    Social engineering when done right is a beautiful thing.

  • @johnlozauskas778
    @johnlozauskas778 2 года назад

    I admire your ability to distill diverse information into a compact effective package. Thank you.

  • @wubba0682
    @wubba0682 3 года назад

    are you still an active special forces operator?

  • @sprescav
    @sprescav 3 года назад

    For the dating life is also useful.

  • @Willy_Tepes
    @Willy_Tepes 3 года назад

    Could you do a episode on how to approach and strike it off with Muslims since you obviously have some experience with it? Their culture is very foreign to me even if I have studied it for some time. How do you win respect when meeting a village elder or a Iman? How do you speak with authority among them while not having official authority? What should I consider about body language, tone and such?