Это видео недоступно.
Сожалеем об этом.
Should You Tell Your Spouse You Are Still Standing for Marriage Restoration?
HTML-код
- Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024
- Should You Tell Your Spouse You Are Still Standing for Marriage Restoration?
In this message, I will address the often-asked question of whether or not to communicate to your spouse you are still standing for marriage restoration, or if you need just to keep it to yourself.
---- STANDING SUPERNATURALLY ----
Are you separated or divorced but still believing for restoration? Are you feeling exhausted and hopeless as you Stand for Your Marriage to be restored? Do you know there is a way to walk in Peace, Power, and Joy as you stand for God to restore your family?
Welcome to Standing Supernaturally! I’m Jason Carver, pastor, prophetic trainer, tennis teaching professional, and international speaker. I currently travel the world teaching and preaching the message of hope and encouragement in the miraculous truth that your family can be restored no matter what is currently happening!
Come be empowered with the tools needed to walk in hope for restoration by someone who has been where you are now. No matter what is happening in your marriage, God is SUPERNATURALLY restoring marriages today!
I believe my personal story of marital restoration is a prophetic picture of what God will do in anyone’s life who is faithful and obedient to the promises of God. My passion is to coach and teach others how to stand supernaturally for their own family restoration.
-----
Website:
www.StandingSupernaturally.com
Join our Monthly Membership Program Just For Standers!
Are you ready to stand TOGETHER in a community and be TRAINED each month how to stand more strongly for your marriage? Jason will equip you every month to Stand Supernaturally for your marriage restoration!
Click here to sign up for our Membership Program: www.StandingSupernaturally.com/Membership
-----
Want to join a community of like-minded supernatural standers who are committed to seeing their own supernatural restoration? Join our Private Facebook Group...
Click here to join: / standingsupernatually
FOLLOW US ON Instagram: @standingsupernaturally / standingsupernaturally
TWITTER: @Standing_Super / standing_super
RUclips: / standingsupernaturally...
------
One-On-One Coaching/Consulting:
SPEAK TO JASON PERSONALLY ABOUT YOUR STAND & ASK HIM SPECIFIC QUESTIONS REGARDING YOUR OWN SITUATION!?
Book a session now! → standingsupern...
-----
Take the “Standing For Your Marriage Assessment Quiz” How well are you standing?
Go through this powerful 20 question assessment and see how well you are currently standing and get tips on how you can grow your stand today!
→ standingsupern...
-----
Free “Netflix style” media site just for standers!
Register now for free access to this special one-of-a-kind Standing Supernaturally Training HUB website and get equipped to stand supernaturally!
→ training.stand...
-----
DISCLAIMER:
Please be aware of scammers saying they can connect you with someone who can pray and restore your marriage in a matter of days. (These people are operating in witchcraft, stay away from them!)
Music copyright license: 70BIH2JIBYVKYBFB
WVY61N2ZBMK0RVIY
#savemymarriage #marriagerestoration #marriageafterdivorce #godrestoresmarriages #standingformarriagerestoration #GodRestores #godanswersprayers #standingsupernaturally #JasonCarver
I told my husband:
I love you! You are my husband through covenant with GOD and until death do us part, the Lord says in the Word!
I have not told him he is welcome to return but the LORD has put this in my spirit recently to tell my husband.
I believe and declare in Jesus name that my marriage will be restored and thanking GOD for it.
Praise Jesus! 🙏
I have no home for my spouse to come too. We lost our home because of his actions. Please pray for us to get a house
Saaaame...lost our home in the divorce, insurance, financial security, our foster babies had to be rehomed bc I was beyond depressed. 4yrs of being homeless... but God...i KNOW is working in the impossible!!! My stand started 5yrs ago believing God needed to change him & we'd be good & i had my 1st encounter w/ GOD when He told me "when I'm ready I'll take care of him bt right now we're gonna take a look at you!" & my life changed forever...God showed me all the places I fell short as a wife and mom...i was sooo ignorant of what God expected of me & He had to change MEEE 1ST!!!🙌🙌🙌 GOD HAS PROMISED ME RESTORATION ❤❤
@mindyloper4454 He pointed out the error in my ways, too! Whenever I took issue with a behavior of my husband's, the Lord would ask me, "But what did YOU do?" He showed me how my responses, regardless of what my husband said or did to trigger them, were still wrong. The Lord what is absolutely correct, and I am so grateful to now see things through His eyes.
Lord Father God met them where there at ,I pray restoration and unity in Jesus' name .I pray you would cleanse this wife or husband . Lord, he or she seeks you whole Hardetly on there face seeking trusting you in Jesus name . Thank you for your grace and mercy in Jesus name
How can you say that if my husband is alreadu living with his mistress,he chose her ove rme and our son.And he also filed divorce court case
@@user-kn5ku4sx3lHe's a God of impossibility. In Jesus' name he'll be back with his blessed family (you & your children). Divine restoration has started
I told my husband from the start that I was fighting for him, for our marriage, for his soul. I know my husband better than anyone outside of God. He has a colossal insecurity problem, and I could see it in his face that he needed the assurance of knowing I wasn't going to give up on him, even though he has done and said some horrible things to me. For those who think he is simply using me as a security blanket or something to fall back on when his counterfeit relationship goes sour, my husband, like so many others, is experiencing double-mindedness. It is a war for his soul between Satan and Jesus. Satan is going to lose, of course, but he is not going to turn loose of my husband without a fight. As everyone here knows, standing is probably the hardest thing we will ever have to go through next to something happening to one of our children, but I know what it means to and for my husband.
My husband is going through the same thing. If you need like to join in fasting and prayers I'm here
@@jou630 I appreciate that, thank you! My prayers are with you and your husband, as well, Jobeth.
I know these posts are months ago , has there been any change in your marriage has your marriage been restored?
@juanitaras8379 After years of despicable behavior, multiple acts of adultery that left me with a venereal infection, physical assault on me, not to mention the emotional abuse I am definitely seeing progress. My husband has quit using drugs, cut WAY back on alcohol, and finally responded last night to my text, telling him goodnight and that I love him. He has very specific words he uses for me when he says good night, and he hadn't said those words in the longest time. I didn't even think he was going to respond to my text asking him how his day went. Took him a little while, but he answered. When I later sent him a text telling him good night, I thought there would definitely be no response to that because his earlier text was going to be all he was willing to put forth. What a wonderful, beautiful, and exciting shock to receive a response from him with the words he used to use! God is on the move! I feel very strongly that 2024 is the year our marriage is going to be restored. I started having this feeling about 3 months ago. I'm praying it's going to happen by the time our anniversary rolls around in August, as the date falls on a Sunday this year, just like when we were married. But even if our marriage is not restored this year, it doesn't change God's promise that my husband will be transformed at some point. He will be a new creation in Christ, and of that, I have no doubt.
The same spirit operating in all prodigals. Spirit of Lust. Do not be discouraged. God is on our sides.
Currently separated from my spouse… but I’m standing for my marriage In The Mighty Name of Jesus Christ! Repent weep and seek Gods face. I’ll be patiently waiting for your return my love!GreatFaith
🙏🏾❤️🔥🙏🏽
This is a spiritual attack with a lot of witchcraft involved. Im still standing and trust God completely. It seems like nothing will change and ive learned through this process that we are one and whenever I pray for my husband we are connecting in our spirits. The waiting period is taking so long but God gives me the strength to endure. Thanks for the advice. I will definitely put it to the test.
Am praying everyday for me and my spouse to reconcile our marriage
Standing 8 years. Divorced
And I tell him every once in s while and yes the rejection is HUGE and painful
All these reasons are accurate especially when they have already moved on with someone else. I actually told my husband when he told me that he was moving on that I was still believing God was going to work it out between us, but it just came out of my mouth. I looked at him straight in the eye with such confidence and boldness. That wasnt me that was Holy Spirit bc I wouldnt ever had said that. I thought about it after on how it just came out and was like I cant believe I said that. but its okay I will continue to tell him! Thank you for your video.
Awesome! I encourage you to sign up for our upcoming Standing Supernaturally 5-Day Challenge that starts Oct 23rd. I believe it will dramatically impact your stand for restoration. www.StandingSupernaturally.com/5DayChallenge
@@standingsupernaturally I have signed up 😊
Fantastic!!!!!👋😀💯@@alvabedolla740
Fear of their response and Fear of rejection.
I was told countless times that I'm crazy and wasting my time
Great message. My wife separated from me a month ago. Just last week I trying to beg her to back but insisted she reply me that she can’t because her mother knows everything about me with my mistake and she told her not to come back to me. Same as her sisters and her people. So I just asking God to help me with this. I need prayer from you all. My wife is Mary Tonisi.
Amen to that🔥
Absolutely.... we should tell them that we are standing ...in a humble and loving way. Otherwise they will never know.🔥
All Glory goes to God.
He is the author and finisher of our story.❤
Jason, thank you...i just heard your testimony ( i am from the Netherlands) and i am so proud of you!! You are my example. I am standing now for 3 months...thank you!!
Amen! Today we are starting the Standing Supernaturally 5-Day Challenge. I believe it will dramatically impact your stand for restoration. Sign up at www.StandingSupernaturally.com/5DayChallenge
Thank you for taking the time to explain the reasons why we should tell our spouses that we are standing. God bless you and your family!
Have been feeling like if i told him,he will continue to take me for granted. Thank you Jason now i have the confidence to do that.
Please pray for me and my husband restoration. ❤❤❤ Dejesus is my last name, and Brooks
You are absolutely right, I don’t tell my spouse because of all three reasons.
I told my husband I am standing for our marriage but I know he can't just come home because it's a danger for me and our daughter until he gets delivered from drugs and sexual addiction. I start having panic attacks and so does my daughter when things start going off the rails and my daughter is just waiting for him to leave us for another woman. He wanted to come home several times this last year but he wasn't repentant yet and would have drug us back through hell at that point. He is now trying to stay clean but is still living in adultery knowing it's wrong but saying he is forgiven because of grace so he isn't stopping. I am praying continually and still believing a promise God gave me years ago and I told him I'm still standing for us and believing the promise God gave me years ago. He knows this promise. It's from Ezekiel 37. The two become one and God cleanses us from all our offenses and we won't ever be two Nations and two kingdoms again.
Praying your husband gets delivered from the shackles and chains of addiction. My husband also battles addiction with drugs and always pairs it with sex addiction. I pray in the name of Jesus the kids are protected and they will see that dark world is not the answer. God is working on their hearts. He will show them in that storm and they will eventually get burnt out and see they need to repent and go home to God.
I needed this tonight I’ve been standing for over a month. I believe that God will restore our marriage and I just never knew how important it was to tell him that I believe in the restoration of our marriage thank you !!
What if you just wait on God’s will. Surrender the marriage to God, stop praying for the marriage,
Use spiritual warfare, just pray for your spouse’s salvation and bless him/her.
Standing and praying for my marriage of 43 years for god to reckensile and heal in his mighty power amen
I am so scared because I am tired of the insults. I need to protect my peace and sanity.
I encourage you to sign up for our upcoming Standing Supernaturally 5-Day Challenge that starts Oct 23rd. I believe it will dramatically impact your stand for restoration. www.StandingSupernaturally.com/5DayChallenge
Thank you i am standing for a year now i trust God that he will restore my marriage
Thank you so much!!! I love your sermons and feel so encouraged and empowered to keep standing and believing!
Glad you like them! I encourage you to sign up for our upcoming Standing Supernaturally 5-Day Challenge that starts Oct 23rd. I believe it will dramatically impact your stand for restoration. www.StandingSupernaturally.com/5DayChallenge
This breaks my heart of me saying - If ever you decide to come home. I will be here. I am praying that I would be able to say that. Still praying for my heart to be ready. thanks for this wonderful message.
Thank you, Jason! I prayed this morning, asking God what to say to my prodigal husband. Those are great insights. Blessings!
Pray for my marriage to be restore and for my husband to come home
Jason - WOW! This is the BEST video I ever heard on this topic, thank you, I pray that GOD continually blesses you
Thanks for the kind words. Glad it was helpful!
I love the fact that you back up your teaching with THE WORD!
Jason thank you for your videos. Not sure if anyone else is experiencing periodic sound issues?
Yes it mutes every few words 😢
Thank you for sharing! My husband knows but praying another opportunity and conversation to share. again.
The conversation may look a little different with spouses deep in addiction because their behavior impacts the children and can be scary. I’ve had my spouse home and in active addiction when he lied about being clean, and it was traumatic. I do still believe in telling them, once they go back to the Lord our savior and get help (rehab, outpatient and do the work), we’ll be here. They often have deep inner wounds from childhood, etc they need to heal with God and they have to learn to create a new identity in Christ.
Going through the same thing. Not married but God confirmed to me that he was the man I was intended to marry. We are now in separation due to active addiction. I don't know if he will ever come back to me but there are so many things God has to work out in him before that's even possible. The road ahead seems so long.
LORD, help us make decisions out of faith and trust in Your purpose and good will for us🙇🏻♀️✝️🙏❤️🕊️
I greatly need prayer that my wife whom I’ve been separated from for 3 years seek God’s grace and guidance once more!! She’s been in a relationship with another man for a year for reasons of the flesh!! I pray for restoration of our marriage the enemy only wants to kill and destroy our sacred covenant of marriage we have with God! And now I’ve found out she’s engaged to him while still married to me!!
Yes I relate to the 1st point of not telling him, I feel he will reject me
Replay, Thanks for sharing this Godly and encouraging message.
You are so welcome! I encourage you to sign up for our upcoming Standing Supernaturally 5-Day Challenge that starts Oct 23rd. I believe it will dramatically impact your stand for restoration. www.StandingSupernaturally.com/5DayChallenge
I needed a sign whether to message or not thank you 🙏 God bless you and your wife 🙏
We need to pray for the salvation of every person on the planet. God is willing for none to perish. We also need to pray that God will speed up the saintification of His children and that we all will be walking out our callings. That God will turn us into a spiritual army and that we all will reach a new level in Him.
I just told her tonight. Praying it was received well. It was through text.
I started watching this thinking ...NO WAY JASON, I'm not getting in God's way.. .now I'm like ..why didn't I do this earlier?!
Jesus I trust you😭😭😭😭
Fear is the Mind-Killer
Please pray for my marriage 🙏
I love your great ministry Jason - this is extremely helpful. Blessings
Thank you so much for that I have done that, that I have to honour God etc.i didn't know I was making it worse.
Great message!
I'm afraid of telling my husband because the other woman he has been with. I feel like she thrives on the fact we're still married after 3 year's. I think if I tell my husband I still want our marriage that it pushes them closer together.
If that makes sense
Let truth lead you, not fear. The enemy will twist the fears we have to stop us speaking boldly what is the truth. Enemy fears truth, wants us scared. We must be like david with the attitude that " God is with me and I'm gonna cut your head off, liar!" Forget about the people. The battle is spiritual. And truth brings light which makes darkness flee.
NO!!! Please learn from me and so many others, you do NOT tell the enemy you know the movements. Telling them your standing (I did) sets up for self righteousness and appears aggressive in the other persons heart and mind. Its very difficult in the middle of the storm to see this. But place yourself in their shoes, they are determined to get away and find someone new. And here you are saying 'look at me, Im standing and waiting.". Yes, stand, let God work on you in the wait. But zip your lips. Plus you want to see OW/OM increase their efforts to steal your life?? Tell them your standing. Keep your lips zipped. Let God do the talking.
Exactly I agree.
I believe there is a way to let them know you’re still here willing to fight without telling them you’re standing for the marriage. I always made it clear that I was not moving on, or seeking other relationships, but would still be willing to fight for us if he was ever willing to fight for us. I let him know we can remain cordial and that meant being kind, loving, forgiving, not nagging him or accusing him, or reminding him that i wanted to work it out. But simply, I’m here for you, i love you and i respect you with whatever he decided to do. But i knew I was standing, i knew i was fixing my eyes on Jesus and not him or what he was up to and with who, but on what Gods promises said to me. I think it’s ok to let them know you are still there for them, still willing to fight for the marriage but also respect their boundaries while they go through what God needs to do with them. That way they know, that you were always there, not matter what it looked like, no matter what they did.
Were you restored? I agreed to move on. He called 3x that week. Mans nature to pursue and pursue harder that which he cannot have. Not to play games, but becoming agreeable, not resisting, and letting go. This is how we are to change. Informing them that we are fighting for them and our families has caused me so much heart ache and more rejection. If I could turn back time (and I cant) I would of kept my mouth shut and not said one word.
She emotionally abused me for seven years and left me twice. I have no intention of filing for divorce but I’m to emotionally damaged to suggest that I’m standing for our marriage.
Watching this on the replay. Thank you Jason, this is very encouraging! I'm currently busy with the D proceedings, and I don't know if my husband will receive a message about me standing very well. I'm honest. I am a little scared to send him a msg. I have no idea what he will do with that msg. I know that he shows my messages around... so not sure if I should do this..
You got this! I encourage you to sign up for our upcoming Standing Supernaturally 5-Day Challenge that starts Oct 23rd. I believe it will dramatically impact your stand for restoration. www.StandingSupernaturally.com/5DayChallenge
Yes tired of trying
Please pray for my son hes being effectived misses him restore there connection as well
My spouse knows i always want him back even told me he be happy if i moved on amd found someone thatade me happy to be with.
Yes I get rejected by my husband all the time too it's in Awful feeling
All of the above
I told my husband and he’s remarried. I told him I love him and I want us back and our family. He said I’m with someone now. If I wasn’t then maybe we could have been together. That has killed me. We have 3 kids 4 grands and 30 years and he’s been with her maybe 4 years. It had almost killed me.
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
💖🙏🏾🕊️
🙏
🙏
Rejoice in all things, tell him your happy for him, you agree to move on and that is for the best. If we resist what is happening in anyway is just pushes them towards someone else. Not that this is a game, it is not. It is fully all about what God has called us through. Let go and give it ALL to the Lord.
My reason for not telling him is because I’ve gone back and forth so much so I’m afraid he will just roll his eyes and not believe me.
I told my wife shortly after we separated that i still hold onto a hope of reconciliation but have never shared the words, "im standing." Now we are recently divorced, and she's now been in another relationship for over a year. Im scared that if i tell her of my position, she'll think im crazy or i haven't moved on, or worse, i'll push her away further. I just dont know if it's something i should do? I am praying for the courage to share and the Holy Spirit to lead me with just what to share.
the best thing you can do is keep silent, focus fully on the Lord and not what she is/isnt doing and turn your heart FULLY to the Lord. Also, take care of yourself. Ive been your wife, if I saw my husband going to the gym, organizing things etc. It would of gotten my attention. There is nothing magical we can say or do except for being agreeable and praying the scriptures. That is hard enough.
What about situations when a spouse is abusive and unrepentant? Shouldn’t we establish boundaries in this case?
I encourage you to sign up for our upcoming Standing Supernaturally 5-Day Challenge that starts Oct 23rd. I believe it will dramatically impact your stand for restoration. www.StandingSupernaturally.com/5DayChallenge
Should I tell my wife this even though she's with a counterfeit right now?
Yes.
Mutual restraining order....
Hes very angry with me
Fear of rejection
Not sure what hes been up to. Its been 14 months apart no contact...
Does anyone have a testimony on their marriage?
We are separated for 3 months now and still staying in the same house until I find my own place , but the way he doesn't want me m scared to tell him m standing
I encourage you to sign up for our upcoming Standing Supernaturally 5-Day Challenge that starts Oct 23rd. I believe it will dramatically impact your stand for restoration. www.StandingSupernaturally.com/5DayChallenge
I had to block my spouse amd the ow cuz other day my husband finally talked to rhe kids he never does their 2 1/2 and 5 1/2 and he asked my daughter if she wanted to mert his new gf and told her to say hi amd her ne amd i shut the laptop amd ended the call and they r dull of drama and always breaking up and i told him i dodnt want their drama and my daughters so confused and hurt he doesnt hardly talk to them :( this is tough they split then get back together thank God its only a virtual relationship atm but its just too much but i believe underneath it all he still knows I love him and he can come back.
How do you know if once you offer this they don’t say ok but still leave god out of the process
I gave up on my stand. I had a stroke because I was so stressed out. The results of the stroke, I'm blind in my right eye. I guess I never got over her walking out on me. I can't let her go, but as far as it comes to standing I just gave up. I don't have the strength anymore. I'M SORRY.
I declare new strength is coming upon you!
Mr. John, I pray that God restores your eyesight and strengthens your mind and heart not to be weary. All things can be restored through Christ Jesus. Pour love into yourself and into loving God. If it's God's will, your wife will return to you. I'm praying for you and your family in Jesus' name, Amen.
💖🙏🏾🕊️
Please do not give up. God always wins battles. He will show up the very last minute. Even if your situation looks like a mess. God will turn it into a message. Just seek His face. Remember God hates divorce. Declare His promises when you pray. No man can separate us. Only death do us part. God gave me such a lot of promises and dreams and I remind Him all the time in my prayers. He will come through. Don't focus on your wife to much. Focus on Him. Blessings. I'm also still standing and know that God is a Restorer and not a Destroyer.
When we are week HE is strong. WE cant, thats the whole point. WE cant do, say, anything. God wants the glory. When we CANT anymore, God must be rejoicing, even though it feels HORRIBLE. He wants us to surrender all...all fear, all selfishness, all pride, all striving. All to HIm and Him alone.
Is there a video of your story? Why your wife left? We are separated essentially but living under same roof. Just spent the holidays apart. There is a lot going on here, but essentially I caught my wife lying to me and sneaking off with my pastor for “counseling” in a park…several times over a 4 week period. All cloaked in lies and secrecy and deceit. I set up an intervention and she denied affair, I caught her more lies and then turned things on me asking me about a situation and I confessed (I didn’t have affair and never have). So I’m the bad guy now and she is totally withdrawn from me and refusing counseling or dealing with why she was sneaking off with my pastor and lying and hiding in parks and such. What to do.
I also do fear if i mention again he will start pushing the divorce again ive never received papers thank God and hes wanting to bring this phillipine woman to states and marry her :(
All of these but right now i bloced him and the ow and we have zero contact so not good time to mention again
Is it wrong to tell your children Daddy made some poor choices when they ask why he no longer lives here? I asked him to leave as he had no remorse and continued messaging multiple women, sneaking out, lying, etc.
No, that sounds like a gentle way to tell your children. Just keep them hopeful and encouraged that God helps all of us when we mess up, and God heals all things. I encourage you to sign up for our upcoming Standing Supernaturally 5-Day Challenge that starts Oct 23rd. I believe it will dramatically impact your stand for restoration. www.StandingSupernaturally.com/5DayChallenge
Today is his birthday and I texted him happy birthday and the first example you gave. So out of my comfort zone to do so- but it’s done.
I know how much it hurts when they show no remorse and they flaunt their adultery, but you don't have a legal right to tell him to leave his own home. Even if the two of you have to stay in separate bedrooms, he is entitled to live in his own home. Sheila Hollinger of Marriage Revealed Ministries had to go through that very thing for 6 and 1/2 years. You might want to check out her RUclips channel, Marriage Revealed Ministries. She has children, also. Her marriage has been restored, but it took a lot of pain and spiritual growth to get there. I'm standing with you and your children in prayer.
Should I tell my wife this even though she's with a counterfeit right now?