What If I Want To Restore My Marriage But My Spouse Does Not?
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- Опубликовано: 2 окт 2024
- "No matter how DEEPLY you have been Wounded by someone that you trusted, it never has to DESTROY your life.
God will never allow another person to RUIN your life.
But God will allow YOU to ruin your life
because He gave you a free will."
-DOMINIC HERBST, Founder of Restoring Relationships
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Love your videos. They've helped me tremendously! I was guilty of praying for restoration of my marriage instead of praying for God to draw my spouse's heart to him. It has made a difference in how I view what my marriage is going through. I love my wife dearly and want what's best for her, and I know that is a close and intimate relationship with the Lord. Everything else will fall into place according to God's will. It's been amazing to see how God has transformed and worked in my life. I'm excited to see him transform hers.
Exactly God first
I'm a wife and there's a third person in the marriage, but God has been showing me how to take my eyes off the situation and give it all to Him; as well as being transformed myself. Glory to God! I really get it now!❤
Thank you for your biblical advice for marriage restoration. My marriage is restored now. Thanks be to God. ❤❤
Hallelujah ❤🎉❤❤
Hallelujah Praise God ♥️🙏
I’m so happy for you!!! May I ask did your spouse seem to want a way out? My spouse is very close to giving up and wanting divorce. I know God can do all things, I just like stories of success. I’m beyond happy for you.
BARUCH HaShem!!!!!!! 🔯🙏🏾✝️💯🕊️😇❤️
Hallelujah
Amen! Lord, please bring my family back together so I can raise my boys in a Godly home. As for me & my house, we will serve the Lord.
This is so true and based on God's Word. I am experiencing it. My spouse is an unbeliever and became physically abusive. I am separated for 1 year. I have really been giving Christ the secret things of my heart and it is a daily thing. But on the last exchange of the children, my daughter said "daddy is crying in the car now." I only pray that it is a cry from🙏 Godly sorrow, which will one day lead to true repentance. 🙏🙏
My therapist told me to get proof of adultery and file for a divorce from my present, but prodigal husband, to have the upper hand. When I say I’m trusting God, she looks at me like I have 3 heads. Adultery is bad, but God showed me things I’ve done are horrible too. I would pick adultery over a return of what I’ve done. Thank God for Grace and Mercury.
I do not know of a worse betrayal than adultery?
Amen brother!! When else do we get an opportunity to die (to ourselves) for someone else!? What a privilege to suffer for and stand in the gap in obedience as Christ did for someone else’s very soul? It’s a huge blessing. A painful fiery trial for sure but if you recognize that God is using it to radically change you in a way you could never be changed without this trial, you will joy in your sufferings, regard it as a privilege and blessing…you’ll truly understand exactly what that verse means. Let God have His way with you for this short time of suffering and at the right time He will exalt you. 💙
This🙌🏿🙌🏿
I pray that it is short 😢
@@ryanr6607It'll be all worth it brother. I'm in the same boat.
So true. Do not put yourself in the hands of a fallen counselor in a fallen world.
My wife left me for another man. Left our children left her grandchild doesn't want to be around me or the kids much at all. She is so hollow right now she's committed Adultery all through our marriage she's living in Darkness and torment. She knows who Jesus is she is a Christian. She wants a divorce. I still love her so much. I Pray and break down to my Master Jesus Christ of Nazareth every day for Satan to be rebuked from her and Jesus holy blood poor down upon her to give her a sound new mind and a New beautiful heart ❤️ And for her to come fully under God's Holy light of love and salvation. I send this prayer to my Beautiful wife. God I love you with all my heart mind and soul. 😢 ✝️🌹✝️🙏🏻 Amen 🙏🏻
Difficult to read this. So much emotion from the heart of a hurting man's heart for himself and his family. I only wish my husband had a portion of this but I have the cold wall clothed in cruelty that pleases only the enemy. These videos have helped so much. We are in the right place. I pray your wife sees the value she has in a husband like you. May Jesus touch both of your hearts and heal you
@@MandelaAustraliaThank you so much. God bless you. I cried for what you wrote 🙏🏻🌹🙏🏻
Praying with you for your and my marriage 🕊️💖
Pray for my ex wife. She refuses God be in her life. She destroyed our family. What can God do? I dont know. Life is so.bad. Praying. For my kids to grew in a holy family. 🙏🤨 Amen
At first I was praying for my wife to come back to me then about 10 months ago I started asking for my wife and kids hearts and spirits be turned to God and im still standing for my marriage but I'm staying out of gods way and letting him heal me so I can be the husband and father that God wants me to be
More confirmation. More truth. More God speaking into my situation. Thank you Jesus
IKR! This is for sure confirmation.
Hi Dominic, my husband ask for a separation in June 2019. By Dec 2020 we were divorced and he remarried Nov 2021.
In June 2022 she was diagnosed with cancer. In Nov 2022 - before their first anniversary she was gone. She died.
My husband of 25 yrs, (when he left) would have been our 30th this year 2024) is now a widower in his eyes. But to me that was a counterfeit marriage and I am his covenant wife.
He’s softened a lot toward me in terms of his communication. Our three children - now 17, 20, 23. All see him as often as they can. He lives over 120miles away from us. He has inherited her four children, 16, 18, 21, 24.
I have been standing in the gap for him for over four years. Praying for him to come to Christ and if it’s the LORDS will, back to me and our family.
Can you offer any advice please?
In Christ,
Vera 🙏🏼
I have been Praying for my spouse to return to his 1st Love which is Christ, even though we have been divorced for 5 yrs already! At this point, I feel more for him to give his life to God more so to our broken marriage!
Wow, Great word Great Advice 👍 👌. My husband came back but not fully and then left again. I gave him to God got a job and take care of the family as best as I can. God will provide
My life has been changed! My soul is restored for the 1st time in my life. It's amazing how clearly you can see once free and with eyes and vision restore. Now I patiently pray for my wife that the kindness of the Lord will lead her to repentance and that our relationship will be restored, not to what it was before but restored to God's design and for His purposes. Eph 2:10. Thank you Dominic and Joseph, you're both such a blessing. God bless you and everyone at Restoring Relationships.
Father God you exposed my spouse is under the influence of NPD TRAITS and has us living separated But I can't help but to desire to save him from darkness I declare you cast down them strong holds and pull off all evil from him. I pray his heart draw near to you 🙏 Amen
Such insight from the Lord. I pray the LORD GOD brings covenant spouses back first to HIM, then to us. In JESUS CHRIST’S PRECIOUS NAME. ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥🙏🏼
You have spoken everything that I was doing until I surrendered to God and asked him to change me, make me like him, and now praying for my prodigals restoration back to God
As I'm watching this I am so convicted. All the things you're saying not to do I'm doing. But I have been praying to hear a message JUST LIKE THIS. I almost didn't click on the video.
I pray for our souls to be restored.
Even most "Christian" counselor's give ungodly advice, encourage divorce & adultery.
Go only to God & get counsel & advice from those who adhere to the Word of God.
It's been going on since 2017. He does not want anything to do with me anymore. I am for peace. The emotional abuse is too much..
Father I pray for my marriage to be restored that your love and forgiveness would be poored out in Jesus name amen
Thank you this helped me a lot. Applying this as I apply the word of God
Amen!
In my situation I’m praying for my son Michael and daughter-in-law shalexus both in their 20s I’m praying for their deliverance salvation and restoration in their lives and marriage, will you pray along with me for them
I just came across this channel , you provided so much clarity on my situation at hand . I have been praying so much and repenting, taking nature walking crying . Amen to you and me working to improve myself ,quit drinking etc I will let go and let GOD. In Jesus name Amen with his blood he will heal everything. Bless you brother. 2024.
I have 100% been transformed by God, I have received Godly Sorrow. I now pray that my prodigal spouse will return to God.
I also pray that God will restore us. I trust God
What if my spouse not only left but now has been in an adulterous marriage to someone else for years now. I Never fought for my marriage because we were young and I didn't know I could fight for him 😭 but now after all these years he's on my heart again. Can this be restored? He was My husband before he was hers . How can this be saved 😢
God bless you life. You are a great blessing to my life. And I’m sure the life of others, I totally 💯 agree with what you are saying., in fact Jesus asked me, you think you can drive better than me??
Absolutely not. You Lord drive much better than me. Thank you for teaching us the word of God in a relationship way with our spouse. 🙏🏻
With God all things are possible ❤.. Thank you 🙏 ❤
The problem is it sound like we need to be perfect in order to become restored. no marriage is perfect but you need to Be perfect to be restored and married? There will always be problems and difficulties. We made a promise TO GOD. To separate is to break that Promise
Wow! Thank you so much for teaching this. I really struggled in my marriage because of a lack of knowledge. This has given me so much guidance. May God bless you!
Seriously. This video is SO GOOD AND NECESSARY. Praise God. This is EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED.
Will broken engagements will also be restored?
Amen come back to God not me!!
This is very helpful
Im interested to register, I've reached the staff asking about. I live in Ireland and would get just the recorded videos and would like to know if is still ok, or I will be missing a bit this way...
Spot on my big bro.
That's perfect timing and encouragement. My focus is to stay on God through faith in Christ and trust in His providence in everything. Thank you for your prayers and diligence in this arena, fighting for the covenant of marriage and glorifying God.
This was one of the best messages about marriage restoration. I have listened to many podcasts and videos over the years. This one really hit home into my heart and spirit. May the Lord use this platform to heal marriages.
Amen !
Wow! This is truth. I’ve had to delete a lot of instagram videos because my Spirit kept pushing against the messages. Thank you for this clarity.. trusting in man is a sin, even if that man is me..
Praying for my prodigal husband mario to soften his heart , and return to the Lord .
Should you bother confronting someone who did you wrong but never made an effort to make it right 👉 instead they lie to others saying that they did ?
No just pray and leave everything in the hands of God.Be patient time will reveal every truth
Thank you.. I pray for my ex wife..to find Jesus..I bless her..and will not write her anymore "i love you"❤Amen
Been divorced since April I don’t think god wants to restore us I keep asking him what he wants me to do stand or move on and I get nothing everyone on these apps say god told them to stand.
If he has not spoken to you His advice is still the same. Love Christ. Spouses can’t be an idol. Stand til death. Deathbed conversions happen even if they waste their life, you don’t need to let them waste yours. 💛
Me and my husband are separated for over 3 mths and I’m not sure what to pray about anymore.
May I offer suggestion?
Amen 🙏
Thank you. I am praying feverishly that my marriage be restored. He filed for divorce two weeks ago. He was unfaithful for years of our 12 years together. But I was also angry and disconnected for years from years of abuse as a child. I never trusted him, and then he went ahead and proved my intuitions correct.
I feel the enemy has hardened his heart. I pray every single day, multiple times. I'm reading the Bible like I cannot get enough.
Please pray for John's redemption and my forgiveness, and our restoration.
I'm very glad this video found me. Warriors of Christ, please pray for us.
Praying for you now
My husband doesn't want me anymore we have been together for 15 years and we have four kids together. Please pray for my marriage
Someone’s decision to cheat is not your fault at all; people are responsible for all their choices. I hope you’re not taking responsibility for his character issues. Praying for your family. 💛
Wow! THIS is an AMAZING WORD!!!!
So I've been with my husband for 30yrs. On & off. We were married in 2008 and we divorced in 2022i moved out for a year and September 23,2023 I moved back in thinking we would get back together (Praying along the way). Truly it was a false start. He is back to staying out alnight. Also being Mean( things he say or do etc.). My insides is telling me to run real fast away from him but then I listen to Dominic Herbst, don't give up and Pray on it and over it and get stuck all over again. Yes, I still Love him. What should I do? He feels now that he doesn't owe me any explanation since we're no longer married 😢. Help me Please.
Lord, may you reveal Yourself to Mads & make his faith in You stronger than ever. May you still be willing to put us back together & make us the best for each other. In Jesus' name I prat. Amen.
I want to sign up please and thank you
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Amen,conformation, God 1st and His will in my life.My husband file for divorce and we are separated, Gods battle 🙏 😊
What if my prodigal doesn’t want to surrender to God?
You still surrender and lead your life walking with Christ and pray for your spouse to go to Christ and love Him. Only then can she love you.
Tgank you Lord for this final confirmation about my situation. Thanj you Servant of God! It IS true! I need to continue on a journey of self transformation and I need to pray for my spiuse to return to God...NOT me...Gids will be done. Thank you Lord!
Thank you for this. Praise God for his goodness and power
What do I do after giving it to God
Love him, with so much pain
It has been a true blessing to have been led to this page
Pray for our marriage and glory to God! 🙌🙏❤
Would this apply if your spouse is not a believer?
Bible speaks to how believers redeem their unbelieving spouses and children. I think in Titus or 1 Peter?
Can God restore relationship for unmarried people...?
Yes, please visit our website at Restoringrelationships.org for more information or to register for our next Walking Through Calvary group!
God transform me.
very timely for me here!
2 Cor 7:9-11, 8:5
Amen!!!
Ok, what do I do? Do I date or keep been in my house 🙏🏻🫶🏻
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