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  • Опубликовано: 2 июл 2024
  • Hi I’m Aurikatariina and I deep clean my followers' homes for free! ❤️
    Today I'm in London!! This is part two of cleaning the home in London. Now we cleaned the bedroom, loving room, toilet and kids room. The bathroom was lovely and had lots of limescale and grime. The home was filled with kids toys and dust but we fixed that issue! Now ht whole shines for them again!
    Bathroom cleaning, kitchen cleaning, living room cleaning, Organizing, deep cleaning, Washing, before and after pictures, satisfying results.
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    Summary:
    00:00 intro
    01:23 coming up
    01:33 Washing the sink
    03:18 Washing the shower glass door
    04:42 Washing the shower
    06:00 Washing the grout
    06:24 Washing the shower head
    07:10 collecting clothes
    07:33 Washing the Bathtub
    08:06 Washing the toilet
    09:25 Washing the bathroom floor
    10:59 finishing touches
    11:28 emptying the dining table
    13:43 Washing the chairs
    14:11 collecting clothes
    15:50 collecting toys
    18:32 emptying shelves
    20:43 Washing the living room floor
    21:40 collecting clothes from the bedroom
    24:40 dusting and Washing the floor
    25:42 some dusting
    26:31 Washing chairs
    27:41 cleaning the kids room
    28:55 finishing touches
    29:33 before and after pictures

Комментарии • 1,8 тыс.

  • @taji4857
    @taji4857 Год назад +1989

    Hi Aurikstariina, my mom in Japan broke her leg and hospitalized. I live in US, so I couldn’t visit her since Covid. But when I went to her house, I found dirty house piles of clothes and moldy dishes and pots in the kitchen. My sister and I were shocked and devastated, but I watched one of your video again right there, and got empowered. It’s been 4 days of cleaning and throwing away soiled stuff. When I see some disgusting stuff, I picture you smiling and excited, and I can get on it. Thank you so much for making cleaning such a positive thing.

    • @js7924
      @js7924 Год назад +85

      I hope your mom recuperates quickly and that you and your sibling know what a blessing you are to her. Glad you were able to visit her. (I lived in Okinawa for 4 yrs as a child. Still remember Tokyo!)

    • @millie9236
      @millie9236 Год назад +22

      I hope all is well😊

    • @HollhouseVanHouten
      @HollhouseVanHouten Год назад +55

      I truly believe Aurikatariina’s positive attitude towards cleaning has helped my mental attitude towards dirt and grime. I’m glad to hear it’s not just me! She empowers me to clean and her tips on how to clean have genuinely helped me. I hope you mom is doing better now ❤️

    • @HollhouseVanHouten
      @HollhouseVanHouten Год назад +15

      @@js7924sorry for the random comment, but I noticed your profile picture and I love your hair! Grey hair is beautiful, i used to dye my hair grey and it’s my favourite hair colour I’ve had, I hope when I naturally go grey it’s as beautiful as yours is! ❤️

    • @merope8014
      @merope8014 Год назад +4

      Yes!!! Go you!!

  • @wckd4u
    @wckd4u Год назад +2768

    It sounds like you care a lot about Sami to set him free to find someone more suited to his life goals. Hope you both find the happiness you are looking for!

    • @rich43diva
      @rich43diva Год назад +61

      Yes, exactly! It was an unselfish act.❤️

    • @pantaleologoluso9593
      @pantaleologoluso9593 Год назад +69

      I would have preferred that they found a compromise because life is never perfect but he had all the best intentions to make it work and they could have worked together to build a family and her business This world of videos is artificial their relationship was real ! They could have continued together. Its very sad

    • @narellemacpherson9759
      @narellemacpherson9759 Год назад +18

      Sorry to hear about your breakup

    • @ajulan10
      @ajulan10 Год назад +182

      @@pantaleologoluso9593 she said she doesn't want to build a family. Why should she be forced to? Many people don't want kids

    • @ajulan10
      @ajulan10 Год назад +73

      @@pantaleologoluso9593 and you say that life is never perfect but maybe it is perfect for her if she is single and it would make her less happy if she is in a relationship

  • @JulieDHunter
    @JulieDHunter Год назад +492

    You are very brave for calling off your engagement. Some people are too scared to do that and then end up getting divorced later. It sounds like you two were able to part ways maturely and respectfully. I hope both of your hearts heal fully and quickly. You both deserve love and happiness and you will both find it. ❤️‍🩹

  • @iDimples1
    @iDimples1 Год назад +649

    I like the saying "just because it's not bad, doesn't mean you're happy or that it's meant for you"

    • @belleve5709
      @belleve5709 Год назад +30

      My best advice ever, never stay more than 3 minutes after a person doesn't want to be with you,or you with them. There are single people of all ages sitting home praying for you to come share a life together. Take care of you ,get to know yourself ,maybe your enough yourself! I spent 3 years looking for a mate to come into my life after a very difficult divorce. I finally decided my kids were enough and didn't need a mate. I was so happy about my decision. But God had something else in mind, I was married less than a month later! They watched me from close up and faraway for 3 years, thought there was no way they would get involved with a divorced parent. But once I'd stopped chasing love and was just happy to be me , they stepped in and offered everything! We have been married 34 years ! We just fit. Not perfect but very blessed.If it's meant to be it will be. Take care of you!

    • @vivic4617
      @vivic4617 10 месяцев назад

      @@belleve5709❤❤love that 🤗🤗

  • @Mrs.TJTaylor
    @Mrs.TJTaylor Год назад +1675

    I love how you said “my side of the story”. That shows intelligence and generosity of spirit.

    • @jtidema
      @jtidema Год назад +92

      I was thinking the same thing. She didn't say "I'll tell you what happened", she is honest that there are always two sides.

    • @Yakita60
      @Yakita60 Год назад +47

      Agreed, more open discussions should start with the honesty of saying “here’s MY side…”

    • @liesbethladan5069
      @liesbethladan5069 Год назад

      Very mentally mature!

    • @justme8841
      @justme8841 Год назад

      Yes, but it depends. If you are dealing with liars, narcissists... There story is mostly flawed by a disorientaited world view

    • @AlexisTwoLastNames
      @AlexisTwoLastNames Год назад +2

      @@justme8841but it’s still just their side. the others involved can say their side. it is nice when ppl can acknowledge that they have an opinion/pov and that their opinion isn’t fact, like Auri did in the video :)

  • @Alison_Diane
    @Alison_Diane Год назад +663

    Your ex seems like a great guy. I'm glad you had nice things to say about him. All the best to both of you.

    • @Edith.G.G.
      @Edith.G.G. Год назад +44

      Yeah! Sammy seems like a great man.

  • @itsnicole11
    @itsnicole11 Год назад +1364

    You know you’re a fan of Aurikatariina when you get excited seeing ScrubDaddy in stores

    • @beautifulbuds
      @beautifulbuds Год назад +1

      Yes!!!!!

    • @xenia_benidorm2377
      @xenia_benidorm2377 Год назад +8

      As soon as they appear in stores in Spain, I'll buy one :-)

    • @DVD927
      @DVD927 Год назад +3

      @@xenia_benidorm2377 probably someone has them on eBay if the shipping isn’t outrageous

    • @ninamurillo7428
      @ninamurillo7428 Год назад +4

      And power paste !! It's pricey here in Arizona 9$ plus tax

    • @cindykress6679
      @cindykress6679 Год назад

      ​@@ninamurillo7428 in Massachusetts also. I was hoping it would be cheaper.

  • @bookreader7108
    @bookreader7108 Год назад +611

    I appreciate the fact that this beautiful young lady is kind and understanding. She never shames the person she is helping. She has grace and character.

    • @misshappinessandmissflower
      @misshappinessandmissflower Год назад +10

      I SAW scrubdaddy on sale in TK (in America think it's TJ!) Maxx and I was like, yes!!!! And I purchased my first scrub mummy and daddy! I thought that was just your nickname for your sponge and got so excited when I realised it's an actual product. I love it!!

    • @YorkshireLassWithClass
      @YorkshireLassWithClass Год назад +16

      @@sozen3710 now now, don’t be jealous of her, she does a great job, how many people do you know that would spend 3 days cleaning a house/apartment for FREE? Not many I’d guess. She has a great sponsor who sell amazing products, and if they want to fly her to any location in Europe and put her up in accommodation for those 3 days then that’s a good thing, if she helps just one person feel better about their living spaces, then that’s a great service.

    • @sozen3710
      @sozen3710 Год назад

      @@YorkshireLassWithClass Its free for fools who does not understand this crap vídeo

    • @ladyfrederick788
      @ladyfrederick788 Год назад

      She does shame people in some videos. That’s why I unsubscribed, adding to her continuing to say she does it for free when the videos have made her a millionaire and she has sponsors and her travel is covered. Using people who are vulnerable for views is not cool.

    • @karenpaul4940
      @karenpaul4940 10 месяцев назад +7

      ​@ladyfrederick788 it's free to the people she does the cleaning for, obviously she needs to earn a living! I've never seen her shame anyone in any of her videos, mind giving me an example?

  • @joygernautm6641
    @joygernautm6641 Год назад +1417

    I love that you own the fact that you enjoy being alone and don’t want marriage and children. I feel like women are pressured so heavily to want that life and treated like freaks if they don’t. Nobody would fault a 30-year-old man for feeling the way you do so please just carry on and be happy.♥️♥️♥️

    • @claudieC.
      @claudieC. Год назад +139

      I never wanted marriage or children. Pursued higher education and have a full life of independence and income. I'm as single as single gets. Never married and no children and not even bothering with dating. I haven't lifted a finger to date. Take a break and do you.

    • @donnamaco1
      @donnamaco1 Год назад +34

      100,000 thumbs up.

    • @Lichtersee
      @Lichtersee Год назад +36

      I don’t want children, too.

    • @onesus6714
      @onesus6714 Год назад +86

      @@claudieC. You're my inspiration from now on lol. Since I'm only 17, my family tells me that I will change my mind once I get older but instead, the older I get, the more I hate the idea of it and can't imagine living a life like that without hating myself and everything/everyone

    • @NarnianLady
      @NarnianLady Год назад +33

      My experience is, in Western cultures it is the opposite: a woman who wants marriage and love, is seen as weak and dependant - there is the ideal of a strong, independent woman, who does not need or long for a man.
      Just my personal experience.. and many of my single friends' as well :)
      It does not help that most men do not want marriage either.

  • @kaylariggs5188
    @kaylariggs5188 Год назад +859

    Super admire that you were able to recognize the relationship wasn't right for you. It's hard to take a huge leap and change something when there's no "problem". But we shouldn't just do things because of what society expects of us. There's so much pressure to be married, or a homeowner, or have a successful career, and have children all by a certain time... But you have to be happy too!

    • @kaylariggs5188
      @kaylariggs5188 Год назад +1

      @Telegrom_Real_Aurikatariina scam! Don't fall for that guys, it's a well-known scam on RUclips, posing as the creators. They will ask for personal information or payment to "send you a prize" and then they will rob you.

    • @ccelms6581
      @ccelms6581 Год назад +17

      Be careful! The Auri who commented may not actually be Auri!☹️ There are scam artists who do this thing.

    • @kaylariggs5188
      @kaylariggs5188 Год назад +9

      @@ccelms6581 yup it's a s c a m !!!

    • @IGotNoJam
      @IGotNoJam Год назад +8

      @@ccelms6581 yes those are bots. You find them under almost every RUclips video. They are very annoying because once you report one, three more pop up somewhere else. 🤖💥🤛🏻

    • @ccelms6581
      @ccelms6581 Год назад +3

      Yup! And they use the RUclipsr’s pic and everything. Liars!😒
      Well, I’m glad you guys know! Have a great week!❤️

  • @ashleyruma9591
    @ashleyruma9591 Год назад +389

    Trauma always shows outwardly. Messy houses, addiction, obesity, poor relationships. Some of us have one or more. I always am ashamed to have a messy home, so that is clean and tidy. Sadly, i don’t take the same care for my self and i am overweight and in poor health. Auri is helping me realize that i can clean myself up by taking steps like she does with cleaning houses. First, stop being ashamed. Next, get help. Then, think and stay positive while you make changes. ❤

    • @totowashere
      @totowashere Год назад +7

      I wish you all the best!

    • @kimknobloch887
      @kimknobloch887 Год назад +2

      Thank you for the inspiration.

    • @caseyhill636
      @caseyhill636 Год назад +17

      Remember what Auri says “there is no mess so big that it can’t be cleaned up”. When I feel overwhelmed I always say that to myself. 🌷💕🥰😎

    • @FelixDaHousecat11
      @FelixDaHousecat11 Год назад +4

      I got the same message as you did from her videos. Wishing you recovery and lots of love and support 🌹

    • @FelixDaHousecat11
      @FelixDaHousecat11 Год назад +1

      @@FireSilver25 i love this, thank you!

  • @thebosshouse
    @thebosshouse Год назад +80

    Totally random, but I just cleaned my oven overnight with the cling wrap and OMG it wasn't even this clean when I moved in. I've never had an oven this clean and didn't realize it was possible. Thank you!!! 💜

  • @donnalayne2395
    @donnalayne2395 Год назад +704

    Auri, I was so sad at first when you sad that you and Sammy broke up. But after hearing your story I think you made the right decision and you are so incredibly brave and strong. I wish both of you all the happiness in the world. You are such an amazing person the world needs more people like you!!!! Love from your friend on the east coast of America 🇺🇸 😊

    • @justkiddin84
      @justkiddin84 Год назад +16

      Make that two from East Coast US! You have helped Sami move forward to his next relationship with skills his next partner will definitely appreciate! ❤

    • @nanmarie8207
      @nanmarie8207 Год назад +5

      Three🥰

    • @ladeybugg1
      @ladeybugg1 Год назад +5

      Four from the US! ❤

    • @ladeybugg1
      @ladeybugg1 Год назад +1

      Four from the US! ❤

    • @drvictoria2002
      @drvictoria2002 Год назад +3

      Love from the Pacific NorthWest of the US!

  • @LydiaKrow
    @LydiaKrow Год назад +278

    It's so hard to make a decision like breaking up when things are GOOD. Sami seems like such a great guy, and I'm relieved that there was no drama. If you know you need flexibility and freedom, it's best to be honest and forthright and accept the consequences rather than live a half life. I wish you both the best.

    • @kimtatami6559
      @kimtatami6559 10 месяцев назад +3

      This hits hard for me coz I was in similar situation with a guy. He was great but I just felt he wasn't right. Something was missing .. I didn't know what. . I ended it and still wonder if I made the right decision as I haven't found anyone as nice or genuine but I am happy with my life

  • @jeanieolahful
    @jeanieolahful Год назад +103

    Sometimes you can really love someone, yet you don’t share the same goals and dreams. Your goals and dreams sound amazing. I can really appreciate what you say about your freedom, I was married for 20 years, and now I’ve been single for as long, and I just can’t give that up. It’s not for everyone, but for those of us who get it, there’s nothing like the freedom of being single and controlling what you do, where you go, and never having to consult with someone else. Perhaps down the road you and Sami can be friends, and I’m sure breaking up was so very sad, but you did the right thing.

  • @wgrish3619
    @wgrish3619 Год назад +34

    I am 43, single, and child free (though I am a dog mom), and I still feel exactly as you do. I prefer to be by myself more often than not, and the freedom to do whatever I want, when I want, keeps me happy. If I want to have company, I have friends and/or family join me on my travels or adventures, but having the option and freedom is "living my dream." I hope you keep living your dream, too!

  • @susanstardust4706
    @susanstardust4706 Год назад +267

    Scrub daddy is the man in your life 😂
    Humour will get you through!
    You're an angel of light, thank you for inspiring me to clean... last relationship toxic and my house a mess. I'll get there Auri, you'll be with me in spirit! 🌟💞x

  • @chelsey4188
    @chelsey4188 Год назад +30

    My mother suffered from bi-polar disorder and her house would get like this every few months. I would go and clean it every time. I started to feel negative about it and it showed. I wish I could go back in time and have Katarina's attitude about it. Covid took my mother last year at the age of 60. I miss her so much and I wish I could go back and tell her how much I love her and that it's just mess. I hope if you have someone in your life suffering like this that you will take the attitude of cleaning being fun. Miss you so much mommy! 😢

    • @korriejorgenson3090
      @korriejorgenson3090 Год назад +3

      I understand your pain as I lost my mother not long ago as well and I am sorry for your loss and hope your grief and regret will turn into happiness/contentment one day. Times may have been tough but she knows you love her. She knows everything now. 💕

    • @xXluluchanelXx
      @xXluluchanelXx 7 месяцев назад

      I teared up for you. I understand that regret too well. Hugs from an internet stranger who has been through the same thing.

  • @ryanstephens8403
    @ryanstephens8403 Год назад +20

    I love that she was so open and mature about her break up. The saying "if you love them , you will set them free." Is exactly what she did. She loves Sami and she knew she couldn't give him what he wanted in life. He wouldn't have been able to settle down and raise the family that she knew he wanted. She wants to be free and I admire that. People ( not just men, women will do you dirty just as much if not more ) need to take note ... If you're not happy/satisfied with your relationship, you DONT CHEAT ...YOU MAKE A DECISION TO LEAVE OR STAY AND FIX IT . unfortunately though Ari's problem isn't something you can fix. Much love you to Ari and Sami ❤️

  • @valenechavez8448
    @valenechavez8448 Год назад +2

    You’re a very selfless brave woman. I admire you so much. I know your decision even though it was yours , it wasn’t easy. Sami does deserve a family if that’s what he wants. He looked really happy rearranging those kid toys 😢, but you also deserve to live the life you want. You are doing so much good with your life by giving to others,BUT NEVER FORGET YOU ARE IMPORTANT TOO! Thank you for being such an inspiration, with so much love all the way from TEXAS 🇺🇸 P.S. I wish bathrooms in America had drains in the center of the floor. I love that y’all have that. ❤

  • @ealexeenko
    @ealexeenko Год назад +259

    All the best to Sammy and Auri in their new lives on their own! Changes happen in life ❤️

  • @haleyrexford8375
    @haleyrexford8375 Год назад +165

    I'm so glad I'm not the only one who feels this way. I'm almost 27 and definitely not looking for anyone. My friends and family keep saying I need to find someone and get married so I can have kids ect. And while I do want kids, I don't right now. And I definitely don't want to be tied down to someone. I love that I can come and go as I please without worrying about someone else. I struggled with this for a long time, I depended on relationships so much when I was younger but now I just depend on myself because at the end of that day that's all we have. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤

    • @omenapiiras
      @omenapiiras Год назад +6

      I also feel this way! Im 20 and ive never had the need for a relationship. I thought something was wrong with me but now i have accepted that im just comfortable with myself and alone :)

    • @N7Biotic
      @N7Biotic Год назад +9

      You're still young, and it's your choice! I'm 29 and still single. I've been single for about 5 years and quite happy right now. My family want me to find someone aswell, as my sister was married at my age. I had really terrible relationships in the past, and it's made me trusting a relationship pretty hard. I have a lot medical conditions that also effect my fertilty and I'm like, I'm not ready for a relationship nor even think about having kids - the pressure is real. I have tried dating, and have seen a guy a few times, but It's still early days yet. I am 30 this year, and I can just about afford keeping myself alive in the current climate - having to pay for travelling, food and going out dating, I can't afford it, tbh xD

    • @claudieC.
      @claudieC. Год назад

      You learned a great lesson. Your lucky you learned young.

    • @VioletJoy
      @VioletJoy Год назад +6

      It's too common for romantic relationships to be seen as the ultimate in life. Most people have that desire, but not everyone does. I really can't stand to hear people tell others what they should do with their lives. I'll bet there are far more people who regret getting married than those who who regret remaining single. While I personally love children, it's a massive responsibility, which isn't discussed enough.

    • @claudieC.
      @claudieC. Год назад +1

      @@VioletJoy very well articulated. I think relationships are great but they take maturity and patience and one has to have worked through their childhood issues and traumas and pass hurts from other relationships before attracting a healthy partner and being a healthy partner. Showing up as a whole person not all unhealthy and dysfunctional and carrying issues from every relationship with oneself and having no healing just more hurt with more emotional baggage to carry. It's a great time to get therapy it's almost free right now online. Some have group therapy weekly online for 64.00 a month and your first one is free. I myself have viewed the choices and they have some very good ones.

  • @squintymcpoppins3609
    @squintymcpoppins3609 Год назад +36

    I ended an engagement that felt similar - we were generally happy, but in the end it felt like we didn't fit as a couple, like we were the wrong match. He didn't agree, but I didn't want to stay when I knew it felt wrong. It was a very strange decision to make, because we didn't really have any major problems.

  • @fercam5187
    @fercam5187 Год назад +53

    So refreshing to find another woman who doesn't want to settle down in the same place and have kids! And so nice that you respected Sami enough to let him go and have that!
    I'm married just because I found a man that doesn't want to settle down like me and also is 100% certain about not having kids, so we both know we're walking to the same direction and it gives us a huge sense of safety!

  • @ValerieDee123
    @ValerieDee123 Год назад +243

    You are an inspiration! It's harder to do what's right, than take the easy path. I'm happy you chose what's right for you! I chose easy. Ended up in an abusive marriage, got divorced. You are always teaching good ways! I'm even starting to clean again!!! I became disabled, my house was really bad. Trash gone, kitchen clean! Bathroom, bedroom getting there. I still have living room and library. I owe it all to you!

    • @bonniehembree6956
      @bonniehembree6956 Год назад +9

      Valerie,I hope you see this,I hope you can continue with your quest for cleaning your home..I know how it feels to be disabled ❣️But watching this channel does help so much so here's to you😍🙏Good luck❣️

    • @therealJamieJoy
      @therealJamieJoy Год назад +7

      Keep going!! You can do it!! 🥰🥰🥰

    • @IGotNoJam
      @IGotNoJam Год назад +5

      What an impact! Bless you because you're treating yourself good! 💕💐

    • @johnluke6252
      @johnluke6252 Год назад +1

      Hey

  • @paigem7886
    @paigem7886 Год назад +200

    I'm so sorry about your break up, Auri! But I'm glad you are feeling more free. I love your videos. It feels like a warm hug! Sending love and support

    • @Bella_697
      @Bella_697 Год назад +2

      Yea I never gone though that before thankfully

  • @totowashere
    @totowashere Год назад +3

    Your comments on your break up really moved me. I feel the same way. I like my freedom to do whatever I want. I don't want to do everything together. I want to be able to travel on a whim. Having a relationship now would just be unfair for the other person.

  • @cyndymozzetti8664
    @cyndymozzetti8664 Год назад +16

    I wish you had a helper that would take the laundry to a public place and do it for them.

  • @Missreepee
    @Missreepee Год назад +136

    I congratulate you on your bravery and strength of character. It's so hard to make a decision to end a relationship especially when it's with a decent guy like Sami. So many people settle for good enough but that's doing both of you a disservice. Marry when you're ready, if you're ever ready or don't get married. Your decision. I wish both you and Sami the very best.

    • @Summer09824
      @Summer09824 Год назад +4

      I agree. I think she’s so brave & strong to make this decision! She knew what was best even if it was going to be difficult for them both 💔❤️

  • @machinegurlll
    @machinegurlll Год назад +285

    i feel less bad about the state of my house bc i had to deal with a lot of violence lately, thanks for posting this we all feel much less alone

    • @omenapiiras
      @omenapiiras Год назад +23

      I hope you are safe

    • @hckbdc3232
      @hckbdc3232 Год назад +9

      Hope everything gets better. :)

    • @NeccoWecco
      @NeccoWecco Год назад +15

      You don't deserve violence. You are worth more. When they tell you they love you they are lying.

    • @Christina.N.
      @Christina.N. Год назад +10

      I really hope you are able to avoid all violence in the future.
      May you be protected so you can heal.
      Take care.

    • @michaelagainstme
      @michaelagainstme Год назад

      i hope you will see the end of violence soon my friend, may god be with you :)

  • @sharine8512
    @sharine8512 Год назад +60

    Sami and Auri seem to be young, and even if they weren't, it wouldn't be a problem, but the younger they are, the better to quickly understand future incompatibilities and recreate life. Good decision and I wish you strength and courage for both of you to follow your dreams.

  • @alane-br
    @alane-br Год назад +32

    I think it is very beautiful that you thought about what is best for Sami and let him free to found someone who will be more suitable for his life goals.
    Also, it is amazing how much you can influence us.. I'm from Brazil and here we don't use scraper, and most of Europe's cleaning products are not available for us, but I already imported it all and it is making my cleaning time very easier ♥️ thank you Ari, you're such an inspiration and incredible human being

  • @bernadineagius267
    @bernadineagius267 Год назад +128

    I'm so sorry for the breakup😪

    • @J3IEE
      @J3IEE Год назад +9

      i think that the wrong use of that emoji 💀

    • @Beanechills
      @Beanechills Год назад +1

      @@J3IEE fr

  • @AS-xi9df
    @AS-xi9df Год назад +134

    I'm currently watching this from deep with in the African Congo me and my team are on a much needed five day rest back at base camp we have been studying some of the last known Gorillas on the planet stay safe out there guy's 👍

  • @belindam3797
    @belindam3797 Год назад +26

    I just wanted to say, thankyou for being a real role model for healthy habits- not just cleaning and organising but also self care and being honest about our lives and goals. You and Sami are both young people and you both have time. You have very clear goals and I think its incredible of you to be able to know yourself so well and make some changes - even when they can be difficult. Best wishes to you both I know that only good things are ahead for you!

  • @jani.cs1
    @jani.cs1 Год назад +2

    I felt like crying when you told your breakup story. I imagined how much he suffered with your decision because I think he loved you... And you loved him since you accept his proposal... I don't know, it's just painful when 2 people love each other but still can't be together. But you did the right thing. You both deserve to be happy, and he deserves someone who's gonna be happy with his way and wants the same things. As for you, I hope you travel the whole world and live your dream. I hope you both find your own ways to be happy ❤️

  • @rocketpsyence
    @rocketpsyence Год назад +23

    I think it was really smart to recognize you guys aren't compatible before getting married and having kids. That could have bred a lot of resentment between both of you and made for a really unhappy life. I've seen too many people in that situation. I think you made the right choice. Hope he's doing OK and finds someone whose life goals are in line with his.
    Actually this makes me feel good about my own choices too! Sometimes I feel self conscious because I'm getting older and not really trying to date, but I just have stuff to do! And yeah dating someone takes up a lot of time. But I feel like people don't ever acknowledge that it's ok to have other goals in life. I think I'll be happier going at my own pace and having freedom of movement.

  • @galateia90
    @galateia90 Год назад +78

    I am so proud of you. You're not only the kindest soul for cleaning and helping dozens of people every year, but you are also honest to yourself. Very few people realise who they are and what their dreams and purpose are. ❤️

  • @utopian_blossom
    @utopian_blossom Год назад +82

    Sorry to hear about your break-up Auri. I hope you and your ex can both remain friends as he seemed super supportive of your cleaning obsession. From one free soul to another...please send me good vibes for the mammoth decluttering I am doing right now. Cleaning is no problem for me but clutter seriously is. I wish you many happy adventures in your cleaning journeys around the world! x

  • @CDN1975
    @CDN1975 Год назад +29

    I hope you and Sammi both find the happiness you seek in life. Too many people settle and then bring children into the equation, trying to find the happiness that eludes them.
    You are a strong woman.

  • @nical396
    @nical396 Год назад +2

    Glad you were able to be honest with him and let him go.

  • @xKitty13
    @xKitty13 Год назад +2

    Auri, I'm so glad you made the best decision for YOU and YOUR mental health! Sami is a big boy. And if he cares for you, he will support you no matter what! Not everyone is a perfect match, even if we really really want it. To become a better version of ourselves, we have to face the hard truth sometimes, and it will hurt. I'm so proud of you, and of this mother for saving herself and her son from a violent partner! (My ex husband tried to kill me and my son twice, and I got away) ♥

  • @pinkpeonygirl
    @pinkpeonygirl Год назад +39

    At first, it made me sad that you and Sami broke up, but then I realized you are right to fight for your soul path, to be the free spirit you want to be in your heart, and to set Sami free to find a girl who will thank her lucky stars to find a guy like him and want the same things in life. Hope you are both doing well.

  • @mlemlemelmelemly
    @mlemlemelmelemly Год назад +15

    Hi Auri, this is my first comment to you.
    First, I wanna say that I always watch your videos and they give me (and many others) so much hope. I also suffer from depression and anxiety and seeing you happily clean up even the most hopeless looking messes gives me strength to get up and clean--because like you say, there's no such thing as a mess that can't be cleaned up. Hearing you say that in your videos was so powerful for me, thank you so much.
    Second, I wanted to tell you I'm proud of you for making the hard decision to split up with Sami. I think a lot of people feel pressure to get married just because society says it's what we're "supposed to do," but I think choosing to stay single and be free is also a wonderful thing. I also broke up with my ex-girlfriend three years ago because I realized being alone and having my own life and freedom makes me happier and I wouldn't trade that for anything or anyone. Even if you love someone so much, you won't be happy if you have to give up what *you* want to give someone else what *they* want.
    I think you are amazing! Wishing you happiness.
    PS I live in Japan and they don't sell Scrub Daddy or Power Paste, but I had my friend help me get my hands on some. It's great! :)

  • @tristinkirby
    @tristinkirby Год назад +8

    You explained about the break up so respectfully. Like an adult with maturity. I wish you both the best in life.

  • @spookysailorscout
    @spookysailorscout Год назад +29

    This video hits home, I escaped from an abusive relationship almost 4 years ago now and keeping my house clean was such struggle at first ❤ I love your videos and you are truly such a beautiful soul ❤

  • @ravengateley7677
    @ravengateley7677 Год назад +42

    I have used some of what I learned from you and others to help get the floors decluttered for some people I know here in the US. It isn't enough to help them restart, but it was amazing to see them and their animals enjoying the floorspace they now have. Thank you for helping others and teaching us new ways to clean.

  • @ceciliaatkins5374
    @ceciliaatkins5374 Год назад +45

    I’m an avid fan from the USA. I bought a lot of Scrub Daddies because of you and I love them!❤

    • @LadyAurora10
      @LadyAurora10 Год назад +4

      I did too (in Finland) 😃 They work!

    • @jdavis5435
      @jdavis5435 Год назад +1

      I did the same, USA. My husband secretly loves them too. He makes messes so he can use them.

    • @danielwhitehouse7272
      @danielwhitehouse7272 Год назад +1

      Me too! I have all different kinds of them. My husband started using them too!

  • @AJTheYoung
    @AJTheYoung Год назад +2

    I can’t believe the amount of ppl that are JUDGING her for being open and explained the reason why she broke up. She clearly explain that they both want completely opposite things in life and she feels better ALONE. He probably loved her and didn’t want to end the relationship but what they would have done in 2-3 years when he wants kids and she didn’t ? Better sooner than better. The amount of ppl that want completely different things in life but stay together anyway ! I salute her courage and I wish Samy and her the best !

  • @user-3l1
    @user-3l1 Год назад +2

    I'm sorry for the break up, he was so kind and supportive with you and your job, but I hope you can be happy by your own and continue helping people around the world. Luckily in the future you will find someone who shares your goals

  • @jankajonova6583
    @jankajonova6583 Год назад +27

    It's a shame you guys broke up but I see it's the best decision for you guys ❤️ Sami looks like an amazing guy and he deserves someone who will share his life priorities. And you deserve to follow your heart and live your life on your terms for sure 😊 best of luck to both of you

  • @myfavs253
    @myfavs253 Год назад +27

    Don't let anyone make you feel bad about wanting to be free to do what you want. I tried to fit the mold of career, marriage, kids, house in my 20s like what I thought was what I was supposed to do. And as each thing crumbled away I decided I didn't want the conventional lifestyle. I traveled (alone), moved across country a couple of times, went back to school, and had a good life. You do you!

    • @justme8841
      @justme8841 Год назад

      Thing is she doesn't want a career but she really wants to help.

  • @Renisanxious
    @Renisanxious Год назад +66

    I'm so glad that you felt comfortable enough to tell us about your break up. I always hate when influencers announce a break up but stay secretive about it and cause drama around it online. It's your business and no one else's but you made sure to minimize confusion and room for people to gossip. Anyway, thank you for all that you do!

    • @kck9742
      @kck9742 Год назад +18

      I don't think we're entitled to know the personal details of RUclipsrs and "influencers." If Auri had simply mentioned, "By the way, Sami and I broke up" just as an explanation of why he was no longer in her videos, and offered no further details, that would have been fine too.

    • @xXluluchanelXx
      @xXluluchanelXx 7 месяцев назад

      @@kck9742 Good personal opinion, but OP wasn't implying we are entitled to anything. They just said they don't like it when influencers deliberately tell the audience but then keep it hush-hush to stir up buzz around the issue. And Auri said herself, she wanted to share because she herself is 'super curious' about those situations.

  • @jenniferwelch
    @jenniferwelch Год назад +36

    Thank you so much Auri for sharing your story... you are validating that not all women need to settle down with marriage and children as tradition has it, but that there is so much life has to offer, and we all have the choice of making a life for ourselves... to settle in a relationship means accepting less than what we want or deserve, so I am happy you have chosen your wants, needs, hopes and dreams; more women need to hear this, thank you and love to you!

  • @thetiarachanel
    @thetiarachanel Год назад +24

    Came for the cleaning, stayed for the tea

  • @WatersandWilderness
    @WatersandWilderness Год назад +2

    I think sometimes, moms are overwhelmed with work to do. Every mom needs help with the home from time to time.

  • @svalckx
    @svalckx Год назад +2

    I watched the Shark Tank episode of Scrub Daddy. That lady investor saw a grand opportunity and made a s**t ton of money, but I'm so happy for the guy who pitched it. So glad to see his products do so well, that they're able to supply Auri with their products for free and fly her to the UK from Finland to help these people.

  • @sveng3192
    @sveng3192 Год назад +5

    I always felt freedom was the most important. I married at 30 with a partner who understood perfectly and let me be. We had 4 lovely children and they are grown. I still feel as free as a bird. Praise God, afterv, 44 yes of marriage!

  • @shanahaim5935
    @shanahaim5935 Год назад +31

    Sorry to hear about your break up that’s never easy. I hope you both find happiness separately ❤

  • @debbysouthworth5606
    @debbysouthworth5606 Год назад +2

    So sorry about your break up. No matter what the circumstances, it's never easy to get over.

  • @evelynmontez3565
    @evelynmontez3565 Год назад +1

    So I've watched hours of your videos. I saw an oil leak on cement outside. I squirted a lot of dish detergent on it and placed a lot of plastic wrap over it. It worked like a greasy oven! I put hot water on and scrubbed with a long handled brush, followed with paper towels. It worked!! Thank you!❤

  • @Prixete
    @Prixete Год назад +5

    People don't understand that it was not that you did not Love him, it is that you realised you are not the right person for each other because you are too different and want different things... You made the best decision for each other, otherwise you would be a sad couple in time... Hope you both find happiness!

  • @brigetteedinborough9541
    @brigetteedinborough9541 Год назад +13

    “I want the freedom to do anything, even though I’m
    not really doing anything.” Aurii, you’ve done more things and traveled more places and helped more people than many do in their entire lives. It’s okay to realize your passion takes you and your partner in different directions. I wish that both of you have your dreams come true!❤

  • @alexredcherry88
    @alexredcherry88 Год назад +1

    You did the right choice, broke up is not always about bad relationships, sometimes it's just about your different ways for life and life goals.

  • @r21167
    @r21167 Год назад +9

    I'm glad your break-up was safe and free from drama. I wish you both the best :) I'm glad it happened before you got married, it likely prevented a lot of pain for the both of you. Such a strong decision, I respect that a lot.
    Seeing these homes makes me feel less bad about my own place. I struggled with a lot of violence and neglect at home, moved out a few years ago at 15 and I'm still struggling to get through the day. Picked up a bunch of moldy bread that's collected around the house in bags for some reason and it reminded me of the people you help 😵‍💫😂
    Fortunately I can manage to clean before it gets too bad

  • @roxydus3746
    @roxydus3746 Год назад +32

    I can totally understand why settling down and having a family is not on your list right now. You are young and you want to explore life. That’s as normal as wanting the opposite. So good luck to both of you ❤

  • @JKuci
    @JKuci Год назад +27

    i'm pretty sure Sami (with dimples) will not be alone for long as these videos show him to be a real catch!

  • @jylromain6439
    @jylromain6439 Год назад +1

    Don't ever give up on your dreams, my dear. I wish you the best of everything.

  • @abbyolson1823
    @abbyolson1823 Год назад +1

    Congratulations on such a profound and thoughtful decision! Please don't feel guilty, you've given both yourself and him the opportunity to find happiness. Enjoy your freedom! Do what you love.

  • @trishf2184
    @trishf2184 Год назад +3

    You are the MOST gracious as well as THE BEST cleaner in the world. I'm sorry about the breakup. As an older woman who can look back on my life, anyone who left my life was always for the best. It's true. You have a gorgeous constitution and YOU are the prize.

  • @Beckyw10140
    @Beckyw10140 Год назад +5

    I actually was wondering how you and Sami were. Your love for each other showed! It was better to let him know now instead of later. Sometimes people just change too! Hope your friendship stays strong and hope to see him helping you another time. It’s good you plan on doing what want now why you are still young! Can plan later on in life having a family where have the patience and not traveling so much. Stay strong both of you 🤍

  • @sunnie734
    @sunnie734 Год назад +1

    I was in exactly the same situation. I'm a free spirit and a loner, and I don't want to be anchored. My partner adored me, but wanted to get married, move in together, have kids... I realised, like you, that it wouldn't just be him taking a future from me, it would be me taking a future from him, and I felt that he deserved someone more suited to him.
    ...I also love being single. 😁

  • @mrz5705
    @mrz5705 Год назад +2

    WARNING...Beware of any comments pretending to be Aurikatarinna. It's a scam to get you to pay a registration fee so she can clean your house...!

  • @mollybradshaw9336
    @mollybradshaw9336 Год назад +31

    I was really intrigued to see how you dealt with a UK bathroom as they are so different to the ones you normally deal with....no floor drains. X

    • @truthfullyme7416
      @truthfullyme7416 Год назад +6

      Right! Floor drains and the sprayers on hoses....genius!

  • @ravennareins3629
    @ravennareins3629 Год назад +43

    So I only discovered your channel 3 days ago and I'm obsessed. You are such an amazing person and I have to say, fair play to you for wanting a change, breakups are so hard and I admire you for following your heart. I wish I had the courage to change things in my life that make me unhappy. You're inspiration!

    • @kck9742
      @kck9742 Год назад +1

      You CAN change things in your life that make you unhappy, at least a good many of them. Good luck.

  • @rougesunset
    @rougesunset Год назад +2

    It’s very sad and hard to come to the realization that someone you appreciate and love is not the right fit after all. It’s nice hearing about a healthy emotionally mature breakup though. Live your best life Auri!

  • @kristenpeters4434
    @kristenpeters4434 Год назад +2

    Not marrying the wrong person is a huge achievement. It means you know your own heart and mind, and you’re true to yourself, despite how hard that is. Congratulations! ❤

  • @beatahandler2496
    @beatahandler2496 Год назад +13

    My daughter had a three years relationship with her boyfriend/fiancé from Europe. They tried to live together during the summer in his country and he showed his true face. He was demanding, controlling, jealous that never came up before, because the short length of the time to spend together, or because he was too excited to be in the US. She broke up and feels the same excitement like you. She moved to a new apartment that was helping a lot to start a new life. I am so proud of both of you to be strong and wise. I had a great carrier, great friends, and I never wanted to be married after coming from a very dysfunctional and toxic family. When I met with my husband at age 27, I knew immediately that he is the one. You just feel it. We moved together after our first date, we were married in six months. We are still together after 27 years. Your break up was a meant to be. You are so amazing and you have such a positive energy, I believe you also find someone who really accepts you and loves you for who you are, unconditionally ❤️

  • @karenhoward8542
    @karenhoward8542 Год назад +9

    I remember when you first met him! He has come a long way. I think he will totally appreciate the new people who come into his life having known you. Good luck with your future plans. You do an awesome job.

  • @erdnuzz8368
    @erdnuzz8368 Год назад +3

    From the Relationship i had and my Sisters Marriage: Doing things alone is actually very healthy.
    Klinging too much on your partner is not healthy at all. Having own things and hobbies and expieriences actually make you appreaciate the time together more.
    You are still a own person with own needs, even if in a relationship or a marriage.
    So after years of glued together, my sis took a trip to sweden with only her best friends.
    Her Husband disliked that a lot.
    But when she came back she was happy to be with him and their home again and had many stories to tell.
    And both said, afterwards, it was very refreshing for both of them.
    (And her husband now knows how much work a big house is)
    And for me - i broke up many times because it felt like a cage for me. Im very good off on my own, if i want a partner, i need someone who is not in need to see me every day and has their own things and stuff he wants to do.
    Afterall the rules for a relationship should be made by the partners, not the standard rules society sees as the right one.

  • @Lashlove16
    @Lashlove16 Год назад +2

    So proud of you to do what was best . I broke up about 6 months ago and still have not told most ppl as it takes time to heal and process .
    You are a very sweet and kind person

  • @marilyn8700
    @marilyn8700 Год назад +1

    Good for you! Don't be in a relationship to conform or just for the sake of not being alone. Single life can be very fulfilling, and Your life looks amazing with all the travel and meeting different people. Keep living!

  • @shiftit6133
    @shiftit6133 Год назад +73

    "I dream of dirty houses all over the world" - let this statement melt on your tongue 😊 this made me smile 😁

    • @sellyourhomenowbook
      @sellyourhomenowbook Год назад +2

      It's the best right? Like I want to shout: come to Los Angeles and I'll help and do the laundry and paperwork!!!!!

    • @jb6712
      @jb6712 Год назад +1

      "let this statement melt on your tongue..."? Rather gross thought, if you'd take a minute to consider what it is you're actually saying 🤮.

    • @Aurikatariina
      @Aurikatariina  Год назад +5

      I'm so glad!

  • @lindabartoli8180
    @lindabartoli8180 Год назад +45

    I watch your videos regularly because they give me the motivation to clean my own house when I really, really don't want to do it. I shudder to think how dirty my house would be without you. 🐷 I set up a regular cleaning schedule, and your videos are the only thing that makes me stick to it.

  • @ishwarilaughing6256
    @ishwarilaughing6256 Год назад +1

    Thank you for your bravery in sharing about your break up, there is so much stigma in women making decisions that are right for them, it gives me courage to continue to do so for myself ❣️

  • @cyoungledesma
    @cyoungledesma Год назад +2

    Breakups are always sad. Sorry for you both 😢 but when you know , you know.

  • @Natalie.D
    @Natalie.D Год назад +7

    I’m so sorry, Auri.
    And thanks for helping this family and for providing great cleaning inspiration!

  • @amandapickney588
    @amandapickney588 Год назад +8

    I just love watching you clean and hearing the compassion you have for these families who need help. You also give me the motivation to get up and clean my home when I’m having a hard time getting things done. 💜

  • @FoxyOxymoron
    @FoxyOxymoron Год назад +1

    Hi Auri, I am sorry to hear of your breakup with Sami, however, I am glad that you love him enough to set him free. My husband and I are a lot like you and Sami, I am a lone wolf most of the time. However, he gives me the freedom to do so. He is all about doing everything together. he loves quality time. However, we kinda work because he makes me
    more social with other people and spends more time with family and friends. However, he is also ok when I want
    to do things or go places alone. Because, honestly, I like my own company. I am glad that you made the decision to break up before the wedding and you realized it before it was the actual day. I am proud of you for your decision and I am so happy that you want the best for Sami. You are both amazing people. I am glad that you found out what you want in life and that you are going after it.

  • @marloeslovestea
    @marloeslovestea Год назад +2

    I hope you and Sami both find a life that is happy and fulfilling ❤

  • @meghaffer
    @meghaffer Год назад +14

    I'm so sorry about the breakup. That must have been hard. I'm glad you're both able to have the opportunity to find even better lives now. And another great house cleaning

  • @zoedwight5186
    @zoedwight5186 Год назад +4

    I really appreciate your positivity in every video. You still make me smile, even when talking about sad things

  • @AlexisTwoLastNames
    @AlexisTwoLastNames Год назад +2

    much love and luck to you and Sami as you find your own lives ✨ starting anew is scary but so fun at the same time.

  • @FrolleinMayer
    @FrolleinMayer Год назад +2

    I feel the same way about personal freedom and relationships - it's not how most people lead their lifes, but since I made the decision 6 years ago I have been happier than ever before.
    Trust your guts, Auri ❤️, you rock!

  • @kck9742
    @kck9742 Год назад +3

    Another great video, Auri. I'm sorry to hear about the breakup, but if it's not right, then it's not right, and it's good that you were honest with yourself and recognized that. I think a lot of people who end up divorced ignored warning signs and misgivings and pushed ahead anyway, because it was easier and they didn't want to "disappoint" anyone. Sounds like you're not meant to be married to anyone, at least not now. I wish Sami and you the best!

  • @kristinataddei8138
    @kristinataddei8138 Год назад +5

    I'm sooo proud of you, for being honest with yourself....much easier on everyone involved to "let things go" before taking a "big step"(like getting married, and then end up getting divorced).....

  • @NoSpringChick138
    @NoSpringChick138 Год назад +2

    I just love how you said it just didn't feel right! Very much in touch with your feelings 💚

  • @idynev8248
    @idynev8248 Год назад +1

    Auri, what you said about your break up was so much of how I feel. I also break up cause I felt not free. But now I often feel lonly. I wish I have passion for something like you have for cleaning. Its always so inspirering to hear you so amazed by dirt. So often I think it cant be real. But I am glade you are as you are and share so much with us! Thank you!

  • @Join.The.Partee
    @Join.The.Partee Год назад +12

    I am so sorry about your breakup, but I hope the two of you can find happiness and still be friends. Good work on your videos and cleaning. Wishing you the best.

  • @chantalturcotte4410
    @chantalturcotte4410 Год назад +21

    Breakups are always hard and sad. But I think that you made a good decision for both of you. If you didn't feel good in a relationship right now it's better to separate and think of your happiness. You are a good influence on young girls and women out there who too often stay with their partners even if they are unhappy. You know what you want Auri and you're going after it! Congrats and may this new year bring you everything you wish for ❤