Its just natural. Women wanna be men so bad, we cant share women, u can share men. The best man a girl can get doesnt wanna commit to her and she rather have that than a loser husband and its cool
She thinks the sh*t is funny which is weird AF. That’s why I think for a lot of side chicks it’s really about competing with the wife. They want to outdo her and take her man. In which case, the side chick is subconsciously trying to prove her worth - to *HERSELF.* Being a side piece definitely IS about having low self-esteem. 😢
The truth doesn't always hurt when you want to do better. That young lady had the courage to come up and plead for help and she got an honest answer from the sister she probably never had. She's loving it.
@@briana.g.7412: I wasn’t getting that she wants to do better. It was giving she was looking for affirmation and justification for being the side piece.
She “was trying not to take it there” because at this point at our grown ages, your logic shouldn’t be so misplaced that you felt you needed to bring this to the public for jurisdiction you already knew was wrong, & a panel of advisors for wisdom you’ve already refused because it’s “complicated…” As far as I’m concerned, she wanted public opinion… she got it.
What reaction??? That lady on stage stood up unnecessarily bc she got in her wifely feelings and started pointing at the guest to seemingly rub in her face what the other lady had told her. What did you expect her to do in response? Stand there awkwardly?? Cry? Lmao. She played along. I thought what the lady standing up did was immature bc no matter how d*mb or p*thetic the guest is, they’re asking YOU for your advice. And they’re all unlicensed anyways being put atop pedestals by these audience members so that told me that she got too much dip on her chip, too emotional. There should be a caliber of respect for the guest who is asking the question. She obviously lacks self worth as the other one said. Maybe she DID take it seriously.
It's crazy she rather be a side chick to a man that doesn't love her but thinks she is too good for all dudes she is friendzoned. You can't tell me women are choosing toxic because they never had a healthy one and they were raised around a healthy relationship. Single mother raise future single mothers Can't make this shit up lmao lol.
She walking away was the' icing on the cake ' #Spot on💯 A cheating man does not love either his wife or the side chic as with genuine love comes honor/respect; but the wife brings more stability so he won't want to leave her for the side chic. Such men are not only selfish but are usually the ones so keen on faithful partners (as they can't take what they dish out)
She did, especially the inferior vs superior bit. But I think she should consider taking a breath while speaking to the guests asking questions bc it comes off like she’s more focused on garnering applause from the audience rather than answering the question, no matter how d*mb
It probably still didn't register to her. The audacity for her to boldly ask that ratchet question to the panel shows she is in arrested development of self worth understanding.
@@emeraldkaysgarden YES! Even my husband said that the AUDACITY she had at that microphone was at another level!! I guarantee she feels as though being a side chick is cute and laughs on the phone with her other rachet ass friends how he is with his wife but really want to be with her..
@emeraldkaysgarden and emotional intelligence. She's more than likely been traumatized at some point in her life. And hasn't been able to connect the dots yet.
It is sad that Grown women is willing to accept being a side chick. And the part when she says you're not ALLOWED to come to this man Kingdom ,PREACH!!! It's okay to be some dumb, but not plum dumb
@meicealways5842 I don’t understand why your comment isn’t #1, because as I was listening to her speak, I thought the same thing. She’s very passionate about her response to the side chic, because she’s married and is well within her right to read the side chic to filth. She was bold enough to step up to the mic. Be bold enough to listen. Hopefully she took some wisdom back to her seat with her.
Some folks only want the married person because of the FAVOR that’s on them from the Lord because of the wife! Remove that wife and soon realize that it was her… the wife, that the side chick is in love with….. there will be some men that are much more appealing because of the blessing/FAVOR in his life (The WIFE) Without a blessed wife, watch and see him transform…. 😳😂 also I’m not sure if side chick’s know this or not, but they bring a curse with them to the marriage that they are trying to steal, therefore their deeds will never grow, prosper or be honorable. It’s a cost that side chicks do pay for operating in this way.
The sad part is that this is the mentality of a lot of the young female generation, where they accept being labeled a side chick as if it's some badge of honor. They brag and boast about being with someone else's man. You know how I know this is true? Because this woman actually had the gall to get up in front of an audience, and a panel to ask a question about being a side chick and expecting to be taken seriously. As if it's normal being a side chick.
This resonates with me and I am passionate about healthy, happy, and honest relationships/marriages. My husband cheated on me and I divorced him because I couldn’t forgive him. The side chick thought it was funny, it was a game to her, and she appeared so unbothered with being a side chick to a married man. He had free will to be with her after I kicked him out of MY house. My ex husband cheated on her and got the girl pregnant. She still being a side chick. So sad!
I agree she made great points that this guest who lacks self esteem needed to hear . W that being said, delivery could use a liiiitle bit of work bc I ain’t sayin that her delivery needs to be demure and sweet, but it was so quick where she was takin no breaths that it came off as if she was working to garner applause from the audience rather than answer the question
@@SupernaturalLove100 i hear you. Sometimes we can lose people with the delivery. We can have valuable things to say but they can be lost in the way they been delivered.
Damn!!!! I felt that like loving someone so much that you put yourself down is terrible if a person can’t accept your shine at its brightest y’all don’t need to be around eachother!!!!
Her expression speaks volumes. You can tell she wasn't feeling what was being told to her because side pieces have entitlement issues. Sometimes the hardest thing to accept is the truth!!! This lady was giving her tough love!!! Sadly, I don't feel she will listen especially when she is already believing she is in love... I pray that this young sister wakes up and starts to place value within herself.🙏🏽❤️
@Horace3 Hopefully he gone... she made a public appearance and told the business... somebody saw or will see this~ No self respect ~ No self worth ~No common dam sense!
Being a side chick is generational for a lot of women. Some of their grandmothers, mothers, aunts, female cousins have done the same thing for decades. Even the men in the families promoting the same behavior.
She LITERALLY ROASTED her azz!!! She gave her ALL the business!! 1:15 ❤❤ Did yall see Stephens face behind her?!! 😂❤ "You are a PEASANT in this man's kingdom!" DAMN!!
I had a friend that said she never considered herself to be a side chic. But that man treated her better then any man before him. I told her that's why he is a husband.
Please sister, Don’t point at her like that. Y’all are in a position to help people choose themselves over the hell they’ve tolerated for God knows how long.. This is the pits! Help a sista out of it❣️
Oh I love when this woman speaks.. I just love her. I felt that passion and it too true, I pray for any one in that position. It’s not nice and it’s hurtful to see. ❤ I
@@cjohnson_I know what you're saying and in many cases like these people are broken and don't want to do the work and sacrifice to find their own happiness!
That’s because she doesn’t want his kingdom. She just wants that good good. And on top of it, she probably has her roster on the side. That’s why she said, it’s complicated.
...and men ...what about when you are the side to everything else. You are a utility and she praises other men, flirts other men, makes herself available to many people for their needs. You with her but you on your own...you in her life as a second to last conderation...but she loves you?! Naw, fk dat. Get away from ppl who can't devote.
So what. What do you think a side chick is. A real side chick know her place and not thinking twice on what you talking about. A real side chick ain't worried about being second, going into his crib, or spending the holiday with him. A real side chick know what it is, still movin the way she move and knows that when they can have that time together they will. A real side chick won't let her feelings get in the way of his household. A real side chick not worried about being second because a real side chick knew what it was from the get go. A real side chick just dgarats ass about his wife or household he can do that. A real side chick don't have ill feelings toward his wife, matter of fact she hope the marriage stay together. She still gone have him
Not only that, they triggered by a "side chick" but what is marriage really when 2 whole men and 2 whole women can get "married"?! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Me and my man are spiritually married and definitely don't need a piece of paper to validate our love for ea other!!!!
All of you who say she didn't get it, look at her face while she's speaking and LISTENING- She got it, she already had it when she came to the mike. Ya'll so full of it, support people when they want to do the right thing. Ya'll are nasty
As a MAN, this brought tear’s to my eye’s to hear this QUEEN preach LOGIC to another Woman who doesn’t KNOW her WORTH! Protect this QUEEN at ALL TIME. 🙏🏽
Women outnumber men, right? So if every man on the planet marries one woman, then what's the solution for all the women who would be left unmarried. And I'm not condoning adultery, fornication, or homosexuality. I just want to hear the answers.
Every woman will not be married. There’s some information online (not sure if it’s true) that by 2030 there will be more single women than ever before (divorces, single by choice, etc)
I agree that women have to take accountability for their actions and know their SELF WORTH. However, men also have to be held accountable in their actions on the CHOICE they make to cheat and entertain outside of their wife.
Wow 😮! The conversation seems so personal between these 2 ladies. The passion in both of their eyes and the adamancy just speaks volumes from both parties
Yo, that walk-off was real!!! To add to that in that man mind she would never be the queeen. She would never have the key to his heart. I pray for these women who are bragging about being the sidechick and listen to what she is saying. Lord, i pray this woman does better. She has no self-worth and no self-love to be able to say she loves this man. Yet the man doesn't love her. He doesn't even love himself either nor his wife. She does not know what true love and true value mean.
She made great important points , especially the part abt a woman’s urge to wanna please people so bad in order to be accepted that we place others on a pedestal to be superior while making ourselves inferior; I think that even applies to racial dynamics and other scenarios outside of romance but especially when it comes to romance. It’s clear that the guest lacks self esteem like the lady accurately claimed and it’s actually saddening because if you look deeper than her “audacity and disrespect toward the wife,” you can see a girl who’s probably never really felt chosen in her life nor desired and is desperately searching for that feeling in any capacity she could get it. It’s SAD. I hope she took this advice. W that being said, I think this panelist should consider taking a breath while speaking to the guests asking questions bc it comes off like she’s more focused on garnering applause from the audience rather than answering the question, no matter how d*mb or pathetic it might be. You gotta control your emotions and not project. At the end of the day, these guests are asking these seemingly UNLICENSED panelists questions for advice and whether they’re doing it for attention or a genuine answer, they’re getting up there so there should be a professionalism there. I don’t think she should’ve spoken demure or softly but as the video progressed this lady got real hype and I think that could cause a listener to tune out.
I love my own company far too much to be a side anything. I'm an introvert, but I'm pretty up front about stuff like this. If we can't be exclusive then I will not waste your time nor mine. Started out with a guy once and found out he was entertaining other women. I didn't even argue with him about it. I just left. He did try to come back, but the trust and the energy I gave him were gone. Some women do see the situation as a bonus for a variety of reasons. And if they are pleased with the overall result who could blame them! But the other side of that coin are women struggling with low self-esteem, a lack of self respect and self worth.
A married person never truly loves a side piece, I don’t care what anybody says. No one who loves you would prevent you from coming to their home or having their home phone number. No one who loves you would leave you alone at Christmas, Thanksgiving, and Valentine’s Day or would refuse to celebrate their birthdays with you. You can call someone who loves you any time of the day or night and they will be there if you need them. A person who loves you will be accessible and available to you. You will never be shut out of important aspects of their lives and forbidden to meet their parents and family.
No she got it , every word spoken was sharp enough to pierce her heart each time , she just reacted like it's all fun and games , cause she knows she playing herself
I think it’s different when both adulterers are married. At least then they’re on an even playing field. Nobody’s left alone at Christmas, Thanksgiving, Valentine’s Day, and holidays. They’re both at home with their families.
And the walk off sealed it but she still didn’t get it
Riiiight 🤦🏾♀️
Didn't receive it at all
She thinks that sh*t is cute. 😢
Delusional af!!
Its just natural. Women wanna be men so bad, we cant share women, u can share men. The best man a girl can get doesnt wanna commit to her and she rather have that than a loser husband and its cool
She thinks the sh*t is funny which is weird AF.
That’s why I think for a lot of side chicks it’s really about competing with the wife. They want to outdo her and take her man.
In which case, the side chick is subconsciously trying to prove her worth - to *HERSELF.* Being a side piece definitely IS about having low self-esteem. 😢
I don't think that she thought that it was funny but she had to laugh before she cried
The truth doesn't always hurt when you want to do better. That young lady had the courage to come up and plead for help and she got an honest answer from the sister she probably never had. She's loving it.
@@briana.g.7412: I wasn’t getting that she wants to do better. It was giving she was looking for affirmation and justification for being the side piece.
@@misterlove216: I don’t think she received it. I hope I’m wrong.
@@hereforit2347 people be pleading for help when they don't know it. Its some Freudian type ish.
She embodies the same reaction my spirit had when she got up and walked off I stood up with her! C’mon somebody! C’mon !!!!
I ran a little bit!! Cause baby she said that!!
She “was trying not to take it there” because at this point at our grown ages, your logic shouldn’t be so misplaced that you felt you needed to bring this to the public for jurisdiction you already knew was wrong, & a panel of advisors for wisdom you’ve already refused because it’s “complicated…”
As far as I’m concerned, she wanted public opinion…
she got it.
She's probably hoping his wife will find out because at this point: Why not? 😏
Her reaction at the end spoke volumes. She doesn't give AF bout what Kitty is telling her.
What reaction??? That lady on stage stood up unnecessarily bc she got in her wifely feelings and started pointing at the guest to seemingly rub in her face what the other lady had told her. What did you expect her to do in response? Stand there awkwardly?? Cry? Lmao. She played along. I thought what the lady standing up did was immature bc no matter how d*mb or p*thetic the guest is, they’re asking YOU for your advice. And they’re all unlicensed anyways being put atop pedestals by these audience members so that told me that she got too much dip on her chip, too emotional. There should be a caliber of respect for the guest who is asking the question. She obviously lacks self worth as the other one said. Maybe she DID take it seriously.
Are you a side chick? @@SupernaturalLove100
She thinks she is better than the wife because he is cheating on her
It's crazy she rather be a side chick to a man that doesn't love her but thinks she is too good for all dudes she is friendzoned. You can't tell me women are choosing toxic because they never had a healthy one and they were raised around a healthy relationship. Single mother raise future single mothers
Can't make this shit up lmao lol.
That’s what I’m getting too.
Until he replaces her with another side chick 😮
THIS!!!
THIS! No woman can out-do the Wife 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🥴
😔 she ain't said nothing but a word!!!!! It was a whole word!!! Clock it and catch it!!!!!
She walking away was the' icing on the cake ' #Spot on💯
A cheating man does not love either his wife or the side chic as with genuine love comes honor/respect; but the wife brings more stability so he won't want to leave her for the side chic.
Such men are not only selfish but are usually the ones so keen on faithful partners (as they can't take what they dish out)
💯
ITS THE WALK AWAY WHEN SHE KNEW SHE WAS DONE ✅
She ate and left no crumbs 👌🏾
The side chick is the crumbs
@@EarthAngel888-v5s 😂😂
She did, especially the inferior vs superior bit. But I think she should consider taking a breath while speaking to the guests asking questions bc it comes off like she’s more focused on garnering applause from the audience rather than answering the question, no matter how d*mb
💯 they have no respect for themselves, trust and believe
Whew Chile.....i bet she wished she would have never walked up to the microphone!
It probably still didn't register to her. The audacity for her to boldly ask that ratchet question to the panel shows she is in arrested development of self worth understanding.
@@emeraldkaysgarden YES! Even my husband said that the AUDACITY she had at that microphone was at another level!! I guarantee she feels as though being a side chick is cute and laughs on the phone with her other rachet ass friends how he is with his wife but really want to be with her..
@@emeraldkaysgarden 🎯 you said it all.
@emeraldkaysgarden and emotional intelligence. She's more than likely been traumatized at some point in her life. And hasn't been able to connect the dots yet.
She didn't gaf
It is sad that Grown women is willing to accept being a side chick. And the part when she says you're not ALLOWED to come to this man Kingdom ,PREACH!!! It's okay to be some dumb, but not plum dumb
Some choices come with a heavy price. Some learn their value and some don't. Therefore side chicks will continue to exist
Sadly, throughout history many women would rather be a king's concubine than the shoemaker's wife. 🤷♀
If all men cheat, why be with a broke cheater?
@@davidbuffer4815 that's exactly what they say "I'd rather cry in a Mercedes than a Honda" 😆
It’s sad. It really is a reflection of low self esteem and the desire to be chosen😞
Teach 🎯💯
And that lady has a husband which is why she’s 100 times more passionate than a woman that would speak about this that was not married
Exactly. It hits different as well as triggers.
In that you have “well said”
😂😂😂
There should always be respect no matter what ❤
@meicealways5842 I don’t understand why your comment isn’t #1, because as I was listening to her speak, I thought the same thing. She’s very passionate about her response to the side chic, because she’s married and is well within her right to read the side chic to filth. She was bold enough to step up to the mic. Be bold enough to listen. Hopefully she took some wisdom back to her seat with her.
Some folks only want the married person because of the FAVOR that’s on them from the Lord because of the wife! Remove that wife and soon realize that it was her… the wife, that the side chick is in love with…..
there will be some men that are much more appealing because of the blessing/FAVOR in his life (The WIFE)
Without a blessed wife, watch and see him transform…. 😳😂 also I’m not sure if side chick’s know this or not, but they bring a curse with them to the marriage that they are trying to steal, therefore their deeds will never grow, prosper or be honorable. It’s a cost that side chicks do pay for operating in this way.
Speak on it!!! They don’t know but they will sure find out. Stop playing with God
I love her she is true to the game of healing. @Ace, @Tripp can yall please upload more than 60 second clips ??
I love her. She is the only woman I have ever heard hold a women accountable. And all bxch's be hating her for it.
I've never seen anyone hate on this woman. You sit on a throne of lies.
You must live under a rock.
No one in the comments is hating. No one in the audience was hating. Who are you referring to? 😆
Preach it sis. These side chicks need to stop the nonsense & these men need to have more respect for their wives.
The sad part is that this is the mentality of a lot of the young female generation, where they accept being labeled a side chick as if it's some badge of honor. They brag and boast about being with someone else's man. You know how I know this is true? Because this woman actually had the gall to get up in front of an audience, and a panel to ask a question about being a side chick and expecting to be taken seriously. As if it's normal being a side chick.
This resonates with me and I am passionate about healthy, happy, and honest relationships/marriages. My husband cheated on me and I divorced him because I couldn’t forgive him. The side chick thought it was funny, it was a game to her, and she appeared so unbothered with being a side chick to a married man. He had free will to be with her after I kicked him out of MY house. My ex husband cheated on her and got the girl pregnant. She still being a side chick. So sad!
Good lawd Kitty !! Pass the collection plate . Truth Demands Accountability & they ain't ready!!!
Kitty is a real one. The mindset in this woman.. Rare breed of a woman. Such a queen.
I agree she made great points that this guest who lacks self esteem needed to hear . W that being said, delivery could use a liiiitle bit of work bc I ain’t sayin that her delivery needs to be demure and sweet, but it was so quick where she was takin no breaths that it came off as if she was working to garner applause from the audience rather than answer the question
@@SupernaturalLove100 i hear you. Sometimes we can lose people with the delivery. We can have valuable things to say but they can be lost in the way they been delivered.
SHE WAS HOT WITH FACTS!!! 🔥✅
Damn!!!! I felt that like loving someone so much that you put yourself down is terrible if a person can’t accept your shine at its brightest y’all don’t need to be around eachother!!!!
Her expression speaks volumes. You can tell she wasn't feeling what was being told to her because side pieces have entitlement issues. Sometimes the hardest thing to accept is the truth!!! This lady was giving her tough love!!! Sadly, I don't feel she will listen especially when she is already believing she is in love... I pray that this young sister wakes up and starts to place value within herself.🙏🏽❤️
That passion she has is intense. She sees how low that woman really is and it hurts her to even begin to fathom why she would be content there
Applicable for the men too. Know your self worth Kings 👑 This ain’t no 50/50.. It’s 100/100 💯
💯💯🎯
Her face after that inadvertent roast, 🤷🏾
Clueless as A.F!
@@crw3673 no she isn't clueless she dgaf....big difference.
Brutal honesty like this is needed.
Let's hope the young lady finds her way.
Exactly..! All facts!
✨👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Wife to wife I couldn’t have said it better!
Even after all that, she still gonna be the side chick waiting forever when she leave the show!! She dgaf 😂😂
She bouta be otw back to him as soon as she leaves there🤦🏾♂️😂
@Horace3 Hopefully he gone... she made a public appearance and told the business... somebody saw or will see this~ No self respect ~ No self worth ~No common dam sense!
Being a side chick is generational for a lot of women. Some of their grandmothers, mothers, aunts, female cousins have done the same thing for decades. Even the men in the families promoting the same behavior.
She LITERALLY ROASTED her azz!!! She gave her ALL the business!! 1:15 ❤❤ Did yall see Stephens face behind her?!! 😂❤ "You are a PEASANT in this man's kingdom!" DAMN!!
I had a friend that said she never considered herself to be a side chic. But that man treated her better then any man before him. I told her that's why he is a husband.
Please sister, Don’t point at her like that. Y’all are in a position to help people choose themselves over the hell they’ve tolerated for God knows how long..
This is the pits! Help a sista out of it❣️
And after the dissertation, the message still didn't land.
Now that was a read…. In this Man’s Kingdom your a peasant gooooood googa moooga😂😂😂 my Lawd! Then to walk off standing ovation…
Everytime they walk up to the mic, I just know, common sense is non-existent.
Do she was going in and she hit every damn mark. “To that man’s kingdom, you are a peasant!” 🎤🎤🎤🎤
Oh I love when this woman speaks.. I just love her. I felt that passion and it too true, I pray for any one in that position. It’s not nice and it’s hurtful to see. ❤ I
She doesn't even realize that she's the problem trying to wreck someone else's home and then play victim!
The only ppl that can wreck a home are those in the home...it's not her home to wreck that would be the "husband"
@@cjohnson_I know what you're saying and in many cases like these people are broken and don't want to do the work and sacrifice to find their own happiness!
She knows he's married and that's her choice to stop!
@@cjohnson_exactly
That’s because she doesn’t want his kingdom. She just wants that good good. And on top of it, she probably has her roster on the side. That’s why she said, it’s complicated.
...and men ...what about when you are the side to everything else. You are a utility and she praises other men, flirts other men, makes herself available to many people for their needs. You with her but you on your own...you in her life as a second to last conderation...but she loves you?! Naw, fk dat. Get away from ppl who can't devote.
It's called... Polygyny. It can work.
Can every woman actually get a man of their own? The facts is no
I believe part of it is the ‘I want to be loved. I’m already here & “emotionally invested “, It’s better than being alone”
Some people choose to be the person on the side because they have other people on the side too
So what. What do you think a side chick is. A real side chick know her place and not thinking twice on what you talking about. A real side chick ain't worried about being second, going into his crib, or spending the holiday with him. A real side chick know what it is, still movin the way she move and knows that when they can have that time together they will. A real side chick won't let her feelings get in the way of his household. A real side chick not worried about being second because a real side chick knew what it was from the get go. A real side chick just dgarats ass about his wife or household he can do that. A real side chick don't have ill feelings toward his wife, matter of fact she hope the marriage stay together. She still gone have him
Not only that, they triggered by a "side chick" but what is marriage really when 2 whole men and 2 whole women can get "married"?! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Me and my man are spiritually married and definitely don't need a piece of paper to validate our love for ea other!!!!
From her expression she felt the reality but still, look like not conviced and delusional 😢. SAD
I agree with Kitty 💯💎 We need tough love sometimes!! Say it
Clock that tea, B catch it 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
I LOVVVVVE HOW SHE HOLD OTHER WOMEN ACCOUNTABLE.
Her response hit hard, that truth will take you down!
It was the sigh in the mirror “I am a side chick” I love her!! Speak 🗣️ about it!!
All of you who say she didn't get it, look at her face while she's speaking and LISTENING- She got it, she already had it when she came to the mike. Ya'll so full of it, support people when they want to do the right thing. Ya'll are nasty
That was THE MOST Uncomfortable thing I've ever experienced and I wasn't there... DAMN!!!!!
KITTY AND TRIP NEED THEIR OWN SHOW ❤❤❤❤❤❤.
The lil jig she did at the end....she gave that man top soon as she left 😂😂😂😂😂😂
As a MAN, this brought tear’s to my eye’s to hear this QUEEN preach LOGIC to another Woman who doesn’t KNOW her WORTH! Protect this QUEEN at ALL TIME. 🙏🏽
Speak, Sis, Speak!
Women outnumber men, right? So if every man on the planet marries one woman, then what's the solution for all the women who would be left unmarried. And I'm not condoning adultery, fornication, or homosexuality. I just want to hear the answers.
Women who want to be single by choice, Lesbians/homosexuals, Men in Jail (aren't able to meet and connect etc.)
There are also polygamist relationships. Women who KNOWINGLY accept that lifestyle.
There are a whole lot of women who are fine being single. The numbers of single, childless women are rising.
The number of women who choose to be single and childless has always been a thing and is now on the rise.
Every woman will not be married. There’s some information online (not sure if it’s true) that by 2030 there will be more single women than ever before (divorces, single by choice, etc)
I agree that women have to take accountability for their actions and know their SELF WORTH.
However, men also have to be held accountable in their actions on the CHOICE they make to cheat and entertain outside of their wife.
He didn't force her. Just because a man wants to cheat doesn't mean you have to engage
Most side chicks certainly think that he's gonna leave his wife for her.
Yassssssss huni read them pages correctly
Funny the backstory with some of the women on the panel were cheaters, and they now are podcast people that have all these women following them
NONE. Period 🎉🎉🎉
Preach - lady Pasion! make it plain!!!
My girl Kitty always on point! Unfortunately it seems all that passion was wasted on her judging by her reaction. Pearls before swine.
Wow 😮! The conversation seems so personal between these 2 ladies. The passion in both of their eyes and the adamancy just speaks volumes from both parties
Say it with your chest! Spot on!
Side chick said it like it was cute💔then learned in front of the world it wasn’t but, was too embarrassed to truly get it😢
All that was common sense, but it went directly over her head.
Let’s go Kitty!!! Love this Queen!❤️
Yo, that walk-off was real!!! To add to that in that man mind she would never be the queeen. She would never have the key to his heart. I pray for these women who are bragging about being the sidechick and listen to what she is saying. Lord, i pray this woman does better. She has no self-worth and no self-love to be able to say she loves this man. Yet the man doesn't love her. He doesn't even love himself either nor his wife. She does not know what true love and true value mean.
Chile the fact that this has to even be explained its like some people will never learn smh
Can I have a Alleluia!!!👋🏿👋🏿 This lady is spitting fireee!!🔥🔥
That lady at the end is clearly still in her feelings 😂
Real talk well said 👌🏽
KITTIE NEVER MISSES‼️😩😍😍🙌🏽
she just wanted validation of what she was already thinking to herself. he is NEVER gonna leave his wife for you, EVER
Damn she opened up a Can!🤣🤣🤣#verbalwoopass
Stepped on all ten toes. It was necessary. She felt the burn but will she learn?
#KITTY LET HER KNOW WHAT TIME IT IS 🎯💯🔥🖤
..they all cheering knowing damn well half of them are [willingly] side chicks! 🤦🏾♂️
She made great important points , especially the part abt a woman’s urge to wanna please people so bad in order to be accepted that we place others on a pedestal to be superior while making ourselves inferior;
I think that even applies to racial dynamics and other scenarios outside of romance but especially when it comes to romance. It’s clear that the guest lacks self esteem like the lady accurately claimed and it’s actually saddening because if you look deeper than her “audacity and disrespect toward the wife,” you can see a girl who’s probably never really felt chosen in her life nor desired and is desperately searching for that feeling in any capacity she could get it. It’s SAD. I hope she took this advice.
W that being said, I think this panelist should consider taking a breath while speaking to the guests asking questions bc it comes off like she’s more focused on garnering applause from the audience rather than answering the question, no matter how d*mb or pathetic it might be.
You gotta control your emotions and not project. At the end of the day, these guests are asking these seemingly UNLICENSED panelists questions for advice and whether they’re doing it for attention or a genuine answer, they’re getting up there so there should be a professionalism there.
I don’t think she should’ve spoken demure or softly but as the video progressed this lady got real hype and I think that could cause a listener to tune out.
I love my own company far too much to be a side anything. I'm an introvert, but I'm pretty up front about stuff like this. If we can't be exclusive then I will not waste your time nor mine. Started out with a guy once and found out he was entertaining other women. I didn't even argue with him about it. I just left. He did try to come back, but the trust and the energy I gave him were gone. Some women do see the situation as a bonus for a variety of reasons. And if they are pleased with the overall result who could blame them! But the other side of that coin are women struggling with low self-esteem, a lack of self respect and self worth.
The walkoff sealed the deal Kitte read her
She felt that like she has lived that... girl u okay?
Right
🤣She went all the way OFF!!!🤯
Mic 🎤 drop!!! Boom 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥
She was embarrassed to be honest by the end of the speech but tried to play it off like she wasn’t…
A married person never truly loves a side piece, I don’t care what anybody says.
No one who loves you would prevent you from coming to their home or having their home phone number. No one who loves you would leave you alone at Christmas, Thanksgiving, and
Valentine’s Day or would refuse to celebrate their birthdays with you.
You can call someone who loves you any time of the day or night and they will be there if you need them. A person who loves you will be accessible and available to you. You will never be shut out of important aspects of their lives and forbidden to meet their parents and family.
Trauma-induced behavior...needs healing by way of some good psychotherapy.
No she got it , every word spoken was sharp enough to pierce her heart each time , she just reacted like it's all fun and games , cause she knows she playing herself
That Mike drop moment!😅🎉
Sis said a mouth full!!!
I think it’s different when both adulterers are married. At least then they’re on an even playing field. Nobody’s left alone at Christmas, Thanksgiving, Valentine’s Day, and holidays. They’re both at home with their families.
She been there.