The virginity fraud

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  • Опубликовано: 21 июл 2023
  • Nina Dølvik Brochmann and Ellen Støkken Dahl are sexual health experts who focus on a specific piece of anatomy - the hymen - to challenge the stories that have existed for centuries as ways to control female sexuality, desire, and value. This talk was filmed at TEDxOslo.
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Комментарии • 107

  • @foureyedfreak
    @foureyedfreak 11 месяцев назад +58

    The title got me clicking on the video immediately

  • @sugueigo
    @sugueigo 11 месяцев назад +15

    This content really educates me. Thanks.

  • @adestemitope9730
    @adestemitope9730 11 месяцев назад +1

    I am listening and watching to learn

  • @tommac21
    @tommac21 5 месяцев назад

    Can you do a video on psychology and therapy fraud ?

  • @stayhappylittlemermaid
    @stayhappylittlemermaid 11 месяцев назад +12

    Its not going to be easy but its going to be worth it.

  • @richardpauly1635
    @richardpauly1635 11 месяцев назад +3

    Podcast no video only sound

  • @Grendygirl
    @Grendygirl 10 месяцев назад +2

    I agreed with everything said in the video, there is no virginity check for MEN...smdh

  • @somarajukottu1440
    @somarajukottu1440 11 месяцев назад +4

    Video is not playing

    • @neen42
      @neen42 11 месяцев назад +1

      Because there is none

  • @midiariofamiliar8112
    @midiariofamiliar8112 11 месяцев назад +2

    Hello, very interesting topic, greetings ❤

  • @freethinker4306
    @freethinker4306 11 месяцев назад +10

    I clicked on it for my own depravity, but ended up getting getting some good medical advice. I don’t know what I’ll do that at this point in my life but at least I heard it.

  • @bazinga-tt9pj
    @bazinga-tt9pj 11 месяцев назад +13

    A broad is a broad, man or woman. When it comes to pursuing relationship, you can neither demand nor expect who your chosen one will be. Naturally, it's by your own opinion and noone else's.

    • @flyguyry1
      @flyguyry1 11 месяцев назад +6

      How is this related to the video?

    • @joeh4295
      @joeh4295 11 месяцев назад +4

      I find the term "broad" when referring to woman as rather offensive. I've been married for 30 years and have 3 daughters. I never liked that term, even as a teenager.

    • @bazinga-tt9pj
      @bazinga-tt9pj 11 месяцев назад +8

      @@joeh4295 I don't care

    • @9770G
      @9770G 11 месяцев назад +4

      Actually u can in fact demand and expect for what your partner should be, and if the person isn’t, u can just not pursue them. That’s why men kick woman who sleep around back to the streets where they belong 😂

    • @sandra.helianthus
      @sandra.helianthus 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@9770GAnd that’s why woman kick out men, to the streets, where they belong

  • @vr3766
    @vr3766 11 месяцев назад

    Audio

  • @alayejon
    @alayejon 11 месяцев назад +4

    Maybe there's a full version or a better explanation and I'll rather watch that than draw any hasty conclusions.
    Meanwhile I thought all TEDx on RUclips were both audio and video. Wondering why this seems to be like an audio only podcast that was converted to video with a still image of the thumbnail

    • @CharleneCTX
      @CharleneCTX 10 месяцев назад +2

      As always with the TED shorts, the link to the full version is in the description.

  • @angelrogo
    @angelrogo Месяц назад

    Will ever feminists understand that virginity is a state of the soul, not of the body? Will ever women stop shaming men for being virgins?

  • @Giga-Ra
    @Giga-Ra 10 месяцев назад

    Never seen it 😊
    Very interesting why creator included it 🤔

  • @granhtmagalongshs7489
    @granhtmagalongshs7489 11 месяцев назад

    Good

  • @bjornopitz6561
    @bjornopitz6561 11 месяцев назад +6

    Not sure Oslo is the right place to talk about this...

    • @sandra.helianthus
      @sandra.helianthus 10 месяцев назад +1

      Or : one of the best

    • @suvuru
      @suvuru 10 месяцев назад +1

      What do you mean?

  • @udaan2001
    @udaan2001 10 месяцев назад

    Today, in most of the countries, making a woman say "Yes, I do", has become so so so difficult. And as a consequence, issues like virginity are not getting discussed. This is a true progress to the society. Isn't it?

  • @raecarroll100
    @raecarroll100 11 месяцев назад +40

    Virginity is much more and it is sacred! And to be valued by the individual and the privacy of the individual respected by outsiders whose body is not theirs!

    • @yaeli_i_guess
      @yaeli_i_guess 11 месяцев назад +9

      that's your opinion lol

    • @chaoswitch1974
      @chaoswitch1974 11 месяцев назад +2

      lol what a joke

    • @bazinga-tt9pj
      @bazinga-tt9pj 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@yaeli_i_guess It is indeed their opinion lol.

    • @Fluffysocks3124
      @Fluffysocks3124 11 месяцев назад

      This is dangerous thinking. Virginity is a made up construct to shake women.

    • @stephaneboisjoli1320
      @stephaneboisjoli1320 11 месяцев назад +5

      Yah sure. Let's put a value on starvation too while we're at it, and being clueless. Because that's what you're advocating.

  • @mohamedhaadi6012
    @mohamedhaadi6012 11 месяцев назад +1

    Waw😮

  • @nilanshupatel6504
    @nilanshupatel6504 11 месяцев назад

    1st views

  • @mykenmoon
    @mykenmoon 10 месяцев назад +1

    This is not an idea that is worth spreading. How are surveys done? By asking participants. How many virgins are out there and at what age?

    • @sandra.helianthus
      @sandra.helianthus 10 месяцев назад +2

      You did get, that there are no questionaries used but physical examination?
      Also: what idea should not be spreading? That women are not treated like lifestock on the market?

  • @cthulawha
    @cthulawha 11 месяцев назад +21

    Chick didn't really debunk anything just ranted about virginity being unimportant and a study of 36 people is hardly scientific lol,

    • @prosperkandafula7547
      @prosperkandafula7547 11 месяцев назад

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 OG

    • @yaeli_i_guess
      @yaeli_i_guess 11 месяцев назад +2

      well it isn't lmao provide your own studies

    • @bazinga-tt9pj
      @bazinga-tt9pj 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@yaeli_i_guess to do that, he would have to falsify results just like the one speaking on a podcast.

    • @yaeli_i_guess
      @yaeli_i_guess 11 месяцев назад

      @@bazinga-tt9pj source: trust me bro

    • @bazinga-tt9pj
      @bazinga-tt9pj 11 месяцев назад

      @@yaeli_i_guess so basicly what you just did there is say that a certain someone who's opinion you agree on, with next to none scientific creadibility, academic studies that dont qualify because of too small number pool is clearly in the right against someone in the comments, with an opinion you don't like, yet has nothing to show in study materials because that someone chooses not to falsify their non existant results.

  • @parabellum4622
    @parabellum4622 11 месяцев назад +1

    A girl never forgets her first...

  • @tyan_ldn
    @tyan_ldn 11 месяцев назад +19

    Just say that you regret your past and move on

    • @9770G
      @9770G 11 месяцев назад +4

      Exactly

    • @SirWeedBongVentura
      @SirWeedBongVentura 10 месяцев назад

      YEAH!

    • @sandra.helianthus
      @sandra.helianthus 10 месяцев назад +1

      Why would you have to say that?

    • @tyan_ldn
      @tyan_ldn 10 месяцев назад

      @@sandra.helianthus because it’s so obvious

    • @sandra.helianthus
      @sandra.helianthus 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@tyan_ldn you mean, you have to say sorry to your new partner bc they are not able to grasp that you are not an object they aquire and that you lead a life before them? 🤔
      Or do you mean anything else obvious?

  • @lutherpaoh6865
    @lutherpaoh6865 11 месяцев назад +5

    I don't understand nothing from this 🤣 wbu guys

    • @esonamsiwa4176
      @esonamsiwa4176 11 месяцев назад

      No wander you don't understand anything from this, you also don't know how to spell😂😂

  • @BYU2726
    @BYU2726 11 месяцев назад +9

    All across time and all cultures men has valued women virginity as virtuous

    • @yaeli_i_guess
      @yaeli_i_guess 11 месяцев назад +1

      all across time and all cultures men have been a menace to society

    • @stephaneboisjoli1320
      @stephaneboisjoli1320 11 месяцев назад +9

      Because they wanted to control them. It's chauvinistic, end it.

    • @slimshady3032
      @slimshady3032 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@stephaneboisjoli1320 thats bcuz they wont wanna ride a used vechile ...

    • @stephaneboisjoli1320
      @stephaneboisjoli1320 10 месяцев назад +4

      @@slimshady3032 is that why most men are single? The same rule is applied to them?

    • @naomihatfield3015
      @naomihatfield3015 10 месяцев назад +9

      Oh, we’re CARS now?
      Okay. There’s a reason that inexperienced drivers have to pay higher insurance premiums….because everyone knows that they’re clueless.

  • @quicktipsranger762
    @quicktipsranger762 10 месяцев назад +3

    I have never seen so many women complaining about being their choice what they do what their bodies, i don’t think they understand that men will never change their minds about self respect, at least not most men unless you are just like that and accepted you have non but otherwise it just won’t change, women’s insistence on this subject to do as they like without being judged will never change, so if you like doing that do it without others knowing because you will either stay single because you have no choice or say “all men are the same I never found a decent one”, well that’s your fault 🤷🏻‍♂️, I repeat it will never change
    Also I didn’t listen to this properly, I skipped so…. Yeah

    • @ryancooper1144
      @ryancooper1144 10 месяцев назад +1

      U didnt miss much. Both of them recommended women to lie about their virginity

    • @sandra.helianthus
      @sandra.helianthus 10 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@ryancooper1144umm that is a lie actually.
      It simply is no ones business and should not be.

    • @sandra.helianthus
      @sandra.helianthus 10 месяцев назад

      Not sure what you mean by this.
      Men are incapable of taking in scientific knowledge?
      Men are incapable to adjust to moral respecting human rights?
      Men are just incapable? Just wonder.
      And therefore not sure now anymore why women should partner up with such people in the first place 🤔

    • @ryancooper1144
      @ryancooper1144 10 месяцев назад

      @@sandra.helianthus She clearly said and I quote: "How she answers this question is her choice." Lying is a choice.

    • @sandra.helianthus
      @sandra.helianthus 10 месяцев назад +2

      @@ryancooper1144 interesting, that YOU even CONSIDER a lie as an answer. And seemingly, a lot of men in the comments did so, too.
      I am genuinly surprised about that, bc I
      wouldn't and I am very, very sure this was not what's recommended here. The answer of choice would clearly be: "I do not want to answer this question, (bc it is non of your business)".
      But I am a woman, I obviously think differently.
      However, I am taken aback that men think of lying here. Gives me a new perspective on men. 🤔

  • @ryancooper1144
    @ryancooper1144 11 месяцев назад +3

    I really had high hopes from them telling an alternate solution. Man, i am really disappointed, they simply recommend women to lie.

    • @yaeli_i_guess
      @yaeli_i_guess 11 месяцев назад +3

      what alternate solution do you want lmao

    • @stephaneboisjoli1320
      @stephaneboisjoli1320 11 месяцев назад +7

      It's none of their bleeping business what you did. Few men have to answer this question so why should women? It's obvious and plain discrimination, don't fall for it.

    • @ryancooper1144
      @ryancooper1144 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@stephaneboisjoli1320 how many men are offered free drinks and access to VIP lounges? I see no problem with men having a preference for women who have standards and dont bleep around.

    • @Grendygirl
      @Grendygirl 10 месяцев назад +2

      @@ryancooper1144 who are they sleeping around with? other men!!! why don't you have standards for yourself

    • @marlenaneedham3818
      @marlenaneedham3818 4 месяца назад

      ​@@ryancooper1144OK wait, some places offering women free drinks and access to VIP Lounges to boost turnout is not computing to their worth to me. Can you explain it?

  • @77Fmydog
    @77Fmydog 11 месяцев назад +15

    this is the worst tedx i have heard ever. what has ted come to....

    • @slimshady3032
      @slimshady3032 10 месяцев назад +1

      its says , it okay to sleep around ..and dont judge us bcuz of our virigitnity ..yeah , right

    • @sandra.helianthus
      @sandra.helianthus 10 месяцев назад

      Why?

    • @sandra.helianthus
      @sandra.helianthus 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@slimshady3032it must have been another vid you saw

  • @johnmay242
    @johnmay242 10 месяцев назад

    cover efiet abel. polotuals iuacuradtinis.