Making $200K: Wife Wants Me to Get a “Real Job”

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  • @ClayneBanks
    @ClayneBanks 4 дня назад +1070

    To be a successful business owner and investor, you have to be emotionally neutral to winning and losing. Winning and losing are just part of the game. Risk comes from not knowing what you are doing.

    • @RaphaelSafr
      @RaphaelSafr 4 дня назад

      Money was irrelevant to my marriage. The much stronger relevancy was and is what is most important to spend money on and what's least important.

    • @rodgertim2881
      @rodgertim2881 4 дня назад

      Prioritizing effective personal finance management holds greater significance than the sheer amount saved, irrespective of income source.

    • @ZhannaDavidova
      @ZhannaDavidova 4 дня назад

      Consulting a certified financial advisor can offer tailored
      strategies to optimize financial results by reducing expenses and enhancing income, regardless of whether it's earned through employment or investments.

    • @BraddPaisley
      @BraddPaisley 4 дня назад

      How did you find a good finance advisor? How do you know if they are trustworthy and competent.

    • @rodgertim2881
      @rodgertim2881 4 дня назад

      It's *Joseph Nick Cahill*

  • @alexsteven.m6414
    @alexsteven.m6414 7 дней назад +1399

    Successful investing is hard work because it means disciplining your mind to do the opposite of human nature. Buying during a panic, selling during euphoria, and holding on when you are bored and just craving a little action. Investing is 5% intellect and 95% temperament.

    • @antoniaribeiro8073
      @antoniaribeiro8073 7 дней назад +2

      Starting early is simply the best way of getting ahead to build wealth , investing remains a priority . I learnt from my last year's experience , I am able to build a suitable life because I invested early ahead this time .

    • @Tanner-c2m
      @Tanner-c2m 7 дней назад +3

      Until the Fed clamps down even further I think we're going to see hysteria due to rampant inflation. If you are in cross roads or need sincere advise on the best moves to take now with financial markets will be best you seek a fin-professional with fiduciary responsibilities who knows about mortgage-backed securities for proper guidance.

    • @NorthCarolinaForward
      @NorthCarolinaForward 7 дней назад +1

      Could you possibly recommend a CFA you've consulted with?

    • @Tanner-c2m
      @Tanner-c2m 7 дней назад

      'Rebecca Nassar Dunne’, a highly respected figure in her field. I suggest delving deeper into her credentials, as she possesses extensive experience and serves as a valuable resource for individuals seeking guidance in navigating the financial market.

    • @brantheeskimo
      @brantheeskimo 7 дней назад

      I searched her full name online and found her page. I emailed and made an appointment to talk with her; hopefully, she gets back to me.

  • @blacksnk
    @blacksnk 16 дней назад +1191

    200K working 4 days a week not a "real job". OK, Jan.

    • @tanpham7411
      @tanpham7411 16 дней назад

      I'll turn gay to marry that dude if she doesnt want him. Women nowadays smh

    • @ZirboFilip
      @ZirboFilip 16 дней назад +47

      yeah, that’s not real, that’s a dream for most

    • @shelleykapp9637
      @shelleykapp9637 15 дней назад +14

      More like "okay, Karen"

    • @Walter37165
      @Walter37165 14 дней назад +2

      Karen

    • @keco185
      @keco185 14 дней назад +2

      I’m sure that’s not what she meant. She surely meant a traditional job but words are hard

  • @ericchan5055
    @ericchan5055 16 дней назад +1574

    The audacity of this women who’s a teacher telling her husband making $200,000 a year to get a real job

    • @hylianlegends
      @hylianlegends 16 дней назад +60

      Her occupation is irrelevant

    • @harthart7529
      @harthart7529 16 дней назад +211

      @@hylianlegends it's not. She doesn't make any money and she's running her mouth because she's lazy.

    • @kathypatterson6813
      @kathypatterson6813 16 дней назад +110

      @@harthart7529 she’s taking care of three children, making more than $50,000 a year teaching full time and providing health insurance for the entire family and President of the retail store. Odd description of lazy😂

    • @cc3822
      @cc3822 16 дней назад +61

      @kathypatterson6813, to be fair, we don't know how much she or he actually takes care of the kids. I would argue that her telling her husband he doesn't have a real job and that she already wants to retire is more evidence that she is lazy-minded than not. More than likely, her kids are adults or not very dependent on either one of them, based on their age and her desire to retire. It seems selfish to me, expecting one to provide college funds and not wanting to chip in. At the same time, I want to know what both of their workloads are, which perhaps would tell the complete story.

    • @benruss4130
      @benruss4130 16 дней назад +66

      @@kathypatterson6813 Teaching is not a full time job for the most part. it has ATLEAST 2-3 months of vacation a year.

  • @byronn.2885
    @byronn.2885 16 дней назад +804

    “Pays very little, about $50k a year” and only requires a day per week. I’m a simple man but that sounds almost good enough on its.

    • @harthart7529
      @harthart7529 16 дней назад +119

      exactly. keep the business and get rid of the wife.

    • @LetsGo6009
      @LetsGo6009 16 дней назад +31

      If its an 8hr workday its about $120/hr pay rate. Not too shabby at all

    • @DullEdBlades
      @DullEdBlades 15 дней назад +7

      ​@@LetsGo6009 he mentioned doing six hours, not eight

    • @arlinsmith9964
      @arlinsmith9964 15 дней назад +18

      True but they're turning a mil to make 50k, that's the reason for the stress right there. Decent if you just look at a net check but that's poor margin.

    • @byronn.2885
      @byronn.2885 15 дней назад

      @@arlinsmith9964 I agree it’s a poor margin. I own and operate my own small business and it takes me working a lot of days/hours to clear $50k though.

  • @j.w.31
    @j.w.31 13 дней назад +509

    The woman sounds like one of those women from street interviews: “My man should earn $500k. Is that a lot?”

    • @captainhoopla7773
      @captainhoopla7773 10 дней назад +11

      Yup the broke ones😂

    • @qutielove2208
      @qutielove2208 8 дней назад +4

      That's exactly what it is.

    • @martinithechobit
      @martinithechobit 7 дней назад +6

      The president makes 300k plus.... 500k is literally hedge fund ceos. Or big company.

    • @blacksnk
      @blacksnk 7 дней назад +5

      @@martinithechobit The President of the United State official salary is 400K, VP makes 250K

    • @MrMobi007
      @MrMobi007 6 дней назад

      @@martinithechobit president makes $400K.. hedge fund dudes make millions or at the top billions per year.

  • @sasukesuite1
    @sasukesuite1 14 дней назад +428

    This is me basically. I make $192k as a government contractor at 27 years old, but everybody keeps telling me to get a “real job.” My salary would easily be cut in half if I went to the government.

    • @FirstLast-xk6fd
      @FirstLast-xk6fd 13 дней назад +70

      All the old people in my life think the same way, "You need a pension". Grandma if I get an extra 100k a year and invest it myself the pension would require you to be insane to take it

    • @TJ-th9hw
      @TJ-th9hw 13 дней назад +29

      Don’t listen to them. I would suggest making saving one of your highest priority as a contractor that’s all.

    • @BlakeElliott35
      @BlakeElliott35 12 дней назад +55

      You have a real job. You’re simply surrounded by either jealous, bitter, angry, or foolish people. And, that’s me putting it nicely.

    • @mariochavez3212
      @mariochavez3212 12 дней назад +14

      @@FirstLast-xk6fdthat is why I started to buy rental properties. That is my ‘pension’.

    • @forrbyc1508
      @forrbyc1508 12 дней назад +16

      I have no idea why anyone would say 197K income is not a real job. Just buy your own health insurance, max out your IRA every year and on top of that put money into an individual stock account because you can afford it. If you invested 10% of your income into the S&P 500, you will have almost $10M in 40 years. 15% of your income About $14M and 20% of your income almost $20M in 40 years. I’m not sure what a pension is, but I’m I’m pretty sure it’s not $10M - $20M.

  • @ronaldbeerguy
    @ronaldbeerguy 16 дней назад +410

    I think Dave was doing his best to bite his tongue and not say anything derogatory

    • @jaesall3519
      @jaesall3519 13 дней назад +44

      Something is wrong with that woman or she looking for a way out of the marriage or That guy is not telling the whole story

    • @JohnSmith-bs9ym
      @JohnSmith-bs9ym 11 дней назад

      ​@@jaesall3519 I have a teacher wife as well, and they are completely delusional on the finance front. It's horrible for men like us.

    • @markpitchford7375
      @markpitchford7375 9 дней назад +5

      @@jaesall3519 women lash out at their husbands. somehow in the west, they think it's okay to treat people that way.

    • @MikeG82
      @MikeG82 9 дней назад

      @@jaesall3519 exactly
      when women feel they married/dated down and could've done better they look for every opportunity to start a fight

  • @robr268
    @robr268 16 дней назад +283

    She works 8hrs a month at the store. He works 6hrs a week there. People that's around 32 hrs a month that brings in 50,000 a year. He said it runs by itself. Why ger rid of that money maker?

    • @TimoRutanen
      @TimoRutanen 14 дней назад +14

      Sounded like they can't not talk about it constantly. It's 'in the way'. Weirdly.

    • @DVul
      @DVul 13 дней назад +22

      Hire a manager and step out of that business, make it passive...

    • @aarontheblackfox
      @aarontheblackfox 12 дней назад +5

      ​@@DVulsounds like they already have one. They just can't stop talking about it.

    • @michaellawrence3345
      @michaellawrence3345 12 дней назад

      Woman who needs them kmt

    • @charlesbrown179
      @charlesbrown179 11 дней назад +18

      The entire "problem" boils down to: She wants to spend her husband's money instead of making her own. Because she wants to retire before he does.

  • @StoweMercantile
    @StoweMercantile 5 дней назад +120

    I'm 54 and my wife and I are VERY worried about our future, gas and food prices rising daily. We have had our savings dwindle with the cost of living into the stratosphere, and we are finding it impossible to replace them. We can get by, but can't seem to get ahead. My condolences to anyone retiring in this crisis, 30 years nonstop just for a crooked system to take all you worked for.

    • @JOEY-HUFF
      @JOEY-HUFF 5 дней назад +1

      I feel your pain mate, as a fellow retiree, I'd suggest you look into passive index fund investing and learn some more. For me, I had my share of ups and downs when I first started looking for a consistent passive income so I hired an expert advisor for aid, and following her advice, I poured $30k in value stocks and digital assets, Up to 200k so far and pretty sure I'm ready for whatever comes.

    • @GerbertTurco
      @GerbertTurco 5 дней назад +1

      In the 50's my Dad worked a modest job, Mom stayed at home and raised the kids, and they lived a nice middle class lifestyle including owning a home. Nowadays both I and my partner works and can barely afford to make ends meet. Soon the kids and family dog will need to work to keep this household going. It's the destruction of the American dream right before our eyes.

    • @Gregstuckey
      @Gregstuckey 5 дней назад

      If you are not in the financial market space right now, you are making a huge mistake. I understand that it could be due to ignorance, but if you want to make your money work for you...prevent inflation

    • @NorwoodGuernsey
      @NorwoodGuernsey 5 дней назад

      I feel Investors should exercise caution with their exposure and.exercise caution when considering new investments, particularly during periods of inflation. It is advisable to seek guidance from a professional or a licensed expert in order to navigate this recession and achieve potential high yields

    • @JOEY-HUFF
      @JOEY-HUFF 5 дней назад

      Tracy Britt Cool Consulting was my hope during the 'bear summer' last year. I made so many mistakes but also learned so much from it, and of course from Tracy.

  • @Scottyv12
    @Scottyv12 16 дней назад +151

    I don't get the people that value a classic 9-5 job. If you find a way to make a lot more money in less time that's a huge win, not something to look down on.

    • @rickyayy
      @rickyayy 13 дней назад +13

      She's completely looney.

    • @eduardomartindelcampo4555
      @eduardomartindelcampo4555 12 дней назад +5

      The ONLY disadvantage is that you forgo your "safety." If you forgo your standard career path, then you don't have those "years of experience" and therefore becomes harder to get a job in your chosen career down the road. Other than that, I 100% agree, it's better to be self-employed and be able to do things for less hours. Time is invaluable.

    • @whitegoodman7465
      @whitegoodman7465 10 дней назад

      @@eduardomartindelcampo4555 there is no safety. I see comments all the time people working decades at one job thinking its a career, something happens whether it's a injury or whatever then they get fired and someone else takes their place. Job safety is an elusion with most companies.

    • @davidhoggan5376
      @davidhoggan5376 10 дней назад +1

      You have to think more critically about about what she's saying - of course she values his income, but she likely also feels exhausted by the amount of work that she's putting into her lower paying job in comparison to her husband who likely lives more freely.. Being a teacher SUCKS. I've done it. It's awful front to back. She's staying in that position to cover health insurance and fund her children's $20,000.00 private school education. She's probably making $60,000 - $70,000 which including the tuition rebate [$20,000] and health insurance for 4 people [$25,000+] her contribution starts to look more like $115,000 +. When she tells him to go get a real job, she means a to get a job that difficult so he can understand the stress she's feeling. She wants less stress.

    • @thebiggestpanda1
      @thebiggestpanda1 8 дней назад

      @@davidhoggan5376quit being a teacher and homeschool the kids. Problem solved.

  • @mayacardano9905
    @mayacardano9905 16 дней назад +510

    I’m a woman myself.
    Your wife needs mental help…even if you made millions she will never be happy. It’s not you, it’s her. It looks like to me she doesn’t care about you as a her husband.
    She’s empty inside.

    • @simoncameron4355
      @simoncameron4355 15 дней назад +15

      I just ended a 10 year relationship, my significant other didn't respect what I do... and would not see things from my angle... it is just better he gets a new wife. I would say he picked wrong but to be real, women are not taught to see things from the other persons angle.

    • @mayacardano9905
      @mayacardano9905 15 дней назад +6

      @@simoncameron4355 it all depends on the woman. There are great women out there who support their men and understands them. But I think in general times had changed and it’s harder to find good people in general. You’re better off being single and respect yourself than being in the relationship and the other partner thinking only of themselves.
      Good for you for ending it. Most people stay because they are afraid to be alone.
      Peace and Love.

    • @bicboi1930
      @bicboi1930 15 дней назад

      Lol theres plenty of girls that will treat a man making 200k right. He needs to get rid of her ​@simoncameron4355

    • @tonycrabtree3416
      @tonycrabtree3416 15 дней назад +4

      Imagine not understanding she’s bound by 5 days at a school, then going to a second job. She can work the store and make 50+k or she can just do the teaching. This husband is a douchecanoe. they would have 200k a year instead of 250k. Simple solution, sell the store and she stays a teacher.

    • @simoncameron4355
      @simoncameron4355 15 дней назад +6

      @@mayacardano9905 Just because I am curious what percentage of marriageable women are out there do you think? I mean women who have been with less than 5 people their whole lives... because the stats show that when a woman has slept with over 5 people their chance for divorce goes through the roof. (and that is just one aspect of a "Good woman"?

  • @Erikkurilla01
    @Erikkurilla01 6 дней назад +1620

    Investing in hedge funds by yourself can be risky due to their complex strategies, high fees, and potential for significant losses. Without expert knowledge, it's challenging to fully assess the risks and returns, making professional guidance crucial.

    • @jessicasquire
      @jessicasquire 6 дней назад

      Hedge funds can be tricky to navigate without deep financial expertise. The complex strategies and high fees involved mean that the risks can be substantial, and it’s hard to fully grasp these without experience. Professional guidance is key to making informed decisions and avoiding potential pitfalls.

    • @Lemariecooper
      @Lemariecooper 6 дней назад

      The comments emphasize the risks of investing in hedge funds without professional expertise. A financial adviser can help navigate these complexities, ensuring that investments are well-managed and aligned with financial goals. Their guidance is crucial for assessing risks, maximizing returns, and making the investment process more secure and personalized.

    • @tahirisaid2693
      @tahirisaid2693 6 дней назад

      Glad to have stumbled on this comment,, Please who is the consultant that assist you and if you don't mind, how do I get in touch with them??

    • @Lemariecooper
      @Lemariecooper 6 дней назад

      My CFA NICOLE ANASTASIA PLUMLEE a renowned figure in her line of work. I recommend researching her credentials further... She has many years of experience and is a valuable resource for anyone looking to navigate the financial market..

    • @tahirisaid2693
      @tahirisaid2693 6 дней назад

      I just googled her and I'm really impressed with her credentials; I reached out to her since I need all the assistance I can get. I just scheduled a caII.

  • @amessina6691
    @amessina6691 16 дней назад +549

    She needs a real problem in her life. She has no perspective. She's the classic "it's never enough" type wife.

  • @jermainebennett7473
    @jermainebennett7473 16 дней назад +659

    The epitome of "You can’t please a woman" The man makes 200k per yr consistently, which is more than all other sources combined...and he should give it up for a real job. I swear these ppl...

    • @cstuartdc
      @cstuartdc 16 дней назад +16

      Actually Dave should cover this. A. Yes, I think there's a gender difference here and women resent this more than the inverse B. There is a resentment that women have "carry the benefits" (which almost always means working FT) while Hubby pursues his dream in business..
      This isnt' the only couple to go through this.

    • @lonestarrk9308
      @lonestarrk9308 16 дней назад +34

      @@cstuartdc Well, she can’t have it both ways. She is better off being a stay at home mom. He can buy health insurance and eat the cost of tuition or send them to public school. Women, in mass, are not designed for stressful jobs. They crack easily.

    • @cstuartdc
      @cstuartdc 16 дней назад +15

      @@lonestarrk9308 I agree that some women can't seem to reconcile realities with their desires. The world "oughta be" vs the world "is". They want daddy to make it all better

    • @harthart7529
      @harthart7529 16 дней назад +13

      @@lonestarrk9308 sounds like an excuse. Men aren't running around looking to be stressed out either. Women just don't have a problem throwing their load onto your back. It's poor character on her part. He should divorce her.

    • @BarryWoodward-kg7rw
      @BarryWoodward-kg7rw 16 дней назад

      😂😂😂😂​@@lonestarrk9308

  • @FranciscaCarlos-w2m
    @FranciscaCarlos-w2m 4 дня назад +11

    *I had problem comprehending trading in general. I tried watching other RUclips trading channels, but they made the concepts more complicated. I was almost giving up until when i discovered content and explain everything in detail. The videos are easy to follow*

    • @MichelleJessica-x8j
      @MichelleJessica-x8j 4 дня назад

      I've been making a lot of looses trying to make profit trading. I thought trading on a demo account is just like trading the real market. Can anyone help me out or at least advise me on what to do?

    • @LevornCotton
      @LevornCotton 4 дня назад

      Trading on a demo account can definitely feel similar to the real market, but there are some differences. It's important to remember that trading involves risks and it's normal to face looses sometimes. One piece of advice is to start small and gradually increase your investments as you gain more experience and confidence. It might also be helpful to seek guidance from experienced traders or do some research on different trading strategies

    • @AbeuLavish
      @AbeuLavish 4 дня назад

      I will advise you should stop trading on your own if you keep losing

    • @AbeuLavish
      @AbeuLavish 4 дня назад

      If you can, then get a professional to trade for you i think that way your assets are more secure

    • @AbeuLavish
      @AbeuLavish 4 дня назад

      I'd recommend LANNA,GEORGE her profit is great even when there's a dip

  • @mtnmann72
    @mtnmann72 16 дней назад +94

    Some people will never know how good they have it.

    • @rickyayy
      @rickyayy 13 дней назад +6

      This woman has everything and hates her life

    • @nocucksinkekistan7321
      @nocucksinkekistan7321 4 дня назад

      @@rickyayy Hopefully she decides to down the tylonal.

  • @willmichael4033
    @willmichael4033 16 дней назад +376

    “Woman complaining about having to work”
    What an insane revelation!

    • @missyevitt8150
      @missyevitt8150 15 дней назад +8

      She works 40 plus hours at work plus the added responsibilities of the store and also runs a household. Its a lot of work.

    • @jet4415
      @jet4415 15 дней назад +3

      According to the religious right she should be home taking care of the kids and not outside of the home.

    • @alluringbliss4165
      @alluringbliss4165 15 дней назад +22

      @@missyevitt8150she ‘s ungrateful. She makes a 1/4 of his income.

    • @Chet_24
      @Chet_24 15 дней назад +21

      ​@@missyevitt8150 Yeah. Those 2 hours a week at the store must be hell. Lol!

    • @aisherwasher6959
      @aisherwasher6959 15 дней назад +3

      It's almost like not everyone wants to work above full time when all of their financial needs are already met. What's the point in making extra spending money just to burn out and not be able to take care of your family?

  • @ezswan
    @ezswan 11 дней назад +43

    Im such an idiot. I was like trying to figure out wtf a treadmill operator was and looking at the "treadmill repair," business. But this just means that you are simply doing everything in your business. Bravo.

    • @skoto8219
      @skoto8219 9 дней назад

      Okay thanks. What the hell lol

    • @WisamSafi1978
      @WisamSafi1978 9 дней назад +4

      I still don’t get it. What exactly does he do?

    • @HilltopperTA
      @HilltopperTA 4 дня назад +2

      Wait what? I was thinking of selling treadmills after he said he made 150-200K a year in profit... is that not what he does???

    • @ezswan
      @ezswan 4 дня назад

      @@HilltopperTA No. Look up EntreLeadership on Ramseysolutions which is a book but also is his analysis on business which he breaks up into 5 stages. The 5 stages describe what stage you are in with your business. It does not necessarily mean that you have to go to the next stage, but it gives an understanding of what is required from you if you are in a particular stage.
      The first stage is Treadmill Operator. Go look it up.
      Unless I am wrong, and this guy is actually involved in treadmills, then its the guy simply saying, "treadmill operator," to describe how he runs the business.

    • @jameson1239
      @jameson1239 2 дня назад

      @@HilltopperTAsells and repairs probably

  • @tkordik
    @tkordik 16 дней назад +529

    Husband: I make the majority of our income, $150-$200K annually
    Wife: You need to get a "Real job"
    Maybe bro needs a REAL wife.

    • @UTP504
      @UTP504 16 дней назад +36

      Definitely, he needs a real wife and a appreciative one.

    • @NoirMorter
      @NoirMorter 16 дней назад +4

      Yup.

    • @markbernier8434
      @markbernier8434 16 дней назад +10

      Probably also has a side piece already and she is shopping lawyers for the divorce.

    • @clarkewegener9197
      @clarkewegener9197 15 дней назад

      @@markbernier8434Ahhh! Good catch! A “real job” meaning one she can collect child support on.

    • @Canadian_Eh_I
      @Canadian_Eh_I 15 дней назад +5

      @@markbernier8434 Yup. Looking for excuses to break it off and justify it to her self . She's already left

  • @LovethRoyce-t5k
    @LovethRoyce-t5k 6 дней назад +58

    Thank you for sharing. Financial education is crucial today to show incredible resilience and discipline in the volatile market, masterfully balancing strategy and insight for success. This dedication to continuous learning is inspiring...managed to grow a nest egg of around 200k to a decent 632k in the space of a few months... I'm especially grateful to Evelyn Infurna, whose deep expertise and traditional trading acumen have been invaluable in this challenging, ever-evolving financial landscape.

    • @LovethRoyce-t5k
      @LovethRoyce-t5k 6 дней назад

      Use her name to quickly conduct an internet search.

    • @LovethRoyce-t5k
      @LovethRoyce-t5k 6 дней назад

      SHE’S MOSTLY ON TELEGRAMS APPS WITH THE BELOW NAME.

    • @LovethRoyce-t5k
      @LovethRoyce-t5k 6 дней назад

      @Infurnaevely1

    • @RachelBlackburn-o3b
      @RachelBlackburn-o3b 6 дней назад

      Evelyn Infurna has really set the standard for others to follow, we love her here in Canada🇨🇦 as she has been really helpful and changed lots of life’s

    • @Suziew12
      @Suziew12 6 дней назад

      It's important to have a well-thought-out strategy and not make impulsive moves based on short-term market fluctuations. Patience and a long-term perspective are key. You should consider a market expert to guide you.

  • @3mmdm32
    @3mmdm32 16 дней назад +78

    My wife said the same thing. I make 200K plus and my wife said the same thing like 200k jobs all over the place.

    • @moicus29
      @moicus29 16 дней назад +19

      Girl math

    • @rorycolgan
      @rorycolgan 14 дней назад +2

      Wild😅

    • @3mmdm32
      @3mmdm32 14 дней назад +4

      @@Austenfan177 no

    • @yangtroy1
      @yangtroy1 14 дней назад +8

      MIGHT BE TIME TO CONSIDER A NEW ONE!

    • @ThePolypam
      @ThePolypam 11 дней назад +4

      Tell her to find one for herself and then you'll consider changing yours.

  • @markraven7316
    @markraven7316 16 дней назад +123

    This man has created a successful hell. Women always want the next best thing even when they have it all.

    • @jeabo0adhd
      @jeabo0adhd 15 дней назад +12

      Real women appreciate when their partner is contributing. Spoiled brats living in a Disney wonderland will always be looking for the next happily ever after.

    • @Chet_24
      @Chet_24 15 дней назад +12

      ​@@jeabo0adhd The women you describe are not commonly found in the US. This dude should pack his bags and head to South East Asia.

    • @thebigmanufacturer
      @thebigmanufacturer 11 дней назад

      @@jeabo0adhdReal women do what the woman here is doing. Men will damn near cut their nuts off for women, so if a woman is with a man not willing to do that for her, she can find a man who is. As long as we as men keep valuing women the way we do and keep putting them on a pedestal, their most reasonable, self-benefitting course of action is to continue to bleed us dry.

    • @machdave1
      @machdave1 9 дней назад +2

      She wants more and more but is getting older and older. Doesn't seem like a good investment.

    • @MauriceB-zn5pv
      @MauriceB-zn5pv 9 дней назад

      Choooae the woman that chooses you. A lot of guys chase women that sort of kind of like them and these problems come up.

  • @woohunter1
    @woohunter1 13 дней назад +26

    Me and my wife switched back and forth at least 4 times being the breadwinner. It doesn’t mean a damn thing to either one of us. We work as a team. She reminded me a little bit ago that I (me) am the breadwinner and that she is thankful that I supported her decision to switch jobs knowing it pays less. That’s when I reminded her that its her health insurance that is carrying both of us.

    • @jenniferpearce1052
      @jenniferpearce1052 12 дней назад +2

      This is what a healthy partnership looks like. So happy you're blessed this way.

    • @woohunter1
      @woohunter1 12 дней назад

      @@jenniferpearce1052 thank-you.

  • @sirraymondluxuryyacht8131
    @sirraymondluxuryyacht8131 16 дней назад +112

    My take: She hates her job and is venting. But she's also disrespectful to him and a little entitled. But also a little of the stress talking.
    My advice: Sit her down and address her disrespectful attitude. Remind her how good she has it. Once THAT's corrected, then make a plan to adjust things so she's not so stressed. Life's too short for stress. But if her attitude doesn't change, maybe she needs to appreciate how her life is different without a good man to provide well for her

    • @saeedhossain6099
      @saeedhossain6099 15 дней назад +2

      very entitled, but yeah your analysis is very valid

    • @AngelaMastrodonato
      @AngelaMastrodonato 14 дней назад +3

      She may not be great at expressing herself and she may be entitled but I sort of sympathize because it sounds like she’s working a job she hates only for the benefits, health insurance and tutition reimbursement for their kids private school. No, she shouldn’t expect her husband to give up a well paying job he loves just for the benefits. For the sake of their marriage I hope they come together and realize neither one of them should be working a job the other hates for benefits alone. Where there’s a will there must be a way to come up with a solution they are both happy with. Personally, I understand health insurance for self-employed is ridiculously expensive, but not every self employed person has the benefit of an employed spouse with health insurance. I hate that health insurance is connected to our jobs and we can’t realistically shop around like we do for auto and home insurance

    • @rickyayy
      @rickyayy 13 дней назад +1

      Completely ungrateful

    • @morotetsuke
      @morotetsuke 10 дней назад +2

      Too late. I guarantee.

    • @justinnew777
      @justinnew777 9 дней назад

      Facts

  • @cantrell0817
    @cantrell0817 16 дней назад +191

    The wife simply doesn't want to work anymore. She takes him totally for granted.

    • @joeriveracomedy
      @joeriveracomedy 16 дней назад +9

      Yeah. We listen to Ramsey. Every other call reflects it.

    • @firefly9838
      @firefly9838 16 дней назад +4

      Who the hell WANTS to work unless its for yourself

    • @darylfoster7944
      @darylfoster7944 16 дней назад

      @@firefly9838 people who don't want the risk, who want to be compensated for their labor while letting someone else take the risk.

    • @fred-ts9pb
      @fred-ts9pb 14 дней назад

      @@firefly9838 I was told just recently, if one can't work for themselves, get a government job. the person that told me this got a government job. Nice pensions and SS. Both him and the spouse the same.

    • @user-ww1oo6ky5m
      @user-ww1oo6ky5m 12 дней назад

      You don't know that.

  • @BobSmith-sx6fr
    @BobSmith-sx6fr 16 дней назад +73

    the dude should take over the store she only does 8 hours a month and she should only teach for seven more years to pay the kids tuition and save them on insurance then she can retire and the dude can keep making money because he is obviously good at it and I think she likes it

    • @the_word_and_lore
      @the_word_and_lore 15 дней назад +7

      This! She’s obviously stressed and he’s obviously good at being a business man.

    • @ThePolypam
      @ThePolypam 11 дней назад

      If he takes the Presidency away from her, she'll scream bloody murder and claim financial abuse.

    • @KManAbout
      @KManAbout 9 дней назад

      I don't know he says she only works 8 hrs per month but they talk about the business all the time? Something seems off this story seems too one sided.

    • @KManAbout
      @KManAbout 9 дней назад

      And he says he is always working. Maybe her complaint centers around not really having much time for each other. And if he's making that much freelance he actually might be able to get a higher paying job for the big wig companies with less hours of work.

    • @ThePolypam
      @ThePolypam 9 дней назад +1

      @@KManAbout what if that's not what he wants?

  • @hornbaker
    @hornbaker 16 дней назад +61

    Life is hard. She wants the retired life but expects her husband to keep working to earn it for her.
    Nobody enjoys work. She needs to pull the yoke alongside him, not slack off because he was smarter about his career choices. If he lets her quit working, he will forever be her slave with the threat of a crippling alimony and child support.

    • @growinglifeorganic940
      @growinglifeorganic940 16 дней назад

      Not if she goes to florida and a gator takes her .

    • @derekp6636
      @derekp6636 15 дней назад +4

      this is exactly how I feel, wife decided to be a teacher as well...

    • @KS-cl8br
      @KS-cl8br 11 дней назад +1

      ​@derekp6636 u decided to marry her

  • @netasedlak9454
    @netasedlak9454 16 дней назад +68

    My grandmother told my husband, years ago, to "get a real job", because we were self-employed.
    She had worked packing cups at Lily Tulip, most of her life, and retired to live on a minimum social security check.
    Our various businesses have been bringing in around 1.8m, per year, the last few years.
    Don't take financial advice from someone who is broke, as Dave has said.
    This guy's wife, making the small wages, is trying to tell him to "get a real job", while he is the one making the big money? Definitely not the person that he should take financial advice from. Definitely!

    • @mikeg2491
      @mikeg2491 15 дней назад +4

      I made a large sum of money on learning to daytrade and quit my job and still hear it from my 97yo grandmother if I’ll ever go get a real job again.

    • @teubks
      @teubks 3 дня назад

      @@mikeg2491you won the lottery. Congrats!

  • @josereyes1148
    @josereyes1148 16 дней назад +200

    The wife is stressed out and wants to quit being a teacher. Shes jealous that the husband doesn't have to deal with that stress so he "Needs to get a real job". She resents him because she has to teach for the health insurance. Shes willing to put more stress on him and probably make less money to do that. Edit: Also lose her childs tuition money. Its all about her.

    • @wahinepaddler4
      @wahinepaddler4 16 дней назад +6

      💯

    • @turtleanton6539
      @turtleanton6539 16 дней назад +3

      Indeed😊

    • @Justobserving9291
      @Justobserving9291 16 дней назад +23

      The wife could care less about the husband she wants the money not the husband

    • @mishellbrossier1605
      @mishellbrossier1605 16 дней назад +2

      If she quit teaching and went to the store full time, she could build the store to compensate for the loss of tuition assistance.

    • @HeyApple2234
      @HeyApple2234 16 дней назад

      you may be right but this is quite the asssumption

  • @mle011
    @mle011 15 дней назад +59

    It’s going to be a reality check when the wife works retail and realizes she no longer gets weekends off, summers off, 2 weeks for Christmas off, spring break off, and Thanksgiving off. You think you’re burned out as a Teacher? Wait until you work a real 9-5.

    • @michaelsorensen7567
      @michaelsorensen7567 13 дней назад

      Retail is pretty chill except for rush time.
      Try being in a factory or skilled trades on your feet doing heavy and or complicated stuff for 10 hours a day. That'll get her wishing to go back to retail let alone 8 hours a week

    • @Bob-fk8vd
      @Bob-fk8vd 13 дней назад +5

      Teachers work far more than a 9-5 job.
      We take our work home with us.
      We work weekends.
      And yes, surprise! We work during our summers off.
      I have worked retail for 19 years and am a teacher.
      Yes, I get the holidays off.
      But, I work far more as a teacher.

    • @nicolasreinaldet732
      @nicolasreinaldet732 13 дней назад

      Dude I am from a family of teatchers.
      No retail work Is bringing home a 30cm thick sheet of tests to correct.

    • @jenniferpearce1052
      @jenniferpearce1052 12 дней назад +2

      I think what both sides of this thread font realize is that right now, she's doing both. She has the 24-7 stress of being responsible for the retail store (even if she's not there at the time) AND she's working as a teacher, with all the after-hours work involved. That's why she's stressed. It's too much to think about all the time. One or the other.

    • @GigaRants
      @GigaRants 10 дней назад +5

      @@Bob-fk8vd Being a teacher is severely easy if you are organized. And yes, majority of teachers DO get summers off, spring break, winter break, every weekend off, every holiday off, and majority really don't teach the entire 9-5 hours as they often have blocks with no classes to teach where then the organized teachers will efficiently grade/prep while on the job. Nonetheless, working as a teacher is severely easier than working an 80 hour a week hard labour job that sometimes includes working outdoors in varying weather.
      Let's be real.

  • @Agitabodie
    @Agitabodie 13 дней назад +67

    If that marriage lasts another 10 years before the wife destroys it I will be shocked.

    • @humansvd3269
      @humansvd3269 7 дней назад +1

      Men often stay because of the govt. If govt didn't exist, this woman would have a 180.

  • @hurley3000gt
    @hurley3000gt 16 дней назад +47

    As a side note, this guy sounds like a cool dude. Anyone would be lucky to work for this guy.

    • @rational9229
      @rational9229 16 дней назад

      I don't really like this guy, I would not like dealing with him. Wife seems unpleasant too, possibly from dealing with him.

    • @bushmonster1702
      @bushmonster1702 16 дней назад +8

      @@rational9229 are you ok?

    • @growinglifeorganic940
      @growinglifeorganic940 16 дней назад +4

      ​@@bushmonster1702 its the dudes wife she knew he was going to be on this video.

  • @davesrvchannel4717
    @davesrvchannel4717 16 дней назад +47

    He said he was blessed with great crew at store. Give an employee a promotion and raise, problem solved

  • @someoneelse6934
    @someoneelse6934 16 дней назад +15

    Why doesn’t SHE get a “real job” making $200k or more per year like her husband?

    • @someoneelse6934
      @someoneelse6934 16 дней назад +1

      @@Austenfan177 I doubt he does either but, reality sucks.

  • @joefran619
    @joefran619 2 дня назад +2

    A teacher? Great benefits, summers off, good pay, oh the humanity of it all.

  • @roberteltze4850
    @roberteltze4850 16 дней назад +12

    Retirement is a valid goal. When your wealth is large enough to support a comfortable life there is no reason to pursue more. Live the life you enjoy.
    If you're a boring person and wouldn't have anything to occupy your time i suppose you could seek another job but make sure it's something you enjoy doing.

  • @LuisFernandez-dz7ms
    @LuisFernandez-dz7ms 16 дней назад +46

    What does she mean by “real job.” Sounds like he’s doing just fine?

    • @LuisFernandez-dz7ms
      @LuisFernandez-dz7ms 16 дней назад +3

      @@Austenfan177 he can just buy health insurance tho… 🤣

    • @scott4825
      @scott4825 16 дней назад +2

      @@Austenfan177 She means a job with health insurance, so she can run the store instead of working for someone else.

    • @scott4825
      @scott4825 16 дней назад

      @@LuisFernandez-dz7ms And that is the solution to their problem.

    • @melstarr1864
      @melstarr1864 15 дней назад

      @@LuisFernandez-dz7msYes, health insurance is something he can buy, but it sounds like he hasn’t.

    • @scott4825
      @scott4825 15 дней назад +4

      @@Austenfan177 No lack of work ethic. She has been teaching for 20 years and managing a business. She just wants to do one or the other at this point. Also, a lot of private schools require a good amount of additional work when you have kids attending (weekends, nights, breaks possibly).

  • @JJason406
    @JJason406 7 дней назад +4

    The last American woman I dated in NY asked me if I would consider buying a real house. I had a 3 bedroom townhouse and she was unemployed

  • @getonwithit.2847
    @getonwithit.2847 15 дней назад +46

    He's netting 150k-200k a year on 1 business and she's complaining it's not enough? What the hell 😳? Is this women off her medication?

    • @FlowerPower-r8h
      @FlowerPower-r8h 13 дней назад +3

      No. She is working her job for insurance and tuition discount where she teaches. The real job comment was her wanting him to get a job with insurance.

    • @scubadivingadventures1
      @scubadivingadventures1 12 дней назад +6

      ⁠@@FlowerPower-r8h She has a sheep/follower mentality. That’s nonsense! You can get very good health insurance for like $300 a month, that’s $3600 a year. Why would he quit making 200k just to save 4k?

    • @scubadivingadventures1
      @scubadivingadventures1 12 дней назад

      @@FlowerPower-r8h I mean seriously are you braindead?

    • @user-ww1oo6ky5m
      @user-ww1oo6ky5m 12 дней назад

      That statement holds no value and really isn't relevant...

    • @CowboyQuan
      @CowboyQuan 10 дней назад

      ​@@FlowerPower-r8hher job doesn't matter she should quit .

  • @JessicaKeith-uj1jq
    @JessicaKeith-uj1jq 14 дней назад +529

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    • @LeahLewis-ny9iu
      @LeahLewis-ny9iu 14 дней назад

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    • @EricaWaters-lr6zw
      @EricaWaters-lr6zw 14 дней назад

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    • @AshleyKeith-vw7ws
      @AshleyKeith-vw7ws 14 дней назад

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    • @EricaWaters-lr6zw
      @EricaWaters-lr6zw 14 дней назад

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      @AshleyKeith-vw7ws 14 дней назад

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  • @shawnbrooks5293
    @shawnbrooks5293 13 дней назад +17

    2:15 you can tell by his chuckle that he knows his wife is being ridiculous

  • @buddhistandthemoney1
    @buddhistandthemoney1 10 дней назад +5

    She just wants you to pay all the bills. Instead of saying that she's trying to shame you into it.

    • @CowboyQuan
      @CowboyQuan 10 дней назад +1

      Lol I think ur correct she's planning to quit and just be a wife but has to pretend it's hard

  • @lk29392
    @lk29392 16 дней назад +55

    Need to simplify their life and that will reduce the stress. Here is my advice: 1. Sell the store - not making much $ on that, probably not worth the stress especially with the wife having some involvement. 2. Get the wife on some anxiety medicine. 3. Keep the $150K/year gravy job. 4. Tell the wife tough luck, you get all nights, weekends, holidays, summers off as a teacher plus huge tuition discount for the kids, medical insurance, retirement, etc.... 5. If she insists on quitting teaching then tell her what you will have to give up with 'only' $150K salary. Details on that would have to be looked at by them based on spending habits, debts, etc...they might not be able to afford private school, fancy cars, fancy vacations, or whatever they might spend $ on.

    • @harthart7529
      @harthart7529 16 дней назад +13

      She works there 8 hours per month and it brings them $50k per year. Selling it is ridiculous.

    • @Aubatron
      @Aubatron 15 дней назад

      @@harthart7529Yeah another option is for her to stop teaching and just do the 8 hour a week at the store. He makes enough money with the additional 50k from the store. Only problem is all of that free time that she’d have can cause issues. People are funny, they say they want to have the freedom to lay around and do nothing, then when they get to do it they lose their minds and create problems that don’t even exist.

    • @scsmith4604
      @scsmith4604 15 дней назад +2

      Move #2 to the #1 position. That might allow for keeping the store and $50K annually for 8 hours per week.

    • @michaelsorensen7567
      @michaelsorensen7567 13 дней назад +2

      $520/hr is "not making much money"?
      Since you have too much, will you give me some?

    • @lk29392
      @lk29392 10 дней назад

      @@michaelsorensen7567 He works there once a week for 6 hours, she works there 8 hours a month so (52x6) + (8x12) = 408 hours worked by them per year at $50K profit is $122/hr profit for their labor which is still nice but not $520/hr. The primary problem is the huge stress level it brings the wife to be involved in it. How do you calculate a cost there? With the guy already making $150-200K and the wife making say $50K to be a teacher then you are talking about going from $200-250K to $250-300K but the wife dealing with much more stress. Do they really need that to add 20% extra income when they already make $200K+? Also, they own that business, so maybe they are able to sell it off for a nice chunk of change and put that towards the kids school, etc... Having 20 employees can lead to a lot of personnel issues for various reasons not to mention gossip and drama which I suspect is part of the stress on the wife. I maintain strongly that they need to jettison that business and it isn't worth their time given everything I'm hearing.

  • @josephbarker91
    @josephbarker91 15 дней назад +9

    If a woman had called and said the same things about her husband, Dave would ask her if she was safe.

    • @rvog6584
      @rvog6584 11 дней назад

      no. john wuld but theres a reason hes not on entreleadership ... 🙂

    • @josephbarker91
      @josephbarker91 11 дней назад

      @@rvog6584 I've seen Dave do it.

  • @jamisonmunn9215
    @jamisonmunn9215 16 дней назад +16

    Sell the store to the long term employees. Train them and make them self sufficient. Take a royalty from it also.

    • @j.g.mcbell9494
      @j.g.mcbell9494 15 дней назад +3

      That’s effectively what they’ve done now. She spends two hours a week there.

    • @markpitchford7375
      @markpitchford7375 9 дней назад

      I'd just hand over ownership and cut the take to like 20k fixed royalty. see what happens. not a huge loss either way if it improves your quality of life that much.

  • @douglasbrinkman5937
    @douglasbrinkman5937 16 дней назад +55

    at 200k, you can afford to buy your own insurance.

    • @harthart7529
      @harthart7529 16 дней назад +5

      probably not. Good insurance for a family of 4 could easily be $2000 per month. That's still a significant amount of money at that salary. They're probably only paying $400 at her job. You'd also have to consider her lose of income when she quits.

    • @StillMe69
      @StillMe69 16 дней назад +1

      People who don't make $200k think it goes much further than it actually does. I've been homeless and I've been rich, so I know what they both feel like.

    • @itchyisvegeta
      @itchyisvegeta 16 дней назад

      @@harthart7529 So he would make $176K instead of $200K a year after paying for insurance. Yeah it sucks, but still a good amount of $$$.

    • @cadestekly6410
      @cadestekly6410 15 дней назад +5

      24k is 1/8 of his income alone. they can afford that if she’s still working.

    • @GDuncan8002
      @GDuncan8002 14 дней назад

      ​@@harthart7529 Pffft. A few years ago I made under 50k and bought my own health insurance.

  • @Peterl4290
    @Peterl4290 9 дней назад +8

    Fortunately, my spouse and I were able to pay off our mortgage early. While we were both still employed, we took the money we had been using to accelerate our mortgage repayment and invested it immediately. Thanks to nearly 7 years of saving what would have been our mortgage payment and to maxing out our 401K/403B plans, we were able to retire early. Fortunately, both of our parents instilled in us the need of living within our means.

    • @Mrshuster
      @Mrshuster 9 дней назад +3

      Thank you for your advice. I know it will help people. we are interested in investments that could set me up for retirement , I mean I've heard of people that netted hundreds of thousands during these crash, I listened to someone on a podcast who earned over $650K in less than a year, what's the strategy behind such returns?

    • @larrypaul-cw9nk
      @larrypaul-cw9nk 9 дней назад +2

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      @jerrycampbell-ut9yf 9 дней назад

      Even with the right strategies and appropriate assets, investment returns can differ among investors. Recognizing the vital role of experience in investment success is crucial. Personally, I understood this significance and sought guidance from a market analyst, significantly growing my account to nearly a million. Strategically withdrawing profits just before the market correction, I'm now seizing buying opportunities once again.

    • @Aarrenrhonda3
      @Aarrenrhonda3 9 дней назад

      How can one find a verifiable financial planner? I would not mind looking up the professional that helped you. I will be retiring in two years and I might need some management on my much larger portfolio. Don't want to take any chances.

    • @jerrycampbell-ut9yf
      @jerrycampbell-ut9yf 9 дней назад

      Annette Christine Conte is the licensed advisor I use.Just research the name. You'd find necessary details to work with to set up an appointment.

  • @WayneGarrity-ri1tr
    @WayneGarrity-ri1tr 15 дней назад +15

    Men stay single and stay free of ridiculous crap like this. His wife is trying to conjure up a divorce exit strategy.

  • @michaelmadsen1222
    @michaelmadsen1222 15 дней назад +9

    Her goal in the next 10 years is to do nothing while her husband does everything. Got it.

    • @dannylaza1326
      @dannylaza1326 11 дней назад

      Yeah, imagine if he said, "im stressed, i want to give up my 150k business". Instant divorce

    • @CowboyQuan
      @CowboyQuan 10 дней назад

      She doesn't have to leave the house I think she don't realize it lol

  • @Lead-Farmer
    @Lead-Farmer 6 дней назад +1

    This is why men are tasked with leading the household and women are tasked with obedience

  • @pastranaWade
    @pastranaWade 16 дней назад +263

    The wisest thing that should be on everyone mind currently should be to invest in different streams of income that doesn't depend on the govt. Especially with the current economic crisis around the word. This is still a good time to invest in Gold, silver and digital currencies (BTC, ETH...

    • @Seansnyde
      @Seansnyde 16 дней назад

      My advice: for newbies to grow financially this year, invest. Saving is good, but investing elevates your finances. Why newbie make huge losses on trade is because investing without proper guidance can lead to mistakes and losses. that will stop you from trading, this has been one of the biggest problem to new traders, l've learned this from my own experience

    • @hackenbergqhoming
      @hackenbergqhoming 16 дней назад

      I agree, investing without proper guidance can lead to mistakes and losses. last year. I did so many mistakes but also learned so much from it, If you're new to investing or don't have much time, it's best to get advice from an expert.

    • @Ruben79155
      @Ruben79155 16 дней назад

      congrats $795k? how did you do this please i am new to crypto and stock investing can you guide me on how to do this?

    • @Raulfssanders
      @Raulfssanders 16 дней назад

      I'm favoured, $43K every week! I can now give back to the locals in my community and also support God's work and the church. God bless America

    • @JudithRobinson6
      @JudithRobinson6 16 дней назад

      Lee Davis is a very legitimate and competent man, him method works like magic, I continue to win with him new strategies.

  • @sirbrick7105
    @sirbrick7105 14 дней назад +24

    Am I the only one that thinks that this woman has become soft by all the abundance she has around her and it has completely skewed her mindset. Working eight hours a month and the related decisions that come along with that makes you want to sell a business that’s bringing in $50,000. This is one of the craziest calls I’ve heard in a while. I don’t wanna be that guy, but it sounds like this husband needs to have a real conversation with his wife.

    • @ryanfowler3285
      @ryanfowler3285 12 дней назад

      You're not alone, I agree

    • @weaselton
      @weaselton 12 дней назад

      I'd gladly take my 40 plus week and the cut to 50k for 1 fifth the time

    • @user-ww1oo6ky5m
      @user-ww1oo6ky5m 12 дней назад

      I think you've missed the point. From your statement, I also think you live by yourself. You are missing way to much information to make that kind of statement.

  • @alberttang6955
    @alberttang6955 16 дней назад +62

    Wife wants to flip their financial world upside down and wreck a situation most folks would dream about because she has laziness and anxiety issues.

    • @heynow07x
      @heynow07x 16 дней назад +6

      Cashing out before she files.

    • @tommiller12345
      @tommiller12345 16 дней назад

      @@heynow07xExactly. She will get more alimony if she doesn’t work.

    • @Katie-sf7jt
      @Katie-sf7jt 16 дней назад +2

      The wife has a good job that provides health benefits and tuition assistance. She also helps with the store. That is not a lazy person. Who knows how household responsibilities are divided.

    • @bunaynayslay
      @bunaynayslay 16 дней назад

      @@Katie-sf7jt the ignorant comments like @alberttang6955 is just bc they hate women. straight up

    • @ryantrone4140
      @ryantrone4140 16 дней назад +1

      @@Katie-sf7jt Yeah, but don't forget what he said she wants ten years from now....to sit on beach. I wouldn't might visiting the beach, but I would never describe my retirement plans to someone as sitting on the beach because that would just mean I am, well....lazy. She does what she does because she feels like she has to, hence the stress, etc... It sounds like she will not have a constructive discussion about changes. The only change she wants is him to cover health insurance, which sure should be doable as several others point out above and to sit on the beach in 10 years or less....and she isn't even 50 yet. Look, she may not be a bad person, but she is at least resentful and disrespectful, maybe lazy....hopefully wises up to better options to help make things better for both of them.

  • @machdave1
    @machdave1 9 дней назад +2

    "Dave, let's put our heads together so we can figure out how to make my wife's life less stressful."

  • @munyumbamutwale2985
    @munyumbamutwale2985 11 дней назад +3

    This just sounds like a woman who is jealous that her husband makes $200k a year working fewer hours than her and has a lot more job autonomy and flexibility. She is just trying to find a reason to say she doesn't want to work anymore without sounding lazy.
    This is why we are told that marriage is the biggest economic decision you will make and you better talk things out before someones true colours come out when you are deep in the trenches.

  • @Keneth94
    @Keneth94 16 дней назад +297

    We Are in Unchartered Financial Waters! every day we encounter challenges that have become the new standard. Although we previously perceived it as a crisis, we now acknowledge it as the new normal and must adapt accordingly. Given the current economic difficulties that the country is experiencing in 2024, how can we enhance our earnings during this period of adjustment? I cannot let my $680,000 savings vanish after putting in so much effort to accumulate them.

    • @patrica7
      @patrica7 16 дней назад

      Keeping some gold is usually a wise decision. You would be better off keeping away from equities for a bit or, even better, seeking advice from an expert given the current market conditions and everything that is at risk with the current economy.

    • @Michael25ycl
      @Michael25ycl 16 дней назад +1

      You have a very valid point, I started investing on my own and for a long time, the market was really ripping me off. I decided to hire a CFA, even though I was skeptical at first, and I beat the market by more than 9%. I thought it was a fluke until it happened two years in a row, and so I’ve been sticking to investing via an analyst

    • @Amanda5ycl
      @Amanda5ycl 16 дней назад +1

      Could you possibly recommend a CFA you've consulted with?

    • @Michael25ycl
      @Michael25ycl 16 дней назад +1

      NICOLE ANASTASIA PLUMLEE' is her name.... She is regarded as a genius in her area and works for Empower Financial Services. She’s quite known in her field, look-her up.

    • @Amanda5ycl
      @Amanda5ycl 16 дней назад +1

      Thank you for the lead. I searched her up, and I have sent her an email. I hope she gets back to me soon.

  • @alanrives6731
    @alanrives6731 16 дней назад +65

    Never sleep with your business partner

    • @JesusIsLordJ3.16
      @JesusIsLordJ3.16 16 дней назад +1

      @@alanrives6731 😂😂

    • @joshuamckillen3712
      @joshuamckillen3712 16 дней назад +3

      Dont have a business partner🤣

    • @StillMe69
      @StillMe69 16 дней назад +1

      If you are married, you sleep with your business partner no matter if they are actively involved in the business or not. That is 1 of the many reasons to not be legally married. As for other business partners.... never have a business partner if that business feeds you or the partner. Only have a business partner if the business is for fun. I've had a business partner since 1989.. we have had good ones and bad ones and the way we do it is.. if it's bad.. walk away quick and never look back. We give our businesses 60 days and if it is not making enough money to support itself... CLOSED!

  • @evan51298
    @evan51298 14 дней назад +3

    She is indecisive on her career. She can either work as a teacher or go all in as the president of the store. The wife manages the store at 8 hours a month and husband does 24 hours a month. They make 50k a year(store revenue makes a million). The husband is in the treadmill operator business 4 days a week. He is making at least 150-200k a year, which is a good job. The wife's "get a real job" comment was just her stress.

  • @diane.moore-
    @diane.moore- 2 дня назад +5

    If you wanna be successful, you most take responsibility for your emotions, not place the blame on others. In addition to make you feel more guilty about your faults, pointing the finger at others will only serve to increase your sense of personal accountability. There's always a risk in every investment, yet people still invest and succeed. You must look outward if you wanna be successful in life.

    • @JulietKellyy
      @JulietKellyy 2 дня назад +5

      The first step to successful investing is figuring out your goals and risk tolerance either on your own or with the help of a financial professional but is very advisable you make use of a professional like I did. If you get the facts about saving and investing and follow through with an intelligent plan, you should be able to gain financial security over the years and enjoy the benefits of managing your money.

    • @mikegarvey17
      @mikegarvey17 2 дня назад +4

      That’s why I make it a point to speak with a financial advisor before choosing any investments. I’ve been using one since the pandemic, using profits oriented tactics and minimizing risks as a buffer against inevitable downtrends. In addition they have access to insider knowledge and analysis, making failure virtually impossible for them. I’ve made about millions working with my advisor for over three years now.

    • @ThomasChai05
      @ThomasChai05 2 дня назад +4

      @@mikegarvey17Could you possibly recommend a CFA you've consulted with?

    • @mikegarvey17
      @mikegarvey17 2 дня назад +3

      "Gertrude Margaret Quinto" is the licensed advisor I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with a correspondence to set up an appointment

    • @mariaguerrero08
      @mariaguerrero08 2 дня назад +2

      Thanks for sharing. I curiously searched for her full name and her website popped up immediately. I looked through her credentials and did my due diligence before contacting her.

  • @TacticalStrudel
    @TacticalStrudel 13 дней назад +12

    This is why I’m not married. Wives, looking for problems when everything in life seems to be going great.

    • @ejacoby
      @ejacoby 8 дней назад +1

      Bingo....no point after a certain age

    • @alberttang6955
      @alberttang6955 5 дней назад +1

      ​@@ejacoby Past a certain age, the single ladies are seeking to marry a retirement plan.

  • @timelbrecht9562
    @timelbrecht9562 16 дней назад +5

    Where does she think he’s going to find more pay than what he’s earning ? She would really piss me off.

  • @Sam-fp1cd
    @Sam-fp1cd 11 дней назад +3

    The moment my "wife" tells me that making $200k/year is not a real job, I'm getting divorce. I can't be married to stupidity. Fucking disgraceful. 🤣

    • @sf49ersjshark2
      @sf49ersjshark2 10 дней назад

      Jesus says love your wife as christ loves the church. If your not nice to your wife your prayers will be hindered. Just make sure you picked the right one. I'm still learning to do this married for 22years. But yes we will have a conversation.

  • @kraftwurx_Aviation
    @kraftwurx_Aviation 16 дней назад +3

    Everybody wishes they had a automatic money machine that delivered mailbox money you're doing awesome

  • @DonutVIP
    @DonutVIP 2 дня назад +2

    Wish i make 150k but 60k a year is fine, struggling but will make it, im 30 and women like this makes me stay away and stay in the monk mode

  • @macneoh7418
    @macneoh7418 16 дней назад +71

    A teacher telling someone to get a real job. 😮

    • @dennyatkins3842
      @dennyatkins3842 15 дней назад +5

      Omg! That's the best comment I've read ever! Lol 😅

    • @SplashJohn
      @SplashJohn 14 дней назад

      Yes, the Irony Meter pegged on that statement.

  • @JBthelandscaper
    @JBthelandscaper 11 дней назад

    This is the part of Dave I really appreciate. I myself have learned a lot from Dave’s approach to situations like this. You have to pick an amicable option always. Some people struggle to do that

  • @Danzilly
    @Danzilly 16 дней назад +53

    He needs a real wife! What a princess!

    • @mistiinseattle
      @mistiinseattle 16 дней назад +1

      He needs to face the reality of all she does! Teaching is hard work and stressful... and I would bet he is vastly underestimating all she does. Plus managing a home and 3 kids. We are hearing only one side of the story... I would love to hear her side of the story.

    • @vickieclark5931
      @vickieclark5931 16 дней назад +10

      @@mistiinseattle Yeah, but her saying that he needs to get a REAL JOB is pretty insulting as Dave says. It sounds like she is criticizing him. The 200K he is bringing in is a lot more than she is bringing in. If she can't handle her job, then she should quit. Not everyone is cut out to handle being a teacher. He seems to be the one ok with working and she doesn't.

    • @mistiinseattle
      @mistiinseattle 16 дней назад +1

      @vickieclark5931 agree about that. He makes a good income. But I would bet she does all the cooking and cleaning etc lol. I just don't buy all his story without hearing her side. :)

    • @harthart7529
      @harthart7529 16 дней назад

      @@mistiinseattle who cars. she isn't busting a grape at that job. she could be swinging a sledgehammer 12 hours per day. What y'all think is hard is laughable.

    • @Chet_24
      @Chet_24 15 дней назад +5

      ​@mistiinseattle No, it's not a hard job. She's just bitter.

  • @maggnet4829
    @maggnet4829 Час назад

    What is missing is the question of who takes care of the kids and household? Likely it's her. The solution in that case would be to hire somebody to help with the kids and the household.

  • @andresmattos7541
    @andresmattos7541 16 дней назад +48

    Typical woman waiting to.divorce her husband to get pay day

    • @bunaynayslay
      @bunaynayslay 16 дней назад +1

      theyve been together over 20 years are u mental?

    • @garret8787
      @garret8787 16 дней назад +13

      @@bunaynayslaymeans nothing to them

    • @harthart7529
      @harthart7529 16 дней назад +10

      @@bunaynayslay lol. stop it. Every day women who've been married longer than that are filing for divorce.

    • @growinglifeorganic940
      @growinglifeorganic940 16 дней назад +1

      ​@@bunaynayslay are you? Have you seen the state of human psychology?

  • @matthewlapish1107
    @matthewlapish1107 3 дня назад

    My wife left me about 5 years ago, best thing that happened to me in my adult life.

  • @wittenberg5
    @wittenberg5 16 дней назад +10

    Women value stability and predictability. A lot of women would be more comfortable with a husband in corporate america making 100k than an entrepreneur husband making 150-200k because the 100 is more stable and predictable. That's just how they are wired. Acknowledge their concerns, save and invest money to show them you have a cushion, and then keep chasing your dream ;)

    • @Ka_Gg
      @Ka_Gg 16 дней назад +6

      Or just find the easier going girls that realize you've been doing well for the last 15 years...
      Yes, women value stability. Then there are others that just want to spend money on trips and not work

    • @ryantrone4140
      @ryantrone4140 16 дней назад +2

      Seems his account of how long he has been making that income should qualigy as, at least moderately stable.

    • @markadler8968
      @markadler8968 16 дней назад

      Or just dump the ungrateful cow. No wife happy life.

    • @StillMe69
      @StillMe69 16 дней назад +1

      No 'job' in corporate America is stable. His business is 99% stable and his income is predictable... $150k a year.. if he makes $200k then great, but $150k is very predictable for him. He could make even more if he worked 5 days a week or if it's a slow year, he could work 1 more day a week to make up for it. So his current business is 99% stable and so is his income. I've been in business right at 30 years. Corporate America is about 50% stable if that, depending on your company and boss.

    • @gillespaling7039
      @gillespaling7039 14 дней назад +3

      "Women value stability and predictability" 😂😂

  • @salemthorup9536
    @salemthorup9536 5 дней назад +1

    I don't even care what he's doing. $200K/yr makes it a real job.

  • @godsdozer
    @godsdozer 16 дней назад +151

    Getting a real wife was not discussed here. Thats the problem.

    • @badhat65
      @badhat65 16 дней назад +11

      You nailed it!

    • @ugabuga1361
      @ugabuga1361 16 дней назад +10

      Her income is like the cable bill!!!! She’s a babysitter like 99% of teachers. Never worked telling her man that made all the money what to do.

    • @luisinhocasper6862
      @luisinhocasper6862 16 дней назад +7

      My thoughts exactly!!
      That’s what he needs

    • @thegodblogger3812
      @thegodblogger3812 16 дней назад

      You are so right. The wife is so spoiled that she's created a problem in her yeasty mind. What she deserves is to struggle with a guy who has no ambition or resources. Proof positive women poor or wealthy can never be satisfied.

    • @alberttang6955
      @alberttang6955 16 дней назад +13

      Hubby makes 200k, kids enrolled in the swanky private school where she teaches at discounted tuition, and a side business that pretty much runs itself. And she can't handle the stress??

  • @markalbert1283
    @markalbert1283 12 дней назад +1

    I feel this guy's pain. My ex wife that didn't work and barely did anything around the house, at one point wanted me to get a normal job so she could get a normal job. Somehow, my 6 figure job that supported the whole family was keeping her from getting a job. If you noticed, she's my ex wife.

  • @albacus2400BC
    @albacus2400BC 16 часов назад +3

    I relate with this so much. My portfolio is up like $400k this year so far. My wife still gives me shit that I don't have a "real job" whilst she works 12 hours a day for $3k a month. I haven't told her yet, but I make sure we enjoy the money together though.

    • @NormanGhali
      @NormanGhali 16 часов назад +2

      Haha I'm sure everybody hide some of their income sometimes too. You trade or you have been holding all this while?

    • @albacus2400BC
      @albacus2400BC 16 часов назад

      Oh, no, not trading. She would probably have noticed if she saw me on a computer all day. I use a financial advisor whom I've been working with her for some time now and she manages the trading.

    • @hildeman9533
      @hildeman9533 16 часов назад

      That's really great. I've tried doing some research myself to hire a financial advisor, but it's really overwhelming. Could you recommend who you work with, please?

    • @albacus2400BC
      @albacus2400BC 16 часов назад

      Marissa Lynn Babula is the licensed advisor I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with to set up an appointment.

    • @cloudyblaze7916
      @cloudyblaze7916 16 часов назад

      Thanks a lot for the recommendation. I'll send her an email and I hope I'm able to connect with her.

  • @TonyHavenMusic
    @TonyHavenMusic 12 дней назад +2

    I was a musician for 13 years pre pandemic on around 35k per year, three days a week and 8 months a year with a house paid for. I got a job during the pandemic and thought maybe the security might be quite nice but now I’m working non stop for 2000€ a month with barely any holiday and my mortgage on my second home purchase might not pass, I supplement my income with music since 2022 and that is making 1200€ per month for one day per week, I’m getting increasingly tempted to call it a day on “security” because it’s crippling financially

  • @lonestarrk9308
    @lonestarrk9308 16 дней назад +35

    She needs to walk away from the store. My wife works in the mental health field. She was working 11-12 hour days, salary, and got super depressed. I make $110K, net, and we live a $50K lifestyle. I told her to quit her job and take as much time as she needed to get right. She took 4 months and now works part time at a job she loves.

    • @cc3822
      @cc3822 16 дней назад

      Wow, why doesnt she do that for you man😂

    • @growinglifeorganic940
      @growinglifeorganic940 16 дней назад

      Or someone who loves her there 😂 sounds exactly like the guy buying his wife an suv lol

    • @lonestarrk9308
      @lonestarrk9308 15 дней назад

      @@growinglifeorganic940 What?

    • @robthomas3956
      @robthomas3956 14 дней назад +1

      Would she do the same for you ?

    • @cc3822
      @cc3822 14 дней назад

      @@robthomas3956, I was thinking the same thing. His completely null, one-sided love is extremely unhealthy.

  • @Kbkbkbkb4
    @Kbkbkbkb4 11 дней назад +1

    Never married, and never will be. 😊 is there an emoji with an even bigger smile, cuz that is what i am feeling

  • @Teresalepore019
    @Teresalepore019 12 дней назад +46

    I lost over $80k when everything started to tank. Not because I was in an exchange that went belly up. I was just stupid to hold and because that's what everyone said. I'm still responsible. It just taught me to be a better investor now that I understand more of what could go wrong. It took me over two years of being in the market, I'm really grateful I found one source to recover my money, at least $10k profits weekly. Thanks Kimberly Doran

    • @Josephbasta827
      @Josephbasta827 12 дней назад

      Wow. I'm a bit perplexed seeing her been mentioned here also Didn’t know she has been good to so many people too this is wonderful, I'm in my fifth trade with her and it has been super.

    • @Brucelanham845
      @Brucelanham845 12 дней назад

      The very first time we tried, we invested $2000 and after a week, we received $9500. That really helped us a lot to pay up our bills.

    • @AmandaStewart0908
      @AmandaStewart0908 12 дней назад

      You trade with Kimberly Doran too? Wow that woman has been a blessing to me and my family.

    • @carolynvo7802
      @carolynvo7802 12 дней назад

      I'm new at this, please how can I reach her?

    • @Scottweeier846
      @Scottweeier846 12 дней назад

      I was skeptical at first till I decided to try. Its huge returns is awesome. I can't say much.

  • @jeffjohnson9590
    @jeffjohnson9590 11 дней назад +2

    I feel that if the wife goes full time at the “store” especially to try to change it up and make it more profitable then the whole thing will implode!

  • @bfrerck
    @bfrerck 16 дней назад +5

    Hmmm... no questions about how much they have in savings, what are their retirement plans.

  • @TM2DB
    @TM2DB 10 дней назад

    In my experience, when people tell me "You don't have a real job." (and I have had many, MANY people tell me that) what they mean is "You need to hate your job like I do, because I don't want to be miserable alone."

  • @Culperrr
    @Culperrr 16 дней назад +9

    Wait, he said that she doesn't do anything for the company, yet she is the president of said company? Also at 6:30, Scott can't do simple math. He says the kids have 7 years left at the private school, yet their youngest is 13? In what realm does a kid stay in private school (non-college) until they are 20? I could be wrong, but it seems like he is just padding his argument with inflated information, to be right and appeal to Dave. Am I missing something?

    • @calcustom5026
      @calcustom5026 16 дней назад +3

      I agree. The kid has 5 years at most.
      They aren't considering the tuition cut or healthcare as lost compensation either. Private school tuition is like $30-60k, and another $7k for private health insurance. It will cost them twice her salary to quit the school.
      Sell the store, use the money to buy a beach house and rent it out for the five years - should cover the missing store income. Have the wife work at the school until the youngest graduates, and then retire off of his treadmill operator income at the paid off beach house.

    • @brookiegremlin6660
      @brookiegremlin6660 11 дней назад +1

      Yeah he was tailoring his facts to get Dave on his side. Now he can go win this argument with his wife.

    • @markpitchford7375
      @markpitchford7375 9 дней назад

      it's a pet project. he asks her for direction decisions at 2 dinners a week. That's all it is. needs to ditch teh store.

  • @erikryan1533
    @erikryan1533 7 дней назад +1

    No small business owner wants to give up public school teacher insurance. A real job will cost more than $1000k per month in premiums off the take home pay.

  • @jackpalczynski7884
    @jackpalczynski7884 15 дней назад +3

    She wants him to quit his job and get a "real" job. Perhaps, he should do some interviews and come home with the offers. When the highest offer is $60k a year, he can look at her and say "So do you want me to quit my 4 day a week job and work 5 days a week for a $140k reduction? Selling the store sounds reasonable as it's only $50k of income. Sure, it's only 8 hours a month of her time but she doesn't want to work that at all. Yes, she keeps teaching.

  • @TheNativeTwo
    @TheNativeTwo 11 дней назад

    We’ve had a ton of rentals. No stress for my wife. We did an airbnb… and even after having employees manage everything, my wife hated it. Totally stressed. I think it was just the responsibility and that it was always in the back of your mind. We just went back to rentals. Wife’s happiness is important.

  • @sirclarkmarz
    @sirclarkmarz 15 дней назад +7

    Sounds like he needs to quit his wife and get a real one .

  • @urspecial2me
    @urspecial2me 4 дня назад

    Papa Dave gets to the heart of the issue real quick. Love that about Dave and his team!

  • @user-qo6ul3uz2l
    @user-qo6ul3uz2l 16 дней назад +35

    Some women can really push their husbands out. This man makes 200 K from his business, his wife makes only 50k, she is pushing him to get a 9 to 5? Is he doctor? or what? What is their lifestyle? 20 years consistently this man has had this income. I wonder she is going through mid life crisis. There is more to this story. They should have several paid off homes, several rental properties and other investments with this income. It depends on their lifestyle and choices. I personally will never torment a man who brings in 200k a year income home. She is not a wise woman. Why does she want to quit her job or even quit her job? The business is doing well. I don't know what is running through her head. Is he neglecting her or abandoning her and she needs attention? Say it don't go after his business.

    • @BREEZYM6015
      @BREEZYM6015 16 дней назад +7

      She wants the money and lifestyle yet no longer wants to put the effort into making the money that's needed for said lifestyle.

    • @kathymccarthy5264
      @kathymccarthy5264 16 дней назад +6

      If it was a man saying this to his wife, everyone would tell her to dump him.

    • @moicus29
      @moicus29 16 дней назад +1

      Agreed. Sounds like one of those families that is house poor and private school poor so she can look wealthy in front of trendy freinds or something

    • @moicus29
      @moicus29 16 дней назад +1

      Where is the $3.5M you guys made? Did you spend it all on a Mcmansion and Sandhurstington tuition?

  • @elsa_nyc
    @elsa_nyc 7 дней назад +1

    200k a year in st. Louis is a lot. Not much in nyc, but st. Louis, that is good money.

  • @PalmBeachFlorida24
    @PalmBeachFlorida24 16 дней назад +19

    I once dated a man who was so spiteful and envious that he said unless my business was generating a million or more per year - it wasn't a REAL business.

    • @tracym8952
      @tracym8952 16 дней назад

      Tim Dillon has a great bit about fake business. All business is fake business until a deal is made. The amount of money doesn't matter

    • @mikeg2491
      @mikeg2491 15 дней назад +5

      I dated a woman who ran an Etsy store making jewelry and really good money doing it. I can see where a lot of guys would think it’s just a hobby and even I was skeptical at first until I saw her sales history. People are so conditioned to believing an 8-5 working for someone else is the only way to survive forgetting that every small business with employees has someone at the top taking all the risk.

    • @Chet_24
      @Chet_24 15 дней назад

      I'll bet he had a man bun, too.

    • @5tr5
      @5tr5 15 дней назад +2

      Just curious-how profitable was HIS business that he would put you down like that??

    • @PalmBeachFlorida24
      @PalmBeachFlorida24 12 дней назад

      @@mikeg2491 I own a real estate company. He knew I earned, he was jealous of my time and my space. Yes, someone at the top is taking all the risk and people are conditioned to believe in 9-5.

  • @angeladunnahoe1110
    @angeladunnahoe1110 5 дней назад

    I would love to hear the wife's perspective on this. Someone who has led a successful retail business for so long is probably not as crazy as y'all think. But she may be extremely burned out if she has been working as a teacher, running the store, and solely responsible for kids and household management. They didn't talk about who has been caring for their three children for all of these years. He didn't mention if one of the kids is having a rough time and needs more attention. Maybe she needs a little Suzanne Venker in her life. 😊

  • @cc3822
    @cc3822 16 дней назад +12

    My advice to this man is to give her a percentage of both companies that evens out your incomes so that you do not have to pay alimony and child support. She will leave you. After she does, you can buy the other portion from her. Honestly, if the genders were reversed, more people would call the husband lazy. Protect your assets. Good luck. From my understanding, marriage is about providing the best from both genders for your children, and it should be in a healthy balance. So, if she does most of the housework, factor that in as well. But if you're both doing about the same amount of housework and childcare, prepare for her leaving. She doesn't care to be a parent.

    • @growinglifeorganic940
      @growinglifeorganic940 16 дней назад

      Slags are always hags. Remember that.

    • @SplashJohn
      @SplashJohn 14 дней назад

      Tell us you're an entitled female without telling us you're an entitled female. smh

  • @christopherstacy9895
    @christopherstacy9895 5 дней назад

    Tongue is a double edged sword. Don’t cut people with it. “Real job” is wild
    Also gratitude and thanksgiving is the remedy for being anxious

  • @cannednolan8194
    @cannednolan8194 16 дней назад +11

    Why not get a health insurance through the store and have both of them as employees of the store. Their profits from the store would cover that.

    • @harthart7529
      @harthart7529 16 дней назад +1

      the store doesn't have any health insurance. All the employees are part time.

    • @cannednolan8194
      @cannednolan8194 16 дней назад

      @@harthart7529 that’s why you get it through the million dollar company with 20 employees. I live in Canada and worked at a comp sh that did this once the owner found out he had cancer. This way he could go to the us for treatment with specialist in his field. With most of his treatment being cover through the insurance. They had about 50 employees at the time. It can also be a bonus when hiring.

  • @thetechconsultant
    @thetechconsultant 8 дней назад +1

    Perfect example that a woman would literally ruin you. Be careful out there fellas. This man is amazing and she’s not happy.

  • @Nick-bd2yv
    @Nick-bd2yv 16 дней назад +3

    Surprised they didnt dive into assets they already have. Seems like they split the difference, work hard another 5 years then sell the store and call it a day

  • @saywhatnow57
    @saywhatnow57 7 дней назад

    Wow, I'm this guy without the stress. I make a "little" less as a freelance web guy, about $130-$150k. I could easily make more but it's not worth it. I can't imagine my wife wanting me to quit. And she'd never tell me it's not a real job. Freelance web development is an insanely flexible gig and very stable. I'd never give it up unless I started making less. There HAS to be more to this. Either he doesn't really make what he says he does, or he's working insane hrs to make it.

  • @timelbrecht9562
    @timelbrecht9562 16 дней назад +6

    Sell the store. She stays at school till kids are done. Pretty simple

    • @markpitchford7375
      @markpitchford7375 9 дней назад

      store makes 50k and is 24/7 stress. teaching at the kids private school is worth 100k until kids are out of school and is stressful about 7 hours a day with no stress weekends, holidays and summers. Yeah, the answer is obvious.