Love Is Blind Season 2: Natalie Reveals Shaina LIED to Her About Shayne (Exclusive)

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  • Опубликовано: 7 сен 2024
  • 'Love Is Blind' season 2 spoilers ahead! Natalie chats with ET about when she realized Shaina was going after Shayne. The reality contestant opens up about her journey on the show and her confrontation with Shaina. 'Love Is Blind' season 2 is now streaming on Netflix.

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  • @AprilT72
    @AprilT72 2 года назад +11215

    I'm so proud of her and Deepti, they deserve better. Something is off with Shayne, he seems to have hidden anger issues.

    • @queenesquiresquad
      @queenesquiresquad 2 года назад +477

      You’re so on point! Great you caught his anger issue

    • @redvelvetcakeYUM
      @redvelvetcakeYUM 2 года назад +647

      Psychology In Seattle (on YT) breaks down Shayne’s responses in several problematic scenes and theorizes where it could of stemmed from in early childhood. I definitely get killer eyes from Shayne and the child like tantrums that he pulls when he is caught in his win lies.

    • @jumperchu
      @jumperchu 2 года назад +628

      Yea, seeing how angry he was inside with Sal for being good at baseball in his dess shoes was the turning point for me where I feared for Natalie.

    • @crazylicious85
      @crazylicious85 2 года назад +633

      I’ve wondered if Shayne is on meds or drugs causing him to act the way he does. His eyes 👀 stay strangely wide open & creepy, kinda like Ryan from Teen Mom when he was on drugs.

    • @inglaterra5031
      @inglaterra5031 2 года назад +173

      His mom face totally changed towards her when Natalie sad No. I was socked. But yeah shayne was all over the place

  • @in2ition977
    @in2ition977 2 года назад +6113

    Natalie's father is a true jewel. That man's love for his daughter was breathtaking. I was so proud that she didn't allow herself to lower the standard of manhood that her father has displayed before her.

    • @ladybugred5641
      @ladybugred5641 2 года назад +24

      Exactly

    • @live4him219
      @live4him219 2 года назад +69

      Yes her father is a great one. Not many like him

    • @loveall1013
      @loveall1013 2 года назад +105

      Omg, I was so in love with her dad!! What an incredible dad. So sweet, accepting, and just exuded unconditional love. It was beautiful.

    • @rosaclick1995
      @rosaclick1995 2 года назад +44

      You have a great dad like that and you won’t settle

    • @asma084
      @asma084 2 года назад +20

      Such a great dad! The respect and love he has for her is beautiful.

  • @albataliephillips4271
    @albataliephillips4271 2 года назад +5524

    To me, she is the total package. She is smart, so funny (love her humor that Shayne didn't get), she is also so calm and so beautiful too

    • @cheery-hex
      @cheery-hex 2 года назад +79

      you love humor that puts you down?

    • @Qwerty-lu6hx
      @Qwerty-lu6hx 2 года назад +3

      💯

    • @EricTitansSmith
      @EricTitansSmith 2 года назад +97

      @@cheery-hex maybe he's not insecure

    • @agataguzy6641
      @agataguzy6641 2 года назад +30

      Agree! She is a great wifey material, however she has her standards and I respect that a lot

    • @adorable3817
      @adorable3817 2 года назад +68

      @@cheery-hex I thought she was very insulting to him. It wasn't funny. Just kept telling him he's weird. When he told her what he wanted to wear to his wedding, and she said no. Broke my heart. I ALWAYS encourage my husband to express himself. He is his own person.

  • @christinechang4683
    @christinechang4683 2 года назад +3990

    People tend to compare Shaina to Jessica. I think Jessica was just always so drunk in the show and so desperately in love with Barnett. But Shaina is evil. She lied and manipulated all the time.

    • @sedmidivka
      @sedmidivka 2 года назад +498

      yup, Jessica actually had redeeming qualities. But Shaina is a lost cause, she's heartless

    • @taken152
      @taken152 2 года назад +202

      I agree too 😂. I remember defending Jessica but Shaina is just evil.

    • @th50567
      @th50567 2 года назад +14

      Facts!

    • @lulubelle3825
      @lulubelle3825 2 года назад +170

      Jessica was also very manipulative but she was just a little more subtle than Shaina. Shaina is just not NICE AT ALL!

    • @titlepending1302
      @titlepending1302 2 года назад +6

      Shut up .., Natalie desperately want him so bad that it turn out sour for hey make ppl and forcing ppl to be your bf smh childish

  • @Simplyunashamed
    @Simplyunashamed 2 года назад +6757

    Natalie is such a classy lady in every sense. She dodged a bullet there!

    • @2008akir
      @2008akir 2 года назад +297

      Deepti really dodged one least shayne was attracted to Natalie and not calling her his auntie 🥴

    • @blueblack3591
      @blueblack3591 2 года назад +10

      She did!

    • @kimmaryfield3082
      @kimmaryfield3082 2 года назад +5

      Agree!!!

    • @a.sydney5036
      @a.sydney5036 2 года назад +28

      There's just something about her ... that's just soooooooo fake. Argh, can't stand her.

    • @a.sydney5036
      @a.sydney5036 2 года назад +6

      @@2008akir 🤣🤣🤣🤣 he did that??!!! Inappropriate!

  • @RubyTwilite
    @RubyTwilite 2 года назад +3862

    Deepti is a total class act. She's a badass actually. She very elegantly chose herself. Wow! A strong, sophisticated, confident woman. Good for her!!!!

    • @a.sydney5036
      @a.sydney5036 2 года назад +46

      The more I see her, the more I like her.

    • @kathleenyoung8916
      @kathleenyoung8916 2 года назад +69

      It made the show worth watching when she so elegantly walked away from Snakes 🐍, erm, Shakes.

    • @jasmic38134
      @jasmic38134 2 года назад +9

      This stuff happens every day. Like he said if he chose her she would have chosen him. Shake is a jerk overall whether he's attracted to the woman or not. If she was so classy she would have checked him for grabbing her ass like that. She was okay with his personality, except the part of him not being attracted her.

    • @LifeisaBeautifulting
      @LifeisaBeautifulting 2 года назад +8

      That was such a queen move! Proud of her

    • @HaiTharImDavid
      @HaiTharImDavid 2 года назад +16

      Yeah but kinda random for a Natalie video.

  • @caressa5263
    @caressa5263 2 года назад +2535

    When she said that she didn’t feel safe and secure with Shayne unlike with her father, immediately i was like RED FLAG. ABORT. ABORT. we don’t need no traumabonding. Natalie deserves better. Watching Shaina makes me appreciate Jessica especially after the 2 year anniversary episode.

    • @barbaraly2608
      @barbaraly2608 2 года назад +88

      Yes It makes me appreciate Jessica more lol

    • @G0dismabestfren
      @G0dismabestfren 2 года назад +62

      Idk why Shaina was so toxic

    • @caressa5263
      @caressa5263 2 года назад +70

      @@G0dismabestfren she was envious of natalie and her guy didn’t work out i know why she said yes knowing that she stood by her beliefs i guess she wanted to stay in the show a little longer and i swear i was trying not to judge her even if she reminded me of Jessica in the first episode but she proved me so wrong she’s just that typical mean girl

    • @Chalize
      @Chalize 2 года назад +87

      Shayne is the verbally abusive type that throws and hit things during fights. Scary

    • @niyyahh8373
      @niyyahh8373 2 года назад +209

      @@G0dismabestfren Based off of Shaina's family and how they emphasized the whole "American" thing, also how they all apparently follow Trump, I feel like Shaina's feelings for Shayne were largely based off of the fact Natalie was Asian. Almost like she could not believe an Asian woman was more "compatible" than her. idk personally that's the vibe I got from her. Either way, she's terrible.

  • @hubabaloop
    @hubabaloop 2 года назад +1633

    For me as a single woman this season definitely was another great reminder to never settle. Natalie and Deepti are class ❣️

    • @GetYekt
      @GetYekt 2 года назад +36

      Yes! I divorced a Shayne. He's not stable. She made the right choice. ALWAYS listen to your gut, as hard as it sometimes is to do so.

    • @sxmmxc
      @sxmmxc 2 года назад +1

      Yessss

    • @orsi6371
      @orsi6371 2 года назад

      Same here🙋🏼‍♀️🤍

    • @janaeg2698
      @janaeg2698 2 года назад

      Agreed!!

    • @dc.pxrecious
      @dc.pxrecious 2 года назад

      Natalie is a wonderful person I'm glad she broke it off with Shayne he's too high maintenance with us constant need for her to make him feel pretty lol. I really pive Deepti she was so awesome when she said no at the alter. She's amazing the fact that she gave that Douchebag a chance and saw past his shallowness was amazing to me. That girl knows her worth.

  • @Gi0114
    @Gi0114 2 года назад +2202

    She’s great but her Dad is the one who made me cry. His little pep talk before she walked down the aisle had my eyes watering.

    • @D-Dollie
      @D-Dollie 2 года назад +17

      Omg I know. I cried!

    • @prisonmike6886
      @prisonmike6886 2 года назад +6

      Girl I was bawling 😂

    • @SuzyBuckwheats
      @SuzyBuckwheats 2 года назад +21

      Me too! Infact her parents are great loving and very supportive

    • @Mimichuck0510
      @Mimichuck0510 2 года назад

      YES!❤️😭

    • @j3n1y
      @j3n1y 2 года назад

      Yepppp. Same.

  • @espinoza1987
    @espinoza1987 2 года назад +1994

    Shaina is disgusting for trying to break up Natalie & Shayne. It’s literally repulsive. Spreading rumors & putting things in ppls heads. Just bc she couldn’t understand their connection meant their relationship was fake. She’s insane & this backlash she’s getting is well deserved.

    • @marys5308
      @marys5308 2 года назад +122

      Yeah.. what all I got from shaina is that she’s trifling, malicious, and trashy

    • @columbsaki
      @columbsaki 2 года назад +230

      It's so confusing when people like Shaina shout from the rooftops that they're a Christian and then act like this. So disgusting.

    • @mermaiddiyartist8119
      @mermaiddiyartist8119 2 года назад +13

      @@columbsaki it’s very strange

    • @Linda19816
      @Linda19816 2 года назад +111

      Shaina thinks that she prettier than Natalie, so Shayne could not be in love with her for real. Some people believe that they are better than others.

    • @marcaylanorris9627
      @marcaylanorris9627 2 года назад +47

      No frrrrrr tho I didn’t like her from the jump when she started bragging at the beginning saying that everyone was usually jealous of her like that was an immediate red flag for me and it’s funny because she was toxic and jealous of Natalie and Shane’s relationship the whole time

  • @Africanbeautyy93
    @Africanbeautyy93 2 года назад +3626

    Love Natalie ❤️
    Just finished the finale, I absolutely love the relationship she has with her father and how it influenced her choice at the end. Honestly, I’m inspired.

    • @sierranyokka8435
      @sierranyokka8435 2 года назад +85

      The way one of the previews was edited made it look like Natalie's mom was a tiger mom, but her parents were both amazingly supportive and kind. It was so nice to see.

    • @GottaLoveScarlette
      @GottaLoveScarlette 2 года назад +70

      @@sierranyokka8435 Exactly. She has great parents. I feel like her mom knew something wasn't right with Shayne, but still supported and showed love for her daughter. Her dad is so loving and a father any person could ever hope to have.

    • @livee9641
      @livee9641 2 года назад +20

      Yes fathers are so important, every girl needs a dad

    • @Ilikefrogs..
      @Ilikefrogs.. 2 года назад +43

      @@livee9641 Every girl needs a GOOD dad.

    • @GottaLoveScarlette
      @GottaLoveScarlette 2 года назад +3

      @@Ilikefrogs.. THIS!

  • @Stephanie-ul6lq
    @Stephanie-ul6lq 2 года назад +830

    As an Asian American woman, having that type of father daughter relationship is rather rare and I never had that growing up. Seeing how supportive and loving he was of his daughter, I started balling because that’s all I wanted from my own father. If a grew up feeling supported and secure with my own father instead of always made to feel less than and never good enough, I don’t think I wouldn’t have chased relationships my whole life that made me feel insecure and undeserving. But how Natalie handled herself made me feel so proud of her and made me realized how I should also stand up for myself and walk away from guys who clearly are not on my level.

    • @el.c.8858
      @el.c.8858 2 года назад +3

      i’m sorry love, hope you’re now able to feel better and know your self-value. i relate to you regarding the asian type of parent bond that definitely lacks of emotional support and presence albeit me not being the first born daughter which is the worst position sadly.

    • @theBoringL
      @theBoringL 2 года назад +4

      I can appreciate your background and I too have a shit for father honestly. I am proud that I don't chase after the same kind of guys and in fact I have always been rebellious of him that it in a way made me stronger and not take bs. I hope you find a good person and try to leave that lousy father-daughter relationship out of your head and not let it influence you :)

    • @ameliel8792
      @ameliel8792 2 года назад +8

      Girl same. I come from a family where nothing was ever good enough and I just want to validate what you said. So many girls grow up like this it seems just needing love and being denied it, it is truly heartbreaking. I'm sorry you didn't have what you deserved. It was my favourite scene in the whole show when Natalie's father said his greatest achievement was being her father 💔💔💔

    • @ADetailedHouse
      @ADetailedHouse 2 года назад +3

      Wow. This is such an insight, thoughtful, thought-provoking comment filled w/deep maturity & emotional insight. I'm so sorry you felt "less than", bc you seem utterly remarkable & amazing to me. Everyone deserves a loving father. That you didn't receive his unconditional validation, support, & love is really sad bc you DESERVED it. I'm truly sorry for your pain.

    • @ADetailedHouse
      @ADetailedHouse 2 года назад +4

      @@theBoringL Not that it would ease your pain, but I read a study that showed ppl who faced adversity while growing up, were statistically more resilient, successful, self-reliant, & emotionally/mentally stronger. I'm sorry for the pain you've gone though.

  • @lajany9083
    @lajany9083 2 года назад +1845

    I was relieved to see Natalie said no.
    Shain was really creeping me out with his eyes while he was waiting for Natalie. I think he needs some serious help.
    I’m actually glad for all the couples that said no.

    • @amandaa1844
      @amandaa1844 2 года назад +36

      👀

    • @lukystarrk4life
      @lukystarrk4life 2 года назад +40

      During his proposal he hardly gave her eye contact. That’s the creepy part.

    • @itsmevivi_
      @itsmevivi_ 2 года назад +38

      @@dianegreyson8787 I wouldn't say it's a mystery...she may be totally unaware. She may be used to that type of behavior and completely oblivious to the fact that something isn't right with her son 🤷🏽‍♀️.

    • @G0dismabestfren
      @G0dismabestfren 2 года назад +64

      Yeah his eyes the entire time just bothered me. I thought the same when he was walking down the isle and when he got to the altar and looked towards the camera it was just disturbing to me. I thought yeah she should run. I'm glad she said no and we found out what he really said. He was so mad about not making a shot at the ball game you can see how miserable he was. You can also see him getting drink after drink so he got drunk and said his true feelings. Shayne wanted to marry her because she actually showed she wanted him and he wanted kids

    • @carlotabb5233
      @carlotabb5233 2 года назад +10

      His body language said it all
      How uncomfortable he was
      Natalie deserves way better

  • @jaedee4499
    @jaedee4499 2 года назад +851

    Natalie dodged a bullet. Shayne seems to be a narcissist--insecure, can't take a joke, needs constant compliments, gaslights his partner when confronted with wrongdoing, uses cruel words to hurt her when things don't go his way. He even stated the reason he chose Natalie was because he was her 1st choice. It was never about her. It was all about what she could do for him. He would have broken her spirit and blamed her for it. I'm so glad she walked away.

    • @isabelalopez247
      @isabelalopez247 2 года назад +27

      so true, when watching the show I kept hoping Natalie didn’t go through with this relantionship because shayne always seemed to be gaslighting her and invalidating her feelings. im so glad Natalie said no and hope she meets some who shows her what love truly is.

    • @gmaheybaby1283
      @gmaheybaby1283 2 года назад +32

      He also gave off Alcohol/Aderall vibes 😳😵‍💫🤪🥴😬

    • @nostalgia88296
      @nostalgia88296 2 года назад +16

      Yesss, I noticed this when he complained that she never brags about him. And also the time when they were on the beach and she said a joke and he immediately jumped down her throat and called her annoying. ALSO back in the pods when he said he loves when they all compliment him and he's loves the ego boost he gets from it. Granted it's normal but the way he said it and how he fed off of it sounded my alarms. I'm glad she said no because she would be walking on eggshells for the rest of her days.

    • @loyyu2193
      @loyyu2193 2 года назад +1

      맞아요 너무나 전형적인 나르시시스트예요

    • @cookiecookielookies
      @cookiecookielookies 2 года назад +2

      @@nostalgia88296 omg I agree with u completely!! It is normal to like compliments and to like knowing someone likes you a lot, but he’s too excessive. It seems like he wants it all the time. He is insecure, and has to work on that

  • @audreyclement5634
    @audreyclement5634 2 года назад +970

    I’m disappointed that there wasn’t much good love stories in this season but i’m so glad we got to see strong women taking care of themselves!❤️

    • @ngsam8547
      @ngsam8547 2 года назад +30

      Because they chose to show only drama. There’s many people that go into those pods but they just wanted to show drama which is disappointing

    • @rosaclick1995
      @rosaclick1995 2 года назад +3

      @@ngsam8547 you won’t want to watch no drama

    • @prescis
      @prescis 2 года назад +7

      I thinks in part it’s because everyone after season one have watched the show. For some it’s just a way to get their “15 mins of fame”. In other words they won’t take it as serious anymore

    • @cookiecookielookies
      @cookiecookielookies 2 года назад +1

      @@ngsam8547 true but at least last season, we had cameron and Lauren!! They’re so cute together 🥰 it’s nice to see a mix of drama and real love

    • @May-df1ek
      @May-df1ek 2 года назад

      @@cookiecookielookies personally I don’t even think their love is real. I feel Cameron is indeed in love with Lauren but Lauren being an influencer knew that an interracial marriage would bring her more recognition & a fan base.

  • @zuzunakimu
    @zuzunakimu 2 года назад +465

    She should play a Disney character. Her voice is stunning

    • @poorhai9321
      @poorhai9321 2 года назад +11

      looks exactly like Mulan

    • @ADetailedHouse
      @ADetailedHouse 2 года назад +13

      She does have a beautiful, calm, & soothing voice.

    • @RMarie2020
      @RMarie2020 2 года назад +7

      Agree! I could listen to her all day. She should look into voiceovers, audio anything

    • @Eg-jd9zt
      @Eg-jd9zt 2 года назад +4

      Yes she’s so well spoken

    • @rachellotus5137
      @rachellotus5137 2 года назад +2

      She does have a very soothing feminine voice

  • @Lulu-kt6gr
    @Lulu-kt6gr 2 года назад +612

    Shayne seems like he could become an abuser. He’s volatile and that’s scary. I’m so glad for her that she got away from him.

    • @nasiphimaninjwa9276
      @nasiphimaninjwa9276 2 года назад +20

      What I thought

    • @jemimajanvier4706
      @jemimajanvier4706 2 года назад +26

      I felt that very strongly

    • @atiqahismail3411
      @atiqahismail3411 2 года назад +20

      Oh I thought I was the only person who thought that.

    • @melanieh.3137
      @melanieh.3137 2 года назад +25

      After hearing Natalie explain why she was upset the day of her wedding was very alarming. Shayne definitely has a destructive side

    • @HaiTharImDavid
      @HaiTharImDavid 2 года назад +9

      VOLATILE

  • @HernameisSAFFA
    @HernameisSAFFA 2 года назад +448

    She looked extremely disturbed n somber standing at the alter...felt so bad for her...was not herself at all...made the right choice...very proud of Natalie n Deeps.

    • @adorable3817
      @adorable3817 2 года назад +1

      I felt like she was finally being herself. The whole stupid insult jokes and annoyed looks were gone.
      My husband used to be very similar to her - putting me down for being myself. It's painful.

    • @taylorfrink1182
      @taylorfrink1182 2 года назад +17

      @@adorable3817 what are you talking about you arent tryna say natalie was the one being toxic here are you? cause if so that'd be whack and ya clearly didn't watch the same show of all his outbursts tantrums and even actual gaslighting in the original pods fight scene amongst probably others... homeboi needs a therapist not a wife

    • @adorable3817
      @adorable3817 2 года назад +4

      @@taylorfrink1182 No. Natalie was not toxic. She was pretty insulting though.

    • @lisamarie8265
      @lisamarie8265 2 года назад +2

      The word is altar, not alter. Blessings

    • @titlepending1302
      @titlepending1302 2 года назад

      @@taylorfrink1182 Natalie was problem… y’all got trash in y’all eyes

  • @akiratokyodesu6266
    @akiratokyodesu6266 2 года назад +1257

    My main comment in Natalie and shayne is that shayne was too insecure. He always wanted to be emotionally taken care of and up to a point that's fair, but he was way too sensitive, always wanted to be fussed over and he's kinda...too immature for Natalie at times. Natalie on the other hand might be controlling or nitpick alot and from what I've seen, she can be a bit awkward and joke alot and give shayne a "hard time." But honestly, she never joked too hard. Maybe she was awkward and that was just how she handled it. She could relax there but again, shayne was just always looking for compliments and always seemed to desire praise and attention.

    • @hehehehh
      @hehehehh 2 года назад +119

      He was basically a manchild! The way he gaslit Natalie in the pods was absolutely disgusting and whenever there was a conflict, instead of taking the initiative or even contributing to de-escalating the situation he would up and leave like the MANCHILD he is!!!! It was so frustrating to watch

    • @adorali727
      @adorali727 2 года назад +48

      Shayne is a male Danielle imo

    • @LaFamouz89
      @LaFamouz89 2 года назад +8

      @@adorali727 hahaha I was just about to say that. I think the producers knew what they were doing when they chose show both Danielle and Shayne’s experience this season.

    • @jclyntoledo
      @jclyntoledo 2 года назад +21

      I mean I did see some therapist reactions and in one it showed her telling him an insult when he asked her to say something nice about him. Maybe his love language is words of affirmation 😂😂but I think for her that's uncomfortable to always do that for someone. So a few times I think it was just her humor and he didn't get it or like it but honestly if someone tells you to be nicer to them overall not just the don't joke about this one thing then it's a sign you aren't suited for each other.
      Also this excludes someone saying be nicer as a respect my boundary statement. I'm more so saying if someone sees a personality/character flaw and is trying to change you and you don't want to already change that then it's a bad sign for compatibility.

    • @MabShineshineworld
      @MabShineshineworld 2 года назад

      I fell same way at certain point when he ask Natalie why she is to showing off she they have the perfect relationship not telling he cute etc

  • @christinechang4683
    @christinechang4683 2 года назад +842

    Natalie is so amazing. Her parents really
    Did a good job raising such a classy woman. Shayne really needs a woman like her. So calm and nurturing. But she is also too good for him.

    • @taken152
      @taken152 2 года назад +48

      I think Shayne understands that he needs a woman like Natalie but he was too immature to keep her.

    • @adorable3817
      @adorable3817 2 года назад +16

      He might want to meditate and find inner peace first or grow up a little more - then he can look for a woman.
      I almost wonder if he has an extreme case of ADHD? His behavior was odd.

    • @G0dismabestfren
      @G0dismabestfren 2 года назад +10

      @@adorable3817 thank you! I found his behaviours off from the start. Even when he accidently called her Shaina in the pods. He threw that whole situation on her and walked out. Leaving her crying and confused. He didn't just admit to her that he was interested in Shaina alot. They may find each other.

    • @jenniferk4190
      @jenniferk4190 2 года назад +10

      Shayne lost his dad 2 months before the show got shot, that's something to take into consideration regarding his behavior

    • @ahmorgan
      @ahmorgan 2 года назад +2

      She was pretty rude though

  • @kellym.6777
    @kellym.6777 2 года назад +330

    Shaina is so manipulative damn! I wouldn't be surprised if she actually ended up with Shayne.

    • @sierranyokka8435
      @sierranyokka8435 2 года назад +40

      She has said in interviews that she talks to him everyday.

    • @capsulamental
      @capsulamental 2 года назад +102

      they will get what they deserve. It's gonna b so perfect, they can gaslight each other all day long

    • @christinechang4683
      @christinechang4683 2 года назад +5

      @@capsulamental exactly 😂

    • @dancestar722
      @dancestar722 2 года назад +45

      @@sierranyokka8435 she also said her and Kyle check in every once in a while and Kyle said they're complete strangers now

    • @sierranyokka8435
      @sierranyokka8435 2 года назад +5

      @@dancestar722 So shady!

  • @couch_philosoph3325
    @couch_philosoph3325 2 года назад +215

    I was so pleasanly surprised when deepti and natalie both said no and choose themselves. It is totally legitimate for natalie to say, hey, I'm not sure enough today, but maybe we could start slow and date outside of this format. Getting married after a month is crazy even if you fall deeply in live with someone

  • @whitneyangelie3682
    @whitneyangelie3682 2 года назад +649

    I “get” Natalie. Like I totally get her humor and I was surprised that as goofy as Shayne was, he didn’t get it. But what I loved the most was her relationship with her daddy 💜 You can tell he’s a good man and he gave her such a good example of what a man can and should be, that she was able to walk away when it didn’t feel right. If she can just find a man like her father she can’t go wrong!

    • @suzeeabdelrahman6978
      @suzeeabdelrahman6978 2 года назад +16

      Yes! Love the dad so much! Especially when he took the time to tell Natalie that she’s his greatest achievement 😭

    • @dawnrosewood7060
      @dawnrosewood7060 2 года назад +15

      Frr. It was so obvious she just wanted some banter, but he shut it down quick.

    • @HaiTharImDavid
      @HaiTharImDavid 2 года назад +7

      Agreed. I had a strong feeling she was Korean once the humor started coming out more hahaha. Someone else will appreciate it more.

    • @siiiiiuu7
      @siiiiiuu7 2 года назад +12

      Same! Her humor is a lot like mine too. It's all good-natured and would never bother a mature, secure individual. Her dad is in a whole different league, as a father, a husband, and just human being. Not many women (or men) have that example to look to. She's definitely blessed!

    • @katies4226
      @katies4226 2 года назад

      Cuz he is a narcissist and needed to be showered with compliments

  • @503mama
    @503mama 2 года назад +83

    Natalie is a very impressive communicator, she can actually express her emotions and asses situations in a very mature and adult way. I hope she can find a partner to match her good heart ❤️

  • @TrishaGunpath
    @TrishaGunpath 2 года назад +204

    Let’s remember that she is a financially responsible person and he isn’t, that would have been a huge stressor too. I am so glad that she said no regardless how it happened.

  • @jesssandow4277
    @jesssandow4277 2 года назад +104

    I was so happy when Natalie said No to Shane. She deserves someone way more mature with less anger issues. So many red flags through out the show and he attempted to gaslight her so many times. It was painful to watch someone as smart and confident as Natalie to go through that. She really dodged a bullet

    • @ADetailedHouse
      @ADetailedHouse 2 года назад

      I wouldn't call Natalie "confident". She's spoken about her deep & pervasive insecurity in interviews. That she accepted some of Shayne's troubling & problematic behaviors early on, like gaslighting & emotional manipulation, is indicative of this.

    • @stephaniehenry5617
      @stephaniehenry5617 2 года назад

      Especially when he was so upset at the baseball field. He reacted like it was a real game it was a little psychotic.

  • @wholesome-jen3104
    @wholesome-jen3104 2 года назад +325

    I'm glad she didn't choose Shayne. He seems very problematic, insecure, and immature. He needs to work on himself before seeking a relationship. Natalie needs to be more secure in who she is as well. I get that she wants to be more outgoing but there is strength in being reserved and laid back.

    • @yenneferofvengerberg
      @yenneferofvengerberg 2 года назад +18

      I've had an issue with Shayne since the pods, when Natalie went in and he thought it was Shaina saying "Shaina! Who I was hoping for" and Natalie was like??????

    • @titlepending1302
      @titlepending1302 2 года назад +6

      @@yenneferofvengerberg and then she has the nerve to make him make her his gf 🙄 the red flags where there yet she continue to pursue him

    • @wholesome-jen3104
      @wholesome-jen3104 2 года назад +9

      @@yenneferofvengerberg yes those were his true feelings . Natalie was just the reliable backup option. See how he was cheesing ear to ear when he saw Shayna face to face? They both seems to mirror each other's personalities which seems to be attention seekers 🙆.

    • @wholesome-jen3104
      @wholesome-jen3104 2 года назад +4

      @@titlepending1302 Right. Natalie was so desperate she was willing to go along with anything.

    • @capsulamental
      @capsulamental 2 года назад +2

      he also has anger issues

  • @qirlswaqq2010
    @qirlswaqq2010 2 года назад +341

    I think she dodged a bullet with Shayne. I feel like he may have deep issues & has a dark side behind closed doors. I’m glad for deepti as well

  • @Babygirl_fay
    @Babygirl_fay 2 года назад +360

    Shayne literally gives abusive vibes. Soo proud and happy for Natalie.

    • @Zoe-tg4dl
      @Zoe-tg4dl 2 года назад +30

      abusive vibes and coke eyes 👀

    • @Babygirl_fay
      @Babygirl_fay 2 года назад +3

      @@Zoe-tg4dl exactly

    • @HisSnuggleBear18
      @HisSnuggleBear18 2 года назад +26

      Me and my husband's first reaction to him was he seemed to be the type to cheat just because his spouse wasn't worshipping him 24/7.

    • @ADetailedHouse
      @ADetailedHouse 2 года назад +4

      YES!! Not only did Shayne display red flags so early on w/gaslighting & manipulating her when he mistakenly called her Shania, his temper was very apparent in front of cameras!! Just imagine how bad he is in private!! And what he said to her during the fight, "I hate you", was crossing a line that should never be crossed!

    • @Babygirl_fay
      @Babygirl_fay 2 года назад +1

      @@HisSnuggleBear18 your totally right

  • @Eddybaby01
    @Eddybaby01 Год назад +5

    Natalie is so well spoken and articulate. Such a great person

  • @taylorfrink1182
    @taylorfrink1182 2 года назад +316

    love the strong women in the season normalizing leaving when you know you deserve better we gotta keep seeing more of that so fewer girls grow up thinking they can or should try to change a guy with abusive or just childish or narcissistic tendencies

    • @SISTAGURL
      @SISTAGURL 2 года назад +11

      That’s my absolute favorite part of this season. Great comment.

    • @hr9718
      @hr9718 2 года назад +2

      have you seen LIB Brazil? in the same vein, one the weddings was amazing! we love to see it

    • @taylorfrink1182
      @taylorfrink1182 2 года назад

      @@hr9718 omg no i havent but i def will check it out now !!! :D thanks for the rec

    • @hr9718
      @hr9718 2 года назад

      @@taylorfrink1182 you're welcome! It's on another level of intensity.... haha! xx

    • @ADetailedHouse
      @ADetailedHouse 2 года назад

      GREAT point!! Even if some of us didn't have a father like Natalie's dad, I think it taught us a lesson on self-worth!

  • @ColorfulBallerina
    @ColorfulBallerina 2 года назад +92

    Natalie is classy. She handled the complicated situation with Shaina MUCH BETTER than Amber did with Jessica!

  • @daylightgolden7080
    @daylightgolden7080 2 года назад +39

    Natalie and Deepti are good Asian representation. They didn't settle for less and actually know what they truly deserve.

    • @titlepending1302
      @titlepending1302 2 года назад +1

      Huh? I thought Deepti was 100% Indian lol

    • @avrakehdabra5863
      @avrakehdabra5863 2 года назад +10

      @@titlepending1302 India is in Asia dummy.

    • @titlepending1302
      @titlepending1302 2 года назад +1

      @@avrakehdabra5863 trust me you’re the dummy lol

    • @shubhitewari4283
      @shubhitewari4283 2 года назад

      @@titlepending1302 not everyone forgetting indians r asians too 😭

  • @leadershiplfe
    @leadershiplfe 2 года назад +271

    Can we get a round of applause for the questions by Will? Those were great questions and then great answers by Natalie!

    • @imanam1917
      @imanam1917 2 года назад +4

      I was literally just thinking this! Like he was asking everything I wanted to know

    • @lukystarrk4life
      @lukystarrk4life 2 года назад +4

      amazing questions… round of applause for this interview!!

    • @willmarfuggi6549
      @willmarfuggi6549 2 года назад +6

      Aw thanks! Glad you liked it!

    • @unicornL
      @unicornL 2 года назад

      Yes. Good journalism. I'm so happy to see it

  • @navigate1388
    @navigate1388 2 года назад +258

    I found Natalie so funny! Shane was getting triggered by her humour but I seriously just clicked with her humour. So happy with her decision!

    • @Rmveber
      @Rmveber 2 года назад +18

      Same I cringed when Shane got offended because I know that she was joking and that it was her humour.

    • @lovemachine225
      @lovemachine225 2 года назад

      Right!

    • @zet7670
      @zet7670 2 года назад

      @@Rmveber He loved it coz then he could play victim

  • @meh5069
    @meh5069 2 года назад +48

    Shaina went from talking about her bedroom habits and goals with shayne, to Saint Shaina the Christian when she realized she wasn’t attracted to Kyle Lmao. She wanted more air time, she didn’t care about him not being Christian. SHE barely cares about being Christian.

    • @Mysterious_Butterfly98
      @Mysterious_Butterfly98 2 года назад +2

      I wouldn’t say that…think of how many people identify as Christian. Many of them are comfortable with their sexuality and might even exhibit promiscuous behavior, but they still don’t want to date a nonbeliever…She was just thinking long term. It’s hard to raise kids with someone who doesn’t share the same values.

    • @mauram3881
      @mauram3881 2 года назад +8

      @@Mysterious_Butterfly98 But Kyle said he was willing to have his children raised religious. Something doesn't add up. She gives me hypocritical chisrian' vybes

    • @unidentified113
      @unidentified113 2 года назад +2

      @@Mysterious_Butterfly98 She didnt use religion when it cane to Shayne though.

    • @Mysterious_Butterfly98
      @Mysterious_Butterfly98 2 года назад

      @@unidentified113 is Shane Atheist?

    • @unidentified113
      @unidentified113 2 года назад +5

      @@Mysterious_Butterfly98 idk but she never questioned his faith and use it as a deciding factor like she did with the other guy.

  • @huiszeooi6908
    @huiszeooi6908 2 года назад +349

    Proud of you Natalie, you have made the right decision! It also show how well you have been bought up by your mum and dad, and strong support you have

  • @danzzany8513
    @danzzany8513 2 года назад +315

    I meant.. why would you say something like “I hate you”,”the worst thing happened to me” such things to your fiancé the Day before wedding? Even though it was serious argument still that’s not okay. However, I think they would’ve worked it out if they made up clearly before coming the wedding ceremony. Regardless I admire Natalie and her super supportive family 🇰🇷❤️

    • @sierranyokka8435
      @sierranyokka8435 2 года назад +64

      And that was after the Bachelor party where he struck out at baseball and got super mad. Shane needs to go therapy and figure out and work on his deep seated trauma. That was just such a over the top reaction.

    • @dgonza1638
      @dgonza1638 2 года назад +14

      He said those things because he learned it growing up....just like Natalie learned from her dad how to feel safe

    • @TheKrystee
      @TheKrystee 2 года назад +13

      Try anyway ? 🥴 Natalie likely didn’t say HALF of what Shayne said to her.

    • @dsans6289
      @dsans6289 2 года назад +18

      @@TheKrystee Definitely even now she is covering for him. I truly believe she loved him. Whatever trauma Shayne experienced in his childhood or PTSD he suffered I hope this experience shows him he needs therapy. He has potential to be a great guy

    • @westcoastorbust2462
      @westcoastorbust2462 2 года назад +3

      His way of bailing out without having to bail out.

  • @soapyfankatie
    @soapyfankatie 2 года назад +206

    Natalie is the total package! She made the right decision

    • @ADetailedHouse
      @ADetailedHouse 2 года назад +5

      I don't think so. Natalie has spoken about her deep & pervasive insecurity in interviews. That she accepted some of Shayne's troubling & problematic behaviors early on, like gaslighting & emotional manipulation, is indicative of this. Natalie's "humor" was manipulative & *toxic*. Also saying in front of everyone, "Take your shirt off!! EWWW, GROSS!! Put it back on!" And "jokingly" calling Shayne a "piece of shit", when he wanted reassurance, something he readily & amply gave to her (which was her favorite thing about him, as she's said in many interviews!!), is NOT funny.
      To be fair, he is, BY FAR, much, much worse, but let's not rewrite history & pretend she doesn't have significant issues, the worst being her inability to see blatant red flags/gaslighting, her toxic "humor", her lack of self-awareness, & her pervasive insecurity.

  • @LaFamouz89
    @LaFamouz89 2 года назад +162

    Shayne’s is looking for someone who will baby him like his mother does to him. He did stated in one episode he facetimes his mother everyday al the time. So….he is just looking for his mother in another woman. Just saying 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @graceusun101
      @graceusun101 2 года назад +1

      True. That’s scary actually. 🥲

    • @zet7670
      @zet7670 2 года назад

      I was expecting her to be more... overbearing
      but she seemed chill

  • @valerieain1995
    @valerieain1995 2 года назад +195

    Natalie you seem like an amazing woman & you deserve so much love....I felt like Shayne is just too intense. Wishing you both the best moving forward whether that is together or not 💓💓

  • @brsugarbabe
    @brsugarbabe 2 года назад +68

    She said in the finale they had major problems. Some of those things probably won’t be revealed. I wish her nothing but the best. She is ready to be a wife.

  • @whuwatwinwear6786
    @whuwatwinwear6786 2 года назад +95

    She’s a class act! Natalie could have bashed him to pieces this whole interview, but she did not. I hope she finds a great man that brings her peace and security.

  • @renukavarigonda8714
    @renukavarigonda8714 2 года назад +90

    Shaina called it “fraudulent and fake” bc she has a lot of internalized racism which is sadly clear as day.

    • @alexish8183
      @alexish8183 2 года назад +34

      YES! I think she just couldn't handle Shayne picking an Asian woman over her.

    • @zet7670
      @zet7670 2 года назад +1

      More likely she'd say it about any gal he picked

  • @bitchtoastx1793
    @bitchtoastx1793 2 года назад +26

    Natalie's story is a wonderful example of how important it is as parents to keep a solid standard of respect and integrity with your children. They learn from everything you do, we nourish them with our kindness, our words, our strong examples of what love should look like. And self respect. 🙏🏻❤

  • @Cyeri2806
    @Cyeri2806 2 года назад +93

    I glad she make the right decision. The fight sound worst too. No wonder she said no.

  • @salamander8301
    @salamander8301 2 года назад +28

    Natalie's dad saved her from that sanpaku eyes gaslighter. an example of how a woman can understand her worth through a father's love.

    • @lalalooloo
      @lalalooloo 2 года назад

      Sanpaku eyes 👀 lol. Very true

  • @kollllyyynn
    @kollllyyynn 2 года назад +49

    Glad you said no, girl!

  • @Booboobear702
    @Booboobear702 2 года назад +154

    So proud of her that she didn’t settle. Natalie is too good for Shayne, he seems to have some alcohol or anger issue. They married next day of the bachelor party so he must have been drunk or mad from the baseball field? Like Shaina said on the beach, Shayne would be more compatible with Shania, they both are immature and selfish. Natalie is smart, beautiful and strong lady, she will meet someone in the same level of maturity. Wish her the best!!

    • @l.v.6384
      @l.v.6384 2 года назад

      Shayne and Shaina would be one of those couples that always do dramatic and eventually breakup

  • @ashleenicole5799
    @ashleenicole5799 2 года назад +86

    Her dad was so kind and sweet I’m glad she is inspired to find someone like him because Shane was definitely not a match 👎

  • @RubyTwilite
    @RubyTwilite 2 года назад +82

    Shayne is an immature, hypomanic mess. I'm soooo glad Natalie came to her senses. Shayne will always be a hard drinking, crass, self-centered child. That will never change.

    • @Love-yk2du
      @Love-yk2du 2 года назад +2

      I agree with you. Judging isn't good but experience does count for something and mine tells me someone like Shane to be quite rigid and man child behavior

  • @vannaraf
    @vannaraf 2 года назад +66

    Love Natalie ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ Sheisty Shaina is no Christian. She needs to find herself first and love who she is.

    • @beverlyho9559
      @beverlyho9559 2 года назад +1

      Many ppl genuinely embrace the ideal selflessness Christianity is supposed to change converts into but my experience as a grad of Oral Robert's U is that there are several Shainas, often in leadership positions.

    • @ADetailedHouse
      @ADetailedHouse 2 года назад

      I LOVE the word "sheisty" & haven't heard it in so long!!! What a perfect use of the word & I appreciate the alliteration!

  • @mogwaigiggle
    @mogwaigiggle 2 года назад +55

    Like everyone here is saying, Natalie’s father seems wonderful. He was so supportive since the beginning because he trusts his daughters judgement A LOT! Clearly he was right to trust her during this bizarre situation because in the end she made an educated, wise and well thought out choice. She’s incredibly classy and self reflective, and knows exactly want she needs and wants out of a relationship! She’s a better person than me because if I would’ve seen that conversation between Shayne and Shaina where Shaina said all those awful things, I wouldn’t have been as composed and kind as Natalie during this interview lmao

    • @Eg-jd9zt
      @Eg-jd9zt 2 года назад

      Just makes Shaina look worse and like the trash she is lol

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. 2 года назад +89

    Yeah that was really shady of her. I knew after she didn’t get matched with Shayne she’d be a problem 😬

    • @kingnyasha
      @kingnyasha 2 года назад

      but she was right, they weren't compatible. she just expressed it the wrong way. Natalie is sweet and shayne is passionate, they are such a mismatch

  • @inglaterra5031
    @inglaterra5031 2 года назад +72

    Natalie it is straight to the point. Shady people like S&S can't get it

  • @hehehehh
    @hehehehh 2 года назад +37

    If you're in a state of conflict with ur s/o and they cannot meet you halfway to help de-escalate the situation, then they're not the one you can have a productive conflict with, better to leave

  • @x3Stoopid
    @x3Stoopid 2 года назад +29

    So proud of Natalie & Deepti, honestly. They both deserve better & chose themselves first, rightfully.

  • @bethgooden
    @bethgooden 2 года назад +42

    I am so glad she said no! She’s a beautiful woman who deserves so much better!

  • @prolific568
    @prolific568 2 года назад +14

    Even if I knew him for YEARS before marriage, if he told me I’m the worst thing that ever happened to him I wouldn’t marry him. I just can’t even imagine hearing that from my fiancé.

  • @alannanicole9026
    @alannanicole9026 2 года назад +81

    Shayne always looks shocked lol

    • @kellym.6777
      @kellym.6777 2 года назад +16

      Girl it's his eyes 🥴😩😂😂😂

    • @Joseph-zd7kg
      @Joseph-zd7kg 2 года назад

      And if his eyes were small you would say he looks tired. Leave him alone.

    • @alannanicole9026
      @alannanicole9026 2 года назад +5

      @@Joseph-zd7kg Shaina is that you?! But I never said nothing about his eyes….

  • @nico-fq4yh
    @nico-fq4yh 2 года назад +30

    Hearing her speak is so calming

  • @Mkay999
    @Mkay999 2 года назад +58

    Shane and Shayna seem like a muuuuccchhh better match. Not a lot going on upstairs. Natalie is too bright for him and his neediness

  • @princess5185
    @princess5185 2 года назад +29

    I was literally praying Natalie would walk away even back in the pods. There has always been a negative energy from Shayne, displayed in his attitude and language. I wish he had chosen Shaina, even though their thing seemed centered on lust, she is loud and manipulative, a good contender for him. Natalie would have been crushed and financially ruined by this man baby.

  • @krowkmr
    @krowkmr 2 года назад +32

    Shaina is such a freak, Natalie is so strong for making the decision best for herself

  • @kathleencooney1518
    @kathleencooney1518 2 года назад +28

    Shayne was frustrated & embarrassed that he struck out at Wrigley Field and then got drunk. He picked a fight and that was it. He was very immature.

    • @emilylietz9340
      @emilylietz9340 2 года назад

      Yes classi narcissistic behavior.

    • @hzechgamez
      @hzechgamez 2 года назад +1

      He made one mistake and y’all on his dick?? She insulted him half the show as “jokes” like I’m astonished how slow y’all are

    • @ED80s
      @ED80s 2 года назад +1

      I was thinking the same. His foul mood from being embarrassed about not hitting one ball carried over into when he got home and he unleashed His frustrations on to Natalie. Even without that fight, he would be intolerable to live with. Always needing compliments and praise. That gets tiring fast!

    • @tea6306
      @tea6306 2 года назад

      @@hzechgamez yal gotta stop that mess. She was clearly joking with him, but dumbnuts couldn't see that b/c his pride was hurt. I laughed every time she said something "smart" to him b/c he did the same stuff to her. He fucked up & it's sad b/c I really thought they would make it.

    • @ADetailedHouse
      @ADetailedHouse 2 года назад

      @@tea6306 Natalie's "humor" was manipulative & toxic. Saying in front of everyone, "Take your shirt off!! EWWW, GROSS!! Put it back on!" and "jokingly" calling Shayne a "piece of shit", when he wanted reassurance, something he readily & amply gave to her (which - as she's said in many interviews- was her favorite thing about him!!), was NOT funny.
      To be fair, he is, BY FAR, much, much worse, but let's not rewrite history & pretend she doesn't have significant issues, the worst being her inability to see blatant red flags/gaslighting, her toxic "humor", her lack of self-awareness, & her insecurity.

  • @valanddidzchannel4837
    @valanddidzchannel4837 2 года назад +19

    Nathalie, you did really good to call it off. You are so mature for Shayne; maybe therapy would have helped the relationship
    Shayne has something he needs to work on, which is growing up, expressing himself in a more healthy way, and accepting because he is always pissed off when he doesn't get his way.
    If you are still looking into exploring the relationship. Therapy will be a good thing to explore first

  • @DonInADress
    @DonInADress 2 года назад +85

    Natalie is just so classy

  • @TheCasou
    @TheCasou 2 года назад +100

    That’s very Christian of Shaina, she can keep lying, deceiving and claim to be so Christian

  • @luvthistufft6285
    @luvthistufft6285 2 года назад +97

    Shane and Shaina would be a perfect match. They’re both nutcases.

    • @adorali727
      @adorali727 2 года назад +6

      all things aside, personality wise they were better suited

  • @jdmmg4904
    @jdmmg4904 2 года назад +31

    I loved her parents, really enjoyed watching them as a family 💟

  • @cozycasasmr4510
    @cozycasasmr4510 2 года назад +14

    Classy beautiful lady, so glad she dropped him she deserves better

  • @xlessthanxx3
    @xlessthanxx3 2 года назад +12

    Season of strong women! Natalie & Deepti, you are QUEENS that came out above all of the others by loving yourselves & knowing your worth.

  • @Eva-ge7ct
    @Eva-ge7ct 2 года назад +32

    Deeps and Natalie made the right choice for sure. Shayne looks looks like he needs help for sure, he has those crazy eyes. And dont get me started on Shake. Wow hes a piece of work. I was so disgusted at the things he was saying after the wedding ceremony making sure everyone knew he was the one that was unsure lmao good luck at nobu bro

  • @Idk-iz2hs
    @Idk-iz2hs 2 года назад +2

    Is it jusg me or am I IN LOVE WITH HER VOICE!! It's so comforting!
    I could listen to her all day long

  • @smallgirllovesDiamonds
    @smallgirllovesDiamonds 2 года назад +32

    Thank God Deepti said no😆

  • @1234pixy1
    @1234pixy1 2 года назад +20

    Shayne has anger issues... and probably some drug problems. He's on track to be an abusive partner if he hadn't done ut already. Especially after seeing his manipulative behavior in the reunion clip. Natalie dodged a bullet. Sometimes we can't see how the villains (Shaina in this case) may be there to save you from a desaster.
    Howeeeever, I think he can be a good partner if he acknowledges his behavior and actively works to be better. The way he handled Shaina, was telling of his honest character.

  • @taylorclark6563
    @taylorclark6563 2 года назад +11

    Natalie and Deepti are both SO stunning. I especially loved the confidence and the way Deepti carried herself. I hope she finds her true love.

  • @gl2461
    @gl2461 2 года назад +24

    I feel like there was a lot of stuff that went down the night before wedding. The fight they had seemed really bad but she, being classy, is not revealing all the details. She doged a bullet.

  • @goforkrissy
    @goforkrissy 2 года назад +9

    I think it worked out for the best. Ultimately not enough time for them to learn how to communicate with each other and being too different. Natalie, you deserve the world ❤

  • @elizabethm3310
    @elizabethm3310 2 года назад +32

    I feel like Shayne was really just desperate to bring some happiness to his family after their tragic loss. He made a decision to marry Natalie and wasn't going to change his mind. He was not ready to be married and i hope he see's that looking back.

  • @robyna777
    @robyna777 2 года назад +6

    Proud of Natalie! Shayne and Shaina both showed their true colors in the pods. I would have walked away when he mixed up the names and made it seem like it was Natalie’s problem.

  • @sulta269
    @sulta269 2 года назад +14

    she is so beautiful and well spoken, I am so so happy for her an deepti and even sal for making the decision they did, they choose themselves and I'm so happy they didn't fall for all the bs their partner was giving!

  • @julietantonio1049
    @julietantonio1049 2 года назад +11

    My Mom recently got into LIB, and it was interesting to hear her perspective through the lens of a counselor. She said in terms of Shayne, it seems like he is a loving person but he has a LOT to work through. She also said in terms of Shake vs Shayne as to who find fans more intolerable, with Shake he thinks nothing is his fault whereas Shayne thinks everything is his fault, which is easier to deal with but still is a lot to work through. I partly wondered if some of Shayne's behavior might've had to do with his Dad passing away 2 months before the show, but only he knows cuz grief is personal. Not excusing what he did but it makes you think. I really hope Natalie is doing well and is thriving, she was the embodiment of grace and is very emotionally mature. She knew her self worth and chose herself at the end of the day which is something a lot of people can learn from. I really hope she's thriving and doing well. As for her and Shayne now, well we'll find out on Friday.

    • @ADetailedHouse
      @ADetailedHouse 2 года назад +1

      I agree w/everything except your assessment of Natalie. Her "humor" was manipulative & toxic. Saying in front of everyone, "Take your shirt off!! EWWW, GROSS!! Put it back on!" and "jokingly" calling Shayne a "piece of shit", when he wanted reassurance, something he readily & amply gave to her (which was her favorite thing about him, as she's said in many interviews!!), was NOT funny.
      To be fair, Shayne is - BY FAR - much, much worse, but let's not rewrite history & pretend she doesn't have significant issues, the worst being her inability to see blatant red flags/gaslighting, her toxic "humor", her lack of self-awareness, & her deep & pervasive insecurity.

  • @anais937
    @anais937 2 года назад +5

    Nathalie is too good for him. She's beautiful, intelligent and funny. I'm glad she followed her heart and chose to step back in such a classy way. Her and Deepti dodged huge bullets

  • @cuddlebug1049
    @cuddlebug1049 2 года назад +20

    I'm so proud of Natalie! 💯🙌🏽

  • @jessicalyngkhoi5551
    @jessicalyngkhoi5551 2 года назад +7

    So so happy for her that she said No.. She seems very matured and Shane is a walking red flag..

  • @missjini82
    @missjini82 2 года назад +4

    Your the bomb sis! Loved watching you throughout the show! 💯 The reference of her dad regarding her final decision was so pure and real. Wishing u the best Unnie xx

  • @ssr6731
    @ssr6731 2 года назад +3

    Abishake was a jerk... Calling deepti aunty and not even bothered about her... Every other guy went and talk to the partner even if said no... But this shake was not bothered at all

  • @breepamella
    @breepamella 2 года назад +3

    I love how elegant and well spoken she is , I think she could intimidate any man by how smart and classy she is

  • @Momo-vo9io
    @Momo-vo9io 2 года назад +10

    I'm glad she said no. I'm also not surprised at how he blew up on her; he totally gaslight her in the pods after calling her by another woman's name then saying that's who he wanted it to be...bruh. way too sensitive which wasn't going to work for someone with a sarcastic sense of humor.

  • @LoneWolfj11
    @LoneWolfj11 2 года назад +4

    Poor Natalie, she deserves more. I hope she finds someone that is genuine to her. She deserves that and more.

  • @terynaliya
    @terynaliya 2 года назад +1

    She is such a kind soul. I didn’t like her on the show at first but I respected her a lot more after her decision at the end.

  • @michellegirau8136
    @michellegirau8136 2 года назад +83

    Shayne definitely has alot of issues he needs to workout. He walks away the second someone has a disagreement with him. I think Natalie was right for saying no. I do feel however the people that were mad at shanina for her wanting to be with shayne stemmed from the having the connections in the pod and the what if feeling. Let's be real how much do you really know someone when your talking to someone for 10 minutes for 10 days? I feel like Natalie could have acted the same way if it ended up the other way around. At the end of the day this is just television.

    • @titlepending1302
      @titlepending1302 2 года назад +1

      I like this perspective… I do believe that Natalie has a mean girl side to her 👀 especially if it was the other way around because she’s far from quality

    • @ADetailedHouse
      @ADetailedHouse 2 года назад +1

      @@titlepending1302 agree 100%!!!

    • @zet7670
      @zet7670 2 года назад

      @@titlepending1302 Let's not get carried away, natalie is innocent here but these comments 'amazing godess' 'true warrior' b/c she said no to the guy who told her he hates her guts

  • @Kevinrecheal256
    @Kevinrecheal256 2 года назад +104

    Shaina is just like the Jessica in season one

    • @queenesquiresquad
      @queenesquiresquad 2 года назад +8

      Exactly! I thought the same thing

    • @sneeks345
      @sneeks345 2 года назад +27

      But shaina is truly evil Jessica was just messy lol

    • @adorali727
      @adorali727 2 года назад +7

      not really. Shaina was intentionally mean. Interestingly enough i think Shaina is a mix of Amber and Jessica.

    • @kellym.6777
      @kellym.6777 2 года назад +8

      Atp I think the comparison is disrespectful to Jessica. Shaina is wayyyyyyy worse and it says A LOT! Jessica crawled so that Shaina could fly...not even walk or run but freaking fly! Cause there are levels to this 😂😂😂

    • @brsugarbabe
      @brsugarbabe 2 года назад +6

      Jessica was better than Shaina. Jessica dodged a bullet.

  • @esnartsibande3589
    @esnartsibande3589 2 года назад +10

    Proud of her, she is so beautiful inside out, she is very true to herself and her personality and intelligence amazes me she deserves better than the likes of Shane. She is young better person will come around who is a perfect match.

  • @fluffytalguw5883
    @fluffytalguw5883 2 года назад +7

    Nat totally dodged a bullet. Shayne’s a player and all he chose her for was because she showed she wanted him more than Shaina. How insecure.

  • @giedra27
    @giedra27 2 года назад +9

    Giiirl, you dodged a bullet💁🏻‍♀️ sending love to you, Natalie!♥️♓

  • @vesticord8736
    @vesticord8736 2 года назад +6

    Shaina is dirty. She reminded me of Jessica. When they got rejected by their number 1's, they had to convince themselves and their number 2's it was them to save their self esteem.

    • @HaileyAndNathan
      @HaileyAndNathan 2 года назад +1

      Yep. The only difference is that Jessica always had a glass of wine in her hand 😂

  • @yellowblue4045
    @yellowblue4045 2 года назад +8

    Great interviewer. Proud of Natalie & Deepti. They deserve better. And Shane & Shake need to work on their insecurities.

  • @lamduannasingkharn7887
    @lamduannasingkharn7887 2 года назад +2

    I’m so glad she said no.