16:39 what I have always loved about Kenny is how he's always so aware of his audience's psyche and addresses it without missing a beat. Listening to him talk always makes me think and retrospect and it's honestly so fulfilling.
The gut is not a vague thing, it resides energetically at the solar plexus chakra (located at the abdomen, near the navel). The more confident and self assured a person is, the stronger your gut gets and the lesser you find the need for validation. That strengthens your boundaries too :)
For me setting boundaries is very easy with people I know like family and friends. But with strangers they straightaway think I am rude, which I really do not care. Im grateful for the best family and friends I have.
I loved listening to this while sleeping after a loud hectic day. Love Ira's Voice❤. Kenny has been an altime favourite. Both of you, pls do more talks together. Good content.❤❤😊😊
Thank you so much for this series and for this episode in particular. I have had a tough couple of days concerning this very area and this talk makes me feel so much better about myself.
What a beautiful conversation. Thank you Kenny for your vulnerability and openness. Super refreshing. What is the line between setting boundaries and being an inconsiderate/ unkind person?
boundaries are for things that make you feel bad about yourself (not in an introspective way, it's important to listen when you've upset about someone). unfortunately, there is indeed a thin line between the two, which you'll have to navigate on your own and with insight from people close to you. this is why it is important to surround yourself with people whose worldview you trust, they will help you grow. also, I think people tend to o scillate between the two- between too kind and too mean- but sooner or later you will find a middle ground. hope this made sense haha
If you're purposefully doing any wrong, that's what makes you unkind. Having your own priorities and preferences is something abt yourself, not others. That's what boundaries mean. Like you shouldn't give a space for other person to take you granted or belittle you.
Ira khan and Kenny, the collab we didn't know we needed!!!
Focus on your life. Stop trying to be a samne.. Loser
They are covering what Indian education system failed to do. Keep it up guys, more power to you!
16:39 what I have always loved about Kenny is how he's always so aware of his audience's psyche and addresses it without missing a beat. Listening to him talk always makes me think and retrospect and it's honestly so fulfilling.
❤ thank you for that ! I try my best to understand the audience :) it’s why I love stand up so much.
The gut is not a vague thing, it resides energetically at the solar plexus chakra (located at the abdomen, near the navel). The more confident and self assured a person is, the stronger your gut gets and the lesser you find the need for validation. That strengthens your boundaries too :)
For me setting boundaries is very easy with people I know like family and friends. But with strangers they straightaway think I am rude, which I really do not care. Im grateful for the best family and friends I have.
Even I face this RUDE or COLD remark with strangers. At some point and in situations you have to care about what they’ll think and It’s so difficult.
Tell strangers to get fkt man, why do you want to be universally liked? 🙌🙌😭
It felt like I really needed this as a people pleasure and being sometimes victim of it
More love to Kenny! And thanks Swaddle for inviting him
Love this! Felt like I was hearing myself talk everytime Kenny expressed things he struggled with, socially!
Kenny is why I know about therapy and it's been 3 yrs since I started 🫶
This just made me sit and think about my feelings
Waited for this episode since the announcement of the podcast.
These episodes are so great. I'd love for Ira to have a conversation about privelege and class anxieties.
I loved listening to this while sleeping after a loud hectic day. Love Ira's Voice❤. Kenny has been an altime favourite.
Both of you, pls do more talks together. Good content.❤❤😊😊
Thank you Kenny!
Thank you so much for this series and for this episode in particular. I have had a tough couple of days concerning this very area and this talk makes me feel so much better about myself.
Love it, thank you for this episode! More power to you Ira
Setting boundaries 😢 so important to hear this.
Awareness truly makes it a tad bit easier
It was all so relatable. It was insightful as well as fun to watch. Thanks Ira for the great initiative.
Such a sensible conversation. Loved every bit of it!
Thanks for this topic and the bringing kenny to discuss on this as he explains stuffs quite well
Therapy we did not know we needed!
What a beautiful conversation. Thank you Kenny for your vulnerability and openness. Super refreshing.
What is the line between setting boundaries and being an inconsiderate/ unkind person?
boundaries are for things that make you feel bad about yourself (not in an introspective way, it's important to listen when you've upset about someone). unfortunately, there is indeed a thin line between the two, which you'll have to navigate on your own and with insight from people close to you. this is why it is important to surround yourself with people whose worldview you trust, they will help you grow. also, I think people tend to o scillate between the two- between too kind and too mean- but sooner or later you will find a middle ground. hope this made sense haha
If you're purposefully doing any wrong, that's what makes you unkind. Having your own priorities and preferences is something abt yourself, not others. That's what boundaries mean. Like you shouldn't give a space for other person to take you granted or belittle you.
Thank you very much, this was much needed. Made me realize a lot of things. Keep up the good work.
Pls,make a video about interpersonal communication
Happy for you, Kenny, especially wrt your marriage.
this was very good.
very.
i felt i wish such ppl exist in my life
Thank you so much for discussing this topic!
What a session, Ira and Kenny! Awesome!
Really gripping ❤
NEEDED THIS SO BADLYY
9 mins in and this is already so wholesome!!
Many girls in my extended family got married to please their parents and relatives 😅 😬
One of the best videos meaningful to the core ❤❤❤❤ to both of you 🙏
Slay video.
this was so nicee.
❤❤ very helpful
Great stuff!
Also, ‘The self help resources’ link in the description box is broken. Could you please fix that?
Another sign from the universe 😑
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OMG can she form better sentences or what? How does one have a sentence with so many fillers. I lost the plot. Sorry moving on
Me is kenny 🫡kenny is me🫡