Let’s not waste another year planning - how to *ACTUALLY* level up in 2025

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  • Опубликовано: 20 янв 2025

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  • @StudyToSuccess
    @StudyToSuccess  21 день назад +32

    🥳Thank you for watching! Grammarly is a must-have for all Students! Sign up and upgrade to Grammarly Pro for 20% off by using my link: grammarly.com/study09
    p.s. what are yoru top three goals/resolutions/wishes for 2025?? Comment them below so you can check back in a year!!:)

    • @Potato_bags
      @Potato_bags 21 день назад +2

      This years resolution for me is to be productive (which never happened 😭) and always focus on being better from the last time instead of focusing on straight A's 💗💗

  • @Svnny..._Autumn
    @Svnny..._Autumn 18 дней назад +68

    HELP HOW IS IT THURSDAY ALR? I wasted like half of my winter break just sitting on my bed and doom scrolling… I’ve wanted to get up so bad but my butt was like glued there. I wanted to get up and stretch but my subconscious said ‘it’s better to stay here’. Thank you for this ❤

    • @StudyToSuccess
      @StudyToSuccess  18 дней назад +5

      happy to help!! And yep, time does seem to fly when we're just in bed scrolling all day... :/

  • @cozykeese
    @cozykeese 19 дней назад +43

    so basically we are sims trying to wash dishes in the bathroom and someone keeps canceling the task

    • @devidocs
      @devidocs 10 дней назад

      wait this is such a smart way to think about it

  • @potatowedges2415
    @potatowedges2415 21 день назад +123

    Aesthetic:
    ✨✨✨Rotting away in bed core✨✨✨

  • @ashhh713
    @ashhh713 21 день назад +55

    16:30 THIS!!!! thankyou so much for pointing this out. I felt so weird when all those youtube tips that told me to reward myself in some way after each task never seemed to work for me😭

  • @catwoman3247
    @catwoman3247 21 день назад +68

    You're using your personal experience and knowledge of psychology. It's the best combination and so valuable.🌟

  • @MsTheBloom
    @MsTheBloom 15 дней назад +2

    honestly i came here thinking it was just another “new year new me” tips video that doesn’t really have much substance but i was blown away by the information and tips you gave! thank you for this it really helped me figure out why i always felt so stuck in this cycle. i’ll definitely try and follow the tips here

  • @azrika7
    @azrika7 19 дней назад +4

    Estella, you just healed a part of me!! I dk if it sounds dramatic but, you truly helped me out! I just clicked this video with a thought “ just another motivation video in RUclips” but! Was it?? …. Oh hell nah! I couldn’t have asked for more! You broke it down into very simplistic pieces for us and our subconscious selves 👀 to understand! I’m soo grateful that I followed you all these years coz, gurl, you are AmAzInGgG!!!😭 I love you sm🫶🏼 thank you for existing and helping me get into back to the right track! 🥹✨I want all the other lost souls to find their way back here! Hopefully RUclips does its work properly in 2025! 🙌🏻

  • @zarlovedonuts
    @zarlovedonuts 19 дней назад +11

    do you realize how much you've driven me with this single video, estella? you changed the whole game with these ones "conscious/subconscious" "tiny change that doesn't trigger my comfort" "making my subconsciousness my partner" & "cheering for myself" as you explained through. the way you put these points was so perfect that it arrowed across my guts. Last year was a total drag down for me. People were judgemental, unsupportive, unappreciative & i almost gave up. I felt like I'm in a cave & afraid of the light but when you talked about starting tiny & cheering myself, i got some courage down my dehydrated soul. i feel green now. i am gonna watch this video whenever i am stuck. It really gave me what i needed. Thanks a lot.

  • @meisheet
    @meisheet 20 дней назад +17

    Wow a lot of this actually made so much sense like having the other u say “why cant u do this, why cant u just get up and go” especially this past semester when i had tests, sometimes i would pull an all nighter but not even study like i was supposed to. I felt guilty if i went to sleep but couldnt bring myself to study even though i knew i needed to. I also developed into a chronic “i didnt do well bc i didnt try” type ever since i didnt do as well as i wanted in a class over the start covid and ive been in that rut ever since.
    The part especially abt the hack to try to reward urself to get urself to do smthg u dont like was like, “no wonder i could never get into the idea of eating a chocolate whenever i get through a chptr in a textbook” and such. But the idea of focusing on liking the actual activity u want to do was such a mind opener

  • @Mericar316
    @Mericar316 21 день назад +13

    I’ve never agreed so much in my life especially whole over planning my goals to the point of dreading them and feeling relief when I quit them. Also your video also made me this that I’ve only emphasizing the feels of negativity when I do my bad habits and I talk down to myself but I never or rarely talk positively to myself. Being my own cheerleader will definitely be new to me but I’ll give it try this year! Thank you!!💕

  • @cozycats71
    @cozycats71 21 день назад +20

    recently, Estella had been making advice vids and I’m loving them!

  • @alexmills630
    @alexmills630 21 день назад +12

    Clicked immediately! I love (and feel bad lol) that our struggles to improve are sooo relatable! It makes this journey feel less lonely.
    We're starting off this new year right!! ✅️💖
    Let's do this!!! 😎🔥

  • @Kavincreations-z7i
    @Kavincreations-z7i 21 день назад +6

    As a guy with a lot ambition but does nothing this sort of caught me off guard thank you Estella this was really helpful and wishing everybody an advanced new year and for some people around the world new year is already over so happy belated new year and to those whom today is new year happy new year to you now I feel like I’m in geography class😅

  • @jonathanbassett3656
    @jonathanbassett3656 21 день назад +15

    Yep you hit the nail on the head with the cycle of our passions becoming WORK. Happens to me when it comes to writing. We have to see where else in life we've been able to succeed and know we can do our passion, just gotta give ourselves permission to F up and learn cuz that's how anyone gets to the level we want to reach

  • @ElenaJacks7788
    @ElenaJacks7788 20 дней назад +2

    your tips are actually so goodd!! i like how you don't go to surface level basicness but actually things I've experienced, have worked for me and I connect to, You're amazing!!

  • @carolprabhakar
    @carolprabhakar 21 день назад +1

    Hey Estella,
    I was so overwhelmed because I had set some goals which were very out of my comfort zone, and due to that I was upset the whole evening. This advice came as a much needed guide. I am so greatful for this! Thank You and HAPPY NEW YEAR!🎉

  • @nocontent1926
    @nocontent1926 21 день назад +117

    Being here before an hour might be illegal

    • @StudyToSuccess
      @StudyToSuccess  21 день назад +32

      Ahaha never, the early squad is the best!!;)

    • @dharitri-XD
      @dharitri-XD 21 день назад +6

      Here as well before an hour

  • @BadKarma-o8x
    @BadKarma-o8x 20 дней назад

    Thank you. Really needed this. Gave me soooo much perspective. Plus the "if you aren't doing it, you don't want it enough" mindset is actually so toxic. Because lord knows how bad I want it, but since I attach so much anxiety to it, my brain just cancels it. I always do feel like I'm in a shell that is impossible to break. This cleared up so much for me you have no idea

  • @elianaambrose8977
    @elianaambrose8977 20 дней назад +4

    Notes and observations: 1. The subconscious mind works like Inside Out (the collection of words, emotions, and memories determine how something is perceived) 2. The subconscious mind operates with the motto "Seek pleasure, avoid pain" and it uses top-down processing (meaning it's automatic and uses general associations to determine how to respond) 3.Words matter - you need to affirm what you want (speak life and praise yourself for doing the thing, minimize the pain of change) and you need to object what you don't want (aka criticize your bad habits/make complacency painful) 4. Surround yourself or your social media feed with people that have qualities/habits/skills you want (like attracts like, you rise to the status of your ingroup). In short, you need to use the subconscious programming to your advantage - you need to consciously change your perspective to succeed. Change your mind, change your life.

    • @aech.a
      @aech.a 15 дней назад

      ILY

  • @Demonic_blaze
    @Demonic_blaze 21 день назад +10

    Omg just when I was thinking how to change myself as the new year starts.. You uploaded this video! ❤

    • @StudyToSuccess
      @StudyToSuccess  21 день назад +2

      Glad this came at the perfect time for you!!😊

  • @miringuinasanchez9176
    @miringuinasanchez9176 21 день назад +2

    I have to say I love the new format with u on camera, I feel like I've known you for a long time and I missed you

  • @lightningstrikes2727
    @lightningstrikes2727 21 день назад +2

    This is the most relatable video I've ever seen! You literally explained my whole studying life.....I'm glad i could find and understand the problem and i will make sure to work for it slowly though i have less time for my exams rn 😅

  • @Potato_bags
    @Potato_bags 21 день назад +2

    Hi estella!! I am a 11 year old from Bangladesh and I love ur videos! Another year passed and I learned so much from you. Ur aesthetic ness and everything, motivated me. Now I actually sit down to study instead of just scrolling on my device. Thank you for everything🥰💗
    (You've replied to my comment before so it would be my dream if you reply now 🫶)

  • @mirabellentee
    @mirabellentee 19 дней назад

    I think this was the ONE video I have been needing for years. I know I can achieve a lot - yet even when I achieved those things, I only felt relief that they were over, not actual happiness, because I forced myself through those activities only through pressure and anxiety. After that pressure and anxiety (from school) was gone, I stopped being as productive as before and struggled more than ever with routine and discipline, wondering why when I used to be able to do it all. Only now I realise how prone to over-planning and talking myself-down I have always been. Thank you so much for sharing your experience and wisdom, it's relieving to know I'm not alone in this and that working towards my goals doesn't have to feel hard and painful if done in a smart way. I'll definitely come back to this video as often as I need to remind myself!

  • @aadishreesingh3545
    @aadishreesingh3545 21 день назад +5

    Thankyou so much Estella!!!! I had been waiting for your upload! I really needed this. Happy New Year!❤❤

  • @Aka311
    @Aka311 21 день назад +1

    girl i used to literally watch every one of your videos during covid and then i kinda got off yt cuz of school and stuff i got so surprised to see your face cuz back then you wouldn't. idk if this makes sense i just wanted to say i love you and your videos helped me sm back then

  • @Purple-3007
    @Purple-3007 21 день назад +4

    Thank you so much Estella!!! This will really help me thank you ❤ and Happy New Year!!!!!!!! ❤

  • @dreamscenesedits
    @dreamscenesedits 21 день назад +11

    Much needed ! Thank you 💖

  • @aninonia
    @aninonia 20 дней назад

    It’s the first time I have ever commented on a video. Every single word You said is so meaningful and inspiring, this video is literally life changing and I am so grateful for coming upon You right now. Have a wonderful day and one more time thank you💗

  • @aarohithakur247
    @aarohithakur247 21 день назад +1

    OMG YALL THE QUEEN POSTEDDD!!!!!❤❤ I love your vids estalla it changed my life!!😊 love from India ❤❤❤

  • @ChantelleArts
    @ChantelleArts 19 дней назад +2

    you've worded all of this so well 🥰

  • @sea-_-shell
    @sea-_-shell 20 дней назад

    That part where you told me to mention and talk my negative feelings aloud.. so that my subconscious starts hating my bad habits .. iss such an excellent hack !!
    This is going to help me a lott.. thank you soo soo soo much !!! ♡♡♡♡♡♡
    I'll keep you posted ♡♡♡♡♡♡

  • @ashhh713
    @ashhh713 21 день назад

    These recent advice videos have genuinely been lifesavers like I have been actually seeing positive transformations in my life after implementing these tips thankyou soo much Estella🥹💗

  • @TAS-jj8pp
    @TAS-jj8pp 21 день назад +2

    I have struggled with this for soo long, thank you! I finally feel like I understand. ❤❤

  • @Sunnylanguages
    @Sunnylanguages 21 день назад +1

    I definitely needed this video! You are a big inspiration to me. Your way of expressing yourself is amazing! I hope you grow a lot more in 2025. Your videos are fantastic! 💖

  • @imnot_iu
    @imnot_iu 21 день назад +2

    what a perfect timing of this video i think this is my sign 😌
    perfect video
    perfect timing
    and perfect mood
    amazing ☺ thank you so much this is what i have been looking for past few years 😭

  • @humorousvideos._.
    @humorousvideos._. 20 дней назад +1

    Omg, this is so perfect!!! Thank you so much, Queen!!🪷🌿🌾

  • @meow2010
    @meow2010 21 день назад +5

    Me watching a video on youtube on how to be productive and functional knowing damn well im gonna watch 30 more of your videos after this 😍

  • @Coolgirlyt5
    @Coolgirlyt5 21 день назад +3

    Happy new year Estella!Your videos motivate me so much this year !❤

  • @suman4013
    @suman4013 21 день назад +1

    aww thank u

  • @Alexischapman-bo2yj
    @Alexischapman-bo2yj 21 день назад +1

    dang!! im fast...watching ur video within 36 mins of uploading....thanks for the content estella!!

  • @Sophxly
    @Sophxly 15 дней назад +1

    Hey, I just wanna say thank you. I'm only 14 yrs old, but I wanna change SO bad. I can never get myself to do anything or live a better life. I saw a ton of video's saying 'you need to take small steps' and sh*t, but I always was like 'no. I'm gonna change my life in 1 day, starting tomorrow.' I want to lose weight, eat healthy, love myself, live a better life and don't fail school. It's really hard to change in one time, and by this video I finally understand it more. While I was watching this video, I was thinking like, 'I don't have to imediently stop eating treats, instead I can eat 2 cookies instead of 3 and over time it'll be 1.' You really inspired me to FINALLY start changing my life, but not in 1 day, but in multiple days, weeks, months or even years. So I really appreciate you for sharing this. Thank you!!❤❤❤

  • @JustJulie13
    @JustJulie13 21 день назад +2

    always will be my fav motivater. thanks so much estella

  • @AnnaZmatlíková
    @AnnaZmatlíková 19 дней назад +2

    thank you soo much for making these videos because I'm 12 year old and i want to have a good start so this helped me a lot. And your cat is so cute.

  • @AaishaZeenat
    @AaishaZeenat 21 день назад +1

    It was really a must have video am gonna watch it till the very end.
    Thank you so much for this 😊.

  • @laanamaria2618
    @laanamaria2618 21 день назад +4

    I love your videos you really inspire me. ❤❤

  • @Stationaryslayz-AmethystJade
    @Stationaryslayz-AmethystJade 21 день назад +3

    Much needed for me and can totally relate, thanks and happy new year🎉

  • @humbuggd
    @humbuggd 21 день назад +3

    i love the christmas decorations!! (:

  • @betteronpaper958
    @betteronpaper958 20 дней назад +2

    Thank you, your video made me feel a lot better.

  • @7.ayasiayeasmin265
    @7.ayasiayeasmin265 19 дней назад +1

    Thank you so much for explaining so nicely ❤

  • @agnesabraham234
    @agnesabraham234 21 день назад +1

    thanks for making such good videos and sharing tips that actually make sense😊💕

  • @nabihaqureshi6771
    @nabihaqureshi6771 21 день назад

    Thank you Estella!!! This was so relatable....almost scary😨 But nothing has been more relatable and no one has understood this problem in so detail😫 Thank youuuuu😭 and I wish you and your family a healthy and happy new year 🎊😊. Love from India❤

  • @Stella-di4zt
    @Stella-di4zt 21 день назад +6

    Your videos actually feel so wholesome and genuine !
    Keep up the good work ❤

  • @alyssadimarco419
    @alyssadimarco419 19 дней назад

    This makes so much sense! I really struggle with how I talk to myself and I think this will really help!

  • @raydyzee
    @raydyzee 21 день назад +13

    16:34 I remember once I followed one of those online study tips and kept a chocolate bar for me as a reward of finishing a chapter of biology. I never finished the chapter and couldn't wait so long that I finally engulfed the chocolate without giving a dang to study. 💀

    • @manasvidaga
      @manasvidaga 12 дней назад

      Exactly, me too😂😅

  • @Jan-de8qd
    @Jan-de8qd 17 дней назад

    Its so great to see YOU when u are talking instead of other clips on ur voice over. I love you ❤ 🎉

  • @kidssquad5951
    @kidssquad5951 21 день назад +7

    Omg thank you for uploading 💖💖

    • @StudyToSuccess
      @StudyToSuccess  21 день назад +2

      Glad you're here in the early squad!!🫶

    • @kidssquad5951
      @kidssquad5951 21 день назад

      Ty for replying 🥹 and this video is so helpful 💗

  • @lunazero
    @lunazero 20 дней назад +2

    My 24th birthday was last December 22nd, and being a proud Hufflepuff, i asked my parents for the Lamy Hufflepuff fountain pen, which has a huge cartridge and a small open part to see when it's almost time to get new ink. I also got an ink converter and Lamy Obsidian ink 🎉

  • @gamegirl6637
    @gamegirl6637 21 день назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your knowledge and experiences with us all so that we may improve! Thanks to you, I feel like I can actually work on changing and improving my life. XD

  • @Matilda_1-b4b
    @Matilda_1-b4b 21 день назад +2

    Been watching you for years!

  • @muthukannan7300
    @muthukannan7300 21 день назад

    I want this to be that video that changed my life I'm finnaly gonna change win the battle against my subconscious mind 2025is gonna be my year thank u so much love u Estella

  • @anandikabanduni8419
    @anandikabanduni8419 21 день назад +1

    I'm loving this new style of videos 🥰🥰

  • @malfoy9563
    @malfoy9563 18 дней назад +1

    Omg thank u so much,This video is what I needed!❤

  • @charlottemlld
    @charlottemlld 13 дней назад

    Oh the cheerleading versus the I don't feel good linked to activities is so good !!

  • @catwoman3247
    @catwoman3247 21 день назад +1

    Congratulations you have got 2 millions 🎊💖❤️🌟

  • @rwossie
    @rwossie 21 день назад +1

    perfect timing!!!!

  • @WaffleWaffle33
    @WaffleWaffle33 21 день назад +2

    I needed this thank you- I love this vid and all your others! ❤

  • @ItisJasmine27
    @ItisJasmine27 20 дней назад +1

    Happy new year! ❤

  • @ppramanik5775
    @ppramanik5775 21 день назад +1

    Please do add a summary of the main points (like what to do & what to avoid) at the end of your videos. It will be easier for our brain to process all the information you teach in your videos.
    BTW, I am a regular viewer of your videos & I genuinely love them. Thank you, Sis, for every amazing video you have provided us throughout this year.
    Happy New Year in advance! Keep blessed, keep smiling ❤ (Today 31.12.24 7:46 PM; India)

  • @Dramawatchereurope
    @Dramawatchereurope 21 день назад +2

    I also have the problem of always wanting to change and plan, but then don't do the actions so nothing changes 😅

  • @cnbluemotional_
    @cnbluemotional_ 21 день назад +1

    This is super useful, tysm girly❤

  • @thanhhanguyen2501
    @thanhhanguyen2501 11 дней назад

    This video is super super super helpful to me. I watch this video and and it's like you can relate to me. Your past is who I am right now. I feel so bad, I don't wanna do anything, just spend a whole day doomscrolling. Your video is different from the others, I mean your advice because I feel it's much more realistic the ones I usually catch up with on social media. Any, thank you so much ♥♥♥

  • @Tenu225
    @Tenu225 21 день назад +1

    Thank your best advice Its helpful for everyone ❤

  • @NadNe.
    @NadNe. 21 день назад +6

    Good morning ☀️ (it’s 8:09am here) I hope you all have a nice New year “party” today in the evening 🎉

  • @moonsmagic3843
    @moonsmagic3843 21 день назад +1

    The timing has never been perfect ❤❤

  • @YashikaModani
    @YashikaModani 21 день назад +3

    Your vids are amazing 🎀
    Love your vids ❤

  • @ashhh713
    @ashhh713 21 день назад +5

    20:00 this is so me rn...my mom is actually soo tired of me over-researching everything but not actually doing anything and feeling absolutely shitty afterwards since im not on the same level on day1 as people who started it years ago (which makes like no dang sense ngl)

  • @VasilisDeerlington
    @VasilisDeerlington 21 день назад +2

    Yay!! I love your videos!!

  • @dharitri-XD
    @dharitri-XD 21 день назад +2

    Would be a dream if Estella commented. Hey, if you read this Study to Success, know that youre videos have inspired me to be a better version of my past self! Ty!

    • @StudyToSuccess
      @StudyToSuccess  21 день назад +1

      I’m so glad to hear that, and thank YOU for taking the time to watch and comment and try out the tips I put in my videos!!🥰🫶

    • @dharitri-XD
      @dharitri-XD 21 день назад

      Ty for replying

  • @aurora94931
    @aurora94931 21 день назад +3

    Let's not!! Happy New Year Estella!!✨🩷

  • @EmmaChew.
    @EmmaChew. 21 день назад +5

    First! Your videos always motivate me to do better ❤

    • @StudyToSuccess
      @StudyToSuccess  21 день назад

      Aww yay I'm so glad - thank you for watching!!🥰

  • @LolasLife-b1x
    @LolasLife-b1x 13 дней назад

    Can you do more morning routines like you used to! I loved them they made me feel so productive and motivated. I look up to you so much and i wanna be like you. Please!

  • @RealItInWithReidCox
    @RealItInWithReidCox 21 день назад

    Yes! Ready to reach our full potential in 2025!

  • @nhfatini1485
    @nhfatini1485 21 день назад +3

    Thanks for the new video❤❤❤

  • @Saritasawsan
    @Saritasawsan 21 день назад +3

    Love from Bangladesh 🇧🇩

  • @ThrishikthaT
    @ThrishikthaT 21 день назад +2

    Tysmm❤❤ love ur vids❤❤😊😊

  • @Nini-m2x
    @Nini-m2x 21 день назад +1

    Estella here to save my year again

  • @live_life_beautifully198
    @live_life_beautifully198 21 день назад +3

    I ran to this video ❤

  • @Nicole-zk7ym
    @Nicole-zk7ym 18 дней назад +1

    Lol the mug prop got me! 🤣

  • @rosariomsoley
    @rosariomsoley 7 дней назад

    Gaaaaaaaaaaaaah, absolutely adored this. Thank you SO so much. Definitely insightful 🤗 Amazing, thanks!!

  • @Dwuru
    @Dwuru 19 дней назад +2

    0:48 TYING YOU TO MEEEEEEE OOOHH

  • @siennabirchgarden
    @siennabirchgarden 21 день назад +2

    I really got called out there in the first 30 secs lol (luv ur vids

  • @Imcoquette88131
    @Imcoquette88131 21 день назад +3

    Love this channel soo much❤

  • @purbitasaha930
    @purbitasaha930 21 день назад +2

    Absolutely loved the video! Resonated with the starting talk so much ❤

  • @DhammikaHerath-b1d
    @DhammikaHerath-b1d 21 день назад +2

    Love from Sri Lanka

  • @MasoumehRoseberry
    @MasoumehRoseberry 21 день назад +2

    Me watching this after my exam. Thx sweety

  • @_Nik_ky
    @_Nik_ky 21 день назад +2

    FACE REVEAL YAY SO PRETTY. HAPPY NEW YEAR EVE

  • @mf__stardust
    @mf__stardust 21 день назад +2

    Loveee ittt❤❤❤

  • @pinkflower5220
    @pinkflower5220 21 день назад +2

    This kind of reminds me of law of assumption. Especially with the letting go of negatively part