Omg 😢I’m a scorp sun cap moon and I have been dealing with a cancer since 2018 ! A nightmare Be careful with this sign ! Emotional Manipulation , cry babies , mommas boy , sad souls , can be physically abusive , financial manipulation,womanizing, omg I can go on…. 🔫🔪💸 Cancers can be a 💎🌹 but they must do shadow work and heal from their past
Oooh….welllllll this explains my shadowy side. Moon in Cancer 🙋🏼♀️ Ouch. But also 100% accurate. I have fought and wrestled so deeply with my darkness and I feel called out and also so validated. My moon is absolutely why I have struggled with myself and my faults. Thank you for this cold hard truth.
Thank you..all my life I thought I was the victim of everyone on my path but nooooo I am the problem..part of me I feel proud of my dark side...I will embrace it to do the changes I must,,
But hey once you know you know, most dont want to know or dont have the bandwitch for real deep self reflection.. So your light years ahead of the game!
@@evanauli8092 Yes, and many of them are super dangerous as they go for roles like lawyers so that they can get bassically a licence to steal and manipulate as they are MASTERS AT IT and many of them are totally bi polar or on the psycopathy mcavillan scale or both. Can be super dangerous, Cancers hide things and lie like a Gemini, living double agent lifes. Many of them are closeted and selfish wasting their wifes life away and justifying it if they can provide for the family, sadly a family and kids that they know they should not of had in the first place.
As a Cancer, I’ve never heard anyone describe us so well . Lol I know all of these things about me so I constantly work on any of the negative traits that exist. You were on point on a lot of these things. Luckily I am an Aquarius moon so I think it gives me a balance.
Nice! I also have moon in aquarius. I dont really feel like I relate to a lot of this stuff though. The thing I do identify with is that it does take me a while to work through the end of a relationship/friendship, but it's because I tend to blame myself for the end of things and I want to learn from them, so I'll look at it until I learn what I need to. I hate things - describe myself as more of a minimalist and my style is "clean, simple." I hate being center of attention. My husband is Sag. I am intuitive...sometimes. everyone tells me they know exactly where they stand with me. Most of my chart is Gemini, Sag and Libra though. I only have Cancer as my sun sign.
Yeah 😅 I felt the same way was pretty much on point with everything and I'm not into astrology when I ask people if they are they get all offended they come back with "I deal in reality" b**** this is reality how can someone dictate your personality and tell you eight things out of 10 that are true and you still not believe.. I tell then I can't help the way I am the Stars dictate my personality, ( to a certain extant)
Very good truth video, my moon is in Cancer and what you said about Cancer is very true. Not letting go has definitely hurt me a lot in my life, it’s unhealthy. This video made me cry, I appreciate you not sugar coating this entire topic and saying it like it is!
@@YOCOSMINMAX16 Lol Nah I’m a Libra rising, which means I’m about bringing light into the darkness, wanting balance/neutrality, standing up for those who are being bullied and I can be very polite too. 😉 🙂
This is my EX-HUSBAND, and I'm an Aries Gemini moon! 😅 I was his mom more than his partner. And everything was my fault and blamed on me that went wrong. His relationship with his mother was exhausting as well. He was a crier and anxious. Our bond was codependent and toxic in the younger years that caught up to us both. We both did love scary movies. He can cook. He is commutative. I did appreciate but loathe at times the depth of emotions. What a 13-year ride. 🙃
This is SO SO true. They have an expectation of people; me I was married to a Cancer, and my child is a Cancer; their egos were so fragile "I did some human thing that pissed them off",. By the time I figured out that they were angry they had almost destroyed me. Coming in late, stealing, lying, cheating, undermining, then stand back and wait for you to address them so that they can gain any trust just to intentionally F you around. After all that the husband got another woman pregnant and left. Ladies be careful ❤. I've dated other signs but Cancers, are like psychological monsters, just run!!!whew🔥🔥 had to come back and say yes!!! He was paying the bills late because he thought that it would undermine me leaving; to find a residence but you have a bad history paying rent on time. I stayed for a while and took my payments to the office but in the interim he was staying out over night, calling women in front of my face 😂😂😂😂 I just kept working, saving to move. Benadryl works too if you need it. I paid for the devorce. I'm clean, safe and happy, took 3 years to get balanced LADIES NEVER EVER GIVE UP❤
Yes, if you’re dealing with a Cancer, just a message to never give up hope. I have had two women that I know of one disappeared back in 2013 she was trying to get away from a psychotic cancer man, I think she went into police hdining to escape him and the other woman sadly killed herself in the divorce leaving two kids behind. The Cancer was doing the same thing you actually just mentioned here. He would use money to trap and imprison her. So that it is easier to rationalise to himself that you "Owe him" mentality and thus making it harder to for anyone to leave, if you’re not working, as they insist that you should stay home and then you raise their kids, and they will have multiple lovers and families going on all around town. Or differnet states. Or they have men/little boys they play with like dolls and toys that they use on the side... As the gays are easier to control/ manipulate and will be inammered by their Daddy archetypal charm. Also no risk of preganacy with them. Yes, their mood changes like clouds with in second of minutes, like the sky and then they get mad that somehow telepathically you should of known what mood their in. They HATE BEING CALLED OUT on their behaviour and the moment you do they will gaslight you and or fake apologise to you, to pull you can in and regain your trust only to then do it again and again on a loop.. And then punish you for daring to tell them how they impacted you based on how they treated you. Much like Gemini if they are smart, they surround themselves with things that make the feel safe. Like law or HR, POWER.. So that they can control things around them and manipulate outcomes under the guise of “I’m just doing my job and representing my client”... Or they become psychologists. Or they like to beome the moral face of the business, and they LOVE virtual signalling so working in some kind of “Non for profit” business is also common with the cancers so that they appear to be charitable and seen as morally good to the outside world… Even when they are the complete opposite or their external projection and it’s just yet another place for the crab to hide behind.
My mom and husband are both cancers. I realised only recently that I shouldn't share with them my enthusiasm about anything, I shouldn't even ask advices from them because they always, always!, say something negative,discouraging, there is always a 'yes, but...'. It's like it's painful for them to see someone being positive about a project or a relationship... They will bring out something you've never thought about and you begin to have doubts... To the point that I had to warm my mum's best friend not to share with her her plan to avoid being discouraged. I hear you when you talk about the analogy of the cancer sucking out life and changing a person's internal way of functioning... That's so subtle and damaging.
The ‘yes, but (negative comment)’ is a picture inside of a cancers mind. It’s not so much, at least for me, to be negative, but a warning to be cautious in what you do, always measuring the ups and downs, but the downs seem to have more power over the mind, because the negative generally outweighs the positive consequence. If that makes sense.
@@Brent-br1dm thank you for taking time to explain this. In my case, I don't feel caution but rather a reaction to optimism, to enthusiasm... And not only with me, with others too. I hope it is just in my case. It is good to be cautious, but in a constructive way. Remind me the weak points of my project but don't break my positivity along the way.
@@babamoughal5692 I'm not Brent, but I can say this for myself, as a Cancer (Sun and moon). I am pretty cautious and sometimes I imagine the worst case scenario and warn about it. There is no hidden agenda, at least with me. I just want to help. If I intend to hurt, I would accompany it with a passive-aggressive comment about you, or try to demoralize you. I guess it depends on the Cancer, low functioning ones can be very hurtful. For example if you say: Let's go outside and have a walk on the neighborhood!! Me: Yes but... it may rain, we should take our umbrellas One thing that drives me mad, is when people dismiss me AND (please note the AND) mocks me about being negative. Oh boy, that gets me in full sarcasm/passive-aggressive mood. And better pray that the things I said doesn't happen, my "I told you so" replies always enrage whoever receive them. I tell them with the full intend of hurting. But in your case, I don't think your husband or mom say that to hurt you, unless, they accompany that with demeaning or hurtful comments. I cannot speak for your husband or mom, you know them better than I do. If they want to really hurt you, I guess there are better opportunities for that.
@@metalfenix I hear you when you they this is caution, without hidden agenda. I don't feel hidden agenda to be honest. I rather feel a sense of negativity that they need to 'share', like they see what can go wrong and they need others to see it too (in my case, i cannot talk about you of course). I am sure that sometimes it comes from a very good intention but the person may not receiveit this way. Let me give you an example. My brother called my mum to annonce that he passed his exams and he is now officially a physiotherapist. The answer :'congratulation, have you taken an insurance ?', 'not yet, i will soon', 'hurry because what will you do if you break the neck of a patient ?...' I don't know how many times i get this kind of answer. You were talking about people mocking you. I don't mock my mum or my husband but take my distance. My brothers sometimes react, like me, with irritation to this kind of answer. And we often get the answer 'there's a reality'. As for the passive aggressive kind of communication i am so tired of it, it's like i never know what the person has to say. I loose patience and kindness when this kind of behaviour occurs. And as a sag i have to control myself not to cut deep. Thank you for giving me your point of view. I have my moon in Libra, i am able to understand a different way of thinking than mine. But i think i'll need to understand more deeply those behaviours to be able to connect to cancers. Nowadays i just feel like going far from them to protect my inner peace.
Don't believe in these crap signs, they're designed to fall within your set of traits. Take a peek at the other signs, you'll find out that you've something come to them. Believing them will delusionally force you along that matrix. You should know that humans are highly diverse and these astrological signs have no scientific proof.
If someone hurts you so badly, you maybe would, I didn’t used to tap in to the shadow elements so much until I was really hurt by multiple people in quick succession, now it feels like my trust is entirely burnt and I’ve been a full scale whiney little bitch about it, and acted out accordingly, I’m not a fan of my toxic traits but yet here they are now, and they’re not going away any time soon it feels like 😢
I’m a Cancer Rising the most Cancer then anything.. It’s a hard placement to have and no one feels the changes in the moon like us Cancer Rising people.
My husband of 25 years is a Gemini Sun and a Cancer moon. I am a November 30th Sagittarius. Two of my best friends of over 30 years are July Cancers. July 9th and July 21st. I love them both like brothers. I am very frank and direct. I also get along well with Scorpios especially those born November 18th. Its like when they see me, they can see inside my soul. Scorpios are passionate, loyal and beautiful people. I am very loyal as well. Thank you for your time and information.
Please no not in death, my mom is a weed whacker i learned to distrust when i was 3. She still snaps and such a munchhausen by proxy i was fortunate my pediatrican kept her in line somewhat. She had a career and starved us so my sister and i and her second husband cook. She has a great man who had awesome boys, my brothers it neutralized and i locked the past in a dead tree which is decomposing my poison away. Tantrums and duplicity and i live a 12 hour drive away minimum but i call every sunday and love her anyway i know where it comes from in my family tree to be prairie harsh. Love you insight, thank you for these videos
Study of psychology is definitely a passion of mines I have literally diagnosed my brother with ADHD and a couple more family members including my mother with schizophrenic/schizoaffective I myself suffer from intense anxiety. And major depression I am one of a few that knows very much who I am and what I am capable of and the only thing that makes me insecure or codependent as some will say is my extreme sensitivity other than that i think very highly of myself I'm heavily In tuned with my emotions very aware of mine surrounding I wouldn't say I'm manipulative but being that I am grounded in the emotional realm I can get or make someone do as I please. It's kind of the dark side/shadow side of my nature I honestly choose to be good and do good I want to nurture I want to care I wanna Cater I need to be needed it's a part of my existence being that I am the mother of the zodiac.and When that doesn't go as planned then yes all hell breaks loose honestly I become down right moody, painfully selfish, vindictive, aggressively violent which is why I chose to keep to myself and stick to myself you don't catch many who choose to be an introvert but for me self imposed isolation for the sake of others and to maintain my freedom is mandatory especially for the ungrateful those who I deem unworthy of my affection and attention you only have one time to show me your unappreciative and untrustworthy after that your better off dead figuratively and literally that's why I'm social selective I can't just exchange energy with just anyone or everyone you have to prove indefinitely you deserve my love and presence
"Hoarder's" that's just one aspect movie's horror "they love that shit". Don't like change "Intimacy " into-me-i see that one struck a chord and your write about recommending against being promiscuous, I've only been in a few relationships and I'm all fucked up from baggage from the past to the point where I contemplated killing these people. I agree that we are dangerous in the sense that we can't control our emotions your video was very enlightening True what was said about mother knowing instinctively the mother's only one that can love you unconditionally And needing to be mothered by I agree about letting shit go not living in the past and holding grudges but it's easier said than done letting it go I believe that's key. You're right don't lead a cancer on or fuck with their head.
Yes never lead a cacer on, on problem is that they can be hot and cold and lead others on. I have learnt the hard way with this sign, would have to see where your moon and rising is. And thank you for finding my channel and leaving this kind comment.
As a Cancer and one who is Pagan and into Astrology I was like wow love the brutal honesty. Glad you found a Cancer you trust because we are not all bad 😅
Don't believe in these crap signs, they're designed to fall within your set of traits. Take a peek at the other signs, you'll find out that you've something come to them. Believing them will delusionally force you along that matrix. You should know that humans are highly diverse and these astrological signs have no scientific proof. This is a marketing Holocaust.
@@TheElGoliathTarotDeck You just nailed it. And I hate how strong are emotions is and knowing and understanding what is in people’s mind as soon as we see them. This can be a very good thing if not use to manipulate people. I am aware about cancers dark sides and being negative about everything is one of the things is so annoying. Hopefully I find a solution to work around these dark sides of cancer sign.
Excellent video once again on cancer. You couldn’t be further from the truth quite familiar with this behavior unfortunately for me, too late to avoid dealing with this for years. Wish I knew this a long time ago. Does this also apply to cancer rising (vedic) as well? Thank you
Brilliant and insightful video, my rising or ascendant is in cancer, what ever it is at conception, I originally listened to this because a cancer woman has asked me to marry her, she's very nice but something is telling me to be careful, but after this video, I realize how much the ascendant has effected my life, not enough room to elaborate, thankyou for your video
Thank you for sharing this with me , ur right let things go move .and I never didn't get the love I need it from my mother. She was working in the shop too much and she wasn't around me and my brothers like that but I have a half sister I'm not really close with her cuz she didn't live in the home with me and my two brothers but like you said just let it go just move on let It Go don't live in the past I had to do that with a lot of change when I was working being a custodian we had so many different custodians I had to
I am a cancer and some of this resonates with me but at the same time I know cancers like this so you are 1000% right 7/15 is me I have to learn to let things go that's my problem and as far as jealousy yes I use to be when I was younger but I got older and wiser so I learned to let that side of me go and also insecurities use to get the best of me but I still am learning to deal with it as well I'm proud myself for healing and moving forward towards my future🥰💯🙌🏾🫶🏾💪🏾🙏🏽👏🏾☝🏾
Don't believe in these crap signs, they're designed to fall within your set of traits. Take a peek at the other signs, you'll find out that you've something come to them. Believing them will delusionally force you along that matrix. You should know that humans are highly diverse and these astrological signs have no scientific proof. This is a marketing Holocaust.
I've had an epiphany when I was a little girl, I knew I was able to harm, had the means to it : this psychology thingy, was always amazed by people and I love humanity, to listen, being in an abusive home taught me to observe a lot as a survival mechanism so I look "too paranoid" for many people when I say without any proof "I don't like this person", so I'm "too harsh" , "too judgemental" until they come back to me and say that I was right. So, as a child I said to myself (or was it a voice?) : "you'll be a good person". And I am. You're right about my mother, I'd never allow someone to mistreat her and I'm more driven by guilt towards her because my father was (and still is) a violent piece of shit, not because I have much in common with her. That's why I stay away from my family, not because I was thrown out or anything like that. My brother sees me as his personal monthly, sometimes daily emergency fund, not as a human being so I decided that this year, 2024, will be the year where that dark side of mine that I discarded will go back. A cancer (as it seems, was never into this horoscope stuff) is too family oriented and I'll bleed myself if needed for people that I love, but I won't harm, I just disappear when too much is too much. I don't have compassion for people I dislike (working on this compassion thing) and I have a vindictive temperament but I decided a long time ago that I won't use it. However, I keep a predatory stance around those who want to screw me (and my lack of compassion towards them help), I'll help them keep harming me until they're close enough to my reach (and enough evidence to burn them) and I crush them, so as long as people who harm me don't take my non-response as an enabling, they'll be fine. Sorry for the long comment but I hope that people will understand that as long as they don't harm a cancer too much (the "botteling up" is real), we're very emotional and we give the utmost care to people we love unlike no one else.
Cancer moon here. Juat learning about this placement. A lot of what you said really resonates ❤. I think my Cancer Moon traits started manifesting more as i got older, or maybe ive just become more aware. I have a shitty relationship with my mom. Irrational fears are a staple in my life so much that i have manifested health anxiety. Im afraid of almost everything smh.
I’m a cancer ♋️ and don’t hide my self I can’t care less about what others think about me … either you like how I’m or don’t in my presence lol 😂and yes I done shadow self so I know myself well
I would really enjoy a video about the game changer things for each sun sign. Like you said for cancers, "letting go" is what can take them to their light sided journey
Yes, I feel that I cover all the things that the signs need to get over. Leo, get over themselves. Cancer, get over their past emotions Gem, get over their internal mind games and lack of self-identity etc. Virgo, get over their inner critic and idolised self-perfection. Sag, get over their dogmatic way of being and learn discipline creates their freedom. Caps, learn to feel emotions and get into the human experience. Libra learn to stop playing both sides and stop people pleasing and living in barbie land. Taurus, get over materiality and be flexible. Pisces, to commit to reality and to see what is real and what is illusion. Aries, to quieten their inner fire and harness it into things that have a cause and to learn others exist outside of their own needs. Scorpio, to not be so hateful, vengeful, controlling and to stop smothering others. To learn to set things free if they love them not keep others safe from everything but themselves.
My grandmother was a cancer and now my daughter, and when you say they can't come at you direct wow , I mean my lil is only three but I'm seeing so many of the same habits ideo syncrocies. Have you noticed that when cancers get really really upset like have a big argument, that they start retching afterwards???
Being married to a cancer for 31 years ,no they don’t like being alone ,they absolutely need attention ( supply,validation,audience) or their not motivated ,they r so secretive they take intimacy as intrusion,,lol they r the wounded child in the zodiac,,they never do self help an are forever a toddler ,they don’t like flings they like adoration but there not into people ,they want people to be into them ,like a covert ,you have to be into them ,they have no deep relationships because they would have to be interested in the other ,an they are not lol ,they have alooooot of childhood wounds to heal ☀️
I've heard people say too aries and cancer same. Hard shell sweet inside. Vindictive if they don't get their way. Safe place to land. Plus lots of aries men I know are mommas boys.
I had a very hard time growing up with my cancer mother. Her moon is in Capricorn. We had a very beautiful home always. She was an interior designer and we had a lot of antiques that her and my father would restore. My Aries father felt very put down by my mother. It's strange that he beat the tar out of us kids, but never her. I've had every right to hate her for not protecting her kids, but I can't. She's still my mom. Her relationship with her mother was almost non-existent and I feel sorry for how she was abandoned by both her parents really. Her mom was very sick with schizophrenia and in a hospital often so my mom stayed at the funeral home with her aunt and uncle from a young age and odd things went on there too. They made her go into the basement at night where the bodies were to turn off all the lights and her uncle ran around naked in front of her. I can't help but feel sorry for her, but you nailed a lot in this video. She had a great relationship with my sisters, but I was like a foreigner to her. I suppose being a little aquarian I was just too much for her to get. She still doesn't get me. It's still a very odd relationship. We write daily, but haven't spoken on the phone in years. I guess it's the only way we could get it to work. It was crazy how she just knew things like she had eyes in the back of her head. It was tough to pull anything over on her. She's sensitive, but more about herself than other ppl. She kinda lacks compassion, but I still love the old bitch 😂
Any other Cancers hate waiting for stuff ? Personally, I’d rather just pay someone to do it, if I’m able…and learning takes too long, I just be able to already know this stuff, how long is it going to take, I always wonder, for me to know how to do this well enough so I don’t have to ask anybody😕What’s that’s about ?? Any other Cancerians feel that way, about waiting for stuff?
I'm a gem I get why people don't like us but I knew about cancers ever since I was a teenager I knew something was up I had 4 cancer friends and several cancer I've dated some briefly. I won't lie I like to hurt them but as I grown up I learn to be cordial n keep my distance
So, I have my Sun in Aquarius and I like a Cancer guy. HAHAHAHA. My Lilith is in Cancer. My Venus is in Aries and his in GEMINI. My moon is in Libra, his in Virgo. What are the chances =))
There are two cancers, the younger one and the mature cancerian. Unfortunately cancer doesn’t do well with others signs( except just a few) because we can read your soul and it feels horrible when you are making love with a block of ice! And that’s the big problem that the majority of the zodiac signs are very superficial people. Some cancerians are not aware of what they are capable of. Having a sexual relationship with cancer is like to feel ascending to heaven if … if you have the right cosmic connection. For cancer is a waste of time and energy to be with the wrong person. As a cancer I learned my lesson and I’m aware of my potential. And yes, when I person cross the door I already read his mind and that’s something we can do since we are little. That’s why a lot of cancerian children see dark souls and they don’t get along to easy. We are sensitive because we can feel those things that others don’t not because we are cry babies. Pleople usually miss understand what sensitive means. We are one of the most resilient signs because we are built in to be leaders to be mothers.
Damn.. thats only one so far that didn't resonate except the few tiny bits of light... but also it said something about the damaging person so maybe thats colored things a bit more.... I need to reflect a bit because this is brand new perspective and never heard of any of that dark kind of power and never thought about it.... want to make sure im not doing any of that shit unconsciously.... Also i hope you meet more kinder cancerians to balance out that damaging experience.... Im only remembering two at the moment and both felt easy and warm and kind... but who knows.... Thanks for this perspective because its always good to be aware of these possibilities... its fuckimg my head up a little but thats helpful....
yes I have a dark side of cancer and cancer in love (venus) series on here as well, would highly recommend you check out those ones, after all these years the two signs I stay clear of are Cancer and Gemini and if its a cusp of those to (AVOID) At all costs...
@TheElGoliathTarotDeck yeah last night I started listening to the "light side" one right after this and just the first few minutes of the descriptions I welled up because it was maybe the most validating descriptions ive ever heard....... not an easy existence being so extremely sensitive.. and "raised" by three cluster bs with ZERO empathy..... and sadistic... id have been better off in alot of ways if id become a monster too but for whatever reasons the core of me stayed kind..... not easy existence that way.... and ive finally been developing all of the things needed to protect my self....... another reason these "dark side" perspectives are helpful....... it's important to know the potentials and strengths etc we all have.. so we can develop them into (healthy helpful) strengths..... to be able to protect and preserve etc the soft things..... .... And the gemini cancer thing is fascinating... i have gemini rising and that cancer moon... getting interesting perspectives here.... Thank you.. again.
Don't believe in these crap signs, they're designed to fall within your set of traits. Take a peek at the other signs, you'll find out that you've something come to them. Believing them will delusionally force you along that matrix. You should know that humans are highly diverse and these astrological signs have no scientific proof. This is a marketing Holocaust.
Don't believe in these crap signs, they're designed to fall within your set of traits. Take a peek at the other signs, you'll find out that you've something come to them. Believing them will delusionally force you along that matrix. You should know that humans are highly diverse and these astrological signs have no scientific proof. This is a marketing Holocaust.
Cancer sun,moon and mars. Scorpio rising🤚🏽I wanted to give some self petty, funny portrait about us but u & I already know😂😂 so I choose the right hand path. To be honest I used to be scared of me at some points now I’m who I am. Beyond good and evil. Keep cooking bro, I love ur perception so far. Catch u in Scorpio video.
I love when they say that word "Offened" A very common line I here cancerians say all the time not just to me but others in general chats. Starting lines off with sentences like... I"m so offended or my personal favourite of all time "How dare you". In this case yes how dare me and no nothing can hurt us if it isnt true.
Heh, I was going to answer in the dark cancer vid, but this is one is... hard, but I feel it honest. So many points apply... and some others don't apply, but shadow work begins somewhere, right? Out of curiosity I looked online and it seems I am Cancer Sun, Cancer Moon, Gemini Rising. Yeah, the purest form of this clusterf***k sign. I'm gonna break it down in sections: 1) Emotions. I have a pretty low emotional intelligence. One of the things I learned as a kid, is that man should not show any emotions, emotions, feelings and all that crap are for women (Courtesy of my dark side Virgo dad, but I don't blame him... I actually, embraced that, at the end I chose to be that way). So I build this... stoic exterior, this shell, where I don't express emotions at all, and whenever my emotional rollercoaster begins, I just bottle it and continue as if it never happened. The bad thing is, they happened. I became what you'd call, an emotional time bomb. Tic, toc, tic, toc... until I wake up one morning, someone sees me wrong, and BAM, I go on rage mode, with someone who probably doesn't even deserve it. It also made me even more depressive (add some other trauma crap, like my sexual closet and inner homophobia, but I'm not getting into it). It really got bad, I just went in a never ending cycle of work-going home-play videogames/watch TV-sleep for more than 10 years. No relationships, no friends, no anything, I just didn't want to do anything with the world. Until this year, where I took care of my own depression, I've found a way to deal with it, and in doing so, I... started to accept myself more? I am what I am. Since I started dealing with my own sadness, and guilt... what about the others? rage in particular, I'm taking your advice and let it go (but taking notes of the offender. Oh yeah, he/she will hear about it later), and, for once, not repeat what my dad do, and express my emotions. I can count with the fingers of my hand the times I hugged and said "I love you" to someone (like my mom or sister). I'm aloof and distant, and I shouldn't be this way. I'm repeating what my father does. I remember commenting in your Dark side Gemini vid how Gemini should not expect others to be psychic, but I should apply myself that recommendation. People cannot guess WTF I'm feeling, especially someone who tries actively to hide them. 2) Wow, that was long, I promise to write less. Secrets, yeah, I tend to keep things to myself. My sexual closet? I maintained it for +30 years. Even though I never dated a girl or have a relationship with them (moral compass here. I respect women a lot, and I can't start this web of lies) but it also made more apparent "my secret". Still, yeah... I became the favorite unpack project of my Gemini mother... but I only came out after 30 years. Ah, and regarding secrets... I live with the rule of "you ___ to me, I give you____" and also the reverse. If I want my secrets respected, I don't ask yours. I never ask about with whom you were last night, so I get pretty defensive when people asked me those things, or about my sexuality. I always change the subject, but if they insist, I become hostile or passive aggressive, telling them to F**k off. If people trust me with a secret you can be damn sure I'll keep it to the grave. 3) Stalkers: Nope, if you respect my intimacy, I will respect yours. I don't stalk and gossip through social networks. Unless you tried to spy on me, if I know that... yes, I enter in dark cancer stalker mode. But overall, no, stalking takes a lot of energy and I'm not up to that. It's useless. 4) Yeah, it's a HUGE red flag when a cancer does not have a good relationship with any of the parents. I have a broken relationship with my father, but also a good one with my mother. I guess I would be nasty if I didn't had it. That woman taught me all my moral principles. 5) Yes, I tend to live in the past, and also a hoarder? One of the thing I really must work, if I expect to try and find a boyfriend. 6) Financially, It's true that I keep a tiny part of my earnings to myself But I don't like to have debts to anyone. And yes, I am a cheapskate but I'm aware of it. 7) Another aspect that many ex-coworkers, even friends when I was at the University or family point out continuously: I'm extremely pessimistic, like, over the charts. It's something that I try to get under control but is so deeply ingrained in me, that I kinda sound fake to myself when I try to be optimistic. I have the strange behavior, of thinking on eternal plan Bs in case something goes wrong with whatever I'm doing. Sometimes I just stop and don't even bother (happened with me getting out of the closet) 8) Manipulation: Guilty of doing that sometimes, but I actively try to minimize it. I was kind of aware of this even before I got deeper into the dark cancer traits. 9) Yes I hold grudges and I'm vindictive. That's a trait I'm NOT going to even consider to alter or work, people will get what they deserve. So, I'll leave it here. Maybe I'm a dark cancer, but I'm willing to do the work. I started really late in my life, but I won't even entertain the thought, because I would end up dwelling in the past with those damaging "what if...". Each time I go with a "What if I have done ____" thought I hurt myself. I don't want to go there. Not anymore.
Yes just reading all this now, yes Cancer with any level of gemini is EXTREAMLY DANGEROUS to themselves but especially to others, Basically Bi polar in the cancer meets the borderline in the Gemini. Even people born on this cusp will be SCARY. The problem is the Cancer will want to build a world with someone and the Gemini will want to abandon that world for another in a matter of days, hours or months. So they Love Bomb then pull away and Ghost. Causing Karmic debt that later comes back on them resulting in them being alone if they cant master their shadow and sit with it and go "Yeah theres that thing that I do again".. Observe it and befriend it after chasing that cord back to the wall.
@@TheElGoliathTarotDeck I just saw your avoidant attacher vid... it's scary how I have the potential to do such damage, and it's a horrible, horrible thing to do to anyone. It's good to be aware of it. Fortunately, due to my self-isolation I haven't hurt somebody, and with this knowledge, I'll make sure I never will. I have to be wary of the signs too, because I might meet one like that someday. Thank you for your vids man, they help for self-reflection for many people, who otherwise could be nasty or extremely dysfunctional. I know I could be.
@@metalfenix Your welcome yes knowing the self is hard but its the best thing we can do for ourselves. Its Okay to express how we feel butg we have to be consistant with it when it comes to others emotions and ghosting is the most damaging thing a cancer can be as they go on deep, and the other person is made to feel worthless like a toy or a doll that they play with when its convientant for the cancer, just a power play of sorts.
@@TheElGoliathTarotDeck That explains why people feel so strongly against Cancers... hell, you knew many dysfunctional crabs along your life. I still am a low functioning crab, in my case, by omission. I never liked my sign, so what was my reaction? astrology sucks, I don't believe in that crap. And bam, kept it under the rug, while acting as if the frigging emotion-fest I have doesn't exist. I thought Cancer women would be better than us men, because women are supposed to deal better with emotions. Again, it seems I was wrong, but I never met a Cancer woman. At most, I knew a cousin (male) that was born the exact day I had (June, 24) and he's very much like me, and a good dude all along. Sometimes I was jealous of him seeing my mom talking so highly of him... but well, you know, that's neurotic crab in action. Always avoiding, disowning or deflecting, just like I did with my sexuality, but I'll leave a more in depth response on your dangers of coming out vid. That one, kept me awake yesterday, brought my old self exactly 11 months ago. It hurts because it's true. And I was just reading my natal chart yesterday, everything is all over the place: Mercury in Cancer, Venus in Gemini, Jupiter in Leo, Mars in Taurus, Saturn in Virgo (FREAKING VIRGO!!! Why it doesn't leave me alone????), Uranus in Scorpio, Neptune in Sag and Pluto in Libra (Another crazy sign). As I've said, I don't get the half of it, but it seems I'm like a Franken-crab getting the worst aspect of the other signs, especially the crazy Gemini. By the way, one curious bit: In your dark side vid you mentioned how we cross arms before getting on the offensive. That's a thing I always do. I was like, "How the f**k does he know?". I hope more cancers see this vid, they may get defensive with your dark side one but this vid... cannot be denied. The title as the Hard Cold Truth stands true.
It is so uncomfortable listening to you talk about cancer. Everytime I think "I'm not like think" I also think of how I saw that potential in my heart and actively chose not to be that person. My mom is an Aquarius sun and Cancer moon and shows sooooo many onf the toxic traits you listed about cancer. We do not have a good relationship, I saw how she treated people that cared about her and when I recognized the potential for those traits in myself I put the work in to not be that person, back then I didn't know it was called shadow work. That being said I also struggle not to project my mom trauma onto my husband. We both know when I am doing it, he knows I am working through that and loves me enough to call me out. When he says something that sends me back to how my mom use to make me feel, the best healing comes when we both openingly recognize that he is not my mom and does not have the same intent she did when he says what he says. I have come a long way in that area. I was talking to my sister last night and realized my mom was the first person I ever drew a boundary with. The advise about cancer not being promiscuous is soooo good! Please keep the honestly coming. I am straight forward cancer and am here for a clear mirror to reflect in!
This is beautiful to read, and thank you, yeah we are all mirrors to each other in the good and destructive and hurtful ways as well, I learn so much from others in my family and life about what not to do, so I can check my self when I'm behaving that way. Becuse the idea of doing that to someone else is terrifying to me becuase I see what they did to me the same way. And I know that lack of self awarness all catched up with people in the later years.
Don't believe in these crap signs, they're designed to fall within your set of traits. Take a peek at the other signs, you'll find out that you've something come to them. Believing them will delusionally force you along that matrix. You should know that humans are highly diverse and these astrological signs have no scientific proof. This is a marketing Holocaust.
And I don't see you as a dark Cancerian and yes you are my friend, well I consider you to be, ; ) I hope that things are going well for you and this message finds you well.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 as a Cancer gay guy. Our negative, 😈😈😈😈😈😈😈... We are unapologetic, unremorseful, we move by time, but we will not take sadness by ourselves, if someone caused it then we bring them down with us. We play dumb, 😳😳😳, but play games nicely 🔪🔪🍴🍴🍴🔪🔪🍴. I have a Libra boyfriend. He so far very patient about me, my personality, my dark sides made him cry. 😈😈😈🤣🤣🤣😈😈😈😈😈👺👺👺👺 We play nice and we are kind with our enemies
Yes that all makes sence, much like a scorpio, the sting nver fades for a cancer. If a cancer is a narc and their mask is ripped off and they are exposed they are prone to ending their own lives, rather then face that their whole life was just them mirroring others to fit in and hide.
Don't believe in these crap signs, they're designed to fall within your set of traits. Take a peek at the other signs, you'll find out that you've something come to them. Believing them will delusionally force you along that matrix. You should know that humans are highly diverse and these astrological signs have no scientific proof. This is a marketing Holocaust.
Don't believe in these crap signs, they're designed to fall within your set of traits. Take a peek at the other signs, you'll find out that you've something come to them. Believing them will delusionally force you along that matrix. You should know that humans are highly diverse and these astrological signs have no scientific proof. This is a marketing Holocaust.
Being a Sagittarius,I have gone no contact with 3 Gemini/ cancer cusp women ,,,all the same ,they r critical,negative an smothering,dislike that cusp the most lol ,,I can barely handle my cancer husband lol ,sag is exalted in cancer house 😳
Don't believe in these crap signs, they're designed to fall within your set of traits. Take a peek at the other signs, you'll find out that you've something come to them. Believing them will delusionally force you along that matrix. You should know that humans are highly diverse and these astrological signs have no scientific proof. This is a marketing Holocaust.
They arent stronger, they can just mentally wear and break down a sag's mind or any other sign through (emotional black mail) and manipulation just like Scorpios can and do. Like water cutting through a rock over long periods of time, they control and infect the mind, ultimatley controlling and destroying the mind and the persons life.. And no one can do this beter then a Cancer as many see the sign as the word in its self literally they are Cancerous.
They can yes, because truth will win always and sags higest purpose is to pursue truth, thats why its so difficult to prolong something and sustain something that isnt real.. @@sagworld1806
@@debstanbra369 you should be these guys make excellent lawyers as they are second to Gemini in their ability to manipulate everyone around them and live secret underground double lives, master gaslighters to… #clusterB
You keep using words like "always" and "Never" , that is such an unhealthy black and white way of thinking. I'm a June cancerand am almost nothing like you are describing here, I'm so sorry you got hurt by someone that is a cancer but bro, you can't put that shit on all cancer people or pidgin hole us this way,, perhaps you should talk with someone to work through you trauma man if you need to talk hit me up bro,, and FYI I didn't likey mother as a person so I had no problem cutting the cord. Murdered bro, really??
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Omg 😢I’m a scorp sun cap moon and I have been dealing with a cancer since 2018 ! A nightmare
Be careful with this sign !
Emotional Manipulation , cry babies , mommas boy , sad souls , can be physically abusive , financial manipulation,womanizing, omg I can go on…. 🔫🔪💸
Cancers can be a 💎🌹 but they must do shadow work and heal from their past
Nothing darker in the world then a dark Cancer, Gemini, Scorpio, borderline personality, bi polar and psychopathy central
Oooh….welllllll this explains my shadowy side. Moon in Cancer 🙋🏼♀️
Ouch. But also 100% accurate. I have fought and wrestled so deeply with my darkness and I feel called out and also so validated. My moon is absolutely why I have struggled with myself and my faults. Thank you for this cold hard truth.
@wynn1587 I'm a Virgo Sun sign
Thank you..all my life I thought I was the victim of everyone on my path but nooooo I am the problem..part of me I feel proud of my dark side...I will embrace it to do the changes I must,,
But hey once you know you know, most dont want to know or dont have the bandwitch for real deep self reflection.. So your light years ahead of the game!
You should be a psychiatrist
@@lindywoods6256 Considered it in my 20's but sadly many of them are psychopaths and are just sales people for big daddy pharma.. 💊💊
"this is the one sign that can damage the strong will of a sag and bring them to the ground" Thank you for this big big insight....
Yes cancer and Gemini the most soul destroying signs of them all. Borderlines and bi polar essence
A sagg rising and their emotional depth actually scares me i feel my core moving around them 😮
@@evanauli8092 Yes, and many of them are super dangerous as they go for roles like lawyers so that they can get bassically a licence to steal and manipulate as they are MASTERS AT IT and many of them are totally bi polar or on the psycopathy mcavillan scale or both.
Can be super dangerous, Cancers hide things and lie like a Gemini, living double agent lifes. Many of them are closeted and selfish wasting their wifes life away and justifying it if they can provide for the family, sadly a family and kids that they know they should not of had in the first place.
As a Cancer, I’ve never heard anyone describe us so well . Lol I know all of these things about me so I constantly work on any of the negative traits that exist. You were on point on a lot of these things. Luckily I am an Aquarius moon so I think it gives me a balance.
Yea your luck your moon isn’t cancer 😞 but my sun in Aries.
Nice! I also have moon in aquarius. I dont really feel like I relate to a lot of this stuff though. The thing I do identify with is that it does take me a while to work through the end of a relationship/friendship, but it's because I tend to blame myself for the end of things and I want to learn from them, so I'll look at it until I learn what I need to. I hate things - describe myself as more of a minimalist and my style is "clean, simple."
I hate being center of attention. My husband is Sag.
I am intuitive...sometimes. everyone tells me they know exactly where they stand with me.
Most of my chart is Gemini, Sag and Libra though. I only have Cancer as my sun sign.
Yeah 😅 I felt the same way was pretty much on point with everything and I'm not into astrology when I ask people if they are they get all offended they come back with "I deal in reality" b**** this is reality how can someone dictate your personality and tell you eight things out of 10 that are true and you still not believe..
I tell then I can't help the way I am the Stars dictate my personality, ( to a certain extant)
Very good truth video, my moon is in Cancer and what you said about Cancer is very true. Not letting go has definitely hurt me a lot in my life, it’s unhealthy. This video made me cry, I appreciate you not sugar coating this entire topic and saying it like it is!
Your so welcome, awarness is key!
@@TheElGoliathTarotDeck It definitely is!
So you are a Pisces with a Cancer moon? If you have also a Scorpio Rising you are...😂
@@YOCOSMINMAX16 Lol Nah I’m a Libra rising, which means I’m about bringing light into the darkness, wanting balance/neutrality, standing up for those who are being bullied and I can be very polite too. 😉 🙂
I’m a cancer you hit the nose on this one. That’s why my crazy ass goes to therapy
Yes Gemini and Cancer very very dangerous
This is my EX-HUSBAND, and I'm an Aries Gemini moon! 😅 I was his mom more than his partner. And everything was my fault and blamed on me that went wrong. His relationship with his mother was exhausting as well. He was a crier and anxious. Our bond was codependent and toxic in the younger years that caught up to us both. We both did love scary movies. He can cook. He is commutative. I did appreciate but loathe at times the depth of emotions. What a 13-year ride. 🙃
You are absolutely right about cancer. I am a cancer and was laughing at the truth about me. Thanks
thank you so much
This is SO SO true. They have an expectation of people; me I was married to a Cancer, and my child is a Cancer; their egos were so fragile "I did some human thing that pissed them off",. By the time I figured out that they were angry they had almost destroyed me. Coming in late, stealing, lying, cheating, undermining, then stand back and wait for you to address them so that they can gain any trust just to intentionally F you around. After all that the husband got another woman pregnant and left. Ladies be careful ❤. I've dated other signs but Cancers, are like psychological monsters, just run!!!whew🔥🔥 had to come back and say yes!!! He was paying the bills late because he thought that it would undermine me leaving; to find a residence but you have a bad history paying rent on time. I stayed for a while and took my payments to the office but in the interim he was staying out over night, calling women in front of my face 😂😂😂😂 I just kept working, saving to move. Benadryl works too if you need it. I paid for the devorce. I'm clean, safe and happy, took 3 years to get balanced LADIES NEVER EVER GIVE UP❤
Yes, if you’re dealing with a Cancer, just a message to never give up hope. I have had two women that I know of one disappeared back in 2013 she was trying to get away from a psychotic cancer man, I think she went into police hdining to escape him and the other woman sadly killed herself in the divorce leaving two kids behind.
The Cancer was doing the same thing you actually just mentioned here.
He would use money to trap and imprison her. So that it is easier to rationalise to himself that you "Owe him" mentality and thus making it harder to for anyone to leave, if you’re not working, as they insist that you should stay home and then you raise their kids, and they will have multiple lovers and families going on all around town. Or differnet states.
Or they have men/little boys they play with like dolls and toys that they use on the side... As the gays are easier to control/ manipulate and will be inammered by their Daddy archetypal charm.
Also no risk of preganacy with them.
Yes, their mood changes like clouds with in second of minutes, like the sky and then they get mad that somehow telepathically you should of known what mood their in. They HATE BEING CALLED OUT on their behaviour and the moment you do they will gaslight you and or fake apologise to you, to pull you can in and regain your trust only to then do it again and again on a loop..
And then punish you for daring to tell them how they impacted you based on how they treated you. Much like Gemini if they are smart, they surround themselves with things that make the feel safe. Like law or HR, POWER.. So that they can control things around them and manipulate outcomes under the guise of “I’m just doing my job and representing my client”... Or they become psychologists.
Or they like to beome the moral face of the business, and they LOVE virtual signalling so working in some kind of “Non for profit” business is also common with the cancers so that they appear to be charitable and seen as morally good to the outside world… Even when they are the complete opposite or their external projection and it’s just yet another place for the crab to hide behind.
My mom and husband are both cancers.
I realised only recently that I shouldn't share with them my enthusiasm about anything, I shouldn't even ask advices from them because they always, always!, say something negative,discouraging, there is always a 'yes, but...'. It's like it's painful for them to see someone being positive about a project or a relationship... They will bring out something you've never thought about and you begin to have doubts... To the point that I had to warm my mum's best friend not to share with her her plan to avoid being discouraged. I hear you when you talk about the analogy of the cancer sucking out life and changing a person's internal way of functioning... That's so subtle and damaging.
The ‘yes, but (negative comment)’ is a picture inside of a cancers mind. It’s not so much, at least for me, to be negative, but a warning to be cautious in what you do, always measuring the ups and downs, but the downs seem to have more power over the mind, because the negative generally outweighs the positive consequence. If that makes sense.
@@Brent-br1dm thank you for taking time to explain this. In my case, I don't feel caution but rather a reaction to optimism, to enthusiasm... And not only with me, with others too. I hope it is just in my case.
It is good to be cautious, but in a constructive way. Remind me the weak points of my project but don't break my positivity along the way.
@@Brent-br1dmif you don't mind, would you please tell me what is your intention when you bring the 'yes, but..' please?
@@babamoughal5692 I'm not Brent, but I can say this for myself, as a Cancer (Sun and moon). I am pretty cautious and sometimes I imagine the worst case scenario and warn about it. There is no hidden agenda, at least with me. I just want to help. If I intend to hurt, I would accompany it with a passive-aggressive comment about you, or try to demoralize you. I guess it depends on the Cancer, low functioning ones can be very hurtful.
For example if you say: Let's go outside and have a walk on the neighborhood!!
Me: Yes but... it may rain, we should take our umbrellas
One thing that drives me mad, is when people dismiss me AND (please note the AND) mocks me about being negative. Oh boy, that gets me in full sarcasm/passive-aggressive mood. And better pray that the things I said doesn't happen, my "I told you so" replies always enrage whoever receive them. I tell them with the full intend of hurting.
But in your case, I don't think your husband or mom say that to hurt you, unless, they accompany that with demeaning or hurtful comments. I cannot speak for your husband or mom, you know them better than I do. If they want to really hurt you, I guess there are better opportunities for that.
@@metalfenix I hear you when you they this is caution, without hidden agenda. I don't feel hidden agenda to be honest. I rather feel a sense of negativity that they need to 'share', like they see what can go wrong and they need others to see it too (in my case, i cannot talk about you of course). I am sure that sometimes it comes from a very good intention but the person may not receiveit this way.
Let me give you an example. My brother called my mum to annonce that he passed his exams and he is now officially a physiotherapist. The answer :'congratulation, have you taken an insurance ?', 'not yet, i will soon', 'hurry because what will you do if you break the neck of a patient ?...'
I don't know how many times i get this kind of answer.
You were talking about people mocking you. I don't mock my mum or my husband but take my distance. My brothers sometimes react, like me, with irritation to this kind of answer. And we often get the answer 'there's a reality'.
As for the passive aggressive kind of communication i am so tired of it, it's like i never know what the person has to say. I loose patience and kindness when this kind of behaviour occurs. And as a sag i have to control myself not to cut deep.
Thank you for giving me your point of view. I have my moon in Libra, i am able to understand a different way of thinking than mine. But i think i'll need to understand more deeply those behaviours to be able to connect to cancers. Nowadays i just feel like going far from them to protect my inner peace.
This is the mist accurate description ever❤❤
Thank you so much
I always known the cancers are very emotional, they bottle things up and then the pop! Usually serial killers
Cancer doesn’t have serial killers lmao at least not too many.
@@LULU40134minority of serial killers in the US are cancers
@@LULU40134bullshit 😂 there's a lot of them and scorpios
That's so truth
But we are loving people ❤❤❤❤
Oh my I never know they could be that scary I am a Cancer and I don't know if I can believe this for me I don't know😮
Don't believe in these crap signs, they're designed to fall within your set of traits. Take a peek at the other signs, you'll find out that you've something come to them. Believing them will delusionally force you along that matrix. You should know that humans are highly diverse and these astrological signs have no scientific proof.
If someone hurts you so badly, you maybe would, I didn’t used to tap in to the shadow elements so much until I was really hurt by multiple people in quick succession, now it feels like my trust is entirely burnt and I’ve been a full scale whiney little bitch about it, and acted out accordingly, I’m not a fan of my toxic traits but yet here they are now, and they’re not going away any time soon it feels like 😢
Although, jealousy? I used to be super jealous growing up, not so much now
@@sarawilkinson6766 yeah cool
You ain't never lie gemini who have a restraining order on a cancer ..
yes sounds about right
Man you don’t know how good this video is! Helping a lot of cancers to be aware about themselves.
I can't stop posting how amazing you are
Thank you, I take it your a cancer ♋️
I’m a Cancer Rising the most Cancer then anything..
It’s a hard placement to have and no one feels the changes in the moon like us Cancer Rising people.
Agree Hyper Hyper sensitive to everything
My husband of 25 years is a Gemini Sun and a Cancer moon. I am a November 30th Sagittarius. Two of my best friends of over 30 years are July Cancers. July 9th and July 21st. I love them both like brothers. I am very frank and direct. I also get along well with Scorpios especially those born November 18th. Its like when they see me, they can see inside my soul. Scorpios are passionate, loyal and beautiful people. I am very loyal as well. Thank you for your time and information.
Please no not in death, my mom is a weed whacker i learned to distrust when i was 3. She still snaps and such a munchhausen by proxy i was fortunate my pediatrican kept her in line somewhat. She had a career and starved us so my sister and i and her second husband cook. She has a great man who had awesome boys, my brothers it neutralized and i locked the past in a dead tree which is decomposing my poison away. Tantrums and duplicity and i live a 12 hour drive away minimum but i call every sunday and love her anyway i know where it comes from in my family tree to be prairie harsh. Love you insight, thank you for these videos
Study of psychology is definitely a passion of mines I have literally diagnosed my brother with ADHD and a couple more family members including my mother with schizophrenic/schizoaffective I myself suffer from intense anxiety. And major depression I am one of a few that knows very much who I am and what I am capable of and the only thing that makes me insecure or codependent as some will say is my extreme sensitivity other than that i think very highly of myself I'm heavily In tuned with my emotions very aware of mine surrounding I wouldn't say I'm manipulative but being that I am grounded in the emotional realm I can get or make someone do as I please. It's kind of the dark side/shadow side of my nature I honestly choose to be good and do good I want to nurture I want to care I wanna Cater I need to be needed it's a part of my existence being that I am the mother of the zodiac.and When that doesn't go as planned then yes all hell breaks loose honestly I become down right moody, painfully selfish, vindictive, aggressively violent which is why I chose to keep to myself and stick to myself you don't catch many who choose to be an introvert but for me self imposed isolation for the sake of others and to maintain my freedom is mandatory especially for the ungrateful those who I deem unworthy of my affection and attention you only have one time to show me your unappreciative and untrustworthy after that your better off dead figuratively and literally that's why I'm social selective I can't just exchange energy with just anyone or everyone you have to prove indefinitely you deserve my love and presence
Loved reading this your a beautiful soul!
"Hoarder's" that's just one aspect movie's horror "they love that shit". Don't like change
"Intimacy " into-me-i see that one struck a chord and your write about recommending against being promiscuous,
I've only been in a few relationships and I'm all fucked up from baggage from the past to the point where I contemplated killing these people. I agree that we are dangerous in the sense that we can't control our emotions your video was very enlightening
True what was said about mother knowing instinctively the mother's only one that can love you unconditionally
And needing to be mothered by
I agree about letting shit go not living in the past and holding grudges but it's easier said than done letting it go I believe that's key. You're right don't lead a cancer on or fuck with their head.
Yes never lead a cacer on, on problem is that they can be hot and cold and lead others on. I have learnt the hard way with this sign, would have to see where your moon and rising is. And thank you for finding my channel and leaving this kind comment.
As a Cancer and one who is Pagan and into Astrology I was like wow love the brutal honesty. Glad you found a Cancer you trust because we are not all bad 😅
Don't believe in these crap signs, they're designed to fall within your set of traits. Take a peek at the other signs, you'll find out that you've something come to them. Believing them will delusionally force you along that matrix. You should know that humans are highly diverse and these astrological signs have no scientific proof. This is a marketing Holocaust.
Very accurate man! This is us and we can’t help it.
Thank you, I see things and I know the beauty this sign can have.
@@TheElGoliathTarotDeck
You just nailed it. And I hate how strong are emotions is and knowing and understanding what is in people’s mind as soon as we see them.
This can be a very good thing if not use to manipulate people.
I am aware about cancers dark sides and being negative about everything is one of the things is so annoying. Hopefully I find a solution to work around these dark sides of cancer sign.
Excellent video once again on cancer. You couldn’t be further from the truth quite familiar with this behavior unfortunately for me, too late to avoid dealing with this for years. Wish I knew this a long time ago. Does this also apply to cancer rising (vedic) as well? Thank you
I love how you explain things you are awesome😂❤
Yayy!! Thank you 😎💬
As a cancer sun, moon, with a Scorpio rising I laughed. It’s a nice video with truth to it. 😇
Ta
Brilliant and insightful video, my rising or ascendant is in cancer, what ever it is at conception, I originally listened to this because a cancer woman has asked me to marry her, she's very nice but something is telling me to be careful, but after this video, I realize how much the ascendant has effected my life, not enough room to elaborate, thankyou for your video
Welcome 🙏 Venus (cancer in love) also on my channel as well.
THANKS YOU GOODNESS 🌟 DAPHNE COTTON ALWAYS 💜
Thank you I am going to take your advice and let things go
Thank you for sharing this with me , ur right let things go move .and I never didn't get the love I need it from my mother. She was working in the shop too much and she wasn't around me and my brothers like that but I have a half sister I'm not really close with her cuz she didn't live in the home with me and my two brothers but like you said just let it go just move on let It Go don't live in the past I had to do that with a lot of change when I was working being a custodian we had so many different custodians I had to
Well Im very sorry to hear that, on thing is I will share with you is that our family dosnt have to be our family.. If you know what I mean.
Nailed it….
I am a cancer and some of this resonates with me but at the same time I know cancers like this so you are 1000% right 7/15 is me I have to learn to let things go that's my problem and as far as jealousy yes I use to be when I was younger but I got older and wiser so I learned to let that side of me go and also insecurities use to get the best of me but I still am learning to deal with it as well I'm proud myself for healing and moving forward towards my future🥰💯🙌🏾🫶🏾💪🏾🙏🏽👏🏾☝🏾
Don't believe in these crap signs, they're designed to fall within your set of traits. Take a peek at the other signs, you'll find out that you've something come to them. Believing them will delusionally force you along that matrix. You should know that humans are highly diverse and these astrological signs have no scientific proof. This is a marketing Holocaust.
I've had an epiphany when I was a little girl, I knew I was able to harm, had the means to it : this psychology thingy, was always amazed by people and I love humanity, to listen, being in an abusive home taught me to observe a lot as a survival mechanism so I look "too paranoid" for many people when I say without any proof "I don't like this person", so I'm "too harsh" , "too judgemental" until they come back to me and say that I was right.
So, as a child I said to myself (or was it a voice?) : "you'll be a good person". And I am. You're right about my mother, I'd never allow someone to mistreat her and I'm more driven by guilt towards her because my father was (and still is) a violent piece of shit, not because I have much in common with her. That's why I stay away from my family, not because I was thrown out or anything like that. My brother sees me as his personal monthly, sometimes daily emergency fund, not as a human being so I decided that this year, 2024, will be the year where that dark side of mine that I discarded will go back. A cancer (as it seems, was never into this horoscope stuff) is too family oriented and I'll bleed myself if needed for people that I love, but I won't harm, I just disappear when too much is too much. I don't have compassion for people I dislike (working on this compassion thing) and I have a vindictive temperament but I decided a long time ago that I won't use it. However, I keep a predatory stance around those who want to screw me (and my lack of compassion towards them help), I'll help them keep harming me until they're close enough to my reach (and enough evidence to burn them) and I crush them, so as long as people who harm me don't take my non-response as an enabling, they'll be fine.
Sorry for the long comment but I hope that people will understand that as long as they don't harm a cancer too much (the "botteling up" is real), we're very emotional and we give the utmost care to people we love unlike no one else.
Nailed it! As always your brain 🧠 and knowingness is off the chats 🔥🔥🔥
I’m a ♋️ sun .. moon in taurus im here for growth purposes
Cancer moon here. Juat learning about this placement. A lot of what you said really resonates ❤. I think my Cancer Moon traits started manifesting more as i got older, or maybe ive just become more aware. I have a shitty relationship with my mom. Irrational fears are a staple in my life so much that i have manifested health anxiety. Im afraid of almost everything smh.
Thank you so much
I’m a cancer ♋️ and don’t hide my self I can’t care less about what others think about me … either you like how I’m or don’t in my presence lol 😂and yes I done shadow self so I know myself well
♈️ ☀️ ♋️ 🌙 ♎️ rising fw this hard truth vid I been on this but this vid is good. 🖤
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I would really enjoy a video about the game changer things for each sun sign. Like you said for cancers, "letting go" is what can take them to their light sided journey
Yes, I feel that I cover all the things that the signs need to get over.
Leo, get over themselves.
Cancer, get over their past emotions Gem, get over their internal mind games and lack of self-identity etc.
Virgo, get over their inner critic and idolised self-perfection.
Sag, get over their dogmatic way of being and learn discipline creates their freedom.
Caps, learn to feel emotions and get into the human experience.
Libra learn to stop playing both sides and stop people pleasing and living in barbie land.
Taurus, get over materiality and be flexible.
Pisces, to commit to reality and to see what is real and what is illusion.
Aries, to quieten their inner fire and harness it into things that have a cause and to learn others exist outside of their own needs.
Scorpio, to not be so hateful, vengeful, controlling and to stop smothering others. To learn to set things free if they love them not keep others safe from everything but themselves.
@@TheElGoliathTarotDeck Thank you
You are great❤
Bro knows more about me than I know about myself. :O I feel like bro took a hammer and cracked open my outer shell
I see things, facing ones self is the only why to grow and the only way through.
Regarding face and hand reading, I've studied the hands and noticed when someone has thick short fingers they have a temper personality for sure!
Yea this is ture!
Thank you, what I have been going through with a cancer born 7/22. Very evil and manipulative.
yes the ones born on 22/21st I have actually found to be the my evil.
My grandmother was a cancer and now my daughter, and when you say they can't come at you direct wow , I mean my lil is only three but I'm seeing so many of the same habits ideo syncrocies. Have you noticed that when cancers get really really upset like have a big argument, that they start retching afterwards???
Omg you must be terrified of me…Aquarius sun and rising and Cancer moon and Venus jeez what could be worst LOL 😂can you do aquarius soon??
Thank you im a cancer!
Listening to you talk I was staring at the word 'Cancer' and kept seeing 'Gangster'
A dark cancer would totally be a gangster, mob boss that whole family thing.... Puling the strings!
😂😂
777 born and I’m this cancer that you’re talking about, very self reliance , love being alone, I love flings and hate sexual attachment…
Yes love flings and then abyptly abandon the other person, cancers are very hot and cold in general but they actually hate it being done to them.
Being married to a cancer for 31 years ,no they don’t like being alone ,they absolutely need attention ( supply,validation,audience) or their not motivated ,they r so secretive they take intimacy as intrusion,,lol they r the wounded child in the zodiac,,they never do self help an are forever a toddler ,they don’t like flings they like adoration but there not into people ,they want people to be into them ,like a covert ,you have to be into them ,they have no deep relationships because they would have to be interested in the other ,an they are not lol ,they have alooooot of childhood wounds to heal ☀️
You are very remarkable❤
Thank you so much, Venus in cancer ♋️ or cancer in love also here on channel
Ooooh WoW..🥶
I've heard people say too aries and cancer same. Hard shell sweet inside. Vindictive if they don't get their way. Safe place to land. Plus lots of aries men I know are mommas boys.
yep big babies
I tell you this you have balls to talk a us cancerians every one in the planet have 2 sides to them …
Every one of these videos, I haven't had "so and so in my life for quite some time".
Miss you!
Could you please consider The Cold Hard Truth of Taurus. Thank you.
Ok Sure thing, Cold Hard Truth of Taurus will be my next one in this cold hard truth series.
I had a very hard time growing up with my cancer mother. Her moon is in Capricorn. We had a very beautiful home always. She was an interior designer and we had a lot of antiques that her and my father would restore. My Aries father felt very put down by my mother. It's strange that he beat the tar out of us kids, but never her. I've had every right to hate her for not protecting her kids, but I can't. She's still my mom. Her relationship with her mother was almost non-existent and I feel sorry for how she was abandoned by both her parents really. Her mom was very sick with schizophrenia and in a hospital often so my mom stayed at the funeral home with her aunt and uncle from a young age and odd things went on there too. They made her go into the basement at night where the bodies were to turn off all the lights and her uncle ran around naked in front of her. I can't help but feel sorry for her, but you nailed a lot in this video. She had a great relationship with my sisters, but I was like a foreigner to her. I suppose being a little aquarian I was just too much for her to get. She still doesn't get me. It's still a very odd relationship. We write daily, but haven't spoken on the phone in years. I guess it's the only way we could get it to work. It was crazy how she just knew things like she had eyes in the back of her head. It was tough to pull anything over on her. She's sensitive, but more about herself than other ppl. She kinda lacks compassion, but I still love the old bitch 😂
Great❤
Any other Cancers hate waiting for stuff ? Personally, I’d rather just pay someone to do it, if I’m able…and learning takes too long, I just be able to already know this stuff, how long is it going to take, I always wonder, for me to know how to do this well enough so I don’t have to ask anybody😕What’s that’s about ?? Any other Cancerians feel that way, about waiting for stuff?
I'm a gem I get why people don't like us but I knew about cancers ever since I was a teenager I knew something was up I had 4 cancer friends and several cancer I've dated some briefly. I won't lie I like to hurt them but as I grown up I learn to be cordial n keep my distance
Cancers like to keep there distance to begin with always.. Its all about self preservation with this sign. I get it.
i tend to unintentionally humbled geminis, as a cancer 😅😂
So, I have my Sun in Aquarius and I like a Cancer guy. HAHAHAHA. My Lilith is in Cancer. My Venus is in Aries and his in GEMINI. My moon is in Libra, his in Virgo. What are the chances =))
You’ve just described my sister ha ha and she’s a Virgo
Nice to meet you, Goliath, my name is David...
Hello David
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There are two cancers, the younger one and the mature cancerian. Unfortunately cancer doesn’t do well with others signs( except just a few) because we can read your soul and it feels horrible when you are making love with a block of ice! And that’s the big problem that the majority of the zodiac signs are very superficial people. Some cancerians are not aware of what they are capable of. Having a sexual relationship with cancer is like to feel ascending to heaven if … if you have the right cosmic connection. For cancer is a waste of time and energy to be with the wrong person. As a cancer I learned my lesson and I’m aware of my potential. And yes, when I person cross the door I already read his mind and that’s something we can do since we are little. That’s why a lot of cancerian children see dark souls and they don’t get along to easy. We are sensitive because we can feel those things that others don’t not because we are cry babies. Pleople usually miss understand what sensitive means. We are one of the most resilient signs because we are built in to be leaders to be mothers.
Get over yourself
Damn.. thats only one so far that didn't resonate except the few tiny bits of light... but also it said something about the damaging person so maybe thats colored things a bit more....
I need to reflect a bit because this is brand new perspective and never heard of any of that dark kind of power and never thought about it.... want to make sure im not doing any of that shit unconsciously....
Also i hope you meet more kinder cancerians to balance out that damaging experience....
Im only remembering two at the moment and both felt easy and warm and kind... but who knows....
Thanks for this perspective because its always good to be aware of these possibilities... its fuckimg my head up a little but thats helpful....
yes I have a dark side of cancer and cancer in love (venus) series on here as well, would highly recommend you check out those ones, after all these years the two signs I stay clear of are Cancer and Gemini and if its a cusp of those to (AVOID) At all costs...
@TheElGoliathTarotDeck yeah last night I started listening to the "light side" one right after this and just the first few minutes of the descriptions I welled up because it was maybe the most validating descriptions ive ever heard....... not an easy existence being so extremely sensitive.. and "raised" by three cluster bs with ZERO empathy..... and sadistic...
id have been better off in alot of ways if id become a monster too but for whatever reasons the core of me stayed kind..... not easy existence that way.... and ive finally been developing all of the things needed to protect my self....... another reason these "dark side" perspectives are helpful....... it's important to know the potentials and strengths etc we all have.. so we can develop them into (healthy helpful) strengths..... to be able to protect and preserve etc the soft things..... ....
And the gemini cancer thing is fascinating... i have gemini rising and that cancer moon... getting interesting perspectives here....
Thank you.. again.
My friend is a Cancer and he heals an alcoholic girlfriend.
I’m a Scorpio Sun with a
Cancer Rising I definitely feel more like a Cancer tho.
Very deep
Don't believe in these crap signs, they're designed to fall within your set of traits. Take a peek at the other signs, you'll find out that you've something come to them. Believing them will delusionally force you along that matrix. You should know that humans are highly diverse and these astrological signs have no scientific proof. This is a marketing Holocaust.
All I have to say is wow 😯
Cancer Sun and Moon 😬😁
i have a stellium. cancer sun moon mercury and midheaven
Moon and Venus placements will show us everything
Im.cancer n cancer rising
Maybe a friend or family was a cancer and they disappointed you😢?
Verygood❤
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Oh no I'm a cancerian but I only so emotional I only hurt my self when I get mad😔
Don't believe in these crap signs, they're designed to fall within your set of traits. Take a peek at the other signs, you'll find out that you've something come to them. Believing them will delusionally force you along that matrix. You should know that humans are highly diverse and these astrological signs have no scientific proof. This is a marketing Holocaust.
Cancer sun,moon and mars. Scorpio rising🤚🏽I wanted to give some self petty, funny portrait about us but u & I already know😂😂 so I choose the right hand path. To be honest I used to be scared of me at some points now I’m who I am. Beyond good and evil. Keep cooking bro, I love ur perception so far. Catch u in Scorpio video.
Deep😳
Deep is better then shallow I guess
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great video , so true about dark side cancer you need a Pisces can read them
Yep Pisces can for sure
i was born on 7-14-70 and I'm highly offended at some of the things I'm hearing here. yes some of this is true but I'm not dangerous or manipulative
I love when they say that word "Offened" A very common line I here cancerians say all the time not just to me but others in general chats. Starting lines off with sentences like... I"m so offended or my personal favourite of all time "How dare you". In this case yes how dare me and no nothing can hurt us if it isnt true.
Passive aggressive
Yes … They are the master of this. I can’t stand it, I don’t do passive aggressive I do “Aggressive aggressive”…
Heh, I was going to answer in the dark cancer vid, but this is one is... hard, but I feel it honest. So many points apply... and some others don't apply, but shadow work begins somewhere, right? Out of curiosity I looked online and it seems I am Cancer Sun, Cancer Moon, Gemini Rising. Yeah, the purest form of this clusterf***k sign. I'm gonna break it down in sections:
1) Emotions. I have a pretty low emotional intelligence. One of the things I learned as a kid, is that man should not show any emotions, emotions, feelings and all that crap are for women (Courtesy of my dark side Virgo dad, but I don't blame him... I actually, embraced that, at the end I chose to be that way). So I build this... stoic exterior, this shell, where I don't express emotions at all, and whenever my emotional rollercoaster begins, I just bottle it and continue as if it never happened.
The bad thing is, they happened. I became what you'd call, an emotional time bomb. Tic, toc, tic, toc... until I wake up one morning, someone sees me wrong, and BAM, I go on rage mode, with someone who probably doesn't even deserve it. It also made me even more depressive (add some other trauma crap, like my sexual closet and inner homophobia, but I'm not getting into it). It really got bad, I just went in a never ending cycle of work-going home-play videogames/watch TV-sleep for more than 10 years. No relationships, no friends, no anything, I just didn't want to do anything with the world.
Until this year, where I took care of my own depression, I've found a way to deal with it, and in doing so, I... started to accept myself more? I am what I am. Since I started dealing with my own sadness, and guilt... what about the others? rage in particular, I'm taking your advice and let it go (but taking notes of the offender. Oh yeah, he/she will hear about it later), and, for once, not repeat what my dad do, and express my emotions. I can count with the fingers of my hand the times I hugged and said "I love you" to someone (like my mom or sister). I'm aloof and distant, and I shouldn't be this way. I'm repeating what my father does.
I remember commenting in your Dark side Gemini vid how Gemini should not expect others to be psychic, but I should apply myself that recommendation. People cannot guess WTF I'm feeling, especially someone who tries actively to hide them.
2) Wow, that was long, I promise to write less. Secrets, yeah, I tend to keep things to myself. My sexual closet? I maintained it for +30 years. Even though I never dated a girl or have a relationship with them (moral compass here. I respect women a lot, and I can't start this web of lies) but it also made more apparent "my secret". Still, yeah... I became the favorite unpack project of my Gemini mother... but I only came out after 30 years.
Ah, and regarding secrets... I live with the rule of "you ___ to me, I give you____" and also the reverse. If I want my secrets respected, I don't ask yours. I never ask about with whom you were last night, so I get pretty defensive when people asked me those things, or about my sexuality. I always change the subject, but if they insist, I become hostile or passive aggressive, telling them to F**k off. If people trust me with a secret you can be damn sure I'll keep it to the grave.
3) Stalkers: Nope, if you respect my intimacy, I will respect yours. I don't stalk and gossip through social networks. Unless you tried to spy on me, if I know that... yes, I enter in dark cancer stalker mode. But overall, no, stalking takes a lot of energy and I'm not up to that. It's useless.
4) Yeah, it's a HUGE red flag when a cancer does not have a good relationship with any of the parents. I have a broken relationship with my father, but also a good one with my mother. I guess I would be nasty if I didn't had it. That woman taught me all my moral principles.
5) Yes, I tend to live in the past, and also a hoarder? One of the thing I really must work, if I expect to try and find a boyfriend.
6) Financially, It's true that I keep a tiny part of my earnings to myself But I don't like to have debts to anyone. And yes, I am a cheapskate but I'm aware of it.
7) Another aspect that many ex-coworkers, even friends when I was at the University or family point out continuously: I'm extremely pessimistic, like, over the charts. It's something that I try to get under control but is so deeply ingrained in me, that I kinda sound fake to myself when I try to be optimistic. I have the strange behavior, of thinking on eternal plan Bs in case something goes wrong with whatever I'm doing. Sometimes I just stop and don't even bother (happened with me getting out of the closet)
8) Manipulation: Guilty of doing that sometimes, but I actively try to minimize it. I was kind of aware of this even before I got deeper into the dark cancer traits.
9) Yes I hold grudges and I'm vindictive. That's a trait I'm NOT going to even consider to alter or work, people will get what they deserve.
So, I'll leave it here. Maybe I'm a dark cancer, but I'm willing to do the work. I started really late in my life, but I won't even entertain the thought, because I would end up dwelling in the past with those damaging "what if...". Each time I go with a "What if I have done ____" thought I hurt myself. I don't want to go there. Not anymore.
Yes just reading all this now, yes Cancer with any level of gemini is EXTREAMLY DANGEROUS to themselves but especially to others, Basically Bi polar in the cancer meets the borderline in the Gemini. Even people born on this cusp will be SCARY. The problem is the Cancer will want to build a world with someone and the Gemini will want to abandon that world for another in a matter of days, hours or months. So they Love Bomb then pull away and Ghost. Causing Karmic debt that later comes back on them resulting in them being alone if they cant master their shadow and sit with it and go "Yeah theres that thing that I do again".. Observe it and befriend it after chasing that cord back to the wall.
@@TheElGoliathTarotDeck I just saw your avoidant attacher vid... it's scary how I have the potential to do such damage, and it's a horrible, horrible thing to do to anyone. It's good to be aware of it. Fortunately, due to my self-isolation I haven't hurt somebody, and with this knowledge, I'll make sure I never will. I have to be wary of the signs too, because I might meet one like that someday.
Thank you for your vids man, they help for self-reflection for many people, who otherwise could be nasty or extremely dysfunctional. I know I could be.
@@metalfenix Your welcome yes knowing the self is hard but its the best thing we can do for ourselves. Its Okay to express how we feel butg we have to be consistant with it when it comes to others emotions and ghosting is the most damaging thing a cancer can be as they go on deep, and the other person is made to feel worthless like a toy or a doll that they play with when its convientant for the cancer, just a power play of sorts.
@@TheElGoliathTarotDeck That explains why people feel so strongly against Cancers... hell, you knew many dysfunctional crabs along your life. I still am a low functioning crab, in my case, by omission. I never liked my sign, so what was my reaction? astrology sucks, I don't believe in that crap. And bam, kept it under the rug, while acting as if the frigging emotion-fest I have doesn't exist. I thought Cancer women would be better than us men, because women are supposed to deal better with emotions. Again, it seems I was wrong, but I never met a Cancer woman. At most, I knew a cousin (male) that was born the exact day I had (June, 24) and he's very much like me, and a good dude all along. Sometimes I was jealous of him seeing my mom talking so highly of him... but well, you know, that's neurotic crab in action.
Always avoiding, disowning or deflecting, just like I did with my sexuality, but I'll leave a more in depth response on your dangers of coming out vid. That one, kept me awake yesterday, brought my old self exactly 11 months ago. It hurts because it's true.
And I was just reading my natal chart yesterday, everything is all over the place: Mercury in Cancer, Venus in Gemini, Jupiter in Leo, Mars in Taurus, Saturn in Virgo (FREAKING VIRGO!!! Why it doesn't leave me alone????), Uranus in Scorpio, Neptune in Sag and Pluto in Libra (Another crazy sign). As I've said, I don't get the half of it, but it seems I'm like a Franken-crab getting the worst aspect of the other signs, especially the crazy Gemini.
By the way, one curious bit: In your dark side vid you mentioned how we cross arms before getting on the offensive. That's a thing I always do. I was like, "How the f**k does he know?".
I hope more cancers see this vid, they may get defensive with your dark side one but this vid... cannot be denied. The title as the Hard Cold Truth stands true.
It is so uncomfortable listening to you talk about cancer. Everytime I think "I'm not like think" I also think of how I saw that potential in my heart and actively chose not to be that person. My mom is an Aquarius sun and Cancer moon and shows sooooo many onf the toxic traits you listed about cancer. We do not have a good relationship, I saw how she treated people that cared about her and when I recognized the potential for those traits in myself I put the work in to not be that person, back then I didn't know it was called shadow work. That being said I also struggle not to project my mom trauma onto my husband. We both know when I am doing it, he knows I am working through that and loves me enough to call me out. When he says something that sends me back to how my mom use to make me feel, the best healing comes when we both openingly recognize that he is not my mom and does not have the same intent she did when he says what he says. I have come a long way in that area. I was talking to my sister last night and realized my mom was the first person I ever drew a boundary with.
The advise about cancer not being promiscuous is soooo good!
Please keep the honestly coming. I am straight forward cancer and am here for a clear mirror to reflect in!
This is beautiful to read, and thank you, yeah we are all mirrors to each other in the good and destructive and hurtful ways as well, I learn so much from others in my family and life about what not to do, so I can check my self when I'm behaving that way. Becuse the idea of doing that to someone else is terrifying to me becuase I see what they did to me the same way. And I know that lack of self awarness all catched up with people in the later years.
My cancer bf is making me dizzy! Apologizes says I love you then doesn’t speak to me for a week. Wtf
Its best you get a side dude ignore him and post how much fun u having on social media. Most likely he is having fun to but just not posting it!
Leave him or get a side dude.......or something.
Don't believe in these crap signs, they're designed to fall within your set of traits. Take a peek at the other signs, you'll find out that you've something come to them. Believing them will delusionally force you along that matrix. You should know that humans are highly diverse and these astrological signs have no scientific proof. This is a marketing Holocaust.
interesting
Thank you so much Mr
And I don't see you as a dark Cancerian and yes you are my friend, well I consider you to be, ; ) I hope that things are going well for you and this message finds you well.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 as a Cancer gay guy. Our negative, 😈😈😈😈😈😈😈...
We are unapologetic, unremorseful, we move by time, but we will not take sadness by ourselves, if someone caused it then we bring them down with us. We play dumb, 😳😳😳, but play games nicely 🔪🔪🍴🍴🍴🔪🔪🍴. I have a Libra boyfriend. He so far very patient about me, my personality, my dark sides made him cry. 😈😈😈🤣🤣🤣😈😈😈😈😈👺👺👺👺
We play nice and we are kind with our enemies
Yes that all makes sence, much like a scorpio, the sting nver fades for a cancer. If a cancer is a narc and their mask is ripped off and they are exposed they are prone to ending their own lives, rather then face that their whole life was just them mirroring others to fit in and hide.
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I'm a gemini and he is a cancer i can not do this anymore 🤐
Get out as safely as you can, please be careful Cancerian men always come back even when they are in new relationships. It’s never over for them.
Don't believe in these crap signs, they're designed to fall within your set of traits. Take a peek at the other signs, you'll find out that you've something come to them. Believing them will delusionally force you along that matrix. You should know that humans are highly diverse and these astrological signs have no scientific proof. This is a marketing Holocaust.
I thought Scorpio was psychology 😂 Cancers are sneaky and devious sideways 😂
I dated a Cancer, that wasn't fun at all. (I'm a Capricorn)
Yeah complete opposites on the wheel, would of been rough I would imagine
You could be a good match . Capri needs to feel loved what the Crab can give , Cancer needs stability what the Capri can give them
Don't believe in these crap signs, they're designed to fall within your set of traits. Take a peek at the other signs, you'll find out that you've something come to them. Believing them will delusionally force you along that matrix. You should know that humans are highly diverse and these astrological signs have no scientific proof. This is a marketing Holocaust.
Being a Sagittarius,I have gone no contact with 3 Gemini/ cancer cusp women ,,,all the same ,they r critical,negative an smothering,dislike that cusp the most lol ,,I can barely handle my cancer husband lol ,sag is exalted in cancer house 😳
Sweet baby Jesus
First of cancer is sickening nothing to do with a cancer ♋️ sign omg 😱 I can’t believe this kind of know at all peeps
Don't believe in these crap signs, they're designed to fall within your set of traits. Take a peek at the other signs, you'll find out that you've something come to them. Believing them will delusionally force you along that matrix. You should know that humans are highly diverse and these astrological signs have no scientific proof. This is a marketing Holocaust.
What sign are you?
Sag sun, Aries moon, Sag rising, Scorp Venus
How is cancer stronger than sagittarius?
They arent stronger, they can just mentally wear and break down a sag's mind or any other sign through (emotional black mail) and manipulation just like Scorpios can and do.
Like water cutting through a rock over long periods of time, they control and infect the mind, ultimatley controlling and destroying the mind and the persons life.. And no one can do this beter then a Cancer as many see the sign as the word in its self literally they are Cancerous.
@@TheElGoliathTarotDeckBut a Sagittarius can mentally in physically break a cancer.
They can yes, because truth will win always and sags higest purpose is to pursue truth, thats why its so difficult to prolong something and sustain something that isnt real.. @@sagworld1806
Bcs we are 😁😁😁
@@TheElGoliathTarotDecksag are weak hehehe
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I’m a cancer with cancer. This isn’t true
You are very talentedandawesome❤
This is Virgo you’re talking about not cancer
Im sacred 😂
@@debstanbra369 you should be these guys make excellent lawyers as they are second to Gemini in their ability to manipulate everyone around them and live secret underground double lives, master gaslighters to… #clusterB
@@TheElGoliathTarotDeck hmmm interesting as I always tell him he would have made a great lawyer. Got me thinking 🤔
Sorry. In my 21 years with a male cancer. He is completely opposite of what u preach
This is sun sign only based as explained
I'm not preaching anything justg sharing my knowledge from lived experience.
You keep using words like "always" and "Never" , that is such an unhealthy black and white way of thinking. I'm a June cancerand am almost nothing like you are describing here, I'm so sorry you got hurt by someone that is a cancer but bro, you can't put that shit on all cancer people or pidgin hole us this way,, perhaps you should talk with someone to work through you trauma man if you need to talk hit me up bro,, and FYI I didn't likey mother as a person so I had no problem cutting the cord. Murdered bro, really??