Even if she paid the Bill's, she should have respect for the man she supposedly loves. If they prefer validation and attention from the world, f em'....literally and figuratively
No one has ever told me what to wear. Not even my parents. I dunno if I'd dump him just for that. But I'd definitely not comply and tell him he can't put parameters on me like that. And watch out for further warning signs of jealousy and control.
@@Neo.Jordonyou've got it backwards. He doesn't respect HER. He can set a boundary for himself, not her, and if her boundaries don't align with his He can leave. Wearing or not wearing clothes isn't something our partners get to dictate. Sounds like he's severely controlling and insecure.
Asking her not to wear a bikini is not such a big deal...depending upon his reasoning and how he asks. However... the whole "my house my rules" thing is a HUGE red flag! I'd say a massive "Hell NO!" to that! Laying down those types of rules, especially just after you've moved in, is something I'd be worried about. If he's treating you like that at the very beginning of the relationship, when things are supposed to be perfect, you know that this is as good as it's going to get. Things are only going to go downhill from there and his demands will only get worse especially if you go along with him and buckle down at the beginning of the relationship! You need to throw him the deuces and get the hell out of there. The bikini issue is the Least of your problems and I think you know that. Oh and trust me, getting a place together where you're both on the lease won't help. He'll still want to he in control. Get out... Asap.
Ahh it's always a fu**in' Chad, isn't it? If this dude was a smart guy he would take the attitude of "Yeah, ya'll that's my girl.." brag through out the building that he's dating the prettiest girl there lol. But instead he's gottta screw it all up with his desperate personal insecurities.
@@technoloverish That's between them and God, no marriage can survive a promiscuous attention seeking modern women. Plenty of examples, meghan good, Ciara....they can't and wont stop this behaviour, best to spot it early and move on. Bonus! Any man who asks or tells his lady that all this behaviour isn't cool, will be painted as a controlling monster, who she should break up with.
A woman should not date insecure men, who’s insecurities manifest as control or worse, & then consequently blame women for in fact their own emotional internal inadequacies, & actions. The call is coming from inside the house. It’s a you problem boo boo. You can’t tell anyone what to do, how to dress, including women, including anyone you date. How someone dresses has nothing to do with their loyalty. Period. A women doesn’t have to dress modestly, for any reason, unless she herself feels like it. A women doesn’t have to dress modestly in order to be respected. If you feel threatened because other men are sexualizing her when she’s just existing and doing what’s comfortable or what she’s wants that’s a YOU problem, & that’s a men problem. Your sexualizing a women then getting mad at her for your own sexualizations? A man problem. Bodies are not inherently sexual, it’s others who sexualizing them or have a response. Your response is your responsibility. No one needs to censor themselves or shrink or shrivel or change in order to make others comfortable & cater to insecurities and fragile ego & masculinity. If you are that insecure, threatened, pathetic, & possessive & controlling in response, work on yourself. Dont be in relationships until you’re not an insecure mess & quit viewing women as sexual objects to parade around then hide away at your leasure, depending on how insecure you’re feeling, quit acting like women are prizes to be won & fought over, we’re not material possessions, we’re not your toys, we’re not your fucking dolls to fight over. Look in the fucking mirror. Imagine a relationship where two people are actually very secure in themselves, not threatened by others, comfortable enough in themselves each other abd the relationship to be free to dress & do whatever they want, acknowledge that others find both people attractive and yet it doesn’t matter to either of you or phase you because at the end of the day, you’re committed to each other. There are no threats to your relationship because your secure. And at the end of the day, you grew up out of diapers and realized you can’t control other people, not what they say, not what they do, not what they think, not what they think of your partner. You can only control yourself. So who are you going to choose to be? A raging insecure asshole or not? Evolve or stay the same
he's treating her like owns her, dump him ! she should decide everything to do with herself !
It's less an issue about clothing, but this guy saying things like it's his house and his rules.
Even if she paid the Bill's, she should have respect for the man she supposedly loves.
If they prefer validation and attention from the world, f em'....literally and figuratively
Response; you WERE my boyfriend, in the house of the world NO ONE tells me what to do, THESE are your INSECURITIES
No one has ever told me what to wear. Not even my parents. I dunno if I'd dump him just for that. But I'd definitely not comply and tell him he can't put parameters on me like that. And watch out for further warning signs of jealousy and control.
Sadly the pool and him are a package deal 🤣 I'd just ignore him till the end of summer, or buy a really salacious one piece
HAHAHAHA HAHAHAH awww that poor little man .. thinking he owns everything and everyone hahahahAHAHHAHA
*waits for reality to hit him*
Tell him to get in the bin!! End of!!
You've all lost self respect. Show them bitties, stay empowered ✊🏽
"my house, my rules" .... OK, Dad
what happened ? Did Chloe leave him or stay ?
Get Out and Run Chloe Run out of there Real Fast. Then do a twirl and shimmy.
#agreed
@@ToniandRyan Plz update somehow. Wishing Chloe all the safety and protection they need right now.
Shimmiy and shake it for everyone, show the man in your life how little you respect him, and how his feelings means nothing to you.
@@Neo.Jordonyou've got it backwards. He doesn't respect HER. He can set a boundary for himself, not her, and if her boundaries don't align with his He can leave. Wearing or not wearing clothes isn't something our partners get to dictate. Sounds like he's severely controlling and insecure.
@@whims6278 you didnt have a father tell you not to dress like a skank? He must be insecure, jealous, trying to stop your shine
Asking her not to wear a bikini is not such a big deal...depending upon his reasoning and how he asks. However... the whole "my house my rules" thing is a HUGE red flag! I'd say a massive "Hell NO!" to that! Laying down those types of rules, especially just after you've moved in, is something I'd be worried about.
If he's treating you like that at the very beginning of the relationship, when things are supposed to be perfect, you know that this is as good as it's going to get. Things are only going to go downhill from there and his demands will only get worse especially if you go along with him and buckle down at the beginning of the relationship! You need to throw him the deuces and get the hell out of there. The bikini issue is the Least of your problems and I think you know that. Oh and trust me, getting a place together where you're both on the lease won't help. He'll still want to he in control. Get out... Asap.
Ahh it's always a fu**in' Chad, isn't it? If this dude was a smart guy he would take the attitude of "Yeah, ya'll that's my girl.." brag through out the building that he's dating the prettiest girl there lol. But instead he's gottta screw it all up with his desperate personal insecurities.
Shes a red flag.
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God why have lauren on. She used gary ablett for her career. Best move eva he did dumping her. Now got a rich bf. No talent all
A woman in a relationship should not dress like that in front of other men.
And if she does chose to do that, you think she should be in prison for it, right?
@@technoloverishshe should be single, and treated how she's acting. Like a 304.
@@Neo.Jordon
But isn't everyone a sinner? And according to the Bible, can't all sins be forgiven and wiped away with repentance?
@@technoloverish
That's between them and God, no marriage can survive a promiscuous attention seeking modern women.
Plenty of examples, meghan good,
Ciara....they can't and wont stop this behaviour, best to spot it early and move on.
Bonus! Any man who asks or tells his lady that all this behaviour isn't cool, will be painted as a controlling monster, who she should break up with.
A woman should not date insecure men, who’s insecurities manifest as control or worse, & then consequently blame women for in fact their own emotional internal inadequacies, & actions. The call is coming from inside the house. It’s a you problem boo boo. You can’t tell anyone what to do, how to dress, including women, including anyone you date. How someone dresses has nothing to do with their loyalty. Period. A women doesn’t have to dress modestly, for any reason, unless she herself feels like it. A women doesn’t have to dress modestly in order to be respected. If you feel threatened because other men are sexualizing her when she’s just existing and doing what’s comfortable or what she’s wants that’s a YOU problem, & that’s a men problem. Your sexualizing a women then getting mad at her for your own sexualizations? A man problem. Bodies are not inherently sexual, it’s others who sexualizing them or have a response. Your response is your responsibility. No one needs to censor themselves or shrink or shrivel or change in order to make others comfortable & cater to insecurities and fragile ego & masculinity. If you are that insecure, threatened, pathetic, & possessive & controlling in response, work on yourself. Dont be in relationships until you’re not an insecure mess & quit viewing women as sexual objects to parade around then hide away at your leasure, depending on how insecure you’re feeling, quit acting like women are prizes to be won & fought over, we’re not material possessions, we’re not your toys, we’re not your fucking dolls to fight over. Look in the fucking mirror. Imagine a relationship where two people are actually very secure in themselves, not threatened by others, comfortable enough in themselves each other abd the relationship to be free to dress & do whatever they want, acknowledge that others find both people attractive and yet it doesn’t matter to either of you or phase you because at the end of the day, you’re committed to each other. There are no threats to your relationship because your secure. And at the end of the day, you grew up out of diapers and realized you can’t control other people, not what they say, not what they do, not what they think, not what they think of your partner. You can only control yourself. So who are you going to choose to be? A raging insecure asshole or not? Evolve or stay the same