How to Make New FRIENDS in College? | 5 Easy Tips
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I used to be an extrovert in my childhood but eventually I became an introvert and I stopped expressing myself to others. Covid made it even worse. Now talking to people became a task for me as it is leading to an awkward conversation. Even when I am talking to them they are not talking to me. It hurts me very badly. I am trying to mingle with people.Hope I will find friends and lead a life I dreamed of....
Hey there.... Can we be friends?? 😃
Same here😕🙂
@@cabhimanyu3483 For sure.
@@durgavaishnavi7501 yeah and you will reply after 9 days... Itna introvert kaun hota hai be🤣🤣... Yaar 9 days ke baad reply
@@melitajm4286 you also be my friend
Hard truth - Aap college friends banane nahi jaate, apne goals ko achieve karne jaate hain.
Types of friends -
1. Casual friends
2. Comrade
3. Confidants
Tips to make good friendship -
1. To take initiative
2. Ask Questions
3. Quantity and Quality
4. Attend parties and societies
5. Alone is not always lonely
Bonus point - Spend most of your time in self growth.
Thank you so much Di!❤
Time saver😁
If you feel lonely, you're not friends with yourself.
-Me
@@kashishsharma2033 yeah atmanirbhar. Hand is gf wala
What does comrade means??
@@nikhilsingh4615 comrade means close friends at your class..
Today was my first day of college and I felt so sad as I didn't know anyone and was alone the whole day. I couldn't make any friends today and most of the people in my class already knew each other and had their own groups so I felt like an outsider . after watching this video, I feel so much better . thank you so much Shraddha di
just introvert things XD
Same ..mera bhi kl first day tha but class kafi din se start thi sbb ek dusre ko jante thai but yesterday i also felt outsider ..and felt alone
Omg, the exact Same here😢
Same 🥲
Same for me at ycc college
Madam beginning level ka video banao hamare jaise introverts ke liye
😄😂
Same bro
👊🏻
If you are introvert then you are good analyser, take time & don't run for friendship, books are best friends. After college it's your own life and you have to handle it alone
Same bro
Make friends but don't make anyone your priority. Do everything for your friend, help them, encourage them! But don't rely on them for your own emotions. Learn that friends are just part of your life, not your whole life. And with time everyone is gonna hurt you, so don't expect anything from anyone. Do things selflessly..and try to accept the reality and keep moving with the flow.
Wishing you All the best✨
👏👏💯
The exact thing happened with me during 10th, 12th
But in college, I never rely on my friends to be my priority💯
Whatever you said is exactly true🙌
it's the truth
thanks
It’s for life…even ur own parents and kids hurt u eventually
When your friends are rich but you are not... somewhere you will feel it's okay to not have friends..just an experience
Agreed
Can you explain it little bit??
Agreed
;-)
I still experience the same
Most of my friends are rich (they are among the richest in our town) and i am low income middle class...
College is the place where you can talk to the people without knowing their names😍
Shi h I am doing same😊😂
Even new admission in school lets u to talk to the people without knowing their names so stop saying rubbish, according to me school life is most memorable childhood memories and u can also called school as ur 2nd home
Ohh🤣
Same 😅
Indian railways be like. Hello brother idhr..
Need more videos on such similiar college like topics☺️
Note this please🤗
Yes right 🙃
"College hum future bnane jaa rhe dost nahin".
true💯
Exactly 💯. Agar dost ban jaate hain to theek hai aur agar nahi bante hain to bhi theek hai. Uske bina life aur career khatam to nahi ho jaate. Logon ne college friendship ko itna hype banakar rakha hai
@@hello.667 tumara clg hogaya tho thoda experience share kare
@@Daily_1percent College pura nahi hua. 2nd year complete hua hai abhi
Bhai future kaise banega logo se baat nahi karni aygi to kitna bhi padle koi fayda nahi kabhi na kabhi to baat karni hi padegi
Remember one thing : Don't consider your casual friends as the real ones. I repeat NEVER. Instead of that, try to be a lone warrior with acquaintances. U guys will shine.
And yes, I'm too at the first year of my college.
Yeah that's exactly what I am doing. I am in 2nd year
@@hello.667 Oh great ✨
I am also in 1st year, going to college next month. I will do the same as you said , Thank you. Hii , BTS army 💜💜💕.
That hits hard thanks for advice✌️
Hii ,I m.1st year student as well, and an army as well ,nice to me you
My family always used to say that I have no friends, I don't talk to anyone, I am not good at all , I will stay alone always. But I want to make friends, i want to hangout but the problem is I don't get friends of my interest . I always get friends who use me for their benefits and later they make their new friends and I'm left lonely.😔
I know I'm alone. But being alone make me more stronger than anything.
Just make friends
Let them exploit you but once this is the only way to find the best
But you should have control over the level of exploitation
Bhai tuna manlo 5 friends banaya usma 1 ek hi issa karega Baki 4 to acha hi hoga
U should learn to. Exploit them as well
@@prateeksaini8553 yeh badia tha
Are you a shy person?
I m also like you ...i like simple friend who are not psychos ..overattitude ..having simple funny ...is ok
But i did not find anyone like that😵
Asli dosti school mai hoti hai.. Dosti ka matlab Jaha dimaag na ho! Lines by respected avadh ojha sir.. 🙌
In my college not a single person is of my type currently I'm in the 2nd year but have no friends because I can't find any similarity in them they join college for hook up while I want to pursue my dream after 2years. Sometimes it's ok to be alone rather then being with wrong people 😊
Last line ❤❤
Very nice thinking❤❤❤
That's a good thought but make a topper friend for just preparation of your exams.
Exactly
100% my situation
College hum Carrier banane ja rahe hai, na ki dost banane ! Amazing line
Just loved the video , it was so knowledgeful on friendships. Am a dropper and i was facing friendship losses and having fake friends but this vdo helped me out from this friendship problem which I was suffering from almost a year now. Thank u so much mam for providing me with a new outlook on friends
Microsoft wali didi has a seperate fan base ❤️🙌
Note:- Never ever skip first day of college because then you will notice many squads and groups have already been done and then it will be hard for you to be a part of it
Nothing just from my experience i am sharing this :-)
Mai upgrade krungi clg toh orientation me Jane thodi denge?
@@BhartiChawla-ip8qpyou still can go if u want
@@BhartiChawla-ip8qp wtf is upgrade
True 🙂💯 am also facing this.
Yeah you are right it's very difficult
*A 1st year student asked me "Bhaiyaa Principal office kahan hai?"*
*2nd Year Student Me : Bro Tum bhi jahan hum bhi wahan.😂*
*All credits to COVID-19.*
🤣🤣
😂😂😂 amazing
Bhai bhai 🤣🤣🤣
Same condition
Lol
🤣😂me one who thinks
Friendship is waste of time
As well as key to success in life is a friend one who shares everything with u
So you don't have any friend isn't it?
It's needed for introverts & especially now. After being isolated for almost two years, socialising seems to be a herculean task!!
best advice: At initial stage focus on quantity of friends and thereupon u will realise who is matching your vibes
Thanks For A very Great Advice
But At Initial You Will Feel Connection With Them
And If They Left You or Slowly Speak Less To You Then it will Hurt You Mentally
(I Think We Should Never Make So Much Personal Connections With Them Cause As A Boy I can tell you that ladke Hamesha ladkiyo se Jyada Connect Feel karte hai)
We can't change our personality overnight. We need to take initiative to make that happen. In order to make friends, we need to socialize as much as we can ( atleast in 1st year).
Bonus tip from my side : Don't judge a person too quickly cz sometimes ppl might not seem as they are.
Get your academics right & extend your help towards your classmates. Just help & appreciate others. You'll find the best results.
Your right.
I am a Jee 2023 aspirant
I hope that I would have a great college life
Your bonus tip works 👌. I realized it.
@@Suraj-ew6gd All the best!
@@hello.667 All the best!
@@DivyanshiMishra-tb2sr Thanks Sis
By the way in which college/ year are u studying right now ?
Now, I feel relax 💆
Earlier I thought that, "I am the only who is introvert"
But now by 👀seeing the comments
There are so many people who are introvert like me & so many have this problem...
I am happy to know that " I am not only who is introvert in this world"😜😜
....
Btw kuch english mai galti ho gyi hogi to bata dena.... I am trying to improve my english 😊😇☺
English to shi hai 😅
@@amaanullah13 ooo really....then appreciate me😁😁
@@yuvti2656 Appreciated 😅👋💯
@@amaanullah13 thanku 😄
keep it up ☺️ improve your English
I'm an introvert throughout my whole school life... But now in engineering, I'm a complete extrovert.... I've just concentrated on seminars and communication skills by which I gradually became an extrovert
How do you do that bro
I am same like you 😭😭😭
Moral: Be the best version of yourself, don't waste your time pretending to be cool .😊
💯
This friendship thing cannot be learned from one video or many videos.
We had to learn it through our life expieriences. That's the truth.
Yes you're absolutely right i have also learnt this thing in my collage 🙂
Watching this as an introvert 🥲✌
Same🥲
Me 😭😭😭
I never thought ...we need a vedio on how to make friends.... It's a flow just go with it... Good or bad life and time teaches you the Best
when u start working with great people like Aman bhaiya, u become them. She reflects his personality.
I'm glad to see the timing of these videos , I have just got into BTech and the videos from this channel are soo helpful . Great work👍🏻 . Keep growing team Apna College.
First day first class of clg jo baju me aake baitha vahi best friend for engineering student 😊😂❤️🔥🔥
Shi bole
Thank god 4 your valuable suggestion. 🙂 Aap jaise people hi logo ko distract nhi hone de te.
I'm so much anxious regarding making friends in cllg.
Im gonna join cllg in next few months, will keep ur points in my mind. Thnq Di!
I hope my next yr wud be productive nd wud make few friends.
Honest and genuine
Not compromise with self respect and goals.
1:40 college hume future banane jana hai dost nahi ❤
Kon college bro??????
Kis college se hai bhaiya
good timing..hihi..starting my college life from monday
Very late.. , my MST exams of 1st sem starting from Monday
Congo🥳🥳
Mine is starting from 30th of nov😁
@@shraddhajalandre9541 😂
@@Unknown-kk7lk haha..I meant to say that physical classes starting from monday..though college had started in may be september..so will meet people face to face in true terms of college life from monday..and good luck for ur exam :-)
Jiske paas Paisa zyada, uske paas dost zyada. Yahi friendship ka sad truth hai 🙂
No bro I don't agree
School friends let me introduce myself
Naa aisa kuch nahi hai
True in college this is true
Yes,it is right
Reality yahi h ki achhe or sachhe dost sirf schl me hi milte h ,schl baad ke frnds sirf frnd hi hote ,mgr schl me to na paiso se mtlb na hi standard se inse koi mtlb nhi hota bs vibe milni chahiye 😮😮
Dost vo acche hote h jo apne aap bn jaate h...bnaye hue dost kisi kaam ke nhi hote...... note my words😇
"Never allow loneliness to drive you into the arms of someone you know you don't belong with." -Gautama Buddha
Oh 👍
The only problem with me is my dreams detoriate with time because of my groups and friends ..i know it's my fault but it's not only my fault bcz my circle is not that competitive and when you live woth small minded people your dream definitely detoriate !
Same bro....thats why I just prefer to be casual friends with everyone....ocassionaly hanging out with some of them....giving first priority to my dreams and spend majority of my time alone....
@@real_name_hidden3782 same bro 👍. I do not hang out with my friends or watch h movies with them. But sometimes they force me to do so
same bro
Please make a vjdeo on how to be good at side hustles and still mantain 75% attendance coz in some colleges it is very much compulsory to mantain 75% attendance..i am just getting into the college and i am fearful about it..
Really Man!!
i find you with my same name same query
Thank you guys for making me feel that my name is not that bad that only i in the world have it...please like this comment as much as possible ,so that aman bhaiya makes a video on it....
@@happyprabalsingh 🤣🤣🤣🤣👆
🤣🤣🤣
I will pass my College in 3month, still it's in my recommendation and I'm happy to see this...🙂😍
Every point is soo true. I've faced similar situation in my college
Best advice would be dont take anybody serious in the first year. Spend a year in the college and then decide who is right for you.
Ye comment maine phle q nahi dheka🙂😭😭😭
The best video on RUclips
I had a problem I thought has anyone even made video on this
Never change a goal for another friendship role
But frienda ke masti karnte karte padne me maja alag hi hey 😇😊
Full marks for the reminder - college mein ham goals pura karne jaate hai, not for making friends . I was thinking the same
Lekin practical and file work me friends ki jarurat padati hai tb mai akela rah jaunga
Bestest advice: Never compromise with your self respect and goals.
This will definitely helps college students 😊
Thanks!
When I entered in college I made two friends they were very closed to me I shared almost everything to them and they also
Now I’m in 3rd year and I broke my friendship with them because at the end I came to know they were think totally opposite to me
Negative depressed and back bitching were their habits
I felt very bad tht I ruined my college life with such type of friends
It happens
I've almost experienced the same scenario in an early stage though, maybe it's for our best, an experience. Life still goes on, we indulge and connect to more people, these experiences that we faced will help us to filter the forthcoming people we meet. Never lose hope bruda !❤️
Quality of friends are important than quantity of friend. They take your useful time of life if you value the importance of time in your life.
Aapka expression and body language video me Aman dhattarwal bhaiya jaise hoti ja rahe h , jo aman bhaiya ka realisation dilata h 🔥
Hmlog sirf online hi incentive le skte real life. M muh hi nhi khulta h😂😂😂😂
Amazing video diiiii...❤❤❤❤thanks ...we should never compromise with our career😊
Thanks di☺️ I always get a solution to my problem from you You are my real mentor
Kya zamana aagya ha...dost bnane ke liye bhi video dekhna par rha ha
acha hai ki me andha hu
😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Sahi hai bhai 😮
Right yrr 😢
It's really Ossam Video didi. U told here Practical things and the most important truth also tht we have to go there not for making friends but for completing our Goals! ✨☺️
Aaah looking at this video my anxiety is kicking me !!
Feeling feared that i may not make good friends
Same here 😔
I completed my one year of collage and not made single friend in offline mode but I had all of them are friend on social media as following.😅
Same here bro thank god Mai hi Akela nhi Hu yaha 😢
Same here😅😅😅
Introverts zindabaad! 😁
@@khushalingole5931I'm also one of them.. don't worry ek time ke baad sb apne busy hi ho jate h after completed college
@@khushalingole5931 same here
Didi aise hi first year freshers keep liye aur tips please
Felt funny after reading the title, but trust me i feel this video should have come 3 year back... as i am in 4th year now...if u guys understand or know my pain please give this comment a thumbs up... atleast some motivation here xD
Mera hal bi yahi hai Mai final year me hu Mera koi best friends nahi hai
Madam thank u to tell about our friends in college ....
I like this very much ........!!!!!
You are the best . Actually you are our motivation
mam aapke har ek video se kuch na kuch sikhne ko jarur milta hai.....
thanks lot you mam....
Helps Introverts like me
Wow didi !
Just awesome ❤❤
This is one of my favorite videos as I'm a first year college student....😇
This line is true ke ham collge m friends banane nahi balke future banane jate hai .... Aapke ye video bahut jyada helpfull rahi mere liyea thanku so much Sharadha Didi ❤️
Anyone 2024 ✋😅
Yess 🙋🏻♂️
Yess😊
Yeah 😅
Ma
Yeah 😂😂
Thank u soooo much👍👍Helped alot😍😍
this totally sums up my anxiety
Future
Dreams goals around
5 pplz define who we are
Common goal
Casual not personal
Canteen masti comard share
After job connection tut jata hai
Confidant
Khushi ma Khush
Dukh ma dukhi
1. Take initative.
Dream
2. Practical
Plans hangout.
3. Ask questions for
4) appreciate
Interested
Feel good
5) quality/ quantity
Explore
6) participate party group clubs academics poetry
7) alone
Explore
Lonely
Fear bad
Apni space ma Khush.
Fully appreciate fully enjoy
Sacrifice
Self growth
Time a Kahan sa rah hai aur lag rah hai
Genuinely appreciate
Never compromise with self respect
✌️
Requesting a video on some good project ideas on blockchain (in detail) please.
Very helpful! Thank you so much di!
Thank you so so much for this. Needed a guidance of a senior, was really intimidated regarding this. Thank you so much❤
Thank you so much di ..
Now I can understand everything😊✨💜
Hnn idhar bhi nhi h.
True i also expected my clg life like in movies 😂 full masti clubbing and all but in 1st year i just felt there are many groups in clg its just difficult to mingle people give priority to those who are close to them
AMAZING INDEED REQUIRED . THANKYOU SHRADDHA DI
Reading the comment section makes me feel so much better....
Like i am not the only one...
Thank mam I really need it😊
ruclips.net/video/5gHUgIAC8Wo/видео.html C language
Thanks for motivation ❤
What a amazing video i really enjoyed.❤❤❤❤
doston k mamle mein main shuru se hi unlucky rehi hun
Thank you for this video 🙏
I was with a freind group of 4 others including me, but where ever they went or whenever they talk to, they always used leave me out. Ig just because I'm not on any of the trending social media apps.
that is the thing, even when I'm with a frnds group I still felt alone and that was basically for a week.
After that I slowly slipped out of the group but when I was doing that I came to know that they didn't even cared 🤷♀😒
My seniors are way better than them tho, and recent friends actually motivate me alot.
Mam thanku soo much for this video
Bohot helpful rhi ye video ❤ 😍.
I ask this question on almost every videos of Java course
Mam aapne boht achha samjhaaya hai... This video is really helpful for me ....
Generally People make friends who are similar to your personality
Thanks a lot🤗🙏🏻
Best as always
Love you didi❤️
Yeah i am introvert person but still lonely persons can change the world like bill gates he has only one friend
Ur words hitted me hard....but trust me it changed my opinion...tnq so much ❤️❤️
Hey wanna be friends
Shraddha di aap har choti badi baat mein bhut help krte h.A very big thanks to you ❤
Make friends enjoy with them but not much.
Remember great ideas comes when u are alone.
Thomas edison tesla and many great scientists lived and worked alone and when great idea came.
I am saying by my experience.
@@KshitijPatel. nope great scientists had worked alone on there inventions.
@@KshitijPatel. i am not talking about that i am saying ideas come when u live alone.
Ofcourse u may work together with someone to create it into reality
@@KshitijPatel. I dont agree
Outclass... 👍
So basically I went to college 3 weeks after it started and its been 1 week I m going to college....its really hard that everyone has group and friends and you are a loner...
Best line was at the end- Never compromise and be true yourself
I want 'How to avoid college friends'
🤣🤣
Same
College mat ja 🌝
Padhayi chorde bhai
😂
First day of my college.. thank you for this video..😊