Lifting Weights Won't Make Women Like You | Coach EO

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  • Опубликовано: 4 ноя 2024

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  • @EVERETTOVERTON
    @EVERETTOVERTON  2 года назад +40

    Again, listeners, I’m not advocating against physical fitness here. Instead, I’m stressing the importance of mental and emotional fitness….which is badly lacking in today’s man.
    Of course, lifting weights and eating healthier will “help”…but the mirror (inner wealth) is often neglected for the iron.
    Now, if you can be in harmony with the spirit, mind, and body…..Notice the order…then Godspeed, my friend.
    Best wishes. See you in the next video.

  • @Officialkingofallkings
    @Officialkingofallkings 2 года назад +43

    Fellas, lift weights for YOURSELF and ONLY yourself. Peace.

  • @MiiDev69
    @MiiDev69 2 года назад +37

    This is so true, while lifting didn't make women like me, it made ME start liking myself after a few weeks and that's all I care about.

    • @InternationalMaj
      @InternationalMaj 2 года назад +6

      That's where the trick is. You liking yourself!

    • @KingHenrySB
      @KingHenrySB 2 года назад +5

      It starts and ends with the man. That's what its all about bro!

    • @VoidDweller86
      @VoidDweller86 2 года назад

      @@InternationalMaj Self hatred is a very powerful magnitude of enigma That most people can not even begin to comprehend or understand, I am just speaking for myself.

  • @floydlholt9829
    @floydlholt9829 2 года назад +22

    I use the gym for coping with stress instead of getting women. It’s a therapy session for me.

  • @mrprimetime2628
    @mrprimetime2628 2 года назад +11

    Lifting weights raises your confidence and serotonin levels, if you look good and you feel good, you pull in the ladies. Don't need no suave talk all the time. The energy you carry is enough.

    • @cuymathis5779
      @cuymathis5779 2 года назад +2

      Nah bro you gotta know how to talk to. You wanna look like Dwayne Johnson but be acting like will smith ?

  • @indagotv8165
    @indagotv8165 2 года назад +15

    He’s telling the truth man the gym is where I let my anger out… I remember things that disappoint me there and it helps with my reps in between sets. Keep the vids coming EO

  • @dangriffith6151
    @dangriffith6151 2 года назад +3

    I am lifting to get my body in shape so I can get my mind back on point

  • @chrisholt4804
    @chrisholt4804 2 года назад +50

    The gym won't make girls like you but it will instigate a level of interest. It's just another top attribute to you're purpose though. Most woman these days will look at a really hot guy that works out as a threat because he's not controllable and she has to compete. Woman want to manipulate.

    • @SimonKamina1
      @SimonKamina1 2 года назад +9

      Nah bro, I've seen big dudes getting disrespected and beat by his girlfriend. Big dudes are very controllable. I've got cousin who women run them.

    • @chrisholt4804
      @chrisholt4804 2 года назад +5

      @@SimonKamina1 I said it's an attribute. Nothing takes away from your purpose. If you let them, it's on you.

    • @robcruz8581
      @robcruz8581 2 года назад +2

      Factoids

    • @damightyom
      @damightyom 2 года назад +2

      Trying to understand what you are saying here... I don't think they see a threat, I think they see a challenge. Guys covered in muscles are rarely incels.

    • @chrisholt4804
      @chrisholt4804 2 года назад +1

      @@damightyom I mean it goes both ways yes. But the point here is fun brats without a purpose/game or personality only goes so far.

  • @francisonyeike5622
    @francisonyeike5622 2 года назад +3

    Putting My Sight Inward and returning back to Myself I feel everyday!!! The Coach Ain't Lying here.

  • @rp5231
    @rp5231 2 года назад +24

    This is going to sound crazy as hell... I started working out to get attention from the ladies. SOME of the ladies at the gym MIGHT care.
    The biggest change I noticed outside of the GREAT benefits of becoming more disciplined and being healthier....
    Getting hit on by DUDES.... It's sad but true LMAO.

  • @journeythroughenlightenmen3426
    @journeythroughenlightenmen3426 2 года назад +5

    Your timing couldn't be more perfect. I experienced this moment last night.
    I've always struggled to stay consistent with fitness. My body is lean with little natural muscle. And I've been so hard on myself with negative self talk about how gaining muscle would solve my women problems.
    Realized my resistance to building muscle is due to not having internal confidence in myself and not loving who I am today.
    My soul wants me to begin conquering my world in my current form. And be comfortable in my own skin. Realize my blessings and build on them. And if I choose to gain lean muscle on my journey, it should be for me...and not to look good for someone else.
    Thanks Coach EO.

  • @skyranger187
    @skyranger187 2 года назад +3

    "The weights don't talk back." Reminds me of that scene from Bloodsport when Frank Dux broke the bottom brick in a stack of bricks to qualify for the Kumete and Chong Li says "very good. But brick not hit back!"

  • @o0oStillWeRiseo0o
    @o0oStillWeRiseo0o 2 года назад +6

    Cowboy EO I’m Omw to gym now it’s leg day. Had a nice rest day yesterday, spent some time with a nice woman. Had fun, went out for Mexican, got some food and essentials for Easter. My advice don’t use gym as a mere cope. I’m a very outgoing man and an I’m very sociable. The gym is my place for staying committed to goals, and using some time to myself to increase my mental/physical pain threshold. That’s how results come. I work out by myself, but if you’re an awkward dude in social situations; recommend getting a training partner or a trainer.

  • @schecter006
    @schecter006 2 года назад +2

    I'm a quiet watcher of your channel, but just wanted to say you look great for 42 EO!

  • @harveygosal
    @harveygosal 2 года назад +5

    This is true and I've experienced this myself. I now train to be battle ready. The gym is a great place to take out anger and build discipline within myself. The looking good and other things that come with it are all just bonuses.

  • @Atius8
    @Atius8 2 года назад +22

    I've been lifting for a very long time. Never for women though. I've gotten stares and even been approached at the gym, so it definitely helps. But as a man you're expected to be more well rounded and those social skills will give you even greater opportunities.

  • @maxelcolonia4136
    @maxelcolonia4136 2 года назад +3

    Yes sir!! I'm in the best shape of my life right now and still having trouble and I get rejected more because of it... Shit is painful..

  • @michaelmetrokeiv7642
    @michaelmetrokeiv7642 2 года назад +1

    COACH EO IS THE DAMN MAN.

  • @apdb7226
    @apdb7226 2 года назад +3

    Great video,absolutely true if of your not right on the inside first it won’t matter what you look like at all more need to learn the balance of mind,body,spirit,and social skills Find out who you are. ✅

  • @mhill88ify
    @mhill88ify 2 года назад +1

    If you are a gym rat because you are running away or overcompensating, then yes, it can be a crutch. But if you are building and growing and loving yourself more for it...that's gold.

  • @peregrimus
    @peregrimus 2 года назад +3

    Hitting gym and lifting heavy weights just feels manly... u get sense of security, u can move couch easier, you can lift chick up while screwing her etc..
    90% of dudes are repping 40kgs on bench though

  • @lg2different
    @lg2different 2 года назад +4

    I do regular push ups an pull ups stuff like that I feel good 👍🏿 I just wish I dressed a little better

  • @damightyom
    @damightyom 2 года назад +3

    This video is good advice, but it's good advice for guys that are socially awkward. For instance, take myself. I'm a guy that was skinny-fat all my life. Still I always got cute women (6's to 7's) because I have the gift of gab. I can turn on the charm. But I always had to work hard for sex, and women never automatically looked my way. For the past year I've been working out at least 3 times a week. Now I'm actually starting to see real gains. And guess what? Now not just cute girls but BEAUTIFUL women (8+'s) are starting to stare at me while I'm at the gym. I can't imagine how they are going to start behaving in the next 2 to 3 years haha. So for some of you guys out there, this isn't the right video for you. If you know how to get girls without muscles, then do yourself a favor... HIT THE GYM! I feel like I've found a secret... you want to inspire LUST. And that doesn't have anything to do with your shoes or your car or your rap. LUST is primal and has everything to do with the cut of your body. Women don't even know this about themselves, but they are THIRSTY as hell!

  • @confidencemagnet
    @confidencemagnet 2 года назад

    Man does everything in his power to avoid rejection. I learned through cold approaching alone that if you can take rejection and have a lot of patience, you will have a happier dating life. You are not afraid of rejection, you are not afraid of charging women to the game and going back out into the dating market instead of holding on to a woman who doesn't love you or is very problematic. If you go to the gym, and have a chiseled physique, when the women are looking at you, you still have to approach.
    Don't expect your physique to get women to approach you.

  • @aspiringladiesman19
    @aspiringladiesman19 2 года назад +7

    Thanks Coach for the great information and addressing a serious topic. A bodybuilder told me that men are the ones who like lots of muscle and stressed that women are not into this the way men are. Being 5'4 I lift weights so I don't look puny and also work on social skills, meditation, and getting healed from traumatic events. Women look down me on the job and in the dating world. It is not an easy fix. If I had the money to extensively hire you coach every week, I would. I am teacher so the emasculation that goes on in that female dominated environment is bad. Most of us have not seen real masculine role models so we are imitating women. The gym helps with my self esteem. Being around women tears my self esteem so I lift weight and run to rap music. At least there I see success and can feel better. The constant rejection and having to learn the game at age 52 is challenging. I am tired of hearing a woman's mouth. I agree with Dr. BOA they need to know when to shut up. The women's snide remarks and verbal comments are tearing men down. It needs to stop.

  • @OvertonConsultingGroup-SNO
    @OvertonConsultingGroup-SNO 2 года назад +5

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  • @jgreen4880
    @jgreen4880 2 года назад +1

    In the words of the great Mac Miller SELFCARE” embrace yourself. Your aura will attract the rest but the gym does help. Balance” is key be water my friends 💪🏽💪🏽💯💯

  • @brolicshawn3567
    @brolicshawn3567 2 года назад +1

    I’m 48 I got one of them I lift weights DadBods I’ve found that women as young as 22 and above like it I’m jus solid I depend on my personality and sense of humor when it comes to Mackn

  • @David28311
    @David28311 2 года назад +2

    Awesome video coach thanks

  • @alexfowler9785
    @alexfowler9785 2 года назад +5

    Working out is great for yourself, for being able to be the athlete you want to be, but for attracting women it's short sighted. Sure women will notice a guy who is jacked in the right areas, maybe give him a second look. Unfortunately to get her he still must have the confidence, the manly presence, the speaking ability, and if he has it resources. The total package. Of course people can attract without the resources but it makes it harder.

  • @unclegunz
    @unclegunz 2 года назад +1

    I've known handsome, fit bodied men that would get tail (low quality tail) but they can never get them to Stay. Plates don't help Personality. Continuously Deep Game from the Champ.

  • @joeladams2327
    @joeladams2327 2 года назад +1

    AMA work on my adding value to the world n myself

  • @Alfvaldez
    @Alfvaldez 2 года назад +1

    42 holy crap I was thinking 32

  • @paulkerrylegerme5205
    @paulkerrylegerme5205 2 года назад +3

    Coach EO your contents are in another dimension you're one of the best out there tnx you so much 💯

  • @kenyonferguson1243
    @kenyonferguson1243 14 дней назад

    Hat is tuff

  • @KM21120
    @KM21120 2 года назад +6

    Important message by Coach EO. Like & share the video

  • @peterkovic2241
    @peterkovic2241 Год назад

    I believe going to the gym is a foundational practice that isn't optional if you want to improve your life. It won't solve all of your problems, but you need to do it. I have no patience for depressed people who don't work out. Start there. There will be other areas in which you will need to grow too, like learning social skills and dating skills as Everett suggests, but I don't think you can avoid the necessity of going to the gym to get yourself unstuck. It's a great square one.

  • @murphsviews
    @murphsviews 2 года назад +1

    I’ve never had a gym membership but I think why getting ripped helps a lot of guys get more women is that there is a certain percentage of women out there who are really attracted to guys with muscles, so if you get yourself some muscles you’ll naturally attract many if not all of those particular women.
    And if you’re a guy who has previously not attracted any women, that’s obviously going to be a much more desirable outcome.
    You’ll still need to know or learn how to interact with her though, because her physical attraction towards you will generally not get her panties dropped.

  • @OfficialBasedologyYT
    @OfficialBasedologyYT 2 года назад +4

    Howdy 🤠

  • @terrodar19
    @terrodar19 2 года назад +1

    No joke i would’ve never thought coach EO would be the kind of dude to have F***ng cat Hahah. It’s probably your womans cat isn’t it

  • @joeladams2327
    @joeladams2327 2 года назад +1

    Yo coach God bless u

  • @Smootharistocrat
    @Smootharistocrat 2 года назад +3

    The problem is a lot of men get to caught up on what they see on IG . There dudes that’s “in shape” with “money” struggling with women all the time and getting exposed by these women everyday. So you sure lifting weights gonna solve your issues with women ? There’s so many men that’ll never know the importance of GAME. I’m not saying don’t work out , yes , stay healthy keep your body in peak shape to perform well in your professional life and to live a long life. But y’all got the wrong mindset thinking the gym is going to make you have success with women lol . Fuckin Amateurs man 🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @JoeyHern
    @JoeyHern 2 года назад +5

    Some will notice when you're in shape and some won't. The rest is your mouth piece.

  • @GymJones865
    @GymJones865 Год назад

    Living in the gym and getting jacked is like owning a nice motorcycle. You mainly get attention from other men. If you’re gonna do either of those things, do it for yourself.

  • @waynepizzaguy
    @waynepizzaguy 2 года назад +2

    If the female you're trynna get with isn't into fitness, this relationship is most likely doomed from the get go.

    • @MassGainingGuy
      @MassGainingGuy 2 года назад +1

      Why? She might have other hobbies that she enjoys other than the gym.

    • @voidwalker9223
      @voidwalker9223 Год назад

      yeah thats a really dumb comment.

  • @gio957
    @gio957 2 года назад +1

    The point of a gym isn't to get women.

  • @konkol90
    @konkol90 2 года назад +1

    It helped me

  • @roy07x
    @roy07x 2 года назад

    Gitter Done! Eee haa! Gym is for health purposes and hooking up with sweaty 🐱.

  • @Tomas-ym1sq
    @Tomas-ym1sq 2 года назад +3

    🐴🐴🐴🐴🌵🌵🌵

  • @mattdempsey8173
    @mattdempsey8173 2 года назад

    Do your county accent in video

  • @timehealthfit1891
    @timehealthfit1891 2 года назад +3

    You the best, want to be youtube friends?

  • @timehealthfit1891
    @timehealthfit1891 2 года назад +1

    You're more helpful than you realize, want to be youtube friends?