It is sad when you realize that some of the people you loved the most are empty meat suits and never had your best interest at heart. Even more sad the agony they put you through was intentional. They actually enjoy watching you suffer. My narc radar has been turned on for a long time. I won't be fooled again. I pray that others suffering can come to this knowledge and heal.
Seriously Susan it’s evil straight evil, once you wake up to the spiritual war your life is changed. This revelation is the hardest to come to terms with but it humbles you knowing wow I walked in ignorance so long… I know I was protected until blessed with the Divine Mercy waking me up.🕊️
@@Peacewalker1993 At first I had a hard time comprending the evil. Family evil is the worst. They are supposed to love you. Very sad to discover that some people have no conscience and cannot love even if you share the same blood. By the grace of God I was shown the reptilian eyes which awakened me that something was so not right. God pulled me out of there and I was shown the truth about narcissism. God healed me too. I suffered so much from the monsters. I learned to not be so trusting and test the spirit. For the last 5 years I have been living narc free and have the joy and peace of Jesus living in me. I only wish I knew what I know now several decades ago. My life could have been so much better. But it is all in God's time. I am so glad so many are getting the information and waking up but sad that so many are effected by such evil.
They're always downgrading because you were down and naive when you were with them but then you learned and grew and walked away so they have to find someone who is where you were at in life back then and try to pull that shit on them too. It's like they can only be with a level 1 player and when that player passes level 1 and gets to the next level the narc runs back to level 1 and finds a new player there to use and abuse.
"Naive" to their inner workings. People fall for an outer image, idealize it and their imagination gives them all of these qualities they haven't yet "earned" nor deserve.... You learn after bumping your head into walls over time.
They spend a great deal of time trying to figure out ways to destroy you … little bits at a time. Once you slip too far into their invisible trap, you’re going to suffer until you wake up. They WILL perform this on another victim. Rest assured. Heal up and move on. These animals aren’t worth it.
Narcs are crazy , I raised by one , they mess with your head , almost killed me mentally . Thank God I am a strong . I did at some point lost myself , But I am so much stronger mentaly than two years before . by hard work , learning about toxic people . I am very careful and not so naive anymore ,So grateful that learned those lessons in live !
My own blood abusive mother try to kill me since I was in her belly , so set the strongest boundary with Narc selfish masculine and all male traits women at the first place
You done the right thing, self education on these demons & toxic people in general is absolutely essential, so you've done yourself a lot of favours by doing so.. Wishing you a good positive toxic-free life 👍
@@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan So sorry to hear . If you get aware , your hole live crash down. But al so get out of the situation and do inner work and be finally yourself without toxic people.
Narcissists are excellent at acting. They get people by their charm and performance. It can leave you confused because they are so innocent in playing victim and pointing you as the abuser. Don't fall for it!💙RUclipsr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
The person I was with, tore my mind and sanity to shreds. I wanted so badly for her to see that I wanted peace and success with her. All she did was put me down and trash talk me behind my back and I put up with it believing she would see what I was trying to do for so many years. I lost my mind. I snapped a lot and made everyone think that I had anger issues. All I wanted was peace and success. I would go after something like an opportunity and would be trash talked. When I was in the process of joining the military, she would talk behind my back and tell people I wouldn't be able to do it and I was stupid for trying. After a year of trying (because of my background) and even after being told by the recruiter that it "wasn't possible", I STILL didn't take his word for it and ended up doing 7 years, went to Iraq and became a Sargent. Even while in the army and after marrying her, nothing changed. She still trashed me. She ended up with another soldier and cheated who knows how many times. I figured after getting us out of the Midwest and bringing her and the kids to a new life that she would change. She's still to this day a Jezebel. I'm still on my path to success but it's been so hard after the damage. Not to mention that she basically took over from where my "mother" and "sister" let off. Don't get me started on what they did to me. That was physical and mental abuse and another story yet it all ties together. I will overcome this and become what God intended for me to be. I will become successful.
I rebuke narcissists out of my life forever ♾ !! ; - Kim 👩🙏 (I’M DIVINELY PROTECTED AND I’M GUARDED!!) ; - I set myself free from narc abuse back in 2020 !! ; -
Low hanging fruit 😆 It’s so wonderful being free of all that fuc*ery! So great to be with someone who appreciates me for who I am. 🥰 They lose, I win 🏆
Exactly what happened to Johnny Depp with Amber Heard! It can happen to anyone with a good heart, or hopeless romantic! I'm not normally into celebrities or what's going on with them but it reminded me so much of what happened to me! Unbelievable
What amazes me is there are people so broken, disturbed that treat people in such a horrible manner and their lives are a stage production of rotating people with such disregard for other peoples’ boundaries and resources. Many are self-loathing for a range of disorders and are projection gamers. They live for drama and they intentionally weave you into their web. I’ve met many Narcs and one that played me lived in a three-bedroom McMansion from a divorce of her ex whom I met only once. She lived for many years on whatever she got in divorce. She once slipped and said, well, I guess I didn’t need a Mercedes ». She’s all about greed and money and keeping up with the Jones’. It’s sad really when you see the real ugliness that these people are truly dead souls. Also, I’d like to mention if you had a good relationship with your parents and they’ve departed, you never get over it because the genuine love you’ll receive from a decent, non-Narc life partner is different from GOOD parental love. TJjr is correct in that the shock of « the reveal » of The Who is this person I’ve been married to or involved with is a total stranger. I’m much more on guard now but I’m not in the market but wish I had your insight on this topic when I was in my mid, late twenties. I’ve felt so naive and all I’ve ever done is treat these people nicely and as you’d like to be treated. However, it’s like that saying, where do nice guys finish? LAST is right!
Just realized that they are trying to steal respect by any means or by associating with you but then wanting to replace you, but they don't know(because of their egoistic ignorance) that respect cannot be taken or stealed, only earned by continuous work and genuine deeds and not by doing things to instantly receive praisings. Hypocrites are not rewarded but they are infantile hysteric desperates.
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They abandon because they couldn't approach enough to strike so they repeat the process until they try to anihilate the victim. They are so weak and envious in their infantile ego that it makes them incapable to improve, that's why they are angry that they can't manipulate or destroy others that are integrated and healed.
Although, life is never the same for a chosen one after experiencing a narcissistic man or women just know it was a lesson that will open your eyes to narcissistic abuse from family and friends as well. In return, it allows you to protect your energy and allows you to be the best version of yourself. I can see through your eyes that this individual has lowered your vibration and seriously hurt your soul to the core, but I assure you its for the best. I know it is a lonely period but it will make you stronger in the end. For some reason narcissist seem to be very attractive on the outside but very ugly on the inside so looks will only take you so far. So, when looking for your twin flame remember its what is on the inside. Their actions and love shown through meeting your needs as well as their own will help you to identify their true authenticity!! God bless and much love to anyone who reads this!!💚💙
Yes sir 👍 I was with a misdiagnosed bipolar that I’m sure is a borderline. Didn’t know shit about BPD but after that relationship I was left in a haze I came across the 9 traits of BPD and I was slapped with the truth . When I started speaking up and out about her bad behavior the devaluation started and the cycles of her splitting sped up . I tried harder and gave her chances but no no no it only worsens . Once I started exposing all her bullshit she ghosted me and jumped into another relationship to a type of guy that she had always put down . It’s true they really view things black and white and after everything I did for her and her beloved son in which I cared for I’m painted black I’m the bad guy . It’s been a little over a year and once in awhile her son messages me that he misses me and loves me it’s tough because I’ll have to eventually have to block him it’s a fucked up feeling .
In 1 minute and 32 seconds, you have completely validated my intuitive awareness experienced throughout over six decades of LIFE. Your sharp interpretations of spiritual depth ring true. Thank You.
One reason I consider myself very lucky is that I was always able to stay true to myself. Of course the narc was putting in O.T. with the smear campaign. But face to face, I was able to spot the oddities they display. Even though I'm hated by narcs without doing anything, I am so thankful how I was made. Awesome vid!!! 💯💯💥💥
Yeah they target. Victims who are more likely to falls for there antics they have to be in control someone who will put up with as they are asleep they need to wake up
I was honest with my ex narc. He was shock thinking so highly of himself while being dirty after dark. I told him I didn't like him. Every stupid act, do you seriously think I still loved you. U could have been left, then I moved to another state. Their lazy as all out doors, but want the 🌎 world😭🤣😵💫 Narcissist is nutz🦠😷
Thank You for sharing this message. God Bless. I believe you are on point. Your messages are worth listening to. Much appreciated. The best thing one can do is to give it to God and prayers for Guidance, Strength, and just to respect and protect yourself. Focus on that love of self enough to do what’s right, best for self. Know what NO means. Blessings to everyone.
It's messed up that even decade or decades later they visit in dreams (where both lives are rewound to younger selves where trust was open and easily handed out) and try to pick things back up in a familiar scene. They ask how and what is going on and rapid fire friendly questions - great to see you, haven't seen you in ages. That's the best time to wake up. Their presence is still in the room after waking. Like Hellraiser 3: Dreams, such fertile ground for sowing the seeds of torment. Rebuke that with Ephesians 6:12 and Psalm 109. 🍀
I always thought that they downgrade to devalue you. It's never about you seeing their true colors because they don't care and keep the mask up to everyone BUT their partners.
yes so true, I heard from a child that misunderstood something and repeated and some did not look at the persin for who they always lead by example but the adults believed it but out of the mouth of kids especially girls but important to talk to your kids to know whats being told to them
Amen Brother going through it with someone I was with and knew for 12 years, your wisdom a guidance has been key to my recovery… you are blessed to have learned this at a younger age then me, thank you for your guidance thank you for the lords work blessings in abundance🙏🙏🙏
I am so glad to escaped from girls who got totally messed up heads and downgraded them to lowest inside lowest , they aren't at my level bro ! Keep going bro ! They understand their matches but not me ! Meanwhile saved me tons of incomes and headaches . Thank you so much
I got so dinged. Im 61 and was with my wife for 35 years, she passed away from brain cancer. After she passed I meet the narc. I was so naïve but have learned so much
@6GDC That's a good point that I will definitely consider but let me explain..what I can see in people's eyes is soul loss..example I had a friend from way back we lost contact with eachother then when we reunited I looked in their eyes and it was a feeling like part of them was gone it gave me an empty sad feeling... soon after I found out they had a heavy substance addiction and it was like I was mourning my friend but they were standing right in front of me..another example is I work in health care with elderly patients...I can look in their eyes and tell that they are going to die very soon...their soul was in the process of leaving them and the look in my old friends eyes and the dying elderly patients was identical...hope that explains it better.
The idiot narc, I guess thought it left me. After a while the Hoover or when they try and come back, I never answered the door, literally. Now the Narc has been using the downgrade sexually confused emotionally messed up to stalk me for 7yrs. The downgrade works in my building to spy. Now the narcs will forever be my Groupie. Maybe I'll give them an autograph...Naaah😂😂😂
I lived through this with my family same poison hurts deeper..the reason why there is so little people experience this because (and I might be wrong saying this) there is alot more narcissistic people than chosen ones. I believe that some chosen ones become narcissistic because of the pain they went through especially if your family are ones
Both of my narcissist ex females downgraded after me. They can't maintain the charade with us because we are too much work and it exhausts them. They are just receding to their own level which is low vibrational.
They can really mess you up,, l was married 17 years and my wife left me and our 3 Young children for another man and then a 13 year relationship and she flipped out with menopause and left and I took them in stride but then met the nark only a year with her but it took longer to get over the damage.
Why can't narcs just be who they are? It's not that hard! Even if who a person is isn't that great, it's still who they are. We didn't create ourselves, so it's not our fault, if who we are isn't that great. Unless, of course, we overeat, or get into a stupid wreck, or get into a knife fight or something. I say, people should be who they are. We're not here on this Earth for that long anyway. So, if we're a born loser or something, it isn't going to last all that long anyway. Why pretend? What is so great with being toxic? What is so great with lording it over others? Why pretend to be better than we actually are? Who does it fool? Sooner or later, people find out who we are anyway. Be the real you, I say. If a person is a jerk, they should try to be less of one.
6:26 when any girl wether a narc or a BPD. When she says "You deserve better" or however she rephrases it. That translates to "Im gonna cheat all the time and when you catch me its not my fault. No accountability, its your fault she cheated or you caught her. Shes washing her hands of this.
They found someone for themselves and away it’s a good thing for them because they’re finding their person they’re finding their kind of person just like how you should go find your own people they’re finding their own people
It does happen my bro happen to me as well right before the devaluement I was told that I deserved better, with my name right afterwards. so it was " you deserve better Brian" LOL and indeed we do. Funny thing is if they didn't have that whatever you want to call shiny object syndrome garbage, she was perfectly fine for me besides all the lying that I could not stand for, not that I got cheated on I'm just saying she thought she would just leave with my kids and then it would just be all good nope sorry b**** Jezebel LOL
@@YinDavon indeed, i have two, who I love and miss dearly, Annabelle Marie (7yrs old this month), and my son Preston Brandon(just turned 5 last month.) Gemini like me lol God bless your's my guy 🙏✊️✔️✔️☑️
@@BrianKarmo i replied cause it's nice talking to people in similar situations being I'm 21 and not many people my age really experience this type of situation around me, so no one understands witch I don't expect them to but it's kind of a lonely road especially if your trying to self improve while keeping a solid positive mind set about what happened
Reasons to not simply forgive the narcissists: 1. They are sadistic emotionally-draining addicts who won't regulate themselves without punishments for their actions, in this case not being supplied in order to heal. 2. They dislike anything good and will seek to destroy it. 3. They don't learn from mistakes to improve themselves but to invade others. 4. They use others without compassion for the resources or their prideful vanity and amusement while they struggle. 5. They use misery as a way to inflict more fear toxicity atmosphere into the enviroment in order to manipulate from a high toxic position without regards to life. 6. They try to infect the opposition to their ways without listening to reason but rather compulsion to do harm. 7. They hurt others in order to converge them to be minions of fear and sin. 8. They don't regard progress but rather consumerism. 9. They won't stop from abuses and pose as being religious because they have religious dogmas that support their misbehaviours. 10. They despise truly spiritual and decent people because they expose the dark hidden miseries of the narcissistic abusers. 11. They enforce and produce even more traumas, dark attachments and narrative confusions of manipulations into any enviroment without opossition to their diseased intents. 12. They destroy relationships and communities, they create amorous triangles of envy and jealousy that they add drama and more conflict in. 13. They throw people away after they drain them or even want to kill them in covert ways from distance gaslighting in order to run from the law. 14. They manipulate unaware people to spread more desbination and attacks towards people that wanted to humble or disciplinate them.
Because those Narcs are uneducated , they became huge Ray Ray and Pookie from small Ray Ray and Pookie 🤣 take them lightly ! Yo Ray Ray come over Yo Pookie go there 😅
An upgrade would be the humble, yet beautiful and sweet naturaed Cinderella. A downgrade would be one of her ugly, entitled, bitchy step sisters. And I'm sure you can think of the male equivalent to this analogy. It's not rocket science.
I was a downgrade when the narc met me. I wish I could tell that poor girl the narc monkey branched from that I was broken, lost, hurting, and desperate, and I helped to abuse you because I was below you. The narc came to provide a mirror to me, to show me how low I was and that I needed to grow. I would like to think I’ve risen above doing what I did. The new supply isn’t better than you, they’re easier than you.
I don't know if I became needy or clingy with the girl that I'm dating before or maybe she's a narcissist. Long story short, I've been dating this chick for almost 2 months, at first everything is okay - she is sweet and so feminine. And then all of a sudden she became cold and distant, she's not even answering my calls and text. I did no contact. Weeks have passed and she started to text me again almost everyday. She has a boyfriend now but keeps texting me telling me how much she misses me. Is that an example of love bomb by a narc? Or she genuinely misses me?
They will search for me In another person, but they will never find me!.
It is sad when you realize that some of the people you loved the most are empty meat suits and never had your best interest at heart. Even more sad the agony they put you through was intentional. They actually enjoy watching you suffer. My narc radar has been turned on for a long time. I won't be fooled again. I pray that others suffering can come to this knowledge and heal.
So true
These doomed girls are done
Seriously Susan it’s evil straight evil, once you wake up to the spiritual war your life is changed. This revelation is the hardest to come to terms with but it humbles you knowing wow I walked in ignorance so long… I know I was protected until blessed with the Divine Mercy waking me up.🕊️
@@Peacewalker1993 At first I had a hard time comprending the evil. Family evil is the worst. They are supposed to love you. Very sad to discover that some people have no conscience and cannot love even if you share the same blood. By the grace of God I was shown the reptilian eyes which awakened me that something was so not right. God pulled me out of there and I was shown the truth about narcissism. God healed me too. I suffered so much from the monsters. I learned to not be so trusting and test the spirit. For the last 5 years I have been living narc free and have the joy and peace of Jesus living in me. I only wish I knew what I know now several decades ago. My life could have been so much better. But it is all in God's time. I am so glad so many are getting the information and waking up but sad that so many are effected by such evil.
They're always downgrading because you were down and naive when you were with them but then you learned and grew and walked away so they have to find someone who is where you were at in life back then and try to pull that shit on them too. It's like they can only be with a level 1 player and when that player passes level 1 and gets to the next level the narc runs back to level 1 and finds a new player there to use and abuse.
what a great way to put it thx 🙌🏻
These dumb ass narcs never learn!!!
@@spiritgurl1111 agreed:)
"Naive" to their inner workings. People fall for an outer image, idealize it and their imagination gives them all of these qualities they haven't yet "earned" nor deserve.... You learn after bumping your head into walls over time.
They will always and forever continue their sick cycle ♻️
They spend a great deal of time trying to figure out ways to destroy you … little bits at a time. Once you slip too far into their invisible trap, you’re going to suffer until you wake up.
They WILL perform this on another victim. Rest assured.
Heal up and move on. These animals aren’t worth it.
They kill you with a thousand tiny cuts....
Narcs are crazy , I raised by one , they mess with your head , almost killed me mentally . Thank God I am a strong . I did at some point lost myself , But I am so much stronger mentaly than two years before . by hard work , learning about toxic people . I am very careful and not so naive anymore ,So grateful that learned those lessons in live !
My own blood mother is the biggest female Narc , I grew up from all darkness and sadness
My own blood abusive mother try to kill me since I was in her belly , so set the strongest boundary with Narc selfish masculine and all male traits women at the first place
You done the right thing, self education on these demons & toxic people in general is absolutely essential, so you've done yourself a lot of favours by doing so.. Wishing you a good positive toxic-free life 👍
@@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan So sorry to hear . If you get aware , your hole live crash down. But al so get out of the situation and do inner work and be finally yourself without toxic people.
@@fionahawkes1758 thank you very much 🥰
Because that other person is the doormat you will never be. Period Point blank.
They crave intimacy but can't Stand it
Narcissists are excellent at acting. They get people by their charm and performance. It can leave you confused because they are so innocent in playing victim and pointing you as the abuser. Don't fall for it!💙RUclipsr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
The person I was with, tore my mind and sanity to shreds. I wanted so badly for her to see that I wanted peace and success with her. All she did was put me down and trash talk me behind my back and I put up with it believing she would see what I was trying to do for so many years. I lost my mind. I snapped a lot and made everyone think that I had anger issues. All I wanted was peace and success. I would go after something like an opportunity and would be trash talked. When I was in the process of joining the military, she would talk behind my back and tell people I wouldn't be able to do it and I was stupid for trying. After a year of trying (because of my background) and even after being told by the recruiter that it "wasn't possible", I STILL didn't take his word for it and ended up doing 7 years, went to Iraq and became a Sargent. Even while in the army and after marrying her, nothing changed. She still trashed me. She ended up with another soldier and cheated who knows how many times. I figured after getting us out of the Midwest and bringing her and the kids to a new life that she would change. She's still to this day a Jezebel. I'm still on my path to success but it's been so hard after the damage. Not to mention that she basically took over from where my "mother" and "sister" let off. Don't get me started on what they did to me. That was physical and mental abuse and another story yet it all ties together. I will overcome this and become what God intended for me to be. I will become successful.
I will not go in realtionship who has no values morals 😤 I have worked on myself alot of self worth healing God has been my strength
They know the damage they can do. That's why they do it. It's a weak character trait..
I rebuke narcissists out of my life forever ♾ !! ; - Kim 👩🙏 (I’M DIVINELY PROTECTED AND I’M GUARDED!!) ; - I set myself free from narc abuse back in 2020 !! ; -
I'm lucky, I'm done with my ex narcissist , the awakening was painful and powerful at the same time for me.
Low hanging fruit 😆 It’s so wonderful being free of all that fuc*ery! So great to be with someone who appreciates me for who I am. 🥰 They lose, I win 🏆
Exactly what happened to Johnny Depp with Amber Heard! It can happen to anyone with a good heart, or hopeless romantic! I'm not normally into celebrities or what's going on with them but it reminded me so much of what happened to me! Unbelievable
What amazes me is there are people so broken, disturbed that treat people in such a horrible manner and their lives are a stage production of rotating people with such disregard for other peoples’ boundaries and resources. Many are self-loathing for a range of disorders and are projection gamers. They live for drama and they intentionally weave you into their web. I’ve met many Narcs and one that played me lived in a three-bedroom McMansion from a divorce of her ex whom I met only once. She lived for many years on whatever she got in divorce. She once slipped and said, well, I guess I didn’t need a Mercedes ». She’s all about greed and money and keeping up with the Jones’. It’s sad really when you see the real ugliness that these people are truly dead souls. Also, I’d like to mention if you had a good relationship with your parents and they’ve departed, you never get over it because the genuine love you’ll receive from a decent, non-Narc life partner is different from GOOD parental love. TJjr is correct in that the shock of « the reveal » of The Who is this person I’ve been married to or involved with is a total stranger. I’m much more on guard now but I’m not in the market but wish I had your insight on this topic when I was in my mid, late twenties. I’ve felt so naive and all I’ve ever done is treat these people nicely and as you’d like to be treated. However, it’s like that saying, where do nice guys finish? LAST is right!
Just realized that they are trying to steal respect by any means or by associating with you but then wanting to replace you, but they don't know(because of their egoistic ignorance) that respect cannot be taken or stealed, only earned by continuous work and genuine deeds and not by doing things to instantly receive praisings. Hypocrites are not rewarded but they are infantile hysteric desperates.
*5 Ways To Raise Your Vibration:*
1. When emotions are high, intelligence is low. Make decisions with balanced emotions.
2. Before raising your vibrations, practice techniques like self love, gratitude and dance.
3. Place your hands on your heart and remember all the things you're grateful for.
4. Play some amazing music and get your body moving and when you feel the joy but your mind is a chaos.
5. To calm your mind, take a deep breath keep on practicing and then set your intentions or wishes with the highest vibration.
~Much Love from a Law of Attraction RUclipsr💜
Blessings!
They abandon because they couldn't approach enough to strike so they repeat the process until they try to anihilate the victim. They are so weak and envious in their infantile ego that it makes them incapable to improve, that's why they are angry that they can't manipulate or destroy others that are integrated and healed.
Although, life is never the same for a chosen one after experiencing a narcissistic man or women just know it was a lesson that will open your eyes to narcissistic abuse from family and friends as well. In return, it allows you to protect your energy and allows you to be the best version of yourself. I can see through your eyes that this individual has lowered your vibration and seriously hurt your soul to the core, but I assure you its for the best. I know it is a lonely period but it will make you stronger in the end. For some reason narcissist seem to be very attractive on the outside but very ugly on the inside so looks will only take you so far. So, when looking for your twin flame remember its what is on the inside. Their actions and love shown through meeting your needs as well as their own will help you to identify their true authenticity!! God bless and much love to anyone who reads this!!💚💙
thank you
Yes sir 👍 I was with a misdiagnosed bipolar that I’m sure is a borderline. Didn’t know shit about BPD but after that relationship I was left in a haze I came across the 9 traits of BPD and I was slapped with the truth . When I started speaking up and out about her bad behavior the devaluation started and the cycles of her splitting sped up . I tried harder and gave her chances but no no no it only worsens . Once I started exposing all her bullshit she ghosted me and jumped into another relationship to a type of guy that she had always put down . It’s true they really view things black and white and after everything I did for her and her beloved son in which I cared for I’m painted black I’m the bad guy . It’s been a little over a year and once in awhile her son messages me that he misses me and loves me it’s tough because I’ll have to eventually have to block him it’s a fucked up feeling .
In 1 minute and 32 seconds, you have completely validated my intuitive awareness experienced throughout over six decades of LIFE. Your sharp interpretations of spiritual depth ring true. Thank You.
One reason I consider myself very lucky is that I was always able to stay true to myself. Of course the narc was putting in O.T. with the smear campaign. But face to face, I was able to spot the oddities they display. Even though I'm hated by narcs without doing anything, I am so thankful how I was made. Awesome vid!!! 💯💯💥💥
Same cause they know will never possessed the same qualities u have
Boring match boring , nothing match nothing !
Yeah they target. Victims who are more likely to falls for there antics they have to be in control someone who will put up with as they are asleep they need to wake up
This certain person I know is a sleeper and doesn't has good intentions
Yes, you'd be surprised..
They can't see anything of worth in anyone so they fail to distinguish who is more worthy .
All the same to them .
Yep I don't want anyone any more even family I see these traits in everyone now
It is sad! what a wakeup i was just a cry baby stared into path of righteousness ......
I was honest with my ex narc. He was shock thinking so highly of himself while being dirty after dark. I told him I didn't like him. Every stupid act, do you seriously think I still loved you. U could have been left, then I moved to another state. Their lazy as all out doors, but want the 🌎 world😭🤣😵💫 Narcissist is nutz🦠😷
If I think they're left me for something less, and I think they're less than me, maybe I'm the narc.
11:05. 💯 FACTS! REAL TALK. you really know how it is Joel Bro!. 💯
It means they are in same level of life , I removed them from my memories and keep going forward ! Keep going forward to achieve my success
Thank You for sharing this message. God Bless.
I believe you are on point. Your messages are worth listening to. Much appreciated.
The best thing one can do is to give it to God and prayers for Guidance, Strength, and just to respect and protect yourself.
Focus on that love of self enough to do what’s right, best for self. Know what NO means. Blessings to everyone.
It's messed up that even decade or decades later they visit in dreams (where both lives are rewound to younger selves where trust was open and easily handed out) and try to pick things back up in a familiar scene. They ask how and what is going on and rapid fire friendly questions - great to see you, haven't seen you in ages. That's the best time to wake up. Their presence is still in the room after waking. Like Hellraiser 3: Dreams, such fertile ground for sowing the seeds of torment. Rebuke that with Ephesians 6:12 and Psalm 109. 🍀
Cycle of abuse it is called!
I always thought that they downgrade to devalue you. It's never about you seeing their true colors because they don't care and keep the mask up to everyone BUT their partners.
Oh no way it will ever happen again too me
God bless, hope we makee it through
"they don't even know the damage they do."
Married for 23 yrs to one. Had 3 kids. Hardest thing I've ever gone through. He definitely downgraded!!
yes so true, I heard from a child that misunderstood something and repeated and some did not look at the persin for who they always lead by example but the adults believed it but out of the mouth of kids especially girls but important to talk to your kids to know whats being told to them
Amen Brother going through it with someone I was with and knew for 12 years, your wisdom a guidance has been key to my recovery… you are blessed to have learned this at a younger age then me, thank you for your guidance thank you for the lords work blessings in abundance🙏🙏🙏
I am so glad to escaped from girls who got totally messed up heads and downgraded them to lowest inside lowest , they aren't at my level bro ! Keep going bro ! They understand their matches but not me ! Meanwhile saved me tons of incomes and headaches . Thank you so much
Yeah I got narc I’m starting all over I don’t even have a place right now but I have a job
100 💯 exactly right -Ive gone _going through it. This is how it goes. Its the shitz its messy and it stinks 💥💨💩🥨🧆
Go straight forward
They trick me for smoke Shisha daily ? Oh my god , you don't have other things going on in life ?
A controller is for games, not people!
yep some tell lies to make them look better yet they are with them so how do they look being with them let dumb and dumber have each other
I got so dinged. Im 61 and was with my wife for 35 years, she passed away from brain cancer. After she passed I meet the narc. I was so naïve but have learned so much
I can look into someone's eyes and tell if they are spiritually dead or not..its disturbing how many people actually are 💯
Yup once ur on that level it no turning back stay safe out here aqua especially the churches
@@kisigma1011 I don't go to church.
@6GDC That's a good point that I will definitely consider but let me explain..what I can see in people's eyes is soul loss..example I had a friend from way back we lost contact with eachother then when we reunited I looked in their eyes and it was a feeling like part of them was gone it gave me an empty sad feeling... soon after I found out they had a heavy substance addiction and it was like I was mourning my friend but they were standing right in front of me..another example is I work in health care with elderly patients...I can look in their eyes and tell that they are going to die very soon...their soul was in the process of leaving them and the look in my old friends eyes and the dying elderly patients was identical...hope that explains it better.
Top G is always Top G ! There is no bargain !
THANK YOU TAKE CARE
Never ever be over and over for what
Been through this so much 💔💯
You are so spot on with this video!!!
The idiot narc, I guess thought it left me. After a while the Hoover or when they try and come back, I never answered the door, literally. Now the Narc has been using the downgrade sexually confused emotionally messed up to stalk me for 7yrs. The downgrade works in my building to spy. Now the narcs will forever be my Groupie. Maybe I'll give them an autograph...Naaah😂😂😂
Leave and break my comfort zone
100 💯 more fun things, that are so fun funner is a word and to those who say it's not will never invent anything
I appreciate you so much
I lived through this with my family same poison hurts deeper..the reason why there is so little people experience this because (and I might be wrong saying this) there is alot more narcissistic people than chosen ones. I believe that some chosen ones become narcissistic because of the pain they went through especially if your family are ones
Both of my narcissist ex females downgraded after me. They can't maintain the charade with us because we are too much work and it exhausts them. They are just receding to their own level which is low vibrational.
They can really mess you up,, l was married 17 years and my wife left me and our 3 Young children for another man and then a 13 year relationship and she flipped out with menopause and left and I took them in stride but then met the nark only a year with her but it took longer to get over the damage.
Why can't narcs just be who they are? It's not that hard! Even if who a person is isn't that great, it's still who they are. We didn't create ourselves, so it's not our fault, if who we are isn't that great. Unless, of course, we overeat, or get into a stupid wreck, or get into a knife fight or something. I say, people should be who they are. We're not here on this Earth for that long anyway. So, if we're a born loser or something, it isn't going to last all that long anyway. Why pretend? What is so great with being toxic? What is so great with lording it over others? Why pretend to be better than we actually are? Who does it fool? Sooner or later, people find out who we are anyway. Be the real you, I say. If a person is a jerk, they should try to be less of one.
6:26 when any girl wether a narc or a BPD. When she says "You deserve better" or however she rephrases it. That translates to "Im gonna cheat all the time and when you catch me its not my fault. No accountability, its your fault she cheated or you caught her. Shes washing her hands of this.
Holy 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙏🏿
They found someone for themselves and away it’s a good thing for them because they’re finding their person they’re finding their kind of person just like how you should go find your own people they’re finding their own people
I love this channel
parents never abandon their kids unless they was not taught it but should be instilled
Narcs have a script and want own way
It does happen my bro happen to me as well right before the devaluement I was told that I deserved better, with my name right afterwards. so it was " you deserve better Brian" LOL and indeed we do. Funny thing is if they didn't have that whatever you want to call shiny object syndrome garbage, she was perfectly fine for me besides all the lying that I could not stand for, not that I got cheated on I'm just saying she thought she would just leave with my kids and then it would just be all good nope sorry b**** Jezebel LOL
Dissecting that s*** like a g my boy you already know
Did you end up having kids with a narc cause I had 1.....
@@YinDavon indeed, i have two, who I love and miss dearly, Annabelle Marie (7yrs old this month), and my son Preston Brandon(just turned 5 last month.) Gemini like me lol God bless your's my guy 🙏✊️✔️✔️☑️
@@BrianKarmo i replied cause it's nice talking to people in similar situations being I'm 21 and not many people my age really experience this type of situation around me, so no one understands witch I don't expect them to but it's kind of a lonely road especially if your trying to self improve while keeping a solid positive mind set about what happened
@@BrianKarmo thanks. God bless your family as well mines a girl she 6 months so she's new haha renezme Moon Marsolek. Have a blessed day too!!!
Yes sir
Facts
Hey slick mouth,.. that's like saying all Conadians are nice.🤧🏁🛀
Reasons to not simply forgive the narcissists:
1. They are sadistic emotionally-draining addicts who won't regulate themselves without punishments for their actions, in this case not being supplied in order to heal.
2. They dislike anything good and will seek to destroy it.
3. They don't learn from mistakes to improve themselves but to invade others.
4. They use others without compassion for the resources or their prideful vanity and amusement while they struggle.
5. They use misery as a way to inflict more fear toxicity atmosphere into the enviroment in order to manipulate from a high toxic position without regards to life.
6. They try to infect the opposition to their ways without listening to reason but rather compulsion to do harm.
7. They hurt others in order to converge them to be minions of fear and sin.
8. They don't regard progress but rather consumerism.
9. They won't stop from abuses and pose as being religious because they have religious dogmas that support their misbehaviours.
10. They despise truly spiritual and decent people because they expose the dark hidden miseries of the narcissistic abusers.
11. They enforce and produce even more traumas, dark attachments and narrative confusions of manipulations into any enviroment without opossition to their diseased intents.
12. They destroy relationships and communities, they create amorous triangles of envy and jealousy that they add drama and more conflict in.
13. They throw people away after they drain them or even want to kill them in covert ways from distance gaslighting in order to run from the law.
14. They manipulate unaware people to spread more desbination and attacks towards people that wanted to humble or disciplinate them.
I have experienced this recently and he disappeared and we are married
Because those Narcs are uneducated , they became huge Ray Ray and Pookie from small Ray Ray and Pookie 🤣 take them lightly ! Yo Ray Ray come over Yo Pookie go there 😅
I saw those little Ray Ray everywhere 🤣🤣🤣 , small ones became huge ones , same same
What is an upgrade or downgrade in people?
An upgrade would be the humble, yet beautiful and sweet naturaed Cinderella. A downgrade would be one of her ugly, entitled, bitchy step sisters. And I'm sure you can think of the male equivalent to this analogy. It's not rocket science.
Ask for something back that was oncd owed to you and see how they react with you
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Brother I feel like you're still hurting about this narc you had in your life. Your anxiety keeps you making these videos. Am I wrong?
Maybe it his mother or father
@@moonboy2022 no all around narc individuals
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It is my husband you downgraded.
You're unmasked.
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Next video talk faster get to it and less lip smacking bro I’d love to hear your content though the subject matter is interesting
I was a downgrade when the narc met me. I wish I could tell that poor girl the narc monkey branched from that I was broken, lost, hurting, and desperate, and I helped to abuse you because I was below you. The narc came to provide a mirror to me, to show me how low I was and that I needed to grow. I would like to think I’ve risen above doing what I did. The new supply isn’t better than you, they’re easier than you.
I don't know if I became needy or clingy with the girl that I'm dating before or maybe she's a narcissist. Long story short, I've been dating this chick for almost 2 months, at first everything is okay - she is sweet and so feminine. And then all of a sudden she became cold and distant, she's not even answering my calls and text. I did no contact. Weeks have passed and she started to text me again almost everyday. She has a boyfriend now but keeps texting me telling me how much she misses me. Is that an example of love bomb by a narc? Or she genuinely misses me?
She’s messing with the new guy