The next question for parents should be: When my sister comes back from college, will you still feel this way? Even better: When my sister comes back, will you return to the attention dynamic because that's "what we're used to"?
Most of the time I hear about shitty parents reaching out to the neglected kid they want money I think OP should do whatever feels best for her even if the therapist disagrees (she should still definitely hear the therapist out on what they think though) but if OP does decide to go she needs to be careful and be aware of potential ulterior motives and alternatively I do think it’s very possible they are only contacting OP because of empty nest syndrome and will go back to the status quo after their precious “best” daughter comes back
Don't go. They a cruel. They will act good and pretend to be good parents and when they will return to act like it didn't happen. You are to good to be treated like that. ❤
From the sounds of it your parents are only reaching out to you because your sister’s away at college And in my eyes don’t give them the time of day honey because they’re not worth it they are disgusting pounds and they should be coparents as far as I’m concerned because no logical parent would do that to that kid even if they wanted one they don’t deserve you you deserve someone better and you should’ve really been put up for adoption because at least the root of God and loving family
Op I truly relieved if you have better parents, you and your sister would have a very close relationship that no one can break. Just like me and my twin sister. From your story I can see that we are extremely similar to one another. (Even our heights are the same lmao.) I know it’s like being different from your twin, especially when they’re an extrovert. Everyone expects you to be like them because you twins, but that is never the case. You are your own person and you are worth just as much as your sister is. Never forget that. P.S. Just because your parents said, your sister was prettier than you does not mean you aren’t beautiful.
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The next question for parents should be: When my sister comes back from college, will you still feel this way?
Even better: When my sister comes back, will you return to the attention dynamic because that's "what we're used to"?
She got beauty and no sense you got the brain and probably more sense and the abil ity to get a high-paying job 💲💲💲
Amazing how strangers werent willing to separare twins but their own parents would smh
Most of the time I hear about shitty parents reaching out to the neglected kid they want money
I think OP should do whatever feels best for her even if the therapist disagrees (she should still definitely hear the therapist out on what they think though) but if OP does decide to go she needs to be careful and be aware of potential ulterior motives
and alternatively I do think it’s very possible they are only contacting OP because of empty nest syndrome and will go back to the status quo after their precious “best” daughter comes back
Don't go. They a cruel.
They will act good and pretend to be good parents and when they will return to act like it didn't happen.
You are to good to be treated like that. ❤
My guess is they are creating a sob story to make you feel bad enough to help them financially
Omg I love the profile picture, project 863 for win
From the sounds of it your parents are only reaching out to you because your sister’s away at college And in my eyes don’t give them the time of day honey because they’re not worth it they are disgusting pounds and they should be coparents as far as I’m concerned because no logical parent would do that to that kid even if they wanted one they don’t deserve you you deserve someone better and you should’ve really been put up for adoption because at least the root of God and loving family
Op I truly relieved if you have better parents, you and your sister would have a very close relationship that no one can break. Just like me and my twin sister.
From your story I can see that we are extremely similar to one another. (Even our heights are the same lmao.) I know it’s like being different from your twin, especially when they’re an extrovert. Everyone expects you to be like them because you twins, but that is never the case. You are your own person and you are worth just as much as your sister is. Never forget that.
P.S. Just because your parents said, your sister was prettier than you does not mean you aren’t beautiful.
I want Op to fall in love and make a good family built in their vision, they deserve it dearly.
They had 18 yrs to fix it and didn't try
I really said that about your luxury shouldn’t be at the cost of your sisters. I feel bad for you. I want to went at all to the family gathering.
The update was from 7 years ago and OP never shared a thing since. People speculate that she is no longer with us 😢