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Hold onto your hats, my dear viewers, because Charlotte Dobre is back with a sizzling platter of MIL (Mother-in-Law) beef that made it to AITA (Am I The A**hole) and it's juicier than a T-bone steak on a summer BBQ! 👵🥩🔥
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The MIL took a child's journal, a teen yes, still a child nonetheless. Stealing from a CHILD! And the adults not seeing how wrong this is disgusts me, so gross.
OMG! Yes, this. I never even looked at my husband's journals, not even after he passed.
Yes agree
If you're raised with a certain level of privacy invasion, especially from a manipulative parent who claims that it's, "all for you!" then you may believe that this is okay. We've seen it in other recent videos (this week iirc). BUT That doesn't make their invasive behavior justified or acceptable! Not everyone in the world is an extrovert, and that is 100% OKAY! Perhaps he also has crippling social anxiety. I grew up with it, and it's HELL, especially when someone calls you out in public and/or asks questions that they definitely shouldn't. My parents used to joke about me being friends with the mushrooms growing in my room (because I kept the curtains and door closed so it was dark, but I also had migraines which caused light sensitivity that nobody considered). "How are those mushrooms doing? HAHAHA!" That's not funny. You're not funny, stop.
To steal the private thoughts of a child, to do who knows what with, perhaps she'd snap pictures and send them to the family group chat so everyone could see why she's "justified", but even just reading his personal, private information is vile! Whatever he chose to write about was meant for his eyes only.
If you want to raise healthy, well adapted adults, they need to be able to trust that those around them aren't going to betray that trust whenever the hell they feel like it.
I'd throw the whole family out. None of them can be trusted.
@@Just1Nora Yes. I have social anxiety, even at our family reunions. People I might see just 1x/year or less. Family, yes. But I don't really know these people. Some of them I wouldn't necessarily even recognize if I saw them on the street. Getting suddenly called on to speak in front of a group is terrifying. Last person that did this, I just walked away after giving them a look. I'm mostly ok in small groups of people I'm at least a little familiar with. Or when I used to drink, talking to strangers wasn't as much of a problem. Go figure! 😆
Huge red flags seeing how his fiance acted after he banned her obnoxious Mom😮❤
Last story cancel the wedding. The whole family has sick boundary issues and God knows who all that horrible MIL would share his journal with. Imagine her as a grandmother to a new baby. No thank you !!
I agree and who knows what other boundaries they're willing to cross once she's in the family smh
This. OP would be an idiot for subjecting his son to this any further. He'd basically be proving to his son that he doesn't matter to him, and you can bet whatever children he has will get similar sentiments when the MIL always ends up coming first as they grow up. I'd dump the fiancee and tell her that I wish her the best in getting her head unstuck from MIL's ass. Maybe even send her to Justnomil or Raisedbynarcissists to get started on all the work she needs to get out from under her mother's thumb.
I would suggest postponing first. He seems to love his fianceé and as long as he can make her understand why what her mother did is wrong then they should be able to go ahead with the wedding. I mean she doesn't have kids of her own so she can't really understand unless it's explained. Plus she did admit that what her mother did was wrong , so that's hope that he can make her understand that he didn't overreact. Point it out and ask if she would like to have his late wife's mother come over and go through her private things and take them all in the claims of trying to get to know her, since she's going to be her grandsons stepmother. It's all a matter of perspective. If she doesn't get that then kick her to the curb because both his and he deserve better.
@@stephaniefarley1236Yeah, I would postpone the wedding too. However OP better understand that his son comes first. Too many parents bring step parents into their children’ lives which later on damage their relationship with their kid.
@@stephaniefarley1236I agree with you and think this should be the first step. If fiancé still doesn’t see it or won’t put her family in their place, then break it off and no matter what, he needs to let his son know that he’ll always come first. I think her mother only feels like he has to make peace because she’s seen how he cut his MIL off and has put herself in that spot, maybe she often oversteps in her daughter’s life and doesn’t want this man showing her daughter how to set and keep boundaries.
Omg the MIL’s obsession with reading a SIXTEEN YEAR OLD CHILD’s journal is super creepy. If it had been a grown man reading a 16 year old girl’s journal everyone would be going “ewwww…”
So HUGE red flags, and the fact that no one else on that side of the family sees it as a problem is also a major red flag.
Oh my god yes! That story was so disturbing to hear and I still genuinely can’t believe how anyone could be defending that behavior
I agree. I was most upset to hear the item stolen was a journal. That is like stealing someone's soul. 🚩🚩🚩
This is obviously repeat behaviour as in she invaded her children's privacy while they were growing up so they view it as normal. Her showing up uninvited is also typical invasive behaviour. Daniel lost his mother as a young child and doesn't need this controlling, lying harridan trying to subjugate his personality while he tries to navigate his way to adulthood. I would rethink this union both for his sake and Daniel.
Do NOT marry into that family, OP!!!
This! at first, i didn't hear any signs of her trying to get Daniel alone bc she's always embarrassing and harassing him in front of other family members, but then the DIARY! that is like....... precursor to smth called JAIL and it's so weird that the fiancée isn't trying to protect her future stepson (if she's wanting to be a parental figure in his life). and like stopping by at the house.... to say hi to daniel... not her daughter.... that's creepy
The Daniel kid wasn’t “anti-social”…. He’s just socially selective 😂. There’s a difference xD.
💯😅
Agreed💯
Right?
My kid is 14 and over the past couple years has realized what a crappy person my FIL is. So I’ve told him that he doesn’t have to be around him.
Usually when the family has dinner together (my in-laws live down the street) my kid eats dinner quietly and politely, washes his dishes, then leaves.
A couple weeks ago my husband’s aunt and dad started giving my kid a hard time about being “antisocial” and “you only get one family”.
He just got up mid-meal and left because he was afraid he’d really go off on them (later I told him that if it happens again, go off. Give them what they deserve).
After he left the in-laws all turned on me, not my husband, and said his rude and antisocial behavior was my fault.
I said “Yup, totally my fault. Has nothing to do with the fact that he’s uncomfortable spending time with a grown man that is an unabashed racist and homophobe and can’t even filter his comments around others. Who would possibly be uncomfortable being around that?”
Instead of paying attention to _what_ I said, they said that sarcasm was rude and unladylike. 🙄
So my husband and I left.
But since then, FIL has been avoiding me, so that’s a bonus.
But yeah, Heaven forbid a teenager not want to spend time around miserable, horrible people.
(And for background, my kid is bi and is somewhere on the non-binary spectrum. He also has cousins that are black and Latino and has been noticing how, and why, FIL treats the white grandkids differently from the non-white ones.
I also strongly suspect that FIL suspects that my kid is queer so he’s been deliberately saying homophobic things around him in a ridiculous attempt to convince my kid not to be.)
@@Annie_Annie__that sounds like a really tough situation for you and your kiddo. You sound like a really good Mom 💜
...and MIL is pissed because she wasn't selected.
I have nothing but respect for that dad in the last one. You hear way too many stories of parents putting their kids last when they're in a new relationship and he doubled down on boundaries for his son.
What a king.
He is marrying a woman that does not protect his son, and might actually be enabling or instigating the MILs bad behavior.
He's not putting his kid first.
@@katrags3603 I came across this story somewhere and IIRC,, the OP broke off the engagement.
@@outstretchedwings Thank God!
@@katrags3603 I'd say that he did. He didn't marry her and instead saw this as the sign to back away and rightfully so
she should press charges. the family wont forgive anyway. She needs consequences and a paper trail for her bad behavior. having a criminal history will make her easier to deal with in the future, since will retaliate.
I have a bad feeling about this situation, but I'm really glad that her new husband is on her side and will support charging the MIL with GRAND THEFT.
Since it's not likely that I will ever even see a 4 carat pair of diamond earrings (except for when I watch the Oscars) I looked them up to get an idea of their price. Holy Bling-Bling, Batman!
A pair of studs that are 4 carat TW will set you back @ $30,000, it's about $10,000 for the same earrings made with "lab-grown" diamonds!
Since these earrings are heirlooms for generations, and spectacular, there's a good chance they were made by a famous high-end jeweler such as Tiffany or Harry Winston. I found a pair of diamond chandelier earrings on the Winston site priced at almost 2 million bucks!
Unless she has a serious mental condition and kleptomania is how it's expressed, she needs to take responsibility for her heinous action.
If she is a klepto, I guarantee that her family knows about it.
If I were this bride, I'd be loathe to let this MIL into my house, ever.
I can guarantee that it's not MILs first "purse accident".
MIL probably would have had the settings changed for the diamonds. That way she gets to wear them and not get caught. Though the same problem is still there in that someone is going to ask where the diamonds came from.
@@stephaniefarley1236 I was just reminded of a scene in an old 1932 Mae West movie.
A hat check girl exclaims to Ms. West, “Goodness, what beautiful diamonds!”
West replied, “Goodness had nothing to do with it, dearie.”😉
Did a quick google on 4 carat diamond dangle earrings and one of the first hits had a pair for about 4k. I would have told my bride to press charges and made sure my mother knew how vile I thought she was after that happened.
The dad in the ‘Daniel’ story restores my faith in humanity. I once caught my mum reading my diary to a group of neighbours (I was 7/8yo then, 34 now), and I’ve been beating myself up for years for not being able to let it go. It’s a horrible thing to do to a kid and I’m so glad there’s at least some parents out there today that recognise that!
The way I would’ve simply wrote pages upon pages in every diary I owned after that of “I still hate my mom for reading my journal to strangers like that. She obviously hates me too, because she’s reading it again. Isn’t that right, mom? How many times are you gonna violate my privacy?”
My mom read my diary as well, and all it did was make my life so much worse because she then forced me into religious therapy which I pretended to be better to escape from. For the next three years, I pretended to be the perfect child until the facade finally cracked under the weight of my depression. She STILL didn’t take me seriously (although she claims she did, to me, I was treated more as an inconvenience and a failure/embarrassment than anything). These days, she believes me and lets me seek every ounce of help I desire, although still with a few protests. But I’ll never forgive her for how she treated me. And I’ll never tell her because she’s one of those people who doesn’t apologize, but just turns it back on you to make you feel guilty for even questioning her.
@@squirrelbugg99 I’m so sorry that happened. She sounds like a piece of work! What happened to all the boomer parents out there that are incapable of apologising?
@@squirrelbugg99 Gosh, I'm so sorry you had to go through that :( My mom did the same thing to me when I was about 10-ish. Not only did she read my diary, but she left comments in the margins. That's the only reason I knew she'd read it. I'm 31 now and I'm still bothered by the fact she did it and still upset by the way I was treated as a child and adolescent by her. Especially once my brother came along and he was treated completely different. Same as you, my mother is not one to think she did anything wrong and whenever I try to talk about how much trauma she caused me during my childhood years, she twists it to everything being made up in my head and I'm full of s**t and that's absolutely not how it was or how I was treated. So, I definitely can empathize with you. It's hard growing up with and living with a mother who caused so much emotional trauma and damage to you, and will never agree with you that the trauma is real and that even if it's been decades later, why we can't just "let it go."
My mom did something similar. My bestie and I had a notebook we shared back and forth. Teen girl stuff, poems, thoughts about all kinds of things, crushes,etc. One day she just hands it to me and says 'I read this' I immediately trashed it. I came across a diary she had written when I was younger (and no before you ask I didn't snoop) it was in a bookcase. Looked like a regular book. I read a bit. When she came home I handed it to her and said I read this. She was fuming mad. When I pointed out the empty slot in the bookshelf she just said I should have known it was private. My dad stepped in and said 'oh you mean like the notebook?' She looked ready to spit nails but he was just like 'you gave the example and she followed it'.
Your mom is an AH and a horrid person wtf. Embarrass her every single chance you get. Take photos often where she doesn't know you're taking them, making you'll catch her in a bad moment and she'll be embarrassed. Like... a parent reading it is bad enough but reading it to other people??? What the ABSOLUTE F
As far as the mother who steals your sons journal, run don’t walk and get out of the relationship because she’ll just make things worse and worse and your son comes first before your sex and marriage. do not apologize there are plenty more fish in the sea that are better. If your fiancé doesn’t stand up for you now she’s certainly won’t after you’re married.
The fiancee is very likely in "the fog" and has been conditioned to think every nutty thing her mother does is "normal" or "not that bad". RUN!
Oh, most certainly RUN! You never know what life will bring and there may come a time when the son has to be left alone with the wife and in-laws. How can he be sure that they'll care for him properly? I'd say the future MIL stealing the journal and the fiance being complicit is a definite red flag.
I wonder how the fiance would feel if his mother took her personal diary and read it - to get to know her better. I bet she'd have a fit!
@@michellehill4148 Either that, or was told by her mother it was mother’s duty, you know, for her own good. It wouldn’t surprise me if privacy was an alien concept in the home growing up.
I have kept a journal since I was 14 years old. That is such a violation! Mother-in-law thinks it OK to be abusive! Fiancé is conditioned to think it’s normal. RUN!
Jewelry thief MIL should be prosecuted. She was emboldened enough to do this because she's never faced consequences for her actions.
All rise for the honourable Potato Queen Charlotte 🥔👑 Please turn in our hymn books of Absolutely Nots to verses "Delulus" and "How are You Not Embarassed?"
PREACH PREACHER!
This is so funny 😂😂😂
Take me to Church!
Hahahaha, awesome!
amen and amen
That last woman clearly isn’t a Dolly Parton wannabe, because Dolly is known for her kindness and generosity.
That's why she's just a wannabe
I had an ex-BIL steal a bunch of stuff from me to buy drugs. When I confronted him and my in-laws about it, I was made the bad guy. I wanted to press charges, but I was told I was selfish for not forgiving him for what he did. My reply was..."In my family, we don't steal things from each other." I ended up not pressing charges but my marriage ended soon after that. Glad I got out of that family while I had the chance.
That sucks you had to go through something so terrible to see their true colors. I'm glad you got out!!
why did he steal? because his family always let him be. They are the reason why he's like this. horrible people.
Oof. In my mind you can forgive people but still have them face the consequences. I’m glad you’re out of there now.
The family was used to him stealing and letting him get away with it which is enabling his drug addiction! Bad idea 👎
As far as the mother in law I would have never trusted her in my home or around my children!
That MIL wasn't only gonna steal the earrings, but also the experience of getting married in them like the mothers in her family before and would've robbed that connection from her and THATS what's messed up fr
Can we talk about how the woman accused the gf of cheating with her husband, so the woman was ok with her husband cheating and makes it out like it's no big deal? Wtf is wrong with her.
I was looking for this comment, not anywhere!!
@@agneslawson9276 I know! How did everyone just skip over that! Like wouldn't people question the husband at that point!? Or if she only said that to the son... still ...
I skipped over this one because all of these stories are doozies. It's hard to remember all of these trainwrecks.
This is one I disagree with her on. I would not talk it out with this woman. Someone who does that is insane. If her own kid also wants nothing to do with her, I would not attempt a relationship with her at all. I'd only feel bad about the husband who got accused of that as well since that means he's avoided as a by product. He should leave her and be independent.
How could any woman be ok with hubby supposedly sleeping around?? No way
"Maybe stop trying to change him and he'll want to hang out more" yes!! The best way to show loved ones that you indeed actually care about them is to accept them how they are! It's okay to be different, it's good to be challenged as well!
Exactly... my dad treats me like an adult and respects my boundaries, and my mom barely does because she doesn’t like who i have become (nothing bad, im just not the girly girl she wanted me to be) and hates some of the boundaries i have; guess which parent i open up to and which parent is on an info diet
Gollum-in-law should go directly to jail. What a psycho. 💀
LOL! Your mind went there too! I had a mental pic of them finding that MIL crouched in the last stall in the church restroom, clutching those earrings while hissing, "MY PRECIOUS!"
Sue all of them! The MIL and all the family members who sent you hateful messages and threats. That's illegal too!
The man’s future MIL in the last story is borderline stalking his son and it will only get worse as long as his fiancée continues to support and enable her. OP if you’re reading this, RUN. You and your son can do much better.
Yeah, that woman is INAPPROPRIATE af. That dad is protecting his boy the way he should, and maybe he SHOULD cancel the wedding if new-wifey can’t come to terms with your boundaries. Also…MIL isn’t even blood…she must have an imbalance to be obsessed with her step-grandson that way. Weird.
My biggest pet peeve: Bullies always get the benefit of doubt for acting bad, and bullied get blamed for reacting. Actions are questionable and circumstantial, reactions are undeniable and unnecessary. That is why people get away with stuff, because bullied are discourage from the start from reacting, encouraged to let it go, because otherwise you go down on the same level as the bully. EHM NO?!?!?!?! When we are kids, and we fight with our siblings, our parents ask: who started it? And boom, you go to your room. It is absolutely the attitude we should keep as adults. It is not acceptable to commit a crime, it is acceptable to have emotions about having a crime being committed towards us and we are NOT the same as them. P-E-R-I-O-D. PS: Queen Charlotte Rules.
I totally agree. I wonder what would happen if we as a society decided that bullies weren’t to be ignored and tolerated, but they were to have their feet held to the fire. It seems like if they were consistently held responsible, psychotic behavior wouldn’t be so appealing.
To add: the reactions of the bullied wouldn’t be so bad/deplorable if they were able to shut it down the FIRST TIME
As someone who has experienced bullying, and is bad with emotional regulation, the longer you sit WISHING to react, when you finally snap, you're going to snap harder than if you told them off on the first offense.
Let's also not excuse bullying just because "you don't know what their lives are like at home," because 1- don't inflict or project your trauma and anger on others, its not healthy. They need counseling not the human version of a stress ball.
And 2- if (you believe) their home life is so troubling that that's the reason they're troubling others, get family counseling. Check on the family. See whats wrong and adjust accordingly.
In your country the parents ask "who started it?" I love it for you. That is more sensable then in my country if the child say "he/she started it" the parents just say "that is no reason to make such a fuss both of you!"
@@rebny7801I am curious if you're comfortable sharing what country are you from? I am from the US and my parents absolutely asked who started it. But they're also good about considering all factors involved. Usually ended in only the kid who started it being in trouble. Or depending on our reactions towards them both of us being in trouble. The idea being something along the lines of 2 wrongs don't make a right type thing. If that makes sense. Either way, best wishes to you and yours! Hope you have a wonderful weekend!
@@rebny7801OH that happens here also. My mom would just be so freaking tired from all the drama from ONE child that it was almost like she wanted us to just leave her out of it. Not because she didn't care, because she did. She was just at her wits end between working, caring for all of us and trying to keep up our "happy" home. Now that I have children, I kind of understand. Turns out that that ONE child had schizophrenia! Punishments didn't work, so it was a constant battle.
For the man putting his child FIRST...THANK YOU....that is exactly how it should be!
this is my problem with moms and MILs.... once your child is of the age to require privacy, breaking it in any form, is a control issue. unless your kid is committing crimes or doing drugs and youre trying to find out, but to just assume you can act like you have a right to invade another persons privacy to feed your own need for control, you are no longer someone i want to be around, associate with or have in my life period.
All of my children are grown the only thing I ask is that all of mine call me 1x a week so I can talk to them. I'm close with all of my children but they are young adults finding life and the way these mothers act n the stealing from them is absolutely ridiculous they should be ashamed of themselves
Some people have no shame. @@sara6353
I dated a guy who was autistic before in his mom was not happy when we started dating. She at the time had complete control of his money and assume that if I got with him that I would become his power of attorney and that would no longer be money thrown into her household. Of course he just laid around and play video games all day but that made him happy and he was a really good boyfriend. He was really smart and really funny and I adored him, but she tried to get in his head that I was using him for whatever.
Was he high-functioning? Because if so, that MIL is completely ridiculous and out of her mind. If not, I can kinda see it, but still, not really.
That's a shame. Some people are just too protective and think they deserve their children's money because they birthed them. It's crazy ❤
I wonder how the dad felt about that gross lie!?
@@jojo1216probably before, like “in the past”
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Ugh....that poor 16 year old kid. If anyone EVER messes with my children and makes them feel bad about themselves, and then STEALS THEIR JOURNAL, it would take MORE THAN AN ACT OF CONGRESS to get me to allow that person access to my children EVER AGAIN. I would also NEVER have anything to do with her family that took her side EVER AGAIN EITHER.
The heck with that! Press charges on her and make sure she didn’t have a key to your house after y’all get married! Because if she’s that brazen to steal with you right there in the next room, She’s liable to take your whole house when you’re not there! Or you and your fiancé just run like hell, and save yourself some misery, and run far far away that family!
Just for 💩and😂 I looked up prices for 4 carat TW diamond earrings...
Those earrings could very well be worth as much as a house, and more!
Harry Winston site has a pair of diamond drop earrings that are just over 5 carat TW, and they can be yours for only 1.9 MILLION bucks!
Put that MIL underneath the jail!
Right? Definitely!
@@LazyIRanch GULP!!! Ah she would be DONE!!!!!
Jeez, I've got PTSD right now. Every single one of these MILs remind me of my abusive, narcissistic mother. The reason NONE of them take responsibility for their actions, let alone apologize, is simply because they don't believe they've done anything wrong.
My older sister read my diary when we were teenagers.
I’ve felt so hurt, betrayed, disappointed and sick.
This caused me to never have another Diary again.
I can only imagine if the future MIL would’ve gotten away with it.
and how she would have for sure used it against him!
My brother read mine. My mum got me one with a lock and helped me find a hiding place in my room for the journal and another one for the key
I also never kept a diary again after my mom read mine.
@@sarriedoherty4577what a supportive mum 👍♥️
Wow. That MIL has absolutely has no boundaries or respect. Who the hell steals a 16 yr Olds journal. That woman has issues that can not be fixed.
The first MIL sounds like someone used to getting her own way and having everyone cave to her. She deserves to learn accountability.
MIL to be berates his son, and steals his journal? GTFO. That fiance has to wake up. It's her MOM that's caused all of this. Not her fiance.
Sounds like she's a lost cause, making excuses for her psycho mother. Guy needs to take his son and get away from her and her sick effing family.
Charlotte making the sound of a turkey for some reason always makes my day so much better. 😂🦃
*turkey
The road to hell is paved with good intentions. You cant keep disrespecting someones boundaries and comfort, and then expect them to let you walk all over them just because you "dont mean any harm". Sometimes intentions dont mean anything, and MIL needs to figure that out.
So here's a cool story: my grandmother was ACTUALLY the Potato Queen in my hometown when she was in high school!!!! I grew up in a very small town. I graduated from the same school my dad, my grandma and many of my family members have graduated from. 😂😂😂
I’m in Idaho, where are you?
Are you from Vardaman MS? 😅
Royal potato bloodline!
😂😂😂
Some of the traditions yt ppl have are so cute and funny to me 😂
Last story: MIL is a control freak and fiancée doesn't see it, probably because she's used to it. As soon as she sided with her mother, I would have called off the wedding and told her to pack her things and get out.
The last story actually terrifies me. That woman is literally stalking a teenage boy and was obsessed enough to steal his journal! Op’s fiancé is an awful person if she can’t see how disgusting and inappropriate her own mother is being!
I suspect that the earring theft wasn’t so much about wanting them for herself as much as wanting to prevent the bride from wearing them out of pure jealousy and bitterness.
I thought that it was for the money!
I had an awful MIL. Her son & I had a daughter together. I wanted to get married and he did not. His mom would say, “What does it matter? It’s just a piece of paper”. So I’d say the same thing back, it’s just a piece of paper, so why not?!? She was always talking crap behind my back. Even accused me of stealing $500 from her.
Then, on year on Christmas, with his whole family was there. She brought out wrapped gifts for everyone, including our daughter, except for me. I watched them open their gifts. Thinking: what could it be!?!
The all got hoodies with their last name Holland screened on them. EVERYONE except me. It made for a very UNCOMFORTABLE moment. Idk what she was thinking 🤔 or how she played this out in her head, but it was a very deliberate attack against me.
Things didn’t work out for us, but we’re both happily married to other people and his wife does NOT put up with his mom’s BS. And now he no longer has a relationship with his mom & doesn’t allow our daughter any communication with her….
That was more than just mean. It was spiteful and nasty. Your ex mil is an ugly person.
I feel privileged to have seen the evolution from "all rise" to "turkey noises".
Absolutely hilarious how entitled people are. Love your work; well done Charlotte. These MIL’s are something else. I think all DIL’s have a right not to want toxic MIL’s in their lives.
I have an 8 year old son. If one day my future husband’s mother took his journal, invaded his privacy and just flat out disrespected my kid I’d be kicking not only his mother out the door but my fiancé too if he didn’t step in and at least tell his mother that what she did was wrong. I love my son and comes above EVERYONE in my life. That last one was appalling to me.
In the third story I misunderstand and thought the MIL was Daniel’s grandmother who was acting so badly. That this woman was not even his grandmother is completely appalling 😮 WOW
Run. Don’t walk
Thank god I had amazing in-laws that treated me like their own since day one. I was closed with them than my own parents. They both unfortunately passed this year and I miss them dearly.
I'm so sorry, the pain of losing your wonderful inlaws will get easier, but you are still going to think of them daily from now on since they were as close to you as parents should be.
That made me sad at first, constantly thinking about things I want to tell my parents or ask them about. They've been gone for over 20 years. Now I have a different attitude. I enjoy remembering funny stories or the wonderful ways they made my life happier, and I just go ahead and talk to them when they are on my mind.
The more I hear these crazy stories about selfish, thoughtless parents, the more grateful I am that I was raised by MY parents.
As a teen, I thought they were awful. They wouldn't let me go on a 3 day river-rafting camping trip with a bunch of mostly men in their 20s when I was 15, I never got to see a midnight showing of "Rocky Horror" because I had to be home by 11:00 PM, and when I got arrested for DUI when I was 20, Dad came and got my car, but left me in the jail until later the next day. He could have bailed me out an hour after I was arrested, but he told me I looked like I was exactly where I needed to be! Poor, poor, pitiful me, my parents were so mean with their rules, and as a result I NEVER got arrested (again), never had an unwanted pregnancy, or drug OD, or VD. Today I'm glad that my folks were so "mean"!
The only family I have left now is my sweet MIL I met 32 years ago. She's in her 80s now, and I'm dreading losing her. I'm going to call her today and reminisce about that Thanksgiving we shared 30 years ago at _her_ mother's home and what a great time that was! My grandmother-in-law almost made it to 100 years but died a few days before, just like Betty White. It was also a family reunion where I got to meet all of my ex's mother's family, everyone except my ex because he was in prison for the horrible crimes he committed.
My MIL has not seen him in 28 years, last time she saw him was in a courtroom when she was testifying _against_ him! My mother told me she thought it was wrong that she testified against her own son, because "mothers should be on their children's side no matter what".
"Wait, Mom so if I murdered someone, you'd lie and cover for me?"
"Absolutely!", she said.
Sorry Mom, but that's just wrong wrong wrong!
I'll never understand why he turned out so BAD. His family is lovely and not to blame for his bad choices.
Last Story: NTA. OP is a champ. I'm not one for ultimatums between spouses, but Fiancée's reaction is a red flag. Either postpone or even call off the wedding until Fiancée understands how messed up it is for an adult woman to steal a journal from ANYONE, especially a teenager. Fiancée's lack of spine will cause trouble throughout the rest of OP's marriage, IF he chooses to go through with it...
When I was a teen my mom and boyfriend at the time went over my journal together to fill in the blanks for eachother. Over 20 years later I am still bitter about that invasion. Private thoughts are off limits! So unacceptable.
Is he your ex?
@Passions5555 yes, over 20 years ago
Didn't mother in law to be just disrespected her own husband with her lies though?
Exactly!
I wondered that too and why there was no mention of how the dad responded.
@@stephaniefarley1236 He's probably used to her psycho bs.
The only toxic thing that my ex-ML did was the support for her pastor when he said, ¨maybe he (my ex) should send the child support money TO THE CHURCH instead of me, and then I should take my child to their church so she could "benefit" from the church services", she thought it was an awesome idea.
My mother would think that same way. OMG.
That's ridiculous!
Toxic as hell. What a confused spiritual leader, and a vindictive MIL hiding behind religious piety to get revenge for her son.
“Is the church going to be buying food, clothing, and the roof over our heads? Then, maybe. Otherwise, SCRAM!”
“Is the church going to be buying food, clothing, and the roof over our heads? Then, maybe. Otherwise, SCRAM!”
Forgiveness does not equal full pardon, nor does it equal putting yourself in a dangerous situation (in any way) to keep the peace.
Yes; people should still face consequences even if you choose to forgive them. That could mean either limiting or cutting off all contact.
"Fool me once... won't get fooled again!"😜
Once someone has proven themselves to be untrustworthy they shouldn't be given another chance to cause harm, because they will.
Last story: the fiancé might be secretly gossiping about OP’s son to her mom, and that might have materialized in the mom’s actions.
The fiancé is low key against OP’s child
Definitely, as she was abetting her mother's vile antics. Guy needs to take his son & run like hell away from that toxic family.
I didn’t think of this, but you could definitely be onto something. Truly, I was thinking MIL had a creepy obsession with the 16 y/o kid. Even “IFL Op’s fiancé talked about the kid…it’s super insane to go into his room looking at his stuff. Thats crazy audacity.
Press charges! Press charges! Press charges!
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She might have to tell future children, "You never met granny, bc she got shanked in the hoosegow."
😂 Can't you just hear a kindergartner tell his classmate in a high little voice, "Granny got shanked in the hoosegow"? 😂
These stories add more to my gratitude of being single.
Even if I do decide to get married, at least stand my ground and not put up with BS from toxic bullies like these MILs. Screw them, they deserve to get their comeuppances and shouldn’t be tolerated at any cost.
I've been married three times. Once, a MIL from Hell, one was pretty standoffish and cold, and one nice one. Years later, I found out how truly awful my MIL was. She is a big reason we divorced.
Yup. You definitely have to look at the dude's or girls family.
Now that I'm older, I met two guys I really liked but could not stand their kids. Ok, no one has perfect kids. But I didn't like how they were dealt with. They were adult children. Yup. I'll now stay single.
Last story: I've said, many times, if a person has a child from a previous relationship and the new boy/girl friend in their life doesn't treat them well, then that should be the end of the relationship.
*The last one: It was not hers, it was not **_her child's_** journal and in fact was by blood, a stranger, genetically, to him. It was not in her home, and she did it without anyone knowing. THAT is theft, disrespect for the teen, the dad, the mom, their home and boundaries, and she is never to be trusted in their home or around any of them.*
4:15
the MIL could also be charged with witness tampering, because harassing the victim is considered that, especially if there are threating messages.
4:37 IMO the worst part is that she was stealing these before the ceremony even happened, OP would have had to break tradition and get married without the earrings if they were not found
First story, everyone bugging her about it would push me over the edge for sure! I'd definitely press charges, especially after that.
The first harassing call would have made it no question for me to press charges.
Nothing makes my Saturday better than seeing a new video from Charlotte pop up. Much love to the Queen of Petty!
Next merch needs to say "Yes, but did they apologize......?"
My ex mother in law used to make my son feel bad for being shy or quiet. She kept insisting he do things he didn’t want to do. She made my ex think like her and pressure my son. Talk about making someone feel awful instead of building him up. She actually said she knew more than the pediatrician and other doctors. We nicknamed her Dr Dumbass.
As someone who's also shy when it comes to meeting people and was labeled as anti-social because of it I related to the last story especially the kid. Not only was his notebook stolen but also an invasion of privacy! Honestly I think the Father should divorce his fiance cause if she's gonna defend the MIL for doing something entirely effed up then who knows what the whole relationship is gonna be like!
I wonder if the MIL would have done this if the kid was a girl? Would the reaction have been the same if it was a girl's diary?
“Dear In-laws,
I wasn’t going to take legal action, but you all forced my hand.”
guy diagnosed with autism lv 1 here (late diagnosed)
since I was born everything was dictated what I needed to do and how to do it (that's just fine), the problem was once I was in my late teens I been seeing the difference between other families and my mother (father had these problems, sold drugs to kids, junkie, abusive, Drunk, Manipulative, child abuser, ect since I was born but, long gone at this point.).
She wanted me to live out her dreams, but I had a different idea what I wanted to do with my life. Once I was 18, hanged out with friends and a person who I had romantic feelings towards, the next day I found out that she called the police that I was missing and positively kidnapped (I've left a message on her phone that I was going to be with friends over night, this was just the beginning)
I've argued with her over the years I wanted to live my life, date people (at this point I was 25), I never moved out because, Even if I don't show it I have a huge amount of empathy towards people, especially when it comes to my mother, so I didn't have the heart to move out.
at this point I gave up, the mental gymnastics, the word play, shout matches, and continued to live without me in it, doing the jobs that she thought was great, getting me to do what she wanted, making into her image. I felt like a person suffering from Stockholm syndrome, just wearing a mask just to please her and her friends, soon once my brother grew up he did the unthinkable, changed her mind to loosen my leash.
now I don't know who I am and what I want out of life, I'm stuck in limbo at the age of 39, and can't decide on choice (pretty much screwed up) and one reason I believe that she release the slack of the leash, was because she's within her 60's and told my brother that I would just throw her in a old folks home and never visit her.
men/women of the internet, don't dictate what your child should be or become a mirror of yourself, because this will mess up your child.
Maybe go back to your original dream in what you wanted to do -see if you still have passion. Also, look into hobbies to enjoy spending some time with other people.
I'm so sorry, that sucks. Please be kind with yourself. I hope you can take some small steps toward the life you want for yourself.
Stay strong babe - you got this 💪🏻
As a person with autism I can relate how frustrating it is being in a neurotypical world ( luckily I have supportive parents) but it’s hard to decide what good for yourself when people tell you no all the time just remember you are amazing person and I know it’s difficult but just remember you are incredible and stay strong ❤
I'd tell MIL and every family member who sent a text or said anything that I was going to let it go, but due to their threats, I've decided to press charges (regardless of whether I had originally planned to press charges).
I probably wouldn't have wanted to press charges, until the M.I.L was threatening her, sending nasty messages &even including other family members to back her up to send messages!!! Do these family members, who are messaging this bride, even know what the hell happened?? like how are they defending this type of behavior in a grown-ass woman?? it is disgusting.
The MIL stealing the boys journal was way over the line. That is End Game for any trust in a relationship with her. Even if she apologizes. She has so little regard for personal space that she's always going to be a problem. The way she and the family are acting afterwards shows them all to be a problem. Everyone should be understanding that she went way too far. The fact that they think HE should apologize to HER is crazy! That's a glaring warning sign.
Right, the whole family is disgusting, including the fiancee who was clearly abetting her vile mother.
Reading a childs diary is a violation against basic human rights
Just because they're family doesn't give them an excuse to treat you like 💩. Sometimes, you've got to cut your losses and live your best life. Best to all ❤
Charlotte - my MIL has been staying with us since Halloween. And is not leaving until the weekend of thanksgiving - I needed this post!! I thank you from the bottom of my heart 😂❤
Omg. Consider edibles...
For you or her. Your choice 😅
American or Canadian Thanksgiving 😅. Big time difference here lol. Cheers
To marry into a family that steals is a massive mistake. Even if it is the wedding day: call it off! You are not marrying one person, you are marrying their family.
Exactly. Just wait until an estate issue comes up… they will bankrupt you with legal nonsense.
Given that her husband was supportive of her pressing charges, I think she has a good chance of the marriage working out despite the MIL.
If the husband is supportive of the charges against his own mother, I think she might have a good marriage as long as the boundaries are strong.
Yeah coming from someone whose mother is like this, please don't blame the kid for the parents' actions. OP's husband was 100% backing her up and was down for throwing his mom in prison for theft. He clearly doesn't agree with it and I wouldn't be surprised if he cut contact after this. If he defended his mom, then that's totally different and he's for the streets.
Read the original post. OP clarified in the comments that her partner doesn't have a good relationship with his mother anyway. MIL and FIL are divorced so it's exclusively MIL's side of the family kicking up a fuss.
Love how the MIL isn’t abusive for stealing for OPs kid and trying to read his journal. Noooo. That’s fiiiiiine.
People don't always steal something so they can have it for themselves. They do it because they don't want the other person to have it or don't think that person "deserves" that item.
That's unhinged.
Ah yes, claiming your child's partner slept with a close relative and is only dating them for revenge, truly the sign of a great mother.
Anti-social is often used incorrectly. It doesn't mean someone is "anti-socializing". I think it means someone, like, goes against rules of society. Not in a "rebel" kinda way, like a "this person belongs in prison" kinda way
If my son was autistic or whatever else I would be so grateful he is with someone who helps him in every way and respects him. We aren’t going to be there forever and as parents in general there is nothing more comforting knowing your kids are with a good partner when we die.
I seriously don’t understand from what planet these type of people come from… stealing from the bride, journals from a kid etc 🤦🏼♀️
Right? My 21 year old some is on the spectrum (is at University and working part time). I would be thrilled if he found someone who loved him. However, i can understand parents being overly protective with their special needs kids, but still…
Didja notice that the bystanders tell the victim to 'be the better person.' They don't pressure the aggressor to apologize, to ask for forgiveness, to promise to never act that way again.
Stop that BS! You don't HAVE to be the better person. Screw that!
Say it with me folks! **ALWAYS PRESS CHARGES!**
Even if the mother in law apologized i would still press charges
The mother in law that was trying to take the journal will only get worse after the wedding. Run NOW!
The "you can't do that that's your mother (mother in law, etc)" is the exact attitude, that people who behave poorly, rely on in order to avoid facing the consequences of their actions. Notice how the question is never "how could you do that to your son (daughter, etc)".
I would like to know what the MIL said when they found the earrings in her bag. She is a thief, but not a good one ,how could she think she the earrings wouldn't go unnoticed? maybe she was trying to prevent the wedding? OP and husband should discuss if they need to distance themselves from his family.
The only excuse I can think of is that she has serious mental illness and is a kleptomaniac. If that's the case, then her family would 100% know this about her. They've probably protected her for years from facing any consequences for her behavior. You know this isn't the first time she's stolen something valuable.
A 2nd cousin of mine has stolen thousands from her parent's company, but they keep her on as "office personnel" so it keeps happening. She's an opiate addict which is an expensive hobby.
Her son has profound brain damage and lives in a home/hospital facility. She did drugs while pregnant but insists that her 35 year old son's brain damage was caused by "Satan".
Well, it technically was caused by Satan. The Satanic drugs she took! It does not absolve her of her actions.
I am so fortunate I'm guessing because my MIL is freaking awesome and I tell my husband she loves me more than him! She's an amazing and beautiful woman.. My husband loves my silly ass mom too! 🤣
You have sisters or does husband have sisters sounds like a family I'd like to marry into 😂😊❤ 🫂
@@BrianAndresScott Haha, yep! My sister and his sister.. They are single!! 🤗🤣
@@Swnsasy cool
Last story. It's not the fiancee who should be reconsidering the marriage -- it's the OP. The fiancee is allowing her mother to behave abusively toward OP's son. This is intolerable. It won't stop, and OP can not be there 24/7 to protect his son. OP should tell fiancee that the wedding's off. No explanation needed: OP won't know if fiancee truly understands the issue until she explains it to him. Don't give her a chance to parrot.
OP, you don't want to be with someone who will give her family a pass when they treat your son, and you, poorly. And like the commenter said, your son is screwed if you die, and you future ex-MIL has control over him.
I’m loving these Star Wars cuts, first you got me with Vader and now Palps cutting my funny bone deep 😂
Story 1: OP needs to write a text to everybody.
Dear husband's family. At my wedding, mother-in-law stole family heirlooms that had been in my family for Generations. She was the only person that it could have possibly been, and they were found in her bag. The police asked if I wanted to press charges and I had been going back and forth about it and was on the brink of deciding that I wouldn't do it. However, due to your actions of harassing and bullying me in order to intimidate me for being the victim of a theft, I am moving forward with pressing charges as well as maybe talking with the police about Witness intimidation.Please stop contacting me as I will consider it harassment going forward."
That would be libellous, and she would open herself to a lawsuit. She's much better off pressing charges.
@@raghailligh1080 how in the fuck is that libelous?
Libel is publishing false things about people. None of what that said is false.
Why do I feel like we’ve heard the first story before or one similar where the MIL stole some jewellery before the wedding
Because she's already told this story. 😁
We have, but there was more to the story. This time, more information and more comments from the redditers still a crazy mil story from sure
Earrings: it might be another charge against MIL for threatening her if she pressed charges. In court cases, it's tampering with the witness. Not sure if it would or wouldn't be here. Keep those texts OP
“A REUNION?!” 😂😂. Man, got me within the first few seconds.
Plus the fact that the husband wasn't shocked or alarmed by his mother's behavior at the wedding makes me think that she steals things all the time. That this is common behavior for her. With her family enabling her behavior making excuses for. So I would press charges.
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Security guard here. I'm definitely not in her demographic either
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Outrageous, spoiled, entitled behavior WILL CONTINUE when family members are too fearful to confront this nonsense. I come from an uber dramatic family and am used to theatrics, abuse, gaslighting, etc etc. Get AWAY from these kinds of people....especially liars and thieves!!!
Years ago my husband called the cops on his own mother...why? We believed our son over her. He was a child even. She then threatened to kill him, her son( my husband) and me. Her other son had to drag her out of home. After the police left the brother in law came back and tried to calm my husband down. She did lie. Afterwards both of them stalked us. Even her other son going around looking into people's homes to find us when we moved and didn't give our address. Years later, we had worked things out and she actually became a friend, just the first 10 years were rocky.
If this happened to my husband’s son I would have laid into my mom! You can’t just come into our home then steal from a child. If you’re willing to do that I would not have faith you’d refrain from stealing from us or respect our privacy. If the fiancé doesn’t have your back before the wedding then it won’t get better after. I recommend postponing the wedding, going into couple’s counseling, getting an ironclad prenup if you remain engaged n finally a will to prevent issues in the future.
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Scrounging on your content I haven't seen bc I'm having a bad day, I'm not a big social media person but your presence has become part of my routine & find comfort in sitting to indulge in some tea bc my life is very disciplined rn. Here I am, thanks a million, bless u ma'am
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In the first on even though she is now your MIL I would press charges. Also save the threatening emails from her family members as they can be charged as well for threatening a witness. Since she wanted to play this stupid game, let her win this stupid prize. I’m so happy to hear that your husband is supportive of you.
My nosy grandmother is the reason I never kept a journal as a child, despite all my friends having one. I just knew she would 'stumble upon it' and there was no fucking way I was giving anyone, especially her, that sort of ammunition against me.
Charlotte coming in with the petty Saturday shenanigans for our guilty pleasure….and for that she is a GODDESS!!! And WE LOVE YOU CHARLOTTE❤❤❤❤
In the third case, I see the future MIL and FIL not attending the wedding as a win. I mean, it's clear MIL wanted to find out Daniel's deepest secrets and thoughts in order to publicly humiliate him. She's a nasty piece of work who is trying to play the victim.
In the first case, I'd respond to any texts by calling her out as a lowlife THIEF.
As soon as this man marries this woman, Daniel will become persona non grata. If the MIL is acting like this and his fiancee isn't objecting that's a huge red flag. Perhaps Daniel is having trouble adjusting it's because his father's fiancee is a twaffle, a mirror image of her mother.
He needs to choose his son.