Mujhay Bachay Nahin Pasand | Junaid Akram
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It's easy to say "I hate kids" but wait till you have yours.
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Junaid bhai loved to hear this change. Reminded me of our podcast I secretly thought abhi junaid bhai kai bachay nahein howay, I wonder mujhay kaisay change karain gay.
Junaid bhai k nache shadi se phle nhi ho skte moro bhai 😄
🤣🤣Apas ki BAAT ha, phir ap kaab la rhy ho Morro lite version.
Mooroo 😍❣️
Ye bariya tha guru 😂
مورو بھائی آپ خوشخبری کب سنا رہے ہیں...
I am a father watching this while my one month old daughter hanging on my shoulder, feels a true blessing الحمد لله 😍😍😍
We need to stop judging people. If someone doesn’t want children, believe them. They may not think of themselves as responsible parents. There are so many parents in our society who should never have become parents. Bad parenting is seen all around us. At the same time, people who actually want children should definitely have them and care for them. Children are a responsibility from Allah. Please don’t take it lightly.
Well said, some people don’t want to have children not because they hate children and are annoyed by them but because they don’t deem themselves responsible enough and/or fear they won’t be good parents.
+ overpopulation issues in Pakistan
imagine your son watching this after some years.... he would be so proud.
Proud of whom ?
@@ihtishamkhan7108 teray baap say aur kissay?
@@mul-el3657Jahil insaan thora tameez sai baat kiya karo
He is the only one in PAKISTAN who talks about real issues.
Watch raja Zia ul haq, tuaha ibn bin jalil, they highlight every issue in the light of islam
And I love ganji swag
You need to expand your horizon - there are many people in Pakistan doing an excellent job.
True, i believe the youth club is the best
How can you forget Mathira, Waqar Zaka and Amir Liaquat....😡
I have a 4 week old and my life has changed completely. I am sitting in our bedroom while my wife feeds our son who is not having a good night. It’s 4 am. I won’t have it any other way.
Children are the most wonderful creation of Allah. Without children, this world is meaningless.
Creation Not Creature
The same thing happened with my father when I was born. He used to be a chain smoker but left that for us. He always warned us to not even touch this thing ever in our lives. His father (my grandfather) was an uneducated farmer, yet my father worked hard for us. He worked overtime to give us the best education. And Alhamdulillah, now I'm a Software Engineer. Today whatever I am and whatever I've achieved is all because of my father's efforts and dedication.
I want to give a message to all the people who say that they hate being a parent. Just imagine your parents had similar thoughts about parenthood. Where would you be now? You would not be here to write these comments. If you die without having any children, then no one will remember you after you're dead. No one will do "Esal e Sawab" for you, but if you raise pious children, they will always remember you in your prayers and you will get the rewards for their good deeds even after you're dead. Just think about it for a second! That's all I wanted to say!
Sometimes aulad doesnot change people. Change is i believe comes from within and then you can pursue it in actuality.
sometimes...majority do change...
@@safyaniqbal2 looks like you did change and i am very happy for you. Hope you changed for good.
@@mehreenminhajuddin5469 yes to be honest, before marriage every girl looks like a potential candidate of sex,,except if they r your own family..
Good men then control this desire n keep themselves away from such activities,,other do nasty things...
After i became father , this whole perspective changed about every child n girl...
.i hv 3 daughters and i try to raise them the best possible way n repent my earlier such thots n also thank GOD that i didn't endulge in such activities in my youth,,but the thinking was always there.
So relatable.
Nice
big fan soban bhai ❤️❤️❤️
Na pucho bhai. Damn true. But alhamduLillah... yes
Big love soban bhai
But my father didn't leave cigarette he's still smoking but he never gets in sick get any kind of diseas Allah hifazat Rakhe unhe
Waqai ... Our children can make us do wonders! ❤😊
I've seen ppl change inside out due to the love for their children. Allah SWT hum sb ko naik aulaad jaisi neemat se nawaze. Ameen 🤲🏻
I have 2 friends who got married this year (both had love marriages) and they both are staunch Anti Natalists. They are against having children. One says that procreating is bad for the environment, and the other says that her figure will get ruined if she bears children. They both look down up on women desiring motherhood. But at the same time, they are Feminists. I find this utterly juvenile on some level. You may not desire to have children right away, but 6-8 years later, you may find yourself experiencing some emptiness in your married life, and that maybe the desire to have a child. I feel that people who uphold the belief of Anti Natalism have probably not really thought things through. Childless couples, indeed, go through a lot of pain.
you should convince them
Can I have baby without marrying
@@bharatkapoor4062 if you're talking about adoption than it's okay but if you want to be mother/father without getting married than Its a big sin in every religion especially in Islam also In our society it will be consider as illegitimate child and society will curse you and your child for this, having child before marriage is western culture why you want to ruin you're culture by adopting western culture this is rape and it's common in western culture and now its being common in indian subcontinent unfortunately
@@HassanKhan-vc6ij live in relationship is legal in indai and west as well and baby in live in relationship has same importance as after marriage and if u go by the religion your country is full of sins from heera mandi to corruption to sales of alcohol construction of minorities worship places etc
I like how peope who dont want to have children are talked about as some insensitive, heartless aliens while you're the one to generalize that all of them live in "pain"
I am a father and my daughter is about 15 months. I am quitting smoking right with this video.
The credit for this change goes to you.
You are my hero now onwards.
I love the arguments you tackled Junaid but simultaneously, soemtimes that verdict is genuine and is for the best.
Some people recognize they are not capable of parenthood let it be due to lifelong traumas or them having long term psychological issues, and them realizing how traumatic parenthood will be upon them.
Personally my own self, i recognize how my own life has been spent serving and pleasing others due to unchangeable situations. I've never felt like I've been able to live for myself and give 12-14 hrs to freelance, in hopes to financially stabilize on my own, before i hit my mid 20s.
Now when someone of this stature finally is able to escape a lifelong cycle of living for others, and is finally able to live for their own sake and spend on themself- naratting that they should eventually settle down for kids again and yet again live for another life there on forever, is a never-gonna-happen verdict. And its often not said out of edgyness or emotions, but due to recognizing one's lifelong wishes and psychological circumstances not alligning with parenthood.
Exactly this , you put everything I had in my mind in words
Your life really does sound ... bleak. My dude's been through some shit.
@@mujeebishaque Well life never promised to be fair so
Have to accept it and work with it
@@huzaifayousaf26 that's the way of life. True.
I agree with this man as well .so even if one does not desire kids that much they should not say that they hate kids
I also quit smoking due to my son. I smoked 25 years.
MaShaALLAH
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Wao! Bro..
Great Bro
Great bro
Bacche acchein achhon ka dil pighla dete hai 🥺♥️
Well said bro. ALLAH Pak jo hmary behn bhai be aulad hein un sb ko aulad ata frmaye. Ameen
No matter how old parents get ,kids want them to stay alive ,because their existence means so much . And kids give value to your life as a human being .
Great message bhai! We need these kind of "naseehatain"
Brought tears to my eyes when I was remembering stuff my dad did for us despite of unlike or any financial restriction. Dont underestimate the power of a father, Allah jannat mai jaga de
100% agree with you Junaid Bhai...!!!
Since last 2 years I had my twin daughters Roha & Soha as my first children, my life has changed 360°.
Before I used to be so conscious about my appearance dressing whenever I used to visit Malls or any public place...
Now only thing I think is whether my kids are enjoying this time or not?
All the time I lift my 1 daughter on my shoulders & other 1 in pram.
This gives me an idea for your video junaid bhai please make a video on how in earlier people used to give their children to other relatives who didn't had kids... please try to make pros & cons of giving kids to others...
Children are the hands by which we take hold of heaven.
Happiness is a house full of children.
So on the point. I travel quite a bit and when I hear a child crying, my heart melts as well. I can also relate to people who struggle to have kids as my wife and I went through the same struggle to have one child. Allah key buhot bari naimat hei olaad. Thanks for sharing your lovely thoughts.
Great msg ... Acha laga sun kar
Zindagi ma aulaad woh naimat hai jiska koi alternate nhi... Alhumdulillah
It should be a choice. If somebody wants kids is good & if somebody doesn't want kids is also good. It doesn't make you less human if you can't or don't want kids. Let people live.
Yes he will not discuss climate change, poverty, corona virus, effect of population
He already discussed about tahat a lot if you have been following him
Finally,
A sensible comment
Cheers mate 👍
Breeding people don't understand that not all of us are born with parental drives and instincts and that life can have other meanings except continuing to bring more people in a failed system/ country, exhausting resources and trashing the earth.... for a kid that never asked to be born, when there are orphans who long for homes... I can't think of a single reason that isn't based on narcissism for someone to have a biological child.
Agreed, Not everyone can/wants to raise children and its not a big deal. One of the few times I disagree with Junaid bhai.
As a new parent I can attest to this 💯
Hello Sir 👋🙂
Fathers are so important! ❤️
Thank you for Sharing your experience. Made me smile. I'm a father of 3 year old daughter.. and yes she is already daddy girl.
I rarely hear back from anyone on RUclips comment still I like to share my thought .
Babies /kids are very important of relationships in life . When you have kids value them and give them your best .
To your friend who does not have kids never say “ you are enjoying you don’t have kids, you are free , you are having fun etc” .
You never know what they are going through to have one . Pain , stress and a lot more .
Thank you .
Goosebumps, being father, totally agreed with you. First time ever commented on any such video, just to AGREEEE with you. We shouldn't speak such superiority word, May Allah give hadayat to every one. Ameen
Ameen
Yarrrrr inki videos billboards pe chalwa dain...Kamal! 💖
سبحان اللہ.
I have not watched any video worth more than this from this one. Thankyou for talking on this junaid bhai ❤️
pray that I get 92% marks in my 1st year exams (ameen) Inshallah
In Sha ALLAH, Shehzaday! May you get 95%
Wow wow wow... What a great msg, video, words... Completely agreed...!!
Allah har kisi ko aulad atta farmaye. Ameen
Blkul sahi kaha Sir
Mn bhi apny bachon ki wajha sy samjha k mere parents ny kia kia nhi kiya. Allha unka Saya hamaisha salmat rakhy.
One of greatest blessing of the God its beautiful to see some who came from you growing up with you
Is saal ki behtarin message video.. ,😍
Thanks for the vlogs!! I truly appreciate your hard work.. Mashallah
WAH SIR G JUNAID BAHI REALLY LOVE THIS VIDEO IT REALLY HELPED ME OUT IN CHANGING MY THOUGHTS OF HAVING KIDS GHAR WALUN KO PEHLE KEH DIA THA SHADI NI KRNI Q K BACHUN KI TEMSION NI LE SAKTA AAJ KAL KA MAHOL BARA KHARAB HAI AISE HI TENSION LENE KI KIA ZAROORAT HAI AUR JAHAN 20 25 SAAL BEGHAIR GF YA WIFE K GUZAR GAYE HAIN ALHUMDULILLAH AGY BHI I.A ALLAH PAK KHAIR KARE GA BUT BAHI AAP KI YE VIDEO DEKH KR LITERALLY MUJHY BHI KUCH BACHPAN KA WAQIA YAAD AA GAYA AUR AAP KI VIDEO NE EMOTIONAL KR DIA I JUST STOPPED THINKING ABOUT THIS HAVING KIDS WAGHAIRA GHAR WALUN KI BAATAIN IK KAN SE DAL KR DUSRI SE NIKAL DETA THA LOVE YOU JUNAID BAHI ❤❤❤❤❤😭😭❤❤❤
Allah pak tamam be aulad joroun ko aulad jaisi naimat se nawaze
damn..salute brother..in the same age and saying same things, just listened to you..thaaa krke lagi he..tho i knew all of this reality bcz of having czns and relatives in same scenario..but when you talk..you talk GOOD..andr tk jati he awaz..
God bless you brother
Junaid bhai knsa gell istemal krty hein?
Your thoughts on this is just amazing❤
May Allah Blessed All Childless Couple with Obedient and Pious Children.
Ameen ♥️
Obedient and pious lol. I will hope for smart, intelligent and independent children with good family values. More realistic and successful.
@@szuberi what's wrong with being pious and obedient may I ask?
Pious person stays out of trouble and is more focused. It's a brilliant trait
@@szuberi you don't want to regret something do you.
Noob
@@freznox6 He wants to live in old age homes. That he could do without children as well.
Brilliant talk, sensible 👍🏼
Allah Pak aulad ki khushi mujy dekhna naseeb kre r Jin k ps nhi h unko b ata kre Ameen
My life is already in such disarray, I can't even think of marriage let alone kids.
*The trauma, pain, stress anxiety and tension my parents and almost all of our parents went through is toxic, so kudos to those who want to end this torment and break this cycle of torture and live a happy extremely peaceful life jidhr aap apnay shok pooray karsako*
KOi muje is baci ka bataye aur baci wali vedio na link bi
Junaid bhai is topic par thori baari video banao please!!!
Your thoughts are next level ❤️Love from jacobabad
I m one of ur big fan, I cried a lot just listening this video, really Aulad is a priceless blessing from Allah,I have one fairy like daughter n one will be in my hands soon Inshallah
Plz pray for me
May Allah Bless On You & Your New born Ameen
It's a strong message...
Good message ...
Hadia cute thi isliye adopt karna chah rahe the log. This is a silent racism
U r right
Well looks always matter and now people say omg why you are being racist why noone wants to adopt ugly kids. So This world is not fair please keep this in your mind nothing is fair in this world looks does matter and we should feel empathy for every person but again we just fall for looks whenever chances come. Peace out👍
100% true
Nobody has the right to judge anyone else's preferences.
@@freznox6 I think you belong to Mars , coz we are talking about this society which we guys know very well
Best talks...ThQuu for advice brooo❤️❤️
Allah pak hum sbbbb k abu ko lammmmmbi zindagi dy ameen 🥰🥰🥰🥰❤️my father is my Hero 😘❣️love you abu janu 😊❣️❣️❣️🥰❤️❤️
Damm true bro one of the best video of your
Bhai wo mooro wala podcast dekh k mujau bara aitraz hua tha. Am happy aj ki soch sun k. Totally agreed
Sir g bilkul esa hi hai...👍🏼
Keep it up bhai, keep talking about such issues
Life Changing Video Junaid Bhai. Great. Big Fan.
Ap sahi k rahy hi Meray sat aisa hi Kuch howa hi . Love you Junaid bahi
Love you sir.You always come with logic
Sir you are Great as Always....... always come with mind blowing thoughts whether its short or long video.........you always make us inspired thank you so much for being there.........
So true....
App mast bande ho Junaid Bhai, MashAllah. Abhi apka FB page unlike kerdia tha Snack video ki wajahse😂 khair dobara liking, apka content bahut achs hota hai..Bus Allah se dua hai apko bhter sponsored milein, Ameen
Great video sir...
الله پاک اور اس کے حبیب صلی الله علیه و آله وسلم کا لاکھ لاکھ شکر جس نے مجھے اولاد سے نوازا۔ ❤
Bilkul sahi kaha Junaid bhai, khud baap bana to pata laga k maa baap hamen kitni mehnat se palte hen.
Rabbirhamhuma kama rabbayani sagheera
Brother I just become father 5days ago it's a different feeling that never feel before timing brother of your video
Yess It's Reality..
Haaye junaid bhai this is pure feeling 😍
Sooo true Man!!
He is only one who Talks about real issues
Great message junaid bhai! Well said. We need more messages like this. ❤❤
Amazing bhai i solute you
From Canada
Junaid Sir Allah pak apko khush rakhe
Nice msg.
Yes I'm also father of 2 kids or ye baten bilkul durust hain
Very well said
SubhanAllah Allah is the greatest
U r absolutely right
Bilkul aisay hi ha bhai
Listened every minute of the video..wow
Can't say about Pakistan, but living in a middle class family in India with the sort of expenses of bringing up Children, I wouldn't have children especially in India even not in America ( now I live In New Mexico in America ) , next year I am planning to migrate to Germany with my Italian Girlfriend where I would love to start a family, but certainly not in any country which isn't socialist or provide any sort of benefits.
Sorry to say but condition in European countries in worse than India
Just look at their fertility rate it is way below than india
One of the reason is high expense to raise a kid
The problem is not expenses, rather the life style we pursue.
someone told him about climate change
@@user-cc1so5tq2p No bro I am talking about the basic education and healthcare expenses baaki kharche like Kapde khana those are not huge expenses for me , in India especially Education is becoming an excessively costly affair along with healthcare facilities, that's why my decision of migrating to Europe or My Girlfriend's family.
The socialist democratic Republic of india - Constitution
Walaikum o Assalam
Absolutely Right Sir G
Love From#IRAN ❤️
Hats off!
Owsum video! 👍
So true ❤️
Agree with you brother
bohat pyari baat
Han Bhai Aisa he hai
Jo innocence kam ho jati hai duniya ke naklipan mein,bache bholepan ko ghar mein banaye rakhte hain
Akram bahi mere bal gr rahe hai kohi noska batao
Nice topic sir
Love this junaid bhai.
App theek kah rahey hein Allah kisi ko be Aoulad na rakhey . Ameen