Glamrocs Makeup - hi! It takes some effort to believe in yourself And others. Pray instead of worry, positive thinking about self and others. As so much is going wrong on this planet, trust in God, the higher, pure force of life. In which, it takes time to get to know. Go out and try things, take small risks, steps, new job, study, hobby and build up confidence. I had a fairly hard time from childhood and as a young adult, felt insecure at times, break ups, loss of confidence, doubt, anxiety and depression. Thankyou for your words pastor, Awesome! I have changed alot when I tuned into God's way. I am a mental health peer support worker ( by God's grace) and have many opportunities to support people. I choose to be part of the solution, I don't like my negative attitude at times. My confidence is pretty high now that I know my skills, value and worth and can take care of myself and care for others. Sometimes I get it wrong, but I say, that's okay. I put my trust in prayer, the Son and Father's listening ears.
Pray through!Depression comes from the devil. He thrives on bringing Christians down to blocking them of God's Glory and Goodness!!!What God is wanting to accomplish through you !!!
Listen here, @rcblakes. I have never ever known a pastor who has such a keen understanding of the human heart and mind. I know you say you are not a licensed counselor, but THEY could learn a thing or two from you!! You might as well have just said “Julia” in this video, because you are speaking that clearly into my life. I have been dealing with a separation this past year and as it has all come to a head, I lost my business. All of that caused me, rightfully, to doubt my self. And it is just as you say- when I began to doubt myself, I began to lose my vision for the life I was building for myself. This word has been so encouraging to me and I anticipate that I will come back to it very often as I work to regain my momentum. I thank God for you sir. I see so often that people refer to you as their spiritual father and I can completely understand why. When I leave your videos, I feel as though I have been sitting at the feet of my precious late father and my heart is full of love and wisdom and inspiration to receive what God has for me and do the work He requires of me. Thank you very much.
J Casell .. yes Julia!! This our spiritual father.. more so for me who never grow up with a father figure.. love Pastor Blakes so much! And I’ll be praying for you
Couldn't agree more. My confidence has been a bit broken the last few years after husband passed away. Pastor Blakes teachings are helping me put things back together.
'When you lack confidence in yourself, you cant even depend on YOU!' Thank you, Pastor Blakes, God gave me this WORD through you. God bless you and family!
This is a perfect compliment to your videos on narcissism. Being abused by a narcissist will definitely wear down one’s confidence. Thank you for the word. God bless!
labella42071 Your so right, didn’t know such evil, manipulative , selfishness, liars, compulsive cheaters , love to use that word love, knowing that their playing mind games, controlling, jealousy , haters, hate themselves, one feed off your positive energy , copy cats, always looking for smart attractive woman so they suck the life out of them to make they person conform to their ways , if it’s not there way that person will drop you quick , but mind you they have another supply/ person already lined up, that person is highly secretive in porn, their not that great in bed, want you to cater to there needs but don’t return the favor, they want what you got, always talking down to you, always competing with you, everything is about them first, they want you to treat them special , they live a double life, there always smirking behind your back and talking a out to There friends, relatives, lady friends, etc. These people are creepy ,weird, devilish, selfish, don’t really want to see you make it out here, they just play that role like they so excited for your success , no they just want to take all that away from you and mode you into there sick twisted fantasy world. It won’t be Great just taking you a few step backwards with pain and misery wondering how did I allow myself to get into such a mess. That’s what Narcissist do!!!!! They’re not normal people ,like regular folks . Peace!😡
I love this message. I do not believe that there is one moment and you can miss your moment to the point where it 'never comes around again'. If you continue to walk with God, when you mess up he will continue to reset your path. God is amazing like that. His grace is incredible.
I am currently listening to your videos on the Narcissist. The man who I had been with for the past 8 years has many Narc tendencies. Though, he was always “nice” to me and not abusive he still had many Narc tendencies. I am still listening to more of your messages on the subject. I recently ended the relationship. He was my priority. I was his opportunity. He gained much in the relationship and I lost a lot of $ and esteem. Please continue speaking on HOW TO RECOVER and not go backwards. I have ended it before only to go back to him later. Thus, feeling emptier every time... I pray that this is the final end as we no longer have ties. No more bills together. No more joint bank accounts. No longer living together and yesterday we emptied our storage and divided our belongings. There is nothing keeping me tied to him anymore. But, I need help letting go 💯 emotionally.
Yep, the one I have is a mess!!!!!! You stay because there’s a lot of good in them but they just have these ways that just kills it all. They don’t wanna change! They like themselves that way or just can’t see what we see in them. These Narcissist turn your world upside down. You didn’t even see it coming. You truly can’t be happy with them because their to self center. They drain your energy, mind, self worth, everything. I did here if you let them , he’ll want you to pay for everything, including his wants and needs. These people are like a child and who wants a grown man who acts like boy, what you gonna have with that? These men are trip out here today! They are so different now!!!!! I hope you find the right man you someday, it’s out here. Don’t let that one make you feel you don’t still got it and don’t have nothing to offer no one. Just be careful with your next prospect, you might have to go deeper in finding out about the person you like meaning do some asking, research, a little digging about that person but do stay totally away from Narcissists. You had too learn that the hard like myself. I didn’t know such pure evil could exist in someone . You should know the signs now. You tube has plenty of videos on this topic , showing you all the red flags. Good luck to you lady, peace!👸🏾
Go no contact! That's the only way to prevent from going back. You need to fall off the face of the earth to him. You will feel so much better. But great for you for ending it, God doesn't want us miserable and low.
Teresa Tubbs I will be praying for you. RC Blakes has videos on Soul Ties and how to break free. You may find it helpful to listen to those as well. Keep looking up to Jesus and forward to the wonderful destiny He has planned for you!!! It only gets better when we trust God and do the work...you got this!!! 🙏🏽
I can totally relate because I had similar situations as you but what stuck out the most of what you said is that you treated him like a priority, and I guess I was an option to him. I recently ended it, and I feel lost, and what little confidence I had went with the relationship. Lesson learned, make sure your confidence is based on you and not anyone else. May God Bless you with your healing.
This is the swift kick in me bum that I needed. After 17 years together, today marks the first anniversary of my husband's passing. Still very difficult. I was born in 1967 with a congenital neuropathy disorder called Charcot-Marie-Tooth. January 2015 I fought to get into college for Cosmetology. June 2016 I graduated with very high marks, a cosmetology license, and an AA degree. Being disabled, I lacked the confidence to do anything with my new education. I lacked the convinced myself that people would allow me to do their hair, makeup, and nails, because my legs did not work like most others. Although I have kept my license current, two years later I have not done anything with it. I needed to hear this message. I need it so bad that I am listening to it again and again until the message becomes apart of me. Thank you. Thank you from the inside out. I appreciate you.
Beautiful Elegance I've just found this channel, as well as your post of a year ago. You have a lovely name, and a lovely spirit! I hope you've gotten your confidence..cuz so many people really need the gifts/services you've worked so hard to attain! Your cosmotology skills..sure would boost my own confidences!! Blessings to you..stay beautiful! 💝
Great message pastor! This is so true. I’ve missed out on many life blessings due to lack of confidence and fear (lack of support system also). It’s hindered my growth. And I found myself in a deep depression for many years . I now have realized you have to move forward regardless and know that fear will always come but it should never stop you from moving forward in life.
My boss offer me promotion and I almost was about to turn it down because I thought it is too challenging. This is the first and only voice I heard that is encouraging. Thank you thank you, thank you pastor
Bless you, Apostle Blakes! We have ALL had to ENCOURAGE OURSELVES like David! I thank GOD for you and ALL of the other Truly Anointed and Appointed Vessels through GOD ALMIGHTY, WHO CONTINUE TO ENCOURAGE ME, as well as, others who have gone to the bank because we have depleted our faith-filled savings account in some area of our lives. Thank you for depositing the faith filled encouragement reminders from The LORD by way of RUclips. There is no collection of academic degrees, prowess, wealth, physical symmetry, intelligence, or good looks that can replace the CONFIDENCE that we obtain by faith in GOD! You are such a EDIFIER!!! Blessings to you and yours!
i had been praying to god to help me build my confidence back up and my self esteem and this video pop up in my notifications today look at God and im a pretty lady its getting there.
Thank you again, my whole life has been about moving beyond fear & doubt --It never ends! Meditation on past victories is powerful . Intentional empowerment YES , LOVE YOU
This is true!! I say protect your self esteem, confidence, heart and stay away from toxins. You can too become toxic and pessimistic yourself. That's what happened to me and I have beat myself up, and now have been healing after accepting so much and involving myself directly into the battle. "Scared but do it" AMEN
YES IT HAPPENING TO ME NOW...I STARTED OUT WITH STRONG CONFIDENCE AND THEN I STARTED LOSING IT....EVEN MY SON NOTICE IT..HE POINTED IT OUT AND I JUST STARTED TO CRY...BUT WITH THE STRENGTH OF GOD HE ALWAYS SHOW ME WHEN I KEEP GOING AND I TELL PEOPLE I CANT EXPLAIN IT...ITS ALL GOD...ITS AMAZING.
When you don't have self confidence, "You don't just commit destiny suicide, but you murder other people's hopes!" Wow, *that* rocked my world to the core!!! I just love truth tellers! Blessings man of God! Wow, just wow!
I approve of this message.... You have just uplifted my heart and my soul and gave me another key to unlocking all the doors I'm prepairing to open......
I just came across this much needed video. Yes, this pass week I knew something was amiss in my life. Thank you for helping me to seek out myself confident. I’m sitting here crying because I could not figure out what I was doing wrong. In the last seven years I’ve lost so much because I lack the confidence to myself. I’ve always push for other to achieved their goals and I totally forgot about me. I will jump to it and just do it! Thank you for the words of encouragement.
I needed to hear this!!!!!! I am walking on faith to open my business! God is putting everything in place! I was second guessing myself because I was robbed from my confidence while being in a up and down relationship …. Thank you!!!
Pastor RC Blake's we knew what was happening to us was wrong yet we couldn't get out. We were too broken. God and you have been a tremendous inspiration. We must remember Phillipians Whatever is pure, lovely....
I dont know how i came across this video? This channel was suggested to me and i absolutely love every video i have played so far. God bless you and your family pastor 🙏🏽❤️
Thank you I understand exactly what you're saying. Being 60 years seasoned when these challenges present them self, I know this to shall pass. season changes universal laws the world goes round and round.
Star gazer - with those you care about it’s very tricky, you should separate between their true needs and plain complaining. Difficult but you need to separate yourself from complaining because it poisons you. Just do everything you can to help them and then step back and pray.
Thank you tube for all these great motivators like Rc Blake's,, Omg I have never felt a pain and hurt this deep,my Narcissist left me to go back to his ex wife, he's leaving me poorer,I realize that I'm an empathy,for giving is my nature, and he used it all up,am focusing on my healing and hoping am strong enough to recognize the difference.Sisterhood be strong .
Thank you so much! Your videos have & will continue to change my life! You're a blessing that we desperately needed. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and your transparency. I love you!
I admit I do have a lot of confidence issues but listening to you daily is getting a positive word in my Spirit. I also am starting to read the bible daily too. Because of my disability I never had the confidence I needed to sustain my apartment in the community. Although I successfully lived with my husband for 5 years, I have never had the confidence to live on my own. When you're told that you can't do it alone long enough you will start to believe it. So, I am taking this time at the nursing home to do some personal development. I am still young, vibrant and have a lot of years ahead of me. I believe God wants me to try again to live in the community this time with more extensive supports so I can be successful. Thank you for being one of the reasons that makes me want to try again.
I too have a disability and probably the only reason I stayed with my narc was because I was afraid of what would happened to me if I left. Fortunately God provided money for me and I was able to start over and get away and heal. I still have challenges but now I know to not worry about the money and God will provide when I need to get out of a situation that is unhealthy for me. It was a lesson in trust.
I am a teacher in South Africa dealing with the generation following the genocide of apartheid. I use your words to guide myself and my students. This topic is the greatest learning barrier to be overcome in my time . I need God's help and you help me with that. Thank you
This is about four years old i went back to it today it was just as powerful I'm going through my trials and testing I have to go back and listen again confidence or something I struggle with a lot feeling better that I went back and listen to this today thank you
Aloha Pastor Blake’s, I have listened to many of your videos now. Thank you , praise God, and Hallelujah for this ministry❤️ These talks are just the balm and assistance and knowledge I needed to hear in helping me keep moving forward in faith after having been abandoned after 26 years of marriage to younger woman after I thought this Man was the love of my life. Other messengers have some good counsel, but it doesn’t have the heart of God that you can bring to your message! That is so evident to me, it creates faith and confidence in me. I can remember that God is for me, not against me! Mahalo Pastor, you are like a father with his wisdom, that he is wanting to impart. I know there is an emptiness in me that these messages are filling!
Pastor RC Blake this whole counseling setting was for me!!! I have started or should say jump into working on building my confidence and knowing my worth. I Thank God for you and your transparency. God knows what the people need to hear and I am listening and taking notes!! God bless!! I Love ❤️ you too!!
I have listened to this over, over, and over again. Each time I get something new out of your teaching. Confidence in myself has been doubtful as of late . Pastor, you irk me sometimes! Lol. Just kidding.
Its also complaining constantly, even when we have so much to be thankful for. We have become a generation of complainers!! Love your talks; always on the money!!
Thank you Pastor. I listen to your messages every day and they have really inspired me to do better and I am working on a lot of things that would be good for my future sometime I have to take a break because so many things to be coming after me at one time and I get overwhelmed but I’m not giving up and my confidence is better than they were and I do meditate but I think God for the The opportunity that’s at hand I’m going to have a better life because I’m gonna push myself more and more I’ve come a bit till four just give up and God is giving me a better life all I Gotta do is the word there’s something to really think about and be thankful.May God continue blessing you and your family as well take care be blessed
This is really painful to bare , but I'm going to, this message is on spot today. I tell everyone I get a chance to to make sure to watch your show . You are another " To Sir with Love ," like the movie. !
I am so thankful for all the R.C. Blake's videos I have watched. They inspire me, bless me, and help me to love forward in the direction God has for me. ❤
Dear RC Blake's I am so grateful and honored to hear from such a Godly honorable perspective of life you have truly been a blessing to me. I've been binging off of every words that encourage my soul to live thank you so much mr. Blake's you have literally change my perspective to live beyond I can ever imagine. Thank you so much for being that spiritual father that big brother that Uncle and Cousin in the spirit God bless you and Lady Lissa and your precious daughters may God continue to bless you and the ministry that he placed in your hand trust and believe it is not in vain may God bless you may he keep you may he continue to smile upon you in Jesus name amen it is so and so it Gwendolyn Bethea from Philadelphia PA
Thank you so much for this message Pastor Blakes! I consider you my spiritual father. Your messages and books have been helping me and my friends and I’m so thankful for your ministry! This message in particular really spoke to me and is giving me the courage and hope I need as I regain my momentum. Thank you so much!!! God bless and keep you and your family!
Amen!!! I so needed to hear this!! I have a fear of failing, but now that I been looking at all your videos. My confidences have really gone up. I have been trying to figure out what is my purpose, and now I know. I thank God for leading me to all your videos. I have to build in silence now and step out on faith. God is so Good! I am getting all the tools I need to get going from listening to you. I am so excited to see what God has in store for me. 😘❤️💋😘
When I was a child bad things were instilled in me. My father constantly told me I wasn't good and I wasn't going to turn out good. If I brought home a test paper that I Aced he would tell me that I should have gotten A plus. I was never good enough in his eyes.I grew feeling that I was NEVER enough so I think it's that's y I'm always quiting. Thank God the the bible and Rc blakes
Bishopppp!!! I truly thank God that I have came across your channel as it has truly spoken to my spirit man. I could go on and on!! God bless you and your Wife!! ❤️
WOW! I have been listening to you for the past 2 weeks, I am gaining so much from this. Thank you for allowing God to use you to speak this good word. Just WOW!
Man of God thank you. The Lord spoke as I listened and said don't throw away your confidence that has great recompense of reward. He gave me understanding of the season that I have just come out was a weapon of warfare for me to abandon my confidence. Wow thanks for your obedience. I'm back on the battlefield. God bless you, stay in the council of the Lord the saints of God need you.
Lisa blakes you r truly blessed 2 have a handsome sexy godly man like pastor blakes!!!! Man if all man in this world would grow up communicate & lead with wisdom & knowledge like this this, world would be so much better. Speaking truth & nothing but the truth!!!!!
I share a lot of your videos on my page I originally created to post my own but God has use your ministry and a few others to speak on multiple subjects I would have touch on such a blessing to my life I am a subscriber and a follower of your product but must confess that your videos and my own personal walk with God has encourage me to not only know the word but really see the Glory of God to work miracles that could have only been supernatural and gave me a strong revelation that its more to me; that confidence was and sometimes get in the way but realizing the wisdom behind it gave me what I needed and need to overcome the enemies that come in many forms in my life; also that the weakness that I feel is my power and that if I can risk been in the moment of humility that I will realize its not my energy its the spirit speaking to me about something I need to be aware of or something I need not let my confidence fall in the matter but yet meditating on his word and analizing myself and humbling myself under Gods mighty hand what ever it is will come out of hiding I will be protected and gain confidence to move accordingly if he need be but God bless You Mr. And Mrs. Blake's keep living by example it looks good on you and I pray for Gods Covering over y'alls family and blessings ...... A ChildofGod🔥
Pastor Blakes I am new to your channel, I just want to say I love! The fact that you base your example on the BIBLE! The truth , the WORD of GOD. Thank you!
Thank you pastor for such relevant advice. If you are not ready to step into the opportunities presented to you, you are forfeiting the inheritance of your children.
Thank you for being so so authentic! That is the type of person I would want to my mentor, someone who has had problems and has overcome them. You bring me hope!
Peace Love n Blessings to you.💕 Your video yesterday didn't work i watched an i shared with my family an it wouldnt work. Thank you for posting this again.✨🙏🏾
Powerful!!! Watching from Australia... I’ve watched this before and watching again ... and again... it sinks in more and more and is meant exactly for the season that I am in at the moment... God Bless you so much for all that you are doing for us!!! I am fully blessed and grateful for the ministry God has through you!!! His Kingdom Come!!! Bless you!!! Bren
Blessings and thanks , I heard you God spoke to my heart through you today. I thank God for your ministry. May God bless your ministry and gaurd and continue to guide you. Shalon .New Zealander.
Thank you for taking the time out of your day to encourage and enlighten those of us who are battling various issues in life. That's really all God wants from us. To grow his kingdom and love one another. It's a selfless thing you are doing and i know at times a huge sacrifice. Just wanted to encourage you and your wife to keep the faith! Again thank you, You've helped me in more ways than you will ever know. God bless💕
Thank you so much Bishop. I am so grateful for this particular videos. I was lost and now I'm found thanks to this videos. I am speechless. I know God placed your you tube videos on my path in this season for a reason..I have found healing here..may God bless you and your family.
“ Growth is always painful “ I felt that in soul. I can’t wait to get out of this season of depression. Thank you for your words of encouragement.
Glamrocs Makeup - hi! It takes some effort to believe in yourself And others. Pray instead of worry, positive thinking about self and others. As so much is going wrong on this planet, trust in God, the higher, pure force of life. In which, it takes time to get to know. Go out and try things, take small risks, steps, new job, study, hobby and build up confidence. I had a fairly hard time from childhood and as a young adult, felt insecure at times, break ups, loss of confidence, doubt, anxiety and depression. Thankyou for your words pastor, Awesome! I have changed alot when I tuned into God's way. I am a mental health peer support worker ( by God's grace) and have many opportunities to support people. I choose to be part of the solution, I don't like my negative attitude at times. My confidence is pretty high now that I know my skills, value and worth and can take care of myself and care for others. Sometimes I get it wrong, but I say, that's okay. I put my trust in prayer, the Son and Father's listening ears.
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Pray through!Depression comes from the devil. He thrives on bringing Christians down to blocking them of God's Glory and Goodness!!!What God is wanting to accomplish through you !!!
Listen here, @rcblakes. I have never ever known a pastor who has such a keen understanding of the human heart and mind. I know you say you are not a licensed counselor, but THEY could learn a thing or two from you!!
You might as well have just said “Julia” in this video, because you are speaking that clearly into my life. I have been dealing with a separation this past year and as it has all come to a head, I lost my business. All of that caused me, rightfully, to doubt my self. And it is just as you say- when I began to doubt myself, I began to lose my vision for the life I was building for myself.
This word has been so encouraging to me and I anticipate that I will come back to it very often as I work to regain my momentum.
I thank God for you sir. I see so often that people refer to you as their spiritual father and I can completely understand why. When I leave your videos, I feel as though I have been sitting at the feet of my precious late father and my heart is full of love and wisdom and inspiration to receive what God has for me and do the work He requires of me.
Thank you very much.
J Casell How can I respond to such words? #Honored 🙏🏽
J Casell .. yes Julia!! This our spiritual father.. more so for me who never grow up with a father figure.. love Pastor Blakes so much! And I’ll be praying for you
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Couldn't agree more. My confidence has been a bit broken the last few years after husband passed away. Pastor Blakes teachings are helping me put things back together.
Yes I am learning from him. Pastor Blakes is truly a Blessing to us all.
'When you lack confidence in yourself, you cant even depend on YOU!' Thank you, Pastor Blakes, God gave me this WORD through you. God bless you and family!
This is a perfect compliment to your videos on narcissism. Being abused by a narcissist will definitely wear down one’s confidence. Thank you for the word. God bless!
labella42071 Your so right, didn’t know such evil, manipulative , selfishness, liars, compulsive cheaters , love to use that word love, knowing that their playing mind games, controlling, jealousy , haters, hate themselves, one feed off your positive energy , copy cats, always looking for smart attractive woman so they suck the life out of them to make they person conform to their ways , if it’s not there way that person will drop you quick , but mind you they have another supply/ person already lined up, that person is highly secretive in porn, their not that great in bed, want you to cater to there needs but don’t return the favor, they want what you got, always talking down to you, always competing with you, everything is about them first, they want you to treat them special , they live a double life, there always smirking behind your back and talking a out to There friends, relatives, lady friends, etc. These people are creepy ,weird, devilish, selfish, don’t really want to see you make it out here, they just play that role like they so excited for your success , no they just want to take all that away from you and mode you into there sick twisted fantasy world. It won’t be Great just taking you a few step backwards with pain and misery wondering how did I allow myself to get into such a mess. That’s what Narcissist do!!!!!
They’re not normal people ,like regular folks .
Peace!😡
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labella42071 yes Lord!!!!!!!!
I love this message. I do not believe that there is one moment and you can miss your moment to the point where it 'never comes around again'. If you continue to walk with God, when you mess up he will continue to reset your path. God is amazing like that.
His grace is incredible.
Do you really believe that? That God can turn things around for you?
Confirmation 😮!! Not everybody that have a place in your heart , have a place in your space!! Amen... needed that so bad
I am currently listening to your videos on the Narcissist. The man who I had been with for the past 8 years has many Narc tendencies. Though, he was always “nice” to me and not abusive he still had many Narc tendencies. I am still listening to more of your messages on the subject. I recently ended the relationship. He was my priority. I was his opportunity. He gained much in the relationship and I lost a lot of $ and esteem. Please continue speaking on HOW TO RECOVER and not go backwards. I have ended it before only to go back to him later. Thus, feeling emptier every time... I pray that this is the final end as we no longer have ties. No more bills together. No more joint bank accounts. No longer living together and yesterday we emptied our storage and divided our belongings. There is nothing keeping me tied to him anymore. But, I need help letting go 💯 emotionally.
Yep, the one I have is a mess!!!!!!
You stay because there’s a lot of good in them but they just have these ways that just kills it all. They don’t wanna change!
They like themselves that way or just can’t see what we see in them. These Narcissist turn your world upside down. You didn’t even see it coming. You truly can’t be happy with them because their to self center. They drain your energy, mind, self worth, everything. I did here if you let them , he’ll want you to pay for everything, including his wants and needs. These people are like a child and who wants a grown man who acts like boy, what you gonna have with that?
These men are trip out here today!
They are so different now!!!!!
I hope you find the right man you someday, it’s out here. Don’t let that one make you feel you don’t still got it and don’t have nothing to offer no one. Just be careful with your next prospect, you might have to go deeper in finding out about the person you like meaning do some asking, research, a little digging about that person but do stay totally away from Narcissists. You had too learn that the hard like myself. I didn’t know such pure evil could exist in someone . You should know the signs now. You tube has plenty of videos on this topic , showing you all the red flags. Good luck to you lady, peace!👸🏾
If you wanna talk to me about my experience now with one let me know we might can help each other. Let’s be Narcissist Free!!!! 💯
Go no contact! That's the only way to prevent from going back. You need to fall off the face of the earth to him. You will feel so much better. But great for you for ending it, God doesn't want us miserable and low.
Teresa Tubbs I will be praying for you. RC Blakes has videos on Soul Ties and how to break free. You may find it helpful to listen to those as well. Keep looking up to Jesus and forward to the wonderful destiny He has planned for you!!! It only gets better when we trust God and do the work...you got this!!! 🙏🏽
I can totally relate because I had similar situations as you but what stuck out the most of what you said is that you treated him like a priority, and I guess I was an option to him. I recently ended it, and I feel lost, and what little confidence I had went with the relationship. Lesson learned, make sure your confidence is based on you and not anyone else. May God Bless you with your healing.
Really like when you finish with a prayer💕
This is the swift kick in me bum that I needed.
After 17 years together, today marks the first anniversary of my husband's passing. Still very difficult.
I was born in 1967 with a congenital neuropathy disorder called Charcot-Marie-Tooth. January 2015 I fought to get into college for Cosmetology. June 2016 I graduated with very high marks, a cosmetology license, and an AA degree.
Being disabled, I lacked the confidence to do anything with my new education. I lacked the convinced myself that people would allow me to do their hair, makeup, and nails, because my legs did not work like most others. Although I have kept my license current, two years later I have not done anything with it.
I needed to hear this message. I need it so bad that I am listening to it again and again until the message becomes apart of me.
Thank you. Thank you from the inside out. I appreciate you.
I hear ya! You get through it and you get stronger each day and each year.
@The Queen and Her castle... Thank you. The "under-served" was my motivation for getting the license and degree.
I appreciate your support.
@@ms.lisabailey1491 Your support means more than you know. Thank You.
Simple Elegance 💓
Beautiful Elegance I've just found this channel, as well as your post of a year ago. You have a lovely name, and a lovely spirit! I hope you've gotten your confidence..cuz so many people really need the gifts/services you've worked so hard to attain! Your cosmotology skills..sure would boost my own confidences!! Blessings to you..stay beautiful! 💝
Great message pastor! This is so true. I’ve missed out on many life blessings due to lack of confidence and fear (lack of support system also). It’s hindered my growth. And I found myself in a deep depression for many years . I now have realized you have to move forward regardless and know that fear will always come but it should never stop you from moving forward in life.
My boss offer me promotion and I almost was about to turn it down because I thought it is too challenging. This is the first and only voice I heard that is encouraging. Thank you thank you, thank you pastor
This is me. I am in school for a 2nd Master's degree. But my real issue is confidence.
Bless you, Apostle Blakes! We have ALL had to ENCOURAGE OURSELVES like David! I thank GOD for you and ALL of the other Truly Anointed and Appointed Vessels through GOD ALMIGHTY, WHO CONTINUE TO ENCOURAGE ME, as well as, others who have gone to the bank because we have depleted our faith-filled savings account in some area of our lives. Thank you for depositing the faith filled encouragement reminders from The LORD by way of RUclips. There is no collection of academic degrees, prowess, wealth, physical symmetry, intelligence, or good looks that can replace the CONFIDENCE that we obtain by faith in GOD! You are such a EDIFIER!!! Blessings to you and yours!
i had been praying to god to help me build my confidence back up and my self esteem and this video pop up in my notifications today look at God and im a pretty lady its getting there.
Thank you again, my whole life has been about moving beyond fear & doubt --It never ends! Meditation on past victories is
powerful . Intentional empowerment YES , LOVE YOU
This is true!! I say protect your self esteem, confidence, heart and stay away from toxins. You can too become toxic and pessimistic yourself. That's what happened to me and I have beat myself up, and now have been healing after accepting so much and involving myself directly into the battle. "Scared but do it" AMEN
YES IT HAPPENING TO ME NOW...I STARTED OUT WITH STRONG CONFIDENCE AND THEN I STARTED LOSING IT....EVEN MY SON NOTICE IT..HE POINTED IT OUT AND I JUST STARTED TO CRY...BUT WITH THE STRENGTH OF GOD HE ALWAYS SHOW ME WHEN I KEEP GOING AND I TELL PEOPLE I CANT EXPLAIN IT...ITS ALL GOD...ITS AMAZING.
Praying for your strength! I Thank God for using you as a vessel to help deliver the word to help carry us when we are weakest.
When you don't have self confidence, "You don't just commit destiny suicide, but you murder other people's hopes!" Wow, *that* rocked my world to the core!!! I just love truth tellers! Blessings man of God! Wow, just wow!
I approve of this message.... You have just uplifted my heart and my soul and gave me another key to unlocking all the doors I'm prepairing to open......
That is why God kept on telling Joshua to be determined and confident! Over and over again.
I just came across this much needed video. Yes, this pass week I knew something was amiss in my life. Thank you for helping me to seek out myself confident. I’m sitting here crying because I could not figure out what I was doing wrong. In the last seven years I’ve lost so much because I lack the confidence to myself. I’ve always push for other to achieved their goals and I totally forgot about me. I will jump to it and just do it! Thank you for the words of encouragement.
Thank you for all that you do here on RUclips. I look forward to hearing you speak in Dallas this weekend. Kingdom Blessings
Christine Solomon omg i had no idea! i gotta clear my schedule for this!
I needed to hear this!!!!!! I am walking on faith to open my business! God is putting everything in place! I was second guessing myself because I was robbed from my confidence while being in a up and down relationship …. Thank you!!!
Pastor RC Blake's we knew what was happening to us was wrong yet we couldn't get out. We were too broken. God and you have been a tremendous inspiration. We must remember Phillipians Whatever is pure, lovely....
This was powerful so many key things; organize just do it and jump into it a mantra was heard!
It’s 2021 & I praise God for this revelation!
I dont know how i came across this video? This channel was suggested to me and i absolutely love every video i have played so far. God bless you and your family pastor 🙏🏽❤️
You have no idea just how much I needed this message!!!! Praise God! Thank God for you!
Thank you I understand exactly what you're saying. Being 60 years seasoned when these challenges present them self, I know this to shall pass. season changes universal laws the world goes round and round.
Thank you for being a blessing to us
stay away from unhealthy people especially those always complaining.
Your so right !💯
Star gazer - with those you care about it’s very tricky, you should separate between their true needs and plain complaining. Difficult but you need to separate yourself from complaining because it poisons you. Just do everything you can to help them and then step back and pray.
LORD YES Negativity is FOUL 👎
Complainers are drainers
They deplete your energy
Wow Good stuff!! Never thought about how our confidence issues impact our lives and people around me
Thank you tube for all these great motivators like Rc Blake's,, Omg I have never felt a pain and hurt this deep,my Narcissist left me to go back to his ex wife, he's leaving me poorer,I realize that I'm an empathy,for giving is my nature, and he used it all up,am focusing on my healing and hoping am strong enough to recognize the difference.Sisterhood be strong .
Thank you so much! Your videos have & will continue to change my life! You're a blessing that we desperately needed. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and your transparency. I love you!
I admit I do have a lot of confidence issues but listening to you daily is getting a positive word in my Spirit. I also am starting to read the bible daily too. Because of my disability I never had the confidence I needed to sustain my apartment in the community. Although I successfully lived with my husband for 5 years, I have never had the confidence to live on my own. When you're told that you can't do it alone long enough you will start to believe it. So, I am taking this time at the nursing home to do some personal development. I am still young, vibrant and have a lot of years ahead of me. I believe God wants me to try again to live in the community this time with more extensive supports so I can be successful. Thank you for being one of the reasons that makes me want to try again.
I too have a disability and probably the only reason I stayed with my narc was because I was afraid of what would happened to me if I left. Fortunately God provided money for me and I was able to start over and get away and heal. I still have challenges but now I know to not worry about the money and God will provide when I need to get out of a situation that is unhealthy for me. It was a lesson in trust.
@@djwendy Nicely stated, DJ! Know exactly what you mean! Stay blessed! 💝
Well said and I know God guided me to your channel for a reason. Thank you.
Love rewatching the videos... I get something new each time. Blessings 🙏🏾
I am a teacher in South Africa dealing with the generation following the genocide of apartheid. I use your words to guide myself and my students. This topic is the greatest learning barrier to be overcome in my time . I need God's help and you help me with that. Thank you
Right on time! Thank you Lord! 💪🏾❤️
As always, just Powerful, Anointed, and on Point! God Bless you and Lisa.
This is about four years old i went back to it today it was just as powerful
I'm going through my trials and testing I have to go back and listen again confidence or something I struggle with a lot feeling better that I went back and listen to this today thank you
Thank you Pastor RC, it helps me regroup and apply!#GODBLESS
This Man is HELPING Us ALL!! THANK YOU SIR!!! THANK YOU JESUS!!!🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I'm getting slowly my confidence back. Day by day, step by step. Just bought car and enrlol for few lesson coz not driving for a while. God bless 🙏❤.
Pastor Blakes this was a message directly from God through you. I am so grateful for your obedience. Thanks.
Aloha Pastor Blake’s, I have listened to many of your videos now. Thank you , praise God, and Hallelujah for this ministry❤️ These talks are just the balm and assistance and knowledge I needed to hear in helping me keep moving forward in faith after having been abandoned after 26 years of marriage to younger woman after I thought this Man was the love of my life. Other messengers have some good counsel, but it doesn’t have the heart of God that you can bring to your message! That is so evident to me, it creates faith and confidence in me. I can remember that God is for me, not against me! Mahalo Pastor, you are like a father with his wisdom, that he is wanting to impart. I know there is an emptiness in me that these messages are filling!
Pastor RC Blake this whole counseling setting was for me!!! I have started or should say jump into working on building my confidence and knowing my worth. I Thank God for you and your transparency. God knows what the people need to hear and I am listening and taking notes!! God bless!! I Love ❤️ you too!!
This spoke life into me today. Very grateful for these words of wisdom.
This message has help me today as iam feeling so down thank you iam a new subscriber
I have listened to this over, over, and over again. Each time I get something new out of your teaching. Confidence in myself has been doubtful as of late . Pastor, you irk me sometimes! Lol. Just kidding.
Lissa Brooks That’s a good thing. I hope....🤔😂
@@RCBlakesJr. Definitely! I love your teachings. The presentation and realness of it all...
Lissa Brooks Thank you. This means a lot to me.😊
As always your videos and Prayers are on time. Praise GOD for I have someone very dear to me that keeps me"Accountable" as I do with her. 🙏💕
Thank you Bishop Blakes! I needed this word more than I can express. #VolumesOfHelp Thank you!
I love you all, and thank you!!
Thank u so much Pastor, its been life changing listening to you. say hello to your beaitiful Queen !!!!
God bless you and keep you Pastor Blake’s. Your wife and daughters and all of us are truly blessed by your work. I will revisit this many times
You are TRULY an amazing man! I’m in awe right now!! How can anyone ever deny that you are doing GODS work!! Bless you!! 🙏🏽💙🦋
Its also complaining constantly, even when we have so much to be thankful for. We have become a generation of complainers!! Love your talks; always on the money!!
I needed this message. This was an on time word. This really blessed me. Thank you Bishop R.C. Blake’s!
Thank you Pastor. I listen to your messages every day and they have really inspired me to do better and I am working on a lot of things that would be good for my future sometime I have to take a break because so many things to be coming after me at one time and I get overwhelmed but I’m not giving up and my confidence is better than they were and I do meditate but I think God for the The opportunity that’s at hand I’m going to have a better life because I’m gonna push myself more and more I’ve come a bit till four just give up and God is giving me a better life all I Gotta do is the word there’s something to really think about and be thankful.May God continue blessing you and your family as well take care be blessed
Please forgive me for the errors I was trying to edit but it’s not working out
This is really painful to bare , but I'm going to, this message is on spot today. I tell everyone I get a chance to to make sure to watch your show . You are another " To Sir with Love ," like the movie. !
I am so thankful for all the R.C. Blake's videos I have watched. They inspire me, bless me, and help me to love forward in the direction God has for me. ❤
Dear RC Blake's I am so grateful and honored to hear from such a Godly honorable perspective of life you have truly been a blessing to me. I've been binging off of every words that encourage my soul to live thank you so much mr. Blake's you have literally change my perspective to live beyond I can ever imagine. Thank you so much for being that spiritual father that big brother that Uncle and Cousin in the spirit God bless you and Lady Lissa and your precious daughters may God continue to bless you and the ministry that he placed in your hand trust and believe it is not in vain may God bless you may he keep you may he continue to smile upon you in Jesus name amen it is so and so it Gwendolyn Bethea from Philadelphia PA
Thank you so much for this message Pastor Blakes! I consider you my spiritual father. Your messages and books have been helping me and my friends and I’m so thankful for your ministry! This message in particular really spoke to me and is giving me the courage and hope I need as I regain my momentum. Thank you so much!!! God bless and keep you and your family!
Amen!!! I so needed to hear this!! I have a fear of failing, but now that I been looking at all your videos. My confidences have really gone up. I have been trying to figure out what is my purpose, and now I know. I thank God for leading me to all your videos. I have to build in silence now and step out on faith. God is so Good! I am getting all the tools I need to get going from listening to you. I am so excited to see what God has in store for me. 😘❤️💋😘
When I was a child bad things were instilled in me. My father constantly told me I wasn't good and I wasn't going to turn out good. If I brought home a test paper that I Aced he would tell me that I should have gotten A plus. I was never good enough in his eyes.I grew feeling that I was NEVER enough so I think it's that's y I'm always quiting. Thank God the the bible and Rc blakes
Thank you and God bless you, Sir. I just feel peaceful as I listen...Just soaking up the wisdom.
Bishopppp!!! I truly thank God that I have came across your channel as it has truly spoken to my spirit man. I could go on and on!! God bless you and your Wife!! ❤️
WOW! I have been listening to you for the past 2 weeks, I am gaining so much from this. Thank you for allowing God to use you to speak this good word. Just WOW!
This is so true I love it, only two people you can depend on God and yourself. Very motivating.
Pastor, please pray for me. Thank you in advance. ♥️
Man of God thank you. The Lord spoke as I listened and said don't throw away your confidence that has great recompense of reward. He gave me understanding of the season that I have just come out was a weapon of warfare for me to abandon my confidence. Wow thanks for your obedience. I'm back on the battlefield. God bless you, stay in the council of the Lord the saints of God need you.
This is helping me. You are teaching sir. God Bless you ❤
I needed this word on this day at this time in my life.
Lisa blakes you r truly blessed 2 have a handsome sexy godly man like pastor blakes!!!! Man if all man in this world would grow up communicate & lead with wisdom & knowledge like this this, world would be so much better. Speaking truth & nothing but the truth!!!!!
I share a lot of your videos on my page I originally created to post my own but God has use your ministry and a few others to speak on multiple subjects I would have touch on such a blessing to my life I am a subscriber and a follower of your product but must confess that your videos and my own personal walk with God has encourage me to not only know the word but really see the Glory of God to work miracles that could have only been supernatural and gave me a strong revelation that its more to me; that confidence was and sometimes get in the way but realizing the wisdom behind it gave me what I needed and need to overcome the enemies that come in many forms in my life; also that the weakness that I feel is my power and that if I can risk been in the moment of humility that I will realize its not my energy its the spirit speaking to me about something I need to be aware of or something I need not let my confidence fall in the matter but yet meditating on his word and analizing myself and humbling myself under Gods mighty hand what ever it is will come out of hiding I will be protected and gain confidence to move accordingly if he need be but God bless You Mr. And Mrs. Blake's keep living by example it looks good on you and I pray for Gods Covering over y'alls family and blessings ...... A ChildofGod🔥
Pastor Blakes I am new to your channel, I just want to say I love! The fact that you base your example on the BIBLE! The truth , the WORD of GOD. Thank you!
I'm truly blessed by this message. Thank you so much for this video.
Hallelujah 🙌 Praise the Lord.❤️✝️💐
God bless you and your family.🙏
Thank you pastor for such relevant advice. If you are not ready to step into the opportunities presented to you, you are forfeiting the inheritance of your children.
Much needed thank you Jesus for this man of God Glory.Amen Amen
This was excellent!
Thank you for being so so authentic! That is the type of person I would want to my mentor, someone who has had problems and has overcome them. You bring me hope!
Peace Love n Blessings to you.💕 Your video yesterday didn't work i watched an i shared with my family an it wouldnt work. Thank you for posting this again.✨🙏🏾
Thank you for your healing contributions to the world! 🤗
Thank you RC Blake’s!!! You are wonderful!!!!! I must say I have been struggling with this! Thank God for you
I'm late to the party ! But this message was right on time ! thank you !
🙏🏻Just can’t believe it. 🙏🏻 Your words are so powerfull🙏🏻
Powerful!!! Watching from Australia... I’ve watched this before and watching again ... and again... it sinks in more and more and is meant exactly for the season that I am in at the moment... God Bless you so much for all that you are doing for us!!! I am fully blessed and grateful for the ministry God has through you!!! His Kingdom Come!!! Bless you!!! Bren
Blessings and thanks , I heard you God spoke to my heart through you today. I thank God for your ministry. May God bless your ministry and gaurd and continue to guide you. Shalon .New Zealander.
Thank you for taking the time out of your day to encourage and enlighten those of us who are battling various issues in life. That's really all God wants from us. To grow his kingdom and love one another. It's a selfless thing you are doing and i know at times a huge sacrifice. Just wanted to encourage you and your wife to keep the faith! Again thank you, You've helped me in more ways than you will ever know. God bless💕
@rcblakes
Bless you pastor. Great stuff❤
Thank you, Bishop Blakes. Your words are very encouraging! God Bless you! Diana Batista 😊
Thank you so much Bishop. I am so grateful for this particular videos. I was lost and now I'm found thanks to this videos. I am speechless. I know God placed your you tube videos on my path in this season for a reason..I have found healing here..may God bless you and your family.
Oh this is GOOD stuff, I had to look at this video more than once! 😩🙌🏼
This message was very insightful and uplifting. Thank you pastor for all your wisdom and advice.💕💕 I think this one might be my favorite so far.
Thank you pastor Blake, truly enjoy listening to your teaching, continued blessings to you and first lady.
So much wisdom in this video 🙏
Have you ever went to church and felt that the sermon was meant for only you?
Yes
Sanitize your circle. 💎💎💎
I LOVE HOW HE SAID "POISONING PEOPLE W YOUR VIRUS" THATS TRUTH RIGHT THERE!!!!