María José is stunning; I was enthralled watching her speak. What a beautiful way of talking, her expressions, her mannerisms, her face are just gorgeous.
+Natalie S. you've commented so many times on this video and you're so hateful, I hope one day you find peace within yourself and can be more open minded.
Sorry, I thought you meant /gender/, not sex. That's more of a linguistics error, seeing as how the actual definition of gender does not refer to chromosomes.
"..so I'd wear a conductor cap for the next two years. whenever someone would call me 'tranny danny', I'd be like 'choo choo.. all aboard' " LMAO :D
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Rain Dove looks absolutely as stunning in a dress as she does in male clothes and I really don't understand why she'd be seen as aggressive for wearing one. I was literally like "damn" when I saw her in the dress.
She wouldn't be seen as aggressive for wearing a dress per se. It has to do with the different expectations on how men and women should behave. When people believe that she is a man her attitude comes across as normal but if people believe that she is a woman the same attitude comes across as aggressive and domineering.
She has a stunning body, but because of her masculine looking face, people think she's a boy, or a trans-woman, which they don't want to relate to. Because of that stigma, she comes forward as aggressive, but also because she doesn't really embrace the femininity, she still walks like "a man" when she wears a dress, and if she doesn't go all the way thru with makeup and stuff, she's actually just sending a message that screams and that is aggressive.
bdsm is not part of the lgbt+ community. there are obviously lgbt+ people who are into that but just because you like kinky stuff doesn't make you queer. imo
I honestly and truly can't see why somebody would be angry about this. These people are wonderful, amazing and have an inspiring story. The aren't hurting anyone by being who they are. On the opposite side, people who can't accept these persons are the ones who are the problem, they are the ones that we should be angry about.
I believe they went with the "full title" as a point about how society is determined to put you into a box, by any means necessary. And the extended title shows how stupid that is. That being said, realizing that there was a word for how I am, which is also gender fluid, made me feel like I am not alone because there's enough people in the world like me, in one way or another, to grant a title.
I get gender fluidity, but those outfits genuinely made me cringe. If you wanna be a manwoman, please wear a dress.... or at least something that matches.
saying that someone has to wear something to 'pass' a certain way is directly going against the idea of gender fluidity because you're saying they have to look like a man or a woman. that's not the point
People can wear whatever they want and describe themselves however they want. Their 'gender' is a whole sentence because they're describing difference aspects of themselves. Just like someone saying "I'm a blonde, athletic, musically inclined, nerdy, gay, trans boy." That's just who they are, you can chill.
gender is such a personal thing. in my opinion, it's up to an individual to decide what labels make them feel good and fit them the best, or no labels at all. i think it's ridiculous that we're expected by western society to shove ourselves into these two ridged boxes, male and female. we only have one short life, why spend it trying to fit into a label that's practically unobtainable?
gender is man and woman, not male and female. male and female are biological facts, which society has attached either masculinity or femininity to. male+ masculinity= man female+ femininity=woman. The only logical, factual part is the biological sexes, which aren't the same as gender.
Ra Fie absolutely, i completely agree. using male and female as the equivalent of man and women in my first comment was just me trying to show how most of western society perceives it to be, as gender and sex going hand in hand. which isn't true. thanks for making me clarify though.
Im very much part of this. I just don't get why all the labels are necessary. In my head, I'm a man who simply enjoys dabbling into the feminine realm.
Exactly!! All these people are trying soo hard... I can see their eyes screaming "I'M A SPECIAL SNOWFLAKE" I don't want to be rude but... (Sorry if my english is bad)
I'd love it and I'm sure so many others would, too.. if it were this simple. I'm a woman.. I look like one, feel like one, and sometimes talk like one.. but sometimes, I'm kind of manly, too. :) Unfortunately stupid people like to push their rules on others so we need terms to make it easier for said stupid people.
Exactly! The first person is literally struggling to list all the things they label themselves as, they just seem to want to be 'different'. My friend is a girl and was born a girl but wears shirts/guys jeans etc. and people are always like 'oh so youre queer, transgender, non-conforming, genderfluid etc. etc.' and shes like '..i just like the clothes'
I'm sure when I was 20 I'd have found this confusing because I had never met people outside the broadly accepted 2 gender.s...but now at 60 life didn't go the way I thought to it would, I've had a fascinating life I'm just an ordinary woman single till I was 34....met a man totally opposite to what I thought I'd spend my life with and he died last year after w6 years together. The ONLY things that matter are being happy in your own skin, and to be loving and accepting with others....( as Jesus said "Treat others the way you want to be treated) and hopefully find someone to share your life with...all the rest is entirely up to you. I find these three people intriguing and beautiful and would love to meet them...I wish all 3 of you well in your life journeys. To those making negative comments ...if you were living a life based on love and tolerance you would not be making such comments and would understand. You have time to grow and open your mind and heart.
Honestly I wish more people just didn't care, it's not like someone not identifying as the "norm" it's not like it's gonna kill you, and it doesn't actually effect your religion just because you don't like it. Someone being themselves in in a way as simple as this is not going to ruin you life. Keep doing you.
that was beautiful and....heart swelling....this made me cry in such a way that...i feel amazing but also sad because these things are taboo to talk about and that its not ok to be who you wanna be and act how you please....love who you wanna love....thank you for this beautiful video...
"I'm looking for respect and intent" well said and full of compassion for themself and others. People who overcome society shunning them learned to love themselves without the help of the masses, and in doing so gained a compassion they can share with every and anyone. We misfits have the most golden hearts.
I definitely support that one can be whoever and whatever they are. But, I often hear trans people say something like "as a kid I couldn't imagine growing up as a woman and like wear dresses and have long hair and stuff so I knew I was a man" and theres just something wrong with that statement in my opinion... I identity as a girl/women and can't imagine wearing dresses and having long hair neither... If one thinks that thats the only look a women can have then I understand why one would think that the gender is too shallow for them to feel comfortable identitfying with. But if you think the gender society put on you from birth isn't enough or that its too shallow for you, why not just redefine it? With that being said, again, you can be whatever and whoever you are:)
im glad im not seeing many negative responses to this video!!! It makes me happy people are accepting, and if not, tolerant to this and that at the least is comforting :^D
I don;t think I've ever loved a video on RUclips as much as this. Thank you. They have brought light to something I experience to a wider audience than who I come into contact on a normal basis.
while it would be ideal to go without labels, society isn't ready for that yet. We're still hung up on liberal vs conservative lol. I feel for these individuals. Feeling threatened for experimenting and discovering is absurd. Just because I have manly qualities doesn't mean that my femininity is broken. This movement kind of encourages people to see others as human beings, rather than a label. And for some people, humanness is scary. Talk about being scared of your own reflection!!
Lets not split hairs here.. We all know that they mean "traditionally" because traditionally clothes are usually associated with specific genders and some are not.
I love all these people! Rain Dove is one of my fave people of all time, the person with the long hair is pretty fabulous/awesome and the older person is so cool :)
What Rain (pink jacket) said about pronouns... I absolutely 100% wholeheartedly agree with what they said. That's exactly how I feel about my pronouns and they put it into words perfectly Keep being awesome all you beautiful people
'I don't believe I'm a woman, never really made it as one. But I like looking like one, that's fun for me.' I kinda feel the same about looking like a boy. I like being cute boy.
I love it when stuff like this pop's into my recommendations! Also a lot of people did this so I'm jumping the bandwagon too; Hi there I'm Aj/ Eri, I'm Pansexual and Genderfluid and videos like this help me realize that there's better people in this world. Spread love kiddos!
Mister pink jacket is exceptionally handsome. And I liked the fact that he stated that if one adresses him in a respectful manner, the pronoun one uses doesn't really matter, because calling a single person "they" or "them" is not really something that I am confortable with, because I just feel that I'm speaking to two people when I see only one person.
saying there genders and comprehending what there saying is like solving a mildly hard crossword puzzle you got when u were done with all your work and the sub just gave u that.
The person in the pinkish coat I really like. I love how they are ok with any pronoun as long as it is used respectfully! I think it also makes it easier for them, since they don't have to be offended every time somebody misgenders them accidentally.
i absolutely love that people aren't conforming to preconceived notions and labels and everyone should just do what they feel of they aren't hurting anyone. having said that. when what you identify as is like 10 pages long it's hard not to roll your eyes at the pretension. i get that it's born from society's need to pigeonhole everyone into a box. just wish we lived in a more free spirit time where everyone can be themselves and express freely. x
Idc what people call and label themself but it's when they get mad at me for not knowing it like I can tell a boy from a girl is when I have a problem.
6:28 There actually is a term for that: skoliosexual - being primarily sexually, romantically and/or emotionally attracted to some genderqueer, transgender, transsexual, and/or non-binary people.
María José is stunning; I was enthralled watching her speak. What a beautiful way of talking, her expressions, her mannerisms, her face are just gorgeous.
I agree completely.
Rain Dove is actually the coolest name ever.
Annika Park I know it's like Prince picked it!
okay okay not to be hateful but sounds like a warrior cat oc 👌🏼👌🏼
Name matches her unique personality
the person with the long hair is so beautiful I'm in love
the man*
+Natalie S. you've commented so many times on this video and you're so hateful, I hope one day you find peace within yourself and can be more open minded.
+eva shaw I commented two times, he's a man, there's only 2 genders
+SegwayIsTrash sorry I didn't know there were chromosomes for transgender and nonbinaries
Sorry, I thought you meant /gender/, not sex.
That's more of a linguistics error, seeing as how the actual definition of gender does not refer to chromosomes.
"chu chu"
I CAN'T!!!!
There's a part of me wanting Kate to be my grandma
Mari Larrosa sameee
Kate is everyone’s grand person.
grandpa*
@@2-d933 lololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololololo
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"..so I'd wear a conductor cap for the next two years. whenever someone would call me 'tranny danny', I'd be like 'choo choo.. all aboard' " LMAO :D
Rain Dove looks absolutely as stunning in a dress as she does in male clothes and I really don't understand why she'd be seen as aggressive for wearing one. I was literally like "damn" when I saw her in the dress.
She wouldn't be seen as aggressive for wearing a dress per se.
It has to do with the different expectations on how men and women should behave. When people believe that she is a man her attitude comes across as normal but if people believe that she is a woman the same attitude comes across as aggressive and domineering.
She has a stunning body, but because of her masculine looking face, people think she's a boy, or a trans-woman, which they don't want to relate to.
Because of that stigma, she comes forward as aggressive, but also because she doesn't really embrace the femininity, she still walks like "a man" when she wears a dress, and if she doesn't go all the way thru with makeup and stuff, she's actually just sending a message that screams and that is aggressive.
Dafuq has BDSM to do with gender?
Don't eat my toxic candy ikr
bdsm is not part of the lgbt+ community. there are obviously lgbt+ people who are into that but just because you like kinky stuff doesn't make you queer. imo
I think they were talking about the style
idk when BDSM slip under the LGBT term. it's a kink thing, it's unfortunate to mix it in with LGBT.
It was a joke lmao
I honestly and truly can't see why somebody would be angry about this. These people are wonderful, amazing and have an inspiring story. The aren't hurting anyone by being who they are. On the opposite side, people who can't accept these persons are the ones who are the problem, they are the ones that we should be angry about.
I get gender fluidity because I like relate but like damn if your gender is a whole sentence. GIRL
lmao
I believe they went with the "full title" as a point about how society is determined to put you into a box, by any means necessary. And the extended title shows how stupid that is. That being said, realizing that there was a word for how I am, which is also gender fluid, made me feel like I am not alone because there's enough people in the world like me, in one way or another, to grant a title.
I get gender fluidity, but those outfits genuinely made me cringe. If you wanna be a manwoman, please wear a dress.... or at least something that matches.
saying that someone has to wear something to 'pass' a certain way is directly going against the idea of gender fluidity because you're saying they have to look like a man or a woman. that's not the point
People can wear whatever they want and describe themselves however they want. Their 'gender' is a whole sentence because they're describing difference aspects of themselves. Just like someone saying "I'm a blonde, athletic, musically inclined, nerdy, gay, trans boy." That's just who they are, you can chill.
gender is such a personal thing. in my opinion, it's up to an individual to decide what labels make them feel good and fit them the best, or no labels at all. i think it's ridiculous that we're expected by western society to shove ourselves into these two ridged boxes, male and female. we only have one short life, why spend it trying to fit into a label that's practically unobtainable?
Well said!
gender is man and woman, not male and female. male and female are biological facts, which society has attached either masculinity or femininity to. male+ masculinity= man
female+ femininity=woman.
The only logical, factual part is the biological sexes, which aren't the same as gender.
Ra Fie That's a good explanation, I might use it some time.
Ra Fie absolutely, i completely agree. using male and female as the equivalent of man and women in my first comment was just me trying to show how most of western society perceives it to be, as gender and sex going hand in hand. which isn't true. thanks for making me clarify though.
perfect, this is the difference
"I'm not transsexual because I love the body I have. My state of being is just unique."
Im very much part of this. I just don't get why all the labels are necessary. In my head, I'm a man who simply enjoys dabbling into the feminine realm.
Exactly!! All these people are trying soo hard... I can see their eyes screaming "I'M A SPECIAL SNOWFLAKE" I don't want to be rude but...
(Sorry if my english is bad)
somehow...somewhere..i love you. Your comment is beautiful.
Romulano100 oh my gosh yes! :)
I'd love it and I'm sure so many others would, too.. if it were this simple. I'm a woman.. I look like one, feel like one, and sometimes talk like one.. but sometimes, I'm kind of manly, too. :)
Unfortunately stupid people like to push their rules on others so we need terms to make it easier for said stupid people.
Exactly! The first person is literally struggling to list all the things they label themselves as, they just seem to want to be 'different'. My friend is a girl and was born a girl but wears shirts/guys jeans etc. and people are always like 'oh so youre queer, transgender, non-conforming, genderfluid etc. etc.' and shes like '..i just like the clothes'
I'm not sure what pronouns they prefer but i really wanna kiss the person with the long hair
same holy crap they're aesthetically pleasing
she/her
+CARMEN Estrellas I'm recognizing her beauty ❤️
How is saying someone looks good objectifying them?
+CARMEN Estrellas what😂
Rain Dove...I think I fell in love...
when you have to think that hard to say who you are....just say "I am me"
Or in Swahili, mimi nina me: meaning I'm me.
seeing people as people really isnt that hard. you just choose not to.
It's called pansexual and I'd kiss all of you.
Thank you for saying this; I was thinking just the same!
Same
I was wondering what pansexual was.
Yes!
.....pansexual.....is a sexuality......not gender.....
I'm sure when I was 20 I'd have found this confusing because I had never met people outside the broadly accepted 2 gender.s...but now at 60 life didn't go the way I thought to it would, I've had a fascinating life I'm just an ordinary woman single till I was 34....met a man totally opposite to what I thought I'd spend my life with and he died last year after w6 years together. The ONLY things that matter are being happy in your own skin, and to be loving and accepting with others....( as Jesus said "Treat others the way you want to be treated) and hopefully find someone to share your life with...all the rest is entirely up to you. I find these three people intriguing and beautiful and would love to meet them...I wish all 3 of you well in your life journeys. To those making negative comments ...if you were living a life based on love and tolerance you would not be making such comments and would understand. You have time to grow and open your mind and heart.
Omg Maria Jose you are so so so so beautiful. Not only physically but that confidence you project. You left me speechless.
BDSM aint a gender, darling. its a kink.
Honestly I wish more people just didn't care, it's not like someone not identifying as the "norm" it's not like it's gonna kill you, and it doesn't actually effect your religion just because you don't like it. Someone being themselves in in a way as simple as this is not going to ruin you life. Keep doing you.
I am crying like a baby and just replaying this video again and again, I cant stop my tears, this is SO BEAUTIFUL!
I was smiling with misted eyes all the time watching this. "There is more people that feel this way!!"
Thanks for the clarity and the honesty.
that was beautiful and....heart swelling....this made me cry in such a way that...i feel amazing but also sad because these things are taboo to talk about and that its not ok to be who you wanna be and act how you please....love who you wanna love....thank you for this beautiful video...
Ok but I think I fell in love with Rain Dove srsly
"I'm looking for respect and intent" well said and full of compassion for themself and others. People who overcome society shunning them learned to love themselves without the help of the masses, and in doing so gained a compassion they can share with every and anyone. We misfits have the most golden hearts.
I definitely support that one can be whoever and whatever they are. But, I often hear trans people say something like "as a kid I couldn't imagine growing up as a woman and like wear dresses and have long hair and stuff so I knew I was a man" and theres just something wrong with that statement in my opinion... I identity as a girl/women and can't imagine wearing dresses and having long hair neither... If one thinks that thats the only look a women can have then I understand why one would think that the gender is too shallow for them to feel comfortable identitfying with. But if you think the gender society put on you from birth isn't enough or that its too shallow for you, why not just redefine it? With that being said, again, you can be whatever and whoever you are:)
im glad im not seeing many negative responses to this video!!! It makes me happy people are accepting, and if not, tolerant to this and that at the least is comforting :^D
I dont understand people how could they be so cruel.
"I thought that meant that I was into trains." Wowzersssss! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭
Maria seem kinda cool,these people in general seem just like average normal people living their lives,why does everyone make a big deal?
I don;t think I've ever loved a video on RUclips as much as this. Thank you. They have brought light to something I experience to a wider audience than who I come into contact on a normal basis.
while it would be ideal to go without labels, society isn't ready for that yet. We're still hung up on liberal vs conservative lol. I feel for these individuals. Feeling threatened for experimenting and discovering is absurd. Just because I have manly qualities doesn't mean that my femininity is broken. This movement kind of encourages people to see others as human beings, rather than a label. And for some people, humanness is scary. Talk about being scared of your own reflection!!
hello, I'm Amanda I'm a girl but I dress both really. I'm bisexual and I'm doing great :)
what do you mean you dress both????? CLOTHES DON'T HAVE GENDERS RIGHT??? :D
Lets not split hairs here.. We all know that they mean "traditionally" because traditionally clothes are usually associated with specific genders and some are not.
Shiloh 陆冬恋 I think everyone should just wear whatever they want, and not what they ''traditionally'' should wear
6:40-6:47 Love that, best way I've heard it explained
I'm a pan demiboy and I. love all of these people they're such inspirations
the bab with the gender is over shirt is the best I love them
You're all so fabulous! Everyone of you deserves to live the life you want, you are all, truly an inspiration xxx
I love all these people! Rain Dove is one of my fave people of all time, the person with the long hair is pretty fabulous/awesome and the older person is so cool :)
I saw Rain Dove in the thummbnail and screamed. Also great video!
What Rain (pink jacket) said about pronouns... I absolutely 100% wholeheartedly agree with what they said. That's exactly how I feel about my pronouns and they put it into words perfectly
Keep being awesome all you beautiful people
Maria Jose please put out a hair routine I am LIVING FOR IT
Anybody choking back tears hearing their stories?
The person with the long hair somehow reminds me of Violet Chachki
This is beautiful. It's so inspiring to see people unapologetically being themselves.
rain doves childhood story always gets me! soo cute
The first time my little brother dressed himself, he put on a tutu
aish almotery why are you so angry, it's just a cute story
"Because tutus are usually for girls, look at him breaking the stereotype"
on the other hand, its just cloth. cute.
Maria is attractive really
What a group of beautiful people
María José is just breathtaking 😍 (I'm from the island and I would give anything to be somebody that feels this comfortable in their own skin)
"This is not freedom, but a question of how to work the trap one is inevitably in."
Rain Dove slays in that dress! She's looks absolutely beautiful! 💃🏽
'I don't believe I'm a woman, never really made it as one. But I like looking like one, that's fun for me.'
I kinda feel the same about looking like a boy. I like being cute boy.
I love this video thank you so much
Whatever you want to be in life be the truest you. what an inspiring soul ❤
Power to these beautiful creatures, so wonderful to see people who know who they are and who tell their stories. xx
The person with long hair her outfit is so good I love it where can I get it
Beautiful. I truly love this.
Be what makes you happy so long as you're doing no harm
I love it when stuff like this pop's into my recommendations! Also a lot of people did this so I'm jumping the bandwagon too; Hi there I'm Aj/ Eri, I'm Pansexual and Genderfluid and videos like this help me realize that there's better people in this world. Spread love kiddos!
Mister pink jacket is exceptionally handsome. And I liked the fact that he stated that if one adresses him in a respectful manner, the pronoun one uses doesn't really matter, because calling a single person "they" or "them" is not really something that I am confortable with, because I just feel that I'm speaking to two people when I see only one person.
Maria Jose is littt. The energy is giving me life
I actually relate to the person with the pink jacket thing, it feels good to know that there's people like me in the world. ☺
Wow!! I'm confused after watching!
No, they are confused
I hate how we, as a society, are so obsessed with labels. Can’t people just be them and that’s it???
I'm so incredibly in love with this
The person in the red purple-y jacket looks awesome in the white dress.
maría has some of the most beautiful hair i’ve ever seen omg
This is great! These are beautiful people inside and out.
Kate Bornstein is fucking excellent. Thank god for voices like Kates!
Strange . . . . how 'ya think you're okay with something . . . and then you SEE it.
I HAVE THE SAME TARDIS NECKLACE. YYYAAAASSSSSS DW.
me TOO
Yes!!!
I love all of these people and their styles and their mindsets so fucking much
saying there genders and comprehending what there saying is like solving a mildly hard crossword puzzle you got when u were done with all your work and the sub just gave u that.
Rain dove is absolutely stunning I love her so much
What absolutely beautiful people
Trany Dany "Choo Choo" THAT IS ADORABLE! I know it was supposed to be an insult but Dany wore a conductor's cap.
They are all so beautiful. Really beautiful
Yes. Just so much yes.
if i had 1 dollar for every gender.....i would have 2 dollars
Maria José is so stunning. I am so in love with them (her?). Everything about her looks so good! Damn!
I ❤️ Rain Dove. I'm in love with her personality, mindset, the whole her.
The person in the pinkish coat I really like. I love how they are ok with any pronoun as long as it is used respectfully! I think it also makes it easier for them, since they don't have to be offended every time somebody misgenders them accidentally.
love these videos
I'm Megan, I'm 19, and I'm a pansexual genderfluid. I'm in love with a beautiful trans girl named Jordyn Olivia... Come at me haters!
+Natalie S. As if autism is an insult lol
+Natalie S. autism isn't a bad thing
Umm, we don't care? Like at all? You can be all you want, just don't hurt anyone while being that.
Reading your replies it sounds like you just discovered the word ''autism'' and what it means, and you're trying to use the word in every situation.
K
Maria Jose had me cracking up
I love how the producers played with the lights so all of them can appear more feminine/masculine according to their preferred pronouns
they are all stunning inside and out. Wouldn't it be nice if we just all identified as a person that loves people.
i absolutely love that people aren't conforming to preconceived notions and labels and everyone should just do what they feel of they aren't hurting anyone. having said that. when what you identify as is like 10 pages long it's hard not to roll your eyes at the pretension. i get that it's born from society's need to pigeonhole everyone into a box. just wish we lived in a more free spirit time where everyone can be themselves and express freely. x
Idc what people call and label themself but it's when they get mad at me for not knowing it like I can tell a boy from a girl is when I have a problem.
love Rain Dove she is my inspiration!!!
6:28
There actually is a term for that:
skoliosexual - being primarily sexually, romantically and/or emotionally attracted to some genderqueer, transgender, transsexual, and/or non-binary people.
wow she looks incredible in that white dress :o
Love love love
Were called pansexuals. We like people of all or no genders too 😁
Maria Jose, slay babyy!! I'm so inspired by your fire. Keep doing what you're doing. Much love. Abrazos!!
Rain Dove is legit like my favourite stranger though 😭👏🏽👏🏽❣
I'm so confused
They're all so beautiful oh my God it's amazing and I'm so glad that there is so much love in the comments they deserve all the love in the world
We're all just human. I don't like labels.
a phrase for loving a trans person: "I love someone who knows and has realized themselves."