Changed the gender but the soul and the spirit of the person is still the same. So when you connect with someone on a soul level. Gender doesn't matter.
That sounds nice and all, but I am sitting here trying to imagine my husband (with whom I have an amazing connection with on a mostly non physical level for nearly 20 years) turning into a wife and it's just not computing. I guess everyone is different, but my husband's spirit and soul is tightly wrapped up in his physical looks and gender traits I have known for years and if he just turned around and said he was always identifying as a gay woman I would feel betrayed.
I'm a middle aged woman, open minded but things are changing so fast I feel a little out of touch. Sometimes I don't fully understand or know enough about stuff but I do know love , it's beautiful and precious and you look like you got it. So enjoy, treasure and keep on loving.
I absolutely love your perspective. As a trans man in my early 20s I wish more people would think like you. Love is what matters the most. If the world ran on love instead of hatred it'd be a very different place indeed.
@@yardieforlife5189oh whatever, that isn't even true. Trans folks are just finally comfortable enough to be open about it. It isn't social media attempting to push the narrative that EVERYONE IS DOING IT.. trans folks just happened to also get Tiktok. And it's fine. We all deserve to feel comfortable in our bodies.
When I first started following your relationship, I found it very scary. It was very scary to me, because I was afraid of being witness to rejection and the pain of losing a spouse. I was very fearful for Amanda, because I thought Shaye would want to leave her for a man. I have my own baggage that made that so sad and frustrating and frightening for me. But as I’ve continued to follow you, I see that Shaye loves Amanda, just as she is and Amanda loves Shaye just as she is! You are such a beautiful couple and I am so glad you have peace and freedom and love and acceptance in your lives. I wish you beautiful ladies a lifetime of unending joy! Thank you for sharing your journey!
@@EveCole23yes. I fully support her choice to stay and assume she is happy until it’s shown otherwise. But I’d also support someone leaving, as this is a drastic change they did not sign up for. No judgement either way honestly. People should take an honest and hard evaluation before committing. Accepting doesn’t mean a romantic relationship is still on the table. But I am happy that things worked out and wish them peace and blessings ❤💜💚🩷💙🤍🧡🩶
@@kayla7562 exactly. And I bet you love him very much. You just love him as the man you know him to be. I'm not attracted to women, let alone a masculine man thinking he's a woman.
You'd think that. Although my husband, who has gender dysphoria (whom I was led to believe only liked drag every so often), started dressing and changing more ways than I could count one year after we got married. His entire demeanor changed and it wasn't changed for the better for himself, me, or anyone else in his life. This new person who I was married to started partying, drinking, and doing big drugs while having a wife and 2 special needs Irish twin sons at home. I ultimately had to admit him to the psych ward after realizing he had suicidal idealations then months later ended up needing to kick him out for mine and our son's safety.
I feel this same way. I've resolved to give myself the best life I can until I cross paths with my future wife. Until then, I'm enjoying my life & not waiting on anyone to enjoy my life... NOW.
Quit looking. Not kidding. My daughter was stressed about not finding anyone. I told her quit looking. She quit looking and now my grandkids have a fantastic step dad! So don't stress yourself out about and enjoy life. When you least expect it, it will happen if it's meant to be. I wish you luck in your journey. 😊
First thing is to love yourself more than anything in the world and you won't give time to someone who doesn't deserve it. Second thing is to not look. Third is denied expect every single person you go on a date with to be the one. Dating so you can figure out what works for you and what doesn't. There are more but I think those are the most important❤
I’ll try to keep this short. I promise it has a positive side to it. My husband spent most of his time growing up at his best friends house. We call them his Mormon family. My husband gives them the credit for turning out the way he did. And they deserve it. It’s nothing against his biological parents, it’s just that they didn’t have the best parenting skills. Anyway, a few years ago Mormon dad transitioned. He had kept it a secret for most of his life, a few years after the death of their son (my husbands best friend) he/she came out with her feelings and plans. Their children do no talk to them, won’t acknowledge us, and that’s sad. But we refuse to walk away, we love her just the same as before. We didn’t know what to expect but she is so happy! They have stayed married like you have. They did a podcast and I just cried. It was just a beautiful love story. They have a marriage that most can only dream of. With all they have gone through, it has made them stronger. We love them, we won’t walk away, and can only hope this world sees all the amazing people in it for who they are. ❤❤❤
Life's literally too short, and true love is beyond hard to find. Soo if you find it hang on too it. If anyone judges you just smile and keep on walking with your head held high.
Little reminder: Your identity and sexuality is valid. Coming out of the closet/ transitioning late is valid. Staying with your spouse is valid. Feeling uncomfortable with intimacy after their transition (bc they don't match your sexuality anymore) is valid, too. Neither of those things makes you a bad person.
I couldn't have. I married a man so I wouldn't be attracted to my husband if he turned into a woman. I could still love the person but I don't think I could be in an intimate relationship with them.
A lot of couples stop having sex, at least having good sex, if it was ever good to begin with. I am not going to ask about their sex life but the cis wife has a video about how she's more attracted to her wife now than before.
A beautiful couple. My partner now wife is transitioning. Some of these comments doing not pass the vibe check. We care to see our partners happy more than anything. Gender is gender.. Means nothing to me.
@@keelyk3908 except the people who've thoroughly studied this for decades specifically say that for many the only actual "cure" is matching the body to the brain (as shown by brain scans) i.e. transitioning. This is not for all trans people, many trans people have no interest in transitioning. But in order to transition you're REQUIRED to go through intensive and invasive therapy and medical examinations. You can't just make the decision one day and do it. Trusted medical experts walk you through other treatment options and if that doesn't work, only then is transitioning an option. But I'm sure you, with all your medical expertise and experience in the scientific community, know much, much more than they do, right? I'm sure your heart and intentions are completely pure and you're definitely not coming from a place of fear or aversion to new things you don't understand.
@@juliaweigel9519 I get what you mean. I mean it means nothing to me in the sense of you be you as long as you’re happy. Tell me what to call you and that’s what matters to me.
I actually TRIED to do this for my gormer spouse but they went through a lit of emotional confusion during their transition and ran off. I would have had no problems staying with the but ghey had to go through their own journey. Oh well. Happy for you all though. I am since re-married.
Everyone being bigoted in these comments need to stfu. They are happy and in love and not hurting anyone. MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS AND LEAVE THESE GIRLS ALONE
STOP ASSUMING THEIR LIVES! You don’t know their relationship or the conversations they’ve had. So stop assuming deception where there isn’t any. Ya’ll just hate to see people happy
When you post things online it becomes a public forum where anyone can reply to it. Some people don't have an issue with this type of thing and the other people don't have mental health problems. In either case anyone can comment their opinion on a public post. It's America, remember?
This in my eyes, is true love!! No matter what adversity you both faced, you never gave up on each other and you upheld your vows. God Bless you both and you are definitely a testimony of devotion ❤
Awwwww. You two are so cuteee!!! Congrats on your happiness and her transition. Wishing both of you all the love & happiness in the world! 💛⚧️🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️✨
Im so glad you guys are still together. I think this is really sweet. If my husband ever transitioned it would be really really really hard for me to stay. I just would lose all attraction to them and I would probably leave so that we both could have a better life, sad as it is. Thats also a reality of a situation like this.
What is wrong with all of you in the comments saying this is sad? Even if you are not bisexual, you sure are able to see this bisexual womans perspective and understand how beautiful of a a connection and a love story this is? Sure, i am bi too, but this is a beautiful testimony of love, connection and companionship and I can only wish to have a partner like any of these two. And all of you with your negativity would appreciate a partner like this, too, when a situation comes up in your life, where you have to be brave and follow your own path, which might lead to a breakup. It is scary. To figure out that you partner is on the same page with you to this extent, it is such a relief and restores the belief in a better world, at least for me.
Yet men be like “dude she’s gained like 10 pounds since we met 10 years ago“ 🙄 meanwhile women will accept you chopping off your most prized possession.
I'd just like to add, not all trans people get bottom surgery, and for many trans people it's not something prized as much as a source of dysphoria. For me, I'm a simple trans man and I'm quite happy enough with my results from hrt 😅 I do get the tone and sentiment you're going for and mostly agree, cis men in my experience are less accepting of changes in a partner
I would never accept my partner cutting off his pen*s. And I think a lot women out there might feel the same. The physical intimacy is so important as well in a relationship. I just couldn't.
when you truly love someone for who they are inside, it doesnt matter, they could gain weightm change their appearance fully (in this case transitionning) they are still the same inside. that love doesnt go away. I would understand if the partner suddenly reveals they pretended to like x and y or hid stuff but in this case the person is the same, they just matched the outside to how they've been inside.
This is one of my favorite shorts. The "ask me why you deserve HELL" poster is the best irony ever. Some people don't actually understand commitment to another. Keep showin us all how its done.
This kinda happened to me and my hisband after six years of marriage, I knew he was bi when we got married but I was still so nervous the night I told him that I didn't think I was a woman. He said "You don't have to explain anything to me." And that's why I think we're going to be hisbands forever.
I would have so many questions. Did he marry her bc he loved her or felt like he had to conform. Did he ask her about how she would feel. So selfish bc she had to transition her life for his transition.
@@allisonpettin3483 Ok fine, its like going into an eye appointment, getting new glasses, following up your appointment with a shopping spree to buy matching clothes, then maybe meeting up with the girls for lunch. Its not some life derailing surgery/treatment like yall are suggesting; honestly kinda troubles me this is how you react when someone wants to make changes in "THEIR LIFE" not yours.
Respect for sharing your story in a respectful manner. Believe you are a true transgender person. Beautiful. Perfect example of someone who did not use puberty blockers and has transitioned beautifully. ❤
I honestly don't think she is gay she just loves her partner more than anything. If it was a different person, she would not be with them, only the person she married.
One of the most beautiful and transcendental aspects of an unconditionally loving relationship is witnessing your partner unfurl and become the truest version of themselves, whilst undergoing that same process yourself 💞
bro im so slow.. tell me why i thought the wife left her husband bc she realized she was gay.. it wasn’t until i watched it the second time and noticed the captions when it clicked 💀.. anyway im happy for yall ! that true love right there ! just beautiful to see :)) 💗💗..
I don’t think anyone is complaining, they put it out for all and I’m are sure “they” knew comments would be made whether your congratulating or have opposing comments.
Ngl this makes me happy. I'm so happy to see people like you and I'm so happy that there are as many trans-supporters (probably even more) as transphobes
Yeah I’d have to cry and start leaving if my husband did this. I married A MAN. I only want A MAN. A whole man. I could never pretend any other way. I’d grieve for a very very long time, but I can’t lie.
@@spook6394 well it’s a public forum so a comment/opinion is expected if not asked for… otherwise, close the comment section? People don’t have to choose between silence or agreement; if that bothers you, maybe resign from the internet or social interaction altogether. I am not happy or sad for them. Their marriage matters not to me. However; my comment stands. If my HUSBAND transitioned, I would not be forced into a marriage I don’t sign up for with someone who dresses like a woman. Not my obligation and not my attraction.
@@lauren4109 it just seems like you’re being unnecessarily negative on someone’s happy post, like how would you like to see this? Have some empathy. Their marriage clearly matters enough that you comment, check your bias. This post doesn’t at all imply that you would be forced to continue a marriage with your hypothetical transitioned husband, you’re literally getting upset at your own thoughts. And like sure this is a free speech place, you have the right to be a bitch, but I have the right to call you out on being a bitch. Maybe the internet’s not for you if you want be called a bitch on it.
@@lauren4109 It just seems like you’re being unnecessarily negative on their happy post, like how would you feel? Have some empathy. And you clearly do care about their marriage if you’re commenting on the video, check your bias. No where in the video did it even imply that you would be forced to stay married to or be attracted to your hypothetical transitioned husband, like you’re literally getting upset at your own thoughts. And sure, this is a free speech place, you have the right to be a b**ch on the internet, but I have right to call you out for being a b**ch on the internet. Maybe the internet isn’t for you, if you don’t wanna be called a b**ch on it.
@@spook6394 except I’m not upset. Literally I am emotionally unbothered. I simply offered a response. It doesn’t matter if anyone likes it. And the world doesn’t have to.
I feel sorry for the wife. I hope she is happy but my concern is that this is putting pressure on married women everywhere to put up with anything and we will be demonized if we leave our partner for a huge change like this. Im very happy if she is happy but feel sad for all the women who cant handle it when their partner transitions so they leave and then get called monsters
Most couples do sign up for it though, in their vows, for the best times, and the worst times, till death do part. They could have split but they stay because they love each other.
Well if there is trust and solid friendship in that relationship why not ! As long as there’s no sexchange surgery 😅 I won’t mind but if your man wanted to be you too in every sense well nah ! 😅
You know, I think this is absolutely beautiful, and I’m so happy that they’re in love, and seemingly remain that way. And I don’t know if I’ve just never experienced love that strong or not. And as much as I would support anyone in that community, especially as I have friends and family apart of it. I…am just not into women at all, I would find this an impossible challenge. We’d have to just be friends.
I'm sorry but you two look like you could be sisters. (That's supposed to be a joke....My daughters say my jokes aren't funny --- sorry about that.) But on another note, I love how you love each other and didn't give up on each other. Everyone deserves to be with their person. Everyone wishes they have what you have.
That’s so beautiful! She fell in love with your soul! 🥰 Honestly, if my husband transitioned, I’m so in love with who he is as a person, I could see myself staying too. It hits different when you click on a soul level!
@@derianimp that person might be from one of the abrahamic pyramid schemes in their tribe, behavior and expression categories defined as gender in secular ethnography is statically tied to ... genitals. they use a very primitive and non-medical dichotomized reduction of sexual anatomy along with superficial sexual dimorphism to construct a binary social framework bijected to physical traits. pretty arbitrary and obviously not found worldwide OP is likely writing to chairman moses and requesting extra faith-for-afterlife points after being exposed to material not found in their sales manual, it is considered heresy or a "mad world" to not follow their rituals and instead follow empirical observations grounded in material reality
Ex Mormon here, and this is one of those happy stories where people truly do find a forever soulmate. You don’t need secret rituals in an exclusive building to have forever. All you need is love, and you have that ❤
Not even that she’s a little bit gay! She truly loves you no matter what! I would hope that in ANY MARRIAGE the spouse would love them and accept them.
I know several girls who became lesbians because their immense hatred towards men, but you two are great proof that love can be demonstrated in its purest essence, deep respect for both and blessings❤❤❤❤
Nobody’s a lesbian because of their “deep hatred of men” 💀 if someone’s a lesbian it’s because they’re not attracted to men. I promise- I probably hate cis men more than anyone ever could but that, unfortunately, could never stop my attraction towards them
This is really cool. I couldn't read what you were sharing because it was being blocked by other writing onscreen. I am glad you found happiness, self love, and were able to keep your relationship! I have never heard anyone doing that before.🙏♥️ Love is love.
Omg you guys should remarried again!! Did that already happened?
In the plans 🥰
@@GreatScottsI wish you happiness !!
Great Scotts look at the diversity I love it you guys are AMAZING 🤩❤ TRUE LOVE GOES THROUGH IT ALL AND COMES OUT MORE STRONG 💪🏻
@@KennethRachel-xi7dv I agree with you !!
You are living a modern day fairytale 🥰 thank you for sharing 😘
Changed the gender but the soul and the spirit of the person is still the same. So when you connect with someone on a soul level. Gender doesn't matter.
Well said. I wish I had connected with someone.
No it's not,that's why God destroyed Sodom and the other city.We are living in the last days.You should know better.
Then why pretend to change it???
That sounds nice and all, but I am sitting here trying to imagine my husband (with whom I have an amazing connection with on a mostly non physical level for nearly 20 years) turning into a wife and it's just not computing. I guess everyone is different, but my husband's spirit and soul is tightly wrapped up in his physical looks and gender traits I have known for years and if he just turned around and said he was always identifying as a gay woman I would feel betrayed.
You can't change your gender 🤦
I once heard Sophie Turner say " I'm in love with a soul, not with a gender". This got stuck in my mind, such a good remark!
That's actually considered pan sexual.
@@erincoco612 ok, thanks!
It makes sense, doesn’t it? We are our souls housed in a body.
You were always attracted to her feminine side. ❤️❤️❤️❤️so happy for you both. Much love and happiness.
That's bs
Neither of you look old enough to have been in a relationship for 17 years!!! 😳 What a beautiful couple 🥰
That's what I was thinking too.
They were Mormon, they usually get married super young.
He did when he was a dude
They are! Definitely look 30s - look closely. Some buttocks in there too
I read it as they married 17 years ago, so probably longer.
I'm a middle aged woman, open minded but things are changing so fast I feel a little out of touch. Sometimes I don't fully understand or know enough about stuff but I do know love , it's beautiful and precious and you look like you got it. So enjoy, treasure and keep on loving.
I love ❤that perspective you’re amazing for thinking that way. And many others should do the same 🙏🙏
You'll be fine, social media wants to push this like everyone is doing it!
You’re a sweetheart x
I absolutely love your perspective. As a trans man in my early 20s I wish more people would think like you. Love is what matters the most. If the world ran on love instead of hatred it'd be a very different place indeed.
@@yardieforlife5189oh whatever, that isn't even true. Trans folks are just finally comfortable enough to be open about it. It isn't social media attempting to push the narrative that EVERYONE IS DOING IT.. trans folks just happened to also get Tiktok. And it's fine.
We all deserve to feel comfortable in our bodies.
When I first started following your relationship, I found it very scary. It was very scary to me, because I was afraid of being witness to rejection and the pain of losing a spouse. I was very fearful for Amanda, because I thought Shaye would want to leave her for a man. I have my own baggage that made that so sad and frustrating and frightening for me. But as I’ve continued to follow you, I see that Shaye loves Amanda, just as she is and Amanda loves Shaye just as she is! You are such a beautiful couple and I am so glad you have peace and freedom and love and acceptance in your lives. I wish you beautiful ladies a lifetime of unending joy! Thank you for sharing your journey!
Thank you for having an open heart 🥰♥️
When you marry your best friend and true soul mate with unconditional love nor judgement. It’s a beautiful thing to love freely.
I love my husband, and he is 100% my best friend and soulmate- but I am not attracted to women. That doesn't make my love and feelings any less.
Just because someone doesn't want to be with someone who transitions in the middle of their relationship doesnt mean they're judging.
@@EveCole23yes. I fully support her choice to stay and assume she is happy until it’s shown otherwise. But I’d also support someone leaving, as this is a drastic change they did not sign up for. No judgement either way honestly. People should take an honest and hard evaluation before committing. Accepting doesn’t mean a romantic relationship is still on the table. But I am happy that things worked out and wish them peace and blessings ❤💜💚🩷💙🤍🧡🩶
@@EveCole23I’d be so bummed if my man of 8 years decided to change up like that. Defintley a case by case thing 😩
@@kayla7562 exactly. And I bet you love him very much. You just love him as the man you know him to be. I'm not attracted to women, let alone a masculine man thinking he's a woman.
I told my wife a little more than a year ago that I was trans, her reaction was to smile and say, "well it's a good thing I'm not straight,"
Ndi ala.
So sweet !
@@nkechidouglas5541Ezigbo ndi ala
Lmaooo@@nkechidouglas5541
@@nkechidouglas5541😂😂😂
If you ask me, marrying a man but getting a wife is the ultimate win.
You'd think that. Although my husband, who has gender dysphoria (whom I was led to believe only liked drag every so often), started dressing and changing more ways than I could count one year after we got married. His entire demeanor changed and it wasn't changed for the better for himself, me, or anyone else in his life. This new person who I was married to started partying, drinking, and doing big drugs while having a wife and 2 special needs Irish twin sons at home. I ultimately had to admit him to the psych ward after realizing he had suicidal idealations then months later ended up needing to kick him out for mine and our son's safety.
I wish them a fulfilling journey to a healthy mind 🙏🏽 and I wish you peace 🙏🏽 @@ashleysanchez7543
Guess people have different situations a d stuff@@ashleysanchez7543
What do you bet they still leave their dirty clothes on the floor next to the hamper
Every woman needs a wife, haha!
How do people meet people who just love them no matter what and I can’t find anyone 😅
I feel this same way. I've resolved to give myself the best life I can until I cross paths with my future wife.
Until then, I'm enjoying my life & not waiting on anyone to enjoy my life...
NOW.
Hang in there Bunny, there is someone for everyone!
RIGHTT
Quit looking. Not kidding. My daughter was stressed about not finding anyone. I told her quit looking. She quit looking and now my grandkids have a fantastic step dad! So don't stress yourself out about and enjoy life. When you least expect it, it will happen if it's meant to be. I wish you luck in your journey. 😊
First thing is to love yourself more than anything in the world and you won't give time to someone who doesn't deserve it. Second thing is to not look. Third is denied expect every single person you go on a date with to be the one. Dating so you can figure out what works for you and what doesn't. There are more but I think those are the most important❤
I’ll try to keep this short. I promise it has a positive side to it.
My husband spent most of his time growing up at his best friends house. We call them his Mormon family. My husband gives them the credit for turning out the way he did. And they deserve it. It’s nothing against his biological parents, it’s just that they didn’t have the best parenting skills.
Anyway, a few years ago Mormon dad transitioned. He had kept it a secret for most of his life, a few years after the death of their son (my husbands best friend) he/she came out with her feelings and plans.
Their children do no talk to them, won’t acknowledge us, and that’s sad.
But we refuse to walk away, we love her just the same as before. We didn’t know what to expect but she is so happy! They have stayed married like you have. They did a podcast and I just cried. It was just a beautiful love story.
They have a marriage that most can only dream of. With all they have gone through, it has made them stronger. We love them, we won’t walk away, and can only hope this world sees all the amazing people in it for who they are. ❤❤❤
True unconditional love 🙌🏼🫶🏼
there are so many ways to be in this world. The important things is to be good people, be kind and if you find good love, take care of it.
Life's literally too short, and true love is beyond hard to find. Soo if you find it hang on too it. If anyone judges you just smile and keep on walking with your head held high.
Beautiful ❤❤❤❤
She did not do all that to be with a female. She gets it in with dudes somehow.
Little reminder:
Your identity and sexuality is valid.
Coming out of the closet/ transitioning late is valid.
Staying with your spouse is valid.
Feeling uncomfortable with intimacy after their transition (bc they don't match your sexuality anymore) is valid, too.
Neither of those things makes you a bad person.
I couldn't have. I married a man so I wouldn't be attracted to my husband if he turned into a woman. I could still love the person but I don't think I could be in an intimate relationship with them.
A lot of couples stop having sex, at least having good sex, if it was ever good to begin with.
I am not going to ask about their sex life but the cis wife has a video about how she's more attracted to her wife now than before.
😂 Science deeply disagrees with you. @@Alight86
@@Alight86your right. Thats because she always was a woman
@@Alight86it would be she now, dear. Have a little respect why don't you
@@Alight86Yeah, women are fake. Invented by the government. That’s what I always say.
people see a happy couple and be like “ITS THE END OF THE WORLD!!” literally 😂
But it is the end of the world 😵💫
@@mobany2027 please explain to me your thought process there (if there is one)
@@mobany2027 ...as we know it, but I feel fine! 🎶
Because their world is whole! 😍🥹💜💙🌹
Says every cult leader since 1100 AD@@mobany2027
This is the true meaning behind wedding vows to stick together and love each other no matter what.
So happy for you.
A beautiful couple. My partner now wife is transitioning. Some of these comments doing not pass the vibe check. We care to see our partners happy more than anything. Gender is gender.. Means nothing to me.
@@kzzroxx7721it's not important to the one who truly loves someone, but it is important to someone that lives in this body.
@@keelyk3908 except the people who've thoroughly studied this for decades specifically say that for many the only actual "cure" is matching the body to the brain (as shown by brain scans) i.e. transitioning. This is not for all trans people, many trans people have no interest in transitioning. But in order to transition you're REQUIRED to go through intensive and invasive therapy and medical examinations. You can't just make the decision one day and do it. Trusted medical experts walk you through other treatment options and if that doesn't work, only then is transitioning an option. But I'm sure you, with all your medical expertise and experience in the scientific community, know much, much more than they do, right? I'm sure your heart and intentions are completely pure and you're definitely not coming from a place of fear or aversion to new things you don't understand.
@@mamabear558You are truly ignorant. There is a raaaange of intersex people which are actually not XX nor XY.
💜
@@juliaweigel9519 I get what you mean. I mean it means nothing to me in the sense of you be you as long as you’re happy. Tell me what to call you and that’s what matters to me.
Y’all look like twins now 😂
My thoughts exactly. I couldn't tell which were which😮
@blackdiamond696 I could just from the heights 😊
@@Bird1964
I was looking when they were lying down
@@blackdiamond696 difficult to know exactly 😊
Wow, subconsciously married a lookalike. I don't think it's just coincidence. There's probably some fascinating psychology behind it.
We truly live in a messed up world!
Itssssss not even funny, he worst thing some people think this is ok !!!!!!!!!
"Whata if we kissed under the homophobic protest signs" 👉👈
Ilysm
It's not homosexual if one is male and the other is female
@@mattdobbs-dr2rt Well they're both female so it's gay/lesbian
@@mattdobbs-dr2rt☝️🤓
I actually TRIED to do this for my gormer spouse but they went through a lit of emotional confusion during their transition and ran off. I would have had no problems staying with the but ghey had to go through their own journey. Oh well. Happy for you all though. I am since re-married.
I'm sorry that happened to you. I hope your former spouse has healed, you have healed, and everyone is happy and well
I do think it's admirable tho that you loved the person so much and tried to keep your wedding vows.
Everyone being bigoted in these comments need to stfu. They are happy and in love and not hurting anyone. MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS AND LEAVE THESE GIRLS ALONE
STOP ASSUMING THEIR LIVES! You don’t know their relationship or the conversations they’ve had. So stop assuming deception where there isn’t any. Ya’ll just hate to see people happy
ok but why they have to post it online.they publicize their own strange relationship
@@emilyjones4736 People posts their relationships online all the time. It’s just suddenly a problem because one of them is a trans woman
When you post things online it becomes a public forum where anyone can reply to it. Some people don't have an issue with this type of thing and the other people don't have mental health problems. In either case anyone can comment their opinion on a public post. It's America, remember?
@@emilyjones4736people do that all the time. You are having an issue with this one because *you* see it as "strange" for some reason.
This in my eyes, is true love!! No matter what adversity you both faced, you never gave up on each other and you upheld your vows. God Bless you both and you are definitely a testimony of devotion ❤
Not the "ask me why you deserve hell" sign in the background 💀
It’s facts tho
Yeah… Almost called off my whole transition over it 🫢
@@GreatScottsNever let this type of people stop you from being yourself. 💖
@@sweettexast2894not at all
😂@@GreatScotts
Awwwww. You two are so cuteee!!! Congrats on your happiness and her transition. Wishing both of you all the love & happiness in the world! 💛⚧️🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️✨
Im so glad you guys are still together. I think this is really sweet. If my husband ever transitioned it would be really really really hard for me to stay. I just would lose all attraction to them and I would probably leave so that we both could have a better life, sad as it is. Thats also a reality of a situation like this.
Every time I see a video of you two, it brightens up my day. I'm so happy for you.
Talk about unconditional love.
You aint lying. What a handsome husband she had,I'd be devastated 😢
@@kimberleeberry2039I don't think you understand what they mean
Yes it's so sweet!!
@@kimberleeberry2039 Good thing this isn't about you
@@Kays_corpes Thank heavens
What is wrong with all of you in the comments saying this is sad? Even if you are not bisexual, you sure are able to see this bisexual womans perspective and understand how beautiful of a a connection and a love story this is? Sure, i am bi too, but this is a beautiful testimony of love, connection and companionship and I can only wish to have a partner like any of these two. And all of you with your negativity would appreciate a partner like this, too, when a situation comes up in your life, where you have to be brave and follow your own path, which might lead to a breakup. It is scary. To figure out that you partner is on the same page with you to this extent, it is such a relief and restores the belief in a better world, at least for me.
The fact that y'all stayed together means YOU'RE BOTH STRAIGHT 😂👏👏👏👏 I love these idiots
This happened to my cousin and her wife who transitioned after more than 10 years of marriage and they are still together, renewed their vows, etc…
Yet men be like “dude she’s gained like 10 pounds since we met 10 years ago“ 🙄 meanwhile women will accept you chopping off your most prized possession.
I'd just like to add, not all trans people get bottom surgery, and for many trans people it's not something prized as much as a source of dysphoria.
For me, I'm a simple trans man and I'm quite happy enough with my results from hrt 😅
I do get the tone and sentiment you're going for and mostly agree, cis men in my experience are less accepting of changes in a partner
So much cap here. Women cheat more than men and initiate 80% of divorces.
I would never accept my partner cutting off his pen*s. And I think a lot women out there might feel the same. The physical intimacy is so important as well in a relationship. I just couldn't.
@@catjaCB8252😂😂😂🤢🤢💀 just go away after. 😅
@@catjaCB8252the physical intimacy is important to YOU. For other people, it may not matter at all. And that’s ok.
I’m sorry people are just weird these days. I don’t get any of this and why we are insisting it’s normal and okay.
Fr…
💯💯💯💯
when you truly love someone for who they are inside, it doesnt matter, they could gain weightm change their appearance fully (in this case transitionning) they are still the same inside. that love doesnt go away. I would understand if the partner suddenly reveals they pretended to like x and y or hid stuff but in this case the person is the same, they just matched the outside to how they've been inside.
We're insisting it's normal and ok because IT IS normal and ok. Must be hard to find real love when you don't understand what it truly is
@2004dale Can't agree with you more
Real love doesn’t care what the other person looks like. It’s their heart and soul that’s important. ❤
If only the religions of the world understood that!
Thanks, that let me feel better
This is one of my favorite shorts. The "ask me why you deserve HELL" poster is the best irony ever. Some people don't actually understand commitment to another. Keep showin us all how its done.
This kinda happened to me and my hisband after six years of marriage, I knew he was bi when we got married but I was still so nervous the night I told him that I didn't think I was a woman. He said "You don't have to explain anything to me." And that's why I think we're going to be hisbands forever.
Why say she's gay? She loved him, and realized she was ready to accept him no matter what. She's very brave and this needs to be acknowledged.
How is she a little bit gay though? He probably still has a penis and she doesn’t care what he dresses like bc she loves him anyway haha
Because she is attracted to her wife
I would have so many questions. Did he marry her bc he loved her or felt like he had to conform. Did he ask her about how she would feel. So selfish bc she had to transition her life for his transition.
She really didn't though; its about as much of a life changing event as going in for an eye appointment and getting a new pair of glasses.
It’s way more than going to a damn eye doctor for F sake!!!
@@allisonpettin3483 Ok fine, its like going into an eye appointment, getting new glasses, following up your appointment with a shopping spree to buy matching clothes, then maybe meeting up with the girls for lunch.
Its not some life derailing surgery/treatment like yall are suggesting; honestly kinda troubles me this is how you react when someone wants to make changes in "THEIR LIFE" not yours.
@@Ayyylien51absolutely absurd. Completely untrue. There is really no argument here.
@@katia7538 Absurd how?
Cool for them, i personally prefer my husband looking like a man because thats what im attracted to, that doesnt make my love for him "fake"
I’m genuinely happy that they found each other. I wish nothing but the best for them as a couple, as well as individuals ❤❤❤
Dayum...u made a very pretty woman! You and your wife are STUNNING😍!
Respect for sharing your story in a respectful manner. Believe you are a true transgender person. Beautiful.
Perfect example of someone who did not use puberty blockers and has transitioned beautifully. ❤
there’s so much wrong with this post, damn.
Omg love your story. Very close to mine and my husband who is now transitioning into a female. We just started our journey 8 months ago. Thanks
I'm happy for you two, I wish mine could have stayed together. But I understand why it couldn't. I will miss her 17 years of marriage...
This is so sweet. Makes me feel so much nicer as a person who transitioned during a relationship that’s still going strong. ❤
What if she wasnt a little big gay? You would separate?
😂
😂😂
Well yeah
The attraction is not going to be there so definitely going to have to separate.
I honestly don't think she is gay she just loves her partner more than anything. If it was a different person, she would not be with them, only the person she married.
My transition only made the relationship between my wife and I all the more fierce! Love this for you!
One of the most beautiful and transcendental aspects of an unconditionally loving relationship is witnessing your partner unfurl and become the truest version of themselves, whilst undergoing that same process yourself 💞
True love sees you and loves the inside of you, so the outside doesn't matter 🫶🏻✨️💕
Two happy people. I wouldnt be that happy if my wife wants to transition, though
*”babe I’m trans.” “Oh cool I’m bi.”*
What’s “a little bit gay”?
Idiotic
Bisexual, pans sexual, heteroflexible... take your pick!
Bisexuality
Hey that's the St. George Temple. I live in Stg. I'm a little gay too. You guys are both beautiful and look so happy. I'm happy for you.
I love my partner for his soul, not his gender. I am glad to see I am not the only one. ❤
Люди сошли с ума! Грустно и больно на это смотреть
I don’t know… is she a little bit gay, or does she just love you because you are still you in her heart?
In another short she says “it turns out my wife is a little bit gay.”
bro im so slow.. tell me why i thought the wife left her husband bc she realized she was gay.. it wasn’t until i watched it the second time and noticed the captions when it clicked 💀.. anyway im happy for yall ! that true love right there ! just beautiful to see :)) 💗💗..
If the partner is okay with it i dont know what yall are complaining about-
I don’t think anyone is complaining, they put it out for all and I’m are sure “they” knew comments would be made whether your congratulating or have opposing comments.
Yes, it's their business w-h-a-t they decide to do.
True love is forever, no matter the gender 💜 thanks for sharing!
isn't this the very definition of unconditional love and acceptance?
Ngl this makes me happy. I'm so happy to see people like you and I'm so happy that there are as many trans-supporters (probably even more) as transphobes
Yeah I’d have to cry and start leaving if my husband did this. I married A MAN. I only want A MAN. A whole man. I could never pretend any other way. I’d grieve for a very very long time, but I can’t lie.
Well… no one asked. So. Just be happy for them?
@@spook6394 well it’s a public forum so a comment/opinion is expected if not asked for… otherwise, close the comment section? People don’t have to choose between silence or agreement; if that bothers you, maybe resign from the internet or social interaction altogether. I am not happy or sad for them. Their marriage matters not to me. However; my comment stands. If my HUSBAND transitioned, I would not be forced into a marriage I don’t sign up for with someone who dresses like a woman. Not my obligation and not my attraction.
@@lauren4109 it just seems like you’re being unnecessarily negative on someone’s happy post, like how would you like to see this? Have some empathy. Their marriage clearly matters enough that you comment, check your bias. This post doesn’t at all imply that you would be forced to continue a marriage with your hypothetical transitioned husband, you’re literally getting upset at your own thoughts.
And like sure this is a free speech place, you have the right to be a bitch, but I have the right to call you out on being a bitch. Maybe the internet’s not for you if you want be called a bitch on it.
@@lauren4109 It just seems like you’re being unnecessarily negative on their happy post, like how would you feel? Have some empathy. And you clearly do care about their marriage if you’re commenting on the video, check your bias. No where in the video did it even imply that you would be forced to stay married to or be attracted to your hypothetical transitioned husband, like you’re literally getting upset at your own thoughts.
And sure, this is a free speech place, you have the right to be a b**ch on the internet, but I have right to call you out for being a b**ch on the internet. Maybe the internet isn’t for you, if you don’t wanna be called a b**ch on it.
@@spook6394 except I’m not upset. Literally I am emotionally unbothered. I simply offered a response. It doesn’t matter if anyone likes it. And the world doesn’t have to.
I feel sorry for the wife. I hope she is happy but my concern is that this is putting pressure on married women everywhere to put up with anything and we will be demonized if we leave our partner for a huge change like this. Im very happy if she is happy but feel sad for all the women who cant handle it when their partner transitions so they leave and then get called monsters
Dude impersonating his wife
She is a witch
You guys are a beautiful couple. You BOTH are beautiful women. Happy to see two gorgeous people being in love. Keep true to yourselves ❤❤
The definition of loving someone for their personality/spirit/energy and not physical appearance like most are
F’d up world we live in. 😔
because of people life you -.-
Two consenting adults being in love and happy no matter what is fcked up how exactly? Are you lonely ?
Exactly
ikr, these transphobes have got to stop like how does this affect your personal life?
Im sorry people being happy and living their best lives upsets you
I feel bad for the wife. She didn't sign up for that and is being super selfless. God bless her
Most couples do sign up for it though, in their vows, for the best times, and the worst times, till death do part. They could have split but they stay because they love each other.
Your story throwing off the yoke of oppression is so valuable to share. Thank you. 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈🏁🌈🐝
Genuine love doesn’t see gender but the person itself, regardless of…
BS
@@chit-chat007 Every opinion is valid. That’s why i appreciate yours.
@@susivarga7303 Every opinion is valid. That’s why i’ll appreciate yours too, even if your “expression” is…
Well if there is trust and solid friendship in that relationship why not ! As long as there’s no sexchange surgery 😅 I won’t mind but if your man wanted to be you too in every sense well nah ! 😅
@@emmavu09 Their trust and love is truly on an unconditional and unlimited level…
You know, I think this is absolutely beautiful, and I’m so happy that they’re in love, and seemingly remain that way. And I don’t know if I’ve just never experienced love that strong or not. And as much as I would support anyone in that community, especially as I have friends and family apart of it. I…am just not into women at all, I would find this an impossible challenge. We’d have to just be friends.
I couldn’t do it… I just couldn’t see my husband this way. However I am so glad for you both that you both could! So beautiful ❤
That doesnt even make any sense
Yes it does u just must’ve never known true love
That adoring look she gives you in the last clip ❤❤❤
The trans one's face is snatched! ❤
No one:
Me: just reporting transphobic comments right and left
still yuck
what happened to his willy
I'm sorry but you two look like you could be sisters. (That's supposed to be a joke....My daughters say my jokes aren't funny --- sorry about that.) But on another note, I love how you love each other and didn't give up on each other. Everyone deserves to be with their person. Everyone wishes they have what you have.
That’s so beautiful! She fell in love with your soul! 🥰 Honestly, if my husband transitioned, I’m so in love with who he is as a person, I could see myself staying too. It hits different when you click on a soul level!
Everyone deserves to be happy..and to choose what they want..love is love..❤❤❤❤
The beauty that gets unleashed when you choose to live in your truth. I was like how did you get prettier ???🤯🤍
Mad, mad world🤦♂️
how
@@derianimp that person might be from one of the abrahamic pyramid schemes
in their tribe, behavior and expression categories defined as gender in secular ethnography is statically tied to ... genitals. they use a very primitive and non-medical dichotomized reduction of sexual anatomy along with superficial sexual dimorphism to construct a binary social framework bijected to physical traits. pretty arbitrary and obviously not found worldwide
OP is likely writing to chairman moses and requesting extra faith-for-afterlife points after being exposed to material not found in their sales manual, it is considered heresy or a "mad world" to not follow their rituals and instead follow empirical observations grounded in material reality
Ex Mormon here, and this is one of those happy stories where people truly do find a forever soulmate. You don’t need secret rituals in an exclusive building to have forever. All you need is love, and you have that ❤
I wouldve dipped
😂😂
Your journey is absolutely inspiring. ❤❤
Not even that she’s a little bit gay! She truly loves you no matter what! I would hope that in ANY MARRIAGE the spouse would love them and accept them.
Roses are red, violets are blue, the number of genders is only two.
And I stole them both! And no, you can’t have them back
Why do you care?
Roses are red, violets are blue, the LGBTQIA+ community says F*CK YOU!
Maybe she was bi from the start, good for him though
where's the him? All I see are two gorgeous women.
Her
@@caseyjc5 And you will never not be a hypocritical self righteous bigot, will you?
Her
It's not gay when she simply loves you for you!! Plus you transitioned beautifully!!
Adding to each other's happiness❤ love it😊
It is well. I pray you both find Jesus Christ. Only in Him is found true satisfaction. 😊❤
Everyone wants to be loved. And you two lovely ladies have been together 17 years? That's beautiful ❤️
hope you get old together,bless lovely family ❤
Not likely to happen if the trans partner is taking continuous hormone supplements. It will shorten his/her life.
This would be my greatest heartbreak 💔
She loves YOU, not the shell you come packaged in. This is beautiful!
New fear unlocked 🙂🙃🫠
This is beautiful 💜🏳️🌈
I know several girls who became lesbians because their immense hatred towards men, but you two are great proof that love can be demonstrated in its purest essence, deep respect for both and blessings❤❤❤❤
Nobody’s a lesbian because of their “deep hatred of men” 💀 if someone’s a lesbian it’s because they’re not attracted to men. I promise- I probably hate cis men more than anyone ever could but that, unfortunately, could never stop my attraction towards them
I guarantee they will be split in a year.
As much as you want that to happen, we are very much in love. 😊
@@GreatScottsew
Stockholm syndrome, she was already 17 years in,
So you grew up morman. Explains the sexual confusion and extreme change in your life.
This is really cool. I couldn't read what you were sharing because it was being blocked by other writing onscreen.
I am glad you found happiness, self love, and were able to keep your relationship! I have never heard anyone doing that before.🙏♥️ Love is love.
Damn’ that’s a glow up! She’s gorgeous