"Should I Seek Revenge?" - Nouman Ali Khan
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- Опубликовано: 5 фев 2025
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I just want to be healed by Allah to the point of forgetting what others have done to me 😢😭
Aamiiiin..
Oppression is something instance i cant advice you concerning it, but illah make it easy for us 😢 Subanallah
Same as me may Allah help us
Ameen🤲🏿
One can forgive but forgetting takes all lifetime 😢 especially injuries given by your own blood relations .
I am going through a lot of trials right now, please keep me in your duas brothers and sisters and for Allah to accept my duas
Same may Allah help us please also pray for me
@@Stxr_vex Ameen and I will do
In Shaa Allah
@@awesomekindness5711 thnks
@@awesomekindness5711 btw what're are you going from
@@Stxr_vex May Allah gives us all ease
it is not easy to forgive. So hard to control yourself from taking revenge
This lecture has saved me in so many ways both in this duniya and akhirah 😭 thank you ustaad
Seriously subhanallah
Your dignity and honor can't be taken by the words of others. If Allah favoured you with Honor , no one can take this blessing from you.
Iman is Wisdom, indeed ✨️🫶
This is the best lecture I heard in my life. May Allah forgive us all. Because we don't want to forgive others on their mistakes but rather want to see them suffer😩
I will remember this hadid . Allah for give me and others . Allah mercy me ameen .
SUBHANA ALLAH
Ya Allah forgive us and give us more wisdom to learn about Islam Ameeen
Thank you so much. What an important message you’ve shared about our Faith, MashaAllah.
“You cannot allow that pain to turn you into a pharaoh.”
May Allah subhanu wa tayala bless you and your family with endless happiness and success in duniyah and akhirah.
Ameen.
Ameen
This gentleman has the most beautiful lessons and messages. His knowledge of Islam is amazing, and his understanding of the needs of the Moslem struggling with his faith is astounding. His delivery is so loving, understanding, and comprehensible. Allah, keep this gentleman safe to continue his messages...Ameen
Before commiting a crime to anyone, he has commited crime to Allah, absolutely Allah is the one to decide..so true...this will in shaa Allah change me n heal me..n all...jazak Allahu khairan ustad ...may Allmighty bless you n your team alwayz..Ameen.
I’m sorry if I’m making no sense, however, I don’t think I can appreciate this lecture. As some of the wrong words have mentioned like “revenge”. A victim who has been wronged for that person maybe Allah is the last resort to seek justice. As this world is not perfect. If you don’t always see justice here. And the right that’s been given to every human being to seek justice from his/her Lord. Sometimes that’s the only thing a victim have. this video pressurize a lot on victims reaction and villainifying of victims reactions. It’s true. Sometimes some pain causes us monstrous behavior, but when a person does not see any justice from this world. This is why it’s super important that we at least can hope that our creator is just and he will do the justice. It’s not revenge it’s simply the matter of hoping for justice.
I feel you... I just lost another friendship and I said Allah this time I'm not seeking any revenge or not even having a slightest thought of revenge so I leave this matter upto you cuz you clearly know whay did they do wrong
Salam aleykum, i trink you totally misunderstood What he Said. Maybe You should Watch it again
I feel you and it's okay to want justice and to have hope in Allah but here the lecture was about not saying things from yourself about Allah like he mentioned you should not say Allah is not going to forgive you as a Muslim we cant say what's Allah is gonna do ...we can pray n trust him but it's totally on Allah to forgive that person or take revenge.
Asalam U r my teacher may Allah bless all of u❤❤love from Afghanistan 🇦🇫
The absolute answer to my question …. Searched all my life for this. Thank you NAK ❤
Some people are just pure evil that they don’t deserve forgiveness.
And they may not get it. But it’s not up to you or I who gets forgiveness. Wish u well
Subhanallah! May Allah give this scholar a long life, aafiyah and use him for the hidayath of billions of people! Aameen!
I want to be healed so that I can forgive people who have wronged me..I tried to forgive them but can't because I am still in excruciating pain..
so hard to forgive
This video is incredibly helping me to getting through my sadness,anxciety, full of anger.. Allah yerda ankum
Great messages in each and every videos posted.. جزاک اللہ خیرا
100% right SubhanAllah. May Allah forgive all those who wronged me.
Man this video changed my life, flipping this guy is logical and so wise....Man He have my respect. He doesnt play politics like todays islamic people in religion
There is a delicate line here. Of course there should be justice. I don't see it as revenge, its just justice and letting go and getting rid of the trash. I also think that the messaging is a slippery slope, because when someone wrongs someone else, that is A LOT DIFFERENT than wronging oneself. Especially in matters of the heart. Lots of narcissistic people who you hope are brought to justice but don't let it consume you or your thoughts. Let go, get these toxic people out of your life and let God deal with them.
Wallahi i so needed that. I was a victim of thinking like that. May allah forgive me. And i have forgiven everyone.
Alhamdulillah He Rabbil Aalameen ✨
Very very very well explained.
Alhamdulillah.. Im so glad I got to see the lecture. Alhamdulillah
Allah is more just than I can ever be and that's it. Thankyou so kuch ustadh you've always been a blessing to me. I was burning my head with thoughts of revenge from someone who has done and incredible damage to my mental health but now i need to ask Allah for healing i know he's the most merciful and gracious.
May Allah give you jaza for bringing muslims back on right path
Abu Bakr asked the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ): Teach me a dua that I may say in my prayer. He said: `Say: O Allah, I have wronged myself greatly & no one forgives sins but you, grant me forgiveness from you & have mercy on me for you are the Oft Forgiving Most Merciful.’
(Ahmad)
Can you share it in Arabic?
Hey Ma Sha Allah
Ya Shiekh! Stay blessed... 💖
JazakAllah elkhair for great reminder.
Ya Allah plz forgive me. This lecture has opened my eye. Ya Allah forgive me & give me/us strength to bear losses n hardship. Please help us in remaining patient. Ya Allah gather us all in Jannah. Aameen
Masha Allah so true. Illness first in ourselves and in Ummat i Muslima collectively.
JazakAllah u Khairan Kaseerah🤲
Allah 😢
جزاکم اللّہ خیرا🌻
jazakAllah o kheran kaseera ustaadh May Allah Subhanahu wa T'aala increase you in aafiat ilm e nafey and Emaan...May Allah Subhanahu wa T'aala increase you in Rizq in every sense
Allahumma Aameen
Much needed video.. Someone hurted me. Badly and when opened ds, this video came... ❤
Thanks for this inspiring content that's push us towards forgiveness and assist to make ourselves more compassionate even with enemies... Thanks once again i appreciate it 👍🏻👏🏻
Needed this!!!❤❤❤ May Allah keep you steadfast Ustaz!
I love the way brother Nouman breaks everything down mashaAllah. Beautiful and with wisdom.
زادك الله علما وحكمة
SubhanAllah! Mind blown
MashAllah brother thank you for this reminder. You are one of a many few on the internet today who has taught me and so many I know, thankyou.
Aoa Nauman, I love you my brother. Your talks always give me not only deep understanding of Quran, Hadidth but also help me improve morally. ❤
May Allah bless you🤲🏻
Subhan-Allah beautifully explained. ❤️☝🏽🤲🏽
Beautiful wholesome advice SubhanAllah. Sometimes we do get so carried away in our pain/agony that we lose balance. May Allah swt protect us, may He swt forgive us and may He swt heal our hearts/souls ameen sum ameen
Shukar Alhamdulillah...
this video appeared at the right time... JazakAllah khair💐
Let go and just Let Allah 💚
O Allah i am weak so make me strong, O Allah grant us Paradise with those we love
Very amazing seriously... I was in desperate need of this lesson... Thank you
Mashallah May ALLAH Bless You Ustadh 🌺
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Amazing Ustadh.
It's getting harder for me to forgive my close relatives for all the hurt they have caused me by their behaviour. Let Allah give me strength to forgive them so that Allah forgives me
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W❤'Allahi, we are grateful to Allah for Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W.) for his sacrifice for us 😥
SubhanAllah Beshak Allah is the one WHO do justice
Allah pak plz🙏🏻 forgive me if I have done wrong to anyone 😢😢😢
This guys is amazing really...i love him
You are just too much. Masha Allah!!
Thank-you brother for explaining so well ❤❤❤MashAllah
Nice mind shift👍. Allah help us all.
Jazakallahu Khair n kaseera va alaikum Salaam wa Rahmatullah wa barakaatuho 👌🌹☑️❤
Allah is the beginning and the end of all matters
attaining the 7th HABiT .. is CONQUERing the ENEMY by thoroughly UNDERSTANDing & EMPATHiSing with hom / her ..
enemy - centric people become ZOMBiES
neiki kar dariya mein daal ..
🦁 THiNK like this ..
Dear sir your teach is exellent and its in morally Total being a Hindu I truly believe in all religion and I truly believe that all religions are really right. Please do your great work continue. Thank you sir.
I believe an important aspect has been neglected here by the sheikh. An oppressed person awaits justice and Allah will not forgive the opressor unless the oppressed himself forgives the oppressor. And on the day of jugment,the oppressor will have to give away his good deeds to the ones he oppressed depending of the degree of oppression. And the oppressed will accept those deeds readily as they will be valuable and thus the oppressor will be cleared and the oppressed happy.
If the oppressor did not have enough good deeds to pay for his oppression,the oppressed bad deeds will be removed from him and assigned to the oppressor.
Its not forget but is that when you forgive them for the sake of Allah is much better for you than take his good deeds ,Allah will reward you much better than you taking revenge to them , anyway they will answer to Allah for everything they have done if you forgive them or not they will be answering for everything , so the best is to forgive them and clean your heart to go to Allah with kalbin selim , a clean heart
@@twaha1000
I want to write here a single sentence by ALLAH.
ALLAH is able to forgive all of your sins except shirk.
Isn't so ????
So where is the concept of forgiveness by people . As he almighty knows what's hidden inside our hearts, our prayers and tears in loneliness.
Here, in In pakistan there is a tradition of begging forgiveness from relatives before going to Hajj or umraah. There are several possibilities of unavailability of a person you ask for forgiveness or a person says. No .. I'm not able to forgive you go to Hajj and waste your prayers .
Forgiveness is actually KAFFAARAH. Because repetitive mistakes in Deen or dunya is not always forgiveable. ALLAH never said that I can't forgive that, that and those ....
Common sense clues towards Allah's powers and RAHMAT . EACH AND EVERYTHING IS DESCRIBED IN OUR HOLLY BOOK ABOUT WHAT ALLAH DO AND WAHT HE DON'T.
Regardless any firqa MASLAK , there are several questions are hidden there in QURAAN.
The concept of forgiveness of people in not found in the qur'an. Its hadith,but the Qur'an does give us a hint that we will not be wronged on the day of Judgement. So Allah will not forgive if the oppressed has not been given justice.
@@twaha1000that’s just a fake lame excuse just to comfort someone. Oppression can only be resolved by your own fight against the oppression. If you read hadiths prophet saw had to fight against Meccans not just sit back and wait for oppression to be forgiven till day of Judgement . We studied these Ghazwas from childhood. You have to fight oppression otherwise no one will do anything
Amazing explanation.. just needed it
MashaAllah. Great Message
It's totally natural and normal for the person who has been severely hurt, to have thought and feelings like that especially in the first stage.
It's important then to go ahead and go learn about haqq al nass, justice, forgiveness etc.
Lastly, I just want to remind us that repentance includes saying sorry and rectifying the wrong done to the person whenever possible.
Who does not that, has no asked real forgiveness to Allah, has no repented and Allah says in Qur'an he forgives the ones who repent.
So do no think that Allah can forgive who does not deserve it.
Allah is just and Allah is the wali of mumininin, so also yes make sure you are a muminin, focus on that, bettering yourself, each day.
It was an amazing video, JazakAllah khair ❤️❤️❤️
Allah teached me: I don't have to forgive or not forgive the ones who harmed me. Allah will deal with that person. It is me who must focus on Allah and focus on my healing. And protect myself against people who harm me by not allowing them in my life. Many times we allow again and again the people who harm us in our lifes.
Ya Allah please heal us all 💔
Good lecture. Btw, seeking justice, protesting, pointing out injustices, shying/distancing etc. is not necessarily seeking "revenge"
Just what I need, I didn’t know forgiving someone is this hard I always thought it’s like a switch that you can just turn on easily, but now that I’ve been hurt by someone very close and dear to me , I keep telling myself not to dislike this person and whenever I try to console myself and put it pass me , it makes me feel more angry. Another issue is that the person didn’t know that they’ve hurt me by their actions and I can’t bring myself to tell them, cos I will definitely blow things up , cos I’m still angry and the last thing I want is to hurt this person with my word or approach.
Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alahi wassalam was always forgiving. When he was hurt by his enemies Allah SWT sent Jibrael Alaihis salaam to punish the people but they were forgiven by prophet Muhammad sallallahu alahi wassalam. He did not take revenge but made dua for their guidance and their generation
JazakAllahu khairan ❤
I swear I always love the humor of NAK when he is talking about a really important thing. "One week in the barbecue because I haven't forgiven them"😅 Subhanallah! I e heard this statement from people for real! Alhamdulillah Allah is Allah
Jazak Allah khair
Some of us people nether hate anyone nor believe in revenge. It's nature. It too difficult to change our habits and mindset after fourties.
Jazak Allah kher Ustadh Mohtaram
The Cristians say "god helps those who help themselves"
So us as MUSLIMS, can take a bit of that knowledge. You don't revenge but sometimes someone needs to get one type of recompense for there actions.
Iran needs to see this😢
lmaoooooooo
Alhamdulillah…Jazaakumullahu khairan
Tears feels couse of Allah i m afraid Allah by this hadid .
MashaAllah baina .
Subhan ALLAH 🥺🥺
At 5:53 he caught me off guard 🤣🤣🤣
Jazak Allah Sir Noman
Thankyou for this.
It depends on what the person has done, god knows our hearts and intentions
Allah really gave NAK wisdom and knowledge
As far as I know you can take revenge but you can't cross the limit when you are taking revenge. The thing is the memory doesn't die, the people don't ever feel ashamed of what they have done, they never says sorry for their actions then why should we forgive them? Or not to take revenge? We have to forgive them though they are not sorry? Why? Please answer this. #NAK
You have right to take revenge in same limits but if it is uncontrol then leave on Allah because Allah is more just than us
@@AbdullahHassan-n3v yeah obviously. We can take revenge but we can't cross our limit in order to do that.... Forgiving always isn't the solution. At least one should gain the power of taking revenge for himself too so that he/she doesn't feel inferior, then they can forgive if the wants or really take revenge.
Thank you
Thank you so much brother
Jazak Allah
Nice informational video thanku
JazaakomUllaaho khair
Jazakalla khair
Alhumdollilah 😊
May Allah bless you.