Controlling Anger - Khutbah by Nouman Ali Khan

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @ER-df8vx
    @ER-df8vx 5 лет назад +586

    I'm so happy that I found this channel. This man has changed my life for the better God bless!

  • @kawsara5366
    @kawsara5366 5 лет назад +299

    When my dad used to get angry, he used to take it all on me. Verbally and physically. I am 16 now and yet this continues. I feel as if nothing will make him happy. I hope that allah makes life easy for me and make me understand why this is happenings

    • @shahkuleel3433
      @shahkuleel3433 5 лет назад +42

      HI KAWSAR,
      I am so sorry that you're going through this. I pray that Allah heals your situation and protects you from harm physically, mentally or verbally. I was going through really tough time almost every day, month to month, and I felt depressed. Two very dear people told me to read Baqarah every single day and shaytaan will not come near the person/place that baqarah is read upon. If you cannot read it, please listen to it everyday. Inshallah Allah will help you with your concerns.

    • @Caillou17blox
      @Caillou17blox 4 года назад +22

      O Allah i shall offer duas for u child. Please reach out to Allah for sanctity please run to Allah to cease this and help ur father resist Shaytaan.

    • @AmrBilMarof
      @AmrBilMarof 4 года назад +2

      😔

    • @TK-br1tm
      @TK-br1tm 4 года назад +14

      Hi Kawsar I will pray for you and make dua I was in the same situation as you and it was both of my parents because they both have addiction problems but god makes things better you have to keep praying and remembering Allah

    • @shyro1316
      @shyro1316 2 года назад +7

      How are you kawsar, hope everything is better with you, hold on the rope of Allah is with each affliction there is ease.

  • @maryamidris9079
    @maryamidris9079 4 года назад +594

    I am literally tearing up while watching this
    I have a strong relationship with my mum, she is literally like my best friend
    Which I sometimes see as a disadvantage because we tend to fight
    And sometimes I can’t control my anger and I say things that I don’t actually mean and I always feel a huge amount of guilt afterwards
    This helped me
    May God forgive all our sins and make us closer to the people we love

    • @jetforceexe8170
      @jetforceexe8170 4 года назад +14

      Make Allah continue to help you and your parents ameen

    • @arsalanhaider11
      @arsalanhaider11 4 года назад

      sister just try to have control

    • @bluesky7364
      @bluesky7364 4 года назад

      ❤️❤️

    • @mrbabawale7521
      @mrbabawale7521 4 года назад +12

      Same with me right now 💞 inshallah we fall out of this state

    • @carlymct
      @carlymct 4 года назад

      ❤️

  • @ijazzzali
    @ijazzzali 7 лет назад +1068

    Brother Norman really knows how to drive a point home. His explanations are clear and very easy to understand. May Allah (SW) reward him for his efforts. Ameen.
    He just gets better and better.
    I keep learning new things and value more the things that I do every day...
    No words to describe the joy I felt by listening to this beautiful lecture full of wisdom.

    • @Hana-Ekram
      @Hana-Ekram 7 лет назад +11

      He is a great teacher .

    • @qushid
      @qushid 6 лет назад +2

      Ijaz Ali if

    • @saimashaikh9633
      @saimashaikh9633 6 лет назад +5

      May Allah swt bless him

    • @mariamkaba7823
      @mariamkaba7823 6 лет назад +2

      Ameen

    • @saaraguhar1234
      @saaraguhar1234 5 лет назад +2

      It was a khutbah btw bro. May Allah bless you, I see you commenting in nearly every video :)

  • @AM-be5sw
    @AM-be5sw 5 лет назад +201

    I was having problems controlling my anger & jealousy and asked Allah SWT for a sign & this video came up thank you brother may Allah SWT guide us all

    • @azoozb
      @azoozb 2 года назад +7

      سبحان الله me too.
      I have major anger issues to the point where i was even going to seek for professional help.
      I always seek Allah’s help and Alhamduli’Allah i feel peace but i wanted something more to keep me calm or help with it.
      But after watching this video, all i need to do is contain myself and keep being patient and always do Istighfar and Dua’a.
      May Allah bless and forgive us all🙏🏻.

    • @evanbakr3787
      @evanbakr3787 2 года назад +2

      Ameen

    • @anwarsaleem7283
      @anwarsaleem7283 9 месяцев назад +1

      I think best cure for anger is to take it easy and don't take things seriously

    • @TheLovebunny26
      @TheLovebunny26 7 месяцев назад +1

      You can change 🙌🏼 Act stronger than your feelings and thoughts, discipline your thoughts, stay silent, walk away, if you are sitting stand if standing sit, and say أعوذ بالله من الشيطان الرجيم،

  • @shahadah1451
    @shahadah1451 2 года назад +40

    Anger has done terrible damage in my family and to my life. . .But I am hopeful because of Allah that I am becoming a better person. Less angry and more peaceful, alhamdulillah.

    • @nowshinrupali813
      @nowshinrupali813 Год назад +1

      Can i ask you something plz?

    • @makaupurple8242
      @makaupurple8242 10 месяцев назад

      @@nowshinrupali813she wont answer u, because without lies islam dies

    • @MM-rx5py
      @MM-rx5py 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@makaupurple8242funny you watching this and commenting on it too

    • @makaupurple8242
      @makaupurple8242 9 месяцев назад

      @@MM-rx5py without lies, islam dies

  • @syedelectronics588
    @syedelectronics588 6 лет назад +246

    once upon a time I am in shafun nashaa.my fingure just press a video .that yours .than that day I start watching your videos more than 20 above .next few days continue watching ............now I left addiction I pray 5 times. am not forget the prayer ...I learn Quran and 2 book of hadees also . this is 3 year back . story .I make dua for u daily .may Allah give u jannah ...........jazakhallah

    • @mashalashraf9346
      @mashalashraf9346 5 лет назад +3

      zayan audio.service may Allah give you consistency. Ameen

    • @vervoid73
      @vervoid73 5 лет назад

      instead of praying 5 times a day you would be better off getting English lessons.

    • @koshabahar7228
      @koshabahar7228 5 лет назад +4

      Mashallah!! May your prayers increase may Allah shower you with his blessings.

    • @vervoid73
      @vervoid73 5 лет назад

      @@koshabahar7228 No thanks. Allah produced a paedophile prophet. Not my idea of a good example of a god!

    • @vervoid73
      @vervoid73 5 лет назад +1

      Praying 5 times a day for what? Do you have a job? How can you justify praying to a god that had a paedophile for a prophet anyway!?!?

  • @atirwani6949
    @atirwani6949 4 года назад +113

    Who is here at the beginning of ramadhan 2020??
    👇 May Allah bless you all

  • @mingmong8599
    @mingmong8599 7 лет назад +169

    Your words are so influential. Have learned a lot from your Khutbas. May you be rewarded a million times for bringing us to the right path.

    • @me-ts4dc
      @me-ts4dc 5 лет назад +2

      Aamiin

    • @fatimohoyedele5207
      @fatimohoyedele5207 5 лет назад

      Ming Mong amin

    • @vervoid73
      @vervoid73 5 лет назад

      The right path is science. Forget primative, paedophile supporting islam!

    • @medicallife3486
      @medicallife3486 4 года назад

      @@vervoid73 so you are saying science has made you it gives you directions what is right and wrong? Have you ever studied human body? There is extensive and so organized system that we can't even imagine? Do you think that the things that we can't even imagine have made by themselves, and if every thing came into being by a blast then why everything is so beautiful organized and beyond our thought? If we are result of evolution why our brain is small i mean we can't even feel what's going on in our body, our mind should be most developed if we are result of evolution? Off course there is some infinite power there is someone who organized and made everything why don't you even think, look around, first remove hatred from yourself and seek for truth truly

    • @Bankai_26
      @Bankai_26 3 месяца назад

      Yeah inshallah

  • @someone-ou3ht
    @someone-ou3ht 7 лет назад +202

    I didn't listen the khutbah yet just commenting to express my JOY to see back our beloved Ustadh. May Allah guide Him and may Allah guide us through Him. May Allah forgive Him and not make Him a source of misguide for it's listeners muslims and haters or ignorant. May Allah strenthen Him and reward Him because Allah is the Best in termes of Reward. Aameen ya Allah

    • @واعملواصالحا-ض4ض
      @واعملواصالحا-ض4ض 7 лет назад +1

      Amin ya rab

    • @AuliaRisyda
      @AuliaRisyda 7 лет назад +1

      I feel the same

    • @mohiuddinnayan8808
      @mohiuddinnayan8808 5 лет назад +6

      jazakallah khair Nauman vai.. i was feeling anger due to all the situations i am facing and the attitude people are showing towards me... now i learned that it's a test.. May Allah give me strength to bear pain... May Allah give you jannatul firdaus for all your dedication

    • @vervoid73
      @vervoid73 5 лет назад

      The qran is just an outdated book. Certainly not something to base ones life on. We live in 2019. It's called reality.

    • @nayan681
      @nayan681 5 лет назад +7

      @@vervoid73 you don't have any idea about Quran or islam.. you are just hypnotised with the informations manipulating the ignorants. nobody lives in calender years, you cannot say that Einstein is backdated or Aristotle or socrates were backdated because they didn't live in 2019 or so on.. what is classic is always classic, what is truth is always truth.. Islam is truth, and truth doesn't change no matter in which age you live

  • @souledoucara2530
    @souledoucara2530 7 лет назад +139

    May Allah forgive us for our behaviour, and let's forgive each other for our mistakes, we are human ALLAH is best

    • @vervoid73
      @vervoid73 5 лет назад

      trash!

    • @vervoid73
      @vervoid73 5 лет назад

      Not really, you see allah isn't REAL! Time you just faced up to it!

    • @Yazzie95
      @Yazzie95 5 лет назад

      Ameen

    • @vervoid73
      @vervoid73 5 лет назад

      Allah sucks. We don't need that bullshit! Get used to it. It is the opinion of the free world.

    • @higuys5035
      @higuys5035 5 лет назад +1

      @@vervoid73 This world may be free, but the Hereafter isn't

  • @shasan8761
    @shasan8761 6 лет назад +50

    A message from an 8 year old!!
    MashAllah May Allah bless and reward you for your good deeds 💞💞and your explanations are really easy to understand. You really show the point and I m more encouraged to follow our Prophet PBUH’s teachings explained by you.

    • @animallover6627
      @animallover6627 2 года назад +7

      Good job kid your in the right path!! Proud of you

    • @tasnimkhan4545
      @tasnimkhan4545 10 месяцев назад +2

      I pray you remain the same.. and gravitate back again and again to Islam

  • @reciterrahma3276
    @reciterrahma3276 7 лет назад +124

    No god but Allaah and Muhammad pbuh is His messenger
    Glory be to Allaah
    Praise be to Allaah
    Allaah is the Greatest
    No power or might except with Allaah...I love Allaah
    May Allaah continue to lift Islam and Muslims Aameen yaa Rabb

    • @vervoid73
      @vervoid73 5 лет назад

      You are just fooling yourself. There is science and biology. No allah for you!!! Sorry, but truth hurts.

    • @vervoid73
      @vervoid73 5 лет назад

      More primative religious vomit.

    • @vervoid73
      @vervoid73 5 лет назад

      Your mind is closed. We cannot help.

    • @MalikaTica
      @MalikaTica 5 лет назад +4

      @@vervoid73 you are confusing us with Christianity. Islam was always congruent with science. God created science for us to discover it. Muslims were performing eye surgeries while Europe was in the dark ages.

    • @MalikaTica
      @MalikaTica 5 лет назад +4

      @@vervoid73 yes there is, and God revealed embryologic development in the Quran. Mentions the planets running in orbets while Europe thought the Earth was flat. Science, biology? Math too, where do you think your numbers came from?

  • @Funny_gal1
    @Funny_gal1 4 года назад +5

    This man is so educated Mashallah. He is like a psychologist, an Islamic teacher and everything in one!!!. Allah SWT has created him with an abundance of knowldege and his method of teaching according to the Quran is so appropriate for this day and age. He is helping so many people. SUBHANALLAH. MAY HE BE REWARDED AS WELL AS IS FAMILY. AMEEN.

  • @MB-tb6jy
    @MB-tb6jy 4 года назад +20

    You know what I just came to realised (by the Qadr of Allâh) while watching this. Anger can ruin one's ability to properly make good decisions.

  • @hinasajid6441
    @hinasajid6441 10 месяцев назад +2

    I can convert my emotional tides into creativity. In pain and suffering there are hidden treasures very few knows 😊 We have to be conciouse about our subconscious that's what the Quran teaches . The deeper study of the Quran makes a man or a woman an alchemist Alhamdolilah 💫 🪽 blessings

  • @nazinafeer1446
    @nazinafeer1446 Год назад +11

    I came here searching for some kind of healing.. And Alhamdulillah Its very soul soothing.. I hope this brings some light to my heart❤️

  • @FaiyajAkil
    @FaiyajAkil 5 лет назад +5

    I wish Ustad Nouman Ali Khan were my uncle. I'm having anger problem since the age of 13. Now I'm 17 and trying a lot to control my anger. Nouman Ali is a very good guide for the youngsters. Let's try to follow the footsteps of our beloved Prophet Muhammad (sm) like this and surely we r gonna shine.

  • @ummulwara1573
    @ummulwara1573 5 лет назад +13

    I am so glad that i found this vdeo in my suggestion
    Today only i got angry at some situation though m not short tempered at all but sometime i just cannot listen to all the allegations.
    But i was very guilty of my anger i apologise to God n cried too.
    N the next minute i found this vdeo without searching
    Allah is great He guides He helps He forgives
    I can feel his presence everywhere every second of my life.

  • @beseke7981
    @beseke7981 7 лет назад +46

    The amount of hearts this cooled that have been burning for years Allah bless you with the very best in this world in the grave, protection on the day of judgement and Jannahtil firdaus with our beloved Prophet SAW and us Aswell ameen

  • @Fahim_Lalani
    @Fahim_Lalani 2 года назад +4

    Don’t go overboard with your anger-what a brilliant advice-Mashalla

  • @ayeshaslamdien810
    @ayeshaslamdien810 7 месяцев назад +5

    Here in 2024, this is still very much relatable, May Allah swt guide us ameen.

  • @shawkatsumaya5191
    @shawkatsumaya5191 7 лет назад +39

    He describes the way usually people get to the point quickly, it’s so easy to understand!
    Mashallah 🙂

    • @strikerutube
      @strikerutube 5 лет назад +4

      Shawkat Sumayah sister you don’t show your beauty for all other men around the world other than your partner

    • @ashiqerasul8062
      @ashiqerasul8062 4 года назад

      @@strikerutube Mashallah Karim bless us always ameen words of Koran king of king ALLAH KARIM SAYING WE LISTEN AND OBEY 🇸🇦🤴👑🌹🥰❤🧡💚💙🇸🇦💎🦄🤩😇😭👑🇸🇦

  • @shahadah1451
    @shahadah1451 2 года назад +9

    Professor Sam Vashnin has scientifically established that the man who repudiates his wife by denouncing her as his mother is suffering from the mental illness of Narcissism. This is a classic thought process of Narcissists, that has been documented by psychiatric science. It is impressive to me that Allah includes such a detail from real life, from messy human experience, in His Wise and Living Book, and that Allah takes the part of the innocent. Alhamdulillah.

    • @Juneau04
      @Juneau04 7 месяцев назад +1

      I've never seen it that way, this was eye-opening for me. Thank you for your words!

  • @Ayeshasiddiqui23
    @Ayeshasiddiqui23 4 года назад +2

    His khutbas are realistic and one can connect to it at every step of life..may Allah preserve our ustad

  • @KampoengBatja
    @KampoengBatja 2 года назад +9

    Watched this after several years, still relevant and made me cry. Thank you Nouman.

  • @sadiafortune4064
    @sadiafortune4064 2 года назад +1

    Ustadt Nouman Ali Khan DAWAH Crystal CLEAR straight to the HEART TRUE GEM to this ummah may ALLAH SAW ALWAYS PROTECT him INSHA ALLAH AMEEN

  • @iliasHussain944
    @iliasHussain944 9 месяцев назад +1

    This is one of the finest lecture of Ustadh Nouman Ali khan i ve ever heard so far😭wallahi so many gems of wisdoms and i came here to listen after actually pouring out the ghadab...may Allah protect us all ameen,and may Allah give him a long life,ameen❤

  • @hasiqinrasnin2383
    @hasiqinrasnin2383 Год назад +4

    I'm in my tempered, with unlimited feeling of aggression everyday. Please pray for me that finally i can be able to control my emotion maturely and win this everyday battle within me. Thank you 🙏

  • @antcent5153
    @antcent5153 2 года назад +2

    Allahu akbar, I was so angry yesterday when I was fasting of childhood memories, and this came on my news feed today. May Allah guide us all 🖤

  • @rubiv2192
    @rubiv2192 3 года назад +1

    This man has opened my eyes to the beauty of Islam and teaches much better than most preachers I have heard in the past. May Allah continue to bless him and protect himself. Thank you for this Khutbah.

  • @sucdisanura3107
    @sucdisanura3107 4 года назад +3

    May Allah make it easy for us to understand the beautiful lessons in the Quran.💫💕

  • @reciterrahma3276
    @reciterrahma3276 6 лет назад +1

    Maa Sha Allah.... jazakumu llahu khairan
    No god but Allah and Muhammad is His messenger
    Glory be to Allah
    Praise be to Allah
    No god but Allah
    Allah is the Greatest
    No power or might except with Allah... I love Allah 💖
    May Allah continue to guide and protect every Muslim around the globe Aameen yaa Rabb

  • @AnsweringIslamTV
    @AnsweringIslamTV 7 лет назад +1

    Emotional intelligence is something profound and Prophet Muhammad SAW had it to the max.

  • @edris1829
    @edris1829 4 года назад +2

    Mashallah. He is a truly blessed. I have major issues with anger. My Mom and few my siblings have done me and wife wrong. I have forgiving them. But sometimes, I lose control and lash out. I feel horrible after and promise to keep my cool. It doesn’t always work. I know it Is wrong and I pray to Allah to help me keep my anger hidden. JAK.

  • @bagu44
    @bagu44 4 года назад +1

    NAK is a great teacher, may Allah (SAW) preserve him. Most of my children loves him.

  • @youtubesuckss7058
    @youtubesuckss7058 7 лет назад +1

    I cried because I only read what he wrote on Facebook about the issue he was having, I actually dismissed it as a lie but I didn't realise how difficult it was for him, I really feel so sad for him. May Allah keep him, his family, friends and those who bring the message to us happy, content, safe, successful, give them a light burden, protected by none other than Allah and his angles. Ameen ya rabb. As salamu alaykom brothers and sisters

  • @nisrinaig
    @nisrinaig 7 лет назад +30

    Am I the only one who accidentally memorizes his khutbah ending from Barakallahuli wa lakum until innasholata kanat 'alal mu'minina kitaban mawquta? I love it!

    • @halimadiallo9377
      @halimadiallo9377 7 лет назад +3

      was thinking the same stuff when the khutbah ended lol

    • @youtubesuckss7058
      @youtubesuckss7058 6 лет назад

      :)

    • @vervoid73
      @vervoid73 5 лет назад

      You cannot accidentally memorise anything. Allah suckbar.

    • @anid9027
      @anid9027 4 года назад +2

      @@vervoid73 Insecure lowlife societal failure maggot get a life you fucking piece of shit!!! Typical hogs

    • @marsyad6002
      @marsyad6002 4 года назад

      @@vervoid73 except you actually can!

  • @Sumaira_Mir
    @Sumaira_Mir 3 года назад +3

    This is exactly what I need right now, Subhan Allah 😭😍

  • @user-vh2ui2it3i
    @user-vh2ui2it3i 4 года назад +2

    May Allah protect brother Nouman, keep his Iman strong so that he may convey these great messages for generations to come inshAllah. I was completely lost with my anger build up for over 20 years. This has given me some light again...

    • @promax9159
      @promax9159 4 года назад

      Same here, anger and grief and regrets and much more for over 20 years, i dont think anything can help now, even if life gets better but the bitterness is to stay

  • @farzanaaniq658
    @farzanaaniq658 2 года назад +7

    I am looking after my dad I get angry I don't know why even though he is calm down from his heart please Allah for give me

    • @AreefShaikh-jw5xi
      @AreefShaikh-jw5xi 5 месяцев назад

      Bro Never cross your parents you still have time first ask forgiveness from him then I am sure he will forgive you

  • @ackeethree
    @ackeethree 4 года назад +1

    our family was pulled apart by and for faith. As a child I was furious and I still look for my stepfather every day to say how sorry I am, as a child you have no choice my anger has passed, but the pain will always remain. I hope to see my stepfather every day, even if it's just to say, I'm sorry even though I didn't have anything to say back then. today 40 years later I come across your video.
    my education has held back a lot, but it has only increased my faith. inchallah
    my mom will never believe so I keep hoping to see my stepfather again. he saved 4 lives at the time and made me understand his faith. machallah

  • @KampoengBatja
    @KampoengBatja 5 лет назад +6

    This khutbah relieve me a lot. Thank you Allah for blessing us with such scholar like him and also many others all around the world.

  • @ibuwashil1917
    @ibuwashil1917 Год назад +1

    May Allah Azzawajjal bless ustadh Nouman Ali and his entire family..beautiful2 points and messages Alhamdulillah💓💓💓

  • @coneemathew9786
    @coneemathew9786 4 года назад +5

    Dear Imam. May Allah reward you always. JAK. WE ARE LEARNING A LOT FROM YOU. THANKS AGAIN FOR YOUR HELP AND LISTENS. 🕋💐🙏

  • @bushra8382
    @bushra8382 4 года назад +1

    Upto 9th standard my heart was so pure..no jealousy no envy no aversion..nothing it was crystal clear. Thrn many people in my life wronged including my parents..Too much injustice and i suffered alot..No one was there to help me.So i started living a life of anger.I had this idea that oneday i will take my revenge and i bear witness it burned all the good things in my heart.

  • @alqudsmakka6069
    @alqudsmakka6069 7 лет назад +83

    MashaAllah; that reminder is so amazing, I deeply need it.
    I remark that ustath got so much wisdom from the challenge he is facing.We're so happy to see him increasing in good. May Allah bless him, gift him more knowledge,more passion and more wisdom . Amen..

    • @halimadiallo9377
      @halimadiallo9377 7 лет назад +1

      amine

    • @vervoid73
      @vervoid73 5 лет назад

      Islam is just a primative joke.

    • @yyy8963
      @yyy8963 5 лет назад

      @@vervoid73 if u are smart open ur mind and listen to what is being said and try to understand Islam before u judge it .

    • @amarsalmi7756
      @amarsalmi7756 5 лет назад +2

      @Robert Kelly, I've seen your other comments on how you believe we Muslims are close minded and how Islam is just a joke. A truly close minded person would persist on a primitive opinion without any closure on the religion and with any luck, you will find that trait familiar for it applies to you. Now how can I come to the conclusion that you have no closure on Islam? Because there is no discrepancy between science and the Quran. Take the signs of the end for example. Granted, this is not science but what was said in the Quran 1400 years ago is manifest in todays society. Take the Prophet (SAW) said that we would wear instruments on our heads. Who would have understood what that meant 1400 years ago and yet it has became true today! If it does not sound familiar to you than let me shed some light: headphones, earphones. Also, the Prophet (SAW) said that barefoot Bedouins in Dubai will be competing for the tallest tower and what do you see today? The tallest building in the world is in Dubai: Burj Khalifa and many other buildings. Also, the Prophet said that women will move in ways that will seduce men, and today there is a very disguising movement: twerking, and other forms of movement. Indeed there are many more signs of the end. Now you might reply with: "Why would these be signs of the end anyway?" I'll tell you. Because at this point, the world will be so corrupted that the righteous people cannot revert the evil ones. You might now be asking, "why are you telling me this junk if you can't change the 'evil'?" Well, yes I said the righteous people will not be able to revert the evil ones, you could become a righteous one before that time. You could ask me all the questions that you could muster and I, or any Muslim could answer you till you're speechless! You could ask, "why would God end it all in the first place?" "Why would God make us his slaves?" "Why would he create such imperfections?" These are all questions that I could answer if you seek knowledge.... but now, all I can do is advise you to at least learn more about this religion before you make haste to judge it.

    • @vervoid73
      @vervoid73 5 лет назад

      Allah supports the idea of the scumbag warlord, paedophile muhummed. Fuck that for a joke. Primative islam OUT, reality and science and true peace IN!

  • @Aartistryy
    @Aartistryy 3 года назад +2

    Everytime Ustad talks about some specific people, its so relatable that I find those people in my family and friends circle. Your way of explanation is just MashAllah! JazakAllahu Khair ❤️

  • @annettehansen6047
    @annettehansen6047 Месяц назад

    I have always struggled with anger , resentments, and unforgiveness. I have been working on it with a therapist and 12 step sponsor, and it is getting better. I was told that resentments only hurt you, not the wrongdoers. I had to write down my resentments and how they affected me to see the damage to motivate me to let go. I also had to write down my part in the resentments so I could see where i was in the wrong, make amends, change behaviors, build my character and reconcile relationships if appropriate. Obviously there are some situations you don't play a part like if you were abused. I really get into psychology and human behavior so I like to understand why people act how they do for example mental illness. It helps to have compassion on them and to wish them well. This is NOT justifying or condoning it just helps to understand, have compassion, and wish them well. Its also not good to get revenge, not only because of consequence but they will get their karma and there will be justice. If it motivates them to change and make amends be happy for them.

  • @MMomina
    @MMomina 6 лет назад +2

    So much to learn from every incident. We lose anger on such less of everything. Amazingly described MashaALLAH 👍🏽

  • @AleenaPlayzz
    @AleenaPlayzz 5 лет назад +12

    Jakaz Allah Khair for this khutbah. It is reassuring to know that it is ok to feel anger if we have been wronged. Recognizing the different emotions that we experience in life and talking about them give us a better understanding of how to cope and deal with our emotions in positive and informative ways.
    May Allah bless you for your work in the community and may He bless you for every bit of ease you bring to those (like myself) who are caught up in a struggle.
    Thank you.

  • @muhammedsabdar2127
    @muhammedsabdar2127 4 года назад +1

    One of the best Islamic Preacher in the world who's impact direct to Heart.

  • @tashacook2451
    @tashacook2451 4 года назад +7

    I admit, that I have anger and rage issues. I explode. ASTIFEER ALLAH. I'm transferring my own anger into work on the job site and educational institution.

    • @lonelywanderer7188
      @lonelywanderer7188 4 года назад

      Hey, I am going through something similar, did you do anything that helped you?

  • @sadiafortune4064
    @sadiafortune4064 2 года назад

    Ustadt Nouman Ali Khan Khutbah on POINT GREAT and CLOSURE to one's HEART ALHAMDULLILAH AMEEN

  • @MUHAMMEDWAIGA
    @MUHAMMEDWAIGA 6 лет назад +1

    Masha Allah!!! May Allah grant you goodness in this world as well in the hereafter Ameeen...your family and our families and the 《《Ummah》》 at large Ameeen...And May He grant us 《《Janatul Firdous》》 Ameeen....

    • @vervoid73
      @vervoid73 5 лет назад

      How primative can one be???? Islam is over!!! Get real. Welcome to 2019.

  • @Especially-Tee
    @Especially-Tee 4 года назад

    I have continuosly been criticised by my loved ones mainly bcz i belong to a different school of thought n i shud probably be listening to the teachers of my own community. Ustadh's words literally pushes me to coming back to knowing a little more of our quran from him again n again. Ive never experienced this before!

  • @banuacan5621
    @banuacan5621 2 года назад +4

    What an intelligence! MashaAllah! You are blessed

  • @roselle123
    @roselle123 5 лет назад +13

    Needed to listen to this again, exactly what i'm going thru.

  • @sanabutool9862
    @sanabutool9862 4 года назад

    May allah subha'nauta'ala grant ustadh nouman Ali Khan, n all the islamic scholars and us the upmost place in jannatul firdous...Aameen.. and also forgive us..aameen

  • @priyankanazimul9908
    @priyankanazimul9908 4 года назад +4

    Brother I love you for the sake of Allah subhanataala... thank you for sharing your knowledge... May you be blessed with Jannah tul firdaus

  • @jumamboki6200
    @jumamboki6200 2 года назад

    Indeed am so glad to be part of ustadh Nouman Ali's sermons, he is so amazing in his lectures

  • @jarasparkles232
    @jarasparkles232 7 лет назад +4

    What an amazing khutba. Omg it comes in so timely. Just about our everyday life we encounter people who purposely 'step our toes' people who live with us yet become the worst enemies that we just cant wait to get away far far from their torture or miseries caused, people who live as our extended familiy and oppress us making us not wanting to see even their face ever again. The terrible feeling....May Allah Protect us Ameen. Thank you Ustadh for raising such matters as awareness and reminders... before we loose the atom of goodness we might have in our heart.

    • @vervoid73
      @vervoid73 5 лет назад

      'OMG' what are you14 years old. Islam is just a poison that is losing its potency. We are over it.

  • @jaweria658
    @jaweria658 2 года назад

    He is incredibly helpful in understanding the life with quran prospectives

  • @ginisis22
    @ginisis22 4 года назад

    What a beautiful way to explain anger control with all Islamic explanation.. I have been looking for every where in the internet for anger control.. But it seems like shaitan made me forget that Islam have the answer for every things.. I am so glad to find this chennal

  • @naielshah9640
    @naielshah9640 7 лет назад +43

    May Allah bless u brother Nouman u are such an inspiration for us.

  • @digitalcomplexity
    @digitalcomplexity 4 года назад

    Salaams - I needed this right now - I am going through a tremendous fitna with my oldest stepson right now and the restraint I needed was given to me, SubhanAllah the rest of our family is together, stronger each Salat.

  • @nesibelishurabayeva1913
    @nesibelishurabayeva1913 3 года назад

    Nouman Ali Khan! Really appreciate your efforts on the way of Allah.
    You are so blessed by wisdom of Allah...
    May Allah guide n protect you in both worlds!!!
    Jazaka Allahu khayran for spreading light of knowledge of the Deen!!!

  • @ummehabiba4151
    @ummehabiba4151 3 года назад

    Ya Allah I really want to meet this man and let him meet my family.
    The way he speak really get into my heart

  • @saminajan5104
    @saminajan5104 4 года назад

    JazakkaAllah incredibly beautiful thoughts...he is defining Islamic teachings in a better way...His visions are truly inspiring us because of the transparency of incredible knowledge he is spreading .. thanks and great respect to the true scholar of Islam to make our lives easy and more convenient.

  • @dr.ebtessamfarooq7231
    @dr.ebtessamfarooq7231 4 года назад +4

    This was beautiful, i had tears in my eyes. May Allah grant you the highest place in Jannah

  • @hamza-vz6rr
    @hamza-vz6rr 7 лет назад

    Jazakumullah Ahsanal Jaza', May Allah Azza wa Jalla guide every single one of Umma to the straight path , forgive every single one of the Umma, helps every single one of the Umma in the dunya to the akhira, and May Allah gather every single one of the Umma In Jannatul Firdaus Al-A'la and together meet and greet Rasulullah SAW and to have the best Blessing to meet Allah Azza wa Jalla Allahumma Amin!!

  • @dmpetrencs
    @dmpetrencs 2 года назад

    By the grace of Allah I found your video. And I’m trying to get closer to Allah. Thank you for sharing and teaching what Allah wants from us.

  • @MUHAMMEDWAIGA
    @MUHAMMEDWAIGA 6 лет назад +2

    I love you for the shake of Allah my beloved sheikh!!!!!!!

  • @iffatnosheen1219
    @iffatnosheen1219 7 лет назад +16

    Masha Allah,may Allah bless you more.always find inspiration by listening to your lectures.

  • @Shabq20
    @Shabq20 3 года назад +1

    Asalaamwalaikum Mr.Nouman Khan, I have been following your lectures for the past year and some episodes like when life gets hard really had a life changing impact cuz I really really felt that Allah SWT had sent you 🙌...may Allah SWT grant you thebest here and hereafter 🤲

  • @shafayetchowdhury1942
    @shafayetchowdhury1942 2 года назад

    Someday I wish to see this man upfront. Infinite love from Bangladesh.

  • @mohdhafeez9491
    @mohdhafeez9491 6 лет назад +1

    Assalamualaikum iam a great fan of Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan he's just amazing & after listening to him we would have no doubts but still I think he didn't talked much about friends so I have a doubt about "it is said that don't make friends who have bad habits" but I think that it is the pretty good way to make them good or make them do good . Jazakallahukhair for every lecture it plays a big role in my life jazakallahukhair especially Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan may Allah fulfill every dua'a of you

  • @muskanrainy5880
    @muskanrainy5880 4 года назад

    Feels like i keep on listening him
    He is that good
    May Allah bless him and people involved with him and their efforts aameen

  • @Abdullah.972
    @Abdullah.972 4 года назад

    I really love & respect brother Numaan for making thing so easy to understand -Masha Allah,may Allah bless him & give him long life

  • @rigwig323
    @rigwig323 4 года назад

    He is the best teacher in the world!

  • @ShahadatHossain-oz2gu
    @ShahadatHossain-oz2gu 4 года назад

    How beautiful and clear his explanation is! I can hear it over and over. I had anger issue . But now alhamdulillah i learned to control them. Though sometimes it comes out. This lecture will definitely help me to control my anger.

  • @silentukhti8773
    @silentukhti8773 2 года назад

    JezakAllah khair. BESTTTT khutbaaa I've ever heard

  • @RuhabDabeer
    @RuhabDabeer 5 лет назад +1

    I really adore your Khutbahs very Wise
    May God Grant you heaven

    • @vervoid73
      @vervoid73 5 лет назад +1

      Very primative! May some god grant you reality.

  • @rehanfayyaz08
    @rehanfayyaz08 Год назад

    Subhan Allah New dimension of Quran

  • @youngmuslimahinternational6143
    @youngmuslimahinternational6143 7 лет назад +1

    Am glad you back let me now listen in
    May Allah grant u Janna without reckoning my beloved sheikh

  • @zahrashamin8110
    @zahrashamin8110 5 лет назад

    May the Almighty bless u and reward u both in dunya and akhira for ur efforts & challenges u face to bring us to the right path dear brother usthadh.. Alhamdulillah I'm able to change myself a lot listening to ur khuthbas Alhamdulillah

  • @halimadiallo9377
    @halimadiallo9377 7 лет назад +80

    al hamdulillah Friday khutbah:) Don't Forget du'a for the Ummah especially Filistine ;(

    • @lifeurgeandfeat5610
      @lifeurgeandfeat5610 7 лет назад +2

      #Takbeer Allah u akbar. ...
      Luv Palestine. ....#Luv from Srinagar IOK.......
      Ya Allah Save All muslims.......
      AllahuMANSur il Mujahideena Fee kulli Makaam.........💚💙💕

    • @valf156115
      @valf156115 7 лет назад

      And rohingya in Myanmar

    • @halimadiallo9377
      @halimadiallo9377 7 лет назад +1

      absolutely, and all the others who aren't talked about in the media :'(

    • @wessamtamimi2036
      @wessamtamimi2036 6 лет назад +1

      And Syrian and...etc

    • @vervoid73
      @vervoid73 5 лет назад

      Don't forget to forget primative religions.

  • @ayeshakunni4366
    @ayeshakunni4366 7 лет назад +8

    Subhanallha beautiful Khutba may Allha bless brother nouman and protect all Muslim ummha and guide them in the straight path

  • @tanwirmalik6520
    @tanwirmalik6520 4 года назад

    ALLAH kareem Ustad Nouman Ali khan ko mazeed nwazdein.Ameen

  • @edaes1
    @edaes1 7 лет назад +5

    I love Nouman's Khutbah's and I like Bayyinah. Thanks for uploading a great lecture about a great topic. Also Nouman, the way you speak and explain everything and give evidence for the things you talk about is exceptional.

  • @abovetheatheist1794
    @abovetheatheist1794 6 лет назад

    incredible khutba with regards to anger topic it's help me a plethora things to learn ...may Allah give us hidayat through nauman as well entire ummah.....

  • @MM-by6qq
    @MM-by6qq 5 лет назад +45

    I hope I can control my anger 😓💔

  • @djangogainz4221
    @djangogainz4221 7 лет назад +1

    Jazak Allahu Kheir Nouman, I will make Dua for you and all Muslims in shâ Allah

  • @sabnamubaidulla451
    @sabnamubaidulla451 4 года назад +3

    24:32
    I've been asking this question for soooooooo many days!!!!!
    Thanks.

  • @komaloza4331
    @komaloza4331 5 лет назад +1

    May Allah SWT grant brother nauman and his family jannat ul firdaus..

  • @neematm8266
    @neematm8266 3 года назад

    Our issues are nothing like the sahaba's may Allah be pleased with them. They had a RIGHT to be angry. Most often we have no right to be angry and to lash out. Sigh. May Allah AWJ make us patient and calm and kathimin gayth

  • @realshag01
    @realshag01 7 лет назад +9

    Maasha Allah. Ustadh Nouman is amazing in explaining quran.

  • @Gabberbam
    @Gabberbam 3 года назад

    I was doubting watching this but wow im blown away by the presentation, beutifully done. Cool guy makes me see islam in a different way.

  • @__-dc9ig
    @__-dc9ig 6 лет назад

    Al hamuli Allah I came across this channel, Dr Nouman's way is unique, speaks to the heart.

  • @zarminadogar1582
    @zarminadogar1582 7 лет назад +30

    May Allah preserve ustadh nouman 💕

    • @vervoid73
      @vervoid73 5 лет назад

      He's not preserving anything! Islam is a sick joke!

    • @vervoid73
      @vervoid73 5 лет назад

      May allah and his dog mahummed preserve themselves in the filth they spawned.

    • @MustafaHashmi-zf7yw
      @MustafaHashmi-zf7yw 4 года назад

      @@vervoid73 are you ok brother?