r/EntitledPeople - Psycho Karen Tries to KILL My Cats When I Won't Babysit For Her!

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  • Опубликовано: 19 ноя 2024

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  • @wjm1319
    @wjm1319 Год назад +419

    So...did anyone else catch that Petunia wanted Lily to 'babysit' her son...while she had a ticket out of the country in her bag? Any bets she was skipping the country AND abandoning her child?

    • @MalekitGJ
      @MalekitGJ Год назад +15

      O M F G !
      Are you serious?
      Aylmao...

    • @kranberry3318
      @kranberry3318 Год назад +61

      Yes! I guess she learned that from her mom! “Find some family and force them to babysit for an undisclosed amount of time and then go on a vacation to Europe!”

    • @vanillablossom
      @vanillablossom Год назад +22

      @@kranberry3318 yeah, they took her in years ago so they HAVE TO care for her baby now, right? ...right?

    • @ElCid48
      @ElCid48 Год назад +1

      I have the son taken away from that little brat and tell her to her face as she is in jail for animal abuse that I wish I never donated a sperm to have her brought into this world. and do not come to our house again and I will make sure you never see your son again

    • @kmechwarrior1684
      @kmechwarrior1684 Год назад +20

      @@vanillablossom They didn't truly take her in, dad was just too spineless to say NO and call the cops...

  • @AlexOvTheAbyss
    @AlexOvTheAbyss Год назад +238

    Story 5: If anyone ever tried to get my cat put down, I would be out to put them down.

  • @toshinoukyouko2762
    @toshinoukyouko2762 Год назад +86

    The fact that Petunia tried to murder a family member just so she could get a free babysitter might be one of the most unhinged stories yet.

    • @Carizma101
      @Carizma101 Год назад +4

      I agree with you, if she did that to my cat, she would be dead, and I would go no contact with her. Petunia is so unhinged, she needs therapy

    • @semi-san1736
      @semi-san1736 Год назад +3

      ...or just permanent jail time. Thank goodness the kid got taken away. Definitely a case of "nurture" gone rotten.

  • @WorgenGrrl
    @WorgenGrrl Год назад +145

    Story 3: where is this job? Hell, I would love a job with that pay and flexibility

    • @stoopingfalcon891
      @stoopingfalcon891 Год назад +23

      I am 67 and retired. I for one would come out of retirement eagerly for a job like that! 👍😊

    • @jrzgrl73
      @jrzgrl73 Год назад +4

      Ditto

    • @mistypuffs
      @mistypuffs Год назад +15

      When my kids were little I’d have jumped through firey hoops as part of the interview process if it would have helped me get a job like that

    • @nakayawashington349
      @nakayawashington349 Год назад +2

      Me too

    • @elslick
      @elslick Год назад +8

      No kidding right especially Startin out with no experience. Would love to have had a hand up like that starting out

  • @alantran4901
    @alantran4901 Год назад +165

    Story 5: animal cruelty is a crime and the idiot likely never watch John Wick.
    You never mess with someone pet or they will go nuclear on you!

    • @mahapatrasohamm
      @mahapatrasohamm Год назад +14

      Messing with someone's pet is like asking the devil come knocking at your door

    • @Zeryurijin
      @Zeryurijin Год назад +7

      @@mahapatrasohamm "You tried to backstab the devil and now he's come for his due."~Winston, John Wick 2

    • @johnmullholand2044
      @johnmullholand2044 Год назад +3

      Try to hurt my cats and John Wick himself would say "Whoa, dude!" You'd wish you only had to deal with the Devil Himself!

    • @jpbaley2016
      @jpbaley2016 Год назад +6

      John Wick has nothing on me if someone hurts my cats.

    • @badlanding0529
      @badlanding0529 Год назад +2

      Doom intensifies

  • @russlehman2070
    @russlehman2070 Год назад +114

    Last story: Giving friend half the bonus won't calm him down. It will just encourage him to make more demands.

    • @iammasterbidenspersonalsex400
      @iammasterbidenspersonalsex400 Год назад

      So true, it is obvious that fake friend will either create a lie to get OP fired or act super entitled to everyone and get himself fired.

    • @nicolasjoly6948
      @nicolasjoly6948 9 месяцев назад

      If you didn't have any agreement, just wtf!?! Where I work we also have that kind of program. The reason why they gave a bonus, it's to encourage us to refer people. It's not to encourage people to submit their resume.

    • @sylviajones2865
      @sylviajones2865 4 месяца назад

      She shouldn't have said anything about the sign in bonus.

  • @bearnaff9387
    @bearnaff9387 Год назад +244

    Petunia is a psychopath, literally. The logic of "get rid of the cats to free up time to babysit" is literally psychopathic thinking. The sudden escalation to multiple charges and jailtime is not surprising in the least.

    • @Some_Guy6
      @Some_Guy6 Год назад +7

      It's still very much taboo when a girl/woman does very big nono stuff. From physical abuse on their husband, stalking to touching k!ds. It even sometimes gets laughed away.

    • @kmechwarrior1684
      @kmechwarrior1684 Год назад

      Petunia's mom and dad sound like total losers too

    • @marciaspiegel5280
      @marciaspiegel5280 Год назад

      Should be a worse sentence. Like including beatings or execution.

    • @semi-san1736
      @semi-san1736 Год назад +1

      She would be a sociopath since she was "nurtured" that way, compared to OP and her siblings. Kinda shocking when you think about it.

  • @iononcantomascrivo
    @iononcantomascrivo Год назад +248

    Story number 4: Sandra is such an entitled parent. She had the kid and she's teaching her daughter to throw a tantrum when she doesn't get her way. She has absolutely no respect for boundaries, zero comprehension of the word no being a complete sentence and no accountability that there are consequences as well as reprisals for her atrocious behavior. What's worse, she's teaching her daughter to be just like her. It's almost a guarantee, Sandra is depicting OP as a mean adult to her daughter (along with bad mouthing him to anyone who will listen) thus negatively reinforcing her daughter's bad behavior. The fact that she's NINE YEARS OLD and is behaving like a spoiled toddler who doesn't know how to regulate her emotions yet, just reeks of bad parenting. Sandra turning a deaf ear and a blind eye to abominable behavior, and coddling Charlie whenever she flips out, will only lead to further problems as she gets older. I wonder what she will tell the judge when her daughter ends up in court after being arrested for the first time. Mark my words: Charlie will cross the wrong person one day and, hopefully, it knocks some sense into her. Otherwise, I don't see her going anywhere in life.

    • @anthonykolb8083
      @anthonykolb8083 Год назад +23

      If they don't want her chocolate cake I'll eat it

    • @nancyomalley6286
      @nancyomalley6286 Год назад +8

      Sandra is turning Charlie into Petunia!

    • @user-ko2nj3qi8u
      @user-ko2nj3qi8u Год назад +3

      She's likely to develop good relatef health problème too.

    • @christianzank4255
      @christianzank4255 Год назад +20

      We have a couple of very simple rules when it comes to food for our kid. 1: If you don't like it, you don't have to eat it, but you're not getting anything else. This applies everywhere. 2: If you don't eat the dinner, you don't get dessert. (Not applicable at birthday parties if you decline the dinner) 3: if make your own plate or ask for food, you HAVE to eat all of it. He's 8 now, and eats what is made for dinner 99% of the time. If he doesn't eat it, there is no drama, he just gets to stay hungry 'til breakfast the next morning.

    • @iononcantomascrivo
      @iononcantomascrivo Год назад +8

      @@christianzank4255 Exactly how my parents were. They raised three boys. I've worked in customer service for years and I cannot stand these entitled parents who are usually buried in their phones while dismissively declaring that their spoiled after births are “picky eaters.” The last thing I want to deal with when I have an eight table section full of guests that just went down all at the same time is an entitled parent who lets their entitled crotch fruit run the show.

  • @slick8086
    @slick8086 Год назад +37

    A person that calls you in the middle of the night and asks to stay at your house is not a guest.

    • @JohnH20111
      @JohnH20111 Год назад

      yeah
      they’re nothing but a leech and a mooch, not to mention an extreme lazy-ass self-entitled bastard

    • @samantha8268
      @samantha8268 Год назад +3

      It's gotta be a really close friend or family member that had something serious happen (like a house fire serious) or someone unhinged lol

  • @QueenOfTheZombieApocalypse
    @QueenOfTheZombieApocalypse Год назад +84

    Two words: John Wick
    ETA - that story blows my mind. Not only did she have a baby daddy that clearly would have taken the kid, she had plenty of money for a ticket to Italy so one assumes she could have hired a babysitter. So just… why???

    • @nancyomalley6286
      @nancyomalley6286 Год назад

      Because, in her psychotic mind, she can! Her parents raised her to think that way! Great Job!/s

    • @MuffinHunterX
      @MuffinHunterX Год назад +23

      I'm guessing she actually intended to abandon the child with her family but wanted wiggle room in case she changed her mind and if the dad got the kid she'd never see them again.
      Edit: Personal experience. My cousin pulled that on us so she could do and sell meth. Got caught, went to prison.

    • @QueenOfTheZombieApocalypse
      @QueenOfTheZombieApocalypse Год назад +7

      @@MuffinHunterX ahhh that makes a lot of sense. Yikes sorry that happened to you

    • @ayceinquisitor190
      @ayceinquisitor190 11 месяцев назад +1

      She said why, to "enjoy her youth." Translation: "I should not have become a parent, I want this kid to be someone else's problem"
      DO NOT CASUALLY HAVE CHILDREN

  • @silverflight01
    @silverflight01 Год назад +231

    Story 5: All sympathy (if there was any left) was thrown out the window once Petunia decided that getting rid of the cats (and therefore spiraling OP's sister) was the proper response to nobody wanting to babysit.
    Now Petunia is about to face a possible lawsuit (loss of money), a truckload of charges (prison time), and vaporized bridges (restraining order)

    • @og_3rd_st_saint_gat
      @og_3rd_st_saint_gat Год назад +32

      I agree if she did that to my cats she would go out like sonny corleone

    • @michaeltelson9798
      @michaeltelson9798 Год назад +30

      I just don’t know the legal status between the father and Petunia. Yes, he is a sperm donor but wasn’t there legal documentation as to his non status to her life? Petunia’s mother and stepfather are the ones responsible for her, not OP’s family.

    • @iononcantomascrivo
      @iononcantomascrivo Год назад +1

      I was going to say she's a narcissist, but I think she's a sociopath. To do that because she didn't get her way, not just violate boundaries, refuse to accept the word no as a complete sentence but have no accountability for her actions that there are reprisals as well as consequences, looks like she's about to face some criminal charges and she won't have to worry about her child anymore: because going to foster care or some other legal guardian will be far better than subjecting that innocent life to being raised by a toxic egg donor like Petunia. My God.

    • @Kualinar
      @Kualinar Год назад +20

      Not to mention being declared indignant parent, meaning the permanent loss of any and all parental right regarding her child.

    • @JesusKreist
      @JesusKreist Год назад +23

      @@michaeltelson9798
      Yes.
      A sperm donor who directly requests to not be involved in the child's future upbringing is not required to do anything for the child.
      Technically it is the same as giving a child up for adoption. Basically his legal status in relation to Petunia is * drumroll * nothing at all. Not even "natural father" as per multiple laws for safeguarding, which btw. are often fought over from dads wanting to meet their kid.
      A sperm donor is almost always anonymous and left in the dark whether his sample even has been used or still is frozen after 20 years ...
      Legally he was not required to allow Petunia to spend the summer with them. He was not even required to meet at the cafe.
      Dad was friendly and did so regardless because the child was a ...well ... favor for his friend that died shortly after her birth. And because he had no prior knowledge of her ... education and upbringing.

  • @dragon94503
    @dragon94503 Год назад +53

    Story 4: Sandra needs to realize that her opportunity to bring up that her child is a picky eater was when OP asked about diet restrictions and such. She shouldn't get mad at all at OP for anything that night

    • @brendanboomhour7606
      @brendanboomhour7606 8 месяцев назад +2

      That kid is strange, what kinda kid doesn't like chocolate? I've yet to meet one

  • @ZPokemonfanA
    @ZPokemonfanA Год назад +88

    if anyone ever did something like that to any pets I'd own, I'd do literally anything to make sure they would never feel any sense of joy or peace in their life ever again.

  • @jonmendelson1104
    @jonmendelson1104 Год назад +130

    Story 4 actually had an update. Apparently Sandra's mom had just been admitted to the hospital that day and they'd driven straight from the hospital to OP's house. Apparently the kid being upset wasn't really about the food but more because she was upset about her grandma. For whatever reason they hadn't wanted to tell OP about the situation so they could focus on the dinner.

    • @Eskoxo
      @Eskoxo Год назад +85

      That might be the case but does not really excuse the bahaviour of the mother asking her friend to apologize and make something else like tf...

    • @michaelsorensen7567
      @michaelsorensen7567 Год назад +40

      If it's not about the food then they should NOT displace and make it about the food

    • @marjoriejohnston4905
      @marjoriejohnston4905 Год назад +7

      @@michaelsorensen7567 I think the kid started it about the food. Maybe it was something the grandmother made and that upset the kid further.

    • @kranberry3318
      @kranberry3318 Год назад +18

      @@marjoriejohnston4905 I think the kid was a ticking time bomb of sad and the food was a catalyst that set off a disproportionate reaction. The thing that made her cry was the food, but the reason she was so ready to cry over a small issue was the family problems.

    • @priscilalondon
      @priscilalondon Год назад +1

      The kid is not the problem, it is the mother’s entitled and disrespectful behavior that is the issue. Who tf demands people to cook second meals because their kid doesn’t like what is being served? Go to a McDonald’s or something, this isn’t your private restaurant, Karen!

  • @thehowlinggamer5784
    @thehowlinggamer5784 Год назад +23

    Petunia would be a good candidate for PETA.
    No joke. They petnsp animals from homes, even going out of their way to lure them out of the yard or door to take them to their 'shelter' where more often than not, they are put down.

    • @brendanboomhour7606
      @brendanboomhour7606 8 месяцев назад +4

      Wouldn't surprise me if she did work for them

    • @SylviasDaddy
      @SylviasDaddy 6 месяцев назад

      So much for ethical treatment of animals

  • @lindaouellette6656
    @lindaouellette6656 Год назад +32

    Well that’s refreshing.. Petunia “entitled” herself into jail, glad the baby is away from her.😂😢

    • @wmdkitty
      @wmdkitty Год назад +4

      Maybe little Dudley has a chance, now.

    • @kranberry3318
      @kranberry3318 Год назад +1

      @@wmdkitty That is actually a perfect joke dude nice

    • @vanillablossom
      @vanillablossom Год назад +1

      @@wmdkitty I combed through comments to see whether only I noticed the names or not. 😂

  • @swedishmake-upgeek5650
    @swedishmake-upgeek5650 Год назад +23

    Cat owner here. The cat story gave me anxiety until I heard that the cats were ok and returned unharmed. If someone did that to my cats I honestly don’t know what I would do

    • @habituallearner7680
      @habituallearner7680 3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you for saying that the cats were returned. That's what I wanted to know before watching as I don't want to be left with lots of John Wick energy.

  • @maryjoyspohrer256
    @maryjoyspohrer256 Год назад +69

    I'm SO glad that big brother could save the day!!!! He gets a hero cake for that! I'm also glad that the baby is safe. SO glad that there's going to be jail time for these low lifes!

    • @raghailligh1080
      @raghailligh1080 Год назад +4

      The penalties for animal cruelty are never harsh enough. People used to get ridiculous jail time for possession of a little weed, while animal abusers get a slap on the wrist if anything.

    • @crimsonmaelstrom573
      @crimsonmaelstrom573 Год назад +1

      I really hope that the courts force that family to be sterilized. The world doesn’t need any more of that family. Hopefully petunia’s son grows up to be a much better person. And I also hope that his new family tells him exactly what his mother and grandparents did so he doesn’t agree to meet with them in the future. He deserves a life free of them

  • @silverflight01
    @silverflight01 Год назад +77

    Story 3: Anyone would've just taken the offer. Like, $24/hr with a number of benefits and flexible hours? That's a freaking DREAM!
    But of course, the brat had to be a ChoosingBeggar and feel that this above-average rate was too low for her.
    I hope she realizes how big of a loss this was

    • @maryjoyspohrer256
      @maryjoyspohrer256 Год назад +11

      On site clinic plus you can bring your kids after they let out of school??? Man, hanging out with my dad at work are some of the BEST memories that I have from my childhood! Where are you and do you have part time positions??

  • @revelationtek3
    @revelationtek3 Год назад +42

    I remember one of my first experiences in the mental health field was parents dropping off their kid to be hospitalized for suicide. I was teamed up with someone and when my team mate asked "do you want to commit suicide, hurt yourself, or die" the kid was really confused. This was at a police station and after investigation it turned out the parents wanted to go on vacation to Mexico and was trying put their 4 year old kid into a state psychiatric hospital so they could have fun. The grandparents got the kid and both parents were arrested. I don't know what happened beyond this. It was a wild first experience in mental health. This was about 20 years ago and almost as wild as getting chased around by a drug addict convinced I was the spawn of satan and bigfoot. I mean who sticks their child in a state psychiatric hospital at 4?

    • @kranberry3318
      @kranberry3318 Год назад +13

      That’s so sad. I really don’t understand why parents have kids when they clearly don’t care about them.

    • @robertabarnhart6240
      @robertabarnhart6240 Год назад +1

      @@kranberry3318 Probably cos they don't know how to use birth control correctly.

    • @vanillablossom
      @vanillablossom Год назад +2

      Easy answer. People who try to stick their kids into mental ward to have nice vacation are the ones who actually need psych evaluation possibly followed by time out of society.

    • @vanillablossom
      @vanillablossom Год назад +1

      @@kranberry3318 these probably weren't planned / wanted kids and abortion is still illegal / frowned upon in many parts of the world. Such parents try to pawn off their kids onto whomever they can, and when they have multiple kids, the oldest gets forced to be the primary caretaker, babysit younger siblings, feed them, wash them, check their homework and so on.
      Or maybe I just overdosed on reddit stories and it's the influence of supernanny episode from few years ago with the Chapman family, I saw a snippet while swiping shorts and then whole episode, and I'm appalled.

    • @lunak1391
      @lunak1391 Год назад +4

      That's horrifying and heartbreaking!
      what the absolute hell were they thinking?! that poor little one!

  • @merlinathrawes746
    @merlinathrawes746 Год назад +25

    Couch vs bed story: I wonder how much longer it would have taken before she tried to kick OP out of his own place and move her bf in?
    Kid doesn't like food story: NTA! OP, you asked about allergies, mom said there were none. She didn't offer up what her kid's favorite meals were so you made a best guestimate. But at the point she starts demanding you make a second meal, it wouldn't have taken long to start demanding some prized possession instead, as well as money to buy food on the way home. Good riddance! The husband is a non-entity in his home and marriage. Now you know.
    Petunia story: Several mistakes were made here, the biggest one not calling the police to report child abandonment when she was dropped off the first time. At this point they need to file a restraining order against Petunia now.
    UPDATE: Just WOW! From the sounds of it these people are getting some long overdue just desserts!

  • @RunnyBabbitMom
    @RunnyBabbitMom Год назад +24

    Story 3. Take kids to work after school, benefits, 40 hours a week. I'm available. I'll gladly leave the business I own for all of that.

    • @G3r3s3ph
      @G3r3s3ph 2 месяца назад +1

      I am retired, I don't have kids, and my pension is very good. And I would be interested in the job😂😂😂

    • @yvonnenesler5540
      @yvonnenesler5540 20 дней назад +1

      Same. Owning a business is expensive (especially small companies) and that kind of deal would be hard to pass up.

  • @Dragongamz1
    @Dragongamz1 Год назад +55

    Story Number 5: Petunia disgusts me with her entitled behavior. Honestly, is it really so hard to find a damn babysitter instead of foisting your kid to family?

    • @MelanieCravens
      @MelanieCravens Год назад +6

      Ahhh! But you'd have to PAY a babysitter but many people think you don't have to pay family because FAAAMMMIILLYYYY!

    • @Kristiemiller1969
      @Kristiemiller1969 Год назад +4

      In Petunia’s sick mind - babysitters charge you money, family babysits for free

  • @Kaiju_Queen94
    @Kaiju_Queen94 Год назад +13

    Regarding Story 5: Ngl....if someone took my baby kitty to be put down over something like that, she would have to pray that the cops would get to her first before I put her down! 😾

  • @taraharvey8123
    @taraharvey8123 Год назад +21

    🤬🤬🤬
    Totally agree with you, Fluff..
    The OP in the story with the 9 years old.. Hell NO OP is NOT the A-hole!
    I'd have made Sandra & Charli leave and Mike could've stayed.. lmao

    • @TheSjuris
      @TheSjuris Год назад +5

      My nieces were hard to feed, but my sister would make sure that if all else fails that she would bring food for them. My vegan cousin will bring her own food with her. Why is that hard for some to figure it out.

    • @maryjoyspohrer256
      @maryjoyspohrer256 Год назад +1

      LOL! Yeah, Mike liked the cake!

    • @aphelion4616
      @aphelion4616 Год назад +6

      My whole thing was she specifically asked if there was any food issues. That included likes/dislikes, allergies, etc... and the mom assured her there was nothing. That was ALL on the mom for not being truthful!!

    • @taraharvey8123
      @taraharvey8123 Год назад

      @@TheSjuris
      👏👏💞👏👏
      AMEN!!
      My sons would've NEVER been allowed to act that way! Especially at that age!!
      Seriously! And then, Sandra trying to make OP APOLOGISE?? OH HELL NO!!

    • @taraharvey8123
      @taraharvey8123 Год назад

      @@aphelion4616
      👏👏💞👏👏
      Yes!! Absolutely agree!!
      This story literally pissed me off so bad!
      Like, for an "adult" to not only act like SHE did.. but allowing her NINE years old kid to act that way?? Hell no!!
      My sons who have got their butt's busted for acting that way!!
      Especially since we were GUESTS in OP's home!!

  • @hanoh2904
    @hanoh2904 Год назад +7

    The patunia story. The father should have had a contract and to drop all paternal rights

  • @dogf421
    @dogf421 Год назад +1

    harming someones pet is the fastest way to turn the most gentle mild mannered human being into your worst nightmare

  • @juliabliss8145
    @juliabliss8145 Год назад +7

    Any time a 'friend' wants to stay because they have nowhere else to go, before you say yes ask yourself WHY they have no place to go...

  • @Giganotus
    @Giganotus Год назад +5

    In regards to story 5, broken heart syndrome is no joke! It really is a case of emotional grief so strong it causes the heart to struggle. My grandma suffered from it too once. I wonder if that affected the charges on Petunia, considering how dangerous it is.

  • @danimerlyn9844
    @danimerlyn9844 Год назад +3

    If anyone did something to my cat; I would do my best impression of John Wick.

  • @Jonathan521
    @Jonathan521 Год назад +5

    Story 5. Wow that dad was dense. He didn’t call the cops the first time but he should’ve…and he really left crazy Petunia in his house alone? Smh

  • @endeeray4295
    @endeeray4295 Год назад +2

    That was scary how the "friend" was locking in on taking over OPs apartment. Dodged that bullet big time.

  • @melaniescribbles
    @melaniescribbles Год назад +2

    'What would you do if someone kidnapped your beloved cat?'
    Well, have you ever seen the John Wick movie?

  • @HappilyHomicidalHooligan
    @HappilyHomicidalHooligan Год назад +7

    Condo Story: In addition to ending the Friendship, if I were OP, I'd also be Suing him for the cost of cleaning the Condo and replacing/Repairing everything he damaged or destroyed...

  • @og_3rd_st_saint_gat
    @og_3rd_st_saint_gat Год назад +7

    Story 5 if that karen tried to do that to my cats she would end up like sonny corleone

  • @joseHernandez-xc4ix
    @joseHernandez-xc4ix Год назад +7

    Patonia is a product of her parents and I bet they act just as entitled as their spoiled daughter...
    Shaking My Head like I am Tweeking to that one jajajajajajajajaja 🤣

  • @rmclearran1
    @rmclearran1 Год назад +9

    Hey fluff don't forget to feed and water your Steve-O a little extra as spring is coming and he's going to need the extra energy

  • @kimosterhout3242
    @kimosterhout3242 Год назад +4

    So glad they found the cats! I’d be a wreck if my cats went missing. The little fur balls are part of the family.

  • @nightdweller6446
    @nightdweller6446 Год назад +3

    Petunia drops cars at shelter, Lily drops baby into relinquished baby drop box at firestation/hospital

  • @wmdkitty
    @wmdkitty Год назад +3

    S5: Wow. Petunia is just _awful._ You don't mess with people's pets. Ever. On which note, if someone even _looks_ at my cat funny, we will be having words. _Nobody_ messes with my baby girl.

  • @shadefox491
    @shadefox491 Год назад +19

    If someone stole my pet I'd be in jail

    • @SCCelticGoddes
      @SCCelticGoddes Год назад +4

      me too!

    • @og_3rd_st_saint_gat
      @og_3rd_st_saint_gat Год назад +5

      If someone stole my let they would end up like tommy angelo from mafia 1

    • @lancerevell5979
      @lancerevell5979 Год назад +3

      Deep swamp, and a gatorhole. 😡

    • @og_3rd_st_saint_gat
      @og_3rd_st_saint_gat Год назад +3

      @@lancerevell5979 that or a good pigsty would work

    • @JohnH20111
      @JohnH20111 Год назад +1

      if that happened to me, the person who did it would be a Missing Person, just like Jimmy Hoffa

  • @WanArk86
    @WanArk86 Год назад +8

    Story 5: Petunia? More like Reflessia; stinky and a parasite.
    The last story made me do the math equation meme. If op chose not to give him the half of the benefit then it was his choice.
    Heck, the friend can suggest some friends for the company and get the benefit himself.

  • @iononcantomascrivo
    @iononcantomascrivo Год назад +8

    The second story. I've heard it before. I've known people that entitled. You give them an inch and they try to take a mile.

    • @lancerevell5979
      @lancerevell5979 Год назад +2

      Put her on the balcony..... Next day she's out on the street. 🤨

  • @SprinkelFallingleaf
    @SprinkelFallingleaf Год назад +5

    the story about the little kid, Charley, crying over dinner.... there is an update to that story I read, which had nothing to do with the meal. The wife on the way over to have dinner, had gotten a call that her mother was taken to the hospital and they didn't know it she would live. The wife told her husband not to tell OP so as not to ruin dinner. The kid was crying, because she was a kid worried about grandma and that was just how it came out. The husband and OP talked a few days later and straightened it all out.

    • @larrywest42
      @larrywest42 Год назад

      I suspect it will take a while longer to "straighten out" Sandra's behavior.
      I get that people react to stress differently, but since you don't report that she was involved in that reconciliation, I have my doubts.

  • @MurrayR_G
    @MurrayR_G Год назад +3

    Story 5: good lord glad petunia got arrested that is really messed up and hope the sister recovers from the broken heart

  • @bluntizard4481
    @bluntizard4481 Год назад +13

    Story 6: Because of how that referral program works, not the ahole. However, many job referral places do give the bonus both to the new hire and the person who referred

    • @larrywest42
      @larrywest42 Год назад

      In my experience, the hiring bonus (if any) is completely separate from the referral bonus (if any).

  • @tsquaredtim
    @tsquaredtim Год назад +8

    Hey Fluff, these were some great yet infuriating stories I've seen on your channel, which is my favorite channel in the Karen genre. The second story made me laugh the hardest. It reminded me of what my father used to say. He'd say," Some people want a job that pays 50$ /hrs. working from 11 am-12 pm with an hour off for lunch.
    The second story about the family dinner was crazy too. Op did exactly what I would have done. That mom should have been asked to leave and bring her spoiled brat with her. She's raising a future, Karen.
    The last story made me furious. Petunia needs a very long jail term.

  • @KateandEvatoys
    @KateandEvatoys Год назад +10

    Thank god he saved the little kitties! 😞

  • @sugarcaffeine4blood
    @sugarcaffeine4blood Год назад +31

    ...My biggest question for story 4 is if Charlie knew what they like and don't like to eat and so does their mom Sandra... Why didn't Sandra say anything? You can't pretend to be not fussy and then demand more than someone can do.

    • @lauraelliott6909
      @lauraelliott6909 Год назад +8

      There was an update. Charlie was actually upset about grandma being in the hospital, not the food at all. She just acted out. Don't know why mom joined in, though.

    • @dudeorduuude5211
      @dudeorduuude5211 Год назад +5

      ​@@lauraelliott6909 well, but we saw how Sandra handles her kid... overly accommodating and doesn't teach her manners. It isn't even logical that she expected OP to apologize for not cooking a second meal.

    • @sugarcaffeine4blood
      @sugarcaffeine4blood Год назад +2

      @@lauraelliott6909 Aww poor Charlie. Mom's still at fault at this one...

  • @miaduanmu
    @miaduanmu Год назад +2

    If anyone DARE to do anything to hurt my cats, then it’ll be the end of them! They’ll be 6 feet under for sure 🤬.

  • @bensgalley1368
    @bensgalley1368 Год назад +2

    For the title story. Yeah if someone did that to my cats. They wouldn't be in jail I would. No one messes with my children without quickly learning how bad a decision it was.

  • @bjenkins380
    @bjenkins380 Год назад +7

    Thing about the cat story, with her text reply she incriminated herself big time.

  • @paulwillard5924
    @paulwillard5924 Год назад +2

    ANY Karen that messed with my cats wouldn’t survive the attempt!

  • @TheRealSparkplugTheFox
    @TheRealSparkplugTheFox Год назад +3

    As a broken hearted bunny mom, if Petunia did something like that to me then she'd be lucky if the police got to her first.

  • @zaarkhananal7165
    @zaarkhananal7165 Год назад +1

    The 4th story is a perfect example of why I don't cook for people that I don't know and who don't have a lifestyle similar to mine.

  • @cliffordmaynard6559
    @cliffordmaynard6559 Год назад +4

    On the story about the cats and the CRAZY girl,she DOESN'T need to be a parent, lock her butt up.

  • @wmdkitty
    @wmdkitty Год назад +5

    S4: Even considering the update (Sandra's mum is in hospital), the behavior of these people was just inappropriate, uncalled for, and entitled. If you're so upset that you can't even sit through a meal, just make other arrangements and do the meal another time. Sandra had no right to demand an apology from the person she (and Charlie) offended, and definitely no right to demand OP fix a whole different meal for her kid.

  • @tinydancer7426
    @tinydancer7426 Год назад +1

    1st story is a perfect illustration of the saying ..... no good deed goes unpunished.

  • @Chuuyas_FancyHat
    @Chuuyas_FancyHat Год назад +3

    Whoever steals a cat gets a free ride to the afterlife.

  • @ellie8461
    @ellie8461 9 месяцев назад +1

    Story 5: Wow. Poor Lily. BHS is incredibly rare, even considered a medical myth on tumblr because of how rare it is. For Lily to experience such severe anxiety/panic that it would put enough stress on her ‘heart strings’ to nearly cause a full-on heart attack, is very, very crazy. Even though Petunia is HORRIBLY wrong and a completely vile excuse of a human being for kid(cat)naping cats that are very obviously not hers and taking them to be put down, I just can’t help but feel terrible for Lily. As someone with severe anxiety/panic disorder, I’ve been worked up into such a state where I’ve had to go to the hospital, or even felt like my chest would shatter, but BHS has never even been on my radar because of just how rare it is. It really makes me wonder what her treatment regimen is for her anxiety, how was it that she was able to get so worked up that her heart would literally almost break? Sounds like the poor girl needs a reevaluation with her doctors because if she’s on any medication, it clearly did not help. Hope she’s alright

  • @jameswade2613
    @jameswade2613 Год назад +6

    1st story It just goes to show no matter how long you know someone, you still have to draw up contracts with even friends when helping them out, to avoid being screwed over. Long gone are the days when a handshake & you word should be enough between friends.

  • @rebeccamichael626
    @rebeccamichael626 Год назад +8

    Story 4
    Fluff - "9 years old is a little too old for that type of behavior, right?"
    Me - If she was younger, l could understand. And what girl doesn't like chocolate cake?

    • @meh2510
      @meh2510 Год назад +2

      I know right, there are actually people in this world who don't like chocolate. Blew my mind the first time I met someone who didn't.

    • @larrywest42
      @larrywest42 Год назад

      ​@@meh2510 my daughter doesn't like chocolate. She'll eat it, if that's the only option, but it ranks somewhere near vegetables for her.
      It was nice for us when she was little, as she was happy for us to celebrate with other desserts, like fruit tarts.

  • @paulahik211
    @paulahik211 Год назад +2

    Dinner story:. My daughter has always been a picky eater. She never acted like that, though. She would just say she wasn't very hungry.

  • @hexmaniacyorick1404
    @hexmaniacyorick1404 Год назад +3

    I read story nr. 4 about Charlie a little while back and it had OP give updates in the comment.
    OP has talked with Mike a little while after, who told OP they found out one of Sandra's parents (Charlie's grandparent) was dying/had died, that morning.
    Charlie was upset about that and didn't feel like eating and to pretend all was good, as she was very upset. She even does like chocolate. Sandra apologised for her behaviour as well, since she too was under a lot of stress.
    Again, OP was NTA. But we need to cut Charlie and her mom some slack.

  • @AuntLoopy123
    @AuntLoopy123 Год назад +1

    "Just give it to him to calm him down!"
    And this, folks, is how entitled people BECOME entitled, in the first place, and remain entitled for as long as they do.

  • @victorblakey4260
    @victorblakey4260 Год назад +10

    Karen’s don’t just happen, they are created by their parents, and it seems to me that (in story 4) Sandra is creating a karen by encouraging and enabling entitled tantrums in her daughter.
    People, you create the adult your children will become, indulging them at every turn is not helping them, and in the long term, hurts them as people.
    As a parent there are times you have to say “No !”, and stick with it.

    • @mariaaguadoball3407
      @mariaaguadoball3407 Год назад +1

      The kid may have genuine sensory issues with food, so we shouldn't automatically assume she was just throwing a tantrum. It was the parents' fault for not making clear their child will only eat certain things.

  • @aqacefan
    @aqacefan Год назад +1

    Story 4: NTA! OP asked *in advance* for advice planning the menu, and "Sandra" was absolutely no help. While OP's reaction might have been intemperate, it was 100% justified. If Sandra wanted a short order cook, she should have taken her family to a restaurant.

  • @nancycox204
    @nancycox204 Год назад +6

    Story 5: Most Humane Societies will not kill perfectly healthy well-behaved cats.

  • @thunderpants3500
    @thunderpants3500 Год назад +3

    Petunia won't learn a thing out of this because she was raised by cold hearted parents.

  • @ms.c.j.
    @ms.c.j. Год назад +2

    Keep me away from Petunia, I’m not sure I’ve got bail money! 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
    I have cats, and dogs, as well as a tank full of fish. My partner and I are rescue mad 😂

  • @Kanjilearner
    @Kanjilearner Год назад +1

    Petunia gives Harry Potter's homonymous aunt a run for her money in despicableness!

  • @ryanmccarthy2033
    @ryanmccarthy2033 Год назад +2

    WtF I was making excuses in my head for petunia giving her the benefit of the doubt until I heard about trying to put the cats down that is outrageous what a POS

  • @tracygardner6318
    @tracygardner6318 Год назад +3

    I’m so glad that evil woman was arrested and I’m glad your sister’s OK

  • @paulahik211
    @paulahik211 Год назад +1

    No, OP with referral bonus doesn't have to share the bonus. They're the one paying the 40% income tax on it, after all.

  • @Remoniq
    @Remoniq Год назад +2

    WHat the heck is wrong with people?! story 5: that's not being entitled, that is borderline, if not pure narcissism.

  • @yahooNB28
    @yahooNB28 Год назад +4

    Story with entitled kid. Op handled well. Hopefully the kid learns that though her mom is spoiling her rotten tge world won't. Good on u op!

  • @crisvanfan
    @crisvanfan Год назад +3

    Story#5 So dad out of the goodness of his heart makes a donation so his friend can have a child. And this is what he got in return.. I think this is living proof that old saying no good deed goes unpunished

    • @raghailligh1080
      @raghailligh1080 Год назад

      And he created an effing monster. His stupid friend did the world no favors. Hopefully a fellow inmate will fix things by performing a super-late 'abortion'.

  • @silver5866
    @silver5866 Год назад +4

    For the story with the cats and the heart condition:
    1. What kind of monster would do that to those poor cats?
    2. If you DID do that to someone's pets, how could you trust them to watch your children? OP doesn't sound like a monster, but still.
    3. Broken heart syndrome is 100% a real condition. It's not super common, and is most commonly seen in elderly people after losing a spouse. But can occur in anyone who has suffered intense heartbreak/stress. It involves one of your heartstrings suffering some damage. It's a sad but kinda romantic thing, if that makes any sense.

  • @adriannaranjo4397
    @adriannaranjo4397 Год назад +1

    That father should've gotten it in legal writing that his "donation" meant that he wasn't to be involved with the baby in any way

  • @citizenken7069
    @citizenken7069 Год назад +4

    Story 5 - I'm glad Petunia got arrested. I think what she did was rotten, and I don't even like cats!
    Story 6 - I'd have told that idiot, "Okay, I'll give you half the bonus in exchange for one-third of your salary for the next two years. After all, you wouldn't have that job if it weren't for my referral."

  • @destinysphinx27
    @destinysphinx27 Год назад +3

    Stroy 5: I'm sorry but it still amazes me how few people don't know what Broken Heart Syndrome is or how bad. If it can end a healthy 1500 pound horse then think how close Lily was. Petunias long criminal recored should also include attempted manslaughter

  • @QueenOfTheZombieApocalypse
    @QueenOfTheZombieApocalypse Год назад +27

    Story 3 - you nailed it Fluff the sister just doesn’t want to work. If she did she would have jumped at that opportunity. I get loving your kids and taking care of them even as adults when they need you - but at a certain point that becomes enabling

  • @zshimada
    @zshimada Год назад +6

    All Sandra had to do was say her daughter was a picky eater and tell her what she would eat. Outside of that, being a picky eater myself, if I'm going somewhere, I always eat something before going, not a lot, so I can still enjoy the food, but enough to where I won't get hangry if they're not serving anything I like. I'll be the first to admit that even I don't like to be around me when I get hungry. It's not other people's job to cater to me, so I make sure to prepare for a situation where I don't go hungry, and nobody comes out of it looking or feeling like an ass.

  • @richewilson6394
    @richewilson6394 Год назад +1

    I charged that deadbeat friend the housekeeping Bill and I take him to court for slander.

  • @Gems-of-Hope-Rocks
    @Gems-of-Hope-Rocks Год назад +2

    1) Why was he even in your condo while you were moving out your stuff? If it was such a mess already, why did you let him still live there?

  • @christophergraham3160
    @christophergraham3160 Год назад +3

    Story 4: Is OP running a Burger King (TM)? I was raised that you eat what's put in front of you, or you go hungry. OP is definitely NOT the a-hole.

  • @cess4089
    @cess4089 Год назад +3

    Petunia was evil. And the sister needs some real help if she really nearly died because her cats were missing. I had some serious depression when my mother died. But I didn’t nearly die. She needs some emotional resilience to be able to make it through life. Of course her cats are very important and it’s good she loves them. And she needs to be able to handle tragic things too because eventually she will out live the cats and if she doesn’t start now she really will die when they are gone. I hope she gets he help she needs and that petunia stays away from her and all cats in the future.

  • @lumindoesvideos
    @lumindoesvideos Год назад +2

    Story 5: talk about nuking all your bridges with potential extended family in one go. Also don't mess with a cat lady's cats.
    Also I've heard of broken heart syndrome, I think it's where something in your heart literally snaps and becomes unfixable causing the heart to be permanently deformed. I'd imagine it can cause a lot of issues like increased risk of heart attacks.

  • @onepieceisking5493
    @onepieceisking5493 Год назад +3

    Story 5, NTA. Petunia is definitely beyond disgusting and psycho for trying to kill op's sister's cats just to try to punish and force her to babysit. Even says that everyone is selfish for not wanting to babysit for her. Update, petunia doesn't even realize how badly she hurt op's sister with what she did. Good on the dad for reporting her and I'm pretty sure petunia was planning on running away given by the ticket after hearing what happened and that she's in trouble. Wow, she thought she was smart by signing op's sister's name but all she did was screw herself over. Smart to get a restraining order since she was apparently happy to kill innocent animals who knows what else she will do. Of course the so called parents that are at fault for raising that monster are mad and are threatening to sue like it's op's families fault that petunia is in trouble. Yeah, pretty sure every attorney refused them after reviewing the whole story. Why am I not surprised that now the parents are facing jail time. Of course they think they can bribe to get her out of jail then try to bribe op's family then threaten them. Oh, petunia and her parents are seen as fit guardians, shocker, not.

  • @janbentzen6814
    @janbentzen6814 Год назад +4

    My cousin did this to my Uncle. He told her that he couldn't move back to California with her because of the dogs. Oddly both dogs got sick and died of poisoning (the vet said). My cousin is nuts!

    • @simsgirlgem
      @simsgirlgem Год назад

      Tell me the cousin got a beating 😡

  • @akmi1931
    @akmi1931 Год назад +2

    Thank God OP’s brother recognized her cats. I know how bad that could of been. I’m just ….😢

  • @veroxid
    @veroxid Год назад +2

    Story 5:
    Jail time is too good for that poor excuse of a human.

  • @kerribottriell-baxter7345
    @kerribottriell-baxter7345 Год назад +2

    Lily and Petunia? Harry Potter right there 😂

  • @tyvulpintaur2732
    @tyvulpintaur2732 Год назад +3

    You can die of “broken heart syndrome”. Pets have actually done so after their beloved owner died.

  • @autumnazure8928
    @autumnazure8928 4 месяца назад +1

    Story 5: the parents threatening to sue over their daughter trying to kill someones cats.
    Gee, was wondering where her entitlement came from.

  • @kateiannacone2698
    @kateiannacone2698 Год назад +1

    ...Idk for sure, i don't have any legal expertise, but I feel like that first guy could probably take his former friend to court for the rent, housekeeping bill, and damage to the property.
    "Because now Lily can babysit without worrying about those cats :)" it's the smiley face for me.... hard. Yikes.

  • @RacheilAZ
    @RacheilAZ Год назад +1

    My grandson is a very picky eater so we don’t eat at our friend’s homes very often. Since I know he is picky, I tell them in advance and feed him at home/or bring him a PB&J sandwich. It is not my friend’s responsibility to cater to him

  • @wmdkitty
    @wmdkitty Год назад +1

    S2: Oh, I'm betting there's so much more to OP's coworker getting kicked out than "my parents don't like my boyfriend."

  • @tracygardner6318
    @tracygardner6318 Год назад +4

    She went to the Humane Society to euthanize the cats that OP sister needed and loved🤬 Thank God for that brother press charges go after her and tell everyone what a horrible person. She is seriously when it comes to animals I don’t play fair.

  • @michealrossiter148
    @michealrossiter148 15 дней назад +1

    that first comment. "prisons for karens". every prisoner would demand to see the manager/warden. Plus they'd be pushing to be the first in the queue for the electric chair!